10 French Habits that Will Change Your Life Forever *life changing*

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  • @Aliceinparisofficial
    @Aliceinparisofficial  Місяць тому +6

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  • @heidismith3678
    @heidismith3678 Місяць тому +99

    I am American, and I just spent 12 days in France, and I must say there was nothing better than being able to sit in a cafe and draw in my sketch pad without any expectations, no deadlines. For once in my life I could finally enjoy a simple moment. I will treasure my memories from this trip for the rest of my life.

    • @anaalves3658
      @anaalves3658 25 днів тому +4

      I have to ask, what expectations do you have at home? Can you not do the same thing in your own city? On holiday you have free time, which you might feel like you don't have back home, do you think that that was what was different?

    • @believeingood
      @believeingood 15 днів тому

      I agree. Whenever I come back from holiday, I always try to incorporate some of the things I enjoyed most on holiday in to my day to day life. The ones that stand out are more walks and eating outside, weather permitting of course! ​@@anaalves3658

    • @stephaniestanley8041
      @stephaniestanley8041 7 днів тому +1

      I spent 10 days in Nice in September...just two months ago. The people were kind and wonderful. I will cherish it too.

    • @NetaTavanez
      @NetaTavanez 5 днів тому

      I live close to the Mexico border. I always go for *suluxy* , their quality is great. Some of them are made with leather and really hard to tell the difference from real or not. Either way, it’s your choice. No judgement from me

  • @rebekahsclassycanines
    @rebekahsclassycanines Місяць тому +63

    I’m in SC and we just survived the hurricane, I had to slow down because we didn’t have power for 9 days and I was lugging water from my pond to flush my toilet! ( that wasn’t relaxing) but I got to know my neighbors more and had deep conversations with people at the laundry mat, one of the places that had power. We were all so grateful and happy to be able to wash our clothes:). Hardly anyone had the internet so the laundry mat was like going back in time, women reading romance novels instead of on their phones:). I felt more connect with those people in the short period of time it took to do a load. It’s hard here in America because we all have to work our butts off, whether you live in a small house or a large one……it’s all the same. I wouldn’t wish the hurricane again especially because so many died but it did kind of shake us out of our own lives or going none stop.

  • @adeletrimble4046
    @adeletrimble4046 Місяць тому +38

    I love you’re not afraid to say French women are on a diet all their lives. It’s true! If you want to stay slim, you need to watch your diet all your life. Eat healthy and not too much.

    • @ACAjc152
      @ACAjc152 23 дні тому +1

      Most of people in Europe are like that apart from UK and Germany

    • @sun_up
      @sun_up 18 днів тому +1

      But no need to starve yourself and go hungry. Just stop when you‘ve eaten your fill. Ofc, that can be difficult when you‘re already unused to listen to your body. You might not be able to tell. Try to start by not eating so many empty calories. That‘s what we mean by dieting all our lives, watching what we’re eating, not starving ourselves.

    • @ACAjc152
      @ACAjc152 18 днів тому

      @@sun_up agree, don’t starve yourself just eat good food not processed one

  • @morgiesgal
    @morgiesgal Місяць тому +13

    Returning to Paris in two weeks and already preparing myself for the out of sync feeling I always experience returning to New York which feels less and less like home each time I travel. I’ve realized for a while that approaching 60 I need a different lifestyle. I think I might just be French at heart. Thanks for another wonderful video Alice!

  • @mmthomas3729
    @mmthomas3729 Місяць тому +41

    My husband calls Sunday morning my work day. No, I don't go to work but I play the flute in church. I wake up early and get ready, practice at home a little bit, then go to church an hour early so I can tune and warm up. Sunday evening we dress up, make cocktails, and listen to 3 hours of jazz on the radio. Sometimes we even get up and dance.

    • @celinepa8246
      @celinepa8246 Місяць тому +1

      Your Sunday evenings sound great!

