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0:00 WHY WALKING AWAY IS ATTRACTIVE! (DO THIS NOW!)
2:48 YOU BECOME A CHALLENGE
5:07 THEY MISS YOUR ATTENTION
7:26 YOU ARE MYSTERIOUS
9:35 YOU REGAIN THE POWER
12:06 YOUR VALUE INCREASES
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Everything you said, so true & I’ve already begun the process. He’s been texting and calling. Some of the messages are very rude & others ooze with downright desperation!
Ii 888
True 😢
Hi I am a well aged experienced hardworking man . The love of my life is a know it all kind of lady. I listened to your video and is spot on to my girlfriend and I situation. While I am very easy going,open minded,loyal and Loving . My lovely lady is the opposite. Very controlling,closed minded, gossipy, bad temper, and always complaining. We have been together for 3 years. We had a Hugh argument. I just couldn’t take it anymore. I walked out on her and we have not seen or spoken to each other in 3 weeks . I am doing fine as always and wish her all the same . Thank you for your insight.
If they didn’t appreciate your presence, let them miss your absence.
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Preach!
This
EXACTLY!!!
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1. You become a challenge.
2. They miss your attention.
3. You are mysterious.
4. You regain the power.
5. Your value increases.
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All so very true.
I want my power back. My power and my self respect.
@@scsoleshine581 it's within you dear!!! You never lost it.
6. They see you are fearless
7. They wonder if you have options
It’s not about attraction. It’s about self-respect
To be fair, people with self respect are more attractive, so the creator is pointing out the unintended consequence of acting in a self-respecting way.
💯 self respect (and self proection)
There is no mystery in sticking around and accepting crumbs. Be better than that. Walking away is definitely sexy.
I'm flawlessly attractive sexy admired for no chemistry the most loved mama and grandma thee most yummy mummy and loves life to the fullest amen.
Are you talking about when a guy is interacting with a female?
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Dont agree that is not true
I just want my money back!! i try to cut her off 1st red flag i saw.. she said im sorry give me another chance ! 8 months and 4k dollars later i seen 3rd red flag ... i cut her off she said give me another chance ... B××× ch (i don't call her that i just ignore her text n calls) but i want to tell her give me my mf'n money back🤦🤦🤦... She still write me talking about im making mistake naaaa 304 you is the mistake i miss my 💰!!! Talking bout everyone makes mistakes we have to fight for it... You stupid b*\/tch we fight the outside world challenges not the ones we created u dumb 304 give me atleast half my money back...she Talking bout i really loved and cared for you your a great guy welllll then b***ch pay me for my services fuggg u mean 304!!! If i wasnt spending so much money n tine i could prolly forgive her... But she played to much with my marbels on the line u diggg !! She gotta find her another sucker
The best negotiating position is being able to WALK AWAY and mean it.
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Are you a 3% Corey man?
@@johnkennedy8795 >Come on man!!! 3%rs are always watching. Haha
@@peterinfante6187 she belongs to the streetsss!!!!
Do you tell them “I’m done”?
Or
Simply ghost?
I don't think it's all about walking away with the intentions of making the other party have regret of losing you. You walk away because it's the right thing FOR YOU. And once you've walked away, it doesn't mean necessarily that the other party will feel bad. The other person might actually be grateful that you've walked away. You walk away because you deserve better not because you want to punish. Great video btw💖💖🔥
I love this!
This is healthy.
Absolutely agree!
This 💯💯
Exactly- walking away from people who enjoy disrespecting you because of some character flaw in them, is necessary for your emotional well-being.
Totally agree IF you are walking away for the right reason which is your own self respect, not if you are deliberately trying to manipulate someone. It needs to be about yourself NOT the other person.
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(long distance relationship)
My girl is just being aloof for not saying, 'You're my girlfriend'. Now she's saying that, 'I've chosen myself over you'... and her dp is of her & a guy. She doesn't reply my texts nor does she call or picks up my calls. I m confused. BUT till now, she hasn't blocked me on any social media. Is not saying 'girlfriend' so big a deal (a sin) when I've already made up my mind as living with her for the rest of my life? I will always love her and cherish the memories even if she doesn't come back. I feel she's that worth. At least, to me. Even being distant, 'i never cheated on her and everything that I said & told her wss all truthful because I don't have the habit of lying. I hate doing that! Now I don't know what to do to make her come back. I don't wanna lose her because I've lost so many loved ones. Friends & family. If she doesn't make any kind of communication, I have nothing else to do but just walk away silently. Thats the last resort. I don't wanna lose my self respect. If you guys can help. PLEASE DO. I m listening......
