Yhooo 🙆🏾♀️ This thing of bekezela is not working,red flags were there my lady.l thank God ngokuthumela umlayezo wakhe ngo Pastor NJ Sithole.ungangathandwa ngabanye abantu kodwa UNkulunkulu uyakuthanda ngothando lweqiniso.futhi nathi kumele sifunde ukuzithanda kuqala b4 sithande omunye umuntu.,loko kuyasiza empilweni
Tjoooo 🙆♀️ did God confirm this marriage from the beginning? I'm scared to get married lord have mercy and grant us grace of wisdom, coz I want family in my life..... Tjoooo sorry mama from being a virgin to marry such kind of a men, but God of heaven will wipe your tears
Red flags, the guy has two children from different mothers as a christian lady never been exposed to men will be a question. Ladies we need to pray and get confirmation from God if we are getting in to a courtship. Most of the time we marry wrong people because of pressure. What I know God will show you red flags but we avoid them because of desperation.
When the abuser has a bible! There are very good and loving men out there, they are not celebrated. This man and his family are evil, they deserve each other. They tried to break her and failed. Purity culture inkinga nayo
God will use.u in a special way mtanam Awusona isilima,No Nkulunkulu wazi i end from the beginning Be still and know that He still is God You are engraved in the palms of His Hands He knows you You are a strong woman of God Take courage
Thanks god wangipha umamazala oneqiniso waze wangithannda umama ongendazi nam ngashata ndimncane kodwa uthando owandiphapha lona may yr soul continue rest in peace Raisibe Elizabeth Mabotja still love u mamazala wam .
Thank you for creating this platform, siyabonga nakumama for sharing. There is an issue that umama talks about from 3:05, her first sexual experience. This issue yiskhalo sosisi abaniiiingi, not all though, kodwa abaningi abakholwayo; a traumatic first-sexual experience. This does not need an episode and I'm not blaming anyone. I just wish that the church can create a safe space for health and sexual education for abasha abakhulile... Ibe ngendlela ehlakaniphile, that allows health professionals, ABASINDISIWE, to come and teach... So that umuntu omusha osindisiwe abe well equipped in the things that concerns his or her body... Ngendlela ekholwayo! This responsibility must not be left to the matron osiza umuntu uma eyoshada... Ku late kakhulu lapho... It must be in the environment yokukholwa (very important). Umuntu omusha osindisiwe abe ne knowledge ngomzimba wakhe... Ayithola endaweni akhonza kiyo.... Ngoba baningi abafundisayo ngalokhu... Kodwa sometime bayaphambana nenkolo yethu.
Uyazi nje unfortunately I gentleness ivele ingabikho kubafowethu even nisazama ukwazana kangcono. Ngihlala ngisola ukuthi nokuba overly serious kube nzima ukukubiza ngamagama amnandi is a serious problem nje. Nako kukhomba ukuthi Uma sekuyisikhathi sokwenza "inkonzo" ngeke kube kuhle. This hurts seriously and it's an insult to God. Cause Uma uziphethe kahle empeleni kungoba kusho uNkulunkulu. Iyacasula le nto. Ukudlala ngobuntombi or ubunsizwa bomuntu ukukhohlakala, futhi sekufanele kube negama eli serious.
@@LukeRev480eish 💔 True... Ukuba serious/strict kakhulu kuyalimaza when it comes to izinto zothando. Khona it is high time zibakhona lezinkulumo kubasha... God is love... The author of love... His children must master lomkhakha lo.
Iqiniso nje ukuthi imishado eminingi inje. Abaningi bathi awuhambi ngani. Ama logistics okuhamba awalula.Usuka ufuna kodwa kweisnye isikhathi usazama to get finances. At times ure waiting on the right time esp with kids.ngoba ucabanga ukuthi nizolala phansi kwebridge. Usuka ususithathile isinqumo. Uyazama indlela.
I always tell sisters, girls and ladies if it is not a will of God don't get married, especially if you a Christian . Many ladies keep their husbands by muthi which is not good
2 children from different mothers, kwakuyi red flag yokuqala nje leyo. Obaba nomama ababephethe izindaba zakho zomshado ngyabasola mina mama abayiphathanga neze ngendlela nje indaba yakho.
@@user-np5ug2xu6h I hear that, but who opened the gates? Who gave that woman keys? Who granted her the right to insult the wife? The host is just enjoying pointing a fingure to women. He should be balanced .
@@LukeRev480 hence i said they are all equally responsible the husband for cheating on his wife, the girlfriend for opening her legs to a married man and the wife for staying with the cheater, and the wife was an independent financially independent working woman i don’t know why she stayed with him
As for the wife, I think she kept giving him the benefit of the doubt, maybe a little too long. It's really hard when you are trying to apply what the Bible says which is trying to love people and dealing with just evil people. It takes time to realise that this person is actually not just mean, he is evil. I can empathize with her cause maybe initially she thought she was loved. The husband would have a special punishment a ccording to me, he targeted her, he never ever saw her as a person, let alone love her.
