I like hearing women describe genuinely healthy relationships. I have two friends who are in healthy marriages since about ten years. Watching them has helped me to learn what a good relationship is like.
Why am I so skeptical 😂. I think because I’ve heard these stories in real time from female friends and family and then they breakup and you hear how terrible the relationship was the whole time. I’d like to hear from people who have had great relationships in the past maybe.
Even if you had a good relationship & it went South. That shows there’s good men out here. I’m the one than left in the relationship becoz my goal was to come to US. He already had a set career. It’s not necessarily to always be negative. You can’t attract positive when you’re constantly on guard & anticipating negativity.
Girrrrrl, I feel you cuz the relationships they are talking about in this video are new! They finna get got 10 years from now. 😂 Everyone I know who’s divorced or wishing they were have been or were in their relationships longer than these folks, but they cute or whatever. 😬
Love the positivity. Wishing them all continued success. Humans deserve to be partnered with someone that understands, values and supports them. Cheers.
I love reading these! I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He’s literally the sweetest man I’ve ever met. Healthy relationships do exist! We’ve been through so much in the last year, but our relationship remains so strong. I can’t wait to marry him 🥰
the second one moving to Dallas doesn't fool me. she still went to Dallas unmarried. don't ever do that unless you are married. 4 years and going to couples therapy and not married? that's not it
@@bluegiraffe200 she did talk about his character. She said he wanted her to focus on herself and building herself up, while doing everything he can possibly do to make her life easier. In this case, it did involve him using hismfinances to make her life easier, but that's a good point to bring up considering most black peopek grow up in some sort ofmfinancialmstruggle. He proved himself to be reliable, thoughtful and completely invested in her.
This is what we need to see as single person! Because everything you consume daily has a huge impact on your perception,on your subconscious mind. Just like people you surround yourself with have impact on you. Isn’t it crazy to think “all men are trash/they all cheat/all women are trash/gold digger” when you are trying to manifest an healthy partener🙃? Make it make sense. You cannot have something while looking the opposite. Because this is what you will get,the opposite. Where your focus goes your energy flows! Remember what you think you attract period. Be careful of your thinking process,the words you used,cause words are spellings, ask and you shall receive! Don’t think “oh cmon it’s just entertainment”cause it’s not. Entertain yourself with positif things,positifs stories. It will help you to get what you want. If you want to build a business you’re not looking for exemple of people who went bankrupt right so why in the world would you do such thing for other aspect of your life? That’s why I don’t watch content if they are not align with whatever I want!We need more content like that,fr. I love the OP cause she understands that we need to see more of what we want not the opposite! Love to see happy people happy women y’all deserve it,we all deserve it! Enjoy the journey,grow in all level,enjoy your singleness,own it fully your time will come! Peace and love. Deuces✌🏽
"If you want to build a business you’re not looking for example of people who went bankrupt" It could be useful for finding out what not to do. Someone who's always been successful can teach you what to do, but they can't tell you the warning signs of when things are going wrong.
@@misspriss2482 yes sure,people who achieve success went through “failure”aka experiences before to get what they want. My point is you cannot be feeding yourself with negative experiences (not even yours)on your daily life and expect to see positive things grow from that. It will impact your thinking in a subconscious level. And reflect on the conscious level in your life. A lot of people are addicted to negative stories that. Negative stories are viral all over internet more than positive ones.Balanced is required. I rather watch more positif content,over toxic stories cause hey that’s not the outcome I’m looking for.
Healthy relationships isnt hard to find. Issue is people want to ignore character and chase after transactional stuff. Then lie to themselves and say they were tricked, when they just ignore the obvious red flags
No. I have never ever been about money. I can’t tell you how many men that I have met that were deceptive about who they are. Men have told me that they cheated and never got caught. Men have told me things and said their wife doesn’t know that about them. I have heard confession’s about things like deleting people. I found out that a “guy that everyone thinks is nice” lured a woman into a gang r***. Have you ever noticed men get real protective when their daughters start dealing with boys. They always say they don’t trust them.
