"You'll never catch me dying": living with stage four cancer. | Jen Sotham | TEDxVeniceBeach

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  • @stevedemas5524
    @stevedemas5524 2 роки тому +184

    I stayed off the internet when diagnosed stage 4 lung, liver, kidney, spine both shoulders and left hip 2/9/2015. I am in year 7.5. If your reading this there is hope. Her words are genuine and she speaks her truth. Walk in faith, not by sight. 2 Corinthians 5:7

    • @u5909
      @u5909 2 роки тому +1

      What color is your Bugatti

    • @kirankumar-sn4db
      @kirankumar-sn4db 2 роки тому +4

      Hi Steve I think you faced metastatis statge 4 ,, which treatment you have followed pls tell me bcoz my father is also facing stage 4 nasopharynx cancer and is in metastatis condition cancer is spreded to other body parts ,, pls tell me what treatment you have taken to free from cancer pls reply to me it would be helpful to me

    • @heathersmith6177
      @heathersmith6177 Рік тому +3

      Steve I am seeing this and praying for you. I pray everyone seeing this lifts you up. How are you feeling?

    • @heathersmith6177
      @heathersmith6177 Рік тому +10

      Have you tried the therapeutic ketogenic diet with fasting? I am a nutritionist and have seen incredible things. I have also seen amazing miracles at the mighty hand of God. May He encounter your tonight.

    • @heathersmith6177
      @heathersmith6177 Рік тому

      Anyone heard of the doc in Texas? Dr Bruzinski ? (Spelling). Check out the UA-cam special on him.

  • @NYERIC14
    @NYERIC14 10 місяців тому +7

    I grew up with Jen. She was an amazing speaker in school as a kid too. I will miss Jen.

  • @cfrewer6948
    @cfrewer6948 5 років тому +252

    Thank you, from a stage 4 lung,palliative care patient. Yes, I'm alive, so time I start living. Hugs.

    • @billyjack4131
      @billyjack4131 5 років тому +3

      Bless you

    • @mckavitt13
      @mckavitt13 5 років тому +5

      A big gentle hug to you from me.

    • @Gsherpazzz
      @Gsherpazzz 5 років тому +2

      We love you so much .

    • @k.e.1760
      @k.e.1760 5 років тому +6

      We all love you, best of luck!

    • @mckavitt13
      @mckavitt13 5 років тому +3

      HAPPY NEW DREAMS FOR 2020

  • @emilynubile5541
    @emilynubile5541 2 роки тому +32

    It's a struggle but acknowledge what you can do, I'm 37 yrs old and had stage 3 Colon cancer but am doing stable. So grateful for you 💓

    • @u5909
      @u5909 2 роки тому

      What color was your Bugatti

    • @tonycd2709
      @tonycd2709 10 місяців тому

      Sorry to heat that. Wish you well!!!

  • @joenisnapje712
    @joenisnapje712 Рік тому +43

    I’m sorry to learn you passed away in 2017 Jen.
    Your blog (and therefore your words) will live on.
    Reading on how much you loved doing this Ted talk (and the pain it took) makes you a winner… with a smile on your face and song in your heart.
    Your light will be sadly missed. My condolences to all who knew and loved you.

    • @steingrimurhermannsson3825
      @steingrimurhermannsson3825 Рік тому +1

      Melanoma responds extremely well to Gerson Therapy a special plant based / special juicing protocol. Many have fully recovered with this for Melanoma - it responds well.

    • @SJ-wu9gx
      @SJ-wu9gx 9 місяців тому

      What about colon cancer​@@steingrimurhermannsson3825

    • @deborahbizzell1989
      @deborahbizzell1989 5 місяців тому

      How can you say goodbye to someone who has passed away?

  • @goldschool9050
    @goldschool9050 2 роки тому +18

    I just starting living my life at age 46. I get it now. Count your blessings. Don't worry about things out of your control. Be honest. Be kind. Listen to your body. It will tell you when it's thirsty, hungry and most important, tired. Simply, take care of yourself.

  • @n.c.467
    @n.c.467 Рік тому +12

    God bless her for the way she cared about others even in the midst of her life and drath struggle. May she rest in Peace!

