Buy what you like of good quality and workmanship. Pick a beautiful fabric and find a tailor! Buy jewelry made by artists or wear some special family jewelry. Remember that the jewelry you wear is like art that you have at home; it’s not about the price, it’s about the work (could be students or street artists).
@@NeonTurman buy well stitched thicker natural fabrics. Repair and maintain well. Avoid patterns, stick to a classic colour palette and make sure your cellphone case is fresh and your nail polish not chipped. Absolutely no trends. If in doubt, use the stuff you have that's 15 years old!!! Or your parents' stuff
My best friend once taught me the most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate what theyve said for just a beat, consider that whatever they just said, may be directed at you at some point- look at them-smile- change the subject. It lets people know that your confidence need not come at others expense. A very powerful, feel-good message.
he most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate❤️❤️❤️
1- Master the "Art" of the pause (take your sweet time/stay calm) 2 - Invest in quality (buy less, fewer better things) 3 - Keep clean and organized (consistency) 4 - Network (Be genuinely interested in building relationships) 5 - Prioritize (avoid impulse buying, or wasting your time) 6 - Confidence (inside and out)
All these things are result of not being afraid. They are not rushing cause they can afford other ticket, they can buy better thing, they have connections cause they used that serveces and payed that people well so when they called them again they will prioriteze them and so on.. if you still dont have enough money its normal to be more worried or scared and that showes in your actions.
I was an an au pair for English aristocratic family. They had a nice house in central London but they were otherwise broke. Coming from upper class family does not equal having cash
I do half of these things already and I'm broke. It's the few I don't do that brought me to this video. I use to do almost all of them but with an unhealthy mental state the others went away slowly. Some might have been born with a silver spoon but chances are their healthy living skills provided them with what they have. I'm getting ready to put several boxes of crap from my living room in the back room to make the house look better only because I'm very aware that the stuff piling up is bringing me down.
Such an insightful video! 🌟 The habits you shared are not just for the upper class-they’re powerful principles anyone can adopt to elevate their life. Thanks for breaking it down so clearly and inspiring us to aim higher every day!
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
I have several London Fog coats that my grandmother had ( she is now gone) and I still wear them. Most long lasting coats I have ever had. So they are well over 30 years old.
My Banana Republic moto jacket will never go out of style and is still going strong after year round, almost daily wear and lots of travel +10 yrs. 😂 Wish I had bought two tho, cause if it ever does fade I’ll be hard pressed to replace it.
The pause is powerful! It exposes the hasty fool. OMG! I love a clean a home and I'm consistent except for my fellow household members. I can't stand clutter. I network like crazy. I know a ton of people, and when some one needs an expert in a field I know a person. Experiences are self soul filling. I'm a quiet confident person wherever I go. I don't captivate attention but I move with confidence.
Life goal! You're right. I've learnt that working in retail, from my most put together customers. It was a premium stationery store, they would buy cards for the year or buy for the next Christmas during the current holidays. Keeps your cortisol in check....Planning and buying ahead of the time is now my mantra. I started Christmas yoga in August I think 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Also my Christmas 🎄🎁 wasn't perfectly planned but I've made huge progress towards stress-free holidays. Baby steps. I'm so proud 🦚
This is excactly what I did this year..and I had so much more fun the holiday days having ready outfits for all the occasions and gifts for everybody..🤍
💯 Exactly. Pauses give space to think. Quality over quantity. Networking is indeed their life style, they build relationships. Immaterial stuff is what I am into more than material things. Working on the tidiness, is sure keeps the head clean to. Yes. Manners matters🙏🏽 Confidence is a habit
Maintenance of your space is simply clean as you go. Wiping surfaces daily and not just when they are dirty. It’s about keeping it clean and not waiting for it to become dirty.
@@MaryPAULINElove That sounds really challenging, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed with so much on your plate. Being a single mum of three is no small feat, and it’s okay to give yourself grace.🫶
This was an interesting video. I hardly consider myself wealthy, or even well off. It's actually hard for me to even vocalize my habits because it sounds like "bragging" and bragging is NOT a quality I enjoy in others. But yet I watch this video and I already do about 80% of what she talked about. I have no idea where I picked up these habits, I just did. My parents weren't like that at all. I think life experiences has just taught me many of the qualities. From my younger Air Force career I learned the importance of dressing sharp and looking the part during a time when I had the LEAST amount of money. Projecting confidence but not arrogance. Speaking with pauses, not rushing business discussions or when networking with new associates. I travel frequently for work and I WILL NOT RUSH through Airports. I take my time and my travel ends up being much less stressful! Keeping a tidy space, super important! I learned early on it's not about being OCD or anything like that, it's just about putting everything back in it's place when you are done with it! Don't just drop it on the counter when you get home, put it back in it's place every time and you will keep a tidy home and tidy life. I buy the best I can afford. I HATE to replace something I only bought last year! I buy the best quality I can reasonably afford. Oh yes, I prioritize experiences WAY OVER material things! I've traveled to over 50 Countries in my life and every experience has made me who I am today and I cherish those experiences. Rather than buying a home earlier in life and saddling myself with a Mortgage, I traveled and chose to settle down later in life. I do struggle with a few of these, such as Networking. I find networking is difficult because most people disappoint me and I find they offer no increase in the quality of my life or relationships. Most people today are a train wreck and it shows in their interactions with others. So, I sometimes just skip the niceties and hardly network at all. I know I need to change that attitude. But generally....5 or so out of 6...not bad!
