10 Signs You Have Nice Guy Syndrome
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- In this video I am giving you 10 signs that you are too nice. I'm also talking about why this is a problem in your life (so hopefully you can stop).
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So....are you too nice? Which signs apply to you? Let me know in the comments below!
Women tend to like a decent, honourable man but not a spineless one. Women will generally find weakness of character a total turn off. Love that you're speaking on this. Aaron Doughty and Teal Swan have also done great videos on this topic too.
I would also add that the spinelessness you speak of isn’t always about standing up for yourself as much as it’s standing up to yourself. Setting boundaries starts from within.
@@jafoot7559 and I wouldn’t disagree with you about that. We all need to establish boundaries for ourselves as well as having them with others.
Teal swan is a covert feminist
Oliver saying it like it is 👌Struggled with this most of my life, young guys listen and take action
Don't give everything to people who give you nothing. (Old jungle saying).
Don't make someone a priority if to them you're only an option.
Basically what he’s is saying is that don’t make being nice your whole personality. Being nice is a sign that you’re not loving yourself, yet you put your love for other people, and having people and friends around is the only thing that you make you happy. Being happy is truly about finding things that matter in life that make you happy.
Its always being that sweet guy they can tell everything to while they get there new guy i still to this day dont understand the bad boy or asshole attraction as a kid our moms raised up to be gentlemen and treat women with respect and princess treatment just to always be shut down i have no reason to ghost or lag onna girl if i like her i dont understand it its not like im not forward or anything life couldnt be further from boring out all the time and adventurous but i feel treating a women with decency and being given back treated as an equal sounds like heaven
Really useful this video! Bro every video is a surprise. U help me every day! Thx
My God. I've been a nice guy this whole time. Damn😔
Another Banger! Subbed.
Welcome to the tribe brother 🔥
Couple of days ago I talked to friends about a podcast I heard. It involved a description with something to do with faeces and I stopped myself to talk about that part because one of the conversation participants was a woman. Then I just thought "Why (on earth) does it matter?" and proceeded to tell the complete story. You know what the response was? "TELL ME MORE PLEASE :O". Guess you just have to rid the "nice" step by step by proving yourself you have to. I felt uncomfortable and then I felt weird.
If you want to continue to be nice -- no matter what other people think of you, or what results you get with people -- are you still suffering from nice guy syndrome, then? Or are you just being authentic? And if a former nice guy changed his behaviour to being a good man, just to have better results with people, why is he not called a nice guy anymore? He changed his behaviour to being liked more, didn't he?
Maybe they should create "nice weekend syndrom"
make idea that once a week going to a nature, camping or hiking with a family, play silly games, with some ball, or tenis,
husband will more bond with wife, wife will bond bond with husband, thanks to innocent silly games as,
I mean games like "who will" make the tent first etc or who will prepare food.
because laughter is heallinga nd laughter makes people bond together.
Children m,ay learn new hobbies. Oit is better than being constantly attacked by news and silly topics on social media.
or being brainwashed to eat some pills to feel happier.
Hobbiesa nd laughter is good stimulation for brain.
Great vídeo. Ollie
I got work to do 💯
I used to have bf who would think nothing of leaving me alone in the house to deal with workmen and take a day trip by himself leaving me in a potentially risky situation. He was nice but no masculinity. He also got all wound up over things like if he couldn't get the remote to work. It's a real turn off when a man gets all bent out of shape over something so minor. Many would say he's nice but he was too weak and it totally turned me off.
Yeah, leave your boyfriend because he's irritated by the remote control not working. Who's being over-sensitive here?
Like your channel 👍🏼❤️🐯
You look tough with glasses on and like a nice guy without them.
Somebody read No more mr nice guys
It's a killer book. What did you think to it?
Reading is the one thing. Actually doing that stuff is another.
Read that about a year ago and still no gurl no bedroom playing not a thing. Cause I didn't do anything written. There're actually pretty good ways to be more "you".
Woah what happened with the woman??
They are fucken retarded monkey's 💗
so in a nutshell when someone nice wants others to pay it forward they've got some sort of mental illness. Time for many in society to admit their "Let's be a jerk and scapegoat everything else as craziness" syndrome.
You've completely missed the point.
Cute
I suppose I should stop watching this vid because I'm not a guy 😅
Hmm? I think the "too nice" syndrome is also a feature of some women.
"your sexual desires are not being met" it's so simple, they're easily met lmao. So I'm a giver lol. Yea right gtfo.