@@phuntsokbhutia9987, I would ask yourself truthfully why you were resistant to ‘the label girlfriend’ as that’s what she obviously was. Secondly, you say you don’t want to lose her but if you already have - unless she is just staying away from you to manipulate you and make you anxious and chase her. If this is the case, you need to ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who can do this to you.
If this is not the case, then you still need to respect her and keep your dignity by getting the message if she’s not responding to you in any way. Stalking is not healthy. Concentrate on your own life and find someone who is reciprocal and ‘can’ be bothered with you. Good luck.
Yep. Walked away because of what was said in the video. I was originally guilty of being too available which turned into playing games and uncertainty because she thought I was a sure thing and I dont play games. However, she went back to her ex who she said she wasnt into and broke up with for me, so oh well.
It works either way ho3
Walking away means choosing yourself and finally seeing your worth💯
Nice comment, I’m from Canada and you?
Lol
wait are escaping from your problem actually sexy they say?
@@mikaelwallentin.. It depends on the reason of walking away. Walking away on situations that is not your job to fix is a right reason to walk away. If you walk out on commitment, that is walking out for a wrong reason. If you are being abused while attempting to make friends, then you walk away for your own self respect. If you walk away for abuse of power, you walk away for a wrong reason. If lets say you got your gf pregnant and you walk out on her, then you will be misusing the power of walking away.
@@hp2546 thank you for emplaning thoroughly. Agreeing
So much truth. I just walked away from a 6 month situationship where I was being led on, disrespected, and kept waiting even though they knew I wanted and deserved better. I deleted him off social media out of nowhere and walked out of his life with no warning…and he is straight shook I found the courage to do so. I feel so powerful! Winning!
@Not Convinced if you treat someone like shit then yes you know why they left…
I dumped a friendshit, take back your power and walk away.
Just walked away too
Same here, exactly your situation but she tried to pin it on me.....said "you're disrespectful by claiming unfairness of the treatment" she was giving me...right there and then I knew what needed to be done, and I won't budge no matter how hard the temptation of going back is...she's gone, she had a chance to be part of my life but she chose to explore her options and put me at the bottom of her priorities.
@audrey update pls
If your absence from someone's life does not affect them, your presence never made a difference. And if that's the case, then why would want that person in your life, someone who doesn't care about you?
By keeping such people in your life, all you end up doing is hurting yourself. Never let things like loneliness, cause you to go back to people and situations that are not good for you.
If your absence doesn't affect me it doesn't mean I didn't care for you. It means that I'm not dependent on you, but I can love you. Your thought process is kinda toxic.
@@cipryan96 I never meant there are not exceptions.
True!
The gift of your absence can be one of the best gifts you can give
I walked away from the man I loved dearly, Its hard but I have to. 😢💔
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Me too abt 2 do it am crying
I let the women i love dearly walk away
Congratulations on being awesome and taking the right decision! I hope you can find peace on your way. It's not easy, but your future self will thank you some day.
@@codyr7897 why?
Wanna end a relationship..? Start being overly nice.
Wanna keep someone from leaving..?
Become distant, cold, and mentally abusive.
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IKR! Lots of weirdos now! 🤷♀️
That’s pretty sad.
The key is balance
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Respect yourself and respect your healthy boundaries
YES YES YES ... IVE LEARNT THIS ...FINALLY. X
I've never done this before but i had to walk away from a girl that i loved so much but she didn't appreciate anything about me...i never wanted to lose her and i realized that the more i try to keep her and fight for relationship the more she slip away and keep damaging me..., i'm still not over her yet coz it has been a couple of weeks but i'll get there soon
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Same here..
It will be painful but your heart will heal .Someone that is right for you is out there give it time and you will heal. The right person will light up your world , stay true to yourself you deserve it. Tell your self that every day .i deserve better till you believe it . Take care and goid luck
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How you getting g on ?
If someone disrespects you, always walk away. You don’t lose anything but u will gain a lot of self respect. That person will start to respect ur decision, you will start to respect yourself.
I couldn't walk away until it became crystal clear that staying hurt more. Now I feel liberated not devastated.
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Fabulous, well done. A lot of people do the same.
Sticking around would definitely give instant gratification. But, walking away will give long term satisfaction and ultimate peace.