  • @MilesAwaywithUs
    @MilesAwaywithUs Місяць тому +20

    Love all of this lovely advice, especially the part about loud voices. I'll never forget the perfect French woman we heard on an elevator in Paris, addressing a group of loud young boys in the elevator. She simply said firmly, "Boys. You are not alone here," and they quieted right down. 🇫🇷😊😢

  • @Venus77x
    @Venus77x Місяць тому +14

    You know what Alice, from being a very young child I was drawn to all things French, and I'm talking early 1960's here....I watched French black and white films, read books (in English) concerned with France. I spookily had a dream almost 20 years ago about a place in the South of France and for the first ever time I visited this particular place, I saw the exact same market square in my dream, like I'd already been there. It turns out I have French ancestry on my Father's side going back to the 16th century and the Hugenots!....and this particular place I felt very comfortable in. Even though I'm British I've never liked the British culture but love the quieter more refined way of appreciating the small things as the French do. My Father had a thirst for knowledge was quietly spoken and I think there's definitely some French gene in our DNA ❤

  • @bevparker7154
    @bevparker7154 10 днів тому +3

    This video made me think of sewing the tiny tear in my favorite pajamas, putting a different lamp on my bedside table, and polishing /cleaning my leather bag. Little things that bring peace and quiet to the soul--is that a French thing?

  • @estellamunoz3125
    @estellamunoz3125 Місяць тому +10

    I loved my vacation in Paris this past March. It was glorious. I love my life in California, but Paris was rich and beautiful, loving the customs. Eating slowly at a cafe and just “being” was so refreshing.

  • @sitangpattama-7979
    @sitangpattama-7979 Місяць тому +11

    Your video is incredibly inspiring! I felt like hitting the like button over and over as I watched. You’ve motivated me to change my lifestyle-less time on social media and work, and more time spent doing meaningful things. Thank you so much for sharing. Love, love, love it!
    Merci beaucoup ❤

  • @eugenianoskova
    @eugenianoskova Місяць тому +8

    Alice, merci beaucoup! I'm very fascinated with the French way of life, to enjoy the life itself and the simple things around you. Greetings from Germany 😊❤

  • @auroralaura3496
    @auroralaura3496 Місяць тому +8

    Indeed, this is a real life, we need to get back to basics.

  • @amaliapliatsika6980
    @amaliapliatsika6980 Місяць тому +15

    That is why I love the French way of living, it's exactly my way of seeing and doing things!!!Thank you!!!Greetings from Thessaloniki Greece!!!❤❤❤

  • @robynwells8249
    @robynwells8249 Місяць тому +10

    I enjoy designating Sunday as a reading day.

  • @celinepa8246
    @celinepa8246 Місяць тому +5

    Hanging out in cafes and restaurants is such a European thing to do. Same here in Vienna. I can go hours just sitting in a historical cafe reading abook and people watch or chat with friends. Everyone does it. I thought it was similar in the US but learned from Americans in the comments it`s not. Only spent a few days in NYC years ago, so not familiar with US culture outside what movies portrait it to be. McDonald was a very special treat in my childhood, same with any type of soda - only on birthdays and Christmas. Sweets only on the weekend, etc. Cultural activities are also huge in Vienna. Theater, opera, museums, galleries you name it. I am very greateful for growing up in central Europe surrounded by all this cultural heritage and variety.

  • @elizabetheyma-davies8584
    @elizabetheyma-davies8584 Місяць тому +14

    I love hearing about French lifestyle. Thank you.

  • @rhondagoodman9993
    @rhondagoodman9993 Місяць тому +5

    I love your videos and seeing your beautiful apartment. Thanks to your helpful tips, I have upgraded my fall/winter wardrobe and purchased two pairs of ballet flats, one in navy and one in black. It makes me feel happy when I know I am dressed nicely.

  • @bernaw.3259
    @bernaw.3259 Місяць тому +2

    Bonjour Alice,
    I live in the US , Some of my family lives in England when I visit London I also visit Paris. I Love Paris!!!!! I plan to spend more time in Paris in the future.
    Thanks for the inspiration.

  • @BeatrizRobinson
    @BeatrizRobinson Місяць тому +13

    Alice, That is truly a quality life!!! Your apartment is beautiful!!! I love how feminine and elegant you live. Thank you for sharing this wonderful video. Greetings from U.S.A.

