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00:00 WHAT THEY THINK WHEN YOU WALK AWAY?
02:44 1ST THOUGHT
05:03 2ND THOUGHT
07:11 3RD THOUGHT
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Indeed....
If you're in a relationship and they can't make time for you or make you a priority in their life,walk away, you deserve better, there's so much power in just walking away, someone else can put up with their bs.
Very True. Walked Away from her, Dumped her. 15 years with a Narcissit. With all the trimmings that make them who they really are. SCARY. when you finally wake up and realize who and what the Hell she is. Selfish to the core. Jealous, Insecurities, Issues. Anxiety problems not comfortable being around other people and situations.
Always worrying about what other people are saying about her, behind her back. or what people maybe thinking about her. Mood Swings Up and Down. Hates her life with her failed marriage. Has a 28 year old live in son, with Autism Asperger's. besides having her own health issues Breast C. I'm still picking myself up off the floor. Shaking my Head. Being Used, Being taken for Granted. WE were not living together and I became this DO Boy idiot Whos fault is that mine. I'm sure I'm not first Guy nor the last Guy.
Thinking your trying to do the right. Wrong very Wrong. If we had ever decided to live together she was more concerned about getting my PENSION. And she would be telling me how much money, I would be giving her every month. And that I would not be dictating any amount to her.
Her cat was treated better then me and had a better deal. I came to her with no baggage. No children, No Debt, Money in the Bank. Retired Pensioned Out. Not a Drinker or a Smoker. I take very good care of myself, and in very good health. After being with her I'm surprised I'm not smoking a carton day. And drunk half the time. Let her go back to her EX husband or a Coworker, or some other very Lucky Guy. After I took all my belongings and got my stuff the hell out of there.
She said to me your gonna Miss me. Yes I will miss You. But I will be keeping my PENSION and my MONEY. You can go be someone Else's PROBLEM. NO Contact 3 months have not heard from her not a peep since I told her she is a Narcissist. Tells me all I needed to know about her. Now Single again with Options. Did I mention PEACE and QUIET NICE.
Wow just experienced this myself; and it hurts like hell. But I know I deserve better bcuz I’m a good person at the end of the day that deserves the same. I told him he could let the next broad put up with his crap. I cannot and will not...
@@danaglover6801 good stand your ground and you do deserve better 👍
@@davidcoppotelli3957 thanks for sharing your story 🙏 I hope your doing much better, I'm sure you are after you walked out, it's a good thing you didn't get married to her, WOW, I feel sorry for the one's that get married and has kids with them, that's hell, well enjoy your retirement and tc of yourself 👍
@@garycordle5295 Thank You friend🙂
I learned a good saying once "people will treat you as badly as what you allow them to". I walked from a 23year marriage due to ex cheating. Your strength is in knowing that you deserve better.
Sorry to hear this dude. My ex cheated on me multiple times and I’ve had to walk away, I guess I’m lucky we didn’t have kids or a marriage, just devastated that after 7 years she’s done this. We just got engaged too.
Sometimes the best move is being comfortable being alone. Alone does not mean lonely.
We living in a NARCISSISTIC HYPOCRITIC society, dont belive The sound of your shadows.
i did the same after 23 years---i couldn't handle it anymore---the cheating--gambling--stealing money were all too much to take---J.
@@jamesmcginn8874 I walked away after 25yrs I feel so sad and miss him so much he remarried within 4 months of are breakup during the separation we continue to see eachother i thought we would reconcile thats what he led me to believe he was a skilled liar he knew how to manipulate me he knew how much I loved him he played on my love for him and kep me around and toyed with me until he finally secured the women he wanted then he discard me like I wasn't nothing im working on healing and working on me so thst I can be ready when I do decide to get back out there and give love another try im still inlove with him and don't know how to unlove him we have 7 children together its a constant reminder everytime I look at my children I see him
Its hard to walk away, you live in hope that they'll see what great person you are. But all your doing is wasting time, which can be days, months or years. Never lose your self respect and move on.
