Jake Luhrs and Therapist React to Snuff (Live) Corey Taylor
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- Опубліковано 20 лют 2024
- Jake Luhrs, vocalist of August Burns Red, and therapist, Taylor Palmby analyze the lyrics of Corey Taylor's acoustic version of "Snuff". They use the song to discuss the layers of anguish that often come at the end of a relationship. It can be very confusing to work through all of the conflicting pain, and they encourage people to use the song as a jumping-off point to understand where they are at in their healing journey.
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I believe this is the time Corey performed Snuff in memory of Paul after he passed suddenly. Which I think adds to the genuineness to the performance
You are correct
This video is from six years ago(2017). The link below is the one y’all are talking about. The link below is from 12 years ago. Shortly after Paul Gray died.
m.ua-cam.com/video/r6VftcpePOg/v-deo.html&pp=ygUKU251ZmYgbGl2ZQ%3D%3D
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I saw Corey do an acoustic evening at Wasted Space at the Vegas Hard Rock in summer 2010, almost immediately after Paul died, it wasn't recorded but it should've been. Corey got thru the song but had to compose himself for several moments afterwards.
“My love was punished long ago, it took the death of hope to let you go”. You cannot get better than that
“It took the death of hope to let you go…” those words are a place I will never forget…
I take that line as a mental vaccine. A reminder of what happened to me before, so I don't make that mistake ever again. Because I know I'm stupid enough to do it again if I don't have that reminder.
Rest in Peace Paul Grey and Joey Jordison we maggots still mourn your passing 🤘💔😭
Friend ship is more important then money memories is all we got to take in the grave 🪱🐺🦇🕸️🕷️
Saw Corey in Sydney Nov last year.
1300 people singing this in unison will always send shivers down my spine. And the fact I have it on video just makes it even better.
Was so hauntingly beautiful hearing everyone singing it ... kinda sad too that we all felt it on some level.
"If you still care don't ever let me know." I am trying to get over the damage, but if you tell me you still care I will hop right back in to what brought me this much pain.
My line is I only wish you weren't my friend then I could hurt you in the end. God I still love him even tho I hate him and I can't hurt him or be horrible because of that. (15 year relationship)
Paul played a big part in the writing of Snuff with Corey. The song was already personal to Corey but after the death of Paul it is even more important to Corey. RIP Paul ❤
Yeah, I was really excited when Taylor was going to do with Jake. Its an important song in the Slipknot community and I want us to respect that.
Always here for the care of others.
-The Video Editor
@@HeartSupport You all on the team are so amazing. Getting Jake in on this is incredible as well. Would love to see you guys reach out to Corey himself as he released a video a week or so ago admitting he is struggling with his mental health. Slipknot and Stone Sour have been with me through the hardest points in my life. Thank you for everything you are doing.
@@HeartSupport keep up with the fantastic work that you're doing. Its very much appreciated folks .Cheers 👏
@@eyespyyourspy1328You are 100% spot on with this. It would be amazing to see him involved in a video.
You should react to Corey Taylor performing "Bother" (also from the same show), the crowd singing with him is amazing in that one
I would also recommend reacting to the original "Bother" video, by Corey's other band, Stone Sour.
Originally the song was about an unrequited love, the thought that he pushed her away by revealing his feelings, and at the time of this performance it was also done in memory of the loss of his best friend to a drug overdose. Now eight months after the breakup of my 23 year relationship... I still bawl my eyes out as soon as the guitar starts but it's okay. I think I needed to cry today. It's been a while and I find it cathartic. The lyrics I identify the most with is "I couldn't face a life without your light, but all of that was ripped apart when you refused to fight".
Dude do be ashamed because you cried I'm a thrash metal genera metal head and this song cut into me like no other ever and for someone who hadn't cried maybe a handful of times in a ten year period was brought to tears alone In my bedroom by myself and I try and think about myself as being harder than $5 worth of jawbreaker but this song had that effect on me like none before or after it's like a knife twisting while inside of you while cutting deep into your core!
@@user-od6bc1ym4xNo worries, I never said I was ashamed to cry.