  • @JoelleFromParis
    @JoelleFromParis Місяць тому +8

    I appreciated your mentioning investing in culture. So important!

  • @TraceyHannecart-bu6zz
    @TraceyHannecart-bu6zz Місяць тому +7

    Yes, your perspective about dialogue in American culture in relation to small talk is quite accurate. However, small talk in French culture is not common. As an american expat living in France, I am in total agreement with your analogy. I am still a work in progress in terms of my confidence in speaking about various interesting topics that you mentioned in this video with french people.French culture is incredible. As a result I have changed immensely as an American living in France. This video was amazing.😊😊😊😊😊

  • @cynthialeeser7952
    @cynthialeeser7952 Місяць тому

    Merci Alice❣️ I love to watch and learn from your videos. They appeal to women of all ages. Your mother and grandmother were wonderful role models. Your taste in clothes is beautiful and I can see myself in most of them. Your home is beautiful. I think to use the term lifestyle is more appealing than diet for life, but I agree, watching and being careful to choose delicious but healthy food is for life. An occasional treat is a simple pleasure. It is important to treasure the little things and moments in life.❤❤❤

  • @marticooper4468
    @marticooper4468 Місяць тому +2

    Great video❤️ Some of my favorite times in Paris, Madrid, Barcelona & Rome are due to cafe life & les terrasses. LOVE sitting there for hours with a glass of wine people watching. It’s where I’ve gotten many great outfit ideas!

  • @lana7422
    @lana7422 Місяць тому +3

    Really enjoyed this video. It is so relaxing to listen to you talk about your lifestyle in Paris and about French culture.

  • @notmyrealname6272
    @notmyrealname6272 8 днів тому +1

    It’s a privilege to be able to do all those things.

  • @KimberlyPerrotis
    @KimberlyPerrotis Місяць тому +2

    A lot of these lifestyle activities are urban ones, like walking or taking public transportation to cafes, museums, flower shops, book shops, markets, etc. I had to move to the ‘burbs when I got married and I miss these things. I need to drive, find parking, etc., for every errand here in the suburbs, we don’t have local public transit, just commute options to and from the city. I’m hoping to move back to The City (San Francisco), again soon to resume this lifestyle. Plus, it’s much cooler there, it’s been 40C+ where I live for 10 days now, even though I’m only ten mikes north. I’m not fond of hot weather, and we have definite microclimates here, controlled by the ocean, bay and mountains. It’s not unusual for SF to be 20F cooler than my location.

  • @drnicolebeaumont7884
    @drnicolebeaumont7884 Місяць тому +4

    This was one of your best videos. I loved it. Thank you. I am sure I will watch this more than once. Thanks 🎉🇦🇺❤️

  • @rm5127
    @rm5127 Місяць тому +2

    Alice, I think this is some of the best advice I have ever had! Thank you

  • @CathyDahut
    @CathyDahut Місяць тому +5

    YOUR NEW APARTMENT LOOKS LOVELY ALICE❤!!!!
    GREAT TIPS AS ALWAYS !!!!

  • @emiliofortini381
    @emiliofortini381 День тому

    Whilst I agree with most of this, it also presumes a certain financial security to be able to rent an appartment, pay for flowers, eat in cafes etc. Simple 'happiness' has to come from within.

  • @shinigawa4582
    @shinigawa4582 Місяць тому +2

    Merci Alice!
    I love, 💗 love, 💗 love 💗 your videos! So beautifully presented, informative, and inspiring!

  • @mirelaxo
    @mirelaxo 20 днів тому

    I recently returned from a European trip and spent 6 days in Paris. It’s such a beautiful city and yes, the fashion is as you say, well thought of, even the men.

  • @chonkbigkitty9977
    @chonkbigkitty9977 2 дні тому

    I haven't been comfortable in Italy all my life. Now I've understood why. I have a French Soul. Maybe I have to train my French and expat

  • @SarahEdensOfficial
    @SarahEdensOfficial 11 днів тому +1

    Bonjour Alice! Absolutely LOVE these tips!! Your style is so effortlessly chic🤍🤍 I discovered Jacque Pepin’s cookbooks a few years ago and have really enjoyed his recipes. Merci!