The problem is they see your great and they hate it. They will do anything to make sure you don't see it.
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All the comments here are great but this here is by far the most accurate for me because i am guilty of trying to show my toxic ex what a great guy i was but at least i finally realize my worth and walked away
True
It pisses me off how terrible people can treat each other. When I met her, I was already going through a heartbreak...I trusted her, because she was kind and sweet. She said, "you can tell me anything. I'm always here for you." That was a lie because, like my ex, she left; villainized me. Now I'm stuck again, even worse than before
Sometimes God removes..you won't even have to walk away..Trust God
Amen
Walk away for good and mean it whether she comes back or not. Her chapter's done in your life. Focus on yourself
He or she.
@@Nola5427 it's for both genders
Never under estimate a woman’s ability to rationalize bad behavior and avoid all accountability
We living in a NARCISSISTIC HYPOCRITIC society, dont belive The sound of your shadows.
Amen to that
Never underestimate!…ain’t that the fucking truth!
^Case in point^ (Edit: Whoever I was referring to seems to have deleted her comment 😂)
This comment is Golden
Whenever you're unappreciated, walk away without saying goodbye, just go. They know. They realise straight away. The last time I did it, my life changed immediately, like a massive weight was removed, and my mind-set changed entirely. Like some weird connection was severed. I reclaimed myself. The thoughts of them all went away immediately. Some people seem to think you'll always be there, and take as much nonsense as they like. You know when something isn't right, don't wait, hoping it will improve, don't carry on just because you've spent so much time together.
Yes, thank you. I will take note of this. NOw, I just walked away from that man.
What if you already said good bye
This is true sad part is that i was the one that took her for granted, i stopped caring about everything and barely gave her attention until she left me and my world literally crumbled i realized what i had done and how much I actually loved her, now im paying the price for my actions dont ever take your girl for granted guys no matter what u r going through always put her first
@@BillionaireDubaii then mean it when you said goodbye to them
I just did that a few days ago. I don't think he knows it was coming because he thinks how much I like/love him and I would jump right away when he shows up. He walked away from me out of manipulation and came back after 6 weeks of me going on NO contact.
Now I left him. In silence, & blocked him everywhere. You're right, it feels empowered. Feeling like 2nd option, convenient and breadcrumbed me won't happen again
It's difficult to deal with a disrespectful person, but it's extremely difficult to deal with a dishonest person, it's the absolute death of any relationship.
Very true
Facts
it's sad when they are both lol
Reminds me of my ex over 3 years ago. She cheated and it destroyed me but for some stupid reason I gave it another chance and we could "work it out". It was the catalyst but it wasnt the end. It was the constant lies afterward that put the nail on the coffin and it was the death of the relationship.
Truth
Never just be an option for anyone. All in or all out.
I wake up every morning glad knowing she's someone else's problem now... crazy because I used to cry my eyes out daily missing her.
It really is a crazy life sometimes.
You are so right
I dealt with a single mom of 3 boys 5 8 14 and it was tough we had a good relationship I made mistakes but what happened after the break up is what made me see the real person.
Breadcrumbs leading me on giving me false hope.
I told her one day enough is enough if you love me block me so she did best day of my life.
Now I wake up and I'm thankful I'm able to take it one day at time and all of those money,house,kids,bills issue are no longer my problem and it feels pretty good.
Good luck to you
1. "they will be back"
2. "i did nothing wrong"
3. "they never loved me"
Enough is enough. Stop chasing who decided to wake away from you. You are Genuine. You are Worthy. You are Unique. One day they will realize that they lose you. It's all about dignity.
Yes, thank you. I will take note of this. NOw, I just walked away from that man.
Never settle for crumbs. Either they are all in like in the beginning or it was just a high that wears away with time. True love builds and grows even after that 2 year mark. Don’t just walk but run.
Thank you ❤️
On my recovery period , your videos are like gold , it's tough but I'm happy I'm out of a toxic relationship with a narcissist .
