ObGyn Reacts: Footling Breech Preemie in Bathtub | Didn't Know I Was Pregnant
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- Опубліковано 6 чер 2024
- Board Certified Ob/Gyn physician Mama Doctor Jones reviews an episode of TLC's "I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant" while teaching and commenting on the show.
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Ok but she said at the beginning she had just divorced. Can you imagine having to call your ex husband and be like “hey funny story we have a baby now”
😂 this was my first thought, too! How do you even begin to explain that?
Yeeep
Maybe you just...don't. You can always day you don't know who the father is because you sleept around a bit after the divorce.
Maximillian or you can have morals
Or she says nothing, he simply gets a demand for child support in the mail. Gets a lawyer, goes to court, just to meet his daughter in front of the judge.... he’d of course demand a paternity test (rightfully so) and be astonished by the results. Oh to be a fly on that way!!!
Okay but a brother giving you the phone while you're giving birth is such a brother move
My brother's wife started to go into labor at my parents house and my brother calls my uncle and says "yeah I'm at my parents and we need a drive to the hospital (wifes name ) is uh um very pregnant . Yes she's very pregnant " mean while in the background she was just going on about needing to get to a hospital and telling him to hurry up .
Hilarious
Lmao exactly what I was saying
Hahahahahahaha THAT IS a brother move
Dude...this is such a brother move lol. My brother totally would have.
"I reached down and felt a foot."
Oh, the baby was testing the warmth of the water before jumping in!!
🤣
😏😂
LMAO
What the
😂😂😂
asking your younger sibling to call for help during an emergency and they run to get the phone, just chuck it at you and bolt is surprisingly relatable
I can’t imagine feeling a FOOT coming out of me with no warning I’d probably immediately assume it was an alien
This has honestly always been my biggest fear.. not pregnancy just a surprise birth out of the blue. On the plus side my paranoia helped me discover my pregnancy 10 days before my missed period lol
@@lunarlovegoodx3 I've actually been afraid of pregnancy altogether for a long part of my life (just starting to be ok with the idea, and I'm 27); when I discovered pregnancy denial/cryptic pregnancy was a thing in my late teens, it terrified me. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Ill just adopt a kid i dont wanna be pregnant
idk amen!
I would be traumatized every time I went to the restroom and would keep a bunch of pregnancy tests around until 10 years into menopause lol
"She wasnt pregnant yesterday but today shes having a baby"
*UMBRELLA ACADEMY HAS ENTERED THE CHAT*
Omg lol
Yes
Omg yes😂
ijornhribrudkrvir omg 😂
AHH I'LL NEVER THINK OF THIS SHOW THE SAME AGAIN
(we seriously need season two)
That poor woman. She's blaming herself for not acting on information she didn't even have, and it's not like she didn't try testing for pregnancy. How could she have known?? I hope she's forgiven herself by now.
Some people don’t care when they’re pregnant at all and it’s so sad that she blames herself. And I don’t mean people who get abortions I mean people who know they’re pregnant do nothing about it such as keeping the baby healthy not eating certain foods or such
You can tell that she would’ve done all these things and more for her daughter if she knew she was pregnant with her
How did she go 9 months without gaining weight or looking pregnant? I don’t understand.
I hope that the new one is still alive
@@bethanyheyde805 that happens alot it's called 🤪I forgot
Me: A teenage girl who has never even had her first kiss before.
Also me: Thank God! My period started and is normal, I'm not pregnant!
Dude- don't say your age on youtube if your under 13.
@@Sara_Hohman 'Cause of stalkers and stuff?
@@issytheamateurnerd9877 people under 13 are not supposed to be on youtube, that’s why
@@alaskalius6566 oh....
@@issytheamateurnerd9877 I never got the notification but Alaskalius is correct.
My sims going into labor:
My sims husband :”she wasn’t pregnant yesterday
Today she’s having a baby
Haha haha true!
Sims relationships are so steamy
And another tomorrow
@@kierasaurusfrost sim pregnancies are so accurate tho, they almost piss themselves every 3 hours and are constantly hungry
@@kierasaurusfrost you can adopt
I’m still laughing about the brothers reaction 😳 She wasn’t pregnant yesterday but today she’s having a baby 🤪
But why the last emoji?
See
#logic
@@aisha5156 Why do you have an issue with an emoji though
Lmaoo this is exactly what my little brother would do
“I reached down and felt a foot” that sentence is actually terrifying
My brain was like, most feet are downwards, completely forgetting what the vid was about
That would be absolutely terrifying. You're in agonising pain and don't know why, and then you feel a foot sticking out of you. 😱💀
I was a preemie breach. I was also an emergency c-section, because I got stuck in the canal while I was breach (mom doesn't know what type of breach I was). When they finally got me out, they found that my umbilical cord had wrapped itself around my neck and between my mom trying to push me out, and the position I was in, it cut off my oxygen. I was technically stillborn, and it took the team that delivered me up to five minutes to get me to successfully breathe again. I officially came into the world at 30 weeks. I was just a little under five pounds, and that's all I know. My mom doesn't like to relive it, because she says that's the worst moment of her life, crying for me to breathe while trying to survive herself. I was the last child she had, because of the damage done, she had to have a hysterectomy... We're both lucky to be alive honestly
Wow, I got chills and tears in my eyes. That is insane to read, both you and your mom are so strong. I hope you two are close and that you feel happy to be alive. I know I would be if I came into the world under those conditions. Wow
@@wolffisu we're semi-close, some stuff happened growing up that made it hard to fully be like best friends. But she's my mom, and we both know that we'd do anything for each other
that happened to me too, though my mum gets less emotional about, preferring to laugh at the memory of me "trying to hang myself before I'd even made it out."
A little under 5lbs at 30 weeks!? You were a big baby! Lol
I was born two weeks early but the doctor made my mom not push when she felt that she needed to. So I stayed in longer than was necessary. When I finally did come out, I had inhaled my meconium (that’s the first poop h the at a baby has after birth) in the womb and was not breathing. I was completely purple and was without oxygen for a few minutes. Doctors were worried that I would have cerebral palsy because they couldn’t get me breathing.
