Ep. 39 I SACRIFICED My Marriage In The Name Of The Ministry, My 2nd Marriage Killed Me Alive.

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  • Опубліковано 8 лип 2024
  • We hosted Apostle Qaphelani Dladla known from Zion Church Preaching the Gospel of salvation, he's a Preacher of the Word. we invited him to talk about the pain he's enduring after losing his wife just after a few months they got married.

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  • @maryannMashaba
    @maryannMashaba 14 днів тому +58

    I've never seen such honest genuine pastor.....may the Lord restore him like Job in 100 fold

  • @graceletty9268
    @graceletty9268 16 днів тому +88

    From tik tok ❤

  • @ThuliMamba-b5c
    @ThuliMamba-b5c 16 днів тому +43

    😢😢😢engingakusho ukuthi ziningi inhlupheko zolungileyo. Kodwa u Jehovah uyamkhulula kuzo zonke.

  • @yvonnemdaka3125
    @yvonnemdaka3125 12 днів тому +17

    Many are the afflictions of the righteous man, may our God in heaven heal your heart and give you mercy in the name of Jesus Christ 🙌

  • @zandilemnyandu470
    @zandilemnyandu470 16 днів тому +46

    His faith is something else! 🔥😫🙌🏽

  • @nonkumbulomnyaka1939
    @nonkumbulomnyaka1939 16 днів тому +40

    He literally poured his heart out…💔

  • @NorahHlatshwayo
    @NorahHlatshwayo 17 днів тому +47

    Baba u DLADLA ,THE BATTLE IS NOT YOURS, AWKE UHLABELELE KANCANE UTHI THULA MOYA WAMI ULALELE UJESU BESE UTHI WENA NKOSI UYAZI

  • @NqobileNgcobo-wy1de
    @NqobileNgcobo-wy1de 13 днів тому +19

    TikTok people let gather here

  • @phumzilesylvia147
    @phumzilesylvia147 14 днів тому +11

    I am so sorry Apostle Dladla, I knew sis Thabsile way back in 2017, I lost my mom she was there, she was ever smiling with a beautiful smile, Amthanda UNkulunkulu and yes uqinisile ubethanda a clean space, ube nomoya omuhle kubantu bonke abanaye 😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 17 днів тому +54

    The instrumental strings at the beginning of the podcast 😭😭😭😭😭 . I’ll watch tomorrow.

    • @Lovesihle
      @Lovesihle 17 днів тому +2

      😭

    • @yvonnelekhafola9833
      @yvonnelekhafola9833 16 днів тому +2

      I had to forward it

    • @neegee3755
      @neegee3755 16 днів тому +3

      Sengibuye emsebenzini ngabuka . Le ndoda ihamba no Nkulunkulu ophilayo. Grace is upon him. May God heal him ❤️🙏🏼

    • @nomasangonama3206
      @nomasangonama3206 14 днів тому

      💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @RosaliaMathibeli
      @RosaliaMathibeli 13 днів тому

      1

  • @user-ec8bf5uw9q
    @user-ec8bf5uw9q 13 днів тому +10

    Oh God please Heal him my Lord wena wedwa wethembekile awohluleki,Apostle I feel your pain,my heart is so painful.Be strong and be healed in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

  • @NoloM-de4zh
    @NoloM-de4zh 11 днів тому +12

    Sbonge naku host for being a great host by just listening 😢

    • @constancefaithful1451
      @constancefaithful1451 5 днів тому

      The best allowing the guests to share their story without disturbing 🎉🎉🎉

  • @mmaphakamanamela5942
    @mmaphakamanamela5942 16 днів тому +22

    What they told Pastor Dladla was told to me in 2015 when my late husband was admitted at George Mukhari hospital. I was told to take him home and let him spend time wth our kids as his life is getting to an end due to brain tumor

