If you don't want friend-zone, don't tolerate it. If she's really not that interested, so long. Life is short and we choose if it's sweet too. Pathologically nice girls, nice guys - where's the boldness that raises an amazing family?
It starts with a dishonest approach, trying to stop rejection at all costs. Men do it to themselves via dishonesty It clearly has to be romantic to start.
Be strong, I had to do the same with a 7 year relationship. Later read No More Mr. Nice Guy and it resonated deeply with that and also my parents' unhealthy relationship dynamics that certainly played some influence in my own psychology indeed, liberating clarity to grow from. Personally reframing pathological niceness from "being a bitch" but rather "being inauthentic" feels much more encouraging and taking it more serious, but it is indeed a weaker "bitch" mentality that needs seasoning of more experiences of authentic expression (especially of frustrations, man speaking his mind boldly to contest infractions of personal boundaries and values) , manly rite of passage, and certainly isn't resolved completely alone and isolated which is more of an obstacle today among the comforts and digital remote world interaction. In a sense, being past old emotions of insecurities and having comfort in acknowledging where we've improved and where we're at is powerful - yes I was weaker at that, yes I have to learn this, yes learning bravery requires a lot of integrating mistakes/embarrassment/putting ego aside and doing it anyways in the process, yes I am human. Sometimes a manipulator will argue a victim is stuck, there is no more neuroplasticity in their experiences to reshape their mind - wrong and perhaps one of the key insights to those feeling beyond broken in life... neuroplasticity. The man is authentic, be authentic. A lot of it is very subconscious - takes a deep honing of the deeply ingrained habits indeed. The conventional wisdom often neglects this "subconscious" habitual aspect as if there's a flip-of-a-switch fix and the blame for no quick fix... inpatient society thinking. The best things take deep gradual long-term efforts and boldness.
Man I love Bob. Helped me so much. Thank you
If you don't want friend-zone, don't tolerate it. If she's really not that interested, so long. Life is short and we choose if it's sweet too. Pathologically nice girls, nice guys - where's the boldness that raises an amazing family?
This is powerful 😢 been like this for ages
I was iffy , but shit, this was a great conversation.
Robert Glover is great - I wish he’d tour high schools and give this info out so men have a clue
This guy GETS it.
'The guy version' is great advice. Thank you.
It starts with a dishonest approach, trying to stop rejection at all costs. Men do it to themselves via dishonesty
It clearly has to be romantic to start.
Man I needed to hear this. Just got out of an 11 year relationship.
Be strong brother
Be strong, I had to do the same with a 7 year relationship. Later read No More Mr. Nice Guy and it resonated deeply with that and also my parents' unhealthy relationship dynamics that certainly played some influence in my own psychology indeed, liberating clarity to grow from. Personally reframing pathological niceness from "being a bitch" but rather "being inauthentic" feels much more encouraging and taking it more serious, but it is indeed a weaker "bitch" mentality that needs seasoning of more experiences of authentic expression (especially of frustrations, man speaking his mind boldly to contest infractions of personal boundaries and values) , manly rite of passage, and certainly isn't resolved completely alone and isolated which is more of an obstacle today among the comforts and digital remote world interaction. In a sense, being past old emotions of insecurities and having comfort in acknowledging where we've improved and where we're at is powerful - yes I was weaker at that, yes I have to learn this, yes learning bravery requires a lot of integrating mistakes/embarrassment/putting ego aside and doing it anyways in the process, yes I am human. Sometimes a manipulator will argue a victim is stuck, there is no more neuroplasticity in their experiences to reshape their mind - wrong and perhaps one of the key insights to those feeling beyond broken in life... neuroplasticity. The man is authentic, be authentic. A lot of it is very subconscious - takes a deep honing of the deeply ingrained habits indeed. The conventional wisdom often neglects this "subconscious" habitual aspect as if there's a flip-of-a-switch fix and the blame for no quick fix... inpatient society thinking. The best things take deep gradual long-term efforts and boldness.
Why did it look like jim carrey was in the thumbnail lol 🤣
Gold information for you “nice guys”
3:00 👌👌👌
5:00💯💯💯
6:05 Intimacy vs Passion
8:00 Put ourselves there...
But how to be myself and reveal but at the same time don't tell the partner everything and have an edge?
Its literally all down to looks, if you arent attractive you will end up in friend zone. These 3 clowns never discuss this.