He Said Women Should Settle And Be Willing To Do 60/40 Because All The Good Men Are Taken
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- Man says women should settle for 60/40 relationships as there are no perfect men anymore because most good straight men are taken or in prison.
Good men in prison!?? 😮😮😮 Please stop
Black male logic
Delusional talk
Just Smdh 😂
I thought he said straight men 🤷🏾♀️
Their brains escape them when they speak.😮
Men aren't competing against other men, they are competing with the peace women have in a man's absence. When you can choose yourself, you never have to settle.
Exactly I choose me , healing, peace, finances, pets, kids, etc ❤🎉
Whew YES! Say it again!
A happy woman: "I am enough" An insecure woman: "I'm miserable" A happy man: "You're enough." An insecure man: "You're miserable."
This is it!!!
👏👏
And here WE WOMEN arent the prize but you got MALES begging to settle for them.
This!!!! Cuz who in their right mind will BEG a person who has NO VALUE to be with them??? Especially when they’re “hIgH vAlUe mEn?!?!”
It’s crazy-I thought the high value men and Passport Bros were doing great without us?!?! Why are you asking us to settle (and to settle for men that he ADMITTEDLY said are NOT good men)?!?!?!
They sound so pathetic when they get on whatever platform spewing their nonsense. Like go ahead and tell us you’re a bum loser that has zero to offer without telling us 🙄. Just unfortunate that anyone with access to the internet can spread the stupid 😂
Ikr , mgtow my ass
@@naturalvibes9014Men love projecting you don't hear a peep since the decenterement movement started
That's the comment right there 🔥🔥🔥
They think because THEY can’t be single, we can’t either 🙄🤭🤣 pathetic
What is that they say???
Oh right....."males and women are DIFFERENT"
They better get a fleshlight and keep it pushing 😂
@@crestfire8008right hahahaha RIGHTTT!!!
Lmao soooo true.
They get it now 😂😂its scary for them😂
He has just admitted that a lot of men aren’t good and that very few good men exist. But then later, when women repeat the same talking points, men like him and pickmes will say “not all men!”
The jokes write themselves.
That’s it they keep telling on themselves 😅
Badum ~tss
🥁🥁🥁
Facts he can date and have the pick mes
And on top of that they they then tell you to choose better. Insanity!
@@77kc_77Was thinking the same!!! Bet he won't take a Pick Me!
This is why we're choosing to stay single, if this is what is out here.
We're happily single at that and y'all mad about it lol
Amen
They can stay mad😂
They big mad 😂
Facts I have peace
Seriously tho!
He's saying settle to be happy?
That's NOT happy!
That's suffering with a below minimum man!
And when he's cheating, abusive and neglects his children, those same men who TOLD you you to settle say "well she chose him, she made that choice, that's on her..."
Choose yourselves ladies! ❤
I rather do 100% being single than settle for a man who's going to compromise my peace.
Amen. I hear guys say a woman should bring a man peace but are they bringing peace to the woman?
@@moniqrupley6019 No
Yes they’re not just competing against each other for women, they’re also competing for our peace, joy, and love with ourselves. If they can’t meet or exceed that it’s a hard no! Not worth it.
@@moniqrupley6019 They don't bring peace just drama
@@77kc_77exactly, they like to ruin beautiful things.
Why does he think he’s a perfect man?…”It ain’t enough of US” Sir please 😂
His thinking alone disqualifies him.
He also said the good men are in prison.
The good (for him) men are in prison.
Lol insert Soulja boy gucci head band meme
Right! 🤡🤛🏾
Him saying "C'mon nah!" is the height of begging disguised as enlightenment. He really believes that he can convince women who've realized how special we are, that we AREN'T. Good luck to you, Sir 🤞🏽
I wouldn't even want a man who pronounces now like nah! 😂
Yeah come on ladies!
Just accept whatever loser you can get.... You know... To be HAPPY at the end of the day!