  • @ZandileNxumalo-u4y
    @ZandileNxumalo-u4y 17 днів тому +27

    I zion zangithwala sekushone umawami abasindiswa esasikhonza nabo bengasaveli ngoba sasisaswele ngalesiyasikhathi. Namanj ngisababonga 🙏🙏

    • @NompumeleloMakhunga
      @NompumeleloMakhunga 13 днів тому +1

      Inkinga yabazalwane abasindisiwe ave benakho ukusizana futhi bayaqhela kuwe uma uxakekile😢

  • @zaakirahbassa9986
    @zaakirahbassa9986 10 днів тому +5

    I still cry over losing my dad over cancer noma isimingi iminyaka edlulile, uphile baba Dladla waze wangikhalisa

  • @nonkululekoxaba4820
    @nonkululekoxaba4820 17 днів тому +17

    Ubukhosi bonke
    Naw amandla onke
    Nal udumo lonke
    Lungolwakho.
    May God restore everything that the enemy has devoured Mpostoli.
    I'm watching from Alexandra.

  • @sibusisodavis337
    @sibusisodavis337 17 днів тому +23

    This is so painful 😢. May the Lord God give you comfort baba, I'm reminded of David even after praying and fasting for his son, the son died. We can never fully understand why things happen may the gracious God glorify Himself though your life, through your story, through your pain.

    • @gloriamahuma8937
      @gloriamahuma8937 17 днів тому

      MoG,All I can say is that God is still faithful,He knows everything,He does not change!Try to listen to teachings of James Kawalya and spend time with God,He does not change

  • @mphomaluleka5821
    @mphomaluleka5821 17 днів тому +40

    This is very painful 😢, nobody deserves this.

  • @samukelisiwesangweni5575
    @samukelisiwesangweni5575 17 днів тому +38

    ST is improving, the way he directed the conversation. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I'm 20 min in love this for you

    • @Ongezwa_Fefeza
      @Ongezwa_Fefeza 7 днів тому

      I like how he allows the person to speak without interrupting them..

  • @SjabumambaSjay
    @SjabumambaSjay 13 днів тому +4

    The cost of following Jesus and all the suffering that goes with it can't be consumed nor processed by the human mind. Indeed you're an apostle ordained by God himself for His own glorification, just soldier on though it's often disheartening to defend God and His will. Such testimonies are not for everyone but a selected few individuals...we are encouraged in the Lord and maintain your stand with God, we also live that way. Keep well

  • @TheDispensationofGraceGospel
    @TheDispensationofGraceGospel 16 днів тому +6

    Kingdom greeting!
    My great Leaders on these platform we had your broadcast for everything had mention on above, but i wish to engage by saying ever since the world began the is none great man of God who did not falls into obstacles and tribulations until now, however your story telling was very sever painful but just let it go and forgive yourself its where you will find peace. To brief my journey also around Feb 2014 i was kidnap at Newcastle forest opposite Ncandu but God showed up his mercy, 2015 early i think its was January i was diagnosed by medical doctor that i had chronic sickness i must start medication on 2018 Oct, God showed up his mercy. Everyday we face horrible situation but does not mean that God is again us. God does have your sympathy just that accept what happened, now you cant change it what has already happened my great Apostle be strong and courage's move people love you and the still believe on what you are saying on them.
    Thank you SIR!
    Grace and Mercy
    DGGM

  • @lwazimoyo2679
    @lwazimoyo2679 16 днів тому +12

    The only song that comes to mind after hearing the story is #Thula moya wami ulalele uJesu#Be still and know that he is God.

    • @dintlegabzmaroza2323
      @dintlegabzmaroza2323 10 днів тому

      Uyabathwala abakhe uyabahola endleleni
      Ngeke asidele uhlala Nathi

  • @pastortebogomokhutli7827
    @pastortebogomokhutli7827 16 днів тому +4

    This was for Me Dlamini... I needed to see this...

  • @debramayisela
    @debramayisela 12 днів тому +2

    Apostle's story has really touched me. I pray that God will continue to strengthen him.

