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Everyone always talk about the Kardashians for that esthetic no one ever ever mentions Nicki Minaj for me she is totally a baddy and so so so popular back in the Time she popularisé rhe Big butt lots of make up false lashes and the colored wigs why isn't she ever mentionned anywhere on that specific subject she IS far more popular than the (snakes😂) Kardashians family in my opinion.
As an 18 yo black girl its hard because I get seen as weird because I am not like that. I dont wanna shake my butt to be loved and I ask why thats crazy? I also find it concerning because we still haven't seen the affects of people under 20 getting these surgeries in 10 or 20 years not even mentioning the mental state of us girl's.
Tbh it's mostly girls who are promoting it. And I'm gonna be honest it gives.."wh0re vibes." It's seriously very sad. Like..I'm sorry but shaking your butt won't make you great.
Right!!! The chin is not a baddie she's like 40 she needs to go sit somewhere and watch her daughter. Speaking of she only promoting being a bad bitch but never a good mom. 🤔🤔
Getting your body chopped up as a teenager when you haven't even fully developed yet is sad. What's even more sad is its for aesthetics... aesthetics that come and go. Are you going to go under the knife every few months/years when a new aesthetic arises??
This is so true. My hips continued to fill out as I got older and even though I was an a cup in my teens, I’m probably a b cup now and also don’t want bigger boobs. I’m happy I never got implants when I was 18 like I thought I needed to so badly. Male attention is overrated.
@@desiree5895That’s not how weight gain works. You need extra food and lack of exercise to gain 30 pounds in a year. Your body doesn’t just magically do that I’m afraid. Not even trying to be mean here.
I agree. In general, unless the surgery is medically necessary, everyone should wait to surgically alter their bodies like that until they're done with physical development. It's much better for the body like that.
Cause they see ppl on ig living it up and think I want that when it’s just smoke and mirrors 🪞 none it real for everyday ppl heck not even most celebrity/influencers
easier said than done when ur constantly being fed the new social media beauty trend, being told that youre not pretty enough and made to feel like your body is a fashion accessory, being told that if u dont live this very specific lifestyle of being a "baddie" that you are not good enough. constantly. lets consider, for a moment, that maybe solving this issue is a little more deep than just "appreciate ur youth!!"
@@mikudayo_biggest_fan3939@mikudayo_biggest_fan3939 part of the solution is don't allow minors on social media. 18+ should be the standard. Also, ban plastic surgery (without an extremely medically necessary) reason until age 25 when the brain has fully developed. There is NO reason anyone under that age needs it (with the exception of severe medical circumstances)
I'm a 17 yrl black girl, and I literally get made fun of for dressing normal and being "white washed" In school. I hate how the baddie esthetic is associated with black women at all. It just continues the hurtful stereotypes that black men help push onto us.
It’s okay girl just keep doing you! You have a mind of your own and that’s a beautiful thing! A lot of them will look back and wish they carried themselves differently.
God forbid (black) women do anything :/ I'm sorry people are dunking on you for literally just existing 🫂 I'm obscenely white, so I can't fully relate, but just the thought of a whole community pushing that shit on you is overwhelming.... Keep being you, adult-you will thank you :)
@@CocoBoo_Anti-Oblivious it's very hurtful. The mainstream black girls are so embarrassing. There's no variety. It's just pu$$y and fighting with other celebrities.
Let’s be real here. The reason why there is no “awkward stage” anymore is because we as a society discourage anything that is child-like and society isn’t as friendly to children as it once was. Third places are gone, most adolescent socialising is done online, there is this perception that the world has become unsafer compared to the past and we don’t allow kids to be kids. But if I’m being honest, I believe that the awkward stage has been subliminally discouraged even as early as in the 2000’s. I’m 24 years old, but I could already recall how movies like “Mean Girls” and plenty of other Disney channel movies have been the “precursor” or “prototype” to baddie culture well before it became mainstream. The characters that faced bullying in those movies - look at how they dressed or what sort of characteristics they embodied. They were characteristics of those who were in their “awkward stage”. Even in our generation, the pressure to be and act grown was always there, but social media has just exacerbated the trends. Me and my old manager from work went for drinks one time and he said how he would hate to grow up as a child in today’s world and I wholeheartedly agree. The peer pressure to conform is so much worse because your mistakes could very well easily be broadcast on social media - even if you are not an active user or participant of social media at all. Plus being a parent is so much harder because the balancing game has become so much more delicate. If you allow your daughter to dress and act grown, she would be more at risk of attracting very negative and manipulative attention to herself, but if you go to the other end of the spectrum, they could easily be a target or be singled out amongst their peers as they are so much more likely to be bullied as having an “awkward” stage would almost be like a death warrant socially speaking. It’s like you want your child to be protected, but on the other hand, you don’t want to see your child being left out or be the cause of your child being left out socially. Just some observations from a 24 year old man. This was a great video.
Nope you said perfectly!!!! This has what had happened, me and my cousin have the same talk… if they have the awkward stage unfortunately kids in the social media world now cause let’s face it, I see families who let their kids just go the phone like that, some parents are different but like you took the words out my mouth. I feel for parents nowdays
Aaand this is just one of the reasons why I choose to be childfree. I do not want to subject my kids to the crippling pressure of our ever-evolving (devolving?) social norms, bullying, objectification and commodification.
Thisss. I think women/teens confuse being sexually provocative as empowering and confident because it attracts (male) attention), but don’t realise that the attention is inherently predatory. Or maybe they do realise and don’t care, which is sad because women’s bodies deserved to be respected, not exploited
But…do they encourage it? I never hear real life men say anything positive about this aesthetic, and they actively discourage the ladies they think will listen from participating BECAUSE it’s not dangerous and it’s not empowering.
@@evaphillips2102 you may not hear it irl but the baddie lifestyle is definitely glamourised and rewarded in the short term. Men will follow these baddies on social media and even subscribe to their only fans or whatever, but they will shame women who had a high body count (or even a body count) and never want a long term committed relationship with them.
part of the solution is don't allow minors on social media. 18+ should be the standard. Also, ban plastic surgery (without an extremely medically necessary) reason until age 25 when the brain has fully developed. There is NO reason anyone under that age needs it (with the exception of severe medical circumstances)
Best comment 🎯 This is something that will ACTUALLY help, and the fact that people aren't switching to such a system means they don't want to make their own society and their children better. Sad to see people not love their children enough to care like that.
Honestly, I used to be of the opinion that teens maybe 15-16 up should be allowed to get their internet training wheels, to begin safe internet surfing at a developmentally appropriate age, but at this point… just make it 18 plus please god 😭. This needs to be a law.
What really gets me when teenagers/children on the internet are told not to wear revealing clothes (by the comments etc) and suddenly it's "you're just weird, a teen should be allowed to dress like." Obviously the CHILD isn't the problem, the problem is you never know who's going to see it! Keep your children off the internet. Protect our youth.
That would irk the shyt out of me because I’m sitting here looking like ummm last I checked Cosmetics were meant for grown women, weave was meant for grown women, tight clothing was meant for grown men women, high heels are meant for GROWN WOMEN. What about this is ok and why in dafuq can I not look at side eye in being a weirdo for saying some dumb shyt let them children how they want. I bet them ppl would be ok with a child rocking a thong. The shyt is annoying.
something that has always bothered me with the new focus of people reducing their bbls and breast enchantments is the weird way in which it feels like some people are starting to look down on their past bodies and are treating it as like a, "Ive matured out of having a curvy body." Maybe Im just crazy but it just doesn't sit right with me, especially because there are a lot of women who naturally have curvy bodies that they cant change at the drop of a hat or dont want to change their body. Curvy women are already stereotyped and sexualized to an extreme degree, and I dont think this attitude helps.
It might help cause what if it results into men not desiring curvy bodies anymore? They won't have to be worried about being bothered by men because their body is nice
@@stax5ave380 that will never happen. A lot of men just naturally prefer curvy, a lot also just like women’s bodies in general, and there are men who prefer smaller assets.
I feel this so much. As the girls got skinnier, my curvy body just got fatter lol I work out. Maybe not as much anymore, and I just got older and life is different. I always had assets during the BBL moment, so people always asked me if it was real. 🙄 And now it’s not popular so it makes me feel fat…at times. I have no problem dating so that does prove that men don’t care about your fupa or your cellulite. They love it actually. Because it’s natural. So I am not against surgery but not for the young girls who are still growing. Wait until at least 30-35. I was thick slim until 35 then gained weight gradually and it’s steady now, so yea idk.
parents being ignorant of how their young daughters present online is so concerning, not to mention how a lot of them in fact exploit their young daughters for money and fame.
I think the younger generation gets a scaled down dose of what life was like in the 90s and 00s. We didn’t have lace fronts but we wore weaves and they weren’t always flawless and natural beauty. You had the 90s baddies who were naked (I had plenty of those friends), the hustler girlfriend who only wore designers, we had trashy women too. To my high school prom in 1998, a girl came dressed as a stripper and wore pretty much only a thong and glass heels. Times are just different and some things changed. In terms of yesterdays impact comparing to how it felt then and now - Lace wigs replaced weaves, being naked was always a thing, sexy red is this generations little Kim, you had the drug addicted rappers - DMX, Old Dirty, rapper baby mothers who became famous. Ari Fletcher and crew are the modern day Misa, Kim Porter, Faith, etc. The only thing that wasn’t popular was surgery, but that was found among the Tracy Bingham girls, Angel Lola Luv’s. Its literally the same script just newer trends
interesting comment for sure, this is the first time lil kim has been compared to sexyy red haha. but I def don't think this is anything new for sure, young girls have been dressing way too grown since time, but now that we have social media we are allll so connected so we see this bs all over our feeds, and it feels like its much more worse than how it was before.
@@NkirukasWrld The raunchiness and how she was received initially. She’s seen as an icon today but the rumors that was floating around, her music, the Biggie situation. It was scandalous!!! lol. Listen to her first album Hardcore. We were clutching our pearls chile lol
while i agree, in the 90s you were mostly associated with the people you surrounded yourself with. it was super easy to be sheltered to the reality of other people and the way they live their lives because you didn’t really know if you didn’t interact with those people. plus even then, they were mostly seen as trashy if they were doing all that and not in a related industry (modeling, acting, fashion, etc). now it’s everywhere online, and it is becoming seen as the the way that average teens look/dress/act, making more teens feel the need to fit to that standard. not only that, but it’s getting even younger. as young as like 12 or 13 girls are wearing skimpy clothes and makeup, but unlike kids who did that in the 90s, due to the whole world at their fingertips via the internet, kids these days ACTUALLY look like adults. i do see a lot of similarities between now and then, truly, but i think that the 80s and 90s (and even the 00s) eras of acting or dressing provocatively and being rewarded paved the way for the 10s and 20s. it has built upon itself, meaning that it only compounded and has become an even larger and deeper engrained issue.