Its actually vice versa 😂 walking away is Freeing & Liberating only after Certain Work is Done on The Relationship. Walking Away when its hard to do Signals that its not The Right Approach. Easiness in Walking Away is The Signal that its The Right Moment to Walk Away. Walking Away too Soon is Walking Away with Ghosts From The Relationship. Stay, Clean The Mess InSide Self at least, Then a Moment Comes & Leaving is Easy, Natural (yet, Certain Work MUST be done During The Duration of The Relationship to Achieve This Easiness Point, otherwise its only Vicious Circles) 💓💞🥰🙏🌸 thats The Formula if You are Really Setious about The Stated "Ultimate Peace"
You are so right. I was treated badly and stuck around because I loved her. This led to nothing but pain and misery. Many months of arguing before we finally split. I look back and wonder if I just walked away the first time She maybe would have respected me more and it Could be worked out. Or at the veryeast it would have saved months of misery where we now hate eachother. Lesson learned. Stand by your boundary no matter how much you love the person. It's the only chance they'll truly love you back
I use to get gaslighted for this
By friends & family.
Walking away is one of the most powerful things on earth
And toxic low self esteem people dont want you to have it
It starves their narcissistic behavior
Walk away never look back.
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I love this thanks
Amen yup.
They will call it running away out of fear to engage but it's not
It's the human right to decide and make up our own adult mind and choices.
To live in sweet harmony and give our love to us plus to people who see us for who we are in return.
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 that's exactly what they'll call it. They'll say you're throwing them away and letting them go... using words like that
Hug hug
You are not walking away so they can chase you or return to you . Sometimes the biggest victory you can have when it comes to toxic relationships is walking away and actually not hearing from these people ever .
100% You walk away for you, not because of the reaction you get from someone else.
I walked away from a man I deeply loved and along the path fell in love with. He just was emotionally not present and I'm deep and do not swim in the shallow end . I told him that we were supposed to be a family, he and I and his dog lulu...he say , " I know..." He didn't come after me but has called me recently, I ignored his call...its been almost a year ...I keep hearing when he's been drinking out with friends , he does love me and miss me....words are cheap...its all about one's actions 🎬😌
Hello Tammy Robinson how r u hope u ok I'm NC w my ex he was emotionally absent and told me how much he loved others exes ..the humiliation I cried sooo much
@@carmensmith1453 it's a journey to self awareness , once I let go and began to just love myself more than loving him. I was ok. Does it hurt still ? Yes. But my dignity intact and walked away from what no longer served me= joy
@@tammyrobison1355
I'm happy you're making the right choice.
However, I think there's one final thing to consider, and I say this from personal experience:
Ask yourself if you would be okay with him starting a family with another woman.
I hadn't considered this when I walked away from the love of my life (never together) who would disrespect me and not directly apologize, yet would be extra sweet and MAYBE remorseful, hinting at more. I wanted her to stop playing games and leading me on, but in the end she stuck with "I really want to be your friend..." so I walked away and ghosted, because I told her I wanted more.
When the pandemic hit 2 years later, I messaged her worried she was sick or dead due to her comorbidities, and she says she's fine, and expecting a baby. That hit me so hard. I walked away because she was a disrespectful POS, but still loved her deeply and left confused by her mixed messages. I envisioned us growing old and raising a family together, but now she has a kid by another man.
If I had considered that angle (I hadn't, because she once said 'this is why I never want to have kids'), maybe I would have given her one FINAL chance and tell her I was leaving, to test for her reaction and commitment one last time.
I know he's failed you, like she failed me, but look into your unique relationship and history and see if it's worth it to give him one final chance, on the potential scenario he gets another woman pregnant and raise another kid with her to adulthood. Would you be able to bear that reality? It took me almost 1.5 years now to no longer be hurt by that reality. I'm still not sure, judging by her disrespectful actions in the past, if I should have given her 1 final shot, when the onus was on her to apologize and ask me out, the ball being in her court.
Maybe he misses you. But maybe he doesn’t. He’s with other women. Forget him. It wasn’t meant to be
Walking away is so hard when you love the person and get ingaged and start planning a future...its really hard for me it was probably the hardest thing ave went through for yrs anyway.... hope god 🙏 puts the right girl for me.....a did listen to this and liked it
To walk away and be in control of your mind and few things is far better than having no control with everything and staying
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It’s easier to get rid of people than keep them!!!
@@SCGSHOW hello and ty I'm NC w my ex ...I did everything for him ohhh I'm sad very sad
So true . I stayed to the point where i felt so lost and had no say whatsoever. I was basically a pathetic doormat . When i tried to walk I would have panic attacks and felt like it was impossible to leave. I was under their spell. It was a horrible feeling. Finally left when she cheated. Made it much easier to leave. But still struggling a lot but hope to get control of myself again.