I back this 💯 Same here! You got this! ✊🏻
Im also recovering from a toxic relationship, she took off the mask after ten years, sold the place, threw away everything i gave her, sold the place, donated the furniture, that hit me like a ton of bricks but i know ill make it, we will make it!!
@@hectorguzman6190 You are a warrior !
I'm in a marriage with a narcissistic woman with no kids. We have a joint bank account and credit cards. But I'm on the verge of just saying fuck it all and just straight up leaving.
I don't know what to do...
Everything is in her name so I'd have to leave with nothing but the clothes on my back.
@@CoreyB777 what did you do ?at least you will have peace of mind and can smile which is priceless never stay with anyone for financial reasons .
The ‘I did nothing wrong’ roughly translates into ‘I never promised you anything’.
Both are manipulative, controlling answers indicating inability to connect.
When you break up with someone you feel weak and lonely but you are actually growing stronger ....dint love because your lonely love because your ready
Walk away for your dignity walk away for your future, factor in the right opportunity,and you can't go wrong.
My ex left me end of 2020, my life is better in every aspect 🥳 hopefully she finds happiness, but she doesn’t get me as a friend.
never too late to turn Red Pill
People that don’t value you are not worth your time.
When I walk away from them it's because I've become indifferent to them. Therefore, what they think does not matter. Its an irrelevance to me.
I only recently walked away from a woman I had been dating for a few months. Lately she'd never make time for me, always say she was busy. One day we made plans to meet up, but she changed them last minute to where I'd only see her for less than an hour. When I told her I didn't like that she accused me of being rude to her. I decided enough was enough, removed her from social media and walked away. It was tough and your videos are helping me through this tough time. You've convinced me that I have done the right thing, for I deserve better
I was recently starting a relationship with someone. When I stopped at his twice, I noticed the same women's clothing and toiletries around his flat. My first reaction was to think "Hold on here, somethings not right". But I left it. Till I couldn't anymore. When I questioned him about the clothing he to me he owed me no explanation and didn't "want the 'drama' sorry". I knew I was being dumped because he'd been found out. I blocked him everywhere. 🍒
Best wishes to you! There's someone better who will respect you and not take you for granted!! Stay strong!😁
Update? What happened since? Did she react to you blocking her on social media?
@@JaredDeinlein nope. She's in another relationship
@@cherrybacon3319 If he wasn't cheating, you'd think he'd have been able and willing to offer a rational explanation.
You get your dignity back and more sense of clarity..
I had to walk away from someone today. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done.
But I'm glad I did.
When I tried to do it I could not, then I watched this clip and got my courage back.
Thanks!
Me too, just did it today, never looking back
We living in a NARCISSISTIC HYPOCRITIC society, dont belive The sound of your shadows.
Me too
Walking away from anyone who cannot be honest with who they are behind a mobile device is the best thing you can do for yourself...no regrets
Sometimes the breaking of a heart can lead to the repairing of the vision.
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All of this happened to me one after another. Didn’t cave I walked away, blocked her deleting her from my life. It was hard at first but it’s the best thing I’ve done. Weight lifted of my shoulders . This was spot on, a bit scary how spot on it was for me lol
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I left negativity of my mother and am healing.
Same both parents. Father came later..Good job.
When you start feeling numb and too painful to think that you're just a convenient or 2nd option and they think you will always be there for them or come back to them anyway, that's when you realize it's time to walk away. Your self respect is more than everything! Don't lose yourself for anyone. Period!
Ended not long ago a 1 year relationship with a narcisist.She just stopped showing interest and only gave me attention when she noticed I was about to leave her,so one day I just blocked her without saying anything and she still played the victim saying that "I blocked her and ended the relationship suddenly without reason"
everything you just said hit the key. walking away is the only thing i can do now
He dumped me after a second time promising that he wasn't gonna leave. So I went No Contact and he went looking for me, but he was cut off for good.
Thanks for watching
After 90 days. I gave her a letter and she responded back. She said she doesn't want to continue our friendship at this time. I couldn't sleep feeling sad but I remember listening to this and some how I remember it. I think I did it to be open to someone who wanted to grow with me.