My dad retired my mom. Told her the same thing. But there marriage wasnt perfect. But my dad said if a man loves you. He would do that. Or be supportive of what you want. My mom was raised in poverty. N my dad was wealthy. N own land. Im looking for a man like that. But also for a gentleman at hearts 💕
Here’s the thing…this is all well and good-however, all these women are young and beautiful. We all know the typical story is that this is what happens with a good relationship with a man before the woman is 45. I want to see a woman over 45 discuss her healthy relationship.
Also continuously watch how men treat other people that can be an indicator of if he’s a nice person. All these people talking also they’re in a NEW relationships and they’re mostly YOUNG I could be wrong though. As couples settle into their relationship that’s when the relationship goes through challenges and tests. Remember Angelina Jolie & Brad Pit when they made Mr & Mrs Smith. How it was 2 of them against the world. How did that age… exactly. And this does not indicate they’re both bad people. It just indicates people grow apart, people grow resentful of each other or people see “other” people or things that pull their attention. So it’s just good to be open minded about human beings. Also I’m a dark skinned plus size African woman. I’d like to see plus size, dark skinned women come here.
YEEEEEESSSSS CHANGE MY ALGORITHM!!!!! I wanted and tried to like this video sooooo many times. If it ain’t one thing it’s another these days this was so fuckin needed! Keep this goin!!! I’m not on social media’s anymore so to see this on my YT feed brought so many hopeful and assuring tears to my gangsta eyes lmaooo got my eye corners sweating 😅
But basically I love the stories, I love positivity. Also men or women will do to you what you ALLOW. If your instincts are warning you about someone just avoid the person.
I only wanna see natural black women in healthy relationships. That’s a whole different world right there. A woman who’s made to feel beautiful existing primarily in her natural state. Cause that’s such a big part of our character.
I honestly can't imagine being with someone who: A. Likes me for more than my looks or what I can do for him B. Is reliable Like. I'm trying to manifest, but I just can't see it for myself honestly after avoiding men for so long now😭😭
Sigh. I know that there are good men out there, but relationships are like Russian roulette. You have no idea what a man is going to be like until you've invested your time, your life, your emotions, your heart, and your body and years have gone by. That's part of the risk and I'm just not interested in taking the risk anymore. I'm not wasting any more sleepless nights crying over men that aren't worth my tears.
Yasss! They said My man. FULL STOP. Except That couple at the end was a bit weird. lol her ending the video with “and taking responsibility on YOUR (👉🏽) part”. Vs making it something they both (should) do.
I used to be that woman! I do like the bad boys looking guys when when I was younger. However, when I hit 24 years old, I turned my mindset and my type. Now mean and bad man give me the ick. I am attracted to softspoken guys, sweet, kind heerted and generious guys.
@@nicoleraheem1195Just because your pregnant doesn’t mean anything. You have at least 2.5 months to make a decision if you want to stay or leave. Buckle down, & figure out what you want. I’m wishing you the best because I’ve been there 💯
The subtitle should be | For the gamblers! Instead of for the healthy romantics. Remember, ppl DO win in casinos and ppl do win jackpot in Powerball, too. I’m “happy” for the “happy” girlies though.
Some couples just do couple's therapy to maintain a good relationship and prevent future issues It's like going to therapy as a single person for mental health
As someone who is falling out of love in my current relationship I’m a little scared 😅 he’s such a green flag and an amazing person but our relationship has just fallen off romantically, we’re more like besties than lovers. But if there’s “no more good men” out there maybe I’ll have to just settle for a bestie, I mean it ain’t that bad
…so he actually likes you? Girl if you don’t go & communicate your needs so he can meet you there?! The grass is not greener! I repeat, The grass is not greener!
I would be slow to leave my best friend for any reason. It’s rare. Be SURE before you make that move. Do something to revive the romance. Friendship is for the long haul.
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I like hearing women describe genuinely healthy relationships. I have two friends who are in healthy marriages since about ten years. Watching them has helped me to learn what a good relationship is like.
