Man Sent His Wife A Blue Heart 💙 Emoji Everyday After Cheating On Her
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- Man says he sent his wife a blue heart emoji every day for 21 days after cheating on her and having a child outside of their marriage as way to overcome that “ adversity “.
Unpopular opinion: give all men podcasts. They will tell on themselves.
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I agree. It's good to know what they think collectively.
I would like to know how he’s coping with life lol!!😅😅😅
4REAL 4REAL
He don’t even look like a husband. He looks like the guy who stands in the corner of the club scheming on his next victim.
Who is she ? Who iiiiiiiiiiis she? Because whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?
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Lol more like the guy who be at the hood gas station that make women pass the gas station because his type is outside
Lmfao. 🤣 I can’t. Girl you right too
What are the qualifications for being a "motivational speaker"? And who in tf is HE motivating? Where do they find these guests for these podcasts?
He's motivating other dusties
@@Cantetinza17That and the only qualification he needs is to have audacity and a woman in the world he hates. Doesn’t even need to be personal.
All these men want to be motivational speakers so they can tell everyone else what to do so they can turn around and do the opposite.
Tik tok is all u need
@@Cantetinza17I know that's right!
He embarrassed his wife a second time by going on this podcast and letting it be known that she is putting up with this foolishness. 🤦🏽♀️
I’ll be filling for divorce and take him for all he’s got if I was in the wife’s shoes!!….
If she has any dignity she would divorce him once she found out about cheating.
Some people don’t respect themselves enough and we need to let them stay where they are, though we don’t know what his wife’s mindset is. You can forgive a cheater, but I don’t ever think you should take one back. Let them go. Let them be a changed person for someone else. I don’t understand people that stay with cheaters, even if it was only one time. That one time is enough. I try not to judge, but that gets hard when I see videos like this.
Exactly..
exactly, as If dealing with that personal tragedy in private wasn't hard enough...now in public....unreal.
Oh look, he cheated (edit: and made an outside child on his wife) and HE'S the victim 😲. Ladies...Pull out your tiny violins 🎻 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
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I don't own a violin.
Not the Spongebob reference with the tiny 🎻 . THIS THE ONE !!!! 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
I'm thinking of spaghetti for dinner. Meatballs or no?
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If not cheating is hard for someone, maybe they should stay away from monogomous relationships. This man is thinking he's living the best life, giving speeches to other people on how to live their life while cheating on his wife.
Dude. Yes. Polyamory, surrogacy and casual hookups are an option. Just be honest. That’s the bare minimum. My goodness.
And honestly, cheating exists in poly/open relationships too. They require sooo much fucking talking and transparency lol if honesty is an issue for you, opening the relationship up isn't going to change a person's shitty character.
I keep saying this. If you can’t be faithful then STOP GETTING INTO RELATIONSHIPS.
This ! Run for senate you have my vote 🗳️…
Delusional
I broke up with my bf on Valentine's. I have second-guessed myself over the last few days but the more I watch these videos the more I realize I made the right decision.
Your journey to healing and peace is about to be lit. Congrats to you❤
Well done. I stayed with a horrible man for 4 years, he dumped me 2 years ago. I've been single since and I'm staying there. You will be ok ❤
What did he do?
Stay strong, sister.
@@UA-camUzernameprobably not enough or too much shit
I cannot understand how any woman would stay with a guy who created a child outside of your marriage? Your marriage is OVER. Dump him.
THAT PART 👏🏾
she most likely feels trapped because he strategically manipulated her life to be dependent on him for her survival. that's what men do. she has two children she'll need to provide for on her own, so i hope she's just wisely using his time long enough in secretly plotting her escape.
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Don't forget all the diseases that probably gave her along the way. Many black women walking around here quiet with HIV...
She married a loser.
A grown ass man got on the internet to say that his best tactics to be a good husband is to send blue heart emojis to his wife 😒
Honey!!! The bar is so low that it’s fallen through the earth. SMH
@@HerMajesty81 🤣 I know !!! I hate it here 🤣🤣
LORD HELP US!!!!! 😭
@@HerMajesty81😂😂😂😂
The bar. In hell, it is.
speechless , he's surviving? Loving my single, child free life more and more each day
girl u better say that.. when i feel a lil down i come watch these videos and realize i got the better end of the stick lol
Right… 😩 Isn’t it peaceful?