She was testing you to say she would be busy for 3 months
Testing is gaming; you were right to advise her that her behavior was unacceptable.
Hmm,,testing other guys,,& when she found u r the higher values among all of guys,,she return after 3 month..lol
I was tested so many times in my relationship… like jumping through hoops only in the end for my guard to go back up. Then I get accused of playing games because I’m hurt but still want it to work with my person. Its a catch 22
@arrow max Yeah. Women who do that are selfish and only live for themselves. They don't care what kind of damage/pain they inflict
Retired GM, 68,"Single, and never been Happier in my entire Life
PERIOD
After a 11 year relationship he left me for someone else.....I used too beg and plead for him too come back...he was my whole life.....I've decided too accept his leaving this last time...it's been 4 years hav not heard from him since.....but I'm at peace finally happy being alone...thank u for this video
In the initial stage of break up the feeling is like your flesh and heart is tearing you it's soo hard and painful that you feel like your disconnected to the world but try to be strong and never look back coz I'f you do you can't never start to move on...
I feel like I'm dying everyday ..
I know what you mean. I'm only a week in and it still hurts so bad. One day at a time.
Same..😢
You are 100% right about all of this. Been through it with a partner and a couple of family members.
Atracction grows in space. So basically you get atracction and respetc. But you need to be bold and have your goals or have a bussy life so it does it naturaly. That makes it more powerful
Thank you for succinct clarity. You’ve helped make it easy to spot and walk away from narc nonsense.
It isn't always about walking away because the person is being toxic, abusive or disrespectful. It can be that you recognize, with calm self awareness, without emotional reactivity or defensiveness (healthiest space to come from if you don't want to keep attracting unconsciously polarized connections), that the other has not made THEMSELVES the true priority in their lives. When they have not made self discovery and healing their primary focus. That they are sabotaging their own success and happiness and you are along for that ride (so you're doing the same thing) unless you are able to more clearly see what's occurring. When they are still running off of their own repressed trauma content, they will function from survival mode, from self preservation mode (just like I do when I'm not processing repressed content of my own). When they have not reached the maturity of recognizing turning within and deprogramming as a foundational source of self love and self respect, they project that lack of self awareness, that lack of love and respect externally onto others, just as I do. Your video is more about cutting ties when we feel victimized in a relationship without the understanding of how the mechanism of relationship work. That isn't actually promoting self empowerment, which is a fine message to relay for many seeking to have their victim validated, though it is also a mediocre message, because it fails to challenge the inner spirit of a human being to expand and step up. It just perpetuates unhealthy polarizing. Because, whether we believe it or not, reality is reflective, not causative....we don't attract certain personality constructs into our lives randomly, we only ever attract that which perfectly mirrors our current relationship with ourselves. Doesn't mean we stay in these relationships, no. Often it's best, kindest to leave if the space with the other isn't safe for us to go within and authentically discover how we're unconsciously participating in the toxicity. But we do need to recognize our own toxicity at some point, the gravity of our own identification with woundedness, taking the attention off what the other is doing or not doing, cultivating a conscious, sensitive relationship within ourselves, with ourselves, or we will simply repeat the karmic lesson with someone else. You can walk away all you like, but unless you're walking toward self discovery as you walk out that door, you're just in a rotating door which will deliver you right back into the same situation with different characters playing the same roles.
Let's get on with it, people. Agreeing to the repetition is simply a contract with self to perpetuate the suffering victim identity. And not just perpetuating it within ourselves, but everywhere.
The others job isn't to love you. That's a program we bought into. It's your job to love you. And when you do, when you knock out the middle man called duality, you attract others who love themselves. People who love themselves have an overflow of love to share.
I love this ❤ Could you talk more about the duality part?