What a thoughtful and inspiring comment-thank you for sharing! It’s incredible how life experiences, like your Air Force career, have shaped your habits and values in such a meaningful way. Your approach to dressing sharp, prioritizing experiences over material things, and maintaining a tidy space is so admirable-and your travel experiences sound absolutely enriching. I completely agree with your perspective on quality over quantity; investing in the best you can reasonably afford truly pays off in the long run. Networking can definitely be a challenge, especially when it feels like connections lack depth or mutual value. But your confidence, clear communication, and life experience undoubtedly set you apart, so I’m sure you’ll find ways to connect with people who align with your values. It sounds like you already embody so much of what I aim to highlight in my content-grace, confidence, and intentional living. Thank you for being a wonderful example of these qualities! 🫶
So true, every good job I have ever held was through personal connections. My skills, education, professional experience were needed but to show the ri
Nice reminder! Thank you! Will try pause. This is a challenge as I'm naturally impatient. The staying calm was my nature by birth that I didn't know others don't have. Once I lost it, I realized I was just gifted.
My best friend once taught me the most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate what theyve said for just a beat, consider that whatever they just said, may be directed at you at some point- look at them-smile- change the subject. It lets people know that your confidence need not come at others expense. A ver
Clutter is just delayed decisions. This will help me tackle the last bit of the garage. What can I do that I will remember in 5 years? This will help me decide what activities to do with my kids. Love these tidbits!!! Love a quick reframe 😊
Most of this is pretty spot on. It all comes down to attitude. Being prepared and organized helps one not to be or feel rushed. So does not procrastinating and waiting until the last minute. So does having a personal assistant (like many rich people have.) I agree with what was said re: quality over quanty and valuing purchasing experiences vs buying material things. Although I'm not above hitting tourist traps. It's part of the 'experience' lol
I completely agree! A positive attitude and good organization can make a world of difference. And hey, tourist traps can definitely add some fun to the journey!
Practise the pause. I think this one is so important. I knew a professional who when faced with a tricky situation or an atmosphere that was likely to become fraught, she did not swear, rather she said oh dear, very slowly, to gain time to say the right thing. That’s just an example. If you are tired, angry, hungry a few seconds before you speak, act or do something a PAUSE works. For yourself before you react, just pause, at anything you have to do. Take your time!
I admit, those are some very well-intended pieces of advice, but then people are usually perfect because of their imperfections. I had recently met a couple of ladies that were adorable because of being a little chaotic. Somehow, it added charm to them. So, yes, some of us are a little anxious because we don't know how to fit all our endeavours in a 24-hour-day schedule. Some of us have a vivid desk, because, if clean up, we won't find anything again. Some of us are night owls. And some of us can't help being generous with money, even if we aren't Bill Gates or Elon Musk. But then again, what's wrong with just being yourself?
I completely agree! Embracing our imperfections is what makes us unique and relatable. Each person's charm often comes from their quirks and individuality.
My best friend once taught me the most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate what
Fantastic tips!!! Yes, I have noticed that wealthy or smart people will go someplace another country or just an off-broadway play before spending money over some new toy -I admire that!
During the funeral from my father, we were as a family in the family waiting room before going into the big hall, the funeral lady asked my aunt if she could say her first name if she would called forward to say something about my dad. My aunt said no. It sounds rude but it has to do with this: the funeral lady as not a friend or family from my aunt. My aunt had a real pearl necklace, a chique handbag and was dressed very well. Here daughter in law had a real Louis Vuitton handbag. My nephew has a stone whole sale company and his wife a Thai massage salon ( non-sex). My aunts husband was a Doctor doctor ( a hospital doctor/physician on the university doctor(al) level). It is old money. For the rest you must have table manners. You do not have to do chique all the time but keep it descent. Don't spent money on nonsense and keep your money in your pocket. " Mom, you want some flowers?" "No, keep your money in your pocket". A be a bit reserved and keep your arm with you. No big gestures with your arms. You can look how real royalty behave. Always relaxed. Ofcourse a Dime will never be a Quarter but if you can improve yourself, do it. And be able to talk to people on every level. Don't feel more than other people. And....no t-shirt under a polo shirt.
It's interesting how family dynamics play out during such solemn occasions. Your aunt's choice reflects her values and upbringing, which can definitely influence how we navigate these moments. Thank you for sharing.
UPPER CLASS HABITS 1. Master the "Art of Pause" (take your sweet time/ stay calmn) 2. Invest in quality (buy few but better things) 3. Keep the environment clean and organized (consistency: set 10 minutes daily to reset) 4. Network (be genuinely interested in building relationships) 5. Prioritize experience over gadget 6. Calm confidence (you belong)
Thank God I fit in „ upper class“ category according to this video... I am not wealthy by any standard at all, yet the list here all are important to me that is due to my upbringing born raised in average up class family backing days in my own country. I socialized w all classy boys and girls, w high standards great tastes, manners, etc,,,, I am forever thankful to my artist beloved mother she thought me develop taste to the top. The only factor I am missing is confidence 😢due to my culture and a bit my parents are to blamed.