Does THAT sound like a "happy" life to you?
Maybe we have different definitions of the word "happy" 😂
Right, like sir you’re def speaking of BM only when he says there’s not enough. If BW open their options, there’s more than enough men for BW to choose from. That’s if she wants to. Like this is their piss poor attempt at making BW mule for him. And what’s ironic is that he’s not an ugly guy so that means he’s coming up short out there! lol it’s hurting him and his ego lol He’s trying anything he can to not put in effort to be a better man. SMH!
Right dry begging ☕
And may of us women who had an active father in our lives have mentioned the top things we were taught by our fathers were to never settle for a man that won’t work, don’t have goals, don’t have ambitions, and not treat us like queens. My father was a police officer. He also told me to make sure the man meets him first because he’s able to tell what kind of man he his by his body language, how he speaks and how he presents himself around him. He also does background checks on them too. Many of these type of men like the man in the video, dusties, peepee bros and redpillers don’t bother to realize that many of our fathers have taught their daughters from an early age to make sure to be able to survive on our own and be independent with a backup plan incase a man leaves you to fend for yourself. Our grandmothers told us the same thing.
Males are options, not necessities
That used to be the other way round we have come a long way ❤
Facts Definitely not a flex to get married , have a baby, or deal with a man in 2024
Exactly💯🤡🤛🏾
Let's not become like some men tho, saying such words that men would say, we should become better people, innocent men shouldn't be wrapped with toxic men.
@@blossom1290get picked girl!!!
This is a joyous time for women because the scare tactics didn't work. We are happy, healthy, and stress free while men are out here bad. I've accomplished so much since I started choosing me and stopped caring about a relationship.
You’re so right to say that this is a joyous time for women.🌺 And congratulations to all you’re doing and all you’ll accomplish.🥳
Well said!
It is no longer working worldwide, and Im so happy ❤ we no longer accept cheap men mentally, emotionally, and financially.
It is a joyous time for women
...wait til the power grids go out. Women don't understand electricity.
how can you be happy when you’ve settled?
Ask again the math ain’t mathing 😂
Going to be miserable cause not only are you going 50/50 on the bills you will be doing 100% of all household duties. They are getting lazier while adding more to the woman’s plate.
I settled for myself - have absolutely no regrets.
Why should I pay to be an someone else's servant?
@@fantym1633luv this!
@@fantym1633
THAT part!
There's no benefit to me!
“Men don’t realize y’all are more trouble than your worth.” Oof.
Men will leave all the pillars that it takes to have a healthy relationship for a woman to figure it out on her own. Women want a partnership, not an assignment.
“Women want a partnership, not an assignment” THAT PART!! 💯💯💯
if we're more trouble than we're worth, then why he out here begging us so hard to "settle"?
"Someone is going to have to settle"
OK cool, that can be you.
💀😂
yep, he can settle and be the 😼😼😼😼in the relationship and with all those tats, he's seen some time and already has the experience.
Nah they can't settle because you have to be an option or like they say "chosen" in order to settle
PERIOD! 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I came looking for this comment! 💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
Settling for low effort bare minimum trash men
So true. Men know they are being judged and they know what scores they getting. It doesn't matter if he rates himself a 10 if the women he wants are rating him a 2. It is what it is and he ain't getting with her. A lot of men don't understand that women do settle, but not for the things they think they should settle for. Some men don't come with a big pay or a house or any of that stuff, but he is sweet and respectful and trying hard to get himself together (without relying on her for help of course) and that is a man a lot of women will settle for, not this delusional bozo. Some men are a joy to be around, not an inconvenience. These whiny men think they deserve to be settled for, but they not. If they were, a smart woman would've already snatched him up.
Nope. Not everyone can have a perfect man.
That's why I'm staying single as a dollar bill. That's one way to avoid any kind of a lifestyle you don't want.
We’re not even asking for men to be perfect we are asking for the bare minimum.