Graduating college with a bachelors at 21 yrs old in the fall and applying to my masters too :)
I’d be so mad if I was giving surprise birth and my brother handed me the phone like dude I’m kinda busy right now omg
JayBeh Kay Surprise birth💀
@Abigail Swayze I'm sorry what
Hahaha hah, right!
@ Abigail Swayze Oh man, I hope since you are watching her channel your beliefs do not align with your parents. Doctor Jones is all about safe sex, contraception and not shaming women about sex.
Toxic parents? If you know you would abort, why not be careful not to get pregnant in the first place? Planning an abortion "just in case" or, even worse, trying to kill the baby any other way is what I call toxic, not parents just because they are pro life.
The actors on ''I didn't know I was pregnant" are under rated
Petition to give them a raise?
For the recreations yes? Just clarifying
FireofDawn yes
Honestly, they're so good. Imagine reenacting giving birth in a terrifying situation. That's some dang good acting.
Ciara Abeyta yup!
I love how Mama Doctor Jones always says "we do the best we can with the information we have". It's become a regular saying in my life. Thank you for these wise words!
I knew I was pregnant with my first but I never once felt him move. So I can understand how people don't know they're pregnant.
Oh man I’d be terrified my baby was dead and my body hadn’t realized it. :((
Ok these usually have really bad reenactment actors, but that woman's reaction is exactly what I imagine "I felt a foot coming out of me," would be like. Just * SHRIEK *
My reaction would have been a lot less PG. 😂
There's an episode where a woman gives birth in a fast food restaurant lol, she was in pain and bleeding and she checked herself only to feel and see her son's head coming out of her XD
As a woman with a younger brother, I was especially cracking up at MDJ’s reaction to and commentary on that part! 😂😂
Yeah, I’m a big time screamer! I have 4 brothers & that’s how I developed my screaming talent. The lady in the video did a pretty good job😜
Meagan 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Can you imagine just reaching your hand down there and feeling a FOOT
Nightmare fuel to the max
My baby kicks down by my vagina so hard I picture it daily lol
The second she said that she felt a foot, I screamed...just hearing that gave me the creeps, I can't imagine what would have been feel it
@Alex M She probably just felt a lot of pain and weird pressure, so she didn't realize what exactly was going on until feeling it with her hands. Your hands are much better at identifying and recognizing things than the inside of your body. I don't think it's possible to feel that there's a foot inside of you without knowing it beforehand....
@Alex M I mean, she was having a lot of pain around that zone. If the pain is too strong (which it was), it automatically makes you forget about other touching feelings, so it's possible she didn't noticed it
Or at least, she didn't indentifyed as as something SOLID going out, like a foot
Geez, it makes me feel really bad just by imagine it
My grandmother’s neighbor delivered two babies breech at home. Her husband insisted to keep all the births natural. He was a veterinarian and thought he was qualified enough, and was super into them having this all natural homestead style lifestyle. It went okay for the first two.....and then they lost their daughter at birth and the mother came extremely close to death herself. It was straight up said that the death was caused by neglectful intervention practices. He knew something was wrong when the baby (for the THIRD TIME was breeched), he knew she had a cord wasn’t supplying oxygen, and he knew his wife was bleeding far too heavily after the birth. Yet he thought he could handle it. He wasn’t able to revive the baby himself and then waited a horribly long time before calling EMT’s for his wife because he thought he could stop the bleeding. This was in the country were it could easily take half an hour or more for an ambulance to arrive so by the time they got there she was in a VERY bad way. If he had just been a tad more responsible maybe he’d have a thirty year old daughter today and wouldn’t have put his wife and sons through the trauma of losing the baby girl and almost losing her. People who think it’s okay to delivery breech, especially at home.... oh my god they’re infuriating. Even with medical intervention at a hospital it can end so tragically.
I delivered my first baby breech. In a hospital setting with an amazing doctor super experienced with breech. I know the „Term Breech Trial“ showed a bigger risk for the child and changed the paradigm in a lot of countries BUT it has been heavily criticised for being a methodologically VERY poor study. So with experienced doctors and midwifes delivering breech vaginally poses no bigger risk (for mother and baby, given there are no known risk factors) than a cesarian plus it has all benefits of a vaginal birth :)
When pride gets in the way of a life.. This infuriates me.
Breech babies can definitely be delivered vaginally in a hospital setting, if they are in a full or frank breech position (not footlings).
Men
It is infuriating, isn't it, how some people knowingly and willfully choose - in developed nations, no less - not to receive prenatal care or have trained and licensed professionals in attendance at their deliveries because they are adamant about doing everything "the way nature intended". Your case is just one of many tragic stories that get swept under the carpet by the free-birth movement.
I had a light bleeding every single month for my pregnancy. I didn't actually feel anything. Other than being extremely ill, and being told I had an ulcer...no kicks, no movements.nothing. 32 weeks I went in to my gyno to get back on birth control (I was on it but stopped becuase of how sick I was) and when they did a test they found out.
Rylee is 8 months now 🤗🤗 best surprise ever
@@newtonsutradhar9699 in some women the stomach growth isn't visible or barely.
my grandma barely showed when she was pregnant, which is crazy because she's rather skinny.
aww
@@tomasvrabec1845 and there’s me that swells up with bread
The way she said that "this is the head coming out first. This is what we like - we'd appreciate if the babies would do that" as though she's sending out a general memo, lol.
I got the memo as a baby lol
Now you just have to get them connected with an email address and you're all set!
My younger sister didn't get the memo, the doctor found out last minute she flipped in the womb (it was normal when they checked before) and my mom told me that the doctor and her team had to carry her to the operating table and immediately prep her for C-section.
@@zedsreignzero5197 i didn’t😁
I didn't 😆
“I gave my sister the phone to explain what’s going on” my brother would do the same I swear.
I tend to get "lucky" stumbling onto men who have no idea what to do when someone has a medical emergency. And I am extremely accident prone. More then once was it me, who was bleeding profusely (bad clogging, I bleed like a mofo) and had to collect all my calm and tell the panicking guy what to do.
"You need to disinfect it." Him: "But that will sting." Me: "Dear Lord, to whom haveth you given a soul? Just douse it with rubbing alcohol and bandage it so I can limp away, okay?" Him: "ok."