Crying is good. Never be ashamed of that. And also you are not alone 🫂
Honestly. These guys (slipknot) kept me sane for like 20 years. I think it's amazing what your doing, breaking down the songs to show the true depth of them ❤👍🏻🎉
I feel you brother! Being it divorce of my Parents as a child, bad breakups or a breakup I couldnt get over when I was a young adult Corey and Slipknot was always the thing that kept my mind from breaking. Coreys ability to feel and express pain, anger hope etc in his vocals and music is such a powerful ability but also Deamon he battles for himself. I hope he feels how much this is meaning for so many people he helped to put in words in sounds what we feel but mostly us men cannot or dont feel are allowed to express.
Yes! My son learned to play my fave Slipknot songs to cheer me up. 🤘
This is Mt absolute favorite song. It has been my therapist, my best friend and my savior. It's so powerful for me. I listen to it almost everyday. I had never seen it performed live after seeing Slipknot 8 times. I took my 15 year old daughter to her first concert in Colorado Springs Co to see Slipknot. They played this song. It was one of the most profound moments of my life having her there with me. She knows my pains. We shed some tears, as did countless others. Clearly Corey and Paul wrote one of the most powerfully painful but relatable songs of all time.
THIS song man!! Made me stop what I was about to do. I had the laptop playing in the background and this song comes on. I was going thru a very dark time in my life and I was so over everything. . . DV to name 1 thing. I am happy this song was written and came on that day.
"If I can change I hope I never know" is one of the most despondent lines I've ever heard. That hits hard.
For me its "It took the death of hope to let you go."
My favorite Slipknot song. This song helped me heal from a toxic and abusive relationship. It's beautiful and angry at the same time. ❤
Always shed a tear watching this performance. The lyrics are so powerfull in this song. I had the privilege to see corey perform it live last year during a slipknot concert in the ziggo dome.
I don't believe how much I cried with this. I have always loved this song but in this moment it hits really bad, it's so relatable and it feels painful.
First let me say that snuff is my favorite song. It has brought me through my darkest times, and the lyric that saved me was "it took the death of hope to let you go" that line is so real for me and Corey Taylor has said many times at his shows that his fans have saved him, but his lyrics have saved me and continue to bring me comfort and hope when nothing else seems to really make me feel better.
That's me. I decided to give myself to my loneliness and it's ok. I've made my peace with it. To many times tried to avoid it but, to many times I got hurt. Simply nothing left to give and honestly, I want nothing in return...
Never give up! We all deserve to be happy!
@@paulthirdeye2329 You can be alone AND happy..... just sain'
why anyone should get hurt over and over again voluntarily....
There are songs, and then there are songs about emotions. And here is a song about a real emotion.
I’ve seen Slipknot and Stone Sour multiple times and Corey Taylor is a master at connecting with the audience. He makes it so personal and he really makes you feel his appreciation for you being there. I love seeing him live. He’s one of the GOATs in my opinion.
i was waiting for this one, almost every time i listen to this song it brings me back to how i felt with my own experiences with break ups or family members, even just friendships. apart of me misses them, i think of them less often but here and there, something reminds me of them and it feels as if I'm suddenly back to when i last tried processing those experiences. i love how everyone respects Corey's performance and sings along with him even covering vocals he can't get out from the pain behind the lyrics.
I enjoyed your Interpretation of this song, This was a very great reaction video. Thank you
Ah man ,this song , right in the feels 💔, hits so close to home
This performance is so honest and raw, you can tell on his voice that this is extremely personal for him.
I'm amazed that he managed to keep it together as well as he did, because it is Not easy to sing properly when the emotions get the best of you.
Thank you for hearing us about this song. This version and the story with all of it❤️🙏🫡
Love this song, especialy this live version and like yours reaction
I feel every word of this song. I cant love anymore because of all the pain associated with love. CMFT always writes songs about his life and what he's been through in life and love. One of my favorites for sure.
Another one of my favorite people, that tell their story in song. Definitely relate to this song
chills every time
The song is about Corey's relationship with a woman who helped him through his addiction but left after he told her his feelings for him Paul pushed him to put the song out then short time later Paul passed
I felt every lyric in this song but never could quite put an explanation to it until this analysis. This just hit me like a ton of bricks. I can now verbally express what I felt. Thank you for that.
The lyric “it took the death of hope to let you go” kills me on a personal level
Music truly IS Magic.
is it just me who thinks that the verse "angels lie to keep control" is SO deep and meaningful? Great video. thank you!