I recently “walked away” from the woman I love. I was overly attentive and I am super in love with her…but she consistently ignored me and blew me off. She communicated to me in a way that my value to her was very low. So I finally couldn’t take the hurt feelings anymore and I walked away. She has asked me three times now if everything is ok or told me she misses me (with a “buddy” at the end of the “I miss you”). Walking away feels better in a way, but I still feel broken hearted…😢😢
I understand it hurts walking away from someone you had feelings for.i just did that today but it's not worth crying over someone that doesn't care.
I completely empathize with you my friend... i too am currently removing myself from a toxic situation, and it is absolutely painful. I think about her a lot, i even miss her, but i know the situation won't improve.. i tried going back once and it got worse.. please heed the advice of others in the comments, saying not to go back.. Trust! God Bless you brother, i pray for your strength and healing.. i know its tough, but hang in there, we got this👊🏾
@@Jason-qf8ig I wish to thank you for your very kind words of encouragement, my friend. I recently decided that my situation is related to a deep emotional trauma I had as a kid…I unwittingly keep recreating heart break. I decided I had to quit hoping about her and concentrate on healing an old wound in the heart…
I feel your pain and I know that you can grow beyond the pain of that difficult situation in your life. You have my best wishes and I have full confidence that the strength is inside you that you need to make it through. The love brought pain, but the pain brought opportunity…sounds cliche, but it’s true.
We got this, my friend!!!
This is my situation right now, Did you say to her that you like her or say your intention to her? Im planning to confess my feelings then if she will not reciprocate then i will move on.
Keep walking
Avoid toxic people at all costs. They are not worth your time & effort.
Karma usually sets in thereafter. Be patient.
Yes, this is my plan. I'm not taking the uncertainty into 2021. I'm a gr8 person that deserves so much better. This mouse is now being a lion and I def know how to roar
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Yes!! Good for you!
A guy that wont take responsibility. Puts blame on you no account for himself. Is toxic I needed to walk away
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Depends on what it is you're referring to. What responsibilities, are there children involved? If so then yeah that's definitely serious. But if it's an issue he could learn from have you tried showing him or confronting him in another way about it??
Am crying
Went through the same thing with my ex. It was hard but 6 weeks ago, I left.
I have experience and proof that when you walk away or use no contact you’ve unleashed one’s superpowers. 💪🏽
Damn Right !! I agree
I never learn, I am sick and tired of having to watch these videos. Don't ever accept any condition from anyone no matter how much you want them if it means you have to wait. Nobody has to wait.
Never enter into any interaction that you cannot control. You are complete by yourself.
After 6 years of being accused of cheating multiple times on my girl, multiple times a year (which I would never imagine doing), she video called me sounding suspicious of where I was. I said "where do you expect me to be? I'm home". My phone's battery then died in the middle of that convo. I had to wait 5 min for my phone to have enough charge to restart, to which I was bombarded with "you're cheating on me, you only want me for my money, and a whole bunch of unrelated shots fired at me." At that point I had no more emotional energy to try to prove my innocence for the millionth time. I told her so many times, that I understood that she had trust issues based on her past relationships, but if she can never meet me in the middle, it will never work for us. I told her to forget that I even exist if she cannot ever come to terms with trusting me. This was 2 weeks ago, I have always been there for her in the past 6 years, regardless of the truly horrible things she has said to me, I still love her, but at this point I'm on the look out for my own peace of mind. Never thought I would get to this stage.
I was in toxic relationship, i walked away and I feel good
I was in depression
Now I only worship and love Allah
Walk away when someone crosses your boundaries they have been set for a reason and anything or anyone that disturbs your peace gotta go!!
Yes yes yes.
People make mistakes. Forgiveness is powerful. Rejection is redirection.
I agree. But only forgive those who repent.
"You want forgiveness? Get religion."- Peter Parker 😂
Walking away acorinates to forgiveness due to zero violent tendencies.
I walked away from a toxic,abused,unhealty relationship.
There are things that we never want to let go of,people we never want to leave behind.But letting go isnt about giving up.Its about accepting there are things that just CAN NOT be.And a toxic relationship CAN NOT BE.
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I did the same, I walked away from abusive husband and then boyfriend. I won’t let anyone to treat me poorly!!! No way! Better to stay single and enjoy yourself than being with selfish, narcissistic idiots.
Very well put
@qqq??? I already divorced him just recently! 😀
we are taking about Batman here.. not catwoman. 😂
Letting go increases my joy. I have walked away from many toxic relationships in my life (family members, lovers, husband, friends). I have never been regretful about walking away from other peoples' nonsense. Letting go increases my joy.
And sanity ❤😊
When you walk away isn't that perceived as you showing emotion?