It's wonderful to hear how your upbringing has shaped your values and tastes! Confidence can be a journey, but recognizing your strengths is a great first step.👍
0:42 Master the art of pause 1:55 Invest in quality 2:56 keep places unapologetically clean 4:06 Network 5:12 prioritize experience over stuff 5:55 Cultivate a calm confidence
Guess what, I am already doing all that most of my life, and I am a billionaire at heart. I love your content, I hope this beautiful voice is not AI generated. Confirm so I can make a decision to keep this subscription or else....😂❤
Upper class people hire domestic help that is the only way they keep things tidy. Upper class people do buy expensive things, but try saving for a pair of high end boots and feed your family, pay mortgage.
The art of the pause depends on where you are in your profession and your life. Once upon a time I did not ever pause I immediately said “Yes Sir (or Ma’am) whenever my superior gave me an order. Fast forward 40 years, and I pause, or stop, or rush, whenever I want to because I’ve earned the right to do so.
Frankly, all the points were immensely relatable. And to end with, do take a pause before writing a comment-it creates an impact! Also, I totally agree with you- The Pause, Buying Quality, Clean and Organized, Network, Experience over Stuff, and confidence. Thinking aloud, let's use the process of elimination. I think, I do buy Quality and rarely. Clean and Organized I am mostly but will be more careful hereon. I think, Network and Experience can be clubbed creating a base for the Confidence to be practiced. While this shall happen on a less often basis, On a regular basis, The Confidence and The pause are a MUST. CONFIDENCE Know who they are and what they bring to the table. Show up for yourself Speak a little more clearly Make eye contact Stand up Straight even when you are at a grocery store (* I would like to add here- Dress up well when you are stepping out, even when you are going to the supermarket nearby) DONT DOWNPLAY yourself. You DO NOT have to shrink to make other people comfortable. It isn't about being the loudest person, it is about quietly knowing you belong there too Me too- Chronically overscheduling and over-apologising! It's about "How you show up in your own life! " Very powerful words
@@MannersMattersChannel actually the comment I offered is based on much educational research. These skills you describe are not correlated to wealth but, instead, emotional and cognitive abilities that span all economic classes.
I know that woman (Maria Angelina Alexander) If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, she's my family's Broker for 3yrs till now and a very good one if you asked me. No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!!
The “pause” is mastered by teachers not rich people. 😂 Let me tell you, it’s rich people who are in a rush. However, teachers have students who just got off their iPads asking them questions a mile a minute. 10 kids can literally pop up at you at once. You have to pause and give yourself time to think and focus on what they are asking. Now I use this in everyday life when I start to become stressed. I’m pretty sure it’s a trauma response. Lastly, the Bible tells us to have peace, so if I feel like I’m using mine, I remember how much the “pause” helps me. It’s really not a mystery and I don’t own the place or anything! Edit: “clutter is just delayed decisions.” Is why smart people are so cluttered, That’s literally what the “pause” is. 😂😂
You make a great point! The ability to pause and reflect is such a valuable skill, especially in the chaos of teaching. It's amazing how it can transform our approach to stress in everyday life.
Upper class people aren’t necessarily tidy. Lots of the English aristocracy have quite stylishly messy homes with dogs and wellington boots and books everywhere and never apologize for it.. They also don’t say “ My bad”.
Nice vid! Why is it that people in the USA always seem to distinguish 'upper class' from others? Do you really need to be 'upper class' to have or develop these habits?, or can anyone work on their personality to embody these qualities? 😊 🧐Well done on this video! 👏🏾
Thanks for the thoughtful comment! It's interesting how societal norms shape our perceptions. Anyone can develop those habits, regardless of class-it's all about mindset and effort!
I know plenty of people worth millions, living in homes worth over two million and yet they clean their own homes. If you don’t have clutter, and pick up after yourself you don’t need anyone to come in and do the cleaning because it doesn’t take very long to actually clean a space with with no clutter and nothing out of place 🤷♀️
You make a very good point. My friends who have regular housekeeping services never worry about the bathroom being clean enough for guests, or the furniture being dusted, or whether their floors need vacuuming. That frees up a lot of energy--enough to allow an occasional pause. Now that I am older and in poor health, the pressure of doing it all is overwhelming.
@@jeanetteh.9240 I can imagine, I hope you get better soon. Priorize your mental and physical health over what guests might think. Most of the times it's always worse in our heads than it actually is, most people don't care about a moderate amount of mess. All best!
I think one manner the upper class practice is investing. My advice to everyone is this : if you want to grow big this year especially in your finances. Be willing to make investments. Saving is great but investing puts you on a pedestal where you wouldnt have to worry about savings as you do now. Thanks to larysa Caba, my portolio is doing really great and im proud of the decisions i made last year.
I feel one Of the greatest challenges that we first timers face in the ma rket is that we end up losing all we have,making it difficult to find ourselves back to our feet. My biggest advice is to always seek the services of a professional just like I did when I ventured into it for the first time. Big thanks to Larysa Caba. I now make huge profits by weekly through her services while still learning to stand on my own.
I know Larysa Caba. she trades for everyone I meet. I met her twice at a meeting in Germany and after her lectures from Ella I had to personally ask her to be my financial advisor. she is definitely good.