@@LukeRev480 you are right but Bible or not as Christian’s we must learn once a person shows you who they really are, believe them (eg bringing another woman in your marital home) that’s just inexcusable to me and reveals a person’s character and that they don’t care about you at all
@@jobesithole5590 I agree,what I've notice abafana abasindiseki maybe by choice andazi ,kodwa labantu abomoyiki uThixo n they very insensitive, even our congregations are failing them cz as girls we get a lot of teaching yet they don't or get minimal....Hayi soncedwa nguThixo ngabayeni abasifanele cz kuningi
Sad when she says "Kade umshado waphela", and I'm thinking Azange ubekhona to start with
Such a smart lady, why subject yourself to this suffering. I am glad you did not proceed with the suicide
A man's heart is desperately wicked who can know it
Yhooo 🙆🏾♀️
This thing of bekezela is not working,red flags were there my lady.l thank God ngokuthumela umlayezo wakhe ngo Pastor NJ Sithole.ungangathandwa ngabanye abantu kodwa UNkulunkulu uyakuthanda ngothando lweqiniso.futhi nathi kumele sifunde ukuzithanda kuqala b4 sithande omunye umuntu.,loko kuyasiza empilweni
I couldn't stop saying yooooo while watching this podcast, Haibo mama you are very strong woman of God.
Tjoooo 🙆♀️ did God confirm this marriage from the beginning? I'm scared to get married lord have mercy and grant us grace of wisdom, coz I want family in my life..... Tjoooo sorry mama from being a virgin to marry such kind of a men, but God of heaven will wipe your tears
I also suffered 😢in my marriage until I divorced him such is life.
Red flags, the guy has two children from different mothers as a christian lady never been exposed to men will be a question. Ladies we need to pray and get confirmation from God if we are getting in to a courtship. Most of the time we marry wrong people because of pressure. What I know God will show you red flags but we avoid them because of desperation.
Very true
Isbindi salomuntu wesfazane... I'm so sorry mama for what you went through, my mother went through the same thing..
Men don’t mind marrying you even when they don’t love you.
Because marriage is not about love
@@sbongisenindwandwe
I didn't know
Kanti it about what brother
@@patiencesanelisiwe5845 it’s about having a partner to share life experiences with, nibe ndawonye, nibe munye,nenze izinto ndawonye
When the abuser has a bible! There are very good and loving men out there, they are not celebrated. This man and his family are evil, they deserve each other. They tried to break her and failed. Purity culture inkinga nayo
Same as women I have experience of that for me it simply means there are evil people from both sides and they're the ones who always get married
I once counseled umama mfundisi who went through similar situation and worse, I almost had an heart attack
God will use.u in a special way mtanam
Awusona isilima,No Nkulunkulu wazi i end from the beginning
Be still and know that He still is God
You are engraved in the palms of His Hands
He knows you
You are a strong woman of God
Take courage
Jyooo mntase wabuva ubuhlungu kodwa ngibonga into eyodwa ukuba uyazana no Thixo uyokukhulumela cc methembe njalo 🙏👏🙌😭
Those were red flags, you are really a strong woman i salute you🙌🙌
TikTok brought me here🎉🎉🎉
Oneday he wil feel the pain double .Don't worry ..Yu do the right thing to forgive him
Obhedayo, yilo wesifazane owehla enyuka nendoda yomuntu ekholwa, bangcolisa ivangeli bobabili nalendoda bakhohlakele, abamusu kucasha ngevangeli
Worse usisi wase sontweni yhooooooooo hayini Mani 😢😢😢
You are strong ngoba amadoda ayosifica isono wayefuna nje ukuthatha ubuntombi bakho losatane
Thank you mama, thank sharing for this story
Thanks god wangipha umamazala oneqiniso waze wangithannda umama ongendazi nam ngashata ndimncane kodwa uthando owandiphapha lona may yr soul continue rest in peace Raisibe Elizabeth Mabotja still love u mamazala wam .
Ay yabuhlungu into😢😢
Such a painful experience that you went through kodwa nkosyam 😢😢😢
Thank you for creating this platform, siyabonga nakumama for sharing.
There is an issue that umama talks about from 3:05, her first sexual experience. This issue yiskhalo sosisi abaniiiingi, not all though, kodwa abaningi abakholwayo; a traumatic first-sexual experience.
This does not need an episode and I'm not blaming anyone.