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Walking away with intention gives one wings 🦋
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It hurts like hell and lingers for years, but the separation gives the victim back his or her control. What you do with that gift depends on how you heal.
I just got away from a Narcissist a month ago...so THANKFUL that I got away without losing my home or anything else that I have!!! PRAYING THAT HE DOES NOT RETURN!!!
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He can only return if you let him. Go full no contact. Change the locks on your home.
I often walk in the middle of random roads wearing a suit and tie as well. This speaks to me.
I agree with walking away for your own dignity's sake. I don't think that it's a way to "show them" and increase our value to them. If a person disrespected you, that means they don't value you much in the first place. They'll just move on to the next thing they can use. Long story short - you won't be missed but you also won't allow being disrespected.
I am one to always walk away, from people regardless how good looking they are. If im not satisfied or they have nothing to offer .. im out and I don't turn back! I don't require attention, dopamine or validation
My boyfriend started abusing me emotionally i noticed it and it's hurts too much i didn't want to go he abused me until he saw i can't leave them he started telling me hurtful words that he want to go back to his ex . He stopped talking to me i was so stressed and depressed . I cried whole day and night for 3 months i knew it over and he cannot love me again . I packed my things and went out of his house after leaving i felt soo peaceful i thought i will die am so happy and peaceful and i will never want to do anything with a male in my life . I belong to Jesus wah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really needed this today. I can't be a friend to someone who I want to be more to and we were before but now he says he is afraid of commitment . I had to walk away for my own mental health but, it was the hardest decision I ever made.
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And you did it😊😊
Gods gift how we use it on our journey life global wise wisdoms
I am in the same boat.A guy led me on for a year until I cornered him and he said that he is not romantically interested.I went in no contact immediately.With me he gets everything or nothing.Stay strong.
Same boat. Reverse gender however.
My advice is ask yourself if you would be okay with him starting a family with someone else. Ask yourself if what he did was bad enough to the point you can't reach out to him, even if he starts a family with someone else.
In my case, walking away from the love of my life was the hardest decision I ever made, but I still think I made the right decision. However, upon finding out she's now a mother to another man's kid, I wonder if I should have given her one FINAL skeptical chance to prove herself.
It was very very painful getting over the fact she will now have a child with somebody else, and raise them through adolescence and adulthood. That was what I wanted for us.
But it seems your case was probably more black-and-white whilst mine was ambiguous, where she was giving me mixed messages, maybe because she was shy, maybe because she was playing games.
Mental health professionals also warn to stay away from toxic people....the secret of success of 90% achievers is that they told they could spot who toxic people were and their 80% energy was spent on staying away from them....the secret to sucess is not hard or smart work, its to try to be as away from toxic people as possible.
I walked away from a narcissistic woman almost a year ago, the only thing I regret was not doing it sooner. She doesn't have the means (fortunately) to travel to my city, but hell, she's tried it all, even adding me to linkedin and sending messages to distant relatives who didn't know about her existence. The only thing I can say is: It's hard, but it's the right thing to do, and you will get MUCH better overtime...
Never accept people,things,circumstances,or anythin in this world that goes in diferent direction of your dreams,always be your top priority,never conform,listen to yourself and even if you are wrong sometimes u wll learn from it..walk away from anythin that feels dull,boring or makes u feel less worthy..sometimes even run but never rush,never react on first,but if somethin gives u bad vibe more than once or twice its time to count those steps..i did it 1000× times and i never regret
"A man with no motive is a man no one suspects. Always keep your foes confused. If they don’t know who you are or what you want, they can’t know what you plan to do next." -Littlefinger
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She ended it and my response to her was 'I respect your decision. Take care'. Minutes later, I got a text message from her trying to belittle me. She insulted my house and everything. I wanted to respond back in such a humiliating way but I sat back and it occurred to me that when she did the dumping, my response was not what she was expecting, hence why she became vile 😅
Right on, Brother.
That meant she was not proud of ending the relationship with you. Even if she declared the relationship over, she came crawling back to you. That right there you demonstrated was you earlier accepted her decision. Look what happened. She broke the no contact rules. That proves she feels miserable. Earlier, you walk away choosing to detach yourself because she originally wanted you to do that but she proves that she made a wrong decision by cutting you off.
I walked away from my boyfriend, it was really painful... But I have to do it. I cried everyday in my room alone thinking about him.
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How do you feel right now? Are you okay?
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It’s taken weeks and I’ve done this before but it was still hard 💗 if you’re going through this now just knowing that walking away will literally only help you and help progress your life for the better. Don’t be scared to let go. Having self worth and drawing a boundary is attractive and if they miss you let them and enjoy it. :) if things work out with some space then good if not then that’s also good.