I have never seen a trader as open and transparent as Larysa Caba with her clients. The way she decides to make a profit for her clients. she allows you to express your fears and she still rests your fears and that is my respect. I don't normally comment on videos, but this word should be included. she is really cool.
@ Very true, and a classy answer 😊 Wherever you are in the world and whatever distinction of class you may have been born into, nothing can replace classy behaviour.
The classiest people in the world are those who are kind and friendly to everyone, no matter what their social status is. It means so much to people to receive a warm hello, using the person’s name, than just to say hi and walk quickly past them. I read that Princess Diana’s father taught her that she was no better than anyone else. She even invited one of her bodyguards and his family to vacation in the Caribbean with her and her family. There was no one she looked down on. And it was so wonderful how she took her boys to homeless shelters so they could see how they lived. Few people in her position would have done that. So many people could learn from her example- she was a class act.
What habit would you like to adopt❓
All these habits 😊
I hate fast fashion but I don’t want to buy crap luxury that still falls apart. (Read: no YSL bags) what should I buy?
Buy what you like of good quality and workmanship. Pick a beautiful fabric and find a tailor! Buy jewelry made by artists or wear some special family jewelry. Remember that the jewelry you wear is like art that you have at home; it’s not about the price, it’s about the work (could be students or street artists).
This is truly a good one. Will start by mastering the art of pause.
@@NeonTurman buy well stitched thicker natural fabrics. Repair and maintain well. Avoid patterns, stick to a classic colour palette and make sure your cellphone case is fresh and your nail polish not chipped. Absolutely no trends. If in doubt, use the stuff you have that's 15 years old!!! Or your parents' stuff
My best friend once taught me the most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate what theyve said for just a beat, consider that whatever they just said, may be directed at you at some point- look at them-smile- change the subject. It lets people know that your confidence need not come at others expense. A very powerful, feel-good message.
Thanks for sharing! It's amazing how a simple pause can empower us and help create a more positive atmosphere.
This works every time. Don’t forget to smile back before you change the topic. Don’t laugh, blush, angry or sad.
Ask for what you want until you get it. If the answer is no, ask someone else and KEEP ASKING!
he most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate❤️❤️❤️
1- Master the "Art" of the pause (take your sweet time/stay calm)
2 - Invest in quality (buy less, fewer better things)
3 - Keep clean and organized (consistency)
4 - Network (Be genuinely interested in building relationships)
5 - Prioritize (avoid impulse buying, or wasting your time)
6 - Confidence (inside and out)
Thanks for summarizing the key points! 😀
@@MannersMattersChannel. Yes we'll done. Thank you. 💚
Really nice points made in this Video. I've just sent an email to you the link/website for the 1:1 you recommend *suluxy*
Thank u beach
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True class is making whomever you’re with feel special.
Absolutely! It's all about making those around us feel valued and appreciated. Class truly shines through in how we treat others.
Beautiful!!!!
So true!!! ❤
I practice this everyday. Also allow and invite everyone to contribute
Or at least, not less.
All these things are result of not being afraid. They are not rushing cause they can afford other ticket, they can buy better thing, they have connections cause they used that serveces and payed that people well so when they called them again they will prioriteze them and so on.. if you still dont have enough money its normal to be more worried or scared and that showes in your actions.
You make a great point! Confidence often comes from having resources and connections, which can definitely influence our actions and decisions.
@MannersMattersChannel true and you nailed them 💪I will definitly try to mimic these habits. I'm already subscribed.
Thank you🫶
I was an an au pair for English aristocratic family. They had a nice house in central London but they were otherwise broke. Coming from upper class family does not equal having cash
I do half of these things already and I'm broke. It's the few I don't do that brought me to this video. I use to do almost all of them but with an unhealthy mental state the others went away slowly. Some might have been born with a silver spoon but chances are their healthy living skills provided them with what they have. I'm getting ready to put several boxes of crap from my living room in the back room to make the house look better only because I'm very aware that the stuff piling up is bringing me down.
Such an insightful video! 🌟 The habits you shared are not just for the upper class-they’re powerful principles anyone can adopt to elevate their life.
Thanks for breaking it down so clearly and inspiring us to aim higher every day!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled that you found the breakdown helpful and inspiring. 🫶
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
A quality coat lasting only 5 years? Oh, no, it should last longer than that. I have a coat that is 20 years old and still looks good.
What s the name of the brand?
It's impressive that your coat has lasted so long! Quality really does matter when it comes to longevity.
Which is why some girls are wearing their great grandmother’s Chanel dresses and jackets.
I have several London Fog coats that my grandmother had ( she is now gone) and I still wear them. Most long lasting coats I have ever had. So they are well over 30 years old.
My Banana Republic moto jacket will never go out of style and is still going strong after year round, almost daily wear and lots of travel +10 yrs. 😂 Wish I had bought two tho, cause if it ever does fade I’ll be hard pressed to replace it.
I have a long black wool coat that I purchased almost 30 years ago. Taking it to NY for thanksgiving and it still looks fabulous
Wow, that's impressive! A timeless piece like that definitely shows the value of quality fashion. Enjoy your Thanksgiving in NY!
💯 Exactly.
Pauses give space to think.
Quality over quantity.
Networking is indeed their life style, they build relationships.