  • @deniseatthelake
    @deniseatthelake 19 днів тому +2

    America used to have blue laws on Sundays; most stores were closed due to families attending church and enjoying Sunday family dinners at grandmas or just relaxing at home...we need a revival of these family traditions! Rest on Sunday/Sabbath is also biblical wisdom!

  • @shannonmccoy9103
    @shannonmccoy9103 Місяць тому +1

    Oh I loved this! Such a beautiful way to live! I took inspiration from this video, subscribed and hope to see more videos like it...thank you.

  • @rebekahsclassycanines
    @rebekahsclassycanines Місяць тому +1

    I’m very curious to know how much you spend getting your hair done every week, and how much on your nails? Iv always been so interested in what our grandmothers did years ago, going to the salon once a week and also taking care of their nails. Is it just super $$ now in America? Is it more affordable for you in Paris? Also what do you get done, a wash and dry blowout? I know I wait way too long before I get my highlights and trim. I’m a dog groomer and often people wait too long to bring their doodles and poodles in:) I think it’s a bit about the money but more about the time.

  • @blood_and_violins
    @blood_and_violins 4 дні тому

    Lovely video! Can’t wait to return to Paris!

  • @dominiquebt
    @dominiquebt Місяць тому

    Sunday brunch in silk pajamas. I love it!!

  • @jessicaulrich-lee5100
    @jessicaulrich-lee5100 Місяць тому +2

    I think it’s an interesting comparison between conversational styles between American and French. But at the root of it is educational. The French are taught in school how to debate and have conversations about current affairs. It’s built into the lycée curriculum and the Bac. The US doesn’t have those things in their high school curriculum. This cultural-educational distinction is very different and interesting. 🤔

  • @AnnaSmith-w1h
    @AnnaSmith-w1h Місяць тому

    Hello Alice. Would you please consider making a video on how one grows in what you named 'culture'? I have met quite a few French people and one thing that stands out is their knowledge of art, literature, history, current events and so on. I would like to hear your take on it, especially if you have some specific tips on how to implement it in a daily life.

  • @ER-yu2kd
    @ER-yu2kd Місяць тому

    Love French Sundays!!
    Ahhh… Sanity, amen!
    To be honest, I find I sleep almost all day Saturday (my partner lovingly counts my naps) and then go for walks or brunch on Sundays. I work very late hours on weekdays in a stressful job. I could not survive without the weekend break.

  • @britneyt9253
    @britneyt9253 Місяць тому +1

    You should make videos or showing how to cook your fav French meals please :)

  • @yvetteschaerer
    @yvetteschaerer Місяць тому +2

    Love your videos ♥️ and you little Pug doggie 🐶🥰 so adorable.

  • @maryd877
    @maryd877 Місяць тому +1

    Really enjoyed this video Alice, you have fabulous style and advice 😊

  • @bellathereader1328
    @bellathereader1328 Місяць тому +3

    Love the French way!!

  • @lorettad657
    @lorettad657 23 дні тому +2

    I love this!! I Agree to everything you said and I also live that way. I have always loved French culture from enjoying and cooking healthy food, the simple things, taking time to take care of myself and my appearance. My space/home always needs to be cozy and warm and decorated in a special way to bring me happiness. I also don’t mind silence and a lot of Americans have a hard time with that, they feel a need to fill in silence with small talk. Also I love quiet luxury, personally I just don’t like the logo shirts, pants hats, sweatshirts and bags. It feels like trying too hard and braggy. Thank you Alice!

  • @kfx216
    @kfx216 Місяць тому

    Good content. Would love to know who posted the What I Eat In a Day for ideas of how to eat more healthfully.

