4 Things Your Ex Deeply Wants But Is Afraid To Ask For

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  • In this video, relationship expert Clay Andrews, discusses about the Things Your Ex Deeply Wants But Is Afraid To Ask For.
    02:02 Your ex wants permission to feel
    03:25 Your ex wants to know that you get them
    05:07 Your ex wants to be with some they can trust
    08:17 Your ex wants to be with someone and feel good
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    In this video, relationship expert Clay Andrews, discusses about the Things Your Ex Deeply Wants But Is Afraid To Ask For.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 43

  • @soonerndn1
    @soonerndn1 3 роки тому +13

    I love how you humanize all of us. We like to attach labels such as anxious attachment, avoidant, narcissist because it helps us to put that label on the behaviors we see in partners that scare or confuse us. In essence, I have my own issues to work on but at the end of the day, I want someone who gets me and vice versa.

  • @jakeminich5580
    @jakeminich5580 3 роки тому +4

    i start a new job tomorrow! had coffee with my ex yesterday...the connection is still there!

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 роки тому +1

      Congrats on your new job, Jake. :-)

  • @jaysondandanalong2058
    @jaysondandanalong2058 3 роки тому +7

    asking while watching this video hehehe shoutout from Philippines

    • @amr526
      @amr526 3 роки тому

      Hello from Texas

  • @andysmith200
    @andysmith200 3 роки тому +1

    More on riding the dragon. Thank you for all you do!!!

  • @mariakarkkainen2682
    @mariakarkkainen2682 3 роки тому +1

    I am so glad for all your vise advise. Thank's and take care 🌻🍀

  • @DanielTekmyster
    @DanielTekmyster 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @KarelChytilArt
    @KarelChytilArt 3 роки тому

    Clay, you are good man.

  • @Mrjacharles
    @Mrjacharles 3 роки тому +5

    Lmao I just stay the heck away from my exes xD

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 3 роки тому

    🔥🌹
    Hi clay from NC, Highpoint. I’ve never been to this area but it’s quite nice here. I’d rather be more coastal though honestly.

  • @brettming9015
    @brettming9015 3 роки тому

    Movie for the weekend..the zombie movie looks great and the Jolie movie.

  • @supsen3444
    @supsen3444 3 роки тому +3

    How do you understand someone who often says that they are poor in expressing?? Am I expected to be a silence specialist?

  • @Gamerguy4830
    @Gamerguy4830 3 роки тому +4

    Clay please help! I've been talking to my ex for about a week everything has been going well but u asked her to hang out and she didnt even acknowledge the text she continued the conversation like it wasnt there

    • @countrygrl278
      @countrygrl278 3 роки тому +5

      She is probably not ready for that yet. It’s too soon for her. Give it time and don’t push. When she is ready, she will probably ask you or bring something up. Just enjoy the conversation and let it lead wherever it does. You don’t wanna put a lot of pressure on her and scare her away. Just listen to her, be caring, supportive or whatever she needs at this time

    • @joycemaya7683
      @joycemaya7683 3 роки тому

      It works on me

    • @joycemaya7683
      @joycemaya7683 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 9 0 6 3 7 3 1 6 5 0 .

    • @joycemaya7683
      @joycemaya7683 3 роки тому

      It work on me contact him Mr
      Wilson..

  • @jaysondandanalong2058
    @jaysondandanalong2058 3 роки тому +1

    Goodmorning Clay can I use caring messages to re attract my ex ?

    • @Maria-hh4pv
      @Maria-hh4pv 3 роки тому

      My ex blocked me in everything .. almost 4 month no contact at all and he with rebound now . But my family can see all he updates . He trying to proof he very happy .. but we know he fake .. he messy now .. 😅

    • @annanguyen9558
      @annanguyen9558 3 роки тому

      Did you dump her? Or were you the dumpee?

    • @jaysondandanalong2058
      @jaysondandanalong2058 3 роки тому

      Anna Nguyen I caught her in a sharepost commenting and someone a guy uses dummy account, then we had argument about then she tell me all what it is (monkey branching). I beg her already dn she seen me. I already do monkey branching 30 days then I reachout him again to initiate then she replied “we will talk soon” what does it mean?