Thank you for your insightful comment! I love how you captured the essence of those habits. Building relationships truly makes a difference!
The concept of success in " The Art of Seductive Power" book completely explains this. I wish I read it sooner.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Better late than never...
Nice.
Who is the writer? Thx
Robert Greens- he has an amazing book on Power too!
Went online to buy the audio - thank you for the suggestion! 😊
A very well informative video and one of the best
The pause is powerful! It exposes the hasty fool.
OMG! I love a clean a home and I'm consistent except for my fellow household members. I can't stand clutter.
I network like crazy. I know a ton of people, and when some one needs an expert in a field I know a person.
Experiences are self soul filling.
I'm a quiet confident person wherever I go. I don't captivate attention but I move with confidence.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! 👍
Start each day with scripture. Seeking God early in life isn't "cool" to most but that's the one thing you'll never regret.
That's a great perspective! Thanks for sharing!
True class is making whomever youre with feel special
Each year I have my Christmas shopping done by October, people think I’m crazy lol but during the holidays I’m calm and enjoying my time
That's a smart strategy! Getting your shopping done early really does help you enjoy the holidays without the stress.👍
love this! plus bet you had plenty of time to research products you wanted and waited for sales, & less holiday credit card debt in Jan!
Better yet, I don’t even do Christmas shopping. Charity donations are my go to gift!
Life goal! You're right. I've learnt that working in retail, from my most put together customers. It was a premium stationery store, they would buy cards for the year or buy for the next Christmas during the current holidays. Keeps your cortisol in check....Planning and buying ahead of the time is now my mantra. I started Christmas yoga in August I think 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Also my Christmas 🎄🎁 wasn't perfectly planned but I've made huge progress towards stress-free holidays. Baby steps. I'm so proud 🦚
This is excactly what I did this year..and I had so much more fun the holiday days having ready outfits for all the occasions and gifts for everybody..🤍
💯 Exactly.
Pauses give space to think.
Quality over quantity.
Networking is indeed their life style, they build relationships.
Immaterial stuff is what I am into more than material things.
Working on the tidiness, is sure keeps the head clean to.
Yes. Manners matters🙏🏽
Confidence is a habit
Absolutely! It's amazing how taking a moment to pause can lead to deeper thoughts and connections. Quality interactions truly do matter!
Maintenance of your space is simply clean as you go. Wiping surfaces daily and not just when they are dirty. It’s about keeping it clean and not waiting for it to become dirty.
Absolutely! 👍
Yes, but also a lot of rich people have others that clean for them, it is unrealistic to have a mansion all cleaned and shiny all by yourself.
It's hard, in a single mum of 3. After the end of the contract I'm overwhelmed by the stuff I have at home. I used to be so organised when I was young
@@MaryPAULINElove That sounds really challenging, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed with so much on your plate. Being a single mum of three is no small feat, and it’s okay to give yourself grace.🫶
This was an interesting video. I hardly consider myself wealthy, or even well off. It's actually hard for me to even vocalize my habits because it sounds like "bragging" and bragging is NOT a quality I enjoy in others. But yet I watch this video and I already do about 80% of what she talked about. I have no idea where I picked up these habits, I just did. My parents weren't like that at all. I think life experiences has just taught me many of the qualities. From my younger Air Force career I learned the importance of dressing sharp and looking the part during a time when I had the LEAST amount of money. Projecting confidence but not arrogance. Speaking with pauses, not rushing business discussions or when networking with new associates. I travel frequently for work and I WILL NOT RUSH through Airports. I take my time and my travel ends up being much less stressful! Keeping a tidy space, super important! I learned early on it's not about being OCD or anything like that, it's just about putting everything back in it's place when you are done with it! Don't just drop it on the counter when you get home, put it back in it's place every time and you will keep a tidy home and tidy life. I buy the best I can afford. I HATE to replace something I only bought last year! I buy the best quality I can reasonably afford. Oh yes, I prioritize experiences WAY OVER material things! I've traveled to over 50 Countries in my life and every experience has made me who I am today and I cherish those experiences. Rather than buying a home earlier in life and saddling myself with a Mortgage, I traveled and chose to settle down later in life. I do struggle with a few of these, such as Networking. I find networking is difficult because most people disappoint me and I find they offer no increase in the quality of my life or relationships. Most people today are a train wreck and it shows in their interactions with others. So, I sometimes just skip the niceties and hardly network at all. I know I need to change that attitude. But generally....5 or so out of 6...not bad!
What a thoughtful and inspiring comment-thank you for sharing! It’s incredible how life experiences, like your Air Force career, have shaped your habits and values in such a meaningful way. Your approach to dressing sharp, prioritizing experiences over material things, and maintaining a tidy space is so admirable-and your travel experiences sound absolutely enriching. I completely agree with your perspective on quality over quantity; investing in the best you can reasonably afford truly pays off in the long run.
Networking can definitely be a challenge, especially when it feels like connections lack depth or mutual value. But your confidence, clear communication, and life experience undoubtedly set you apart, so I’m sure you’ll find ways to connect with people who align with your values.
It sounds like you already embody so much of what I aim to highlight in my content-grace, confidence, and intentional living. Thank you for being a wonderful example of these qualities! 🫶
Thanks for sharing this information
My great aunt Peg always said ' It isn't what you know, It's who you know.'