  • @dianagavin2110
    @dianagavin2110 4 роки тому +61

    Today, every moment is emotional, and I cherish each one. My husband and
    children are the most important people in my life. My child’s spring concert
    brought me to tears because I knew I was so lucky to be there.

  • @Thommouk
    @Thommouk 4 місяці тому +2

    I met Jen when I was backpacking in Thailand in 2007. We had some amazing times together - she was a truly wonderful, unique woman and I was devastated to learn of her passing a few years ago. Today would have been her 50th birthday ❤️

  • @stephenherman8067
    @stephenherman8067 2 роки тому +30

    One of the bravest people I've ever known. Miss you Jen! ❤️

  • @juliemitchell3013
    @juliemitchell3013 2 роки тому +5

    You may not be here to read this little comment. But lady, you branded on my very soul. I love you for that xxxxc

  • @haniani4694
    @haniani4694 4 роки тому +25

    What a brave sharing!! Rest in Peace.. You are no longer in pain and sad with the fight in search for the cure.. Cancer took my sister too.. But we are sure to meet again in Heaven... For the family (and your dog) that are left behind.. I am sorry for your loss.. My prayers are for you

  • @joeldecoster8816
    @joeldecoster8816 5 років тому +77

    when mum has cancer, everyone has cancer.The family falls apart and the suffering and hardship, fear and anxiety, poverty and hopelessness is a cancer in itself.

    • @weinazhang2529
      @weinazhang2529 4 роки тому +2

      Joel Decoster so true! My mom just diagnosed stage 4 bile duct cancer!😢😢

    • @tommihanley1443
      @tommihanley1443 4 роки тому +2

      I totally understand what you mean. It is so hard to lose our precious loved ones. But Mom's want you to go on live life try to have joy and peace . Love lasts forever and we take all of it when we go. Life after life we will be with our over ones again. After all we knew each other before this life and we will know each other after. May you feel comforted.

    • @spimentel562
      @spimentel562 4 роки тому +1

      @@weinazhang2529 I'm so sorry. I'm diagnosed with stage 4 fallopian tube cancer.

    • @maricelacamargo1633
      @maricelacamargo1633 4 роки тому +1

      yes,my mom is so sick 4 yrs suffering ovarian metastasis now in lung and liver we are devastated 😢

    • @Batmandarkknight.
      @Batmandarkknight. 3 роки тому

      @@maricelacamargo1633 god bless you both

  • @counsellor4jobinterviews551
    @counsellor4jobinterviews551 2 роки тому +34

    Wish I had the same fighting spirit you had...having lost my son, his wife and his best friend in an accident in Dallas in February, 2020. Still, I have to keep on living and fighting...like you did.

    • @rosettaleopardi3490
      @rosettaleopardi3490 2 роки тому +1

      I feel the same, lost my daughter...I will always live with this deep pain...there are no words but respect.

    • @u5909
      @u5909 2 роки тому

      What color was his Bugatti

    • @lavondag1
      @lavondag1 2 роки тому

      My son lives in Carrollton, but we raised him in OK. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son

  • @leot8433
    @leot8433 3 роки тому +8

    Only cancer patient and families can feel how cruel is this disease. More saddening is that in 2021 also there still NO CURE.

  • @MrKaycleans4u
    @MrKaycleans4u 5 років тому +56

    Wow you caught my attention. I'm a 3 time Cancer patient I'm so inspired by your words. God bless you.

    • @gregdahlen4375
      @gregdahlen4375 4 роки тому

      I often wonder if the unusual diet I follow would alleviate cancer. For the last 15 years, I've been living between 92% and 100% on fluid dairy products. So every day, 92 to 100 percent of my calories come from some combination of skim milk, 1% milk, 2% milk, whole milk, half-and-half, and fluid whipping cream. In my case the diet alleviates pesky eye discomfort. But I think it will alleviate many diseases. So the mom's body makes milk and cream from food she has eaten and already broken up. And when the milk and cream go through your digestive system they get broken up again by your bile. Thus when the nutrients from the milk and cream reach the cells they've been broken up twice, versus solid food nutrients only broken up once, and hence milk/cream nutrients don't clog the cells as much as solid food nutrients, and thus the cells perform better. It's not really that the milk/cream nutrients fight cancer so much as they don't interfere with cell function as much as solid food nutrients, and hence the cells work better. I also think the mom's mammary gland chooses the elements from her own food to compose the milk/cream that are the softest and most easily handled by the baby's digestive system and whose nutrients are the least clogging to the cells, hence again the nutrients from milk/cream don't interfere as much with cell function as solid food nutrients.

