MISSING SOMEONE? | The Power of Absence, Scarcity, and Apathy (No Contact)

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  • Опубліковано 20 лип 2024
  • Why do you long for a specific person's presence more than the others? A lot of people whom we are acquainted with can be far away from us and we might not see them for quite some time, but why is it always that one person that captivates you, that intrigues you, that you can't help but think about, whom you always wonder about in your own vivid imaginations, and whom you just can't get enough of when he/she is around your vicinity.
    In this video we will discuss why absence, scarcity, and apathy is a powerful force to create attraction, fascination, curiosity, and desire. While also discovering the real reason of what makes one person's absence so agitatedly overthought.
    Time Code:
    0:00 - Intro
    1:03 - The True Reason Why You Miss Someone More Than Others
    2:16 - Standing Out
    3:35 - Absence Is The Medium, Not The Reason
    4:07 - Why Absence Is Necessary
    4:30 - Values, Values, Values
    5:03 - Do Not Use Absence For Its Sake
    5:24 - You MUST Keep Adding Value To Yourself
    5:35 - You Won't Ever Stand Out To Everyone
    6:10 - Outro
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    #Nocontact #Relationship #Love
    #Sex #Missyou #Obsession
    #Desire #Fascination #Curiosity

КОМЕНТАРІ • 71

  • @Forged88
    @Forged88  4 місяці тому

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  • @245makarov1
    @245makarov1 2 роки тому +34

    thanks, needed this. less you are present, the more they think of you. keep uploading.

  • @budosky8119
    @budosky8119 3 роки тому +46

    Underated content bro i love your channel, scarcity creates value

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks my man 👊

  • @iagocuriel9418
    @iagocuriel9418 2 роки тому +27

    I really dig your videos man. Im currently struggling with depression, and these videos really make me see the amount of things and behaviours there is to learn to become the best version of myself. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Mr Forged.

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому +1

      Much appreciates for your support Iago 👊

  • @niveke
    @niveke 3 роки тому +23

    How do you not have over 100k subs yet?
    For a small channel you deliver higher quality video's than most channels i see.
    I gave you a sub and please do not give this up. You got this!

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  3 роки тому +5

      I appreciate the support brother, thank you so much 🙏

  • @jasimkhan38
    @jasimkhan38 3 роки тому +38

    Your content, your editing, your accent, your voice, everything is Gold. Just keep going brother, one-day your channel gonna grow beyond your expectations. All the best.

  • @_aconite_cj_
    @_aconite_cj_ Рік тому +3

    I really miss my bf rn n he's been distant for a while, this made me feel better.
    Edit: you usin gentlemen is really affirmin n validatin too
    Thank you.

  • @orchid1172
    @orchid1172 2 роки тому +11

    Interesting and profound topic. Over-exposure like in social media is prevalent in everyone’s lives it’s difficult to be scarce without deliberate thought and will to be so. Thank you 🙏

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому +1

      It depends on your mindset on social media. Most people expose way too much of their personal life to try and make it look interesting to others for validation.

  • @christelbitoon4129
    @christelbitoon4129 2 роки тому +3

    Very well said. I appreciate this video!

  • @ChristopherSmikle
    @ChristopherSmikle 2 роки тому

    The discovery of this channel is my Christmas Gift.

  • @tjbohmier46
    @tjbohmier46 3 роки тому +13

    An excellent straight forward perspective on how our brain works on relationships in general. Very well done, other similar YT relationship channels will need to "up their game", IMHO.

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Рік тому

    Such a beautiful video, also your voice and background music. Thank you xo

  • @viloriadraftingdesign4203
    @viloriadraftingdesign4203 2 роки тому +3

    I love it thank you very much for sharing, you created a master piece.

  • @hamza-yg8wb
    @hamza-yg8wb 2 роки тому

    Hello my friend , i've just came across your videos and let me tell you that they are astonishing ,great topics keep up the great work .

  • @momshiekoo2542
    @momshiekoo2542 2 роки тому +5

    Thanks for sharing.pls continue sharing your thoughts it helps a lot of people who suffering from mind games over and over again.

  • @ThePowerplay2019
    @ThePowerplay2019 2 роки тому +4

    Best channel to come in to my life ever, don’t ever stop bro your helping me a lot!