@@goopbuniabsolutely agree with you and impo I would add that children need to be offline until they're about 18 and off social media until they're about 25. The danger with that, however, is that if they haven't participated in social media for a quarter of a century the likelihood of them wanting to afterwards is slim. The danger is all corporations' danger, that is, not the populations'.
Baddie aesthetic never left, they just evolving into something else. Just wish the girls and guys didn't undergo surgery at such a young age. body and face changes a lot over the years...
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As someone who was like 10 years old in 2015, I'm very glad to not have ever ben influenced by this baddie aesthetic, during that time I was more interesting in looking like an anime girl 😂
im 30 and look 12 compared to these 15-17 year olds i was always made fun of for not participating into baddie culture and doing my own thing but now im actually thankful i just stayed in my own lane and didn't give into the peer pressures of it
That's actually amazing :D I'm almost 17, I've been doing heavy makeup with bold eyeliner often since I was 13, but not because I'm trying to look older, but because I want to be creative with my makeup looks. Hopefully I won't look super old by the time I'm your age lol
@@bloodycupcake00be creative on a canvas, not on your eyelids. Also, you shouldn't be on social media at this age. Period. If anyone says otherwise - they wish you harm. Get off social media, get off whatever device you're using, limit your own access until you're 22 (ideally until you're 25).
@@bloodycupcake00 I'm also 30 with 20 year olds thinking I'm their age and also was into heavy makeup until my brain fully developed. Now I never wear makeup (I have a clear complexion and full brows to be fair) but still eye bags and sometimes redness) but I think we all are so beautiful the way we are and that's what makes us unique it sounds like a wall tattoo but it's true, no matter in what face you look you can always find something that makes it beautiful and it's always unique. It hurts me when I look back and not a single day from 16-22 was I without makeup literally for no reason because I simply never gave it a critical thought and said ''it was a hobby'' but it's so insanely powerful and freeing to be at peace with your natural appearance, not feeling the need at all to put on makeup and REALLY just doing it for yourself which is never for me personally and it took me so much unnecessary time to reclaim this feeling when it could've been there all along. I go out and to work and not a single thought is spent on how I look, imagine what I'm able to do with all this free head space
We now literally have minors dressing, acting and looking like grown adults. It's honestly so sad and disturbing to see. They are rushing more and more now to look older.
Exactly, it never looked good in my opinion, it just looked ridiculous and fake. Huge cartoonish lips, giant over exaggerated fake ass in your face 24/7 🤮 it’s so clearly a result of p0rn’s prevalence and influence on the culture. It’s like a caricature of what men think women should look like, just really gross. Not to mention the fashion was always tacky and fugly and only had the purpose of showing off your butt, nothing more. I’ll never forgive the kardashians for making it popular, lmao
It’s really sad that being a “baddie” is almost synonymous with either being the most naked in the room or feeling like you have to look a certain way to get attention. And the fact that it’s so normalized is concerning. What happened to that thing called personality and variety that people used to care about?
It can be done in a tasteful way.. being sexy isn’t bad.. being sensual isn’t a bad thing. But doing it in an elegant more sculptured way is much better. You never want to be raunchy.
The issue is that being this way is a very conditioned behavior even when “done right” women are coached from a young age to be considered fckable, i dont think what women and girls need is to do it “tastefully” its to recognize this aesthetic does not give us more status in society it makes us weaker and more objectified.
As a Latina with a natural hourglass body and an eh face, this trend forever ruined my relationship with men. Every one I have been with has had a s*x addiction to some degree. Dudes who were genuinely wanted a relationship just wanted me as a fwb. Sometimes I just wanted to shave down the curves on my body cause of it. Ik it sounds like a “boohoo my body is a beauty standard” sounding moment, but I don’t “embrace” a baddie body. I just wanted something real but there’s too many hungry roaches it’s destroyed my self worth
natural hourglass coloured girl from South Africa here too. literally never had a cishet man successfully be my friend without expecting sex in some fashion.
This trend didn't ruin your relationship with men at all though , that's simply how men ARE. Males are all sex addicted whether you're curvy OR NOT, the trend didn't make males who wanted a relationship only want to be FWB, that's what they wanted w u in the first place.
baddie culture made me feel traumatized with my gender as a whole because when i was in high school boys just came up to me and asked for my number, they didn’t even want to know my name when asking for sex
I personally wouldn’t say the baddie aesthetic is dying down but starting to go to younger generations or being called different names. i’m hispanic and in hs and i majority see the “copy and paste latina” makeup on hispanic girls my age while being provocative. this is also what majority guys my age also look for because they like the more older and sexualized look. i’ve tried the “baddie” aesthetic because my friends were also starting to do that kind of look and i felt uncomfortable and like i wasn’t looking at myself. i really think it just depends on the age group and what is around your city 🤷♀️
@@lunaloveless7234 I don't think they're "lat to trends" it's just that they've grown up in a time where the "trends" just went out of style. Teens grew in while adults grew out.
The second Instagram started monetizing the women with the baddie aesthetic and allowing them to call themselves “IG models” or “Fashion Nova Ambassadors” that’s when it took an absolute turn for the worst on the internet
Baddie culture just leaves women single mothers. Men don’t actually respect baddies they only want to sleep with them. Young kids need an awkward stage it builds character. Everyone looks the same on social media and is after the same things. It’s so superficial and damaging.
Everyone has other things thinking about than what men do or do not desire. Our lives don't revolve around that. These girls shouldnt be in these kind of attire simply because it's damaging to their self esteem and so on.... not because they are tryna be suitable for marriage. Not everyone cares about that
Fr , its like everytime i vaguely think of something that is considered beautiful on media , its just "blue eyes" and "blonde" I mean its like everyone is the same
I thought the same thing! I’m so glad I was able to just BE ugly and go thru puberty in the privacy of my immediate circle and not the entire internet. I was FORCED to develop a personality because dear god there were plenty of moments as a teen where I thought my looks alone just were not gonna cut it lmaoo… Now I’m of an age where I realize there’s more to life regardless but those years of insecurity, self discovery and character building were so so important and necessary to become the woman I am today and fortunately I think she’s pretty cool. I hate to think the next generation won’t have the mental building blocks to get to that point in a healthy way.
its not just young people. if you're a naturally curvy person, its annoying to be looked at like that when youre just living. who wants to be constantly looked at 😭
I hate that as a black women people expect me to want to be a baddie. I always told him I don’t give a fuck about that shit. Do I need to do it when there’s plenty of women doing it? 😂
@@defaultdacat sure. When I go out in public, because I am a black woman, people expect me to be a certain way. From what I was told, people expect black women to be baddies and whatever stereotype people see in entertainment. I’ve asked why people why do you expect me to be this way? And they’ve always told me I’ve seen your people (Black people) be like that. Why are Black people expected to be baddies? I don’t know. But I don’t care for it. It’s not for me. Maybe another reason why black women do it is for attention. Or they’re just following a trend. I don’t know why people do things. It’s not for me though.
As a 12 year old I admit I sometimes give into social pressure to sexualize myself. I mean just today I wore a pair of jeans because they make my butt look good. The thing is at least for me it seems like it’s the only way too get attention, pretty much my whole life I’ve struggled a lot with insecurities and disordered eating, so when I got prettier it gave me a confidence boost when guys gave me attention. So I leaned into it, I didn’t post or actually act sexual but I was pulling up to 6th grade in crop tops and scooping my boobs so I get attention. And I mean it feels nice when a guy likes me or ask for my number, but it’s not that nice when it’s catcalling or sexual harassment or said guy asking for my number is actually a grown man. (Granted I’ve been catcalled in no makeup sweatpants and a hoodie) the thing is the confidence is really temporary, like in the moment it feels nice but not so much when it seems like the only thing people like me for is my appearance, but like I said me and most of the girls my age are super insecure from social media, than social media was like “here’s how to fix that” but it actually just serves men. I feel like the “sexual empowerment” movement was like a trick from men, they were like “yeah women take off your clothes for me-I mean for you, yeah definitely for you! Sooo you gonna show me your ass or what?” Also the whole “thin is back in” (was it ever really out though?) is really nerve wracking tbh as a girl who’s naturally curvy yk Sorry for my rant and atrocious grammar lol Edit: Yeah I know that social media is bad for me. The problem with a phone addiction is it’s an addiction, so it’s a lot easier said than done to just stop. I’ve had a phone since 3rd grade, also when it was peek Covid and I couldn’t see any friends or literally even leave the house during super developmental years. I totally get your concern (I hate it too btw), but like I said a phone addiction is an addiction.
Omg you’re so young 🥺 It’s normal for everyone to appreciate some level of outside validation from others. So there’s no shame in that. But I just want you to know that more than anything we have to learn to validate ourselves. I have a little cousin that’s a few years older than you and she talks to me a lot about stuff like this. Recently she was telling me she feels bad because the boys at her school didn’t like her (but she was also like the only Black kid in a mostly white school). But I asked her if she likes these boys or thought they were cute, she told me no. So I told her she definitely can’t give these musty boys that don’t have good personalities, that she doesn’t even like, control of her self-esteem lol. Even if she did like them it doesn’t matter. We all have to work on our self-esteem so we can feel good about ourselves no matter what others around us do. It’s easier to say than do, but you have many years to learn and practice!
@Fionas_planet We really appreciate that you're here and sharing your experience. But on a side note - you shouldn't be on any social media at your age. Period. I don't know why your parents let you go to youtube or other platforms unsupervised, maybe they don't know it's one of the signs of not having enough time for one's child. But there it is. Avoid brainrot: get off all social media platforms until you're about 22. If you have enough intelligence to write such an insightful, self-aware comment you SURELY must understand that you hanging out on social media and you having these confidence and body exposure issues go hand in hand. I hope that becomes clear to you after I pointed it out. It's a direct result of "consuming" inappropriate material at your age. If I knew your parents personally I would have told them off for dropping the ball on you like that. I encourage you to take care of yourself and fill in the parenting holes on your own. Find fulfilling activities, NOT entertaining ones. Moreover: comments such as yours are actually used by intelligence agencies that pretend to be children like you to catch pdf files. I hope you comprehend the implications of that last sentence for you. Unless you ARE an intelligence agency, in which case - oh the irony! Other than that I'm wishing you the best, sorry if I was harsh but truth had to be uttered and I hope I don't see you anywhere on social media for a good 10 years for your own sake.