  • @dreadeddennis
    @dreadeddennis Рік тому +3

    This is a terrific legacy and good advice. Glad I saw this.

  • @ralphpecca2872
    @ralphpecca2872 5 років тому +15

    I would hope that I can face my stage 4 cancer as bravely as Jen. God Bless and thank you fine lady for the hope that you give to those who follow you.

    • @k.e.1760
      @k.e.1760 5 років тому

      Best of luck, Ralph! I hope you beat the cancer. I am rooting for you!

    • @spimentel562
      @spimentel562 4 роки тому

      I have been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. I looking for ways not to feel pain

    • @kirankumar-sn4db
      @kirankumar-sn4db 2 роки тому

      @@spimentel562 how is ur health now

  • @lmusser9419
    @lmusser9419 Рік тому +3

    Thank you.. I really needed this lesson. I have been so angry having cancer and so mean at times to those who don’t deserve it.. now I see I need to embrace them because I don’t know how long I might have

  • @h.l.phillips3175
    @h.l.phillips3175 5 років тому +14

    Amazing. Amazing lady. RIP. My friend took similar strong intelligent,. non conventional approach to motor neurons disease. I can't tell you how proud I was and how he eased the burdens of those who dearly dearly loved him. Amazing.
    This lady jus said it all. An angel with a message. 💚💗💚

  • @susanmorris6746
    @susanmorris6746 2 роки тому +8

    Thanks for that iv lived three years with secondary lung cancer. Iv just finished two years of immunotherapy , and still going. A nurse told be I’d be dead within three months how wrong she was. God bless you from Susan in England UK 🙏🏻💕

    • @u5909
      @u5909 2 роки тому

      What color was your Bugatti

    • @alierem4266
      @alierem4266 Рік тому

      Basically, it is possible that she is a nurse, not a doctor. The nurses view should be taken with pinch of salt.

  • @olgakanago3462
    @olgakanago3462 2 роки тому +9

    I’m undergoing tx for stage 4 uterine cancer, spread to my lungs. Had hysterectomy and 6 chemo txs. Have hope and a lots of praying.

  • @renataloren2384
    @renataloren2384 4 роки тому +10

    WIOW Extremely powerful!!! We should all listen to this beautiful women’s message. There are people dying to live and others that don’t appreciate life at all. RIP BEAUTIFUL ANGEL 👼 You will never be forgotten!! 😍💙💕♥️💙❤️💜♥️💙❤️

  • @juliettemacdonald5792
    @juliettemacdonald5792 5 років тому +33

    Wow!!!
    What a beautiful , “from the heart honest”, + touching speech on such a sobering subject.
    I watched your speech about 4 hours ago, read in the other comments that you had passed, went to your website + read about you, read your blogs, from of your screenplays.......+ came back + watched your talk again.
    How I wish I had the privilege of knowing you!
    How sorry I am that one so mentally strong + who really loved life.....was finally consumed by such a disease that brings such suffering, fear, + pain (physical + emotional) to such a spirit filled with life, fight, + determination to live.
    Rest In Peace Jen💐

  • @adiwijaya4792
    @adiwijaya4792 2 роки тому +1

    We will hug every morning together, with fresh air, blazing sky, cat, dog, all our friend and neighbours cherish the day, together we will live forever.

  • @DazelleSteele
    @DazelleSteele 5 років тому +18

    Amazing and heartwarming at the same time. RIP 🌷

  • @coolmom6155
    @coolmom6155 3 роки тому +23

    I’m a cancer patient stage 4 metastasis to spine. From 2009 I’m fighting and accept all treatment. Now I stop ✋ any treatment and chose to live day by day .

    • @Anonyme67
      @Anonyme67 2 роки тому +2

      Much love to you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @u5909
      @u5909 2 роки тому

      What color is your Bugatti

    • @kirankumar-sn4db
      @kirankumar-sn4db 2 роки тому +1

      Hi how r u now

    • @bongablay2385
      @bongablay2385 6 місяців тому

      I pray that you live longer as long and as well as you wish. Am Stage 4 metastatic pancreatic cancer.