Lucylle it’ll sting a lot more when it gets infected, friend!! haha...
@@YuBeace good point
Princess YuBeace my brother would just scream at the emergency lady/man to get an ambulance imediately and yelling the adress and would feel so guilty and stressed out
It was SUCH a brother response. (Mine'd do the same.)
"I'm sorry Steven, I can't really talk right now, there are two feet coming out of my vagina." That's what I'm gonna say the next time somebody wants me to talk to grandma XD
Bruh why dont you want to talk to your grandma
@@zdravdan I wish I could talk to my Gran
I wish I could talk to my grandmother. She died of pneumonia
One week before my due date I performed the only acrobatic maneuver of my existence and flipped from "appreciated" birthing position to breech. And I was a pretty hefty lump of human. Went from crown down to pressed ham 7 days before opening night, and that was how
38 weeks: "Everything's looking great, Mrs. J! Are you excited to bring your 3rd child into the world?"
39 weeks: "Mmmmm... This one's gonna be sassy."
That one epic barrel roll set the tone for our whole relationship.
Your mom still gives you the side eye.
"opening night" 😆
Damn that's just mean
This is such a colorful birth story 🤣 thanks for sharing!
You should be a writer
“i was shocked that there was a human inside of me”
well, imagine feeling a hoof or a paw. no THAT would be shocking and horrifying
🤣🤣🤣
sorry what-
@@cairasnyder7438 isn't it obvious? they gave birth to a dog and a horse in the past. d u h. ( though, in all honesty they're probably joking or saying this in a sense of "well yeah no s***")
Greek mythology all over again
did you just assume my babies species? My boy is a moose and my girl a tiger 😤🥳🥳🥳🥳🤣
"I reached down there and felt a foot" is like a horror movie...there's a person there! Aghhhh!!!
😅omg
Purple Rain I’m pretty sure it actually does happen from time to time, that a baby is born with it’s hand up by it’s head like a little first medalist.
🤣🤣
hahahahaha㋛︎㋛︎シ︎
It actually is very horrifying. With my son, I didn't know that I was pregnant and this happened to me.
You should absolutely do a Ted talk on the misconceptions of gynecology and pregnancy and just inform others of the reality of it because I think that would be an amazing TED talk
hell yes
"mother instinct kicked in and i pushed the babys legs back up and tried to turn the baby" okay i was lost there
I'm very grateful with my family today, because of fibroids my tubes was block for five years after using Dr ojo herbal medicine now my wife gave birth to a bouncing baby girl thinks to Dr ojo
@@johnsky7822 lies
@@lovingme1st973 you can’t judge a person off of a family that you don’t know !
that’s not maternal instinct-
wouldn’t maternal instinct be _calling 911?_
@@ameliahorlor4402 true
Such a brother thing to do “here’s the phone.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Boys.
Yo forreal my brother would do the same!!! Haha
@@katrinakollmann5265 not all of em 😂
It’s a sibling thing in general, my sisters do this too😂😂
THANK YOU!!!
People who think every breech birth is gonna go normal:
Her, an intellectual: "H o L d O n S u S a N"
Isabel Roberts people on the baby boards are insane when it comes to the insistence on having vaginal deliveries. Doesn’t matter if it’s breach twins and you’ve already had 5 c sections, they are determined.
Sarelle Sirius
Oohhh my goooshhh. So many yesses to this. I cannot get over the boards where people are so bound and determined they can’t get out of their own way to stay safe.
@@SarelleSirius meanwhile as I was having a particularly difficult vaginal birth I asked if it was too late to opt for a c-section
It's always funny when people try to clap back at someone who has literally done probably 6-8+ years of college to do what they do
My favorite line!
I love that you never blame someone for not knowing. My mom was in denial that she was pregnant with me for six months. She'd had her tubes tied so she figured she couldn't get pregnant. She went to the doctor because she thought she had an abdominal cyst (which she'd had before) and when he said she was pregnant she said "No I'm not". She told me that later when she looked back at the pictures from that time before she realized that she doesn't even know how she didn't see that she was pregnant. Denial can be very powerful.
I got tears hearing the mother feeling bad about being away when her daughter was having the baby
Hello 👋 how are you doing
I went to the gynecologist for the first time today after avoiding it for as long as possible- as a rape survivor it was very difficult, very triggering, and I cried through the entire process. I think it would be soooo helpful if Mama Doctor Jones could make a video with tips for getting through appointments when you have sexual trauma or even just encouragement in doing so ! no one ever talks about it and so many people struggle with it
Something that helped my friend who also went through sexual trauma was to be on the phone with me, I just talked to her and distracted her.
For your own health, I'm so glad you went! I'm also so sorry that you have experienced something so awful in your life. I think it would be great for MDJ to talk about this too, so we can all learn how to support each other.
I understand your pain, you are so brave for getting the courage to go! I aspire to this even tho i know it will be difficult as you mentioned
I deal with the same thing. No matter how much I try to repair mentally, it's so triggering and painful both emotionally and physically.
@@softlygaloshes How does your physician help you through the process/Has it been difficult for you to get specific help? If you don't mind me asking?
why is no one talking about her saying she was filming this at 1:00 am? this lady is an actual superhero. She is a mom, doctor, and youtuber and is successful in all of those jobs. Wow what a role model.
You forgot one more thing: she's not just a mom. She's a mom of TWINS! And not just a mom of twins, but a mom eho had twins in the middle of med school or her residency if memory serves! THAT is like out of this world level super woman!
She's a hoot and a fine piece of work!!
Imagine hearing your mum at 1 in the morning talking about pregnancy in the room next to you-
I’m amazed at how guilty the mom is when she was completely unaware of pregnancy, I’ve seen mothers with 6 kids not care when she runs over the foot of one
She obviously got that trait from her mom, who also said the same thing. Yup. We women like to live with guilt over things we can’t possibly control.
That sounds like it depends on how thin the mother’s patience has run and exactly what they’re feeling guilty about. A run over foot could be interpreted by a tired and frustrated mother as attention seeking (which they then feel guilty about later if it’s more serious than they thought). Not eating properly or preparing properly when you’re pregnant because you don’t know would kill me too, because that could literally permanently damage a whole ass human being. They could get sick, have CP, epilepsy severe learning disabilities etc if you make that mistake. A run over foot in comparison becomes a funny story when the kid grows up.