  • @mabelnicotra2046
    @mabelnicotra2046 Місяць тому +4

    Hi! I'm new here! well i think that Paris isn't "la France" ! 😅 i'm italian and i live in Nice, here there are so many that "râle beaucoup",someone shout, the kindness sometimes is forgotten. I don' t know if we , as a family, have to move somewhere else because also thebeducation at school sometimes is not top! And the kitchen in France are so small!! A lot of people love to eat at the restaurant, but not to cook! Well France is so big and there are so many different people! Maybe O wasn't lucky! 😅😂

  • @Tabatha437
    @Tabatha437 Місяць тому +6

    I appreciate the idea of living more infill but without chasing money I wouldn’t be able to buy the flowers, or the house to put the flowers in, I wouldn’t be able to buy the ticket to the museum by the nice food or even the book to read.

  • @taylorqobrien
    @taylorqobrien 7 днів тому

    When you go to the hairdresser weekly, what do you have done? A cut? A blow dry? I'm interested in going weekly, but I'm not really sure what they would be doing?

  • @Chipoo88
    @Chipoo88 5 днів тому

    I love your ruffle shirt! Where did you get it? Thank you

  • @libregirl
    @libregirl Місяць тому +1

    I love this video
    Makes me smile
    Would you reveal your makeup routine? You look fresh and lovely!

    •  4 дні тому

      Also very pretty without makeup!

  • @emocuta
    @emocuta Місяць тому

    I loved this video so much! You give the best advice! 💯thank you Alice❤

  • @borghc3749
    @borghc3749 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks so much for this French art of living that I love so much !!! And .. is your white shirt from Rosae ? Beautiful 🤩

  • @NavdeepChhina-j8t
    @NavdeepChhina-j8t 4 дні тому +1

    what style of raincoat do french women wear?

  • @dagmarfisk-yc1xg
    @dagmarfisk-yc1xg Місяць тому

    Another beautiful and meaningful video. Thank you. x

  • @maleekahasan9409
    @maleekahasan9409 7 днів тому

    Good work ❤

  • @celiathirlwall3329
    @celiathirlwall3329 Місяць тому

    Lovely video, Alice! How I long to go back to Paris!!

  • @jessicaj2391
    @jessicaj2391 4 дні тому

    Love your accent!

    It sounds French Shick!!!

  • @Ingrid0410
    @Ingrid0410 20 днів тому

    Lovely video👍👍

  • @chantelouverbojarski6116
    @chantelouverbojarski6116 Місяць тому +1

    Many Parisiens might be at a Trational (Tridentine) Mass on a sunday morning as well :)

  • @rozyreyes
    @rozyreyes Місяць тому

    Love your videos ❤❤❤ btw, where is your grey blazer from? Thank you!

  • @anaalves3658
    @anaalves3658 25 днів тому

    I don't think that these concepts are entirely french, i think that most Southern European countries all have these habits, home cooked meals with family and friends is definitely very Portuguese, Spanish, Italian and Greek. Sitting down to drink coffee and have a chat is also the norm, going to a fresh food market, having flowers in your home, buying leather shoes and bags etc are all common in a lot of countries. My mom doesn't wear makeup, but her clothes are always impeccable and her hair is always done, simple things that make her look polished and elegant 😊

  • @karencarlson3104
    @karencarlson3104 Місяць тому

    Lovely, thank you.

  • @Zobeida-ep2ku
    @Zobeida-ep2ku Місяць тому

    So! A
    Art from talking about French way of life in LA BELLE FRANCE what else do you do on your site?? Very many thanks for sharing!!

    • @Zobeida-ep2ku
      @Zobeida-ep2ku Місяць тому

      Sorry there is a spelling mistake above ie in my first comment: it should say Apart from!

  • @79FiFi
    @79FiFi Місяць тому

    Love this video 💖

  • @southernbelle7295
    @southernbelle7295 Місяць тому +6

    I always wondered how people can afford living in Paris if they enjoy sitting in the cafe all day long😀😊 I, of course, enjoyed being in Paris , but I was on vacation. Here in the US all we do is work work and work, always in a rush. Gotta to have money for food , roof over your head , etc🌹🌸🌸🌸

    • @kristiemcgrew4522
      @kristiemcgrew4522 5 днів тому

      I think having retirement, health care, childcare, university means you don’t have to work as much and are less stressed. Also restrictions on overtime and people are not expected to be accessible 24/7 for work.