As a single mom of 2, having children is OVERRATED. I love them to pieces, but I would never tell anyone to have them. People ask how I can have kids and say this. I say if you want them, have them. If you don't have the desire, please don't... Because you don't know if and when the fairy tale ends. ❤❤❤
Me too sis, Me Too!🤣💜❤️
@@SonorousSilenceso true
He said his adversity is marriage. Definition of adversity: Difficulties; misfortune
I'm just going to leave this here 🤦🏾♀️
Poor tink
That and the baby outside the marriage. A complete sicko
So let me get this straight... he said he's surviving and exceeding in the chaos he created? And followed up using the word tactic as in manipulative tactic as an example? A blue heart or 4? He couldn't even excel at the bottom-feeding tactic he's so proud of under achieving? Sheesh I need his wife to really listen to this...I mean he is proud of himself.
I'm embarrassed for the wife. Not only did he cheat and bring home living proof of it, but they he told the whole world how disrespectful, dumb, and manipulative he is smh. I really hope she leaves him
Girl, you said it. I hope the wife sees this and leaves his dumb ass.
He’d be needing to buy me blue Rolls Royces not sending blue hearts via text before I’d even think of staying.😂
@@toscadonna and after he pays me those reparations, I'm still leaving. No way I'd stay with that guy.
A very selfish person. He only cares that he got away with it
A blue heart 💙 to show how cold 🥶 his heart is for his wife.
he's too dumb to think metaphorically lol
Wow I genuinely laughed out loud! 😂 So true!!
Freaking cold!!!! Them hearts remainder her each time he sent it! Freaking heartless! But if she stayed………………🙄
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At least the host got on him.
And good on him for that. Tbh though I don’t really see women checking other women like this though. Most women try not to judge their friends for cheating which is pretty toxic tbh. Some men excuse it but if anyone’s checking another person for cheating it’s usually a man to another man. Wish women would do this too
He is the type of man who will think a woman is supposed to stay
The wife is suffering in silence just like my now deceased aunt did with her husband
sigh...everyday i come on here and lose a little more faith in humanity thanks to these dusties
I'm reassured that I made the right decision to never settle and not be afraid of being single
Don’t lose faith, know your worth and rise above. There’s good man out there. This Chanel has helped me realize the man I was with was trash, I’m now happily married to someone that cooks, cleans and loves me honestly and completely. Don’t lose hope, there’s a wonderful human for you out there.
The bar is so low for men!!
That bar is not even visible anymore. It sunk deep down into the depths of the abyss.
The bar has spontaneously combusted 😅
The bar is below Hell’s septic tank.
It's so low they're playing limbo in hell
The bar is in hell, the other guy was entertaining the nonsense by being gentle with him. Heart emojis? For cheating and a child out of wedlock. Marriage is a fool's errand for women.
I lowkey do love how the host is holding this man to the fire bc I feel like men be co-signing eachother bullshit sometimes
I bet you he has one of those “he’s coming home to me” wives. 🤦🏽♀️ He definitely doesn’t look like a good provider. In this case motivational speaker sounds like code for unemployed.
She’s 19 and naive as hell gotta be. Blue hearts???? After infidelity??? She stayed? Ain’t no way!!!
And this is why it's not our job to change them, fix them, argue with them, etc. Our job is to leave when you see the first red flag instead of tolerating thier bs. Males need to teach each other or stay with your boys in your loneliness pandemic 🤭💀
I appreciate the host for hilding him accountable by telling him HIS WIFE IS THE ONE SURVIVING.. YOU THE ONE KINIVIVING
As soon as he said "tactics" I immediately determined that this man was a con artist. He probably doesn't have an honest bone in his body. This man had no intentions on making amends & fixing his marriage. He just want3d to make her forget his horrible behavior so that he can have an opportunity to do it again without being held accountable
Bingo! 🎯 I really hope sis wises the fuck up and divorces his ass soon. It's a shame there are kids involved.
And stuttering his raggedy ass off trying to say "tactics"
This can't be for real. Its got to be satire.
He excels as a husband by texing heart emojis to his wife?
I've come across a zillion men just like dude out in the wild my entire life....guaranteed this is NOT satirical 😬🙄
Unfortunately they really be this delusional and will get mad if you dont join in the craziness smh
Oh no, this is unfortunately very real. He is most definitely a narcissist as well.