@@ladybug3380 yep. However, that's not what dude said. I'm just agreeing with what he said.
He knows we're asking for the bare minimum, but, if he were to address that, then he wouldn't be able to portray women as asking for too much. And then he wouldn't be able to give women advice to settle for a dusty like him.
I don't even like cooking myself dinner what makes a man think I want to cook him dinner? NOT the lifestyle I want and I don't want to share my bed either cuz I like to sprawl out. Honestly, the thought of a man up in my space makes me feel claustrophobic. No, sir, I do not want to share with you!
@@silververnallbells191 I have strawberry scones with a peach amoretto glaze in my freezer that I baked a couple weeks ago. I've been taking one out every day to enjoy with my afternoon coffee.
If I were to have a man, they would have been gone in 2 days (bc I've never seen a man bake his own treats, and will just consume whatever is already made, instead of feeding himself an actual meal).
Same here!
If I can’t have it all then I don’t want it .
Exactly!
Periodt. I want what i want. No settling anymore. Thats why theyre upset. We're not setlling anymore.
Period! ❤
NONE!
Better single than suffering
Lol he said "some of you are going to have to go 60/40 just to be happy" 😂😂😂😂. He REALLY thinks that some of us are that DESPERATE to have a man to just exist in our lives 😂😂😂
i wouldn't be happy if i had to do 60/40. many women wouldn't be happy doing that. he's just trying to convince us that taking care of a man is the end all be all. no thanks.
Sadly many WOMEN out there reinforce that belief!!!!
@@thatgirlkells5505Then let them get with those women.
@@Childfree334 Amen!!!!
I'd rather do 100% for my single self than to do 160% for a low value men.
This way of thinking just looking for a free cooker, cleaner and smex worker. And pay for it 40%. What a bad deal sorry 🤦🏻♀️🤣
He is talking about women paying 60 to 70%.
Light bill Larry also wants her complete submission to his poor judgement
He meant we pay 60 percent
@@fantym1633Not Light Bill Larry. Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂!!!!
For real? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 we pay more than men???? No way boy bye 👋
I rather be single than settle. He’s bugging.
He's looking to use a woman as a battery and a place to stay🤡🤛🏾
Ok then be single, no one cares 😂
They don't realize that a woman can be single, childfree, and happy. Often, far happier than women with a male partner.
And they hate it
🎯🎯🎯
Why bring children into it? This topic wasn’t even about children but of course y’all can’t not bring up you being childfree into every conversation.
@@Las645boohoo breeder. Forced births suck don’t they
@@beautifullEternal Agree. Being saddled with kids is not "freedom". Most women want other women to have kids so they can all be overworked and miserable together.
Men are work. Plain and simple. I already have 2 jobs, don't need one that I never get a break from.
Facts 💯
I have enough with my life/ kids
Well said
Exactly. I earn good salary test still do another masters and look for a second job. Earn as much as I can to stay safe and with time and safety net get more steady and calm. I don’t need a heavy weight tighten around my neck I have to drag everywhere and that how it feels when you have a scumbag not a men . Bettter to starve then stand an obnoxious men next to you
sis this comment here 💯
Instead of Men becoming better MEN, they suggest that WOMEN settle! All this translates to is "Lower Your Standards.
I think it's men who have to settle for being alone if they don't want to step up.
Yep, it's all projection at this point. They're the ones afraid of living and dying alone
@@Prismatic9008 yep
They think we have to be with them. But we don't and won't give up our peace of mind for the Drama XY's bring🤡🤛🏾
These guys don't consider that some women would prefer to stay single and happy rather than be miserable with an awful man. Some men can ruin you life, they aren't a necessity for happiness.
Yes - most of them ruin women's life with their toxic and dysfunctional energy just the stress of them will push you to the edge -my energy went through that so no I keep xys away
Your life
Your health
Your relationships
Your education
Your hobbies
Your career
They can make you a shell of yourself.