Girl you're 12!!! Live your childhood. This stuff doesn't matter, I mean come on do you really want attention from a stinky boy who probably goes to the toilet and doesn't wash his hands 😂😂😂
I'm 31 and remember being 12 - what you're experiencing is so normal and so many of us girls and women have a pretty similar journey. When you focus on things you enjoy like hobbies, special interests, clubs, extra curriculars etc that's when you start to not need this kind of sxl validation from others as much to feel accepted. hang in there! and not to sound old but trust me that life is so much better the less time you spend on social media. even us older ppl are negatively affected by it if we're on too much. it's hard bc the pressure to be online and know what's popular is so high at ur age but trust that you'll find your ppl who don't care about that stuff as much, and will be happy with who you are and the person you are becoming. it's hard out here for girls! just know that with time you will get more comfortable in your skin, it comes with age ❤
This trope that “most” Black women are naturally curvy is so inaccurate. Some of us are “curvy” not due to genetics, but because we are often over weight and celebrate it. Let’s be real!! The Black women from the 50’s, 60’s, 70’s and 80’s were in much better shape and not “baddie” built. Their natural curves were not over exaggerated like today. Lastly, if “most” Black women were curvaceous, then why are so many going under the knife to create the curves WE’RE known to have naturally??? Make it make sense… Don’t get me started on how this has over-sexualized our community and decimated the nuclear family.
Ur right, now that I think about it, never ONCE in my life of being a mega fan of 60’s and 70’s African American music have I seen this extremely ‘curvy’ body shape on the ladies. Even aretha Franklin who became overweight later on started out slim, if not slightly curvy.
Baddie aesthetic for me is real life bratz doll. Hourglass figure with super thin legs. Pumped up blow up doll lips with super tiny ski slope nose and full glam cat eyes and heavy makeup that looks airbrushed.
I live in Vienna, so in Europe, and I always find it fascinating how popular this is in America. Here in (most of) Europe, it’s almost non-existent. When I see young women on social media posing just to fit into the 'baddie' trend, I find it quite surprising. Every time I hear about rappers or these baddies having kids, it seems like it’s treated as something so casual, as if they haven’t really thought it through or it doesn’t mean much to them. As a European, it also feels like some people want to act criminal on purpose, as if it’s something to be proud of. (I'm sorry if there are any mistakes, English is not my first language :)!) Don’t get me wrong! I think it’s great that we, as women, have the right to express ourselves however we want, but in terms of young children, I find it quite concerning. I don’t think you need to show off your body or your figure to prove that you’re confident or independent.
As a 19-year-old about to turn 20 in a few days, it's really strange. I have never and will never be a “baddie”. The fact that girls like me get shunned for not looking like that is dumb.
@@Rosemary46840 darling. No hate in my heart over a stupid dance. That isn’t even dancing… sorry. You are speaking with a trained ballerina. lol. And a hip hop dancer. Not a twerker. Not down playing other dancing but twerking is just shaking your butt. Not hating or anyone. But I just find it to be belittling towards women. We are already put down so much. More so for black woman. And it’s frustrating. We are sexualized deeply. And I would want that to change a bit about our culture. Because it’s not necessarily a bad thing. But we are constantly being dragged. And that’s why I don’t like it.
No, not for conforming to the demands of male gaze, but for dressing up and acting like a ho - yes they should be punished. That's how parenting works if you want your child to become more than a s industry worker.
And it’s crazy how men popularize it all be in the gc talking about how she so bad but then turn around to their girl and tell her to be modest. Lmao. Like what is it then stop thirsting over the ones yall claim bad asf while seeking out the good girl or whatever bs they on
I think it’s cause they know how men are so they don’t want their girl to be sexualized by other men. But yesterday I was literally wearing baggy jeans and a sleeveless turtleneck that showed a tiny bit of my stomach and some older man was checking me out, up and down. You could literally see the pervertedness in his eyes and it’s just so disgusting no matter what you wear they’ll always find a way.
I'm a guy who watches these videos out of curiosity. I can talk a bit about how guys might perceive this.. Men do like the sexualized look people can invest in cosmetically, as evidenced by adult material online. I'm guilty of it too. I don't think most decent guys in real life want that anymore than they want to fire guns like in a videogame. It's not the viable basis for judging someone in real life. You don't have to look like a baddie if you don't want to. I think humans, just like other animals value looking really healthy. These thin and thicc standards are shorthands for that. Clearly, it's a spectrum. If you would benefit more from hitting the gym or making positive lifestyle changes, you can be perceived just as positively. It's different when you need to look a certain way to make money off of it. The rich men and women who might prize that look may have a vested interest in investing in their business aesthetically. They kinda aren't really a part of society in a conventional sense, since their great wealth and fame isolates them. Their opinions aren't based on rationality, so they can afford hedonism since they can pay issues away often. Any decent guy or girl you might want attention from romantically will meet you halfway and go out of their way to appreciate you for multiple reasons, not just your look alone. I hope this helps someone young reading this. It's also totally ok if you want to be a baddie. You can be that and more if you want.
Sadly, I don't think that individuals preoccupied with their secondary se)(ual characteristics from childhood are able to read what you wrote, least of all comprehend it.
It's just ridiculous to watch how we are now being "taught" the freedom to be sexy and look sexy. As a woman born in 2000, I found a period when being a girl with not skinny figure was considered something in itself unacceptable. We were taught that if we have bulging breasts or big buttocks, we must hide it otherwise people will call us too revealing, too bad
Getting a bbl in your teens is insanity. Also teens are still kids even 18 and 19 year olds are still very young mentally so as the parents why would you let your child get one of the most dangerous life threatening surgeries???
I'm not going to lie, I'm a 16 year old black, female and I already dress and pose like that, I don't act how the baddie aesthetic stereotype is but I do definitely find myself getting drawn into this aesthetic and wanting to be "cool" a "baddie" I want to fit in around my friends and some school mates, I want to fit in with social media. I have my boundaries and i dont twerk or anything like that but i just dress and pose in such ways so for those who may read it dont take me for someone who is being passed around and just doing all of the things that are attached to the baddie aesthetic. I am not like that.
“Being sexy isn’t bad tho lol” yeah, of course it’s not, but putting in effort to have sexual appeal when you haven’t even graduated high school yet…?? 😕 Idk I just think some of these comments from minors are just… sad. I’m sorry you had to grow up in conditions that made you think sensual/sexual allure is something a girl MUST have at such a young age in order to be liked. I’m sorry about all the content on the internet targeting impressionable young girls. Genuinely, I’m so sorry.
34 year old here with a PSA. My ASS and HIPS did not fully developed UNTIL I was 30. I got no play for most of my 20s. Now dudes won’t leave me alone. Let your bodies grow ladies.
Rihanna is bad but she never gave baddie in the sense that most people know. She’s always just been stylish and extremely naturally beautiful, no surgery no enhancements. You can’t class her with people like Kim or Kylie or Cardi or Ari because she’s not emulating black aesthetics the way they do & did.
NGL I miss the fun we had with makeup and looks. Everything seems so beige and boring now. People don't wear heels, dress up, or get creative with their makeup like we used to. Also it was so refreshing for curves, it encouraged many women to get into strengrh training. Now its just Ozempic and eating disorder aesthetic.
No just no, during the thick era I traded good health and athletic ability for force feeding myself junk and only doing butt workouts. Also most people losing weight from ozempiv were overweight and there is no eating disorder aesthetic at all that I succumb to, that's who YOU/YALL follow and support, also people are still creative with their makeup and fashion you can do that as much as you want you don't want no one's stopping you
@@Rosemary46840people can be thick without stuffing their faces with horrible foods like genetics, being disabled, having certain conditions that make you gain weight, taking birth control, etc. And I think they meant in general, which is true. Even non obese celebrities are taking it and only getting thinner and that HAS been pushed on TikTok for EVERYONE to see.
As someone who was an exotic dancer (skripper), the baddie aesthetic is 100% just looking and acting like a stereotypical str*pper in my opinion. because i identify with that, i embrace the baddie aesthetic. however, i’m a grown woman. seeing teenagers/very young girls act and look like that just to fit in and be praised for objectifying themselves is truly disheartening. young ladies have so much more to offer the world than just their bodies/looks. trust me, that kinda lifestyle isn’t as luxurious as it looks on social media… it’s corny but it’s true so stay in school. having a beautiful heart / mind is always going to be more valuable than a nice body/looks.
@@GytSigma username is as expected for a 10 year old, kinda miss when I was in that cringe era of just being a kid on the internet. Don’t talk to strangers online young padawan, and tell no one your age or year of birth from now on, there are predators online who will attempt to groom you just because they know your age.
It comes a point where all of this is distusting to see, like so much. They are SMALL and their parents can control all of this but they just dgaf. Its sad, its going to be wors. We have Sephora Kids, Baddie Teens and animal adults. WHAT MORE IS COMING DEAR TIKTOK
I was in the worst teen years in 2016-2018 and I tought I had to be a baddie, dress revealing, do makeup etc. I think alot of us who were teens at the time have out grown this mindset. Hope it will be the same for these girls and I hope they stay safe and realize sooner than later it is not doing anything good for them.
Sometimes doing crime to live is better than being homeless I guess. While I normally like to think people have better options, I recently become disabled and my whole life fell apart. I've also seen a lot of people struggling in my life. Sometimes I think it might be nice to live the high life until I get caught.
Lol for real. Like no she’s never been “on trend” but she definitely completely alters her personality/aesthetic based on her agenda at the time: dating an underage Kennedy? Dress like a 1960s housewife and buy a whole ass Nantucket home! 😂 idk which is worse honestly lol at least most sensible people kind of *see* the baddie aesthetic for what it is… Taylor is a… whole other story lmaoo
I think the problem is these “baddies” have no *ambition and no personality* Are they NPC’s? that’s yet to be determined. Bottom line is they’re all the same and incredibly boring..