(My brother in law had something similar happen to him where his mom shut the car door on his hand and didn’t believe him. She’s the sweetest most Mrs. Clause like person I know, but the stories her three sons have about getting her riled up enough to do things like throw them into the bathtub fully clothed because they refused to bathe are hilarious now).
With the car? A child's foot? Mom didn't CARE? dang. 😢
@@Brendawallingbear My mum rolled over my foot with the back wheel of the car years ago. All I felt was some pressure but no pain, my cat putting all of her weight on one spot on my leg "hurt" more to be honest.
Thanks for being the kind of doctor we all wish we had. If every medical professional had this degree of compassion, maybe patients wouldn't avoid going, talking to, and admitting embarrassing things to their doctors. I'm 55, and I've found four doctors like this for myself and my kids over the years. Four out of dozens.
Not even knowing she was pregnant, when the baby was coming out, her first fear was that the baby wasn't okay. Immediate motherly fear. She's a good mom. ❤
Yes :)
I wish I could say that all women, the moment they find out they're pregnant, cared more for their child.
@@CrystalRuizEnriquez some women dont want kids and that is ok too.
@@HyenaBellaDanceNSing it's not the women that don't want children that bother me, I'm absolutely pro choice. The women that bother me are the ones that are pregnant, they know and drink alcohol, do drugs, and then when the baby is born, the don't care if their child is healthy, or even bother to keep the child healthy.
Honestly, to me, a woman that doesn't want children and either has a termination or gives the child for adoption, are better women that those that don't care for their children's well being. Either don't have the child or give it to someone that will give it a better life, or at least an actual chance at a better life than having it to just give it an awful life from the beginning.
Steve is so helpful. “I’m going to put her on the phone.” 😆
We love steven, he did his best
Well, imagine being the poor guy :D
Epic brother move 🤣
Yeah, while she’s in a tub of water! Holding a phone. Sigh.
that was the most spot on brother thing I’ve ever heard. 😂
I threw up all day and night of my pregnancy but I felt brilliant, it wasn't planned because I had the implant but it was one of the happiest times of my life and he's 18 now and continues to brings me joy every day. My mum took her own life during my pregnancy. She never knew I was pregnant and was going to be a grandma. ☹️My sons been my light & the reason I get up in the morning and he's kept me sane & grounded ever since. Have a blessed day anyone that's reading this, look after yourselves and your family. 🙏🏴🌹
I didn't know I was pregnant until I was 11-12 weeks along ... I was a college student and out partying every weekend for that whole time. My heart broke when I thought about FAS and worried so much!
But my doctor was awesome about it and really helped me through it all!
My daughter will be 19 this summer and is healthy as a horse!!!
Ngl this show has permanently made me constantly paranoid I’m pregnant no matter what protect I use
SAME
I’m a virgin. I think I’m pregnant
@@saltedlemons5908 yessssssss
AMEN. Never done ANYTHING with a man...you miss one period..it’s the end of the world.
I stArted watching this show about two years ago and I found out in December that I was two months pregnant and I didn’t know it
“We’d appreciate if the baby would... do that”
Love it
I was not that cooperative.
@@xRollermaniacx lol me either!
I love seeing this girl's maternal instinct immediately kick in! Respect to her for doing everything she could for her baby!
I'm 24 weeks pregnant, and honestly, if I didn't know I was pregnant, then I would mistake the baby's movement for stomach rumbles.
didnt you noticed your missing periods?
@@shubhamkumar_noob_cs-go_pl581 some women have a uterus that has 2 sides so they can bleed from one side while the baby grows in the other. my friend bled every month on schedule while she was pregnant
Noted
"I can't find a baby" and returns with two stuffed animals 😂 She cracks me up
SHE'S A DAM FOOL . . .
Especially with one being a hot pink sloth haha
@@mimireed1604 oh? What medical degreee do you have?
As a medical professional during a pandemic, I think you've earned sitting down in your videos. Nothing lazy about that. :-)
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Thank you for all that you do for us. God bless you ❤
I'm ur 1k like
"pandemic".
Ha,ha,ha,ha
@@sissyrayself7508 it's not a joke. Wait till you lose a loved one to this virus. Let's see if you're laughing then. Grow up 🙄
I feel for this mom. I didn't know I was pregnant until 8 months. It's normal for me to go a year without my period and not be pregnant. I felt super guilty that I didn't know I was pregnant to the point I had panic attacks. I have to say the midwives I saw were absolutely awesome. They brought me down to reality.
I can't get enough of these "I didn't know I was pregnant " stories and love the babies pulling through!
Hello 👋 how are you doing
"mother instincts kicked in and i shoved it back inside" ifeel soooo bad laughing
Me to!🤣👍
My mom told me something similar. She said I was in there for a long time and decided to come out when she was pickling cucumbers and she basically went "Why now?!" as her water broke, angrily finished what she was doing and called herself an ambulance. I will add that my mom was an OBgyn at the time and is to this day a cynical bitch (and I love her for it).
@@Lucylle That's hilarious XD
@@Lucylle My mum crawled up the stairs while she was in labour with me so she could put her eyeliner on 😆 not sure how she could get a straight line through contractions, but she managed it!
@@RedRoseSeptember22 That's some determination, I can't be arsed to put eyeliner on if the pope was coming over for tea.
Imagine becoming a parent literally overnight. Not prepared at all, just shoved into this extremely demanding role of keeping another person alive
Random is my name
Yeah that would be a nightmare..
If it happened to someone else, she might have been upset that she couldn't vlog it...
If i was alone and no one would notice, i probably would give the Baby away
Volksfahrrad wheeezzziinngggg!!!🤣😂😂
@@volksfahrrad3710 You could give the baby up for adoption, is that what you meant?
I talked with my coworker yesterday and she said that she had a neighbour who saw that her stomach was moving but didn’t connect the facts. She had shown it her daughter like “hey, see my stomach is moving” and the daughter was like “mom, you are pregnant”. When she went to the doctor it turned out that she was 7 months along. So that can happen too.
