Why I embraced being cringe and how it got me laid

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  • Опубліковано 4 лют 2025

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  • @tomervobo9897
    @tomervobo9897 5 днів тому +1

    You’re so authentic it’s hurts me

  • @Nitroglycerin1
    @Nitroglycerin1 22 дні тому +13

    Keep posting man, love your take on stuff.

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  22 дні тому +2

      Thanks for the love bro, glad you enjoy it

  • @MariaDudley-k4j
    @MariaDudley-k4j 16 днів тому +5

    Feel like I've found a gem of a channel 🥲 the emotional intelligence, the honesty... this is what youtube should be. If you are lonely in northern england, pop up and say heyy 👋🏻

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  6 днів тому +2

      It's hard being vulnerable online so it's really motivating to read comments like this, thank you so much!!

  • @sheiladarbey7380
    @sheiladarbey7380 11 днів тому +1

    Again another authentic and honest posting, full of wisdom. Love the editing ❤ No one is is this uncensored on UA-cam 🎉

  • @divyankgupta4178
    @divyankgupta4178 9 днів тому +1

    Dude your content is gold. I stumbled upon your content and I am able to personally relate to your experiences. Keep posting!

  • @ozbekr77
    @ozbekr77 22 дні тому +5

    The end of that video shows a that showing humility is so important. Just came across your channel and a lot of the stuff you say resonates with me and since ive got into Greek philosophy more I’ve been acting as my true authentic self. Humility is also taught and it’s so key as this makes you accept you for who you are which can make you more confident. May be waffling but I think it’s an amazing thing

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  22 дні тому +3

      Right, there's a blurred line between humility and honesty. If you're some 6'6 jacked model then go for it, be arrogant etc. But if you're a shy nerd like me, then you can't do that, stick to the truth and people will see it as confidence.

    • @ozbekr77
      @ozbekr77 21 день тому +1

      @ facts bro be true to yourself💯

  • @LukimusPrime
    @LukimusPrime 19 днів тому +1

    I relate SOOOO much to this. Thank you so much for doing this video Solomon. You’re awesome.

  • @Endless_Satori
    @Endless_Satori 21 день тому +4

    You applied Models by Mark Manson- Authenticity is attractive as hell. Good shit bro.
    Video brought back lots of nostalgia from my college days.

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  16 днів тому +2

      Oh wow, I've heard of that name you know but never looked into him. Sounds like it's up my street!

    • @flufflyballs913
      @flufflyballs913 8 днів тому +1

      Thank you, brother, this book has great wisdom. I sped-ran it in one day and I undeniably cringed the hardest at myself reading the section on Polarization. This book is a gold mine and doesn't come CLOSE to the "toxic alpha masculinity" communities BS yaps about.

  • @kqling1337
    @kqling1337 21 день тому +4

    The only way to deal with an uncringe world is to become so absolutely cringe that your very existence is an act of cringeness. - Albert Camus

  • @N473
    @N473 21 день тому +3

    This was an inspirational video man, thank you for this I cant really explain it but it helps me! :)

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  16 днів тому +1

      Glad you felt inspired brother, you GOT THIS!!

  • @mandiramaji794
    @mandiramaji794 19 днів тому +1

    Really love the way you speak, you gained a new subscriber and a friend 😇

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  16 днів тому +1

      Thanks for the kind words, mi amiga ❤️

  • @badkayner7175
    @badkayner7175 10 днів тому +1

    I like your storytelling keep it up bro

  • @kayindarbey9214
    @kayindarbey9214 22 дні тому +3

    loved the vid as always, got me waiting for the next 1 ❤

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  16 днів тому +1

      Thanks bro, 2 week schedule moving forwards!

  • @superbowlcarti
    @superbowlcarti 21 день тому +2

    Good insight not being over ur ex and moving forward can feel painful cause u blow it trying to rebuild the new you

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  6 днів тому +1

      Exactly bro, just released a vid going into this, would love to know your thoughts 👊🏽

  • @AzadReacts
    @AzadReacts 21 день тому +4

    Babe wake up! Solomon dropped a new video!

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  16 днів тому +1

      Bro, I'm so grateful for your love!!

  • @UCPDeltaDesertNightCamo2026
    @UCPDeltaDesertNightCamo2026 22 дні тому +4

    I'm 19 yrs old almost 20 yrs old in May if um still virgin at 30 or 41 I'll quit dating forever Bc I never approached all the girls I liked in high school it feels like regret I have I still had a good and bad high school time and Nowadays I'm still free gonna be possibly working and driving which scares me but gotta do something do my goals and attract the woman I want in the future I feel lost most days I been playing Black ops 2 2025 campaign missions, eating drinking having fun gotta enjoy being young Also good luck with life happy 2025

    • @SolomonDarbey
      @SolomonDarbey  22 дні тому +3

      You have to decide the next time you like someone, you either face the fear in the moment or carry the regret around for years. You're still young bro, trust yourself. You got this 👊

    • @metal42
      @metal42 21 день тому +2

      Do your goals bro, your younger years are some of the most important years, they shouldn't be wasted. Not saying to grind 24/7, but keep making progress.

  • @Blastoisebo122
    @Blastoisebo122 20 днів тому +1

    5:51 Tuah

  • @Solid_Snack
    @Solid_Snack День тому

    This guy is making shet up lol