It’s fascinating watching this video when you’re not a part of this subculture or trend or whatever baddie is considered. I hope those affected by these influencers can heal from any self image issues and take the baddie attitude as a personality trait opposed to overly sexualising themselves etc.
Idc what grown women do, but if you're a child or teen trying to be a baddie then that's so embarrassing and sad. These kids think they out here really doing something, but instead they are missing a childhood. Just making grown women cringe and feel bad for them. They'll regret it when they are grown. Human brain isn't fully developed until 25 so ummmm
it’s definitely not right but it’s so sad society makes young people feel like they need to look a certain way to be considered beautiful and sad young ppl even care about that in the first place :(
I love originality so much, I feel like the baddie culture has everybody wanting to look the same or wanting someone who fits that aesthetic, and it made my late teens/early 20s very uncomfortable for me.
No bc let’s really talk about that marriage and kids thing. I don’t know why men in this generation would much rather get you pregnant then marry you I asked my boyfriend daily does he see his self marrying me and he says not yet that’s a big step which is understandable we just started dating and we are still very young so marriage can be scary, but he is so quick to try to get me pregnant and have a kid with me because he wants a son. maybe I’m just a woman but I can’t see how can you rather get someone pregnant then marry them what kind of math is that you’re stuck with that person for life is much worse because now you’re stuck with them and you’re stuck raising her he little human with them. I’m so tired of seeing every female my age getting pregnant and not even having a ring on their finger. Everyone got pregnant as soon as we left high school like, what are we doing?🤦🏾♀️
The specific look you are speaking of: Baddie looks stem from stripper/nighlife/trans community with a mix of modern/urban gym attire looks. But I do see that everybodies definition of “baddie” is diff, some people associate it by ur clothing/brands u wear, or ur looks or a mix of both (Rihanna, Bella hadid, etc), then u have the aesthetic ur speaking of, Urban nighlife clothing, or stripper aesthetic. As a pretty girl, I will say it’s crazy how what u wear determines how your looked at, regardless of ur beauty.
@@Vampiric-Princessthey literally just said it dummy do you know how to read?? They named everything that the baddie look stems from and named all of the things yet you only called that one out
this will probably get buried in the comments, but i’ll share my experience. back when i was around 17-18, i was insecure about the way i dress. people my age were dressing up “maturely”, they would wear crop tops, short shorts and skirt, backless and cutouts. it didn’t help that i also had access to instagram at such a young age, i wanted to look like them; sexy and a baddie. when i started dressing up like them, sure people would approach me but they wouldn’t compliment me, but rather what i was wearing. i had to force myself to wear “sexy” clothes, because i wanted to blend in so bad. now that i’m 22, i’ve thrown out any “sexy” clothing i had and started to wear what i want. i wear light, flowy clothes. i like wearing clothes with characters on it (e.g. sanrio, anime). sure, no one looks at me anymore, but i feel more confident and happier than ever.
As a teenage boy still in high school, it's crazy to me how social media has affected what teenagers wear, especially girls. I remember when my older sisters were in school they had fairly strict dress codes, no shoulders and such. The dress code at my current school is pitiful in my opinion, and there are girls who abuse it to show themselves off as much as possible. I feel bad for these girls because many of them probably don't know the lasting effect this could have. At 14 or even younger teenage girls shouldn't be wearing skin-tight yoga pants, showing off cleavage, or putting on what seems to be pounds of makeup just to look pretty. Social Media (as well as lax parenting) is making girls pretend to be older than they are instead of embracing their teenage years, and it's sad.
I’m 37 and never tried the baddie aesthetic. It just doesn’t connect with my personality I guess. It always looked like an extreme amount of time and effort. Especially now that I’m older I can’t be bothered to care enough to try lol. I figure that my standard look will always work, and other things are trends that will come and go. I know these days there are people that will say it doesn’t matter what young girls do because people shouldn’t sexualize them in the first place. But when we have actual minors portraying images or doing actions that are overtly sexual, should we not voice concern?
Girl, I'm jealous of you. I'm in college and almost everyone is trying to look like a baddie, I sometimes feel pressured to change my style, but just like you, I don't feel like it matches my personality . I just try to be myself and hope I can Finnish school that way
And the thing is, at this tender age, we long for approval from the opposite sex. They only ever notice girls with precocious framing or adultlike behaviour, dressing style, heavy makeup. It is a scary world out there for girls who want to stay girls. At least, I was bullied and outcasted for not conforming. It doesn't bother me as much anymore but I would be lying if I said it doesn't bother me at all. Sometimes I feel like giving in but I also know that I won't ever be 18 again so is it any use feeling sad?
I’m 26 and it’s actually a breath of fresh air to see a young woman with your mindset I honestly relate to you so much❤️ I am delighted I found your channel! You’re killing it! 🫶🏼
As a white European girl with a naturally "heroin chick" body, this whole KarJenner-baddie-aesthetic has been absolutely brutal for my self-esteem and mental health in general. This trend of baddies made society demand that every woman out there should look like this. We do NOT look like that in Europe...
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Everyone always talk about the Kardashians for that esthetic no one ever ever mentions Nicki Minaj for me she is totally a baddy and so so so popular back in the Time she popularisé rhe Big butt lots of make up false lashes and the colored wigs why isn't she ever mentionned anywhere on that specific subject she IS far more popular than the (snakes😂) Kardashians family in my opinion.
what is the cute lava lamp you use girl? the jelly fish are so cute!!!!
The word "baddie" just unsettles me
it was a cute word but now its not lol they have over did it for sure
so true
Right it just icks me now bc how the boys be saying “ dang bro she bad🫦🫦”💀💀
Same
@@mawdonkorew literally this just nasty ass dudes thirsting ab some oh she a baddie or she so bad like yall suck
As an 18 yo black girl its hard because I get seen as weird because I am not like that. I dont wanna shake my butt to be loved and I ask why thats crazy? I also find it concerning because we still haven't seen the affects of people under 20 getting these surgeries in 10 or 20 years not even mentioning the mental state of us girl's.
I’m literally in the same boat
Im an 18 y/o black girl too, same situation. I don’t twerk or dress revealing, or speak super AAVE. I get called “whitewashed”.
Tbh it's mostly girls who are promoting it. And I'm gonna be honest it gives.."wh0re vibes." It's seriously very sad. Like..I'm sorry but shaking your butt won't make you great.
Im a 33 year old , Hwyte 😈, in need of some young ,BLK♀️ company.........
@@bobdollaz3391u can get some company at the local sex offender con u creep
People confuse being a baddie with being a pass around.
PREACH
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What’s wrong with having a body count? Men aren’t shamed for it. Why should women be?
@@UA-camAccount-u9z She never mentioned women you did.
Right!!! The chin is not a baddie she's like 40 she needs to go sit somewhere and watch her daughter. Speaking of she only promoting being a bad bitch but never a good mom. 🤔🤔
The baddies aesthetic has made me self conscious, ngl
me too growing up w these bbl warriors was not fun!
i swear, every time i open social media i find a new insecurity
@@darlene6389 no cus ACTUALLY THO
@@darlene6389this is part of the reason why I deleted Instagram and life has been so much better.
I completly agree with this
Getting your body chopped up as a teenager when you haven't even fully developed yet is sad. What's even more sad is its for aesthetics... aesthetics that come and go. Are you going to go under the knife every few months/years when a new aesthetic arises??
Chopped up is crazy 😭😭
Fr. Women’s bodies change even in our 20s. I’m 24 and gained 30lbs this year. I think it’s my “2nd puberty” lol
This is so true. My hips continued to fill out as I got older and even though I was an a cup in my teens, I’m probably a b cup now and also don’t want bigger boobs. I’m happy I never got implants when I was 18 like I thought I needed to so badly. Male attention is overrated.
@@desiree5895That’s not how weight gain works. You need extra food and lack of exercise to gain 30 pounds in a year. Your body doesn’t just magically do that I’m afraid. Not even trying to be mean here.
I agree. In general, unless the surgery is medically necessary, everyone should wait to surgically alter their bodies like that until they're done with physical development. It's much better for the body like that.
Why can’t ppl just appreciate their youth 😭🙏
Because they want the hookup culture freedom without taxes or adult responsibilities
Cause they see ppl on ig living it up and think I want that when it’s just smoke and mirrors 🪞 none it real for everyday ppl heck not even most celebrity/influencers
easier said than done when ur constantly being fed the new social media beauty trend, being told that youre not pretty enough and made to feel like your body is a fashion accessory, being told that if u dont live this very specific lifestyle of being a "baddie" that you are not good enough. constantly. lets consider, for a moment, that maybe solving this issue is a little more deep than just "appreciate ur youth!!"
Ever heard the saying "youth is wasted on the young" - the majority of young people don't listen. This is a main reason why history repeats itself.
@@mikudayo_biggest_fan3939@mikudayo_biggest_fan3939 part of the solution is don't allow minors on social media. 18+ should be the standard. Also, ban plastic surgery (without an extremely medically necessary) reason until age 25 when the brain has fully developed. There is NO reason anyone under that age needs it (with the exception of severe medical circumstances)
I'm a 17 yrl black girl, and I literally get made fun of for dressing normal and being "white washed" In school. I hate how the baddie esthetic is associated with black women at all. It just continues the hurtful stereotypes that black men help push onto us.
It’s okay girl just keep doing you! You have a mind of your own and that’s a beautiful thing! A lot of them will look back and wish they carried themselves differently.
kylie jenner wish she could have ur skin color and she probably doesn't want to be famous everyday.
God forbid (black) women do anything :/ I'm sorry people are dunking on you for literally just existing 🫂 I'm obscenely white, so I can't fully relate, but just the thought of a whole community pushing that shit on you is overwhelming.... Keep being you, adult-you will thank you :)
Keep being you! ❤️ this world is crazy
@@CocoBoo_Anti-Oblivious it's very hurtful. The mainstream black girls are so embarrassing. There's no variety. It's just pu$$y and fighting with other celebrities.
The baddie asctestic definitely promotes Baby mama/ baby daddy culture. It's sad.
@@MewluMoonyep! I have been there and it was HARD! Now I'm in a great relationship and living as a family is everything.
