Married for 20 years, recently separated (4mos) one kid (17) lives with her. I want as little contact with her (wife) as possible unless it has something to do with bills/our daughter, stuff like that. Had a mutual friend send me screenshots of her Facebook (I have never had a social media account other than this for UA-cam). Holy hell, is she going nuts about us not talking, she's taking digs at me (indirectly) just trying her damnest to obtain that victim status, so many in society seek as a badge of honor. All she's doing is showing me why ignoring her at all costs is the smart decision.
Darn right and it has got both good and bad attributes...and if a man can't balance it with humility, it'll cause more hurt than good. Keep God 1st, all else will line up that way. Trust me .
Yep we had an agreement as we had brought a house together we still need to engage but I never intiate any contact unless it’s really necessary He already moved out months ago When he does want to meet up it’s on my terms as I don’t move my schedule for him at all. Then after a few days as I said yes we need to discuss on this day he said yes that I can do Then a few minutes later he texts back Aside from that.. I know I have no right to even ask you this but in some small way I do, as it's me..I just wanted to simply ask, how are you doing? If I'm out of line, you tell me and il stop here. No judgement at all. Omg for real like move on
I went no contact after my guy said he thought we should both move on. A week or so later he came back strong but he’s an avoidant and hasn’t wanted to talk about what changed. We met as online, hooked up twice and stayed in touch over a year but he’s younger and we both weren’t looking for relationship. He’s sent me songs about I love you but he hasn’t committed. I’m afraid he’s using me but part of me feels he loves me. Which should I believe and what should I do? I sent him a huge message saying we need to discuss in near future when he was ready. I’m thinking by July end things until he can communicate??? Help pleaseee!!!!! I love him!
Brother my ex was met with other guys one week after I break up with her! I was break up woth her because I was have that feeling she is not care about me anymore! Not compliments,no good vibes, no sex, and no thanks when i was helping her! My heart is broken brother 3 months! I was with her 3 years! She was destroy my life but I was still love her! I love her but I don't want her back! No trust at all😢 She was so good person but later i was find out some evil things about her and her family members too! She makes fake Facebook accounts and sent me massages and I know is her for sure! She is telling lies about me to clean her position but I didn't say anything to her parents about what I know about her! So I am here and suffering! I see all your videos and I try to figure out why the all bad things happened to me ONLY! And she has fun with others! The time is the best doctor and NO CONTACT FOR SURE! But why I have to be in the bad situation? I didn't cheating on her, I was helping her all the time to fix her life to marry me and have a beautiful life and kids! One punch together for everything! But is all bad dreams brother! I can't understand how one person forgets everything just like this! I will left the time to fix me I quess! 4 of clock and I didn't sleep! After 3 hours i will go job and I am here to suffering!
Married for 20 years, recently separated (4mos) one kid (17) lives with her. I want as little contact with her (wife) as possible unless it has something to do with bills/our daughter, stuff like that. Had a mutual friend send me screenshots of her Facebook (I have never had a social media account other than this for UA-cam). Holy hell, is she going nuts about us not talking, she's taking digs at me (indirectly) just trying her damnest to obtain that victim status, so many in society seek as a badge of honor. All she's doing is showing me why ignoring her at all costs is the smart decision.
It's all manipulation though.. because when he had me he fumbled me. Yet he still wants to stay in touch.. a man's ego is a big thing
Darn right and it has got both good and bad attributes...and if a man can't balance it with humility, it'll cause more hurt than good. Keep God 1st, all else will line up that way. Trust me .
Yes I think so too.... All manipulation....
Are you now together after so many months
this was me to her. I blocked her on everything. I couldn't keep doing that to myself
Sounds like a possessive love. I don't want somebody who love me that way
Yep we had an agreement as we had brought a house together we still need to engage but I never intiate any contact unless it’s really necessary
He already moved out months ago
When he does want to meet up it’s on my terms as I don’t move my schedule for him at all.
Then after a few days as I said yes we need to discuss on this day he said yes that I can do
Then a few minutes later he texts back
Aside from that.. I know I have no right to even ask you this but in some small way I do, as it's me..I just wanted to simply ask, how are you doing? If I'm out of line, you tell me and il stop here. No judgement at all.
Omg for real like move on
Of course they do . I’m literally loyal and got a phat ass and good credit and I’m a cute. But I don’t play with lies and cheaters glutton
I went no contact after my guy said he thought we should both move on. A week or so later he came back strong but he’s an avoidant and hasn’t wanted to talk about what changed. We met as online, hooked up twice and stayed in touch over a year but he’s younger and we both weren’t looking for relationship. He’s sent me songs about I love you but he hasn’t committed. I’m afraid he’s using me but part of me feels he loves me. Which should I believe and what should I do? I sent him a huge message saying we need to discuss in near future when he was ready. I’m thinking by July end things until he can communicate??? Help pleaseee!!!!! I love him!
Why do they do this even after getting into a new relationship with someone else?
I mean she stalks my Tiktok but she's married my guy.
I choose option 1....wink...
What if he blocked me
No Contact for a week or two….I mysteriously get occasional,” but-dials” from her (?) 😉
😭😭😭
Bro please speak a little louder😅
Brother my ex was met with other guys one week after I break up with her! I was break up woth her because I was have that feeling she is not care about me anymore! Not compliments,no good vibes, no sex, and no thanks when i was helping her! My heart is broken brother 3 months! I was with her 3 years! She was destroy my life but I was still love her! I love her but I don't want her back! No trust at all😢 She was so good person but later i was find out some evil things about her and her family members too! She makes fake Facebook accounts and sent me massages and I know is her for sure! She is telling lies about me to clean her position but I didn't say anything to her parents about what I know about her! So I am here and suffering! I see all your videos and I try to figure out why the all bad things happened to me ONLY! And she has fun with others! The time is the best doctor and NO CONTACT FOR SURE! But why I have to be in the bad situation? I didn't cheating on her, I was helping her all the time to fix her life to marry me and have a beautiful life and kids! One punch together for everything! But is all bad dreams brother! I can't understand how one person forgets everything just like this! I will left the time to fix me I quess! 4 of clock and I didn't sleep! After 3 hours i will go job and I am here to suffering!