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому

      Thank you for your support my friend 👊

  • @ewagraphicdesigns
    @ewagraphicdesigns 2 роки тому +2

    Watching this video and the part where you talk about absence reminds of a passage from the Tao Te Ching
    “Thirty spokes join together in the hub
    It is because of what is not there that the cart is useful
    Clay is formed into a vessel
    It is because of its emptiness that the vessel is useful…”
    Great video man

  • @BlindHatchet
    @BlindHatchet 2 роки тому +14

    Fantastic message and very well articulated! The production and images are also superb and this works just as well as an audio only listen. Well done!

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому

      Much appreciated my man 🙏

  • @Saljarba87
    @Saljarba87 2 роки тому

    This is amazing!

  • @papipix7496
    @papipix7496 3 роки тому +4

    You were dropping godly messages to my brain

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  3 роки тому +1

      That's very flattering brother 🙏

  • @fionafeeney9464
    @fionafeeney9464 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this. It has really helped me.

  • @scionofvishwamitra6232
    @scionofvishwamitra6232 2 роки тому

    Love the fair & handsome ad before every video

  • @Exclusively_Alpha
    @Exclusively_Alpha 2 роки тому +1

    I love this channel glad the day I discovered it, your lessons has helped me alot
    To the point where whenever I'm looking for advice and wisdom for life and becoming a better man here's where I come.
    Continue Forging head-on, you are definitely impacting lives with you work cause I'm sure I'm not alone on this.

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому

      Thank you for you words and support my friend 👊

  • @blankphyt2073
    @blankphyt2073 3 роки тому +1

    I was led by youtube algorithm hereee.. awesome content!! Keep it up! New sub 👍

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  3 роки тому

      Much appreciated brother 🙏

  • @Krunchyz
    @Krunchyz 3 роки тому +10

    Only a matter of time before your channel blows up. This channel is a goldmine of knowledge that every single person on earth will find useful in their lives, Goodluck on your journey sir

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks man, I really appreciate it. Though I'm still a baby in this type of content

  • @WizardRen2711
    @WizardRen2711 2 роки тому

    The best💖💕😊 more video like this💖

  • @Nix5275
    @Nix5275 3 роки тому +5

    I dont usually comment but amazing breakdown. So true. I would be curious to see u breakdown walking away from a female. The mental breakdown, I’m sure ur take would be interesting

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  3 роки тому +1

      Will do brother. Noted 👊

  • @Forged88
    @Forged88  3 роки тому +14

    What is it that make you long for that particular someone more than the others? Do share your thoughts gentlemen, we are all learning from one another on this channel at the end of the day.

    • @245makarov1
      @245makarov1 2 роки тому +1

      we dont want to feel like losing something we have.

  • @rickhewitt1417
    @rickhewitt1417 2 роки тому

    Great stuff!!!!

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot mate 👊

  • @felixjr4246
    @felixjr4246 2 роки тому +3

    Masterpiece ☝️✍️no cap 🧢

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому

      Much appreciated my man 🙏 and thank you for watching

  • @SaidyYengYoutubeChannel
    @SaidyYengYoutubeChannel 2 роки тому +1

    New Subscriber here. God bless🙏🙏 find it interesting🇵🇭

  • @user-qo3yj7pf4j
    @user-qo3yj7pf4j 2 роки тому

    Thank you. This is helping me become who I want to be, a total chad. Keep up the good work!

  • @g3n3ral1nsanity5
    @g3n3ral1nsanity5 Рік тому +1

    I'll make this short I miss someone because I genuinely love them and want to spend every moment I can with them any less and you'll hardly ever see me unless I feel I should probably show some decency and say hi to the person I know

  • @jadengrant
    @jadengrant Рік тому

    This video should be entitled, "How to make yourself more interesting".