Let’s be real here. The reason why there is no “awkward stage” anymore is because we as a society discourage anything that is child-like and society isn’t as friendly to children as it once was. Third places are gone, most adolescent socialising is done online, there is this perception that the world has become unsafer compared to the past and we don’t allow kids to be kids. But if I’m being honest, I believe that the awkward stage has been subliminally discouraged even as early as in the 2000’s. I’m 24 years old, but I could already recall how movies like “Mean Girls” and plenty of other Disney channel movies have been the “precursor” or “prototype” to baddie culture well before it became mainstream. The characters that faced bullying in those movies - look at how they dressed or what sort of characteristics they embodied. They were characteristics of those who were in their “awkward stage”.
Even in our generation, the pressure to be and act grown was always there, but social media has just exacerbated the trends. Me and my old manager from work went for drinks one time and he said how he would hate to grow up as a child in today’s world and I wholeheartedly agree. The peer pressure to conform is so much worse because your mistakes could very well easily be broadcast on social media - even if you are not an active user or participant of social media at all.
Plus being a parent is so much harder because the balancing game has become so much more delicate. If you allow your daughter to dress and act grown, she would be more at risk of attracting very negative and manipulative attention to herself, but if you go to the other end of the spectrum, they could easily be a target or be singled out amongst their peers as they are so much more likely to be bullied as having an “awkward” stage would almost be like a death warrant socially speaking. It’s like you want your child to be protected, but on the other hand, you don’t want to see your child being left out or be the cause of your child being left out socially.
Just some observations from a 24 year old man. This was a great video.
Nope you said perfectly!!!! This has what had happened, me and my cousin have the same talk… if they have the awkward stage unfortunately kids in the social media world now cause let’s face it, I see families who let their kids just go the phone like that, some parents are different but like you took the words out my mouth.
I feel for parents nowdays
Aaand this is just one of the reasons why I choose to be childfree. I do not want to subject my kids to the crippling pressure of our ever-evolving (devolving?) social norms, bullying, objectification and commodification.
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Omg …I don’t hear many people talk about 3rd spaces missing. I’m glad these frameworks are getting around! This is so well said!
Baddie aesthetic came from stripper culture, but since women who were "the beauty standard" promoted it it became a trend to praise
lel stripper culture 🤣
I used to watch a lot of stripper vlogs. You’re definitely correct.
And any grown man following these girls will def get the side eye from me.
Edit: I do mean the teenage girls for those who didn’t get it!
They are all PDFs
Nah@@tkstone8387
@@tkstone8387 we talk about grown man who follow young girls who do stuffs like this
@@tkstone8387 a grown man following a teen girl is different from a boy her age following her, you need your computer checked
@@avierysims when tf was anyone talking about teens? The original comment says girls, that don’t mean they’re minors. You weird as hell.
The baddie concept was never empowering for women. If it was, men would not support and encourage it.
Thisss. I think women/teens confuse being sexually provocative as empowering and confident because it attracts (male) attention), but don’t realise that the attention is inherently predatory. Or maybe they do realise and don’t care, which is sad because women’s bodies deserved to be respected, not exploited
EXACTLY. I wish more people would understand this.
Stfu let women dress how they want smdh!
But…do they encourage it? I never hear real life men say anything positive about this aesthetic, and they actively discourage the ladies they think will listen from participating BECAUSE it’s not dangerous and it’s not empowering.
@@evaphillips2102 you may not hear it irl but the baddie lifestyle is definitely glamourised and rewarded in the short term. Men will follow these baddies on social media and even subscribe to their only fans or whatever, but they will shame women who had a high body count (or even a body count) and never want a long term committed relationship with them.
part of the solution is don't allow minors on social media. 18+ should be the standard. Also, ban plastic surgery (without an extremely medically necessary) reason until age 25 when the brain has fully developed. There is NO reason anyone under that age needs it (with the exception of severe medical circumstances)
Best comment 🎯 This is something that will ACTUALLY help, and the fact that people aren't switching to such a system means they don't want to make their own society and their children better. Sad to see people not love their children enough to care like that.
Preach!!!
Honestly, I used to be of the opinion that teens maybe 15-16 up should be allowed to get their internet training wheels, to begin safe internet surfing at a developmentally appropriate age, but at this point… just make it 18 plus please god 😭. This needs to be a law.
Yes!!
Yep, I think Florida’s or some state might start that and Australia has said they’ll start that next year I believe
What really gets me when teenagers/children on the internet are told not to wear revealing clothes (by the comments etc) and suddenly it's "you're just weird, a teen should be allowed to dress like." Obviously the CHILD isn't the problem, the problem is you never know who's going to see it! Keep your children off the internet. Protect our youth.
That would irk the shyt out of me because I’m sitting here looking like ummm last I checked Cosmetics were meant for grown women, weave was meant for grown women, tight clothing was meant for grown men women, high heels are meant for GROWN WOMEN. What about this is ok and why in dafuq can I not look at side eye in being a weirdo for saying some dumb shyt let them children how they want. I bet them ppl would be ok with a child rocking a thong. The shyt is annoying.
something that has always bothered me with the new focus of people reducing their bbls and breast enchantments is the weird way in which it feels like some people are starting to look down on their past bodies and are treating it as like a, "Ive matured out of having a curvy body." Maybe Im just crazy but it just doesn't sit right with me, especially because there are a lot of women who naturally have curvy bodies that they cant change at the drop of a hat or dont want to change their body. Curvy women are already stereotyped and sexualized to an extreme degree, and I dont think this attitude helps.
It might help cause what if it results into men not desiring curvy bodies anymore? They won't have to be worried about being bothered by men because their body is nice
"breast enchantments" - a magical procedure
@@stax5ave380 that will never happen. A lot of men just naturally prefer curvy, a lot also just like women’s bodies in general, and there are men who prefer smaller assets.
tell me about it 😭 I can’t just go to God and say, I would like a refund on my thighs, butt, and boobs please and give me the Kate Moss 😂
I feel this so much. As the girls got skinnier, my curvy body just got fatter lol I work out. Maybe not as much anymore, and I just got older and life is different. I always had assets during the BBL moment, so people always asked me if it was real. 🙄 And now it’s not popular so it makes me feel fat…at times. I have no problem dating so that does prove that men don’t care about your fupa or your cellulite. They love it actually. Because it’s natural. So I am not against surgery but not for the young girls who are still growing. Wait until at least 30-35. I was thick slim until 35 then gained weight gradually and it’s steady now, so yea idk.
I love the non-stop “get into it yuh” references in every video😭😭
LMAOOOOOOOOO i honestly didn't realize i said that much until y'all starting saying it
@@NkirukasWrld plsssssss I’m obsessed with it😭😭😭😭
Taylor swift skipped the baddie trend and went straight for capitalism.
LFMFAOOOOOO
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Why is this kinda funny tho 😭
parents being ignorant of how their young daughters present online is so concerning, not to mention how a lot of them in fact exploit their young daughters for money and fame.
I think the younger generation gets a scaled down dose of what life was like in the 90s and 00s. We didn’t have lace fronts but we wore weaves and they weren’t always flawless and natural beauty. You had the 90s baddies who were naked (I had plenty of those friends), the hustler girlfriend who only wore designers, we had trashy women too. To my high school prom in 1998, a girl came dressed as a stripper and wore pretty much only a thong and glass heels. Times are just different and some things changed. In terms of yesterdays impact comparing to how it felt then and now - Lace wigs replaced weaves, being naked was always a thing, sexy red is this generations little Kim, you had the drug addicted rappers - DMX, Old Dirty, rapper baby mothers who became famous. Ari Fletcher and crew are the modern day Misa, Kim Porter, Faith, etc. The only thing that wasn’t popular was surgery, but that was found among the Tracy Bingham girls, Angel Lola Luv’s. Its literally the same script just newer trends
interesting comment for sure, this is the first time lil kim has been compared to sexyy red haha. but I def don't think this is anything new for sure, young girls have been dressing way too grown since time, but now that we have social media we are allll so connected so we see this bs all over our feeds, and it feels like its much more worse than how it was before.
@@NkirukasWrld The raunchiness and how she was received initially. She’s seen as an icon today but the rumors that was floating around, her music, the Biggie situation. It was scandalous!!! lol. Listen to her first album Hardcore. We were clutching our pearls chile lol
I'm sorry but comparing that sea urchin Sexy Redd to an actual skillful rapper like Lil Kim is delusional.
while i agree, in the 90s you were mostly associated with the people you surrounded yourself with. it was super easy to be sheltered to the reality of other people and the way they live their lives because you didn’t really know if you didn’t interact with those people. plus even then, they were mostly seen as trashy if they were doing all that and not in a related industry (modeling, acting, fashion, etc). now it’s everywhere online, and it is becoming seen as the the way that average teens look/dress/act, making more teens feel the need to fit to that standard. not only that, but it’s getting even younger. as young as like 12 or 13 girls are wearing skimpy clothes and makeup, but unlike kids who did that in the 90s, due to the whole world at their fingertips via the internet, kids these days ACTUALLY look like adults. i do see a lot of similarities between now and then, truly, but i think that the 80s and 90s (and even the 00s) eras of acting or dressing provocatively and being rewarded paved the way for the 10s and 20s. it has built upon itself, meaning that it only compounded and has become an even larger and deeper engrained issue.
@@goopbuniabsolutely agree with you and impo I would add that children need to be offline until they're about 18 and off social media until they're about 25. The danger with that, however, is that if they haven't participated in social media for a quarter of a century the likelihood of them wanting to afterwards is slim. The danger is all corporations' danger, that is, not the populations'.
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Just embrace the body you already have. As long as your healthy it doesn't matter.
Wow, I know this obviously doesn't apply to me because I'm happy the way I am, but just... thank you (:
Baddie aesthetic never left, they just evolving into something else. Just wish the girls and guys didn't undergo surgery at such a young age. body and face changes a lot over the years...
Let ppl do what make them happy
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As someone who was like 10 years old in 2015, I'm very glad to not have ever ben influenced by this baddie aesthetic, during that time I was more interesting in looking like an anime girl 😂
Yeah I was 13 but did not use socials at all and just cared about school, anime and games😂
Ooof... Preferring one sht sandwich over another sht sandwich 😕
Oh that’s not…. 😅
That’s not good either😂
I was 10 in 2023
Edit: y'all old
I love how you do your makeup to match the video, it really shows the effort
THANK YOUUUU, i try lol but idk if it's noticeable haha
im 30 and look 12 compared to these 15-17 year olds i was always made fun of for not participating into baddie culture and doing my own thing but now im actually thankful i just stayed in my own lane and didn't give into the peer pressures of it
That's actually amazing :D I'm almost 17, I've been doing heavy makeup with bold eyeliner often since I was 13, but not because I'm trying to look older, but because I want to be creative with my makeup looks. Hopefully I won't look super old by the time I'm your age lol
I’m 20 years older than Aya, same birthday, she could be my child 😅
@@bloodycupcake00be creative on a canvas, not on your eyelids.