  • @kholo_Faith78
    @kholo_Faith78 17 днів тому +9

    Yho, impilo yakho, ikhombisa ukuthembeka kukaNkulunkulu, umethembe uThixo uyayazi into ayenzayo, Nathi sinezinto ezisehleleyo ngenxa yobizo lukaNkulunkulu, Amen.

  • @NoziphoMkhize-pp6vn
    @NoziphoMkhize-pp6vn 13 днів тому +4

    Siyakukhulekisa Apostle and iqiniso lithi ngeke kudlule Mfwethu but uNkulunkulu oqonda konke unezinhlelo ezinhle ngempilo yakho...Ima emkhulekweni Man of God...

  • @BusisiweZondi-ki7vz
    @BusisiweZondi-ki7vz 17 днів тому +9

    Mmmmmmmmm Baba Dladla nginawe emkhulekweni wami Nkulunkulu akuqinise kulobuhlungu obungaka.

  • @TebogoLloydMashitisho
    @TebogoLloydMashitisho 17 днів тому +6

    Thank you for uploading this episode am watching from Gauteng 🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @LungileLungiMosoeu
    @LungileLungiMosoeu 17 днів тому +10

    Kwaze kwanzima ukuzwa indoda ivuma ukuthi i broken,engathi uJesu angakusiza mzalwane udlule kulesimo.

  • @PatiencePhangisa-uc3yc
    @PatiencePhangisa-uc3yc 16 днів тому +5

    Uzondlula babu Dladla uNkulunkulu usindlulisa lapho kuthiwa akindlulwa.khona AMEN

  • @busizuma2873
    @busizuma2873 16 днів тому +5

    Heii😭😭into odlule kuyo baba Dladla, may God heal you 🙏🙏 ngithanda indlela oqine ngayo okholweni. Athi uJobe through it all ngiyazi umhlengi wami uyaphila.

  • @mabelmbatha
    @mabelmbatha 12 днів тому +3

    Ekukholweni, wangaphumelela Praise God...ngikuzwile Mpostoli...phola nceku...Jesus is Lord🙌🏾😊

  • @user-fe7bv2cg6e
    @user-fe7bv2cg6e 16 днів тому +5

    What a painful story 😢 ngathi ungaphola Pastor Dladla.I'm watching from Newcastle

  • @philisiwendlovumugadza4314
    @philisiwendlovumugadza4314 17 днів тому +6

    Abantu bahleli bekhuluma let them talk wena keep looking at thy cross .Be still en know that he's still God. Very touching story

  • @thandazulu4602
    @thandazulu4602 14 днів тому +2

    Im literally in tears....im thrilled by such manner of faith, may God heal ur wounds bhuti❤

  • @ntombintombi6098
    @ntombintombi6098 15 днів тому +4

    Eish baba, ukukhuluma ngobuhlungu kuyakuvusa ubuhlungu, I can relate to that. Burying your partner is so painful nabantu ngapha jooo... May the good Lord keep on protecting you🤲

  • @lusandadlamini5654
    @lusandadlamini5654 14 днів тому +1

    May the Favour of God be upon your life Pastor Dladla

  • @b-shedreckng
    @b-shedreckng 17 днів тому +1

    Thanks so much my Brother!

  • @mmaphakamanamela5942
    @mmaphakamanamela5942 16 днів тому +1

    I pray that Our Lord heals you as He is holding your hand through this journey. I so pray for you 🙏

  • @user-ii7xo1sh1v
    @user-ii7xo1sh1v 19 годин тому

    I saw his story on tiktok and I was so touched seeing their wedding videos 😢
    Watching from Carolina mp

  • @XoliTetanaMinistries
    @XoliTetanaMinistries 14 днів тому +1

    Many are the afflictions of the righteuos but the Lord delivers them from them all. The Apostle is in the process of healing and its going to take him time its natural. All we can do is to pray in support

  • @nomfundomngomezulu2566
    @nomfundomngomezulu2566 17 днів тому +7

    Very touching.... I'm watching from Lyndhurst (JHB)

    • @TumeloKhambane
      @TumeloKhambane 15 днів тому

      She was a special one, may the good Lord give you comfort 😢

  • @siphamandlaphilaniwela4971
    @siphamandlaphilaniwela4971 15 днів тому +1

    Thank you ST for allowing indoda kaNkulunkulu to share Uhambo Lwakhe with us..uNkulunkulu akupholise wonke amanxeba Apostle Dladla.