Your great aunt Peg sounds like a wise woman! It's true that connections can open so many doors in life.
So true, every good job I have ever held was through personal connections. My skills, education, professional experience were needed but to show the ri
Nice reminder! Thank you! Will try pause. This is a challenge as I'm naturally impatient. The staying calm was my nature by birth that I didn't know others don't have. Once I lost it, I realized I was just gifted.
I'm glad you found it helpful! Thank you for sharing!
Maintenance of things owned. Own less, but msintain things well. It doesnt need to look new but it needs to be cherished
Absolutely! It's all about valuing what we have and ensuring it lasts. Cherishing our belongings can lead to a more fulfilling life.
Best point on here!
My best friend once taught me the most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate what theyve said for just a beat, consider that whatever they just said, may be directed at you at some point- look at them-smile- change the subject. It lets people know that your confidence need not come at others expense. A ver
Clutter is just delayed decisions. This will help me tackle the last bit of the garage.
What can I do that I will remember in 5 years? This will help me decide what activities to do with my kids. Love these tidbits!!! Love a quick reframe 😊
Thanks for your comment and fingers crossed for your garage. I'm sure your kids will love the activities and time together.🫶
Most of this is pretty spot on. It all comes down to attitude. Being prepared and organized helps one not to be or feel rushed. So does not procrastinating and waiting until the last minute. So does having a personal assistant (like many rich people have.) I agree with what was said re: quality over quanty and valuing purchasing experiences vs buying material things. Although I'm not above hitting tourist traps. It's part of the 'experience' lol
I completely agree! A positive attitude and good organization can make a world of difference. And hey, tourist traps can definitely add some fun to the journey!
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Thank you so much❤
Superb…. I didn't even realize it was the” pause thing”. I will definitely try. I am the person who always rushes for everything for no reason.
I'm glad you found the pause technique helpful! Taking a moment to slow down can really make a difference. Give it a try and see how it feels!
Thanks for sharing your video
Pause, and tidying up are my first steps
Thank you for sharing your approach! Pausing to reflect and tidying up really sets the stage for productivity and clarity.
Thanks for the advice ❤❤
Practise the pause. I think this one is so important. I knew a professional who when faced with a tricky situation or an atmosphere that was likely to become fraught, she did not swear, rather she said oh dear, very slowly, to gain time to say the right thing. That’s just an example. If you are tired, angry, hungry a few seconds before you speak, act or do something a PAUSE works.
For yourself before you react, just pause, at anything you have to do. Take your time!
Thank you for sharing that insight! Practicing the pause is such a valuable habit, and I appreciate you highlighting its importance.🫶
Nice… I will try the pause thing…. I do tend to make a remark quickly without thinking!
Thank you for watching! I'm glad you found the pause technique helpful-it's a game-changer for so many!
i didnt think there were great habits that could change your life so simply. thanks for sharing this wonderful thing.
I'm so glad you found the habits helpful! Sometimes the simplest changes can make the biggest impact.
i like her idea about trying just one and starting it - rather than attempting many new variables all at once..
Absolutely! Focusing on one thing at a time can lead to better results and a clearer path forward. It’s all about mastering the basics first!
I came to that realization today before watching this video and that will be helpful for tackling 2025 goals!
Beautiful review 🥰
I definitely need to pause and slow down. Great video, thank you!
Totally get you! Sometimes you just gotta hit the brakes and take it easy. Thanks for watching!
Me too !
I admit, those are some very well-intended pieces of advice, but then people are usually perfect because of their imperfections. I had recently met a couple of ladies that were adorable because of being a little chaotic. Somehow, it added charm to them. So, yes, some of us are a little anxious because we don't know how to fit all our endeavours in a 24-hour-day schedule. Some of us have a vivid desk, because, if clean up, we won't find anything again. Some of us are night owls. And some of us can't help being generous with money, even if we aren't Bill Gates or Elon Musk. But then again, what's wrong with just being yourself?
I completely agree! Embracing our imperfections is what makes us unique and relatable. Each person's charm often comes from their quirks and individuality.
I have impeccable manners and even though some people hate me I still use eloquent aptitude always positivily using my attitude
It's great to hear that you maintain such a positive attitude and strong manners, even in the face of negativity. Keep shining!
My best friend once taught me the most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate what
Fantastic tips!!! Yes, I have noticed that wealthy or smart people will go someplace another country or just an off-broadway play before spending money over some new toy -I admire that!
I'm glad you found the tips helpful! It's true that investing experiences often leads to greater satisfaction than material possessions.
@@MannersMattersChannel Right 😃 Plus you are more interesting ✔️
During the funeral from my father, we were as a family in the family waiting room before going into the big hall, the funeral lady asked my aunt if she could say her first name if she would called forward to say something about my dad. My aunt said no. It sounds rude but it has to do with this: the funeral lady as not a friend or family from my aunt. My aunt had a real pearl necklace, a chique handbag and was dressed very well. Here daughter in law had a real Louis Vuitton handbag. My nephew has a stone whole sale company and his wife a Thai massage salon ( non-sex). My aunts husband was a Doctor doctor ( a hospital doctor/physician on the university doctor(al) level). It is old money.
