My mouth was literally hanging open in disbelief this whole video. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Unbelievable and scary that people in need are treated this way.
These obstacles in the process are absolutely abhorrent and completely unacceptable! I am so sorry! I pray that through these experiences, one day you guys will be able to also advocate for change in the system that keeps people trapped in homelessness! Rooting for you guys!! You two are resilient AF!
Sis, speaking on things you want to happen is HOW you manifest! The word NEVER is a jinx and a curse quiet as it's kept. You must speak on it, write it, think about it, and move towards it if you want it!
You have to advocate for yourselves. You need to assume no one ever follows through with anything. If Jay is disabled, contact social security. They will be able to turn you in the right direction.
It’s not that easy to do when you are depressed and exhausted from homelessness. They shouldn’t have to follow up on every little detail. People should actually just do their jobs right .
I PRAY THERE IS A HOMELESS RIGHTS ADVOCACY GROUP WITH A LAWYER..FOR ALL PEOPLE DEALING WITH THIS..WONDERFUL JOB JESSICA ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 THAT SOUNDS GREAT...I KNOW WHY YOU DONT ASSCOCIATE WITH OTHERS YOU ARE WELL SPOKEN AND INTELLIGENT PEOPLE.....❤❤❤❤❤
I’m glad to hear this update. I’m sorry all this has been so difficult. The system is so messed up. California has such a high turn over of social workers. I hope something opens up soon for you two.
The Ca. Housing Authority is so mucked up and ssa backwards. I have a friend going through this rn and it’s ridiculous. Then once you get a housing voucher you have to make 3x the rent in order to even be considered. It makes no sense and you have to rely hope & pray that some landlord out there will be gracious enough to give you a chance. I’m keeping you both in my prayers. I really hope that someone out there is kind enough to give you a break and a chance. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I know that if I had a spare room or inlaw unit I would gladly help you two out😢
So very sorry that you guys have had to go through this! It sounds like someone from the bay area has some help for you guys. I pray that works out. I agree with the person that said if 1 of you qualify the government won't let the other person stay. Can you guys afford to rent 1 room and then work towards a car? I really believe that the system can't help you. They have it set up that way, unfortunately. Spend your time, energy and money on getting yourselves a place to live. I bet there is someone out there that needs help paying the rent or mortgage and would love to have you guys there. I pray that you guys find relief soon! Thank you for the update. We appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Love and light to you both! ❤
Jay same for me didn't go to dentist because we couldn't afford it when I was a kid. Also extreme fear of going. I have to be medicated I relate sorry you also go though that fear
Exactly! After I would have learned that, I wouldn't tell them anymore...just what they need to know to qualify them to get the free housing. They most likely pay in cash for any motel rooms...I'd use a made-up name. What would the motel care; they're getting their money.
Agree with the comments about bringing your case manager’s screw up to the attention of her supervisor. The reality is that there is high turnover in many of these positions so you will likely encounter more people who are new and inexperienced. If her supervisor is advised, they may be able to help you or at least they can train her better so she can assist the next person better. I know all that takes a lot of time and energy you may not have but just wanted to put it out there for your consideration. Take care!
Thanks for the update. It was nice to see an update from you guys. Acknowledging the positive items is important for me and my mental health. It can get so bleak that I can't/don't/won't acknowledge the positive. I'm so glad you were able to share them with us. I would add to your positive items the fact that you were able to reach out and make some doctor appointments. Even just making the appointments can seem so overwhelming yet you did it! Congratulations Jay on getting insurance. Please stay focused on both the dental and vision processes because both are so important to your overall health. I'm sending you warm hugs from Atlanta, GA. XOXOXO
I just found y’all channel recently, I hope things turn around soon. Are you working with organization similar to Housing First? It sounds like it. I’m a 69 year old Grandma and struggle with depression, thank you for sharing your journey.