Your compassion is so clear. I love that. One of my daughters was born with full trisomy 18. She was born at 38w1d but was the size of a 32 or 33 weeker. She had a two vessel cord and my placenta was severely hypoplastic. She was in the nicu, cicu, and micu for 135 days before coming home. She had open heart surgery at 2 months old then a trach and gtube 3 weeks later. Last summer she was diagnosed with hepatoblastoma as well and underwent a liver resection and four rounds of chemo. She is over two years old now and has been in remission for 11 months now.
Hello 👋 how are you doing
I was 18 had been with my baby's father for 3 1/2 years. I was finishing cheerleading, show choir, basketball and softball as well as training for summer volleyball. I was a size 5 and had an actual 6 pack. I bled every month. I used tampons. I felt a flutter in my abdominal. So I took a test and it was negative. So I made an appt with ob/gyn. I went in and talked with the doc she palpate my stomach said I was 6 weeks pregnant...I said when do you feel movements? She asked if I felt movement I told her I am pretty sure. So she sent me for urgent ultrasound. They say I am 12 weeks according too size. I left the office was just getting into my vehicle and a nurse slams through the door and called my name. She said the Dr. wanted too talk too me. So I followed her back in and they took me beyond the waiting room behind the locked door. The Dr. said you are not 12 weeks pregnant you are 21 weeks...you are over half of the way through your pregnancy. I passed out from shock. I went home and told my folks...even though I had graduated high school. I started bleeding again and went to the ER and was put on complete bed rest for the next 5 weeks too my left side only. I was put on yitapar or ritadine too help prevent early delivery and she was delivered at 26 weeks gestational. I had placenta abruption/ pre eclampsia. So she was in the NICU for 3 months and we went home when she reached 5 lbs...in cabbage patch doll clothes. She is now 29 years old.
you didn't say husband so I guess you didn't end up with him :( that must have been so so hard for you! good on you for raising your daughter!! she's so big now :)
As a previous NICU nurse 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@@destree6348 I will say this and always have you NICU nurses do not get the credit you are due. I had the same 2 nurses who where there everyday and night with my daughter. I was amazed when i came back after a 1 hour shift change...too see my baby bathing in a country crock butter dish...I cried. They were really there for me as well. They taught me how too deep throat suction her...how too empty her remaining food before next feeding. They educated me so much and too this day I still reach out too them and we have stayed in touch for 29 years. Thank you and know this...I know how truely amazing all NICU nurses are. 😇💋💋💋❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
10/10 worth the read ♡ im so happy for you all !
a girl i went to high school with had 2 daughters, knew she was pregnant both times, then she got really fit and posted a picture of her 2ish pack. a week later, my friend, who was a habitual liar, tells me that this girl texted her saying she just delivered a baby boy and didnt know she was pregnant and was asking my friend if she had any baby stuff she could have. i thought 100% my friend was lying. well, a week or so later, the girl who had just posted her 2 pack posted her son that she had in her mom's bedroom floor that she had nooo idea about lol
“Don’t forget your wash your hands and stay away from people!” Might be the best sign off ever!
Legit my life, before, during and it will be my life after this pandemic.
people in 10 years randomly stumbling upon this will be so confused lol
My daughter was an opposing footling breech with a prolapsed cord…yes, things can go quite wrong with a breech birth. Fortunately as I was about to be rushed off for caesarean surgery because of the prolapsed cord that one foot dropped and she ended up being quite literally dragged into the world by the foot, with the other foot still up in front of her face. We both survived the experience ok although there was a bit of healing involved.
This is the first one of these that I have watched, fearing how you would react to the "I didn't know I was pregnant" thing. See, my second (also last) son was a surprise, too. I was worried I'd end up feeling like an idiot. But you didn't say a word negative about it, and I am thankful for that!
I was born premature at 27 weeks. Now I’m 18, a senior, going to college next year and completely fine 😇
So glad you are OK!
Glad you're ok. My daughter was born at 25 weeks
That's great ☺
Wow,I found out I was pregnant at 27 weeks!
God is awesome.
My mother had a period almost every month when she was pregnant with my sister. Her periods where a little erratic anyway so she didn’t think anything of it. She thought she might be pregnant, but her pregnancy test was negative. She didn’t have any other symptoms! None! She didn’t even look pregnant. At all! I was 17 at the time, and she and I had gone to the pool 2 days before she had her first Braxton Hicks. She was wearing a bikini. There are photos. She started having terrible pains that she thought were cramps before her period. They got bad so we went to the E.R. And that’s when they told her she was 7 months pregnant. 😳 Everyone in our family flipped! It was crazy! Lol. However, we were so grateful that she found out and was able to get proper medical care for her last 2 months. Instead of randomly giving birth one day on the kitchen floor or something.
Yikes!
@ Kaylor And Khaos Your MOTHER COULD NOT HAVE HAD A MENSTUAL PERIOD WHILE BEING PREGNANT. THE BLEEDING THAT SHE HAD WAS OTHER THAN HER MENSTRUAL CYCLE. CHECK IT OUT FURTHER IF YOU ARE QUESTIONING THIS. ASK A OBGYN LICENSED RN, NURSE PRATIONER OR AN MD. I HAVE LOTS OF KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THIS AND DO NOT WANT TO GET PERSONAL HERE.
Dude, just like in the video, she was probably spotting every month and not tracking exactly when her period should be.
@@kaitlynjones3424 A person who normaly has erratic periods wouldn't be alarmed by having spotting that appears as erratic periods. Instead, they'd think they were having normal (to them) periods.
And from how I read the post, that's about what happened. Doesn't matter if it's technically called spotting if it's very similar to having your periods like normal.
@@bernitacenteno1326 Calm down. I experienced something quite similar and I have been in the medical field for decades. These things happen. Do not come here and call people liars.
I love seeing your natural beauty without a ridiculous filter. You look great and human and makes you much more relatable. The way you explain everything is so thorough and precise. Thank you you for being a down to earth doctor. Patients really need that level of respect and dignity.
It actually happens. A good Friend of my husband and I, was casually seeing a woman. She had grown children and didn’t want more. He had grown children ( adults ) also. She went into the hospital for intense stomach pain and was told she was having a baby. She calls our friend and tells him he’s a father. She is now 3 and amazing.