@@b1njjj95 Bingo. He has not taken accountability for what he did to his wife.
Because she have such low self esteem and she dont leave no matter what bs he is doing to her makes him think he is professional husband.
Keep the blue hearts sir. I promised after you cheated that's not the only thing gonna be blue.
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He couldn’t even ever HUG me again after that let alone get me anywhere near his Johnson.
Absolutely! A certain pair would be braided causing said blueness. 😂
But he is a provider though, after all he provided her with blue hearts!
I can't believe some men can bu foolish and cruel at the same time like that man. Blue hearts? Sir, are you 7? Do blue hearts heal the pain of the infidelity? Sir, you need some professional help.
I like how the co-host is correcting him and holding him completely accountable for his actions.
He looked like he was really proud of himself for mentioning the blue hearts... you wait for him to say something intelligent but it never comes. It was like watching a toddler put the ball in the square hole for a painstakingly long time... only difference is, the child gets grace for bejng a child.
Exactly. These men find pride in their shortcomings in a marriage or relationship. It's a game to them. Gives them bragging rights amongst their homies that they themselves are loyal to. Yet can't have that same loyalty to their wives. This is hate at its finest.
I’m Hispanic and this nonsense is common over here too. Women are expected to embrace and take in the kids their husbands created WHILE married. It’s frowned upon if you don’t. I saw my grandma do it. My aunts do it too. Those kids would be at every family gathering & everyone acted like it was okay.
Yeah, it's really sad how common this is in different cultures. The men are put on a pedestal and they are free to spread their seed around and impregnate all these different women, while the women are expected to be loving, devoted wives and mothers to unfaithful, garbage men that are not providers. It makes no sense!
Whaaaaat? 😮
Yo! Did YT seriously delete my freaking comment? I don't see it in this thread anymore. Omfg
It is okay for the kids to be at the family gathering...its not ok that his wife girlfriend etc DIDNT DUMP HIM and keeps rewarding him with ASS!
@@RonniKing-cb8meFirst and foremost cheating in general is NOT ok...
Ok but you gotta give the interviewer for keeping him in check
He’s “exceeding and excelling” as a husband with emojis…. Not by helping care for his children and giving his wife a break. Not by reading books about emotional intelligence or saving money for family time. Emojis. The bar is in hades.
It’s _sub_ hell actually 😒
Why is his wife not thinking the same? ✨💕
Sitting on my couch, with my puppy, both of us full and happy 😊 So glad I have removed myself from this “playing field”…but they say I’ll die single and alone. Looking better and better every day! Anyway anyone need anything from Sam’s or Costco?
50 pack case of paper towels, please and thank you 😊
@@MiiPhiMuahbro you're in the wrong app 😂
Yes get me the whole stowe! I have another bonus on the way to spend on myself
Two pennies rolling around in a rusty tin can.
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lol 😂
Look at the derelict mindset of these bandits 😂😂😂😂 Ladies, the bar is in hell! Never been happier to be single in my life.
Yo, I like the dude who said he wasn't surviving it, it was something he DID.
Marriage is always a battlefield when it's "black love"
The wife could've been any other race
If it was middle eastern love, in-laws were 100% involved blaming the wife for not being pale enough, or not having a rhinoplasty " because men sees a beautiful woman and he wants her , and rightfully so"
In toxic love in general race don't have to be the only thing involved
💯 The entire concept of Marriage needs an update in software and a upgraded user manual because the complaint hotline is overloaded with BS. 🤔🧐#marriage is a Horrible idea for most folks however they just keep doing it!!🤣😂😅💀💀😂 #stopit
Lol I won't get married until we get an updated XY version.
@@MW-rn1vg I know that's RIGHT 💜💯😅🤣
All of this!! ❤
He sounds dumb
Exactly, just slow as hell 😒😂
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And this is why I am very cautious of getting marry… if this is what I have to look forward to getting married, then maybe marriage ain’t for me
Tactics ...😂 And it lasted 21 days....the fact that the host was bewildered is sending meeeee 😂😂😂
Can somebody tell me where the whole interview is he’s eating him UP 😂😂😂
The podcast is called: Social Proof....if you type in, "Social Proof Podcast, Blue Hearts", it should come up ...😊
Thanks
I appreciate that dude in the red wasn’t letting him skate over his foolishness. But where he went wrong was not giving him the full business! You know he went home and laughed with his wife about this lame!