Dude. That whole live in London set is incredible. During the song "bother" the entire auditorium starts screaming the lyrics so loud he has to stop and applaud them. One of the most beautiful moments ive ever seen during a set.
"Angel's lie to keep control", this one always hurts so much, finding out how many things are said behind my back, the guilt trips, the conditioned isolation to keep providing the life someone else wanted. Over 12 years of marriage of always feeling worried I'm doing something wrong, some flaw or crack that will cause me to say one wrong word and they will take my family from me. It took a long time to even talk about any of this and how much of all these years, its such a mix of anger, fear, anxiety, relief, and finally feeling that there can be some hope in finding a new way in life. I was never perfect, feeling at times I didn't deserve happiness because I made mistakes in trying to find people that didnt want to change who I am. Talking to friends and less and less over years as I felt I lost more and more agency over every part of my life as everything needed a good enough reason. Sorry this is sort of just a splatter of emotion without much structure to it.
This song as hit me differently nearly every year I've listened to it, hating my life at times, feeling trapped, just going through the motions of life, resentment, suppressed pain, blaming myself for letting it get to this point, etc, this song hits it all.
Another pair of songs that just kills me as a father is "The Whaler" by Thrice, and "Against the Tide" by Celldweller, both are amazing songs.
“You ran away your all the same” ❤️🩹 that lyric hit home
great song
this song is about loving someone and they cant love him back and left. the hate is because they left when they found out about his feelings, but the love for them is from the time together
I don't know how i came across your channel the other day but I'm glad i did. I wish I had a Therapist like you, because you really do get it.
It took the death of hope to let you go. Really hits hard
In my opinion...this is one of the best written songs. I love every lyric.
"The air around me still feels like a cage" such a heavy line, going around just living and feeling like your eternally trapped is a terrifying feeling
I love Corey Taylor the video surprised me at the end
I was at a SlipKnot concert live and everyone I knew was there started crying during this song
"when you refuse to fight" this hits hard..
This was not long after Paul passed away. This brings tears everytime i see it
Another video from the same show is his song from his other band, Stoned Sour, called “Bother”.
I hope everyone watches it, but it very rarely gets reacted to. Anyways, it’s worth a watch even if it’s just a private watch.
If you watch the "Making of snuff" video it talks about the struggles corey was going through when they were making the music video for this.
Fun fact there is a part in the music video when corey crushes a wine glass in his hands and cuts himself. That part was 100% real and not planned. He let his emotions take over and thats whats happened. They left the camera rolling until he was ready for them to stop.
This will always be my favorite song and the one that hits home for me the most.
I love Jake getting in on these.
React to Purple Rain by Corey Taylor. Just happened to be at First Avenue the day of Prince's passing. Pleaee
You got the vocalist of ABR!! WTF Awesome
Heartsupport is a nonprofit founded by Jake ;)
This song is about a girl that helped him thru a dark time in his life and didn't feel the same way about him that he did her
Also yes he has since dedicated this song to paul gray his best friend after his passing
If you want a tear jerker check out the video of him getting pauls tattoo
Please Dive into Stone Sour! The first song I would recommend is "Taciturn".
Another song that would be awesome to hear you react to from Atone Sour is "Zzyzx Rd."
I would have recommended scars or bother by stone sour
@holycegaming4367 I try to sway away from the songs that are most commonly played on the radio. Can't get a pure reaction from music that is popular and played on every Rock station in America. I know most people don't listen to the radio which I find sad.
I wanted to be a radio DJ, but as I came to the age where that was a feasible career it became a career on the verge of being extinct due to digital music downloads and streaming music services like Spotify.