Someone's mother in my school didn't know she was pregnant. She just came to school one day and was like "I HAVE A LITTLE BROTHER"
I knew a woman at a pottery class I used to go to who went to the hospital with abdominal pain and the doctor was basically like. "Oh, I see what is going on. You are in labor." and she was like "I AM WHAT??" That was so bizarre. It was the first kid too so there was no preparation what so ever to take care of a child . No baby room. no baby items. I mean can you just imagine??
@@Cheshiregrinn91 uh just gk to the store?
@@demhoes911 If was that easy to just waltz to the store and pick up baby products there'd be no problem...
@@painbowx7986 but it is? How do teens get pregnancy tests or condoms?
Paws & Thumbs Those are to prevent babies... You have to put actual planning into what you want to buy for your baby. Plus you might have to set up a room for them. When you plan ahead, you can but exactly what you want and need.
These are so entertaining but also "Sex sent me to the ER" would be another interesting show to react to!😂
C O'Connor YES!!!
That happened with me with my first prego, had sex and couple hours later hospital transferring me because couldn’t stop labor and baby was only about 30 weeks. Took couple days of constant work with doctors to stop it so my baby would survive. Bed rest with no sex for rest of pregnancy after, luckily delivered morning I turned 40 weeks
Ali Spirit I always worry that sex while pregnant will cause early labor. I’d just tell my hunny absolutely not 😂
Ali Spirit I’m glad your baby was okay
TxLove • yeah the reason it was an issue was because he had already dropped, his head could be felt, I wouldn’t recommend it at that point but if the baby hasn’t dropped then you should be good. (However I am NOT a doctor)
I just wanted to drop a quick comment and let you know how much I appreciate your channel! Your voice is so comforting and I always end up listening to your videos when I’m feeling stressed ❤
I was born 11 weeks early and weighed 1 pound 13 ounces. 24 years old now!
It blows my mind when this happens to thin women. Like where the hell does the baby go? How do you not look preg? I need pics, it’s fascinates me.
I have heard from other obgyn youtubers that the baby will be in someone's back, so they think it is just them gaining weight.
I don’t know how true this is, because I’m not a doctor or therapist and I’ve only ever heard about it in a hearsay kind of way. That depending on the circumstances the more you push yourself mentally to deny the situation the less you’ll show/have symptoms etc. I don’t know if that’s based on science though.
I've been at 90 lbs my whole life, at 5 ft tall. Right before giving birth I weighed 115 lbs I looked suuuuuper pregnant, no way anyone could miss it. 😂😂😂
I didn't show until 7.5 months with my daughter.
Mallory A. I went to the hospital IN LABOUR with triplets, but the clerk could not find my babies registered...duh...NO! They are still inside me! She asks, “Where?” I just ran upstairs! Forget stupid admissions! I ended up delivering alone because when examined, I was only 4cm, but 7 minutes later , I was in the delivery room, alone with 3 babies. As I literally RAN past the clerk at the labour & delivery desk, I told her I was pushing. Help arrived in 9 minutes, so AFTER all 3 and my placenta were out. Birthing time was 2 minutes 17 seconds between baby 1&3. If only cameras were in delivery rooms then! AND, actually, before I delivered them, I only knew about 2 babies. I thought the 3rd baby was just the placenta. It was the 3rd baby AND the placenta! Shock! Joy! When my doctor came running in, I said, “JACKPOT!” They confuse me to this day. At age 25 daughter A’s husband had my daughter all entwined in his arms, legs, standing, posing for a silly picture. I ❤️’d it on Instagram and the next day found out it was Daughter T! “Oh J&A, you are too cute!” As far as I know only my kids know I was THAT close to shaming myself on public social media!
This teddy bear was perfect for the demonstration. Super flexible
Just like a baby
So... how is the baby? Did she survive beyond 4 days?
Super flexible 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jesus loves you
@@MEDSZ13.08 Jesus loves you
Ok so I was one of those who didn’t know I was pregnant until I was 12 weeks pregnant with our 4th child.
My husband and I had been together for 22 years at the time and I have a fertility issues so our first 3 were conceived via IVF. Even though I felt nauseous we had just went on a long road trip and had a missed period which wasn’t abnormal for me. I didn’t think I was pregnant. I took a test to shut my husband up 🤐🥴😂
When you have been trying as long as I did and then had to go through fertility when it happens one day after 22 years it’s kinda unbelievable 😅😇
@Mama Doctor Jones I think this is my favorite reaction video you've made. I'm laughing out loud at the actors and at you. 😂😂
Can we just appreciate this woman? She is an obgyn, a mother, a UA-camr and probably a lot more. She is such a queeeeen
like most women...
barbie vibesssss
woop woop!!
Yes, she is! And admired for her balancing act by other doctors. Bravo!
Me: *no fear*
Comments here: Me/My Mom/My Friend who weighed 95lbs had an 8 pack, 24 periods, and an intact hymen but suddenly gave birth to triplets yesterday
Me: *one fear*
Intact hymens mean nothing fyi
@@ayajade6683 you're 100% right but I personally think it's a funny way of saying someone is a virgin...
Again you're right and I hope anyone watching this KNOWS your hymen can break from what amounts to a strong breeze LOL I'm just an ass with a feel for the dramatic
@@ayajade6683 also I love your icon Sebastian is where it's AT
@@AliseBree it's hard to tell if people are joking or legit serious on that front. Glad you know and thank you on the Sebastian part
Totally!! and I hope you have a great day
This one hit me in all my feelers. As a mom who had two babies struggle a few months after birth watching your LO struggle and fight is one of the hardest things.
I had no idea your profession was son intense, I love your take on all these stories and I've only been watching for a week and a half. Keep up the good work, you're amazing at teaching the logics, biology and protocols behind what you do. 200% AMAZING content here !
Didn’t realise until I started practising as a doctor how common bleeding is during pregnancy!