@@ladykeiaj I'm glad! Sure, my pleasure
"Duality" is a program of separation. It is what we call the ego mechanism. Meaning, when perceiving reality from a space of division within oneself ("not good enough, something lacking in me, I'm bad, something wrong with me, as soon as I get this body/person/job etc, I'll be loveable enough") and then projecting that division onto a relationship with another. When we seek relationship unconsciously, via as a means to get our unconscious needs met externally, we are operating from duality ("two"), or separation within ourselves. As if who I am is separate from love. From wholeness, therefore I need you to give it to me. To love me, make me feel good enough. Therefore, non-duality means "not two", which is the actual nature of reality, aka, the nature of you and me. Oneness. But we can only ever conceptualize oneness until we turn the attention off the other giving us what we need and give it to ourselves. When we do this, we realize we are not the one seeking love validation and approval, we are the one loving the one seeking these things. We are now able to hold space for ourselves to be loved. Having patience and compassion for her or him. Because loving what we believed was the other's job to love about us rectifies the experience of separation and reconciles our feelings of inadequacy. Duality is a programming--ie, "Love is out there, separate from you. Success is out there, in the future, away from us right now. Happiness is as soon as I get paid, whenever I can buy that makeup which takes ten years off my face, abundance is accumulating money in my account, joy is dependent on my body reflecting my goals, etc. Duality is dependency on the external to make one feel temporarily relieved by being addicted to the duality program. True peace, love, happy, joy, abundance is only a possibility when I actively investigate where I am duality-identified and going within to find the truth. The true nature of reality. Not two. One. There's only One heart, one mind, one fear, one need, one longing, one love. And 8 billion expressions of that on planet earth.
I hope this clarified it better for you. 🌅
@@wilderheartland3920 Understood. How do we get to this place of oneness? Of knowing we’re already loved and actually live in that love; and then receive the rest of the love externally, that comes to me, is a gift of more love, outside the love for myself, yet inside that one love; the love I already give myself, I’d say the love of God?
@@ladykeiaj I did it through what is called self-inquiry. I started with The Work of Byron Katie. She offers a practical tool, which is accessible to the western mind. After many years of self inquiry, I met a teacher who was eastern influenced, taught by Ramana Maharshi, the Indian mystic. Perhaps one of those is a place to start;) it's the path of the mystic to integrate ones humanity so deeply as to taste the true nature of reality, oneness. All is good. All is god. Every moment is to offering to know myself as inseparable from that which I seek. ❤️
"People who love themselves have an overflow of love to share." I think you are conflating ego with self care. When you care about yourself, you attract others that care for themselves as well. Too much self love can create ego problems within oneself so it's not a simple one all answer.
I don't give a flying feck.. k what they think. I'm think of a Narcissistic free life for myself. 🍒
Cherry I want to tell U something, Walking away from the narcissist is heroic. Stay a true hero! Bless and love ❤️
Video so valuable & helpful that came perfectly in time for the storm I am going through. It was me that walked away in silence. It was rough & tough for what I went through. For me, it was the best, the smartest & the wisest choice, decision I have ever ever made. Thank you so much for your precious time. I appreciate you greatly. Only then, I realized the power of walking away.
The best gift one can give self - is cutting off something / someone that wants to kill your peace !
Both parties is held accountable honestly.
Give yourself room to think 💭 pay attention to how your mind wanders off.
Deep breaths.
I'm on day 3 of no contact after he blamed me and said "leave me alone". I'm walking away no need to stay where I'm not wanted and he doesn't support me..it almost feels like he's jealous of my success in my job.
It was 9pm when I hooked my backpack over my shoulder and walked away. I walked away from a lot BUT it was one of the most empowering moments of my life. I left the toxins there and today I am free to breathe, free to be me.
I walked away from some people several years ago and it turned out to be a nightmare, cause they showed me some kind of repertoire of hidden power they had over me, that got me stuck and couldnt let me go. A nightmare.
Some people can be very cruel and expect affection by forcing the other. As if thats the way this works.
Sad.
❤Never mistreat a genuine good woman and man that tried ❤❤ growth and God is required to heal. God bless
Well spoken and interesting advice to listen to. Thanks for taking the time to produce this content!