Is the hurt normal after walking away to win yourself? The hurt of not having those moments together again, missing them , etc !
Thank you, I needed this. Tomorrow I'm going to walk away from my relationship... A week ago he said he missses me. Two days later he said he lost his feelings for me and has been distant. He's Not willing to talk and I can't continue like this. So tomorrow I'm walking away for good.
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Same
I'm so sorry thatsy case also w my ex now I'm NC ...take care stay strong
Same happened to me. One day he said he was so happy to talk to me and to listen to my voice. 2 days later he told me he didn’t want to have any more contact with me and not to call him. Weird! I have not contacted he just as he asked in 4 months.
Stay strong ladies .. if they act like this they don't deserve us !!
You gotta do what you gotta do, I don’t deal with any toxicity . You always have a choice . Be true to yourself.
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Absolutely. Walk away, it might not be what you want but it’s certainly what you need.
TODAY I DECIDED TO WALK AWAY I DID ALL MY CAPACITY TO STAY AND TO BEG A SMALL ATTENTION BUT THEY DON'T SEE IT UNTIL THE PRESENCE IS NOT THERE... I THINK MY LOUDEST ANSWER TO HIM NOW IS WALKING AWAY IN SILENCE I WILL LET UNIVERSE WILL ALIGN IF WE ARE MEANT FOR EACH OTHER.. I WILL NOW FOCUS ON MY GOAL AND CARREER AND WORK IN SILENCE.... IT HURTS ME INSIDE AND PAIN IS SO MUCH FOR ME NOW. BUT I NEED TO DO THIS IN ORDER FOR ME TO MOVE ON.. PLUS MY FAMILY RELATIONSHIP IS NOT GOING WELL I AM SO FED UP AND I WANT MY FREEDOM NOW 😔..GOODLUCK TO us I start to move forward today and hoping it will continue and lead me to the good decision
When it's time to leave the party, the job, the relationship. These words speak volume in terms of self-respect,
Thanks for this video... it's been two weeks since I started having anxieties , two weeks crying day and night - I am on the process of letting or not letting go... thanks for the encouragement... I will try my very best to dry my tears, let go and walk away...
Got tired of talking to myself 🤔 got tired of being ignored got tired of having no clarity where is this all going to not getting a intelligent answer left May 2020 havent spoken since???
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Hi Carol where you at ???
Same happening to me t,hence I'm here to find how to let go,been me initiating contact, sometimes no response in weeks,or not at all,blocked him before&unblock again,
This theory works well. I walked away from someone in Nov that I was seeing for 3 years & I did it exactly how this video describes how to. the catalyst was I started with mirroring his energy. I quickly realized I did not want to be in that kind of relationship. His energy sucked. I walked. I never looked back. Never texted or any contact on social media. Ever. I’m happy now
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Did you ghost them?
Sometimes i get tired of being the initiator all the time. Walked away from numerous friendships and relationships, but Its like a never ending cycle
I totally agree... I spoke to someone about this today, at the end of the day it will happen once u get involved in relationship. Being a good person Nowadays it's called bullshit
That's life changing, walk away, and you will have regained your power and influence on others, Do not walk away, others still have there finger on you.
Time is your most valueable exchange. Don't let people devalue and take you for granted kings 👑.
I don’t know how can someone said they dump you because they don’t want you to get hurt anymore, but didn’t realize that by doing so will also hurt you so much. Exes will come back when you don’t want them anymore, sad reality
walking away is a good decision especially for those who were disrespected, and this move will improve your value in life, no more toxicity
Very good vid. I walk away last Sunday cause I was tired of being miss treated and disrespected by my ex wife.
An ex of mines cheated on me, and boy did it suck, bad. However, I didn’t fight it. I simply blocked and ignored her, and it’s been that way every since. She recently hit me up, after about a year and a half, apologizing, saying she misses me and hope that I’m doing well. Part of me wanted to reply, just to sort of let her know that I’m not bitter and have grown from. The other part of me says, when I was around, I wasn’t respected and situations were manipulated.. so, tho I do forgive her on my end, I don’t feel it’s worthwhile to reply.. or extend comfort, as that was amiss when we were an item.
Need to listen to this, as this is what I experienced lately. Walk away from people who does not bring out the best in you.
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how do you implement walking away?
@7:45… yep. So true like being unavailable until they chase you or you meet someone else is the only way to go. And better urself while you waitin.
Great video... I just walked away from a woman and I'm extremely happy I did. It was hard tho.
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@@SCGSHOW It was a conformation I did the correct thing. Haha, thanks for the video
Good for you, its hard walking away from someone you love. Im currently on a relationship now, she is cheating right now and I hope I have the strength to walk away..