  • @naomimilan6357
    @naomimilan6357 5 років тому +29

    you're such a strong lady! i adore you so much

  • @michaelramos3616
    @michaelramos3616 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for showing me that we're not along in this. Stay strong and cancer free y'all

  • @ijustamthem
    @ijustamthem 6 років тому +28

    This is amazing. Safe travels, wherever you are.

  • @rodneygalbraith4793
    @rodneygalbraith4793 5 років тому +8

    Your honesty is your courage. I think your very good at that. All the best.

  • @Chemicalfreeliving
    @Chemicalfreeliving 4 роки тому +29

    Just found out a close friend has stage 4 liver cancer. Praying for all of you. I pray you will have strength, be in less pain and be healed when they say there is no hope. Sending you all love

    • @juicetin_20
      @juicetin_20 3 роки тому +2

      Hi how is he or she?

    • @chazwyman8951
      @chazwyman8951 Рік тому

      Praying won't help you crying won't do you no good.

  • @carolbantegui2193
    @carolbantegui2193 Рік тому

    This speech was 4 years ago. Yet until today, you are a huge inspiration!
    I really hope that you made it! I pray that as you wished....no one really caught you dying... BECAUSE YOU ARE COMPLETELY HEALED NOW!!

  • @janetteasplett2708
    @janetteasplett2708 2 роки тому +5

    Amazing insight into those few words Why Me and the positive acceptance of why not me some have to endure , bless her .

  • @suziquestionable2845
    @suziquestionable2845 4 роки тому +6

    You are very brave, and an inspiration . Thank you from the rest of us who need someone like you for hope and inspiration.

    • @suziquestionable2845
      @suziquestionable2845 4 роки тому

      Sorry to learn that you lost your battle with stage 4 cancer, but you went out as a beautiful butterfly, with Grace and dignity. Your soul will be here forever

  • @johnmcloughlin4577
    @johnmcloughlin4577 3 роки тому +5

    Well done girl fight it with all your heart I have stage 4 lung cancer and will do my best to fight it lost my beautiful boarder collie and feel it's unfair to get another as I don't know how long I've got I send you all my love and hope they find a cure for you have a great life XXX

    • @mermaid628
      @mermaid628 3 роки тому

      Hi John, hope you are ok and go get a dog.....they are so great and give so much friendship and companionship.

    • @vanmoore6543
      @vanmoore6543 Рік тому

      John don't give up..pray u are still here. Look at the joe tippins protocol, rife resonance machines, and supplements. So sorry u lost your dog, that can be devastating. My wife got diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer 9 months ago. Had 6 rounds of chemo, and just had hysterectomy last week. She's really strong, and we're making plans for activities as soon as she recovers...hang in there, stay strong!

  • @SJ-wu9gx
    @SJ-wu9gx 9 місяців тому +1

    This just mad eme cry, what a brave woman😢

  • @lou-ma7999
    @lou-ma7999 Рік тому +2

    Indeed I rejected "why me" too. I fought without asking myself as if Im not concerned

  • @doraspooner6998
    @doraspooner6998 5 років тому +14

    You are truly inspirational and a lesson to us all about how not to just give up xxxx

  • @angelieavenie5741
    @angelieavenie5741 3 роки тому +7

    So proud of her strength, it is inspiring! God bless her ❤️❤️❤️

  • @PerceivedREALITY999
    @PerceivedREALITY999 4 роки тому +28

    “Circumstances don’t make the man, they only reveal him to himself.” Jen has in my eyes revealed herself to be a legend.
    “What you leave in life is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.” She has inspired so many! Rest in Peace ❤️

  • @Slidapenguin
    @Slidapenguin 4 роки тому +11

    Rest In Peace Jen ❤️

  • @dougrobblee
    @dougrobblee 5 років тому +60

    here is 1 brave, intelligent, beautiful, person - thank you for sharing

  • @armandsharp5100
    @armandsharp5100 5 років тому +38

    Am too late to thank her for this:
    "because I live with the knowledge that my end may be imminent I savor myself like one might an exquisite meal"
    - Very true- I try on a daily basis to use all the talents I have-or as many as possible, playing guitar, working on my 3d photo graphics, staying in touch with family, water sports etc

    • @blawlor100
      @blawlor100 5 років тому +4

      Armand Sharp Yes, we all should LIVE as you do, as we all will, one day, die!