  • @lorymontresor1551
    @lorymontresor1551 Місяць тому

    Very interesting video 💜

  • @sandramoore8680
    @sandramoore8680 18 днів тому +1

    I was born in Toul, and came to America in 1965. My mother never return due to trauma from WWll . Mother is from Paris, from the 19th district. I felt I was robbed from my culture.

  • @danib9845
    @danib9845 13 днів тому

    The closest French culture to Americans is Quebec. I’m very proud of my French heritage and my beautiful province of Quebec, and can’t imagine living anywhere else, but if I had to relocate to Europe, France would be my first choice for sure.

  • @karenjones6953
    @karenjones6953 Місяць тому +1

    Church also on Sundays

  • @helenhall299
    @helenhall299 Місяць тому

    Bravo!

  • @Mary-ik1zf
    @Mary-ik1zf Місяць тому

    Must get the Eurostar over to Paris shortly .

  • @lisar915r9
    @lisar915r9 Місяць тому

    Nice blazer, Alice. Love the color.

  • @CathyDahut
    @CathyDahut Місяць тому

    ❤ TO YOU, AND PETS TO NAPO!!!!

  • @shelleyviohl7876
    @shelleyviohl7876 Місяць тому

    Love this video ❤......

  • @LilyW0013
    @LilyW0013 18 днів тому

    I would be interested what do French women eat for breakfast if they are on diet. Do you even have breakfast?

    • @Aliceinparisofficial
      @Aliceinparisofficial  18 днів тому

      very light breakfast except sunday brunch :)

    • @LilyW0013
      @LilyW0013 17 днів тому

      @Aliceinparisofficial can you maybe give us examples? :)

  • @sherrybee7805
    @sherrybee7805 Місяць тому

    You look nice and elegant at all the time, but it’s nice to see you for a change dress a bit casual not so formal while recording at home , you look more realistic !

  • @Giovanni-o3h
    @Giovanni-o3h Місяць тому

    Cool

  • @KimberlyPerrotis
    @KimberlyPerrotis Місяць тому

    May I ask where your beautiful dark brown loafers here are from? Thanks, Alice🙂

  • @anonymousanonymous-u9f
    @anonymousanonymous-u9f Місяць тому

    In America, it is all about working

  • @veroniquelauzon2801
    @veroniquelauzon2801 14 днів тому +1

    This being said, France consumption of antidepressants and anxiolitics is one of the worst in the world... perhaps the French could learn from other countries too!

  • @tessaarthur271
    @tessaarthur271 День тому

    This is interesting - you say you don’t care to be concerned about money, yet everything you mentioned involves nothing but money. This video is quite simply a major contradiction.

  • @sanna.katariina
    @sanna.katariina Місяць тому

  • @belizejuliette7223
    @belizejuliette7223 Місяць тому +1

    I want to live in Paris. I live in a boring small town i Sweden. Boring people with no class

    • @auntyjo1792
      @auntyjo1792 Місяць тому +1

      Maybe try Stockholm first?

  • @wallybistrich3474
    @wallybistrich3474 Місяць тому

    I'm a bit irritated by the video title "... improved my life": it implicates that you've not always followed this lifestyle. I thought you're French and grew up with French lifestyle style. ???
    By the way: I like your videos and would also like to see them in French to improve my language skills.

  • @user-bx1ju2sj3q
    @user-bx1ju2sj3q Місяць тому +1

    If you're french, why aren't you speaking francais?

  • @mariadolorsgm2
    @mariadolorsgm2 Місяць тому

    🤗🥰

  • @princessrico19
    @princessrico19 Місяць тому +1

    2:56 I see French people and Mexican people they are the same on the way we start a conversation with a random person 😅 literally whatever lol

  • @HeatherWilliams-rh2ep
    @HeatherWilliams-rh2ep 5 днів тому

    Ditch the side-bar…it is very irritating