I’m pretty sure that whole concert is on UA-cam. You could watch the whole thing and cut it up. He plays a bunch of great songs and a couple cover songs
I'm going through some tough times with my girlfriend right now. It's like I'm at my breaking point but it's so damn hard because we've been together over 5 years now. I've loved this song for a long time but right now in this moment this song speaks to me in ways it never has. Thank you for doing these videos
From ThriceTheThird: @jeremylong7533 Thank you for sharing with us what you are going through. I'm sorry that your relationship seems to be under a lot of stress right now. If you ever want to share more with us. Feel free to let it out. <3
I survived leaving a 25 year relationship best thing I did was walk away. I'm so much happier in my life without that relationship but I definitely get the wanting to stay it's just not worth it in the long term
From Micro: @jeremylong7533 It's impressive how songs can resonate with our heart differently depending on what we are going through, or what our life looks like at a given time. With what you describe regarding your relationship with your girlfriend, I imagine this music in particular must echo deeply some of the ways you've been feeling. The sensation of distance being created, the grief that piles up, the raw honesty filled up with both sadness and anger at the same time. It's a brutal, honest message about one's heart, and even though there is something of a relief to have those emotions put into music, it releases a lot of the pain too at the same time.
I'm sorry you've been feeling similar things, friend, and that your relationship with your girlfriend has been difficult lately. It is so hard when the connection you have with very person you love seems to be impacted by pain and frustration. It's like something that is supposed to elevate you and make you feel safe becomes a place of hurt and burdens to carry with you. Five years of life spent together is a very significant amount of time, and I would imagine that the perspective of seeing what you've built together breaking down must be awfully painful. It's the kind of situation that can easily bring its share of helplessness to your heart, and it's certainly difficult to not surrender to it.
I am personally in a relationship of 13 years now with my partner, and over the years there's surely been a couple of times when we've felt enstranged from each other, and like we would be touching some issues that felt unsolvable at the time. The stress and heartache it created in me wasan awfulexperience. I had this voice in the back of my mind that would keep making me thinkthat the worst could happen - a separation -, which I would have definitely not been prepared for. My heart goes out to you as you navigate this rollercoaster of emotions somehow. I don't know your context of course, but the weight of this situation is felt through your words here.
Of course challenges and more tumultuous times are part of any relationship, but it hits differently when it's about *your* relationship directly. I don't know the specifics of what you are going through, but I do hope that you'll have both the possibility to discuss openly and respectfully, in a way that will allow you to heal and progress together. Sometimes, romantic relationships get stronger by walking through the fire together. In any case, you absolutely deserve some relief, some positive change, some healing, and not to feel like being stuck in some kind of rut.
I wish you all the best moving forward and hope for you to find peace and healing from this. You matter, friend.
I love this vid of Corey doing Snuff live, thanks for reviewing it
Another master piece is Gordon Lightfoot and his son If You Could Read My Mind. Gordon was a amazing songwriter from Canada and he is Bob Dylan favorite songwriter.
Acoustic corey taylor will rock your socks off. You should check out some of his others that he does for his other band Stone Sour. Some of my favorite songs of theirs sound so much better when you get more of his voice with the lyrics that sometimes get hidden in the chaos of the instrumentals.
You need to watch From can to can't by Corey Taylor you will enjoy it I promise you please 🙏🏻 ❤️
Corey gets a lot of grief from some Slipknot fans (and haters) but love or loath him, this is a beautiful albeit sad song. I only heard this version relatively recently and it’s one of my favourite songs ever. Feels weird to say favourite but I can’t think of another word to describe it.
He just recently started to sing this song live at his concerts with Slipknot starting on his tour last year because of how personal this song is to him. Before he would start crying mid song.
Great performance by Corey. You should react to the same song video!
Corey has said in interviews that this song probably wouldn't have made it on the record without Paul Gray pushing him to see the song through to completion. Paul knew how powerful a song it would be and how important it was for Corey to process how he felt and let it out. It was kind of a watershed moment for Corey growing to be more comfortable with expressing through a much more vulnerable lens. The song now means that much more to Corey after Paul's death because it was a great example of the very close friendship they had. These days it hard for him to perform that song because it makes him think of Paul much more than the ex he wrote it about.
I saw Slipknot as a whole perform this and had tears running down my face while I sang the entire song.
Definately the "you ran away you're all the same " hits hard for me .. because the ppl I really loved all ran away when I was younger and didn't fight for relationships - so it's I'm not good enough I don't😢 deserve them anyway, so do I think I am expecting more from ppl ... so I tend to settle for ok instead of exceptional in relationships.
From tromboness: @lisawilladsen8702 Thank you for sharing!