@@alvinmenes6429 Mine was playing mind games, but she didn't cheat. I would never allow cheating, that's a massive red flag. RUN AWAY, haha
Just what I need now that I feel worthless. Thanks for making this video, it's so empowering.
True, I made the mistake to always be too loyal to everything and wasted too much time. Walk away from situations that make you unhappy. Whether it’s relationships or work. Life is too short for BS. You only have 1 life
Having the strength to walk away from toxic people is a fucking super power. If you are questioning walking away from a person or group of people do it, you want look back.
Omg I can relate to everything that if said here, I so needed to hear this, thank you. I walked away from my family who were gaslighting me n breaking my possessions n were trying to break me, I had t b strong but I'm so glad I did leave ( in 2017) iv never looked back
Wow this is so amazing. Thanks..
I recently walked away from a relationship where the person was treating me badly. I took the courage and finally did it although it was very hard initially. Watching this is like a reassurance that I did the right thing.
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@@SCGSHOW This is so good, Thanks
That one special person in this world for each and everyone of us will think more of us for having boundaries and walking away. Only their own conscience will confirm this. 🍒
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I use it as a negotiation tool. If they start taking me for granted or disrespecting me I wish them luck then walk off forever unless I get what I want. This goes beyond relationships. If you can walk away from any deal you aren’t happy with you either avoid having to settle for something you didn’t want or they will come back and offer you what you wanted. Always be willing to walk away from anything in life
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So my boyfriend walked away after hearing this message. The unfortunate part is he is an alcoholic, cannot speak or think emotionally. Than you for this message.. he did me a favor@
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Makes sense! I neva use to get ppl purposely try to b mysterious/ unavailable. Recently an old time friend ghosted. I never took her bk when she came bk on her own. I dont like pricey behavior in d name of mystery. I prefer open book kinda ppl who r available consistently n no games. U r busy, convey n tyt. A friend in need is a friend in need.
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there are people who are trying to show themselves as something worthy or more special by acting up as if are always somewhat busy and not easy to reach out, but they come out childish. There are some who act as if they out to be busy as if they are country leaders, but they can hardly lead their own home.
Great video. People need to realise that when you decide to leave a relationship it's something that you will have contemplated for a long time, especially if the person in your life begins taking you for granted or becomes entitled and disrespectful! They are your ex for a reason and you are the prize! They will try to come back when they realise that they can't replace you!
Well said!
I came back to watch this again because I felt little low again. It's been 4 months and I didn't look back. Your video is so affirming. Thank you. Made me feel better and more aware of my worth
Why does this video feel so sincere than any other similar one?
The narration felt so honest that I wanted to watch it twice back to back.
If it's very stressful, yes walk away.
Staying in an abusive situation in the name of love is not love. Walk away dear. I did the same life become better day by day.
I loved the first bullet point !!! You become a challenge from " easily accessible " to scarce in a matter of time 💙....
Yesterday I decided to delete a new someone’s contact details as I was tired of doing all the work. Surprise, surprise she contacted me by the end of the day asking how I was. This can work you just have to respect yourself.
Depends on the intentions also because doing it could make or break you or the person you're leaving behind. So as long as your intentions is for anyone's good sake or for your self growth and self respect it is valid.
Still trying to wrap my mind around things. The woman who I love and lived with for 10 years moved out and immediately started no contact a week and a half ago. She was able to send me this large farewell message while I was at work and I was unable to do the same. Being on the other end of no contact knowing there were so many things you wanted to say is soul crushing. These videos are what keep me going at the moment but this is the toughest thing I think anyone could go through in their life. I experienced the death of the parent that was my rock 2 years ago and I was able to cope with that easier as my dreams/future I had planned didn't change overnight. Mornings are like waking up to a bad dream that you cannot do anything about. I'm trying to let go of the hope that one day she will come back to me but it's a difficult thing to do. The worst part of my situation is 5 years ago she wanted to move closer to her parents, so we moved right across the street from them and I now have to still see her vehicle everyday when I go to work which leads the mind to wander in dark spaces. Amazing how someone can go from being a best friend to a stranger overnight.
I couldn't imagine the pain you are experiencing
On day 17 and im humbled. After 2 weeks of soaking up my own faults I sat back and realized I was being used and this is the best thing that could have happened to me. I paid all our bills for 7 years since she bought a new car...after being promised it would be paid off in 3..10 year relationship, she bought the car with her mom back then. She refused to share finances. When reality hits the humble realization you did what you could and you were used hits. F them, dont fall love blind expecting the person you fell in love with couldnt change, because they can and can expect EVERYTHING FROM YOU. I am free now. She was a poison that sucked my finances for 1/3 of my professional life with false hope of a pay back. Today I have no regrets other than ending it when the couples counselor told me to do so 1 year ago if she was unwilling to show her finances. Friends dont be love blind, the people you fall in love with arent always who they turn out to be.