I just wish that the church can create a safe space for health and sexual education for abasha abakhulile... Ibe ngendlela ehlakaniphile, that allows health professionals, ABASINDISIWE, to come and teach... So that umuntu omusha osindisiwe abe well equipped in the things that concerns his or her body... Ngendlela ekholwayo!
This responsibility must not be left to the matron osiza umuntu uma eyoshada... Ku late kakhulu lapho... It must be in the environment yokukholwa (very important).
Umuntu omusha osindisiwe abe ne knowledge ngomzimba wakhe... Ayithola endaweni akhonza kiyo.... Ngoba baningi abafundisayo ngalokhu... Kodwa sometime bayaphambana nenkolo yethu.
Thank you so much for your input 😊😊❤️❤️. We believe the episode it's gonna help many
Uyazi nje unfortunately I gentleness ivele ingabikho kubafowethu even nisazama ukwazana kangcono. Ngihlala ngisola ukuthi nokuba overly serious kube nzima ukukubiza ngamagama amnandi is a serious problem nje. Nako kukhomba ukuthi Uma sekuyisikhathi sokwenza "inkonzo" ngeke kube kuhle.
This hurts seriously and it's an insult to God. Cause Uma uziphethe kahle empeleni kungoba kusho uNkulunkulu. Iyacasula le nto.
Ukudlala ngobuntombi or ubunsizwa bomuntu ukukhohlakala, futhi sekufanele kube negama eli serious.
@@LukeRev480eish 💔
True... Ukuba serious/strict kakhulu kuyalimaza when it comes to izinto zothando. Khona it is high time zibakhona lezinkulumo kubasha... God is love... The author of love... His children must master lomkhakha lo.
@@thabanistdlaminithank you
@@sunflawa True
Thank you for being strong as a woman and stand for your self, ekugcineni syafunda singabesifazane
💖💖💖💖🙏🙏
Ngeba ndawushiya kwalomzi soze 😢😢😢 yhooooo wakwazi unyamezela
😢😢Ey nkosyami u sis Nozipho, abamthandanga nje from the beginning, she was been used kabuhlungu, nasekhaya kubo pho 😢😢😢ew yaze yabuhlungu lendaba.
Umfazi ngokuzwisa omunye umfazi ubuhlungu, yhoooo uworse lomazala
Yhoo yabuhlungu intliziyo yam uxolo Mama
Istha somuntu wesfazane umuntu wesfazane kwaze kwabuhlungu😢😢😢😢😢
Very painful 😣
I don't understand!!!! Leya ndoda yavula umnyango we mimoya emibi emzini wayo but you are blaming the woman!!
Joooh Ngaze ngasaba...
It's a very painful testimony but we give God all the glory. Our God is so faithful He's got good plans for you mama not to harm but to prosper you
Thanks for creating this for abazalwane
And thank you for your endless supports
You must go deeper many sisters and brothers are hurt inside the church time to cough out
True abazaloane are dying inside 😢
@@mapuseletsomareka4385 kakhulu cc Siya fihla
Please include English subtitles
Eish, very painful, i know the pain my dear Yeah
I am young divorcee ,yhooo mama I don't think amadoda ayasindiseka nje cz these people are insensitive 😢😢😢😢😢
Do not loose hope my daughter, there is a man that created for you be patient and pray
Iqiniso nje ukuthi imishado eminingi inje. Abaningi bathi awuhambi ngani. Ama logistics okuhamba awalula.Usuka ufuna kodwa kweisnye isikhathi usazama to get finances. At times ure waiting on the right time esp with kids.ngoba ucabanga ukuthi nizolala phansi kwebridge. Usuka ususithathile isinqumo. Uyazama indlela.
Mama u went thru hell but God will fight your battle 🙏 Psalm 46:10
I wonder umtshato is really worthy it
Painful memories
😢
I always tell sisters, girls and ladies if it is not a will of God don't get married, especially if you a Christian . Many ladies keep their husbands by muthi which is not good
I wonder baphi namhlanje
Hayi cha nalentombi ikhona boo
Kwaze jwabuhlungu eeeeeu😭
I went through the same in my marriage, even today i hate marriage, yooh sorry sisi i feel your pain
Iam in tears 😢😢😢😢😢my heart is 😢😢
2 children from different mothers, kwakuyi red flag yokuqala nje leyo. Obaba nomama ababephethe izindaba zakho zomshado ngyabasola mina mama abayiphathanga neze ngendlela nje indaba yakho.
Hawu Jesu
Tjo. You Are very Brave My Sister.
You Are Called For Great Things
Mina Cha Ngeke Ngilunge..
Andizi🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♀️🚶♀️
😀😀😀 we are tested in different ways
I think he married u mah because she was a virgin but he loved the other woman
And that she was a church person
Mmmh. He is evil! I hope she knows that not all men are like this. They tried to break her and failed!