It sounds like experiences from your past have made it difficult for you to believe that you deserve beneficial and healthy relationships. Settling for less than ideal seems okay, but you do recognize things could be better. I get the sense that you are feeling consigned to this, either dealing with the loneliness or take whatever you're given.
Even if people have ran away in your past, you deserve to have people in your life that will be there for you thick and thin. There will be people that can provide the relationships you need and can help you thrive. It might time some time and effort, but I hope you'll be able to find those people.
If you are struggling to find those people IRL, you can also find friendships here with HeartSupport's community. We will be here when you need us.
If you ever would like to share more of your experience and/or struggles, please come to our anonymous forum: forum.heartsupport.com/
There are always people here to hear you and support you.
Hold Fast.
From Malig3: @lisawilladsen8702 Hey there,
Thank you for sharing with us and being vulnerable. You matter, and you deserve to live a happy and fulfilling life. Experiencing people neglecting you at a young age is so difficult and a feeling I can really relate to. Everything you said really resonates with me, so I want you to know you are not alone.
The fact that you notice you tend to settle for just "ok" tells me that you know, deep down, that you deserve way more. I know it can be difficult to feel like you deserve more for yourself when, in the past, people have not shown you exceptional care. Something that always helps me is to remember who I am as a person and what I bring to the table. I want to encourage you to try journaling or practicing gratitude by writing every morning. This has really helped me get to know myself and see that I deserve better for myself.
I want you to know that your past does not define you and that you should always expect "exceptional," because that is what you deserve. If there is anything else you want to share or discuss, please reply in this thread. We are here to support you in any way we can <3
From Micro: @lisawilladsen8702 Yes, you hit the nail on the head by describing how this vicious cycle works. You were hurt and felt betrayed by people you looked up to, as they didn't reflect to you all the love, care and presence you deserved to see in your life. Experiencing this type of hurt is so brutal, and it makes completely sense that, to this day, you'd prefer to lower your expectations of others rather than being disappointed and hurt all over again. It feels like you can't ask for more or you would lose it anyway, so you accept what you have, even if it is not as loving, caring and nurturing as you deserve and need. This is a very strong way to protect yourself, and it's understandable to settle for what is okay rather than running after what would feel exceptional. When it comes to relationships, it feels sometimes like the risk is not worth taking anymore, for the pain you've been through was too deep already.
You absolutely deserve *great* rather just *good*, friend. You deserve to develop and embrace nurturing and supportive relationships, while also healing and finding closure from the wounds that you've been carrying for so long. It was not fair to be abandoned, it was not your fault, and it was not the reflection of how worthy and how beautiful you are. You are a unique treasure in this world that people allowed to know should honor and respect - always.
Sending hugs and peace your way. :heart:
How bout the guy in the crowd singing backup vocals. Love that.
“Angels lie to keep control”
Such a powerful line.
You guys should definitely check out Matt Corby, Brother Live (like a version JJJ).
GREAT reaction!!!!!!
I've just got one small criticism and please don't take it to heart, I think you probably don't realise how often you use the word 'like'.😊
Edit: I can't emphasise enough how much I think you'll both enjoy Matt Corby. The slightly longer version has Matt giving a bit of insight into his inspiration.
@HeartSupport These lyrics right here...
You sold me out to save yourself
And I won't listen to your shame
You ran away, you're all the same
I HIGHLY recommend that you do a react/review video of Slipknots "Not Long for this World" just in the title alone you can already tell there's a lot to unpack. Personally, I think it would make a great video for you to review. And also, the album versions of this song and also "Birth of the Cruel" has a lot going on there too, here's a taste from that song "....Lets hear it for the Damaged.."
Blue October is another group you should share with you and your fans
React to Alice In Chains!!! They have so many deep songs like this
I feel like this is so me. I feel like hes saying hes so brokem that hes unlovable. So you got to let him go cause its enevatable that his going to mess up and hurt you bad. So he he isolates and want to be left alone cause he feels the world is better without him.
If you want to see another person “share” their pain, check out Black by Pearl Jam from their MTV Unplugged performance
This song has a double meaning for me I found it shortly after I discovered infidelity in my marriage at the hands of my best friend of 17 yrs who so happened to also introduced me to Slipknot every time I hear this song I sob like a baby I've recovered for the most part from the infidelity. However, I don't think I'll ever recover from the betrayal of the friendship
From jobr: @dwayneb5118 Infidelity is such a tough thing and can leave you with understandably difficult emotions. Letting yourself feel those feelings and just sob when you need is probably so cathartic in the healing process. I am so sorry that you were betrayed like that and had to go through that.