Imagine having the kind of man you wouldn't want to meet in a dark alley in your house all day! Because some men treat "their" women like that alleyway stranger, only worse because it's on a daily basis. Can't ever be me!
@LadyAstarionAncunin right I'm scared to walk out alone due to these guys and what they'll do next- dur to rejection , etc we see the femicide, dv rates , etc
It’s even better to be miserable alone, than be miserable with a man.
He's not talking about men. He's talking about dusties and nobody wants a dusty 😂
A critical mass of males are dusty. This comment shows you’re obtuse and are probably a dusty or a dusty lover.
@TheOriginalScorpioBelle yep atleast 95% of males are dusty degeneratives
He looks like he needs a place to stay
😂 He don't got nothing to offer but dust
@@kayshawnsimmons5585probably since he talkin bout some "60/40"
A lot of these men are going to be SURPRISED PIKACHU when they realize how many women will say, "No good men left? Okay, I'll be on my own, then."
Men: CHOOSE BETTER.
Also men: Women Should Settle And Be Willing To Do 60/40.
Women: OK, we choose ourselves.
Men: Not like that. You'll end up with cats, in a house by yourself without someone to take care of.
Women: Please don't threaten us with a good time.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☝️☝️☝️☝️
I still don't know what the deal is with them always throwing cats into it. Cats are cleaner, easier to care for and much better companions (I currently have a dog, but have had cats before too). I'll take cats over a scrub, bum, dusty dude any day.
Since when are most of the straight men in prison?! Say whet?! 🤣 ..We know that's a LIE
Good straight men, he’s crazy.
@Dani-fc1hc Add delusional too. GOODNESS 🤨
He was speaking from experience because something tells me he was in prison with them tooting it up
Lol let's be honest he's only talking about men who look like him.
Is a felon a good man? 😅
Men grossly overestimate their presence in a woman’s life. Like the majority of us will remain single HAPPILY without settling down.
Males overestimate themselves. Women underestimate themselves
They convinced themselves their a prize big alternative egos - jokes on them now
They will also say “choose better men” to the women who have settled… women get judged for every thing that men decide to do.
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!
if i'm gonna be judged anyway, then i might as well be on my own, living in peace, happiness and freedom.
Desperate!😂😂😂😂😂 I’ll rather buy a cat…. No STIs, no manipulation tactics, no fear mongering just peace and quiet. These people will do anything but dealing with themselves. They know they are insufferable 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He thinks that women want and need men.
He thinks we're all going to pair up.
Projection. Delusions.
I certainly don't!!!
This subset of men need to grow the fk up. Life is a game so get leveling, upgrade if he not getting any girls. If he were worth anything, he'd already be catching the eye of some ladies and not on here complaining. What he expect? Girls getting with him out of pity?
Facts. They are delusional and Have all the audacity to say BS like this is why I choose to be single and living in Peace
their toxic gaslighting isn’t working anymore, and they’re having their little manchild meltdowns 😏
😂😂😂😂😂
They forgot cats and brunch exists....😂
Or guard dogs
@@CitySlickerButtKickerEmphasis on the GUARD!
Okayyyy..I've already got it planned out. I want an orange tabby, a black cat, and a pure white one. 🐈🐈⬛🥰
@@KosmikGawdess Ragdoll cats are the most beautiful and I am not even a cat person
Yah I got a cat, Belgian Malinois, and a husband. But that guard dog - he’s a protector. He’s a real one!
They will look at every option available except bettering themselves. All the time they spend on trying to manipulate women and complaining about women could be spent working on themselves. But they don't realize that for us being alone is better than having a partner who ain't shit, so unless they get better, they'll be the ones that are miserable
Exactly!!!
Facts atp men are a job and I'm not here to deal with- why won't they get better and be better?
Most of them ain't shyt
Well said!
Ladies, Decenter Men and ALL Toxic Family Members or Friends.