    • @crystalgaylemyi7480
      @crystalgaylemyi7480 5 років тому +3

      To : Armand Sharp, queencat57 SarahBjerketvedt.
      Human body are brilliantly designed by God Himself to heal .
      God promises stand true always & certainty. Deuteronomy 7:12~15. Psalm 118:17. Psalm 103:1~3. Psalm 30:2,3.
      Never give up because Jesus said repeatedly do not be afraid . Trust in God in no matter what circumstances.

  • @Coelacantha
    @Coelacantha 5 років тому +174

    Sadly I just learned she passed away, but at least she lived a vibrant life full of happy moments and lots of love,❤️

    • @ritanooney865
      @ritanooney865 5 років тому +10

      She's home and probably even more vibrant!

    • @akpskincare604
      @akpskincare604 5 років тому +3

      Really! So all the immuno drugs didn’t work?

    • @lahcenechel1855
      @lahcenechel1855 5 років тому +33

      @@akpskincare604 immunotherapy is to keep you alive till they empty your pocket . They are looking for drugs not cure . Like insulins like asthma ......

    • @judygd8749
      @judygd8749 5 років тому

      Allyson
      Are you a real dog with spectacles?

    • @grateful1929
      @grateful1929 5 років тому +8

      @xavi xavi She meant home in heaven.

  • @bobs1356
    @bobs1356 4 роки тому +9

    Your so beautiful and brave. So many people take life for granted. We need to look at life a appreciate life better.

  • @missiris1234
    @missiris1234 5 років тому +33

    Rip brave dear heart

    • @artsmart
      @artsmart 5 років тому

      Although I doubt she'll be resting wherever she is;)

    • @jacobsjungle5676
      @jacobsjungle5676 4 роки тому

      @@artsmart nope, maybe decaying 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but definitely resting

  • @bobs1356
    @bobs1356 4 роки тому +6

    Just so well said and beautiful.

  • @timweaver9955
    @timweaver9955 4 роки тому +4

    Your an amazing person. I pray for you.

  • @claudiasaboia1335
    @claudiasaboia1335 5 років тому +14

    So touching. I am in awe she was amazing. God may have her in heaven.

    • @oscarcat1231
      @oscarcat1231 5 років тому

      Only if she was saved according to Gods Word, the Bible.

    • @AhsanKhan-eo8dv
      @AhsanKhan-eo8dv 5 років тому

      @@oscarcat1231 lol

    • @k0smon
      @k0smon 4 роки тому

      @@oscarcat1231 ////// Totally irrelevant. The bible is NOT God's word.

    • @oscarcat1231
      @oscarcat1231 4 роки тому

      k0smon ‘and then they all drowned’....

    • @k0smon
      @k0smon 4 роки тому

      @@oscarcat1231 Who 'they'?

  • @geraldinesera8915
    @geraldinesera8915 5 років тому +11

    Cancer is not the only terminal illness we can meet. Dementia is another and Lewy Body Dementia has a shorter road than others. Before a span of 5-7 yrs are up. Before dieing one loses one's self and some indignities may be benchmarks ( temper tantrums, crying jags, hallucinations, delusions etc.). After listening to this young woman I've determined to perhaps blog lessons and realities about the road signs on my highway. At least until I cease "being" who I am. Maybe it will be of help to someone on this path, because this young woman has been an inspiration to me.

  • @yusefalmutawakil3325
    @yusefalmutawakil3325 3 роки тому +3

    Listening while sitting in the cancer clinic, cancer is off the scale woe is me!!!!