From bmao: @dwayneb5118 Hey, thank you for reaching out. I can't express how sorry I am for your situation. I can't imagine the pain that you must feel going though not only the infidelity, but the betrayal as well. While it may not seem like it, there are people in the world that love you, and all of us in HeartSupport really do love you and appreciate you for sharing your heart. If you'd ever like to discuss your emotions more, or just have a listening ear, we are here for you and we truly care about you.
From runner12: @dwayneb5118 I’m so sorry that happened to you. I can totally understand why this song would make you cry. If you ever need a place to unload remember we are here for you!
From sangasugarbog: @dwayneb5118 I'm so happy that you're beginning to recover from this. I hear you and I feel your pain. We are here for you and we all love you.
From lu2910: @dwayneb5118 I'm so so sorry you had to go through that, it breaks my heart to hear how much you're hurting from this. Please know that you are not alone and I see how brokenhearted you feel. You deserve so much better than such betrayal. If you ever need to talk, you are surrounded by so much love
Check out Corey's version of burning love,, Elvis Presley
This song to me reminds me of my mom, not in a romantic way or intimate way, but like i miss who she used to be what my expectations held her to be, then she got hooked on drugs and turned on her own family and i miss who she was but i know shell never be that woman again and ill never see it again and thats what kills me.
This is hard, a loved the one that chose the same path.😢 it not an easy thing. When it's ripped away...bestfriend...or family...
From DyllonKG: @Hunter17171000 Hey friend. Thank's so much for venting about this - for reaching out. Grieving someone who's still alive must be a heavy burden to bare - www.loom.com/share/10746eb8b1514902944322d2f0381ec3?sid=31c3e977-eda8-4351-b240-511ca163aa11
One does not simply walk to Snuff and not cry
What if you are 49 yrs old and still don't feel like you have a purpose in life?
From djstarion: @ferjam7489 Age IMO is just a number. I'm going on 43 years old, and I feel like I've only truly lived the last 10 years. The first 33 were kind of a wash. When it comes to purpose in life, sometimes you don't go out and find it, it finds you.
I would try and focus right now on a couple things: What makes you feel happy? What makes you feel whole?
That can give you kind of your starting point. Think of life as opening up the maps on your phone. You put in your starting point, which in this case could be happiness, wholeness, or whatever you choose. And the destination is purpose. You'll see you get many routes, to the same destination. Along your journey there will be roadblocks, detours, slowdowns, but ultimately you'll make it where you need to be.
Just remember, it's not about the destination, it's about the journey to that destination.
From madsssk: @ferjam7489 What you are feeling is completely valid, and you are not alone! We as individuals find ourselves seeking more out of life than what seems to be "normal," feeling lost in the rocky process along the way at times.
With these feelings, I would tell you to focus on these three things: Reflect on your passions, explore new activities, and set small goals for yourself. In considering the activities/subjects that interest you, or even trying something that can open up unexpected doors, breaking down larger aspirations can help you create a sense of accomplishment to build momentum toward something larger - a more defined, lively, purpose.
Life is full of endless opportunities, so to you, I say, take as many as possible! Even if the journey is not ideal, remember that the destination will be amazing. Good luck!
From sbrent: @ferjam7489 Age can be a tricky thing especially with all the pressure that society places on a person to reach a certain milestone at a given age, the great thing is that as long as you are living you can always discover your purpose, just look deep within yourself in find that thing that wakes you up in the morning, that thing you cannot stop talking about. Good luck with finding purpose because you have so much left to give!
From Malig3: @ferjam7489 There is often so much pressure to have everything figured out and to be noticed by others in order to feel meaningful and valued. Especially when it comes to age, we can feel rushed. I would encourage you to go out and try new things that excite you. You are never too old to go on new adventures, try new hobbies, make new friends, and more. I would urge you to say "yes" to any and all opportunities that come your way! Finding a purpose in life looks different to everyone; don't be discouraged by others' journeys. Instead, use it as inspiration to find and fall in love with your own. Good luck! <3
From Micro: @ferjam7489 Yea, it's hard to feel like somehow too much time has passed and it would be too late to try differently or even explore new paths in your life. It's like you would have had chances before but are now pushed to your limits and wonders if it's even worth it to try. To be fair, finding our purpose in life is a huge question and quest, certainly at any age too. Sometimes our journey doesn't look like what we wanted it to be, and it feels like it's tool ate to do something about it.