Just needed to watch this video at the right point of time! 💜
Oh my you're straight on point when it comes to my toxic family members. Walking away has been the best thing I have ever done in my life and I am never ever looking back. 😊 Thank you God 😊 🙏
Walking away is the best thing ever! I’ve done it before and doing it again tonight as a matter of fact. This woman told me that I was her soulmate and she didn’t want to be without me. Yet, when I tried to take her on dates or just spend time with her, she always has/had an excuse. Truth is, I was nothing more to her than a backup. Her safety net. Now that the CHAD she was dealing with has left her, now she wants me?? Haha…nope! I’ve already blocked her on all platforms, just waiting for her to get off work so I can let her know what’s up. Sure I could just ghost her, but I feel ghosting people is cowardly and childish. Already feeling better knowing she won’t be apart of my life anymore.
Ghosting is For childish cowards.
Trying to find those who "care and associate".
Not only is there no result, but it feels draining soldiering on.
The best thing I ever heard was:
A woman wants,
Recognition of a man
Privelidges of a woman
Accountability of a child.
Real talk.
Fell for it and now walking for the second time. Doing it and meaning it this time 💪
You got this!!
Yet again SCG You are right on point ! everything you have mentioned I’ve lived , walking away was absolutely crucial at the point that I did . I’ve never looked back !
You are so welcome
Happened to me as well. Got cheated on by a narcissistic woman, then she assaulted me and had the nerve to blame me for hurting her. Yes walking away was hard as hell at first, but in the end best and smartest choice I ever could have made! Cheers from across the Pond mate, keep the videos coming!🥰
Good stuff, very logical solution for the silly emotional conviction that can hit the victim that walked. Superb emotional strength!
Like the video says - its comparable not only to romantic relationships. Walking away relates to friendships, jobs, even familymembers with a toxic attitude, bringing nothing but stress and frustration into your life. Im in the same process right now, having cut contact with my best buddy for over 20 years. The last two years he developed some personality-traits unacceptable for me to endure, so I simply stopped contacting him. At the same time he stopped calling me or socialize with me, so I guess the break between us is mutual. Havent heard from him since may, and I dont miss him or his company at all, which is a sign our friendship was at an natural end anyway. Walking away is not only a short term high. Its like getting rid of a bag full of heavy bricks. You feel like a terrible burden is lifted from your shoulders. Your animosity towards the person in question evaporates, cause he or she is suddenly irrelevant to your life. The second you decide to walk away, the healing begins.
After 14 years..... I’ve finally hit the point of...
” there’s absolutely no investment here and this is going nowhere”
Ive given up on trying to make things work. So wore out of drama and family crisis.... living on eggshells, and anxiety all the tine trying to please them. You will NEVER do it.
You could make 500k per year and be broke and they won’t be happy because you’re too cheap. Man.... it’s sad but this video is truth
This video was like genuinely helpful and extremely motivating. Thank you 🥹
I've walked ran even crawled I'm 45 don't have time for no BS never go back nothing like a piece of mind u have to guard your peace family
This video seems to be about narcissistic people, not the average person.
Let me tell you this one particular thing which is very real, the world around you responds to your beliefs, your core beliefs which are assumptions created through time, for example "I'm too shy for a relationship" or the opposite "I always get into a relationship with whomever I want without taking any action"; "I always get what I want without doing anything because I deserve it" or "It's a bit hard for me to get what I want" and there are many others like this. The idea is the following, this is based on the law of assumption which says that there is no one to change but self so, if you have issues with a particular area of your life, change that belief in your mind by repeating the new story and walk "as if" you are that new person with the new beliefs because if your brain sees what you are doing, it will start reflecting that and it's the god damn truth.
Take the following example, you go out with someone and have a good time and afterwards, you discuss it with your friend and say, "I think he/she likes/loves me", what happens is that you've created a belief and after you sleep on this belief 1-2-3 days, the magic happens, the person is interested in you and wants to date again, sends you flirty messages and so on while, if you go out with someone who you think is out of your league you tend to say "Naah, we went out but I don't think she/he is interested because they are top tier" basically, you are placing your self worth way below their.