Also, you shouldn't be on social media at this age. Period. If anyone says otherwise - they wish you harm. Get off social media, get off whatever device you're using, limit your own access until you're 22 (ideally until you're 25).
@@bloodycupcake00 I'm also 30 with 20 year olds thinking I'm their age and also was into heavy makeup until my brain fully developed. Now I never wear makeup (I have a clear complexion and full brows to be fair) but still eye bags and sometimes redness) but I think we all are so beautiful the way we are and that's what makes us unique it sounds like a wall tattoo but it's true, no matter in what face you look you can always find something that makes it beautiful and it's always unique. It hurts me when I look back and not a single day from 16-22 was I without makeup literally for no reason because I simply never gave it a critical thought and said ''it was a hobby'' but it's so insanely powerful and freeing to be at peace with your natural appearance, not feeling the need at all to put on makeup and REALLY just doing it for yourself which is never for me personally and it took me so much unnecessary time to reclaim this feeling when it could've been there all along. I go out and to work and not a single thought is spent on how I look, imagine what I'm able to do with all this free head space
@@OlgaRykov nah i'm good
We now literally have minors dressing, acting and looking like grown adults. It's honestly so sad and disturbing to see. They are rushing more and more now to look older.
The baddie aesthetic just looks tacky and cheap imo
Exactly, it never looked good in my opinion, it just looked ridiculous and fake. Huge cartoonish lips, giant over exaggerated fake ass in your face 24/7 🤮 it’s so clearly a result of p0rn’s prevalence and influence on the culture. It’s like a caricature of what men think women should look like, just really gross. Not to mention the fashion was always tacky and fugly and only had the purpose of showing off your butt, nothing more. I’ll never forgive the kardashians for making it popular, lmao
It’s actually so shameful of tiktok and instagram to allow accounts like aya…. She’s very literally 15-17 being VERY explicit and sexual.
It’s really sad that being a “baddie” is almost synonymous with either being the most naked in the room or feeling like you have to look a certain way to get attention. And the fact that it’s so normalized is concerning. What happened to that thing called personality and variety that people used to care about?
It can be done in a tasteful way.. being sexy isn’t bad.. being sensual isn’t a bad thing. But doing it in an elegant more sculptured way is much better. You never want to be raunchy.
Agreed. But the point is that they don't want it in an elegant way they specifically want to demonstrate distaste.
its not cus being sexy is bad ofc being sexy is amazing its cus of how YOUNG these girls are considering sum of em even started the baddie look at 14
The point is, being this overly sexual as a minor CHILD is bad.
The issue is that being this way is a very conditioned behavior even when “done right” women are coached from a young age to be considered fckable, i dont think what women and girls need is to do it “tastefully” its to recognize this aesthetic does not give us more status in society it makes us weaker and more objectified.
Girl underage young ladies don't need to be worrying about being sexy, they're children? What part of the video did you not understand 😂
who ever said kylie jenner is not a baddie is DELUSIONAL because she literally started the whole IG baddie trend. All they way back from vine
She definitely didn’t start it. She made it more popular and mainstream = white.
When everyone looks the same it's better to stand out and be a normies. Baddies are overrated
Who gaf about standing out though ? Y'all care way too much about how other women look. It is not some weird competition like you think it is.
Who gaf about standing out though ? Y'all care way too much about how other women look. It is not some weird competition like you think it is.
@@Rosemary46840 When did I say it was a competition. I don't care what anyone else looks like I just refuse to conform
As a Latina with a natural hourglass body and an eh face, this trend forever ruined my relationship with men. Every one I have been with has had a s*x addiction to some degree. Dudes who were genuinely wanted a relationship just wanted me as a fwb. Sometimes I just wanted to shave down the curves on my body cause of it. Ik it sounds like a “boohoo my body is a beauty standard” sounding moment, but I don’t “embrace” a baddie body. I just wanted something real but there’s too many hungry roaches it’s destroyed my self worth
natural hourglass coloured girl from South Africa here too. literally never had a cishet man successfully be my friend without expecting sex in some fashion.
Literally
This trend didn't ruin your relationship with men at all though , that's simply how men ARE. Males are all sex addicted whether you're curvy OR NOT, the trend didn't make males who wanted a relationship only want to be FWB, that's what they wanted w u in the first place.
It's okay, everyone's body type will come in and out of trends at various decades and people will ruin it and over-sexualize it all over again...
baddie culture made me feel traumatized with my gender as a whole because when i was in high school boys just came up to me and asked for my number, they didn’t even want to know my name when asking for sex
I always thought of baddie as a girl that does not care for the negative stuffs people say to her/them and can stand for herself
No babe. “Baddie” was always an aesthetic. Not a mindset. Cuz some of the “baddies” are birdbrains while others are decent people
I personally wouldn’t say the baddie aesthetic is dying down but starting to go to younger generations or being called different names. i’m hispanic and in hs and i majority see the “copy and paste latina” makeup on hispanic girls my age while being provocative. this is also what majority guys my age also look for because they like the more older and sexualized look. i’ve tried the “baddie” aesthetic because my friends were also starting to do that kind of look and i felt uncomfortable and like i wasn’t looking at myself. i really think it just depends on the age group and what is around your city 🤷♀️
Yeah teenagers tend to be late to trends..
@@lunaloveless7234 I don't think they're "lat to trends" it's just that they've grown up in a time where the "trends" just went out of style. Teens grew in while adults grew out.
The second Instagram started monetizing the women with the baddie aesthetic and allowing them to call themselves “IG models” or “Fashion Nova Ambassadors” that’s when it took an absolute turn for the worst on the internet
Baddie culture just leaves women single mothers. Men don’t actually respect baddies they only want to sleep with them. Young kids need an awkward stage it builds character. Everyone looks the same on social media and is after the same things. It’s so superficial and damaging.
Everyone has other things thinking about than what men do or do not desire. Our lives don't revolve around that. These girls shouldnt be in these kind of attire simply because it's damaging to their self esteem and so on.... not because they are tryna be suitable for marriage. Not everyone cares about that
Fr , its like everytime i vaguely think of something that is considered beautiful on media , its just "blue eyes" and "blonde" I mean its like everyone is the same
I thought the same thing! I’m so glad I was able to just BE ugly and go thru puberty in the privacy of my immediate circle and not the entire internet. I was FORCED to develop a personality because dear god there were plenty of moments as a teen where I thought my looks alone just were not gonna cut it lmaoo… Now I’m of an age where I realize there’s more to life regardless but those years of insecurity, self discovery and character building were so so important and necessary to become the woman I am today and fortunately I think she’s pretty cool. I hate to think the next generation won’t have the mental building blocks to get to that point in a healthy way.
its not just young people. if you're a naturally curvy person, its annoying to be looked at like that when youre just living. who wants to be constantly looked at 😭
How about - who GAF what males want !!! Dress for you!! Y'all so damn male centered and obsessed with what males want its disgusting
I miss the 2000s and 2010s
it was a timeeeeeee!
real
we all do
I hate that as a black women people expect me to want to be a baddie. I always told him I don’t give a fuck about that shit. Do I need to do it when there’s plenty of women doing it? 😂
Can you clarify? Why do you think that being black is expected to be a baddie?. Sincerely, thank you.
@@defaultdacat sure. When I go out in public, because I am a black woman, people expect me to be a certain way. From what I was told, people expect black women to be baddies and whatever stereotype people see in entertainment. I’ve asked why people why do you expect me to be this way? And they’ve always told me I’ve seen your people (Black people) be like that.
Why are Black people expected to be baddies? I don’t know. But I don’t care for it. It’s not for me. Maybe another reason why black women do it is for attention. Or they’re just following a trend. I don’t know why people do things. It’s not for me though.
ur editing top tier man
So many hot topics, yet it flows so well - love the growth on the channel!
As a 12 year old I admit I sometimes give into social pressure to sexualize myself. I mean just today I wore a pair of jeans because they make my butt look good. The thing is at least for me it seems like it’s the only way too get attention, pretty much my whole life I’ve struggled a lot with insecurities and disordered eating, so when I got prettier it gave me a confidence boost when guys gave me attention. So I leaned into it, I didn’t post or actually act sexual but I was pulling up to 6th grade in crop tops and scooping my boobs so I get attention. And I mean it feels nice when a guy likes me or ask for my number, but it’s not that nice when it’s catcalling or sexual harassment or said guy asking for my number is actually a grown man. (Granted I’ve been catcalled in no makeup sweatpants and a hoodie) the thing is the confidence is really temporary, like in the moment it feels nice but not so much when it seems like the only thing people like me for is my appearance, but like I said me and most of the girls my age are super insecure from social media, than social media was like “here’s how to fix that” but it actually just serves men. I feel like the “sexual empowerment” movement was like a trick from men, they were like “yeah women take off your clothes for me-I mean for you, yeah definitely for you! Sooo you gonna show me your ass or what?” Also the whole “thin is back in” (was it ever really out though?) is really nerve wracking tbh as a girl who’s naturally curvy yk
Sorry for my rant and atrocious grammar lol
Edit: Yeah I know that social media is bad for me. The problem with a phone addiction is it’s an addiction, so it’s a lot easier said than done to just stop. I’ve had a phone since 3rd grade, also when it was peek Covid and I couldn’t see any friends or literally even leave the house during super developmental years. I totally get your concern (I hate it too btw), but like I said a phone addiction is an addiction.
Omg you’re so young 🥺
It’s normal for everyone to appreciate some level of outside validation from others. So there’s no shame in that. But I just want you to know that more than anything we have to learn to validate ourselves. I have a little cousin that’s a few years older than you and she talks to me a lot about stuff like this.