Being friends with women in healthy relationships is very refreshing >>>>>
Why am I so skeptical 😂. I think because I’ve heard these stories in real time from female friends and family and then they breakup and you hear how terrible the relationship was the whole time. I’d like to hear from people who have had great relationships in the past maybe.
Big facts, like you don't know if that man cheating on you or not. These "perfect men" be perfectly fronting sometimes.
@Chee235 THIS is the comment I was looking for!
Even if you had a good relationship & it went South. That shows there’s good men out here. I’m the one than left in the relationship becoz my goal was to come to US. He already had a set career.
It’s not necessarily to always be negative. You can’t attract positive when you’re constantly on guard & anticipating negativity.
Girrrrrl, I feel you cuz the relationships they are talking about in this video are new! They finna get got 10 years from now. 😂 Everyone I know who’s divorced or wishing they were have been or were in their relationships longer than these folks, but they cute or whatever. 😬
I was thinking the same exact thoughts. It all still sounds like work to me 🥱
A common theme seems to be reliability, security, open communication, being a good listener and just liking the person
Yes this is so good. Thank you for sharing the positive
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love the positivity. Wishing them all continued success. Humans deserve to be partnered with someone that understands, values and supports them. Cheers.
I don't know if this video is making me hopeful or more depressed. 😂
Yeah. On one hand, maybe I can have this.😍❤ On the other hand, I don't have this and might never.😢😢
I love reading these! I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He’s literally the sweetest man I’ve ever met. Healthy relationships do exist! We’ve been through so much in the last year, but our relationship remains so strong. I can’t wait to marry him 🥰
Wishing you all the love and peace in your relationship (marriage 🤞🏾)
Crowdsourcing positivity is the one. I’ve been curating my feeds accordingly ❤
the second one moving to Dallas doesn't fool me. she still went to Dallas unmarried. don't ever do that unless you are married. 4 years and going to couples therapy and not married? that's not it
She's dating a black king. They usually don't get married.
She was on Ashley Dalton's live asking how can she get him to marry her.
Everyone was talking about their man’s character and little cute stories or traits - she was talking about his money essentially
@@bluegiraffe200 she did talk about his character. She said he wanted her to focus on herself and building herself up, while doing everything he can possibly do to make her life easier. In this case, it did involve him using hismfinances to make her life easier, but that's a good point to bring up considering most black peopek grow up in some sort ofmfinancialmstruggle. He proved himself to be reliable, thoughtful and completely invested in her.
Oh hush
"Dating pool isn't completely septic! " 😂
Yessss! I love this for everyone, we all deserve this happiness
This is what we need to see as single person! Because everything you consume daily has a huge impact on your perception,on your subconscious mind. Just like people you surround yourself with have impact on you. Isn’t it crazy to think “all men are trash/they all cheat/all women are trash/gold digger” when you are trying to manifest an healthy partener🙃? Make it make sense. You cannot have something while looking the opposite. Because this is what you will get,the opposite. Where your focus goes your energy flows! Remember what you think you attract period. Be careful of your thinking process,the words you used,cause words are spellings, ask and you shall receive! Don’t think “oh cmon it’s just entertainment”cause it’s not. Entertain yourself with positif things,positifs stories. It will help you to get what you want. If you want to build a business you’re not looking for exemple of people who went bankrupt right so why in the world would you do such thing for other aspect of your life? That’s why I don’t watch content if they are not align with whatever I want!We need more content like that,fr. I love the OP cause she understands that we need to see more of what we want not the opposite! Love to see happy people happy women y’all deserve it,we all deserve it! Enjoy the journey,grow in all level,enjoy your singleness,own it fully your time will come! Peace and love.
Deuces✌🏽
"If you want to build a business you’re not looking for example of people who went bankrupt" It could be useful for finding out what not to do. Someone who's always been successful can teach you what to do, but they can't tell you the warning signs of when things are going wrong.