It's so cool to see so many doctors on UA-cam. I'm gonna check out your videos 🙌
I bleed every month for two months at 6 weeks and at 10 weeks and at 13 weeks then bled until about 20 weeks straight . it was my cervix bleeding. i had a very healthy boy at 36w hes now 15 months
Omg I didn’t expect to see you here Dr Nosa !!!! 😍 I love your vids
I wish this would be public knowledge because that was scary when it happened
@@Holly51515 my boy came at 36 weeks too. He is going to be 6 months this month
I think that it's understandable that this woman didn't know she was pregnant. Firstly she did a pregnancy test to see if she was in fact pregnant, which came up negative for whatever reason. Secondly, she continued to have bleeding throughout the pregnancy which she assumed was her period. And finally, this is obviously her first pregnancy and symptoms such as heartburn and movement can be explained away since she has no point of reference to think that what she's feeling is anything other than digestive issues. Also she's experiencing one of life's major stress events, the end of a marriage, is it any wonder that this happened.
I look forward to your videos and enjoy them all and I hope everyone is keeping safe and well.
Her family didn't notice anything either after all. And if you already have issues with your stomach I can totally see you assuming that your body is up to its usual BS. Like, I have IBS and constantly experience issues with my poor tummy. In my case though pregnancy is impossible since I'm a virgin.
Yep, and this story just made me more paranoid. I'd taken a plan b pill after a minor condom accident, because me and my bf would rather be safe than sorry. It wasn't the first time I'd taken it and I know it throws my cycle slightly out of balance. Like, I started PMSing very heavily around the appropriate time for my period, but the period itself started about 5 days later and was completely normal, if you discount the part that my usual light spotting-ish first day took like two days instead. So I did a pregnancy test during my next cycle, it's negative. But then I freaked out again during my next cycle's PMS, which also started too early AND I had heartburn, so I double freaked out. But at the same time I'd gone back on iron supplements and vitamins which I need every few months and while I previously hadn't experienced any problems with, they could've caused the heartburn. I've been completely regular since then and it's been months but it just remains as a lingering fear at the back of my head and this episode certainly didn't help, even though it's been 5 months since and I absolutely had no other 'signs' except for those 5 occurrences of heartburn -_-
She did seem to be suspicious, but in denial. Which is super understandable. Although I still can't imagine not being suspicious enough to go to a doctor about it, but everyone's symptoms are different. Recently I had a chemical pregnancy, which was interesting and 100% unexpected. My entire body chemistry changed even though I never had enough hcg to test positive. It did sort out a couple of hormonal issues I'd had since my twins were born, which was nice. Pregnancy is weird.
my exact thoughts. i know someone who went through the same thing and didnt even realize she was pregnant until she went to the bathroom and heard crying or movement from the toilet afterwards. poor kid ended up with fetal alcohol syndrome and a couple other issues as a result, but she was adopted and now has a good relationship with her birth parents luckily
I had a friend who didn't figure out she was pregnant until she was nearly in her third trimester. She was on some sort of birth control that stops periods, and since she'd just broken up with her boyfriend, she figured a lot of her symptoms -- weight gain, digestive issues, etc. -- were down to stress from that. I would not be at all surprised if this woman (understandably) wrote off a lot of other little signs because of stress, especially because she'd had a negative pregnancy test.
Dr. Mike said to watch you……….and I think he is pretty awesome…..so I’m watching you!!! Seeing the kindness and concern you have for a complete stranger tells me that you are a great doctor AND a wonderful human!!! Im hooked! You rock!!!
I was born in 7 months and I was 700 grams and I have to spend 1 week in ICU and after some months I got pneumonia and I know I can easily develop other diseases if I am not careful about my health but I am happy that I survived and fought with all those difficulties ❤️
“Hold on Susan” just knocked the wind out of me
These days the name “ Karen “ would be more appropriate
@@fletcherbrewer8357 nah Karen is more extreme
"I'll let Y O U talke to her"
"sTeVeN i CaNt TaLk RiGhT nOw!"
I'm not gonna but that whole portion of the video I was thinking such male thing/reaction
"I'm doin hot girl shit"
@@gracerobishaw365 PLZ-
@@gracerobishaw365 lmao 😆
I didn’t know until I was 5 months pregnant! Found out the end of December and had her April 5th. I now have a happy healthy 13 month baby girl🥰 I was pregnant for 3 months lol.
Did you have bleeding during those 5 months?
Awe that’s so cool that’s my daughter’s birthday
Mama Doctor Jones, I just love to watch the "I didn't know I was pregnant" with you. Very informative and educational videos, appreciate your knowledge sharing, thank you so much.
“You know what Steven I can’t really talk right now”
Hello 👋 how are you doing
Hi nice red hair it looks really cool and crazy drama series TLC I didn't know I was pregnant it was a great series that all the woman pregnancy delivery so fast and crazy series ever
When she said she felt a foot my crotch started hurting
s a m e
Same
Same i had to sit down
SAME I could feel the foot 😩😩😩
Oh u poor bois😂😂😂ur comment got me deadass rolling on the bed
Wow! I feel for these ladies! So many things to deal with! Much love and blessings.
I just wanted to say.. I really respect the compassion you show toward the mama in this video 🥰🥰
The resemblance between the characters and the figures they represent is uncanny in these episodes...
If this is like "Real Stories From the ER", sometimes the actual people involved in the scenario play themselves. I guess they try to use the "real" people first, but if they don't want to be on tv or they can't "act", then they get a professional actor. I don't know if they do that for this show or not, but could be.
I didn’t realize it wasn’t them for a long time because I have a hard time recognizing faces.
Me: watches literally anything but stuff like this
UA-cam recommend: OBGYN reacts to I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant
Me: **click**
This is exactly what happened to me
Lemmy just put it this way that happens to me everyday so I can relate
I was just minding my own business watching a conspiracy theory video about Catherine the Great. Then this was in my reccomends. Why am I here? XD
Yep 🤣
Same
I have never seen one of your videos before, but its so sweet to see how much you care. I haven’t decided what kind of doctor I want to be yet, but you really make me consider being an obgyn. Wonderful video I will definitely subscribe.
I'm a social science researcher, but I'm working with a hospital system's prenatal care unit on a study. I had to undergo their eithics training since I access medical records for my research and it's just super neat to hear you using the same language regarding patient care and infants. ("Mom and Baby" kind of talk). I just love learning different job's jargon and vernacular, maybe I should have gone into socio-linguistics lol
I'm new to your channel but I've really enjoyed the apparent care you put into your work and videos and the educational value!
