The Gift of Your Absence! 🎁🚶‍♂️

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    00:00 THE GIFT OF YOUR ABSENCE
    02:52 RESET INTERACTION
    06:14 PLAY ON IMAGINATION
    08:29 MYSTERY
    10:33 GIVE THEM THE GIFT OF YOUR ABSENCE!

КОМЕНТАРІ • 125

  • @SCGSHOW
    @SCGSHOW  2 роки тому +5

    Who have YOU gifted your absence to in your life? 🎁🚶‍♂ Share your story below! ⬇

  • @jimphiripes802
    @jimphiripes802 Рік тому +283

    At the first sign of disrespect or drama, walk away without failure.

    • @biancaspureimagination
      @biancaspureimagination 11 місяців тому +3

      Amen

    • @Alex-iq9gd
      @Alex-iq9gd 10 місяців тому +3

      Word

    • @FaintAura
      @FaintAura 10 місяців тому +5

      One of my friends claimed she was no drama then proceeded to block me on social media for no reason, no time for that kind of bs lol

    • @martikabraidbar394
      @martikabraidbar394 10 місяців тому

      👏🏾💗👌🏾

    • @CC-pu6qn
      @CC-pu6qn 10 місяців тому

      Already there❤

  • @corinaluanavlad2417
    @corinaluanavlad2417 10 місяців тому +69

    They must learn my value or earn my absence. It's simple.

    • @vickigonya9432
      @vickigonya9432 3 місяці тому +1

      Ooohhhhhh I like that!!!! May pit it on my back SUV window ❤

  • @kentaroo.7759
    @kentaroo.7759 Рік тому +50

    I got rid of several people in my life, never heard from them again. I enjoy the peace and quiet.

  • @karishort1891
    @karishort1891 Рік тому +97

    Every single word of this is spot on. I ghosted so many people at once, now all their heads are spinning and not mine LOL

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh 9 місяців тому +40

    Ghosting is closure 😌
    When there's nothing left to say,
    or when things are better left unsaid - ghost!

  • @Jesusisking235
    @Jesusisking235 5 днів тому

    For years I had no idea that I was allowed to walk away from unhealthy relationships (especially toxic draining family members). Now I am at a point where 1 ounce of disrespect I move on... no time for toxic people anymore.

  • @iamthestorm1004
    @iamthestorm1004 Рік тому +105

    I’ve gone no contact and blocked my left ex for 17 months now
    She took me for granted and did not value what I had to offer her
    Fine with me
    Love the silence !
    “Crickets” 😅

    • @seriously999
      @seriously999 Рік тому +7

      Same exact thing I’m going thru..it’s only been 3 days now..she hs been treating me worthless and speaking awfully to me like I don’t matter , I’m always the one trying to reach out and begging but u have decided to end it

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 Рік тому +9

      @@seriously999 Sorry to hear you’re dealing with this
      Walk away
      Stay away
      an ex is an ex for a reason
      Work on yourself
      Re connect with family friends long forgotten hobbies
      You’ll be fine brother
      Better out there for you !!

    • @seriously999
      @seriously999 Рік тому +4

      I now believe there’s hope for joy and happiness..ur comment really inspired me to keep moving on ..damn 17 months is legit ..hope I’ll make it like u did

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 Рік тому +3

      @@seriously999 you’ll be ok
      One day at a time
      Trust the process
      You’ve got this
      You are the prize !
      Don’t go back and reopened that door
      Gods got a plan for your life and has the right woman waiting for you behind another door !

    • @cabrondemente1
      @cabrondemente1 Рік тому

      ​@@seriously999 How are you feeling two months later?

  • @truth8027
    @truth8027 2 роки тому +85

    We do have options when dealing with inconsistent individuals, thank God ..

    • @yahyaelmi8435
      @yahyaelmi8435 9 місяців тому

      That’s why you have to master the art of detachment

  • @kentaroo.7759
    @kentaroo.7759 Рік тому +25

    My gift of absence is a permanent gift. I'm not gonna miss them and vice-versa I'm sure.

  • @Heavenlysky89
    @Heavenlysky89 13 днів тому +1

    I walked away from a dismissive avoidant so it will take time for him to value my absence, if ever, but idc because I'm never returning.

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  13 днів тому

      Never go back

  • @nestorcolt
    @nestorcolt Рік тому +13

    We must reach that Nirvana, hope you all can get there!

  • @punisher007ish
    @punisher007ish Рік тому +34

    Very interesting and well explained. I'm red pilled and have been looking into these things for a while but this has made me really understand this concept and why it works and made me realise I'm an empath and this used to happen with me (I had to walk away from everyone on my life cos they were all toxic I was surrounded by trash). I'm working on resetting myself. Thanks man

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Рік тому +2

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @laylahalgharib3150
      @laylahalgharib3150 5 місяців тому

      Research Human Design. It will assist you with your purpose!