Eww "You can have nothing and be miserable" why do some people assume that singles are miserable?? If anything, singleness adds PEACE because it protects us from BUMS like the dusty bandit in the video lol just the thought of settling for someone like him is just unbearable & almost sickening lol 😊
These men are projecting because they are unhappy single. They want a woman to take care of them cooking, cleaning, nurturing them and so on while bringing NOTHING to the table. Even if a man is paying all the bills typically that is ALL they do. Simultaneously they are bringing a lot of headache. They don’t realize a lot of woman have been there done that and realize that they are much happier when single.
Exactly bums make me more miserable than being single 😂
Amen!
Because THEYRE miserable alone.
EXACTLLYY!! He said some
Of y’all gonna have to go 60/40 just to be happy!! The only ones that are miserable single are pickmeishas and these dusty men!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Since I broke up with my bf 2 months ago, I have lost weight and saved money.... win, win 🏆
Good for you sis
I have a third option for this dude. No one settle. Better to be alone than trapped in a bad situation with a guy you resent. Men want us to settle. Of course,they are desperate and they are projecting their fear onto us. They need women more than we need them. This is absolute gaslighting. Nope.
What this man fails to understand is that he is not in competition with only "Chad" like he thinks. He is in competition to all our platonic women friends who would be glad to have a 50/50 roommate situation. He is in competition with the peace and stability of living alone. So many men are woman-centred and are making thr mistake of thinking that all women are, too. The people who are ready to settle have already done it.
We aren't asking for perfection, we're asking for effort and advancement. If y'all can't offer that than you shouldn't be dating.
Grateful for an emotionally broken financially bankrupt man filled to the brim with envy and animosity towards me?
Nahhhhhhhhh I’ll settle for dogs 😂😂😂 atleast I know they actually are loyal.
Don't forget seggually immoral.. Ready to give you a STD..
filled to the brim with envy 🤣totally!! The animosity!!
@@genevieveaniko6492yep because they refuse to go to the doctor to get wellness check ups because they sleep around
😂😂😂😂
Period. I KNOW my dogs love me, I SEE how grateful they are, they give back 200% of the love you give them.
Girl, if different types of woman with different background can have guys that treat them like a princess. Don't ever lower your standard!
“You are competing with my candle making classes” perfectly encapsulates why I am single.
Nope. We women will live aline and y’all can live with your mommies.
And I’m laughing because women would probably jump at a 60-40 arrangement instead of the average 85-15 reality the majority of us face.
Edit to fix typo: We women will live ALONE and y’all can live with your mommies.
Even when the men are paying 100% that’s all they do. They don’t want to help around the house, cook, or take care of children. So in the 50/50 or 60/40 arrangement the work load becomes even more uneven because the woman has to carry a full time job while managing the home and children full time. Meanwhile he just has to work and only put 50% of his income towards the bills while doing nothing else. Never mind the other headaches they bring with infidelity or being abusive. Alone is better than any of these situations.
And I forgot to mention when you are successful woman it is hard to find someone who is on the same level. In my long term relationship as I advanced my career I made significantly more money. I would be hard pressed to find a man who earns equal to me and I don’t have any desire to have a man leeching off of me. Fortunately, I have no desire to be in a relationship ever again.
Yeaaa…if I have to ‘settle’ imma settle with being a great friend, being better to my family, being the coolest aunt/god mother, and a true lover of cats. All while enjoying being debt free, going on vacations with myself, and eating the glorious food around the world.
60-40 sounds like a dream. I don't know any woman that doesn't do 90% of things at home, with the kids and the pets, and also work. It often starts somewhat equal, but it never ends that way. And women allow that to happen. They will be miserable and yet still defend their man 🙄
SOME women allow that and it's okay i don't blame them, they are brainwashed like that
60-40 is still a scam for women. Women go through pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding that xy never will. How will xy compensate for this?
