This happened to me in the last relationship, in the behgining he valued it a lot but later on he started to take it for granted (this started when i put some limits), the one thing he didn't know was that i was emotionally strong enough to leave him, i did it 👯♀️
Seems like I’ll have to do the same thing. I’m very loyal and don’t date around yet it seems lately he’s been taking me for granted. I’ve never cursed, yelled, disrespected, nor talked about him or his loved ones in negative light and make sure to resolve conflict by communicating well. I’m also very affectionate and give him space. Still, he thought I’ll be forever around since I “like him” soooooo much. Little does he know I don’t tolerate disrespect and being taken for granted. Some men will never learn until they get stung..
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f Partner needs to be carefully chosen, it's a very important part of our lives that affects all the other areas and it's our own responsibility to choose well. Attending therapy helps a lot in the process of selecting a good partner (and also give you the strenght to deny the wrong candidates) 🩷
YES! You are talking to ME. Everything Derrick is saying is true. Twice, gave all my LOVE & LOYALTY and both husbands took me for granted. I am the one that left both times and both of them regretted it. NEVER underestimate A WOMAN!
Yes, I loved him unconditionally for 12 years, the more love I gave him the more he played me and took me for granted. I’ve been single for five years now, I have learned to love Myself, so much so that I could never again be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t love me the way I love me. I’m glad I stumbled upon your channel I wish more Men thought like you😊
Hey, you're correct, so I'm put it in the chat He took my kindness, generousity, and loyalty for granted. I walked 🚶♀️ away He has been crying 😢 😭 For yearsssssss He's still crying to get back NEVERRRRR NEVERRRRR NEVERRRRR. And you know what's laughable? I don't have a pinch of coffee drop feeling for him. Now... that experience made me a wiser person about my love, and protect my good energy and my love ❤️ I'm pouring it all into myself ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊 HA! LOVE ME SOME ME 😊
Hey @wandabryant1275, I want to commend you for sharing your thoughts and feelings in this video. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and open up about your struggles. Remember, it's completely normal to have moments of doubt or uncertainty in relationships. The key is to communicate openly with your partner and work together to find solutions. If you ever need guidance or support, don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted male relationship coach like myself. And speaking of support, I recently launched a new master class that delves deep into building strong, healthy relationships. Be sure to check it out in the description below. Keep staying strong and remember that you're never alone on this journey. Take care!
The. Most beautiful thing is self love on both parties and reciprating to each other. On the same wave of love and can communicate their emotions. Emotional, Caring and Loving with Understanding upon Respect.. LOYALTY IS POWER
Thank you for sharing this honest wisdom. Oh, to have been raised with this understanding but now I can look back at my younger self with this understanding and see things so clearly and with forgiveness for my younger self. Also to see the now and future having this understanding is exciting. Thanks again for sharing this,sir. May the loyal women out there hear this and grow from it.😃👍
You are always 100% right! How do you know all this? You are amazing. Thank you for being you & sharing this important truth. Men are valuable to real women & we need all men to know this so we can look up to men & love you as the leader you are created to be. Yes, we want to be loyal so please hear all these messages so we can be there with you. Exactly how God intended. ❤
Because he did all of this the best teachers are only ones who been through the mess they took or either put out. If you never experience anything you have no stories to tell.
I’ve been there twice and sadly am there again. I’m numb. And I loved him. All I wanted was the absolute best for him and I pushed him to be his best for him. I wanted everything for him that he wanted, supported him, loyal, listened, really listened, I’d have been there if he lost it all… I was there for anything … and he’s taken me for granted so badly I’m just numb now
Bc he was my first luv as teenager when we got older we have a relationship it's going on 22yrs all of a sudden he turn on me I gave him my all that was my down fall
Mr. Derrick you are telling the truth I'm a loyal woman I was in a relationship for 7 years and he did not know how good he had it until he messed up a lot I left him and moved on
Yes.... Both.. Real unselfish not needing love.. Like a fully accepted love.. Its one unmatchable.. but on the other if given to person who hasnt built that same ... And given to the one who act like they ready.. Then when it gets withdrawaled then it potentially does damage.. that person takes it out on themself.. or the memory becomes a permanent reminder.. That can make them obsessive And break their life from inside out.. From observer view it reminds ppl why discipline is emphasized in life overall.. And why relations are sacred.. It is a real no bullshit energy.. And brings back yourself to yourself.. of feeling the effects of your actions and actions that become loose It has the power to make or break.. And can very well also be seen as cursed or blessing.. 🙏 Edit: Wait..im talking about unconditional love which is respect to self.. loyalty is just a after effect to this So loyalty.. can be unhealthy.. That looks like loyalty.. acts like loyalty.. breaths like loyalty But is not genuine loyalty Thats a different level..