That fake ass yawn before he explained how he is excelling as a husband was him powering up his lie. Lmao chile😂
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Who thee HELL is this man motivationally speaking to!??
“He has nothing to offer other than blue emojis” sent me 😂
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I’m mexican and if a dude did this to me, my family would “take care of him” and he’d have a blue heart on his gravestone 😅
This man really went onto this podcast to make himself the victim of his own marital indiscretions. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
using such a dehumanizing word "tactics" like his wife is a targeted enemy in war and he needs to strategically dispose of a situation "he created", and not a human being that he needs to protect and be her ally for peace. he thinks he's sacrificing himself everyday by sending her "blue hearts" and eventually that "tactic" will award him a "purple heart". no sir, you are no hero to your wife and will not be admired by others for your bravery by using bare minimum "tactics" . it takes consistent, healing "efforts" to create trust, peace and emotional safety for your wife, not bare minimum "tactics" that only show controlling emotional neglect. pour into your wife with healing "efforts" .. these bare minimum "tactics" are still only depleting her. i can only imagine how drained this woman is 🥺
Any man who proudly announces to the world that he uses "tactics" on his wife is a bonafide sociopath who doesn't have an honest bone in his body. I hope that his wife watched that podcast and made the choice to leave that fool.
Not we on Optimus Prime internet😂😂
If as a man, he could not follow the man's logic who was "surviving" cheating and getting another woman pregnant while married, imagine how us ladies are doing with these men🤣
The gulf between low value men and high value men is so vast the LVM literally cannot comprehend the level HVM live on. LVM have no depth of thought and lack maturity. May God grant all women, especiallythe young women, the discernment and the strength of mind to snub the LVM.
Just remember, if it gets to the point were he brings home a baby, then he didn’t just cheat once and make a “mistake”, more than likely he was cheating over and over again and fully aware of wtf he was doing. These type of men never deserve you back, EVER! His wife should leave, he’s not remorseful. He doesn’t seem to value her, he showed no sad emotion or regret he was just probably embarrassed to admit that he had an outside baby. The host had to pull it out of him. He couldn’t even be man enough to say what he did.
Also, I don’t believe that childhood trauma causes someone to cheat on their spouse. The root of cheating is not in trauma, it’s in selfishness, the lack of respect, discipline, and emotional control.
Yes, and all of those things are rooted in trauma, mostly childhood. It changes you to hurt people. You know the saying "hurt people hurt people"
He’s very very stupid!!…it was just like one of my job interviews lol!! He was really off course & thought talking about tactics to shut everything up???😢😢😢😮😅😅😅
I think the host was letting him put his foot in his mouth 😅😂. I can not 😅 its scary out here 😳 discernment lord grant me discernment!!!
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I promise I don't mean any harm. Is it just me or does bro seem a little slow 🤔
This man said hes overcoming "adversity" that is "marriage". Let that sink in.
Is he smoking crack 😩😩😩. She needs to divorce him asap lol
This podcast host: BRAVO!!!! 👏 🎉 That is a man whose advice I would like to hear 😊👍
Yes I was so happy to see him hold him accountable
When I send these out 💙💙💙 just know I’m full of 💩
lol 😂 the way he paused like he had a lightbulb go off over his head that caused a stroke of genius about sending blue hearts to her everyday 😂
How is HE surviving when he's the one who cheated and had a whole baby on his wife?! Decenter asap,ladies!
I couldn’t stop laughing at the motivational speaker!😂😂😂
Dude sounds tiring🤦🏾♀️. He’s like a lost sad child. His poor wife🥲
Don't stay for outside babies. Cheating is bad enough but outside babies is just too much.
I’m happy the other married man held him accountable
I love your stories about Ghana 😂 trauma makes for funny stories, but honestly I'm sorry that happened to you
Thanks hun it wasn’t easy back then I used to skip his class often because I didn’t want to be beaten😅
What an awful teacher!
Imagine being married to this dude. God help us all and deliver us all from this type of non sense. Stay woke, girls.
This guy can't even articulate himself well. But he's a motivational """speaker"""😂😂
I love how the interviewer called out his immense BS. He seemed absolutely taken aback by this speaker's audacity, too. I guess he's a man of substance.
Bless his.......
Sorry. It was day 22
Kudos to the brothas that held him accountable and asked other "no good" dudes to stay off "Optimus Prime's Internet🤣🤣🤣".