  • @davzrobaichjukes
    @davzrobaichjukes 2 роки тому +14

    So truthful thank you for this

  • @bella3096
    @bella3096 Рік тому +7

    This is so helpful. ❤😊

  • @stevenkrupka3670
    @stevenkrupka3670 Рік тому +6

    Healthy , informative video, thanks dude!

  • @garygriest1293
    @garygriest1293 Рік тому +10

    best idea I ever heard wish I had these videos years ago great job.

  • @theveryplumdarcey
    @theveryplumdarcey Рік тому +4

    Such a lovely video 📹 😍

  • @legendaryeddyb228
    @legendaryeddyb228 6 місяців тому +5

    Great Video. I had a sarcastic woman who pretends to be happy for me which I already knew was a lie after I tried to tell her some good news after experiencing some bad luck & then after this encounter I was completely drained. There was absolutely no reciprocity on her part & definitely a lack of effort on her part & then 2 days later when I see her from the corner of my eye as I was speaking to someone else & then after seeing me as I was talking to this someone else, she had the nerve to turn her body & her torso away from me in giving me her back. Extremely rude & disrespectful. Why would I want to talk to somebody like that. At this point I was done with her as I'm about to get rid of her & without warning in which ended up happening. Then a little over a month later as we were walking & coming from opposite directions, she sees me & tries to get my attention by saying HEY & as we got closer, I created distance by completely walking right past her ignoring her acting as if she doesn't exist & completely walking away.

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  6 місяців тому +2

      👏🏻👏🏻

  • @truth8027
    @truth8027 2 роки тому +18

    We do have options when dealing with inconsistent individuals .. Thank God

  • @frederickruhl5606
    @frederickruhl5606 Рік тому +23

    I walk away from them and I am glad to never talk to them and they don't know what to do about it .I choose to be with those who respect me when they stop respectful to me I am gone with out a single word from me. RUHL2

  • @gw6496
    @gw6496 11 місяців тому +3

    On point👌🏾👍🏽👍🏽

  • @therealone8628
    @therealone8628 2 роки тому +2

    Nice 👍

  • @monigiselle2140
    @monigiselle2140 17 днів тому

    Great video. Thank you. I'LL USE THIS STRATEGY TO TRICK MY BRAIN AND FORGET.

  • @mediniphukan5959
    @mediniphukan5959 Рік тому +1

    Amazing 👏

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Рік тому

      Thank you! Cheers!

  • @owenbutcher1954
    @owenbutcher1954 9 місяців тому +2

    WELL PRESENTED ✊🏻

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  9 місяців тому

      👏🏻

  • @estebanvalenzuela9899
    @estebanvalenzuela9899 Рік тому +9

    This video is awesome is the one thing I've been looking for, it really helped me thank you.!!

  • @debkayemba3507
    @debkayemba3507 11 місяців тому

    Wow 👌 nice video

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 Рік тому

    Amazing

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Рік тому

      Thank you! Cheers!

  • @LAbidjanaiseBlogMode225
    @LAbidjanaiseBlogMode225 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you ❤❤❤

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  10 місяців тому

      👍🏻

  • @Cimaazimi11
    @Cimaazimi11 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you 🙏🏽 💛🧡💛

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  10 місяців тому

      You are so welcome

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 Рік тому +2

    Freedom 🎉❤🎉🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯

  • @donaldcummings6439
    @donaldcummings6439 Рік тому +5

    Another fabulous common sense video presentation. Thank you!

  • @keith2o9
    @keith2o9 9 місяців тому +3

    You just told the story of my life.

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  9 місяців тому

      🙏🏻💙

  • @therealone8628
    @therealone8628 2 роки тому +3

    I'm dealing with 8:58

  • @insaneboy1234
    @insaneboy1234 Рік тому +3

    Your videos are fantastic. Btw, your voice sounds like Wheatley from Portal 2 game 😀

  • @catylynch7909
    @catylynch7909 Рік тому +2

    AKA ... Who needs them???

  • @sj-md9mo
    @sj-md9mo Рік тому +1

    ✨💛

  • @CITYBEACHTV
    @CITYBEACHTV Рік тому +2

    It’s absenCe

  • @Weazy44Tuclanta
    @Weazy44Tuclanta Рік тому +6

    what do u do when a girl gives u signals she wants you to make a move but when you reach out she dont respond

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 Рік тому +3

      That girl would be lying to herself. What she is interested in was playing hard to get. She wanted to test you to see how you respond. She wanted an ego boost so that way when you reach out, she can reject. This situation is where your absence will make her attractive to you because if you don't take her test, she wonders why you did not fall for her trap.