So let's do the math:
Women will go through pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, AND PAY 60% OF ALL BILLS, AND DO ALL THE HOUSEWORK.......
What do males bring to the table??? They are a net negative
Bro shut up with the “women allow” bullshit. 🙄 it’s like y’all’s default is to blame women always as if they’re not TAUGHT to accept this as if it’s normal and defend their man. Struggle love is advertised to women all the time. 🙄
But Kevin Samuels said that every man was the right man…👀
Also, it’s funny how he’s saying this for women, but he would never tell his fellow man to settle. That they can’t have their cake and eat it too. Every woman that a man chooses WILL be the right woman, come hell or high water, whether she likes it or not. Women are bred and socialized to be obsessed with relationships and being useful to men. They KNOW that they don’t have to settle for what she’s CAPABLE of, only for what she LOOKS like.
And based on the fact that many men will leave their wives for their preference, they don’t really have to settle at all. You’ll never REALLY settle if you have no intention to stay faithful and committed and think it’s appropriate to start over at 60 years old.
Are the men not hearing the women say we would rather be alone… I just don’t understand why they’re not understanding being singleeee is betterrrr than “settling” JUST to have somebody. How many times do the scientists have to prove “having nothing” is not making the women miserable. It’s just not true.
They hear us they don't care because decentering them doesn't make them an option anymore
Noone is perfect. there is still a differance between a dusty crusty dude and a lovely guy willing to be an eual partner. the 6 6 6 thing is not true. Why would any woman agree to a roommate they have to sleep with and do all housework? Lets not pretend women dont take the role of the domestic labor manager. I definitly wont pay 40, 30, or even 10% for that. The bills will be his, or i live on my own in my clean pink dreamhouse. He can come visit.
Exactly! They don’t realize they bring very little to the table, so if they aren’t paying all the bills it is not even worth. Even when they pay all the bills that’s ALL they do. Everything else rests on the woman cooking, cleaning, child rearing. If you have to go 50/50 60/40 you might as well just be single and not have to worry about taking care of a man child. The above doesn’t even include some of the headaches and danger they bring with being unfaithful, abusive, manipulative, etc.
We know this is not all men, but even this man is admitting that the a lot are subpar and that we all should just settle because we won’t be happy alone. What they don’t realize is a lot of us have been there and done that and are no longer interested.
absolutely!!!
Nope! Not bringing any filth into the pink dreamhouse!😂 a hotel if it must be done😅
Exactly!@@valenciaforshee
Yes even I want to be creative and sell my books and music… I asked my husband if he wants kids does he want to be the stay at home dad with them young? Bc it’s just me I love kids but I don’t want to be the primary caretaker and house cleaner. Maybe it’s my Capricorn energy lol. And we can do whatever we want in the modern era.
Lol. This here is desperation 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Whats wrong with women being single? Romantic relationships are such a luxury option, they must as well be great or non existent.
No one has to settle. Being single and happy is a choice.
Yes just like dating is a choice too - they don't understand that we can choose peace rather then them.
Some of you are gonna have to go 60/40 on your end!
Just to be happy at the end of the day...
😂😂😂😂
That's NOT a happy life for me!
No thanks!
I'd rather die alone than die inside everyday!
But are you alone with friends & the family you've cultivated thru the years?
Men typically don't cultivate friends/family
they are pickmes are ready to have them anyhow they come but they don't want the pickmes, he needs to take his own advise and settle for them.
THIS!
Facts they want women who they know are out their league instead of being better
I'm so glad I don't deal with xys
They want Instagram baddies, not pearl
I might as well be single if I have to settle for the struggle love😊
When he said majority of straight men left are in jail I stopped listening😂
Hoping it will make women desperate enough to make more prison visits and bail them out
I genuinely love cats...im so looking forward to that chapter😊
It’s dogs for me! Old chihuahua woman!
@@min_tea_ 😍yessss❤👌🏾
I have 2 chihuahuas and a cat. I was done, done a long time ago and never met a man who makes me happier than my pets. 😊
@@aishageorge3056 😍❤this!