What I'm saying here is, study the Law of Assumption, change your beliefs about yourself (you can also do that with a specific person/situation, instead of saying "they hate me" , say "they adore me, they love me") and the world will conform because that's the story that is playing in your mind, how many times have you went out with someone and were delusional about being in a relationship and it happened or how many times have you thought about someone while "doing the nasty" and they contacted you out of the blue. What you feel internally and what you believe to be true, will manifest, it's easy.
They think it’s all your fault period!
Great stuff, as always! Thank you! (p.s. I needed to hear this today!)
I had to kick a woman out that I loved a lot.She got hooked on drugs and wouldn't get help.Started stealing.
On our first date she flirted with another man and gave him her number in front of me. I didn't even react, just walked way an never contacted her again. Her reaction? She sent me a nasty text saying she doesn't even want to be friends with me because of what I did to her. Women... 🤦♂️
You are the Victor Victor, can you imagine the rest of your life with that piss taker good riddance
Damn you did good to walk away her intentions weren’t even in the good places she probably was going to friendzone you and string you along while seeing and dating other guys without even giving you a chance screw her
i dumped a woman only last nite that i had been seeing. i was getting red flags from her all the time despite how much she said she deeply loved me i kept seeing cracks and things that didnt tally up. if your spidey sense keeps making you doubt or question certain things its often for a good reason. go with your gut instinct before finding out later what a mistake this person was.
I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday for the exact same reasons. Little red flags and my gut instinct telling me she's up to no good.
Im starting to wonder if im wrong. What are sort of red flags you are seeing?
Stories they tell changes from one day to the next. Everywhere you go no matter where she always seems to know loads of guys. She openly flirts with men right Infront of you then totally denying it though there are many witnesses and lots of gaslighting. Look that up it you arnt sure what it means. Oh ironically just 2 weeks after we finished she posted on Facebook she was in a new relationship JUST 2 WKS AFTER WE FINISHED ? she was seeing the new guy while seeing me at the same time. If you feel something isn't right it usually isn't. That instinct is a superpower.
@user-vc9nt2cg1c Did you see any signs she was seeing someone else ? Or did you put 2+2 together when she had a new relationship so quickly
@@madanalym4165 well her behaviour whilst seeing her gave me enuf ref flags and then just 2 wks after finishing she confirmed she was the kind of person I thought she was. My was absolutely right and rather I found out sooner than ignoring the signs
Definitely my mother and my father. Haven't spoken to either in years. After a long period of push and pull, I know that I will never be back or let them in. I won't be going to be a funeral either.
she kept breaking up with me over trivial , small things, last time i ask could she buy her own coffee, i did'nt have enough money with me , she stormed off saying i was rude, and insulting.and i didn't see her for a week, then she called and asked can she come round, i said no, it was the hardest thing i had to do , i think there is someone else in the wings she has and stayed with them, i am done. Your video is brilliant be around people who are kind loving and want the best for you, thats a gem, thanks.
The last sentence touches me the most.
I had a moment of weakness and reach out to an ex girlfriend but then she started acting hot and cold like she owned me so I had enough of it and walked away
The answer is forgivenesses, acceptance and accountability.
This is excellent advice. I wish I had known all this decades ago. Keep up the good work.
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Every single relationship I've had I walked away when it was over. No calls, texts, social media or even ask questions about them. A few I ended up becoming and remaining friends still today. We just didn't work but not because we were bad people. Many others though went plum crazy to the point of stalking and harassing me and one even planted evidence in my house and had me arrested. I was able to beat all the charges but there was absolutely no call for that. That one was one of the worst screaming why can't her ex's just leave her alone and when that's exactly what I did she blew a gasket.
I filed for divorce, she took no responsibility and didn't care. I even tried to fix it foolishly, in no contact after deleting her, her friends all from FB and out of my phone.
I feel I need to move away from New York or relocate somewhere peaceful with newer people.