For the rest you must have table manners. You do not have to do chique all the time but keep it descent. Don't spent money on nonsense and keep your money in your pocket. " Mom, you want some flowers?" "No, keep your money in your pocket". A be a bit reserved and keep your arm with you. No big gestures with your arms. You can look how real royalty behave. Always relaxed. Ofcourse a Dime will never be a Quarter but if you can improve yourself, do it. And be able to talk to people on every level. Don't feel more than other people. And....no t-shirt under a polo shirt.
It's interesting how family dynamics play out during such solemn occasions. Your aunt's choice reflects her values and upbringing, which can definitely influence how we navigate these moments. Thank you for sharing.
TMI....sheesh
You and your family are snobs. Not classy, just snobs. You had to name the brand of the handbags, but cannot spell decent or chic.
Thanks for advice
I need to work on networking but I will do that when I relocate. I already know who I want in my life.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s inspiring to see someone so determined about their future connections. Best of luck with your move!
@@MannersMattersChannel Thank you. Your well wishes are much appreciated.
UPPER CLASS HABITS
1. Master the "Art of Pause" (take your sweet time/ stay calmn)
2. Invest in quality (buy few but better things)
3. Keep the environment clean and organized (consistency: set 10 minutes daily to reset)
4. Network (be genuinely interested in building relationships)
5. Prioritize experience over gadget
6. Calm confidence (you belong)
Love that you get it! 😁
Thank you
Thanks for the summary!!!!
Thank God I fit in „ upper class“ category according to this video... I am not wealthy by any standard at all, yet the list here all are important to me that is due to my upbringing born raised in average up class family backing days in my own country. I socialized w all classy boys and girls, w high standards great tastes, manners, etc,,,, I am forever thankful to my artist beloved mother she thought me develop taste to the top. The only factor I am missing is confidence 😢due to my culture and a bit my parents are to blamed.
It's wonderful to hear how your upbringing has shaped your values and tastes! Confidence can be a journey, but recognizing your strengths is a great first step.👍
Beautiful review
0:42 Master the art of pause
1:55 Invest in quality
2:56 keep places unapologetically clean
4:06 Network
5:12 prioritize experience over stuff
5:55 Cultivate a calm confidence
Thanks for taking the notes😉
@@MannersMattersChannel This comment should be 'pinned'.
Re: Pause....I am a pause person...the problem is many people don't wait for me to finish my thought and just jump right in!
I totally get that! Pausing can really help clarify our thoughts, but it can be frustrating when others interrupt. Communication is a two-way street!
Thanks for the video
Be yourself and that's that
Absolutely! Being true to yourself is the best way.
Thanks for sharing this video
Guess what, I am already doing all that most of my life, and I am a billionaire at heart. I love your content, I hope this beautiful voice is not AI generated. Confirm so I can make a decision to keep this subscription or else....😂❤
Haha, that’s awesome! Thanks for loving my stuff!
Beautiful vlog ❤❤❤
Upper class people hire domestic help that is the only way they keep things tidy. Upper class people do buy expensive things, but try saving for a pair of high end boots and feed your family, pay mortgage.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s important to remember the different financial realities people face.
The art of the pause depends on where you are in your profession and your life. Once upon a time I did not ever pause I immediately said “Yes Sir (or Ma’am) whenever my superior gave me an order. Fast forward 40 years, and I pause, or stop, or rush, whenever I want to because I’ve earned the right to do so.
This is my first time watching your video and I enjoyed it:)
I'm glad to hear you enjoyed it! Welcome to the channel, and I hope you stick around for more!
Frankly, all the points were immensely relatable. And to end with, do take a pause before writing a comment-it creates an impact!
Also, I totally agree with you- The Pause, Buying Quality, Clean and Organized, Network, Experience over Stuff, and confidence.
Thinking aloud, let's use the process of elimination. I think, I do buy Quality and rarely. Clean and Organized I am mostly but will be more careful hereon.
I think, Network and Experience can be clubbed creating a base for the Confidence to be practiced. While this shall happen on a less often basis,
On a regular basis, The Confidence and The pause are a MUST.
CONFIDENCE
Know who they are and what they bring to the table.
Show up for yourself
Speak a little more clearly
Make eye contact
Stand up Straight even when you are at a grocery store (* I would like to add here- Dress up well when you are stepping out, even when you are going to the supermarket nearby)
DONT DOWNPLAY yourself. You DO NOT have to shrink to make other people comfortable.
It isn't about being the loudest person, it is about quietly knowing you belong there too
Me too- Chronically overscheduling and over-apologising!
It's about
"How you show up in your own life! "
Very powerful words
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s wonderful to know that the message resonated with you. 🫶
These are not habits of upper class people. These are habits of people who think critically and with higher levels of emotional intelligence. Geesh.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always great to hear different interpretations of the habits we discuss.
@@MannersMattersChannel actually the comment I offered is based on much educational research. These skills you describe are not correlated to wealth but, instead, emotional and cognitive abilities that span all economic classes.
The channel is not about economic “class”. It’s about social class. Money has nothing to do with it.
Thanks FOR The Video
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Much appreciated!
True class is making whomever you’re with feel special
The “pause” is mastered by teachers not rich people. 😂
Let me tell you, it’s rich people who are in a rush.