Same and connecting with other women ! 💗🐈
I don't think they understand. We are willing to be single forever if we can't find this "perfect" man. More and more women are letting go of the accepted "truth" that everyone MUST choose someone. But we don't. We don't ever have to choose anyone.
0:56 the thing is tho, men are the ones that are miserable single, statistically women are happier single then men are, you can see it at remarrying stats after divorce, men are more likely to remarry and they often do it very soon because they can't handle being alone
They definitely can't be alone. Mine got engaged while we were still married and went down the aisle 6 months after we divorced.😂
Now he's miserable, taking care of a SAHW with her two adult kids, by two different men, and his 4 step grand kids.
Meanwhile, I'm traveling, living my best life, and cashing these spouse support checks that I will receive every month for the rest of my life.😂
Men who are in jail are not all straight at all. They might go in straight but MANY come out gay. Let’s be honest
Yep
Then you settle for one of those men he’s describing and they will tell you that you should’ve chose better. 😂😂
PREACH.....That is their favorite gaslighting phrase.
If your life is at 100 but getting into a relationship with a man will lower that in any way
Why should you?
Men just be better, work on your trauma, emotional intelligence, parenting skills and domestic ability
Stop with all this manipulative talk
They can't and refuse to be better - women should stop asking men to do anything because they won't better themselves - if anything, they need therapy for their mental and emotional issues
Saying all the good men are taken is a cop out to them refusing to grow and reform themselves into being a good man for a partner. They want the good women to lower their standards to continue having access to us.
If all the good men are taken that basically means that all the untaken ones are no good. Who wants that?
Good men are taken what's left is a cesspool of incels
Shit's cute that he feels entitled to tell women that they need to settle for doing more work in the relationship than their man but he can't even conceptualize that conversation in the other direction. Can't even conceptualize doing 50% for his woman, let alone more than her. Ytf would any woman want that kinda scrub?
I just thought today there was a time I needed a man to meet my needs. But God is my provider and now I have a place, a nice car, and life is falling in line. All my bills are paid and I an not in the red. I feel super blessed!
Thisss amen 🙏🏽 Jesus is everything
Why must I settle when I can just... Be single?? Why do they always have to beg for a woman to deal with them? They need to date each other.
Good men are taken or in prison....BM logic
LMAO I just live with a woman my age who earns the same high income. We have a garden overflowing with flowers, 14 Tiffany lamps, Persian rugs and travel to Portugal every year. Ladies: live with each other. Throw your boy toys out before 5 AM - the ladies need the bathroom.
They really think we’re “miserable” when we choose singleness over settling… 😂😂😂😂
Bless his heart, he should just say he’s not willing to rise to the occasion.
This is too hilarious. He said, we ain't sh*t just accept it. We ain't bout to change, just settle for the garbage that's out here😂😂😂😂😂. " Is you gone let me be toxic with you or nah?"......lmfao 😅😅😅😅😅
The cost/benefits analysis determined that was a lie.
😂😂😂
60/40 would be great! I currently do 100, which is why I am DONE with his sorry ass.
You can also “settle” and “be miserable.” Being alone doesn’t guarantee misery no more than being with someone guarantees happiness.
A lot of men don’t see healing as an option…
Yet their ruining women lives with their drama, toxicity, and chaos- I'm in a healing phase from a narcissistic toxic male
How did males get so cocky? They really think they the main character in Every womans story.
Thanks for the advice. However, I'd much rather be single than settle.
at least not to some irrational degree
I love my peace and peace of mind and refuse to give that up for a toxic person- I refuse to settle - I don't settle for dust or low tier behavior! I choose me!
You leave off the system with your three cockroach turds.
He really out here thinking he one of the good ones lol. That’s why I don’t take men’s concerns seriously. When you give them a chance to talk there main complaints are about how they should be able to do less than their share
If the good men are taken, then being alone IS settling. Getting with bad men or men who are less than; that's making your life worse on purpose.