  • @rabbiyarizwan7692
    @rabbiyarizwan7692 4 роки тому +10

    This talk instill my belief that the struggle im going though is real and my way to live it this way is actually hopeful way!! May be i wont live too long but InshaAllah i will make my years here worth it!! Aameen!!❤

    • @funkyboi09
      @funkyboi09 4 роки тому +2

      I hope you are all well. May allah grant you cure. Ameen

    • @IMRANSTORIES136
      @IMRANSTORIES136 4 роки тому +2

      Aamiin

  • @pennyblair7135
    @pennyblair7135 4 роки тому +12

    Such amazing inspiring speech from what I can tell a beautiful soul...I was recently dx with NSCLC I am now on my 5th round chemo ..this truly helped me Rest in peace Angel

    • @billstose5131
      @billstose5131 4 роки тому +3

      Penny Blair I was diagnosed in 2015, NSCLC had a metastasized to my brain, proton first for the metastasis, then chemo, then surgery removed my upper lobe right lung. About two years later another smaller spot in my left upper lobe, removed it via vats surgery. Still being followed by two oncologists every three months. I now have another spot in my left and right lung but they are no cancerous. Lucky to have found it when they did. Good luck keep the faith take all the prayers you can get love every day!!

    • @tgjokaj7386
      @tgjokaj7386 4 роки тому

      @billstose can you please tell me if your ok ? My dad has NSCLC.... it’s killing me 😩

  • @maxinemack9278
    @maxinemack9278 3 роки тому +2

    I admire your strength, God bless you.

  • @mrp5578
    @mrp5578 5 років тому +15

    I wish I am as brave as this lady.

    • @subschallenge-nh4xp
      @subschallenge-nh4xp 5 років тому

      She is died sadly

    • @XeLYoutube
      @XeLYoutube 5 років тому

      do it. hodgkinien type 3 here. i have no choice. Doing it or surrender. my art cant wait till i die, it has to be done. Now. intent it. summon it. Dont wish for it, manifest it.

    • @marjoriefarrell4951
      @marjoriefarrell4951 4 роки тому

      You Are, you just don’t know it yet.. 💖🌈🏖🦋👏👏

  • @onegaimatte1845
    @onegaimatte1845 5 років тому +7

    we love you 3000

  • @scaredofmice8658
    @scaredofmice8658 3 роки тому +4

    I can tell you why. Me But not why I am not died Why am I still alive i am old 76. Have Parkinson’s diabetic stage 4 cancer I choose not too have treatment because I thought I would be gone in four months It’s been two years now but I am stuck in my house because of a pandemic and now I am tired too tired to shop even if I could go out This young women had so much to live for and. She was taken way to early bless you till we meet again RIP

  • @siphelelezikalala5794
    @siphelelezikalala5794 2 роки тому +1

    Powerful indeed. Thank you for sharing.

  • @kripaharris237
    @kripaharris237 3 роки тому +9

    With great respect I just wonder why we fear death so much and see it as an enemy. It comes to all.of us .My sister refused to accept her stage 4 cancer diagnosis as a death sentence till the end .Cant we do what we can to heal but also accept at some point we leave so maybe it's ok to embrace it at some point

    • @lanorawest4251
      @lanorawest4251 2 роки тому +1

      As an American I feel that the fear of death is unique to Western culture. Other cultures accept death for what it is; an inevitable part of life. I recently was diagnosed with metastatic lung cancer, This is my 6th and I suspect my final bout with cancer. My first cancer was Hodgkins Lymphoma, diagnosed when I was 23 years old. Since my first cancer diagnosis I have had 5 subsequent cancers over the years, I am now 71. Believe it or not, I am grateful for each and every cancer I was diagnosed with. Cancer has taught me how to live, love and truly appreciate my life.

    • @wigglywoo8899
      @wigglywoo8899 5 місяців тому

      I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer 4 months ago, as a 42 year old woman, mother of an amazing teen son, and wife of 18 years to my best friend and love of my life. It's not death that I'm afraid of, it's having to let go of those I love....forgo growing old with my husband, watching my son do amazing things. Thinking of my husband remarrying and loving someone else....despite me wanting him to be happy...is heartbreaking to think of while you're alive. Also, thinking of another woman, a step mom, seeing my son do all the things in his life. And not being able to care for my wonderful aging parents. Those are the things that terrify me. I don't know what my future holds, but I do still have hope...and this cancer has absolutely taught me more about life, love, and what is truly important. I'm much appreciative of that.

  • @mrsg.9224
    @mrsg.9224 4 роки тому +5

    Wow what an amazing Women! She just inspired me & I guarantee that whole room.

  • @juliewookey8248
    @juliewookey8248 4 роки тому +2

    Live in the moment you’re amazing

  • @Bettina8987
    @Bettina8987 5 років тому +3

    2002 level 2 - after surgery level 4 - stage A - big chunk of left foot missing...please check your skin

  • @friidomarchives
    @friidomarchives 2 роки тому +1

    God Bless and I Love You All!!!!