I'm tripping on him claiming to be a "motivational speaker" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤡🤡
He motivating the hoes
If she’s still with him, why should I feel sorry for her?
Maybe she is not in the best situation to leave, she has 2 kids, also he could be a narcissist master manipulator
She could be traumatized, maybe it is not acceptable in the couture, the family will desown her and treat her badly, who knows, so many things
Because she might not know better.
Because he's clearly a misogynistic manipulator duh
she most likely feels trapped because he strategically manipulated her life to be dependent on him for her survival. that's what men do and women should not be shamed for having to stay in these situations to survive. this can happen to any woman. she has two children she'll need to provide for on her own, so i hope she's just wisely using his time long enough in secretly plotting her escape.
I don’t know her situation but it is hard for me to believe he just started being foolish after marriage. He was probably just as foolish before marriage but she kept excusing it and deluding herself and cutting off any friends she had who tried to warn her. It’s so hard to continue to have compassion but I say we should try for the sake of the kids!
I doubt this was the first time he cheated, and I'm willing to bet it won't be the last. If sis likes it, then I love it🤷♀️
They are so exhausting. It’s like they, collectively, are not worthwhile. Side note: teachers “beating” students is not IT!
I’ve heard better advice from a 14 year old 🙂
This is the typical black struggle love relationship
When you start viewing men in their child like state, you can fish them out for who they are
He looks like the type that always in a female’s face. Not chick is off limits, no matter what. lol he wants to know who she is and how can waste her life over there next couple of months.
He was smooth talking and had mad game when he was growing up. He could pull any and every girl and woman with just his words, “charm” and persistence.
But both the girls and women have frowns and matured. They no longer find him or his shenanigans cute.
Unfortunately, he’s still stuck.
Then he locked someone down and made her a damn fool.
Now he’s sending blue hearts. Bc his normal routine isn’t working anymore. And he’s exasperated by it.
So HIS infidelity must be adversity. LOL
Thank internet for continuing to remind me that I should not forgive my ex.😊✨
I love how Dave held him accountable!!
Sending 💙💙💙to everyone in the chat 😂😂
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With situations like this being so common, I don't understand why people are constantly trying to bash women for being single. When you see constant proof that some married women are being put through hell in these marriages it's very clear why so many women choose to be single.
It's true. When people talk about how hard marriage is, they mean the amount of shit the woman has to put up with. I didn't quite believe it until this moment.
Very true. It's disgusting
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Your laughing after that clip SENT ME 🤣
I couldn’t help it 🤣🤣
Jesus please be a roaming brain 🧠 cell … that’s it no more internet today … I hope she files for divorce.. or volunteer for a brain 🧠 transplant because I would’ve asked for the check and walked away on the first date … how does he have the audacity to say he’s overcoming adversity HE created… WHAT , PARDON ????? ❤😂
😂😂 My narc ex thought the exact same way. Kid you not.
@@katcraig7525 Lol 😂 the nerve he had !
That guy was funny. He said “put the mic down this year”😅😂
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These internet podcasts are the real Jackass TV. SMH
I HOPE HIS WIFE SAW THIS. HE MAKING LIGHT OF WTF HE DID.
I’m so sick of these ninjas 😑
This is what happens when you continuously reward a man w/ your presence.
As simple as it may sound, the longer you stay around, the more they’ll convince themselves that the bare minimum “tactics” they create are enough to resolve issues within the relationship 😭😭
She needed to set the bounds as to which he could be redeemed in the relationship, NOT HIM
ESPECIALLY AFTER HE HAD A CHILD OUT OF WEDLOCK?!!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!!!!
I love the host keeping him accountable
Motivational speaker?
SMH 🤦🏽♀️
He can barely articulate his thoughts 💭
I'm convinced that man is slow. 😂
They should be purple hearts because the wife is the real survivor in this tale 💜 lol
I couldnt even listen to him waffle on i just skipped to the stitches and your opinion coz i already know hes telling on himself 😂
Throwing the whole dam phone away 😂
He is truly a poor excuse for a man...sending hearts is BELOW BARE MINIMUM
They “do soooo much” but only speak of “most recently” 😂😂
Tactics or sentiments? I think he's at a lost for words. Wants to sound intelligent. He didn't have a solid father. Boys getting married is not good. He meant well in his kind but he's lost. 😐