This man are threatening us with a good time ,being alone in your clean house and enjoying life with your friends and family sounds like a dream than to settle for their low effort relationships
I always considered having a bf as the cherry on top of the cake.
Too bad I don't eat cake.
What exactly do they think we are missing out on?! Why do they think we need them in our personal lives? We single ladies have been living fine without them for so long. I saw a guy comment basically making fun of how single women were singing “single ladies” and taking it seriously while Beyoncé went home to her husband. The same husband that she is now more popular than, who cheated on her, and who has some serious skeletons in his closet. The bar has disintegrated at this point, it’s not even in hell. Ladies, continue to live your single life!
They also forget the chorus is "if you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it" - the oneus is on men to step up, but they don't want to believe the lyrics.
And it won’t be me, thank you! 😁😁💋
He does understand we can just….opt out…right? Men can die alone if they don’t change, we don’t have to compromise lmaoooooo
Exactly 💯
So interesting that they say mess like this, but in the same breath will ask “how does marriage benefit men?” Men just keep trying to tell women to eat sh!t and like it and I really believe it’s because many of them know they don’t have anything else to offer. They need women to buy into it so they stand a chance at finding someone. These fools will not leave us alone! We will never see the woman that asked this dude for advice because she doesn’t exist. No one asked him.
He really took tell me you're a worthless pos without telling me you're a worthless pos out loud seriously.
I thought men wanted to be respected, apparently not anymore...
I literally busted out laughing when he said that. I want what I want not what you men want me to want like no.
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These "men" are not proving that they are better than our solitude. That's the real issue. ONLY date what you can relate. I will NEVER understand how men with NOTHING have the audacity to try to get with women that have SOMETHING, and expect her to accept the BARE MINIMUM or NOTHING at all.
Jcole also said "dont save her she don't wanna be saved"..alot of women are at genuine peace with beng single and you know why?..bcuz its trash and shit in the dating pool and no real woman wanna swim in that💯
Funny how it's always "no YOU have to settle" and never "yeah i can work on myself and be better."
First off, that smacking on his side was annoying. And I am already settled with 60/40. Just with myself. 60 percent being content with a single childfree by choice woman and 40 percent working to pay for everything i need and want. 💁🏾♀️
He need to get his passport and leave us alone!!!!
By the sound of things he can't afford the passport fee. Hell, even I got a passport - it's unused, but I got one (I'm on disability - seizures and other medical issues) that way if I manage to save up for a trip, I already got a passport in hand!
UP Up Up and away ✈️✈️✈️ Bye 👋 you want be missed !! MALE DIPSTICK .
@@silververnallbells191 good for you keep it on hand! God bless you 💜💜💜
Not him admitting most men below average🙃
He looks DESPERATELY BEGGING! 😂😂😂😂😂
Why would I go 60/40 when I'm doing 100% by myself? I don't need to provide for a man just to be in a relationship. I'd rather stay single.
Idk what the big push is to force women to settle for less than in a man. Why can’t we get what we want or be single if we don’t get it?
Because if women start expecting more from men than they will actually have to put in the work.
Because men desperately need women so they try to force you to settle for them.
@chantellbritto8559 Exactly women were asking men to do this from the start- why women started decentering them - they don't think they need to do the work
MeNz R lOnElY is why.
Women choosing themselves = men no longer have EZ access to all of the resources they've been exploiting forever
Man says, "looks, men are not willing to change so women better change for us." Women says sarcastically, "ohhhh, okay..." walks away. 🚶♀️
Settle for 60/40 or settle for 100% by me and for myself?! Oh my! Such a tough hard decision. 😂😂😂
This mofos are just digging deeper into their delusions that women would rather take less than have it all alone.
Our cats and dogs needs our 100%, there are nothing left for Dustavious.