If anything, and maybe as a starting point, I would certainly try to challenge this thought that you'd be too old to figure this out or to feel more whole in your life. Just because this thought could potentially push you to sabotage yourself, or miss opportunities you would have seized otherwise. I think, no matter how old you are, finding our purpose is something deeply attached to the mindset we try to develop - and preserve. Personally I don't know if I have any purpose and I have yet to figure it out if that's the case. But I like to try to embrace life as it comes when the big questions feel too overwhelming. To remain curious and open to new experiences too, while acknowledging the wounds I carry. There are times when I would feel a sense of purpose when I work at a job I like and seems to make a difference in some people's lives. Then at other times, my sense of purpose will be contained in one moment, or one vision - like seeing the smile of the person I love the most. It's something that makes me feel like life is suspended, and I don't need anything more than seeing this joy in them.
It probably sounds a bit cheesy... but all of this to say, that sometimes it can also be a matter of perspective. Eternity, meaning, completude and wholeness can be found in simple things, as much as greater objectives. It can be flexible, like an ever-changing experience, depending on where you look at, and what you choose to value.
All in all, it's never too late to be on a road towards more self-discovery. It's never too late to start, never too late to continue either. :heart:
Please do Can't Handle This by Bo Burnham
"I don't deserve to have you..." from my perspective is saying that he deserves better. The pain he's experiencing is unnecessary and can be eliminated completely by ending the relationship. IMHO
he's trying to convince himself his heart is too dark to care
I listened to this song 10 times a day after my divorce
I have that feeling that my hart is to dark to care I really do not believe in love anymore because of it
From Lisalovesfeathers: @user-ye4tz9ej6e Hi Friend
It sounds like you are or have been through a very difficult time that has left you despondent, hurt and maybe even scared and when that happens we do one of two things we fight or we flee.
Is your heart dark or is it in pain because someone has damaged it? do you really not believe in love or has you belief in love been tainted by somone who treated you poorly??
What is so sad is people come into our lives and mess with our heads and hearts and then leave us to pick up the pieces and that can take a long time, just because they don't care or they can walk away doesnt mean you feel the same, some of us hold on to the feeling from the good times and wish for that feeling back and no it is not fair. But that does not mean that your life of love, compassion, togetherness is over it just might mean its going to take a little time to learn to trust again. I belive that it will happen for you and I know you deserve it to. best wishes to you. Lisa. x
@HeartSupport I have trust like really badly I have been taking a vantage of because I am a vary nice person and I just do not know way
From Lisalovesfeathers: @user-ye4tz9ej6e Because you are a wonderfully nice person who thinks that if you are good to everyone, they in turn will be the same exact way to you. Wouldn't that be amazing if it were true?
The saving grace here is it is not a reflection on you, it is a reflection on them. The only fault on your part is trusting to deeply and maybe to fast? but only you know if that is the case, the problem comes when peoples behavior takes you from that to not trusting at all, its a delicate line to find that even keel.
Decide how you want to be treated, decided what you will and will not accept from anyone and stick to it, at first it is very hard to do that, it is easier to talk to others about it to give yourself courage and belief in yourself but once you start doing it you will find it easier and easier and before you know it that is how you will be and others will know it from the start. Once again its about learning the line between letting people know your boundaries and being standoffish but it is doable, it is a new concept and it takes practice and patience. I have faith in you and I wish you luck. x
Went from breaking down songs on a therapeutic level and now with thr "singer" it's just a convo about the song and him adding nothing to breaking down vocals...
Like the solo reactions more!
Sad that this great songs reaction was just a conversation between friends and not a real break down like we usually get...
Ah yes, shame and fear. My two middle names.
But i am alone
It's about his ex wife
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You missed the best line . It took the death of hope to let you go🎉
Break up song
I don't like it this much when you react togheter.