  • @joycemthethwa7611
    @joycemthethwa7611 17 днів тому +7

    God is with you Man of God one day uzokupholisa UNkulunkulu

  • @silindilenxumalo9541
    @silindilenxumalo9541 17 днів тому +8

    🙏 I'm watching from the South of Johannesburg, Lenasia South.

  • @zandiletshoto3856
    @zandiletshoto3856 17 днів тому +1

    Yhoo this is so heartbreaking!😭😭
    Watching from CPT.

  • @supersikhakhane6205
    @supersikhakhane6205 16 днів тому +2

    He’s been through a lot ❤kodwa he is anchored in the foundations of his beliefs

  • @ntebatsephillipine7247
    @ntebatsephillipine7247 13 днів тому +2

    Oh Lord this is the painful truth. Stay blessed man of God

  • @thandiempondo5859
    @thandiempondo5859 14 днів тому +2

    It's so painful to loose a partner Apostle but ONE THING IS GOING TO HEAL YOU TIME, with time eventually you are going to be fine.

  • @simsmhlongo8845
    @simsmhlongo8845 10 днів тому

    Apostle, your testimony has restored my life. May God bless you 🙌😪

  • @mhlemjoka9647
    @mhlemjoka9647 16 днів тому +1

    God bless you Man of God. Very powerful sharing. God will completely heal you futhi usewuqalile umsebenzi. You are right uhambo lwabantu alufani. Ungena nathi emlilweni. Cha am revived ngale sharing yakho angifuni ukungasho. Thank you so much 🙏 Hallelujah

  • @happynkosi4499
    @happynkosi4499 15 днів тому +1

    Time will heal Mfundisi wami, we understand your pain very well, above all thank you for not compromising with the gospel true izinto zehlela bonke abantu

  • @clarenslanga6645
    @clarenslanga6645 14 днів тому +1

    Eish 😭😭 this is painful and i can see the way u talk and i feel that u will never forget and heal 100% but be strong and believe that God is with you

  • @LindaSomtala
    @LindaSomtala 17 днів тому +1

    Pastor L Somtala, watching from Cosmo City - Gauteng Community Church

  • @ZaneleKolisi-z3l
    @ZaneleKolisi-z3l 16 днів тому +1

    Only time will heal your heart don't be too hard on yourself. Allow your self to go through this pain only TIME will heal you.

  • @mncedindovela1227
    @mncedindovela1227 16 днів тому

    Watching from Cape Town!

  • @nanavilakazi
    @nanavilakazi 16 днів тому +4

    I cannot say I understand or emphathise with this situation because I've never been in it, all I can do is to say 'God may you intervene😢😢

  • @gladysndlovu4129
    @gladysndlovu4129 17 днів тому +1

    Very touching….. watching from Orange grove,Jhb

  • @Kleynhansbrotherstv
    @Kleynhansbrotherstv 15 днів тому +1

    Pastor dladla is a gem ❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @siyamthandaphiri9102
    @siyamthandaphiri9102 15 днів тому +1

    Watching from Centurion.Thank you.

  • @victoriasomtyato4400
    @victoriasomtyato4400 14 днів тому +1

    Ngaze ngabuzwa ubuhlungu. UNkulunkulu akunike amandla Mfu Dladla, i pray for your healing and comfort.