I was taken for granted I was there for him 100 %But I got tried of not being good enough So I decided to walk away I learned how to love myself I'm to old to be playing games ❤
You’re so correct about all of it!!! I hope in the end No, I know in the end it will be his loss. I’m a damn good woman. It’s time to take my power back. I hear 2024 is the year for it. Thank you. I also have grown in my faith in Jesus God, I pray. Amen 🙏
This happened to me in the last relationship, in the behgining he valued it a lot but later on he started to take it for granted (this started when i put some limits), the one thing he didn't know was that i was emotionally strong enough to leave him, i did it 👯♀️
Seems like I’ll have to do the same thing. I’m very loyal and don’t date around yet it seems lately he’s been taking me for granted. I’ve never cursed, yelled, disrespected, nor talked about him or his loved ones in negative light and make sure to resolve conflict by communicating well. I’m also very affectionate and give him space. Still, he thought I’ll be forever around since I “like him” soooooo much. Little does he know I don’t tolerate disrespect and being taken for granted. Some men will never learn until they get stung..
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f Partner needs to be carefully chosen, it's a very important part of our lives that affects all the other areas and it's our own responsibility to choose well. Attending therapy helps a lot in the process of selecting a good partner (and also give you the strenght to deny the wrong candidates) 🩷
It real
You go girl, leave them no good ninjas. We can do bad by ourselves
YES! You are talking to ME. Everything Derrick is saying is true. Twice, gave all my LOVE & LOYALTY and both husbands took me for granted. I am the one that left both times and both of them regretted it. NEVER underestimate A WOMAN!
Sorry to hear that you went through this twice , glad you made it out for better things
@@MsTwiththeTea1980
Thank you for the nice words. Life is better for me now. If you are a Sagittarius…..HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂
@@anitamendez116 I’m a Virgo ♍️ ☺️glad you are better
My ex really believed he could behave like whatever and I wouldnt leave. He really thought that. Astounding.
Yes, I loved him unconditionally for 12 years, the more love I gave him the more he played me and took me for granted. I’ve been single for five years now, I have learned to love Myself, so much so that I could never again be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t love me the way I love me. I’m glad I stumbled upon your channel I wish more Men thought like you😊
You did the right thing girl
We should never want to be with these type of men. We can love ourselves and be perfect alone
I went through that. I gave 100 % but it wasn't enough and it came to the point where my heart got harden
Same here my friend
Same here girl. All of should start looking for other ethnicities of men to be with.
Loyalty is a killer in some instances.
Thanks alot.👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hey, you're correct, so I'm put it in the chat
He took my kindness, generousity, and loyalty for granted. I walked 🚶♀️ away
He has been crying 😢 😭
For yearsssssss He's still crying to get back
NEVERRRRR NEVERRRRR NEVERRRRR. And you know what's laughable? I don't have a pinch of coffee drop feeling for him.
Now... that experience made me a wiser person about my love, and protect my good energy and my love ❤️ I'm pouring it all into myself ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊 HA! LOVE ME SOME ME 😊
Hey @wandabryant1275, I want to commend you for sharing your thoughts and feelings in this video. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and open up about your struggles. Remember, it's completely normal to have moments of doubt or uncertainty in relationships. The key is to communicate openly with your partner and work together to find solutions. If you ever need guidance or support, don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted male relationship coach like myself. And speaking of support, I recently launched a new master class that delves deep into building strong, healthy relationships. Be sure to check it out in the description below. Keep staying strong and remember that you're never alone on this journey. Take care!
I loved and was loyal...after 40 years with no reciprocity...I had to walk away 😢
Me too
I am so sorry :-/
The. Most beautiful thing is self love on both parties and reciprating to each other. On the same wave of love and can communicate their emotions. Emotional, Caring and Loving with Understanding upon Respect..
LOYALTY IS POWER
Everything you said is true… God Bless you brother… keep encouraging women like myself.
Thank you for sharing this honest wisdom. Oh, to have been raised with this understanding but now I can look back at my younger self with this understanding and see things so clearly and with forgiveness for my younger self. Also to see the now and future having this understanding is exciting. Thanks again for sharing this,sir. May the loyal women out there hear this and grow from it.😃👍
The real love I received is myself loving again with the love of God that showed me that I'm better than what he thought
Amen speak the truth brother!
I left a 14 year marriage 3 1/2 years ago. I've known him for 17 years. I think God for my mental strength Amen.
Blessings to you queen
@@MsTwiththeTea1980 thank you very much. Continued blessings to you as well. From one Queen to another. God bless you.
@@dorothymjackson2693 thank you ☺️
I was taken for granted, and I can't understand why he couldn't see what was in front of him.
Yes I am currently going through this after 17 years. 17 years I've waited and now he wants say he loves me now that I've given up.
I'm going through the same thing after 21yrs
@@satanyahenderson6283oh wow
Sorry to hear
This spoke volumes you hit every note that needed to be spoken you’ve earned a follower will be tuning in more often I need this ❤
Peace love and light to all!💚
Peace and love to you as well
You are always 100% right! How do you know all this? You are amazing. Thank you for being you & sharing this important truth. Men are valuable to real women & we need all men to know this so we can look up to men & love you as the leader you are created to be. Yes, we want to be loyal so please hear all these messages so we can be there with you. Exactly how God intended. ❤
Because he did all of this the best teachers are only ones who been through the mess they took or either put out. If you never experience anything you have no stories to tell.
Very true. I've been single for 11yrs and have a very low tolerance for bs. I luv my peace.