However, teachers have students who just got off their iPads asking them questions a mile a minute. 10 kids can literally pop up at you at once. You have to pause and give yourself time to think and focus on what they are asking. Now I use this in everyday life when I start to become stressed. I’m pretty sure it’s a trauma response. Lastly, the Bible tells us to have peace, so if I feel like I’m using mine, I remember how much the “pause” helps me.
It’s really not a mystery and I don’t own the place or anything!
Edit: “clutter is just delayed decisions.” Is why smart people are so cluttered,
That’s literally what the “pause” is. 😂😂
You make a great point! The ability to pause and reflect is such a valuable skill, especially in the chaos of teaching. It's amazing how it can transform our approach to stress in everyday life.
I'm a teacher and I agree 💯
Beautiful video 🥰
Their cleaners keep their houses clean…not them!
They also don't need to panic, they have enough money if something goes wrong.
Thank for advice
Upper class people aren’t necessarily tidy. Lots of the English aristocracy have quite stylishly messy homes with dogs and wellington boots and books everywhere and never apologize for it.. They also don’t say “ My bad”.
This reminds me of my childhood: dogs, boots and books. Not quite English aristocracy though!😆
Nice review... ❤️❤️
Nice vid! Why is it that people in the USA always seem to distinguish 'upper class' from others? Do you really need to be 'upper class' to have or develop these habits?, or can anyone work on their personality to embody these qualities? 😊 🧐Well done on this video! 👏🏾
Thanks for the thoughtful comment! It's interesting how societal norms shape our perceptions. Anyone can develop those habits, regardless of class-it's all about mindset and effort!
It's simply "class". Class is not defined by ones wealth.
Absolutely! Class truly comes from within and how we treat others, not from our bank accounts.
I want Hallmark main character energy! 😁
Hallmark main character energy? Just add a sprinkle of hot cocoa, a charming small town, and a dash of unexpected romance, and you’re all set!😁
Excellent class 😊
Upper class people have servants to clean up their spaces for them. Even their servants have servants to clean up the spaces for them.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I know plenty of people worth millions, living in homes worth over two million and yet they clean their own homes. If you don’t have clutter, and pick up after yourself you don’t need anyone to come in and do the cleaning because it doesn’t take very long to actually clean a space with with no clutter and nothing out of place 🤷♀️
You make a very good point. My friends who have regular housekeeping services never worry about the bathroom being clean enough for guests, or the furniture being dusted, or whether their floors need vacuuming. That frees up a lot of energy--enough to allow an occasional pause. Now that I am older and in poor health, the pressure of doing it all is overwhelming.
@@stepht5 I agree that without clutter it's easier to clean but all the upper class people I've met have housekeepers.
@@jeanetteh.9240 I can imagine, I hope you get better soon. Priorize your mental and physical health over what guests might think. Most of the times it's always worse in our heads than it actually is, most people don't care about a moderate amount of mess. All best!
So beautiful video ❤
I think one manner the upper class practice is investing. My advice to everyone is this : if you want to grow big this year especially in your finances. Be willing to make investments. Saving is great but investing puts you on a pedestal where you wouldnt have to worry about savings as you do now. Thanks to larysa Caba, my portolio is doing really great and im proud of the decisions i made last year.
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I feel one Of the greatest challenges that we first timers face in the ma rket is that we end up losing all we have,making it difficult to find ourselves back to our feet. My biggest advice is to always seek the services of a professional just like I did when I ventured into it for the first time. Big thanks to Larysa Caba. I now make huge profits by weekly through her services while still learning to stand on my own.
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I have never seen a trader as open and transparent as Larysa Caba with her clients. The way she decides to make a profit for her clients. she allows you to express your fears and she still rests your fears and that is my respect. I don't normally comment on videos, but this word should be included. she is really cool.
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Excellent class.
It’s really interesting content, best of luck
I don't know if feeling like the main character in a Hallmark movie is an aspirational goal.
I totally get what you mean😆
Great video 👍
manners maketh man. 😎
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Darling, if you think this amounts to being ‘upper class’, you need to study the British Aristocracy.
You make a valid point! Understanding the nuances of the British Aristocracy really gives a deeper perspective on class distinctions.
@ Very true, and a classy answer 😊 Wherever you are in the world and whatever distinction of class you may have been born into, nothing can replace classy behaviour.
Thank you! It's wonderful to see others appreciate the importance of class in our interactions.🫶
How absolutely right you are . The british upperclass just effortlessly know the correct way to do it no matter what it happens to be px
The classiest people in the world are those who are kind and friendly to everyone, no matter what their social status is. It means so much to people to receive a warm hello, using the person’s name, than just to say hi and walk quickly past them. I read that Princess Diana’s father taught her that she was no better than anyone else. She even invited one of her bodyguards and his family to vacation in the Caribbean with her and her family. There was no one she looked down on. And it was so wonderful how she took her boys to homeless shelters so they could see how they lived. Few people in her position would have done that. So many people could learn from her example- she was a class act.
Very beautiful review
3:20, Dude upper class people HAVE SERVANTS to keep their home clean. They don't clean it themselves! Duh!
That's certainly an option.😀
@@ilovebeinagirl A lot of people have help to clean their homes
Best advice ❤
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It’s a very useful video❤️🧡
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Pause and tidying up are my first steps
Beautiful view