  • @janellehamill6266
    @janellehamill6266 5 років тому +3

    Great words thankyou 👍🏻. True,, when your alive you live xxxx

  • @mrsgingernoisette
    @mrsgingernoisette Рік тому

    Her blog is her legacy.. I love u Jen mama.

  • @wtftaz1
    @wtftaz1 4 роки тому +8

    Thank-you I needed to hear that ...I just started my 3rd go round with lymphoma
    Depressing to say the least but your words help💜💪

    • @LOVEITGURUCHELA
      @LOVEITGURUCHELA 3 роки тому

      Any updates?

    • @wtftaz1
      @wtftaz1 3 роки тому +1

      Rice therapy was beyond tough , brink of death tough for me after 2 rounds (6 treatments)
      Scans are clear Hooray ...F#%k cancer it’s my PTSD

    • @LOVEITGURUCHELA
      @LOVEITGURUCHELA 3 роки тому

      @@wtftaz1 wow, great news, feeling very happy for you, Always stay healthy, go Ayurvedic diet, or Always choose best food for yourself.

  • @Backyard_Gardener365
    @Backyard_Gardener365 4 роки тому +8

    A powerful & inspirational speech from a beautiful soul!👍👏

  • @amaliastar1244
    @amaliastar1244 5 років тому +54

    We are all going back to God.. no one is gonna live forever.

  • @christyswain3016
    @christyswain3016 6 років тому +36

    I miss you every day ❤️

    • @Followjesusthetruth
      @Followjesusthetruth 5 років тому +5

      When did she pass away? I just discovered her today 😫

    • @bonnierobinson8684
      @bonnierobinson8684 3 роки тому +3

      My lovely friend Carol Hunter died of lung cancer this year. I miss her every day.

  • @TheDanstar62
    @TheDanstar62 3 роки тому +1

    Rest In Peace Jen... I miss you...

  • @sufiahakim8023
    @sufiahakim8023 3 роки тому +1

    Wow this was great,shout out to her..

  • @Raao1
    @Raao1 2 роки тому

    This is what strength looks like.

  • @berhanedori3209
    @berhanedori3209 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience.this can give hope.above all God is great.

  • @josefadams647
    @josefadams647 Рік тому +2

    When your alive ….you live… So profound.

  • @ferdinandmarquez1058
    @ferdinandmarquez1058 4 роки тому +23

    In 2011, I started having acid reflux. It was uncomfortable and concerning, so I went to our family doctor for an exam. During the visit, he asked me when I’d last had my prostate-specific antigen (PSA) checked, the routine test many men do to screen for possible signs of prostate cancer. It had been about three years since I’d done this test, so he added it to my visit that day. The results showed I had a PSA score above 20, and my doctor recommended that I have a biopsy. A few days later, I received the news from an oncologist at the same clinic where our regular doctor practices, that the biopsy had tested positive for prostate cancer. I was 60 years old at the time. The diagnosis was devastating. I felt like I’d just been hit with a sledgehammer.
    The oncologist recommended that I have my prostate removed. At first I was ready to say yes. Why not just have the prostate removed and get rid of the cancer? That seemed like the most logical idea.
    But although I did not want to waste another minute before doing whatever I could, the oncologist recommended taking my time. He suggested that I talk things over with my wife and let him know my decision within a couple of weeks.
    After trying almost everything it did not work I was recommended to Fastcancercure on Instagram. I decided to communicate with them. And I provided all the infortion they require and miraculously when they finished doing their stuffs to my greatest surprise after a month time I was now feeling really good. I had to head to the hospital for check up and my prostrate cancer test was negative. Thanks to Fastcancercure on Instagram.,

  • @nataliepaulsen7336
    @nataliepaulsen7336 4 роки тому +8

    i love your encouraging words,thinking positive is so awesome,in the bible in psalms 118 verse 17 says i will not die ,i will live and declare the work of Lord.

  • @themysticmuse1111
    @themysticmuse1111 3 роки тому +4

    Being sent for a biopsy.
    I think I'm next.
    Why me?
    Like my dawta said, why not you?
    (* crazy, I typed this,and she said the same thing,a few moments later)
    I think our expiration dates are fated.
    I really do.
    All is as it should be.