Recently she was telling me she feels bad because the boys at her school didn’t like her (but she was also like the only Black kid in a mostly white school). But I asked her if she likes these boys or thought they were cute, she told me no. So I told her she definitely can’t give these musty boys that don’t have good personalities, that she doesn’t even like, control of her self-esteem lol. Even if she did like them it doesn’t matter. We all have to work on our self-esteem so we can feel good about ourselves no matter what others around us do.
It’s easier to say than do, but you have many years to learn and practice!
@Fionas_planet We really appreciate that you're here and sharing your experience. But on a side note - you shouldn't be on any social media at your age. Period. I don't know why your parents let you go to youtube or other platforms unsupervised, maybe they don't know it's one of the signs of not having enough time for one's child. But there it is. Avoid brainrot: get off all social media platforms until you're about 22. If you have enough intelligence to write such an insightful, self-aware comment you SURELY must understand that you hanging out on social media and you having these confidence and body exposure issues go hand in hand. I hope that becomes clear to you after I pointed it out. It's a direct result of "consuming" inappropriate material at your age. If I knew your parents personally I would have told them off for dropping the ball on you like that. I encourage you to take care of yourself and fill in the parenting holes on your own. Find fulfilling activities, NOT entertaining ones.
Moreover: comments such as yours are actually used by intelligence agencies that pretend to be children like you to catch pdf files. I hope you comprehend the implications of that last sentence for you.
Unless you ARE an intelligence agency, in which case - oh the irony!
Other than that I'm wishing you the best, sorry if I was harsh but truth had to be uttered and I hope I don't see you anywhere on social media for a good 10 years for your own sake.
Girl you're 12!!! Live your childhood.
This stuff doesn't matter, I mean come on do you really want attention from a stinky boy who probably goes to the toilet and doesn't wash his hands 😂😂😂
Guuurl stahp what butt you're 12!!!
I'm 31 and remember being 12 - what you're experiencing is so normal and so many of us girls and women have a pretty similar journey. When you focus on things you enjoy like hobbies, special interests, clubs, extra curriculars etc that's when you start to not need this kind of sxl validation from others as much to feel accepted. hang in there! and not to sound old but trust me that life is so much better the less time you spend on social media. even us older ppl are negatively affected by it if we're on too much. it's hard bc the pressure to be online and know what's popular is so high at ur age but trust that you'll find your ppl who don't care about that stuff as much, and will be happy with who you are and the person you are becoming. it's hard out here for girls! just know that with time you will get more comfortable in your skin, it comes with age ❤
I never like it ,because all the girls into this asthetic were always rude to me for no reason smh
No fr
So true
THISSSS
They usually give backhanded compliments and unsolicited beauty advice 😅
This trope that “most” Black women are naturally curvy is so inaccurate.
Some of us are “curvy” not due to genetics, but because we are often over weight and celebrate it. Let’s be real!!
The Black women from the 50’s, 60’s, 70’s and 80’s were in much better shape and not “baddie” built. Their natural curves were not over exaggerated like today.
Lastly, if “most” Black women were curvaceous, then why are so many going under the knife to create the curves WE’RE known to have naturally???
Make it make sense…
Don’t get me started on how this has over-sexualized our community and decimated the nuclear family.
Ur right, now that I think about it, never ONCE in my life of being a mega fan of 60’s and 70’s African American music have I seen this extremely ‘curvy’ body shape on the ladies. Even aretha Franklin who became overweight later on started out slim, if not slightly curvy.
I did not like the era where Ariana was cosplaying black women, girl no, and no
And the blaccent made it even more annoying
her fans till this day keep making excuses
Baddie aesthetic for me is real life bratz doll. Hourglass figure with super thin legs. Pumped up blow up doll lips with super tiny ski slope nose and full glam cat eyes and heavy makeup that looks airbrushed.
That would be more along the lines of a bimbo aesthetic rather than a baddie aesthetic.
I live in Vienna, so in Europe, and I always find it fascinating how popular this is in America. Here in (most of) Europe, it’s almost non-existent. When I see young women on social media posing just to fit into the 'baddie' trend, I find it quite surprising. Every time I hear about rappers or these baddies having kids, it seems like it’s treated as something so casual, as if they haven’t really thought it through or it doesn’t mean much to them. As a European, it also feels like some people want to act criminal on purpose, as if it’s something to be proud of.
(I'm sorry if there are any mistakes, English is not my first language :)!)
Don’t get me wrong! I think it’s great that we, as women, have the right to express ourselves however we want, but in terms of young children, I find it quite concerning. I don’t think you need to show off your body or your figure to prove that you’re confident or independent.
I live in Düsseldorf and I see this baddie trend everywhere! But this city is really diverse.
i can’t explain how glad i am to have been a teen in the early 2010’s , i don’t even want to imagine growing up in & having peers in todays society 😖
I’m glad I’m not a teenager today, because I’m early-twenties and I’m STILL very awkward and frumpy. I could NEVER compete with these teens today. 😂
It doesn't seem like they have real peers. Just fake friends to clout chase off
As a 19-year-old about to turn 20 in a few days, it's really strange. I have never and will never be a “baddie”. The fact that girls like me get shunned for not looking like that is dumb.
Asian is opposite. Everybody want to look as much as young possible. We believe thick make up make you old😂
makes me sad knowing the young girls out here already feel like they need to be "perfect" based on societal standards during their puberty.
And I hate twerking?!? Like what?? That’s not hot.
Twerking isn’t sexual, but sexualised
@@Amberxxbbunni !!!!!!!!!!!!
It is though and it's fun too, stop having hate in your heart over other people enjoying themselves
@@Rosemary46840 darling. No hate in my heart over a stupid dance. That isn’t even dancing… sorry. You are speaking with a trained ballerina. lol. And a hip hop dancer. Not a twerker. Not down playing other dancing but twerking is just shaking your butt. Not hating or anyone. But I just find it to be belittling towards women. We are already put down so much. More so for black woman. And it’s frustrating. We are sexualized deeply. And I would want that to change a bit about our culture. Because it’s not necessarily a bad thing. But we are constantly being dragged. And that’s why I don’t like it.
Everyone has their opinions but it started off as a cultural dance before westerners (mainly Americans) got their hands on it
We definitely shouldn’t reward teenagers for conforming to the demands of the male gaze, but we also shouldn’t punish it
Or the female gaze
Um yes we should punish and discourage minors from getting multiple plastic surgeries. The brain doesn't even develop fully until age 25.
Real
No, not for conforming to the demands of male gaze, but for dressing up and acting like a ho - yes they should be punished. That's how parenting works if you want your child to become more than a s industry worker.
Why shouldn't we punish it? Without criticizing it we just allow for it to continue and patriarchy wins anyway.
And it’s crazy how men popularize it all be in the gc talking about how she so bad but then turn around to their girl and tell her to be modest. Lmao. Like what is it then stop thirsting over the ones yall claim bad asf while seeking out the good girl or whatever bs they on
I think it’s cause they know how men are so they don’t want their girl to be sexualized by other men. But yesterday I was literally wearing baggy jeans and a sleeveless turtleneck that showed a tiny bit of my stomach and some older man was checking me out, up and down. You could literally see the pervertedness in his eyes and it’s just so disgusting no matter what you wear they’ll always find a way.
Men are all liars. Don't believe their fronts.
I'm a guy who watches these videos out of curiosity. I can talk a bit about how guys might perceive this..
Men do like the sexualized look people can invest in cosmetically, as evidenced by adult material online. I'm guilty of it too. I don't think most decent guys in real life want that anymore than they want to fire guns like in a videogame.
It's not the viable basis for judging someone in real life. You don't have to look like a baddie if you don't want to. I think humans, just like other animals value looking really healthy. These thin and thicc standards are shorthands for that. Clearly, it's a spectrum. If you would benefit more from hitting the gym or making positive lifestyle changes, you can be perceived just as positively. It's different when you need to look a certain way to make money off of it.
The rich men and women who might prize that look may have a vested interest in investing in their business aesthetically.
They kinda aren't really a part of society in a conventional sense, since their great wealth and fame isolates them. Their opinions aren't based on rationality, so they can afford hedonism since they can pay issues away often.
Any decent guy or girl you might want attention from romantically will meet you halfway and go out of their way to appreciate you for multiple reasons, not just your look alone.
I hope this helps someone young reading this. It's also totally ok if you want to be a baddie. You can be that and more if you want.
Sadly, I don't think that individuals preoccupied with their secondary se)(ual characteristics from childhood are able to read what you wrote, least of all comprehend it.
@@OlgaRykov😢
Love your videos! You are hella observant and I love to hear your point of view.
thank you! you have to be observant in this day and age chile
Never stop making these videos bc this needs to be talked about
It's just ridiculous to watch how we are now being "taught" the freedom to be sexy and look sexy. As a woman born in 2000, I found a period when being a girl with not skinny figure was considered something in itself unacceptable. We were taught that if we have bulging breasts or big buttocks, we must hide it otherwise people will call us too revealing, too bad
Okay? So that's a good thing. That we're now able to be as sexy and as curvy or not as we want versus being forced into a box
Getting a bbl in your teens is insanity. Also teens are still kids even 18 and 19 year olds are still very young mentally so as the parents why would you let your child get one of the most dangerous life threatening surgeries???
I'm not going to lie, I'm a 16 year old black, female and I already dress and pose like that, I don't act how the baddie aesthetic stereotype is but I do definitely find myself getting drawn into this aesthetic and wanting to be "cool" a "baddie" I want to fit in around my friends and some school mates, I want to fit in with social media. I have my boundaries and i dont twerk or anything like that but i just dress and pose in such ways so for those who may read it dont take me for someone who is being passed around and just doing all of the things that are attached to the baddie aesthetic. I am not like that.
“Being sexy isn’t bad tho lol” yeah, of course it’s not, but putting in effort to have sexual appeal when you haven’t even graduated high school yet…?? 😕
Idk I just think some of these comments from minors are just… sad. I’m sorry you had to grow up in conditions that made you think sensual/sexual allure is something a girl MUST have at such a young age in order to be liked. I’m sorry about all the content on the internet targeting impressionable young girls. Genuinely, I’m so sorry.
34 year old here with a PSA. My ASS and HIPS did not fully developed UNTIL I was 30. I got no play for most of my 20s. Now dudes won’t leave me alone.
Let your bodies grow ladies.
To answer your question: The parents are in the background to obsessed with trying to be their kids' "friends ". It's just tragic 😥
Rihanna is bad but she never gave baddie in the sense that most people know. She’s always just been stylish and extremely naturally beautiful, no surgery no enhancements. You can’t class her with people like Kim or Kylie or Cardi or Ari because she’s not emulating black aesthetics the way they do & did.