  • @angelsikota5777
    @angelsikota5777 9 днів тому +1

    Amen bab Dladla be strong in the Lord dnt let go my u find confort in him dnt let go of Gods hand

  • @swazi_mvelase
    @swazi_mvelase 8 днів тому

    May this pastors faith locate me🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @seithatibaloyiletstour9073
    @seithatibaloyiletstour9073 13 днів тому

    You make a lot of sense,after I lost my only child.as a born again believer .I got challenged. Leaning on God alone.I always ask strength from God.i relate a lot to what you saying, i fasted.i prayed,i knew my son was dying. Yho mfudisi

  • @colletahthembelihle1927
    @colletahthembelihle1927 15 днів тому +10

    😭😭😭😭😭😭
    I have no words mfundisi
    I cant even start to imagine how you feel right now.
    May you find comfort in the Lord mfundisi
    Those who trust in the Lord,shall renew their strength.

  • @nontobekomalinga6157
    @nontobekomalinga6157 17 днів тому +7

    Watching you from estcourt, syakthanda Mgabadeli ❤

  • @sophyzenani5846
    @sophyzenani5846 16 днів тому +2

    I can feel your pain😢😢😢I lost my husband 2022 I still feel it even now 😢😢😢

  • @meshackzwane
    @meshackzwane 13 днів тому

    No amount of words to comfort the situation you go through. Only God the source of ALL comfort, can comfort you.

  • @constancefaithful1451
    @constancefaithful1451 5 днів тому +1

    Bhut thababg you such a great host allowing your guests to speak without disturbing them,i really upload you

  • @kukhanya-xe1xh
    @kukhanya-xe1xh 13 днів тому +1

    What a journey apostle Dladla but you never denied God, you are still serving icebo lakhe.
    All I can say is uJehova gave you a chance to experience genuine love although isikhathi sibe sincane kakhulu, ungazisoli ngokushada, that was the only way to be with such a remarkable woman who empasised that keep on going, don't slack. Uzomthola unkosikazi omunye ozo support ubizo kwakho ame nawe.
    ST I don't see how udokotela umhlukumeze kanjani umfundisi, he simply gave a diagnosis and kwenzeka kanjalo, into emhlukumezile abantu abakhulume izinto ezingekho ngobuhlungu adlule Kubo.
    uNkulunkulu othembekileyo uzobuyisa okudliwe isikhonyane empilweni ka mfundisi.

  • @TumeloKhambane
    @TumeloKhambane 15 днів тому +1

    So heartbreaking 😢😢😢, may you find strength in the Lord

  • @MarthaMaphanga-rm3sn
    @MarthaMaphanga-rm3sn 9 годин тому

    Aka pholise amanceba Nkulunkulu umoya ka Nkulunkulu use duze nabo bonke abalimele emoyeni ,phola mr phola babe ukhona NKULUNKULU,🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @nkululekosabelomanqele9055
    @nkululekosabelomanqele9055 17 днів тому +2

    I am watching from Embalenhle (MP)

  • @morongwamashalane5477
    @morongwamashalane5477 16 днів тому

    Wow... Yoh! Am so empowered by this testimony.

  • @abigailphakathi4747
    @abigailphakathi4747 16 днів тому +5

    😢😢 Angeke sitfole lokuhle kuphela kuNkulunkulu kodwa konkhe kusifanele makuvela kuye lomdzala wetinsuku.