    Live like you're dying, because you are.
    We all are.

    Love hard, because this all ends.

  • @rabblerouser7982
    @rabblerouser7982 2 роки тому

    She is my hero.

  • @robertbrante8875
    @robertbrante8875 2 роки тому

    I needed to hear this. Thank you ❤

  • @holliethomson6147
    @holliethomson6147 2 роки тому +1

    Truly amazing 💔❤

  • @TonyMontana-pp3cv
    @TonyMontana-pp3cv 23 дні тому

    Hello I have Metastatic lung cancer immunotherapy treatments going well. One year later. I understand clearly first six months was hard. Joseph Staying strong

  • @Alchemy_Art_Designs
    @Alchemy_Art_Designs 5 років тому +4

    YOU are AMAZING👌🥰🥰 stay strong and stay true to,you - keep fighting beautiful soul - your positive message will help sooo many people . The past 3 generations of women in my family have been affected by cancer ... I try not to focus in any way on the statistics that I’m likely to develop it - sending much love and strength to you beautiful strong soul . Thanks for sharing with us all - I love your POSITIVE attitude 🙏🏼🥰👌👌

  • @takchengsze4719
    @takchengsze4719 5 років тому +20

    My mom has a stage 4 liver cancer. It is all in gods hand.

    • @mr.smiley6422
      @mr.smiley6422 4 роки тому +6

      You're mom will be healed in the name of Jesus.

  • @DragonDriver100
    @DragonDriver100 3 роки тому +4

    We all have to die, apparently, but, why do we have to suffer IN that process?

  • @jou2166
    @jou2166 3 роки тому +4

    My father had melanoma..it started on his lip..then his whole face then in his arms..then it went into remission for 16 years..he died from the most foolish thing.
    A hernia

  • @hannahkostoff5992
    @hannahkostoff5992 5 років тому +4

    Wonderful job

  • @michaeledmunds8013
    @michaeledmunds8013 5 років тому +6

    Love you, Jen

  • @VoicedRealms
    @VoicedRealms 5 років тому +1

    I respect you.

  • @juniper617
    @juniper617 3 роки тому +9

    My mother died five days ago from metastatic melanoma. I’m a little shocked this came up in my queue. (My mom was 84 and had nearly a year to “get her ducks in a row.” It’s ok.)

  • @jennifercrawford9915
    @jennifercrawford9915 5 років тому +7

    We are more than conquer we are over comers.thank u ,thank u.

  • @mavischihaka1234
    @mavischihaka1234 6 місяців тому

    My sister rest in peace ❤❤❤Yu Neliy

  • @eddieleong6490
    @eddieleong6490 Рік тому +1

    Sadly Jen Sotham has passed away. This post said Nov 9 but there was no year was given...
    Jen Sotham, passed away on Nov. 9. Jen was diagnosed with metastatic melanoma in 2014, but that did not prevent her from living out her dreams and having her voice heard through film, blogging, a TED talk and contributing to CURE® - both in print and on the web.
    Jen, 43, was a New Yorker, but had also recently spent nearly a decade living and working in Busan, South Korea. She was a writer and musician who had taught composition and conversation at the university level.

  • @VoodooAngel63
    @VoodooAngel63 Рік тому +2

    I have you beat...at the beginning of my cancer treatment, I puked and pooped on a hot male nurse. At the end of his shift he stopped to say goodnight and said "Let's do this again tomorrow!"
    "Let's not and say we did!" I told him.

  • @joeldecoster8816
    @joeldecoster8816 5 років тому +12

    such inspirational speech, yet everyone knows the outcome, pain misery suffering.......

  • @RobCLynch
    @RobCLynch Місяць тому +1

    Press Pulse metabolic therapy, Dr Thomas Seyfried for ALL cancer.

  • @theKaufmanTapes
    @theKaufmanTapes 3 роки тому +1

    Whoa . . that was awesome!

  • @michaelburke72
    @michaelburke72 4 роки тому +1

    POWERFUL!

  • @kriskulczynski8957
    @kriskulczynski8957 2 роки тому

    That is beautiful and helps

  • @karenrichburg1783
    @karenrichburg1783 3 роки тому +1

    Thank u!!!