@@misspriss2482 yes sure,people who achieve success went through “failure”aka experiences before to get what they want. My point is you cannot be feeding yourself with negative experiences (not even yours)on your daily life and expect to see positive things grow from that. It will impact your thinking in a subconscious level. And reflect on the conscious level in your life. A lot of people are addicted to negative stories that. Negative stories are viral all over internet more than positive ones.Balanced is required. I rather watch more positif content,over toxic stories cause hey that’s not the outcome I’m looking for.
Healthy relationships isnt hard to find. Issue is people want to ignore character and chase after transactional stuff. Then lie to themselves and say they were tricked, when they just ignore the obvious red flags
I think it’s harder for women to find great men given how men are raised.I do agree that women oftentimes ignore red flags.
Money is important, but that doesn't mean that women should ignore red flags. Being broke is a red flag.
No. I have never ever been about money. I can’t tell you how many men that I have met that were deceptive about who they are. Men have told me that they cheated and never got caught. Men have told me things and said their wife doesn’t know that about them. I have heard confession’s about things like deleting people. I found out that a “guy that everyone thinks is nice” lured a woman into a gang r***. Have you ever noticed men get real protective when their daughters start dealing with boys. They always say they don’t trust them.
@Rice10120 Idky but your statement "being broke is a red flag" has my stomach hurting 🤣🤣🤣🤣
However you're totally right
the problem is many faking their character to fool you into loving and/or committing to them then turning all that off once they know they got you
My dad retired my mom. Told her the same thing. But there marriage wasnt perfect. But my dad said if a man loves you. He would do that. Or be supportive of what you want. My mom was raised in poverty. N my dad was wealthy. N own land. Im looking for a man like that. But also for a gentleman at hearts 💕
For a moment I thought she was talking about the cat 😂
"Do you want this to be your last day at work"
YESSIR!! 😂😂😂
Aw I want that! My husband used to be that way but now he doesn’t care about himself so he can’t care about us as a family anymore 😢
Damn I never stopped to think in the past if I actually LIKED the person I was with, and looking back- no. I didnt. Everything else followed that.
Here’s the thing…this is all well and good-however, all these women are young and beautiful. We all know the typical story is that this is what happens with a good relationship with a man before the woman is 45. I want to see a woman over 45 discuss her healthy relationship.
This is wonderful, so my eyes open full of positivity. Please share more like this. It made me feel happy yet teary-eyed.
Ok I’ll compile a part two soon. 🙏🏾
@@Priscilla_Boye Thank you!
Thank you for this. After my marriage went down in flames this give me a small hope.
Best of luck!
@@Priscilla_Boye ❤️
Also continuously watch how men treat other people that can be an indicator of if he’s a nice person. All these people talking also they’re in a NEW relationships and they’re mostly YOUNG I could be wrong though. As couples settle into their relationship that’s when the relationship goes through challenges and tests. Remember Angelina Jolie & Brad Pit when they made Mr & Mrs Smith. How it was 2 of them against the world. How did that age… exactly. And this does not indicate they’re both bad people. It just indicates people grow apart, people grow resentful of each other or people see “other” people or things that pull their attention.
So it’s just good to be open minded about human beings. Also I’m a dark skinned plus size African woman. I’d like to see plus size, dark skinned women come here.
It’s refreshing to about positive relationships 😊
This is so beautiful 🩷 I know trauma is more intriguing to some people but this is what I wanna hear❤❤❤❤
YEEEEEESSSSS CHANGE MY ALGORITHM!!!!! I wanted and tried to like this video sooooo many times. If it ain’t one thing it’s another these days this was so fuckin needed! Keep this goin!!! I’m not on social media’s anymore so to see this on my YT feed brought so many hopeful and assuring tears to my gangsta eyes lmaooo got my eye corners sweating 😅
But basically I love the stories, I love positivity. Also men or women will do to you what you ALLOW. If your instincts are warning you about someone just avoid the person.
I only wanna see natural black women in healthy relationships. That’s a whole different world right there. A woman who’s made to feel beautiful existing primarily in her natural state. Cause that’s such a big part of our character.
This was so lovely, thank you. Also, you are so beautiful!