    • @Weazy44Tuclanta
      @Weazy44Tuclanta Рік тому +2

      @@hp2546 i havent contacted her in a while but ill probaly run into her eventually we both go to the same college i aint gonna be no asshole or nothing to her im just not gonna give her my full undivided attention

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Рік тому +3

      You did your bit. Thanks for Watching 👏

    • @Weazy44Tuclanta
      @Weazy44Tuclanta Рік тому +2

      @@SCGSHOW no problem love these kinds of vids i have aspbergers so i cant pick up on social cues like the norm

    • @Rajab25161
      @Rajab25161 8 місяців тому

      Just back up and act neutral

  • @Wolfhammered
    @Wolfhammered 8 місяців тому +1

    Can a break up do this same thing?

  • @EricSmith-gn7nd
    @EricSmith-gn7nd 5 місяців тому

    One text and I’m out. If they want u they will let u know. I don’t even ask them out anymore

  • @redditcard9288
    @redditcard9288 10 місяців тому +2

    she said she lost feelings for me and offered friendship. I begged and pleaded for 2 weeks and she got irritated and at last i told her we cannot be friends and its better if we stop talking (basically told her that I'm not gonna reach out) and she asked me not to break snap streaks. it's been 3 weeks now and she seems very normal about it, what're my chances?
    Also i asked her to reach out if she change her mind.

    • @steelesharpensteele6252
      @steelesharpensteele6252 10 місяців тому +2

      Hit the gym focus on ya$$$ never break no contact n move on bro shes nobody but your HIM
      remember that

    • @tymills22
      @tymills22 10 місяців тому +2

      Break that snap streak. She lost feels but wants the daily attention boost? Nah son

    • @hardstyle8184
      @hardstyle8184 10 місяців тому

      Take the risk… don’t break no contact

    • @topshotta8856
      @topshotta8856 8 місяців тому

      Keep it P brother 🚶🏾‍♂️💨

    • @rikkaushik467
      @rikkaushik467 6 місяців тому

      You made a mistake by giving her statement of you are available for her she will put her at ease, as she might think you would be keep waiting .

  • @FaintAura
    @FaintAura 10 місяців тому

    What do you do when it's a coworker you want to pull away from?

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  10 місяців тому +1

      Speak to your boss

    • @joleaneshmoleane8358
      @joleaneshmoleane8358 9 місяців тому +3

      Quit your job if your boss won’t handle it. People should always be able to quit their job without fear. If someone has worked somewhere for a year or more, and they can’t quit their job bc they can’t go without pay for at least 2 months, then they’re living beyond their means. Having too many bills to pay makes you a slave to whoever you’re working for.

  • @dmfdaz9339
    @dmfdaz9339 Місяць тому

    I didn't. I hung around, hoping she would change she was OK for a couple of weeks, then would show her true colours well, now, she has to deal with no reaction to her constant baiting.

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Місяць тому +1

      👏🏻👍🏻

  • @igordrm
    @igordrm 4 місяці тому

    All theses videos about absence is about reacting to others, and feed your own ego by imagining others confused about your absence. Then, what seems independence is a subconscious clinging to someone else. So wrong. If from someone's point of view you have driven yourself away, it must be because you heard the call to meet yourself and you need to focus.

  • @bubblegumwrap7813
    @bubblegumwrap7813 Рік тому +10

    Why should you go back...lol

  • @Deeznutz864
    @Deeznutz864 6 місяців тому +1

    The lengths people go through for attention 😂

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  6 місяців тому

      For real

  • @kendalette726
    @kendalette726 Рік тому +9

    What if they moved on with someine they actually like more?

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Рік тому +27

      Good riddance to them

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 Рік тому +20

      K-11
      If your ex moved on with someone else
      Be thankful God closed the door on that former relationship
      Take the time to grieve the loss
      Work on yourself
      Don’t rush into another relationship
      Trust the process
      Trust God !!

    • @karishort1891
      @karishort1891 Рік тому +11

      Poo on them! Better is on the way to you. Do yourself a favor and move on happily -- even if you have to fake it a while, eventually you will feel so much better ❤️❤️❤️

    • @brujatSA
      @brujatSA Рік тому +7

      Would you want a life with a person who wants better? Instead of being with a person you'll feel enough with?

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3 Рік тому

      @@karishort1891 This is the most real advice ever.

  • @stevemiller8895
    @stevemiller8895 5 місяців тому

    Who are you trying to fool everybody is toxic name one person that you know who isn't toxic to some degree. You should reconsider your bulshit. Besides most empaths are very socially unreliable. Those will be the people that you would deem as toxic

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching mate