  • @user-qm4qn9yi9k
    @user-qm4qn9yi9k 17 днів тому +1

    I'm watching from Eerster Rivier Cape Town

  • @Slee_Nhlapo
    @Slee_Nhlapo 15 днів тому +1

    No yooh wow.... Please I need part 2 ❤❤❤❤

  • @LindiweMalindi-re4dy
    @LindiweMalindi-re4dy 13 днів тому

    Man of God,may You be healed in Jesus name 😢

  • @user-hg4wb4kh8q
    @user-hg4wb4kh8q 17 днів тому +2

    Tyooo this is very painful, I'm sorry pastor 😢😢

  • @ndvhudzamanaga1060
    @ndvhudzamanaga1060 16 днів тому

    I like that ,through it all,you still believe in God

  • @sizwesamadinekamlambo9376
    @sizwesamadinekamlambo9376 14 днів тому +2

    Kodwa kokweSiko ngyafisa ngath abazalwane bengalibhekisisa mhlampe belizame ngayo indlela yebhaybheli ... ngoba eyi abasindisiwe bavamile kuba seynkingeni eykanje angimngabazi uthixo kepha iEnvironment inawo amandla ngoba ingekankulunkulu ...

  • @hloniluvuno4020
    @hloniluvuno4020 15 днів тому +1

    I'm watching from Witbank Mpumalanga..so pain ful

  • @nothandomthupha4745
    @nothandomthupha4745 3 дні тому

    Ooooh Somandla 😢. Yate yababuhlungu indzaba. May God be your strength babe Dladla.

  • @sinenhlanhlaprecious9177
    @sinenhlanhlaprecious9177 17 днів тому +4

    Am watching frm fre state...ngawubuka nomngcwabo ka cc Thabisile ku UA-cam pphephisa Mgabadeli izinto za cc Thabisile zashesha nje kakhulu

  • @user-ec2zd9bv1b
    @user-ec2zd9bv1b 17 днів тому

    So sad indeed... may the Lord give you strength during this difficult times watching from Lempopo

  • @memorysithole8463
    @memorysithole8463 16 днів тому +1

    May the Holy Spirit comfort you Apostle

  • @youneedgodtv3634
    @youneedgodtv3634 16 днів тому +1

    I’m watching from Umlazi. May God heal you bhuti😢

  • @user-ki8ds1qt4q
    @user-ki8ds1qt4q 14 днів тому +1

    I I'll pray for you my brother God is the healer
    Go to 21 days counseling rehab at private hospital or psychology therapy

  • @ntokozomartins2317
    @ntokozomartins2317 5 днів тому +1

    Sending love and prayers to you Pastor through the blood of Christ.

  • @Shorts37527
    @Shorts37527 17 днів тому +1

    Ehy Nkosi yam this is deep it says a lot about us abasindisiwe impela syashoda ngala othandwen noma ukunakekela abant abaza eNkosini. UBawo makasncede.

  • @Ngunikaz
    @Ngunikaz 17 днів тому

    God will heal you my brother, grief is painful

  • @nomathamsanqamatai7549
    @nomathamsanqamatai7549 15 днів тому

    Touching 😢... May the good Lord comfort you

  • @reginahmalemela1290
    @reginahmalemela1290 9 днів тому

    Yoooh!!! May God heal him and help him to remain standing and restore him

  • @evamoleka1246
    @evamoleka1246 15 днів тому

    Sad story💔😭😭be strong Pastor Dladla God will heal you. And we're praying for you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @felicialembede411
    @felicialembede411 10 днів тому

    Yooh this is so painful, we bless the Lord for keeping you strong

  • @zanelentuli3635
    @zanelentuli3635 2 дні тому

    may God continue to heal and restore you in Jesus name🙏

  • @EmmahMaditaba
    @EmmahMaditaba 17 днів тому

    Thank God for you brother hang in there Don't give up God is with you it was God's plan for u to get married to that lady may her soul rest in peace God is going to wape away your tears

  • @XolaniKaShabangu7378
    @XolaniKaShabangu7378 16 днів тому

    watching all the way from MP Middelburg

  • @bongekambatha5753
    @bongekambatha5753 17 днів тому +3

    Ei ibuhlungu intando ka nkulunkulu😢phephisa mgabadeli ei ngayibon inkonzo yokugcina kamam Dladla ei kwakunzim nkosiyam 😢

  • @NokweSisulu
    @NokweSisulu 17 днів тому +11

    Yoooooo what a painful story