  • @marydulin842
    @marydulin842 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing. For me if a person does this to me I will give you a couple of chances.If a person doesn't respond or block you and talk to everyone but you. That's exactly what he will continue to do ,not with me however. I respect a gentleman more if he's not rude point blank.Qualities I'm looking for isn't hodeny period. I'm just not into the magic show. Next he's just not the one. Gentleman doesn't ignore or Ghost people only cowards that's looking to stroke his ego by using you to see if he's got it going on like that. My true answer is no.All the men pulled this number has gotten their walking paper's. I don't like rudeness nor disrespect. If a person thought of you and took their time to email, text and call you,when they could be calling someone else count your blessings. Cause I don't fool with to many people. So know men's no 2 women are alike as for me personal it doesn't attract me more but less and than I lose respect. With no respect and honor a relationship and no contact is speaking to my heart rudeness. Thanks and Merry Christmas.

  • @auri6957
    @auri6957 2 місяці тому

    Intelligent man

  • @zirp2570
    @zirp2570 2 роки тому

    Love this video!!! I’ve been struggling with the absence of this one specific person in my life who left to persue their dream. I just want to know can it/would it be possible for them to return to my daily life one day again or for me to ever see them again. I keep having hope this will happen, but I need to know plz, and Thank You!!!

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому +4

      It is always better seeking new and better relationships my friend. Do not let your world revolve around one person, you will ultimately waste your life and freedom.
      I understand that there are specific individuals that will make an impact in your life more profoundly than others. But the believe of them being the "only one" for you is merely an illusion that has been conditioned into your mindset for many years through disney movies and modern music. The truth is, you just haven't explore your options yet and meet many mating/relationship prospects.
      Chances are there are lots of people out there whom you can share greater chemistry and connections with. Everyone is replaceable my friend, amd chances are, the person whom you are so fixated with has already replaced you with another or many others. So don't buy into the narrative of "one person is destined for one person". The more you explore your options, the quicker you'll realize this. Cheers mate 👊

    • @zirp2570
      @zirp2570 2 роки тому

      It’s me again!!! I can’t stop thinking about what you’ve said, but I guess I am just truly determined to win that person back no matter how much time it takes when you love someone you’ll wait for them for as long as it takes!!! Also I’ve been getting signs from the universe, and god it’s not a coincidence, but I don’t think the universe wants me to let go of this person!!!

  • @theoracle5265
    @theoracle5265 2 роки тому +1

    Authenticity or Not real or fake , you decide

  • @Leonisdarko
    @Leonisdarko Рік тому

    How do I do this at work when I see her everyday?

  • @Arcticiann
    @Arcticiann 3 роки тому +7

    the only problem in this is that the audio is really low even if i max the volume.

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for noticing sir. My audio game back then was amateurish, still not the best today. Will be continuously improved in future videos

    • @carmensmith1453
      @carmensmith1453 2 роки тому

      It is low and he speaks soft referring to gentleman

  • @denbrick2
    @denbrick2 3 роки тому +1

    😁
    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
    WELL DONE
    BROTHER

  • @stormtrooperdad4529
    @stormtrooperdad4529 5 днів тому

    Agreed.

  • @sunnysunshine524
    @sunnysunshine524 Рік тому

    This video I've found on time.
    Maybe you will remember,I was writing that my dog got killed.He never wear suit but I miss him so much.The hate the fire in me...never slowe's or turns off.I think I am of many who believe revenge.
    I tried not to...but it is there n does not go away. I'm sorry...for me and my Melo(dog).The killer was another dog,should I care?no I can't and his owner?he n she can cry their eyeballs out.Sorry!!!

  • @carmensmith1453
    @carmensmith1453 2 роки тому +1

    We tried to understand but the audio very low ...still great video ty

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому +2

      My apologies abt that. My audio skills weren't the best back then, I will continue to improve in future videos 🙏 Cheers

    • @carmensmith1453
      @carmensmith1453 2 роки тому +1

      @@Forged88 no problem ty very much great video we listened again to it

  • @alexlove3778
    @alexlove3778 2 роки тому +5

    I'm not a gentleman! Is this channel just for men then? ....great content btw

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  2 роки тому +2

      Mainly aimed for men, but can be for everyone. Cheers 👊

  • @WizardRen2711
    @WizardRen2711 2 роки тому

    Woq

  • @jacksavage279
    @jacksavage279 4 місяці тому

    Less is more.

  • @edo7131
    @edo7131 5 місяців тому

    Tooo much work to impress others! I pass