@@rustyshakleford9681 im sorry to hear that. you'll be ok. you're blessed that you finally saw it.
@@rustyshakleford9681 I’m going through the same but the relationship only lasted for 4 moths or so. I can’t even imagine what you must be going through. Stay strong. There will be relapses but please make sure you control your urges to reach out. Seek therapy. Try meditation. Focus on yourself. You deserve better.
"best friend to a stranger overnight" worst is that you can't even do something to get them back.
Wow I really needed to hear this,,,
I already walked away and had enough thank you for confirming,, glad I found you 😊
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Your value to yourself increased. That’s all that mattered. Screw them ! Heal/ be busy/ work on you finally( because they actually stole most of your time ) and most of all don’t contact em. They live for that crap. Good luck and I’m so happy I found your channel dude. It’s helped and I like how come at it.
thank you for this video because, this is the moment when I needed all these words the most. just few days ago I decided to walk away from a person I love so much but I know that's what I have to do for my own self. for the past two years, I kept all the hurt and disrespect to myself and never walked away. but now I have decided to do it after going through so much suffering. because I know that I deserve better. and when I was doubting my decision I saw this video popping up in my youtube homepage and after watching this, I suddenly feel so much courage and confidence about taking this decision. Taking this decision was so hard for me than for the other person because it was only me who had a greater emotional bond with that person. I don't have any feeling for revenge or making them regret. I rather wish them the best with their lives. I'm just doing this for myself. for my own peace. and because I have SELF RESPECT! And I'm really greatful that, this video popped up when I needed it the most. Thank you for this video.
I have to say Thank you for this video, i just walked away.... being nice is not good, i always do care for others but no one cares for me... its time to take care of me!
Not joking I’m literally going threw this tonight on one hand I really pray they reach back out to me🤞🏻 but then I remind myself if they don’t I will still be perfectly ok 🤞🏻
Words of wisdom that prove to be 100% accurate .... be strong my fellow self respecting individuals.
Walking away may work on the anxious preoccupied attachment style, but it doesn't work on the dismissive avoidant. And no, we don't all love being bombarded with text messages, constant checking in on, "likes", and obsessive attention. It's overwhelming, needy, and unattractive. Chill out. You don't need to swing from one end of the spectrum to the other (obsessive attention to absolute silence). Both are unattractive and manipulative. Just chill out, stop trying to force things, and let the relationship develop organically.
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U can be doing all of that “organically” n the toxic girl will still wanna emasculate u, butt heads with u, constantly shit test n challenge u etc. Therefore no need to blame urself if ur “overly needy” “overly avoidant” “going with the flow” they’ll alwayssss wanna abuse u emotionally every chance they get. So the lesson is don’t blame urself. Walk away :)
@@amiravdic7451 Why would you want to attract or stay with a toxic partner? And what does pursuing a toxic partner have to do with my post?
Walking away in order to work things out is just manipulative and childish.
Sure, it doesn't work with DA (I know it from recent personal experience) but that's exactly the point: you can do business with those individuals, but it's best to not get romantically involved with them.
Even if you're avoidant yourself, the less avoidant/narcissistic/traumatized one will suffer at on point.
Just. Walk. Away.
Exactly!
As of most recently, I'm the guy who recklessly did whatever I could to foolishly hold onto her, despite some of the things she said to me. I loved and cared about her so damn much that, in turn, her vile words affected me the most. And so I need this video. Very fortunate I found this. This is also a good reminder to me personally for some friendships of mine. Thank you.
Take note if you are leave someone for another person for what ever reason it is not walking away it is monkey branching and it is devastating.
Very uplifting message and it gives me hope and positivity.
I recently walked away from a man who was never respectful, no communication, I was never a priority to him at all. I feel at ease right now because am looking forward to a new life and new love full of promises
It makes it easier for me to get what I want without hurting anyone’s feelings by having them walk away first.
Its important for some people to seem like they won and you can still be friends.
Great hat 🎩 trick.
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It's always good to listen to other points of view. If you walk alay make sure you know what you are walking away from and learn from that.
Thank you for this video! It was very unique from most narcissistic help videos and put a different spin on things that was extremely helpful.
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I did it 10 years ago and I don’t regret walking away from toxic relationship👍🏼