"This is a particularly scary type of breech delivery where-" Jarring mid-sentence cut to an ad
"Here's the deal. Accidents happen. When they do, we'll be there."
Bad timing State Farm! VERY! BAD! TIMING!
Ok talk about timing
I got the best one! "...where the f--" *drum SFX kicks in at the start of an ad almost as if an f bomb got censored*
I got a reeses...
LMAOO
Literally just as I was reading this comment the audio of the video started matching up to what I was reading and and then cut to an add ahahahah i read it at the same time as it was playing!!!!
I feel like a lot of the “i didn’t know i was pregnant” stories i really don’t get, but this one makes a lot more sense than some of them.
Yeah for sure. If she was still getting what seemed like a period every month and her preg test was negative I can totally see how she wouldn't realize she was pregnant, especially is she wasn't showing. My best friend just recently had a baby (full term and perfectly healthy, most beautiful baby ever born I must say) and she didn't start showing until the last couple weeks of her pregnancy
Maggie K that’s how my second pregnancy’s going, i didn’t look pregnant until 7 months then BAM! Pregnant as a house
I always thought the same thing until my mom who is an ob/gyn told me that women can still get their period during pregnancy and also not show like how we typically imagine it it’s rare but it can happen
My mother has a “backwards uterus” where basically the uterus is tilted back further away from the stomach. So when she was pregnant with me and my sister she didn’t begin showing until after 7 months.
But even when she began showing it just kinda looked like if someone had eaten a large dinner the night before.
My mum has a collegue who was pregnant at 16 and also still had her period for a long time. It's a really scary thought
First time watching and bringing me all the feels and remembering the nicu. So happy they and you did a nicu story! My son was born 5 weeks early after getting a cervix check. He was born 2 days later. He came home 23 days later after Bradys. The isolette is definitely hard because you have to ask to hold your baby.
You’re so funny and I learn a lot watching your videos. Please keep them coming! ❤️❤️❤️🎉
I was involved in a delivery like this. Patient didn’t know she was pregnant complained of abdominal pain. When they went to do an US she was screaming 😕 They checked her and she was 10 cm. I set the table. I was freaking out as a new grad L&D nurse 😭🤣
Sounds like a very memorable delivery :o I'm curious, what do you mean by setting the table?
Calmly Wetherill, I’m not a doctor, but I’ve had two babies. From my experience, a table is basically like a rolling cart with supplies that the OB or CNM will need immediately after delivery: cord clamps, a container for the placenta, sutures and local anesthetic for tearing, the scissors used to cut the cord, etc. I’m not sure what else might be on there though, those are just the things I know about from my births.
What about a baby bump? Can a woman be pregnant and don't show one of this?
@@alecoloxa yes, a woman can be pregnant and not show. My midwife told me she had more than one woman turn up at the delivery suite in a slinky skin tight dress showing nothing and walk out half an hour later with a full term baby in her arms after a very fast delivery.
@@alecoloxa Absolutely; there's another episode of this show where the mother has a photo of herself the day before she gave birth wearing a bikini and sporting a totally flat and toned stomach. It depends on position of baby and mother's body (my uterus slopes backwards and I didn't show very much in my 2nd pregnancy and was sent for extra growth scans with my 3rd because I wasn't measuring big enough for my dates). Having toned stomach muscles can mask it too.
Confused as to why Susan is telling you how to do your job in the comments, but alright
Same. 🤷♀️🤣
Susan is just a nosey know-it-all 🙄
Susan is Karen's sister, they have the same opinions :P
Wait, what did she say ?
I mean, it's worth people knowing that in certain situations with someone who is trained to deliver breech babies that it's entirely possible. As opposed to just cutting. I'm guessing "Susan" was being condescending, and that's what warranted the sass?
Birth has been so intensely pathologised, it's understandable that this is frustrating for some folks. Thank goodness for science and medicine, but it's nice to remember that birth is a normal physiological process. 🤷🏻♀️
I remember watching your videos all the time they were so interesting to me I’m so glad I came across your channel again!
only just found ur channel but now i'm binging these "i didn't know i was pregnant" episodes bc there's rlly smth abt u that makes me feel so safe & comforted :') idk if it's bc ur so smart & literally have ALL the knowledge or if it's bc ur so calm when watching these vids as if u've seen it all or if it's that u still find humour even in the most tense times, idk haha, but i'm rlly enjoying these videos & ur energy & aura :)) thank u xxx
The reason I love these is because I watch this show and think “HOW?!” So when I see a real OBGYN react to them I get closure
If I didnt get a positive pregnancy test with my first,I probably would've gone my entire pregnancy not knowing. I lost 20 pounds during my pregnancy, I didnt show at all, not even at 37 weeks. My baby had IUGR and was 4.3 lbs when she was born,so super duper tiny. I went to dinner the night before my induction and my husband said to the waitress "tomorrow we are having a baby so we are celebrating our last supper" lol and the waitress asked if we were adopting and I said no, I'm 37 weeks pregnant and she looked honestly in shock. I believe it's possible to go a whole pregnancy without knowing if the right set of variables occur.
I was huge with my first but super small with my second which was so strange
kytti kane I was like that- I was HUGE with my first. HUGE! No one at work even knew I was pregnant with my second until I was 32 weeks and I wore a snug top one day. It’s crazy how different pregnancies can be!
Same I went from abs to a slight pooch at 8 months and then a stick after I delivered, I had test regularly due to other conditions and they all turned out negative, I had a seizure one day and every test after that was positive so I didn't know I was pregnant til the end of my 6 months mark.
I have a seizure condition as well and I think that somehow affected the hometest results, because I was huge, round and 8mths and it would still come up negative 😂
That’s funny! But judging by your pic you look heavier. Usually you can’t tell that much on heavier ladies :)
I loved the face you made when you said "I felt that right in the mom feels" 🤣
Thank you for how direct and informative you are about breech birth.
Granted I was born in the 70's and things were different, but I was Frank Breech.
About 8 weeks before due date, they had my mother lay upside down on an angled board for several hours a day. It worked! I came out head first!