First 10 mins ishubile 😮 yoooh
Akusilo ikholwa lelo yazi ave besiphoxa bantu besilisa
Kubuhlungu ukuzwa into enjena sisacela U part 2
We need part 2 please...ibuhlungu kodwa lendaba.Wasizakala kanjani u cc.
Part 2 broadcasted hope you've seen it
Ei amanye amadoda ayahlukumezana.
Hey Yoo ngekeeeee
Mmmmm cc wami phephisa sthandwa 💔💔💔💔😢
Yhoo😢
Why are you saying "isibindi kubantu besifazane" ngendoda e disrespect umkayo?
He is referring to the other woman for having to come to another woman’s home worse of all being umzalwane
@@user-np5ug2xu6h I hear that, but who opened the gates? Who gave that woman keys? Who granted her the right to insult the wife?
The host is just enjoying pointing a fingure to women. He should be balanced .
@@LukeRev480 hence i said they are all equally responsible the husband for cheating on his wife, the girlfriend for opening her legs to a married man and the wife for staying with the cheater, and the wife was an independent financially independent working woman i don’t know why she stayed with him
As for the wife, I think she kept giving him the benefit of the doubt, maybe a little too long. It's really hard when you are trying to apply what the Bible says which is trying to love people and dealing with just evil people. It takes time to realise that this person is actually not just mean, he is evil. I can empathize with her cause maybe initially she thought she was loved. The husband would have a special punishment a ccording to me, he targeted her, he never ever saw her as a person, let alone love her.
@@LukeRev480 you are right but Bible or not as Christian’s we must learn once a person shows you who they really are, believe them (eg bringing another woman in your marital home) that’s just inexcusable to me and reveals a person’s character and that they don’t care about you at all
Cha lomama akanalo iqiniso ubeyivumela kanjani into embi kangaka?💔
Asifan singabantu
Njani ba akanaqiniso?
Hyoooo 🙆🙆🙆
yooh!
Mmm kwaze kwabhlungu 😭
Eeeey
Wow wow wow isibindi za kgona. Wickedness of the highest disorder
😢😢😢kinin ngith yooo
Lord help us
💔💔💔💔💔💔 Yoh aiy bandla
Maye yint eyenzek ngempela lento or kuyaxoxwa nj indaba
My Cc ❤️❤️ it's a true story indeed
😢😢😢😢
This is painful
Lord help us
You’ve been through hell sisi angekhe
Hhay bo😭😭😭😭haw loMamezala waze waba yiSatanist Kanye neNdodana yakhe yoooh😭😭😭😭🚮🚮🚮kodwa Nkulunkulu wami😭
😢😢😢
Jeso silekelele
What mama
Ngisho kukhona into ewa phansi ngisathuka ngalokho kuthuka😄.....ewwww ncese mama, its worse being done like this by isigebengu esicashe behind church.
😢😮💔🙏
Phephisa
Ahh jehova
Oko ndilinde upart 2 haykengok😌💔 it seems like this podcast is failing us
😂😂 how is it failing you now? You are so impatience.
It's gonna be Broadcasted today at 19hrs
Zulu Men some of them are disgusting what is that to bring a girlfriend to your wife s home 😅😅
Man in general basile
Not Zulu man only but men in general make no mistake. There are only few good men.
Saze saduma kabi ezweni bakithi🙄
The man is not Zulu, he's Swati
Mmmm niyapila boh 🤔🤔
Eeeey it's hard
Part 2
Yhoo indoda esontayo? people are playing church
Ukusonta nokuba nobudlelwane no Thixo izinto ezimbili ezehlukene. Umuntu owazi uJehova ( hayi osontayo) akayigili imikhuba.
Inkinga bathi bathole uJesu, mntu azeze nto egeyiyo ,Tsotsi babazalwana
@@Sheilzdarlingz kukhona abantu abathola uJesu bese bephila impilo enjalo. Bese kuba khona abathi bathole uJesu bese beba otsotsi bezibiza ngama kholwa. Azifani lezinto noma sekuba engathi kunjalo.
@@jobesithole5590 I agree,what I've notice abafana abasindiseki maybe by choice andazi ,kodwa labantu abomoyiki uThixo n they very insensitive, even our congregations are failing them cz as girls we get a lot of teaching yet they don't or get minimal....Hayi soncedwa nguThixo ngabayeni abasifanele cz kuningi
@@Sheilzdarlingz Kunzima Noma. Ingakho ubona imishado yabantu abasindisiwe ibhidlika. Indaba isekumoyikeni uThixo. Umoyika njani ? Ulandela izwi. Kolunga ngenye imini.
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