NGL I miss the fun we had with makeup and looks. Everything seems so beige and boring now. People don't wear heels, dress up, or get creative with their makeup like we used to. Also it was so refreshing for curves, it encouraged many women to get into strengrh training. Now its just Ozempic and eating disorder aesthetic.
Right and the BBLs were healthy for women to see?
No just no, during the thick era I traded good health and athletic ability for force feeding myself junk and only doing butt workouts. Also most people losing weight from ozempiv were overweight and there is no eating disorder aesthetic at all that I succumb to, that's who YOU/YALL follow and support, also people are still creative with their makeup and fashion you can do that as much as you want you don't want no one's stopping you
@@Rosemary46840people can be thick without stuffing their faces with horrible foods like genetics, being disabled, having certain conditions that make you gain weight, taking birth control, etc.
And I think they meant in general, which is true. Even non obese celebrities are taking it and only getting thinner and that HAS been pushed on TikTok for EVERYONE to see.
As someone who was an exotic dancer (skripper), the baddie aesthetic is 100% just looking and acting like a stereotypical str*pper in my opinion. because i identify with that, i embrace the baddie aesthetic. however, i’m a grown woman. seeing teenagers/very young girls act and look like that just to fit in and be praised for objectifying themselves is truly disheartening. young ladies have so much more to offer the world than just their bodies/looks. trust me, that kinda lifestyle isn’t as luxurious as it looks on social media…
it’s corny but it’s true so stay in school. having a beautiful heart / mind is always going to be more valuable than a nice body/looks.
If you weren’t an IG baddie in 2014-2015 what were you doing with your life?” First grade 😢
Same lmao
I was a baby in 2014 and 2015 lol i started first grade in 2019
@@GytSigma username is as expected for a 10 year old, kinda miss when I was in that cringe era of just being a kid on the internet.
Don’t talk to strangers online young padawan, and tell no one your age or year of birth from now on, there are predators online who will attempt to groom you just because they know your age.
Damn I was in my last year of college then 😅
Okay? Obviously they're not talking to you df
Watch, they’re all gonna pull a Kylie when they turn 25 and start acting wholesome ✨
the jellyfish on the background 🌪️🔃🔃🔃🪼🪼
looks really concerning (for me; even though I know it's not a real jellyfish)
I always say that the only thing I want as the celebrities are their money, but not their lifestyle or fame. BUT MONEY, give it AAAAALL to me.
It comes a point where all of this is distusting to see, like so much. They are SMALL and their parents can control all of this but they just dgaf. Its sad, its going to be wors. We have Sephora Kids, Baddie Teens and animal adults. WHAT MORE IS COMING DEAR TIKTOK
I was in the worst teen years in 2016-2018 and I tought I had to be a baddie, dress revealing, do makeup etc. I think alot of us who were teens at the time have out grown this mindset. Hope it will be the same for these girls and I hope they stay safe and realize sooner than later it is not doing anything good for them.
It definitely sets unrealistic expectations for women.
I’m 16 and I haven’t gone as far as eyeliner and mascara from the hair store 😭
Sometimes doing crime to live is better than being homeless I guess. While I normally like to think people have better options, I recently become disabled and my whole life fell apart. I've also seen a lot of people struggling in my life. Sometimes I think it might be nice to live the high life until I get caught.
girl Taylor don't change her aesthetic but she changes her whole damm personality
Lol for real. Like no she’s never been “on trend” but she definitely completely alters her personality/aesthetic based on her agenda at the time: dating an underage Kennedy? Dress like a 1960s housewife and buy a whole ass Nantucket home! 😂 idk which is worse honestly lol at least most sensible people kind of *see* the baddie aesthetic for what it is… Taylor is a… whole other story lmaoo
I think the problem is these “baddies” have no *ambition and no personality* Are they NPC’s? that’s yet to be determined. Bottom line is they’re all the same and incredibly boring..
The jellyfish lamp in the background was stealing my eyes, I was so memorized LOL
i just wanna say i love falling asleep to your videos, you relax my mind and i love when you post 💜💙🩵🤍
It’s fascinating watching this video when you’re not a part of this subculture or trend or whatever baddie is considered. I hope those affected by these influencers can heal from any self image issues and take the baddie attitude as a personality trait opposed to overly sexualising themselves etc.
Idc what grown women do, but if you're a child or teen trying to be a baddie then that's so embarrassing and sad. These kids think they out here really doing something, but instead they are missing a childhood. Just making grown women cringe and feel bad for them. They'll regret it when they are grown. Human brain isn't fully developed until 25 so ummmm
it’s definitely not right but it’s so sad society makes young people feel like they need to look a certain way to be considered beautiful and sad young ppl even care about that in the first place :(
obviously ppl make there own decisions but i mean the influence^
The wayyyy I used to cake myself out thinking I HAD to have a full face of glam makeup evry single day was crazyyyy😂 I’m so glad I learned to relax 🤣🥲
I love originality so much, I feel like the baddie culture has everybody wanting to look the same or wanting someone who fits that aesthetic, and it made my late teens/early 20s very uncomfortable for me.
No bc let’s really talk about that marriage and kids thing. I don’t know why men in this generation would much rather get you pregnant then marry you I asked my boyfriend daily does he see his self marrying me and he says not yet that’s a big step which is understandable we just started dating and we are still very young so marriage can be scary, but he is so quick to try to get me pregnant and have a kid with me because he wants a son. maybe I’m just a woman but I can’t see how can you rather get someone pregnant then marry them what kind of math is that you’re stuck with that person for life is much worse because now you’re stuck with them and you’re stuck raising her he little human with them. I’m so tired of seeing every female my age getting pregnant and not even having a ring on their finger. Everyone got pregnant as soon as we left high school like, what are we doing?🤦🏾♀️
Girl, leave him 😭
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I will die alone but NEVER change my body and face for anyone's 'love' or validation. It's so trivial.
*Danielle Bregolie/Bhad Bhabie and Malu Trevejo come to mind*
Those names give me flash backs, there was always drama with them
Point blank, the baddie aesthetic and lifestyle is not for minors (under 19s).
Never heard of the aya before very concerning that we live in a society that is allowing her to do this without IG and TikTok facing repercussions
The specific look you are speaking of: Baddie looks stem from stripper/nighlife/trans community with a mix of modern/urban gym attire looks. But I do see that everybodies definition of “baddie” is diff, some people associate it by ur clothing/brands u wear, or ur looks or a mix of both (Rihanna, Bella hadid, etc), then u have the aesthetic ur speaking of, Urban nighlife clothing, or stripper aesthetic.
As a pretty girl, I will say it’s crazy how what u wear determines how your looked at, regardless of ur beauty.
What does this have to do with the Trans community??
@@Vampiric-Princess hoe I mentioned them once. N you’ll kno if u pick up a book
@@Vampiric-Princessthey literally just said it dummy do you know how to read?? They named everything that the baddie look stems from and named all of the things yet you only called that one out
@@Vampiric-Princessthat's what I'm trying to figure out 💀💀💀
@@PGOuma 💀
The "you dey crazy" 😅😅
NIGERIAN GIRL RIGHT THERE!!
i hate the word baddie sm
this will probably get buried in the comments, but i’ll share my experience. back when i was around 17-18, i was insecure about the way i dress. people my age were dressing up “maturely”, they would wear crop tops, short shorts and skirt, backless and cutouts. it didn’t help that i also had access to instagram at such a young age, i wanted to look like them; sexy and a baddie. when i started dressing up like them, sure people would approach me but they wouldn’t compliment me, but rather what i was wearing. i had to force myself to wear “sexy” clothes, because i wanted to blend in so bad. now that i’m 22, i’ve thrown out any “sexy” clothing i had and started to wear what i want. i wear light, flowy clothes. i like wearing clothes with characters on it (e.g. sanrio, anime). sure, no one looks at me anymore, but i feel more confident and happier than ever.
As a teenage boy still in high school, it's crazy to me how social media has affected what teenagers wear, especially girls. I remember when my older sisters were in school they had fairly strict dress codes, no shoulders and such. The dress code at my current school is pitiful in my opinion, and there are girls who abuse it to show themselves off as much as possible. I feel bad for these girls because many of them probably don't know the lasting effect this could have. At 14 or even younger teenage girls shouldn't be wearing skin-tight yoga pants, showing off cleavage, or putting on what seems to be pounds of makeup just to look pretty. Social Media (as well as lax parenting) is making girls pretend to be older than they are instead of embracing their teenage years, and it's sad.
I’m 37 and never tried the baddie aesthetic. It just doesn’t connect with my personality I guess. It always looked like an extreme amount of time and effort. Especially now that I’m older I can’t be bothered to care enough to try lol. I figure that my standard look will always work, and other things are trends that will come and go.
I know these days there are people that will say it doesn’t matter what young girls do because people shouldn’t sexualize them in the first place. But when we have actual minors portraying images or doing actions that are overtly sexual, should we not voice concern?
Girl, I'm jealous of you. I'm in college and almost everyone is trying to look like a baddie, I sometimes feel pressured to change my style, but just like you, I don't feel like it matches my personality . I just try to be myself and hope I can Finnish school that way
2014 vs 2024, like 2014 had pressures but I never would of thought.. now
Me sitting here at 22 still trying to bag my medical degree 😂. Its shocking to see how bad things are in the US 😢
And the thing is, at this tender age, we long for approval from the opposite sex. They only ever notice girls with precocious framing or adultlike behaviour, dressing style, heavy makeup. It is a scary world out there for girls who want to stay girls. At least, I was bullied and outcasted for not conforming. It doesn't bother me as much anymore but I would be lying if I said it doesn't bother me at all. Sometimes I feel like giving in but I also know that I won't ever be 18 again so is it any use feeling sad?
I’m 26 and it’s actually a breath of fresh air to see a young woman with your mindset I honestly relate to you so much❤️ I am delighted I found your channel! You’re killing it! 🫶🏼
i never miss one of your vids, thats for sure
As a white European girl with a naturally "heroin chick" body, this whole KarJenner-baddie-aesthetic has been absolutely brutal for my self-esteem and mental health in general. This trend of baddies made society demand that every woman out there should look like this. We do NOT look like that in Europe...