Thank you so much! 😊
Thank you!! This is what I've been looking for. Leaving a video with a big smile on my face isn't common. 🤗💖 I appreciate it!
I love this ❤ Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for sharing this positive video! 🎉😊❤
This is so refreshing to hear.
This is unrealistic for most. A lot of these women are super attractive which is how they got men like that
We need more of these stories !
I LOVE THIS!!! 💖
This helped my heart.
This is so beautiful to see. 🥰
BEAUTIFUL!!!!
Awww this is so sweet ❤❤❤❤
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Manifeting all this
I honestly can't imagine being with someone who:
A. Likes me for more than my looks or what I can do for him
B. Is reliable
Like. I'm trying to manifest, but I just can't see it for myself honestly after avoiding men for so long now😭😭
If i were them i would keep quiet and keep private. Now they have made their relationship a target. Women never learn, always trying to brag
All of them filming in their giant living rooms so you can hear the echo lol
Yesssszzzzz 😊
Sigh. I know that there are good men out there, but relationships are like Russian roulette. You have no idea what a man is going to be like until you've invested your time, your life, your emotions, your heart, and your body and years have gone by. That's part of the risk and I'm just not interested in taking the risk anymore. I'm not wasting any more sleepless nights crying over men that aren't worth my tears.
Adorable! Thanks for posting something positive ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yasss! They said My man. FULL STOP.
Except That couple at the end was a bit weird. lol her ending the video with “and taking responsibility on YOUR (👉🏽) part”. Vs making it something they both (should) do.
Lots of women don't want to admit we are attracted to toxicity and bad boys
I used to be that woman! I do like the bad boys looking guys when when I was younger. However, when I hit 24 years old, I turned my mindset and my type. Now mean and bad man give me the ick. I am attracted to softspoken guys, sweet, kind heerted and generious guys.
Aww 🥰 this is a refreshing share and welcomed escape from the usual complaining vids online. 😂
Glad you enjoyed
I've never had a healthy relationship 😢. My bf now doesn't cheat but he's verbally abusive.
Sorry to hear that I pray you find someone who values and appreciates you 🤗❤️❤️
@@Priscilla_Boye Idk. I'm pregnant now, so... 😩
@@nicoleraheem1195Just because your pregnant doesn’t mean anything. You have at least 2.5 months to make a decision if you want to stay or leave. Buckle down, & figure out what you want. I’m wishing you the best because I’ve been there 💯
It’s not going to stop once you have a kid. End of the day, It’s all up to you and what you want and what you think is best for you and your baby.
I just subscribed 😂
Thanks ❤️
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The subtitle should be | For the gamblers! Instead of for the healthy romantics.
Remember, ppl DO win in casinos and ppl do win jackpot in Powerball, too.
I’m “happy” for the “happy” girlies though.
You must be a very happy person. Congrats 🎉
@@AlienChicken I’m very fortunate! 🙌 😘
Did she(the 2nd one) say they're going to couple's therapy??
Some couples just do couple's therapy to maintain a good relationship and prevent future issues
It's like going to therapy as a single person for mental health
She's giving him too much access and investing when he hasn't fully committed to her. I wish that young women would stop falling for this trap.
@@Rice10120 do you mean that she is sleeping and living with him without being married?
🤍😍
As someone who is falling out of love in my current relationship I’m a little scared 😅 he’s such a green flag and an amazing person but our relationship has just fallen off romantically, we’re more like besties than lovers. But if there’s “no more good men” out there maybe I’ll have to just settle for a bestie, I mean it ain’t that bad
If that's your bestie, then that means he really likes you and loves you. Friendship is the best foundation for healthy relationships.
…so he actually likes you? Girl if you don’t go & communicate your needs so he can meet you there?! The grass is not greener! I repeat, The grass is not greener!
I would be slow to leave my best friend for any reason. It’s rare. Be SURE before you make that move. Do something to revive the romance. Friendship is for the long haul.
That's really terrible. Let that guy find someone who isn't just "settling" for him 😐