Loving the Glasses on you D also you been bringing it. Nothing but FACTS sir🤞🏾💯
Here!....Here!.....!!!!!on point!!!
That was me at one point I gave all I could then after I left u wanted to act right I still never took him back
Yup I was loyal and he ghosted, now he wants to comeback, it's a no for me.
I derrick, I just married someone like that,and on the edge of leaving
Leave. It won't get better. ❤
I’ve been there twice and sadly am there again. I’m numb. And I loved him. All I wanted was the absolute best for him and I pushed him to be his best for him. I wanted everything for him that he wanted, supported him, loyal, listened, really listened, I’d have been there if he lost it all… I was there for anything … and he’s taken me for granted so badly I’m just numb now
Yup! You definitely correct
Compatibility and respsct for one another for it to be poowerful..
With the same beliefs, won't be no stopping them
You so right DJ
Always on point ..useful lessons..❤
Yes yes , omg yup by time that person came around it was too late and it was aggravating me I left never looked back 💯
I earned the courage to walk away without looking back or call
That's real power. Most can't do that.
Thank you so much for this!!
So very true brother of mine wow your messages are super amazing content please keep up with the good work bless ya bro❤
Yes, told me that I tried.....was never enough
Your talking what’s happening in my life. Ty sm for your insight it helps and hurts
Bc he was my first luv as teenager when we got older we have a relationship it's going on 22yrs all of a sudden he turn on me I gave him my all that was my down fall
Thank you I need this message
Yes! This gas happened on several occasions.
Thank you
You are absolutely correct🌹
Yes the more I gave the more he took me for granted insane treatment for a good woman as I am, but Some can't see your value
James 4:17 -
Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.
Yes Derrick he took me for granted 😢
You are right!
All facts that’s what happened in my last relationship
Amen ,I've been in situations like that.
TRUTHH 🙌 ❤❤❤❤❤
Mr. Derrick you are telling the truth I'm a loyal woman I was in a relationship for 7 years and he did not know how good he had it until he messed up a lot I left him and moved on
Yes! Had to finally walk away
Great topic
Thank you for this ... Bravo 👏 👏 👏
Amen amen and amen!
Absolutely
True brother, you are not trapping. I m from Africa
Amen brother!!
This exactly happened!
Gave it my all!🙏🏽❤️
Almost 54. Most definitely don't have time for any nonsense. 💯
True, Brother 🙏🙏
The glasses look nice bro ✋🏽
Yes and it’s heart breaking because everything was going great.
Well said n straight up to the point. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yes.... Both..
Real unselfish not needing love..
Like a fully accepted love..
Its one unmatchable.. but on the other if given to person who hasnt built that same ... And given to the one who act like they ready..
Then when it gets withdrawaled then it potentially does damage..
that person takes it out on themself.. or the memory becomes a permanent reminder..
That can make them obsessive
And break their life from inside out..
From observer view it reminds ppl why discipline is emphasized in life overall..
And why relations are sacred..
It is a real no bullshit energy..
And brings back yourself to yourself.. of feeling the effects of your actions and actions that become loose
It has the power to make or break..
And can very well also be seen as cursed or blessing.. 🙏
Edit: Wait..im talking about unconditional love which is respect to self.. loyalty is just a after effect to this
So loyalty.. can be unhealthy..
That looks like loyalty.. acts like loyalty.. breaths like loyalty
But is not genuine loyalty
Thats a different level..
❤Thanks , and❤ Shalom❤❤.
Love this video!!
Only takes intelligence for anyone to even have the capacity to understand this(your words)That God may bless you 🙏
Useful content👍Thank you🙏
Powerful video!
I loved him unconditionally!😢
Exactly brother
IM THIS POWER AND ITS TRULY EXHAUSTING
I was taken for granted I was there for him 100 %But I got tried of not being good enough So I decided to walk away I learned how to love myself I'm to old to be playing games ❤
Yo bro how did you know my business??? You're on point 👏👏👏👏
You’re so correct about all of it!!! I hope in the end No, I know in the end it will be his loss. I’m a damn good woman. It’s time to take my power back. I hear 2024 is the year for it. Thank you. I also have grown in my faith in Jesus God, I pray. Amen 🙏
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This is so very true very tru
Thank you for this video. It deeply speaks to me on what I am currently going through.
Yes! The ship has sailed!
This so true. Teach😢
❤yes you right ❤
You
I hear you keep telling the truth
So true.
I did.
Yep I've been there. 💯💯💯💯
100% true and im ready to leave and I never thought I would leave him but I cant take no more!!!!!!!!
You are correct. She needs to hear you out.
Yes, it happened to me 😢
I can relate
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100
Shalom Internet Brotha 💎
No your not tripping on and yes the more i did they took me for granted when i left they always wanted me back
Very true
Yes, I was just there and I ended checked out because, I'm worth more!
Medusa is who I relate to❤
Indeed the more I gave the more he took!!!
Yes
That's my investment and I'm still growing and feeding my brains and body as well as spirit.. I chose me
Yes you are so right😢 that wad me
Yep. 😊
Exactly
Truth!!
I can relate😢
Correct