I feel the same way, sort out your feelings first especially if you have a support system where you are now!
Excellent delivery 😊👏
I actually walked away but I miss him so much he remarried and moved on im trying to do the samething but working on healing and me and things I need to change so I can be right for my next relationship
Great video! I had to do this in my life. Sometimes the best thing to do is walk away.
So true!
The 4th point is the most truth... It's my life indeed
If they come back, remember it's not your fault they made a mistake...
Personally I don't care 🤷 finally free of Drama not needed with much need of self love ...and I'm proud 👏
This Guy is So wicked Cool 😎 Calm And collectively Classy With his Smooth Delivery 🚚 Of speaking Facts 💯.
He’s Very Easy on the Ears without all that extra rubbish a true Masculine Gentlemen.
Please continue on speaking on many more subjects we are being addressed with in the society where living in.
Your a very powerful Person with extraordinary mental strength beyond this Dimensional Realm.
Me and my ex wife were all three, and it took me watching this video to realize it, even if she cheated, we were both incompatible so thank you for opening my eyes, you got my sub
SCG, GOD BLESS YOU🥰
I don’t know you but you have really helped me this past couple of days and I appreciate you.
My pleasure
I don't even care what they think now. They're not important.
ThanQ for sharing.
My toxic ex misses emptying my bank account, and publicly humiliated me! 6 years later I haven't gone back I'm a working man I'm a home owner my ex is an alcoholic who lives with her mum I'm not the loser she is and this is where simple plans song ruin my life comes in because she didn't ruin my life 😂 thank you for this video my man you're very heartful. Their the ones whose hurt clearly their the ones who's really breaking!
Good for you my man I know it was hard to get over it remember best revenge is no revenge be the best person you can be. Good luck
I just walked away from an extreme toxic relationship i was in for the past 16 month without a closure i went silence and i am done inside . I loved him but when the love is unhealthy its never enough . We have tried breaking up many times he got extremely comfortable with me and thinking I am stuck with him. He is a man with a child and yet no respect to woman. He called me names many times and I told him numerous time to stop doing that , brought the worst in me , I hated way i became lately miserable mean and unhappy. Finally I decide to walk away i feel great ! I want to be my old self again , the Happy Bubbly full of Love .
This video helped me block a friend ' who kept me on the back burner he would text me hey and then go ghost on me now it's my turn to go gohst 👻
just leave them alone. ignore them. well said
4 days no contact, and when we talk is just to insult me... I do miss him but not the insults, I dont miss that. Always says I cheat and I lie, he is projecting. Its so difficult to leave but so far I am at day 4 no contact blocked everywhere but my heart hurts dearly.
U should have asked him what I I'm doing to make him feel that way
What did you do to make him feel that way?
Thanks for your video ☺ Im healing due to getting out of a narcissistic relationship, feeling healthier and happy, content and calm. Glad i did get out of that relationship of 6 years it was destroying my health, psychical and mental. Personally the Best move i ever made
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great !! i had too get out my relationship with my best buddy over 12 years , i give them all of my kindness but i dont get back what i deserve, so i decide to leave this toxic relationship, for my mentality , healthy spiritual, and slowly healing... never look back !
If you keep repeating the same behaviors, patterns, and choosing the same so-called "type" in a person, you'll keep attracting the same type of relationships. If you want to attract differently, you have to choose differently.
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they dump u and then are surprised when see your able to move on …. wife’s dumping me after 31 years , heart broken but i’m moving on in my heart and it’s the hardest the thing i’ve ever done …past is the past. it’s very weird they don’t want u anymore but don’t want u to be happy either , they only way to truly move fwd is to be happy for the other person with out YOU, i’m on the road to recovery
Facts!
Am goin thru this now it been a week and been so hard to keep from texting or calling her but trying to stay strong and move on
We were at dinner with one of her friends--i overheard my now ex saying--im never ever going to let him go--i caught her a few days later--cheating on me-i packed a suitcase and left
Rejection breeds obsession
I just walk never look back never ever look back walk away