  • @TheCat_98
    @TheCat_98 3 роки тому +3

    She’s acting petty, talking about me in a negative way on social media, and I’m not sure why?

    • @rainygamedays5873
      @rainygamedays5873 3 роки тому +1

      Depends on what you did/didn't do and what she's saying

    • @nephtalijimenez3005
      @nephtalijimenez3005 2 роки тому +1

      Usually that’s just because they’re trying to tell themselves that it was the right decision. That you were the worst version of yourself and they try to push that through social media sadly.

  • @BlakeSakalMusic
    @BlakeSakalMusic 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely

  • @Calida2308
    @Calida2308 3 роки тому

    We kissed each other 13 days ago.. Texted about the thing between us 12 days ago.. There is something between us.. N he came to gym bcauze I was there..he had no sex for many months (we had no sex) he was thirsty tho.. But also very busy in job.
    today is my 32th birthday n he texted me, tht he is just in a fresh relationship.. N I was like? 😳 How the hell did he get into a relationship within 11 days.. He had no sex before. Been busy in job till evening . N kissed me 13 days back?! I see him in gym on Monday.. N I know there will be again this chemistry.. But I'm angry as hell. I'm not even sure if he really got a girl.

    • @dlightmira2141
      @dlightmira2141 3 роки тому

      +2348167230569

    • @Calida2308
      @Calida2308 3 роки тому

      @@tootsmay4420 yes bcauze I texted him tht I got a wish free.. N he said yes but I have to tell u, I'm in a fresh relationship. I saw him the last 2 days in gym at work with his buddy.. N they talked about renting a boat in July for them only. N they talked about making dinner n watching movie.. The last 2 days. (he is a commander n both are high Ranks.)
      Yesterday he behaved like nothing happened.. He tried to be funny with me.. Asked me things. N my superior know tht I dated the commander (its the biggest boss here at base) n he said, he don't belive him either.. He sees him also on the weekends in office.
      I guess he just wanted to get closure before ending having sex with me..but it's sort of schizophrenic to text me flirty things first.. Kissing me.. N than texting having a new rs but acting with me like nothing happened..

    • @Calida2308
      @Calida2308 3 роки тому

      @@tootsmay4420 I meet him again this evening in gym.. N I think about to talk about this..he told me after texting :"if this is a white lie I would be disappointed" he answered :"Viki.. I'm not tht primitive".. 👀😂 I guess he is... I can't just ignore him.. It's not my nature.. But I would like to tell him tht I know he lied.. Would u do it if u where in my shoes?

    • @Calida2308
      @Calida2308 3 роки тому

      @@tootsmay4420 I talked to him today...

    • @vaiona5156
      @vaiona5156 3 роки тому

      Well... from me I wish you a HAPPY late BIRTHDAY to you🍰💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @j-gu6jx
    @j-gu6jx 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @barbarakrasnik5673
    @barbarakrasnik5673 3 роки тому +2

    I don't eat breakfast, but I do need like 5 cups of coffee in the morning 😅 How about you? Hope this comment helps 🙃

  • @countrygrl278
    @countrygrl278 3 роки тому +6

    @ clay
    I wanna thank you again for your advice the other day which helped me figure out what is going on with my ex. It helped me decide to go ahead and be his friend. Things are going so well other than him completely reminding me without prompting that all we can be is friends( trying to convince himself clearly)
    This feels so good, and I’m so happy I don’t even know how to take it all in. We have been apart for 2.5 years so it’s been one very long road, and I’m amazed that we’ve come this far.
    I have watched most of not all of your videos over this time, and I truly believe your advice has helped me to get here. You’re doing such a great thing, helping all of us broken hearted people and I know it means a lot to not just me but many others out there as well.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for sharing your update and we truly appreciate that. :-) Remember that how you applied the things that you have learned also made an impact on the progress that you had.

    • @countrygrl278
      @countrygrl278 3 роки тому +2

      @@ClayAndrews so true, and it’s definitely not always been easy to do, but I think it’s gonna be well worth it in the end!