That is completely insane to me that everything resets if you stay in someone's home, a motel or a homeless shelter! I believe it's best not to tell them any of that in the future! I believe your housesitting is under the table correct? So they can't follow the paper trail there! I wish the best for the both of you. I really really really hope you get a home soon soon.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 by the way Jay I cannot stand going to the dentist. It is the most frightening thing for me! The sounds of the drills and the needle & the smells really trigger me. They have to give me gas and let me tell you that doesn't even calm my nerves. It's like going into a horror show for me so I get it! I always have to psych myself up before I go. So I feel your pain so much for that it truly sucks!! But if you need to have those wisdom teeth pulled because they are infected you wanna make sure you take care of that before they abscess because that's a whole other extreme pain if you go in with an infection, they're gonna give you antibiotics to clear it up and then once it's done, you need to get yourself back into the dentist, or you just gonna keep having infections. I know it's hard, very hard! But just think of the outcome you'll be in no more pain or discomfort
Hate that you have to struggle with the incompetence of others in such a desperate situation. How infuriating! Praying and trusting for good things on the horizon. Love y’all 💜🙏
Since Covid it seems very hard to get anything done, medically,legally or any social services. Honestly only the strong survive. You are both very smart, don’t give up. Keep pushing thru all of the ridiculous process. You both deserve the help you need. I appreciate your honesty.
She is new and working on remedying it. People make mistakes. Sounds like they are working on it. Maybe I'm paranoid but I've dealt with a lot of people, and you don't want to get someone mad at you that you got in trouble with their boss from underhandedly delaying or losing or saying that they didn't fill out the paperwork right, etc. later as payback for getting them in trouble.
Yea, but when it is as serious as someone losing housing, then I need to do whatever it takes to get my spot back. Like Jessica said, if it was a simple mistake that didn't really cause any harm, then ok. But they lost their housing because of her, and that's big.
I was glued to my sit just hearing that you were getting close to having an apartment. Someone mentioned in the comments that a priest or a pastor might be able to help you with that letter of verification. Maybe they run a food bank too. Wishing you both well and a speedy process.
yes ! Talk to her supervisor. Make some waves. Dont let it rest. That is so unfair. Even if it comes to nothing let them know. And always always keep copies of paperwork turned in with date stamp. They will lose and do lose paperwork constantly. They dont answer phones wont call back. You must keep checking because somewhere is that person who can sign your paperwork and make it happen.
I'm so sorry but not surprised by the incompetence that is / was probably a nonprofit organization. Hang in there sweetheart, we are routing for you both 💛
I'm back to say I am sorry if I sound mean. I'm very compassionate and sympathize deeply. Yeah jes, it does look like no one really care if you or anyone is homeless. A concern I have is good people want to hold on to the goodness that we know is possible or experienced ourselves. We,as a society have relinquished much of our independence to those in power. The suffering afoot is horrendous. My wish for sufficiency, survivalisum, caring for families, community,etc would do better without fighting a system that is actually destroying our BROTHERMEN ! My comments have come from caring...as a mother prepping children for the harshness in life. I know exactly what it's like to be assed out. Buckle up good people here. It's a rocky road. Wishing only the best...with all my heartfire this is what I send 💜 So Be It...
About 3-4 months ago california shamelessly admitted they were unable to track 24Billion allocated to solve homeless crisis. Gotta wonder how much effort goes into solutions ?
you want to know something I never went to the dentist as a child. We didn't have much money. One apartment we lived in had roaches it was humiliating. Especially in school. I had to have my four impacted wisdom teeth removed they got infected. It can be dangerous because the infection can spread to the heart. I heard a friend of mine had to have a heart transplant because his teeth got infected and it spread. Please take care of it. I pray you find an oral surgeon that accepts your insurance. Love always
I really feel bad for you guys. And I understand you don't want to leave your state but sometimes you have to. Illinois where I live we have a small shelter but we also have two rivers and general assistance that will help. Jay has an income but you don't so they will either put you in a motel by weekly and Jess if your activity looking for job they will help each week with the rent. And your salvation army will help 2ith bus tickets. If your homeless in this town it's because you wanted too... Have you filed for SSDI Jess.
That is suck a string of hoops to jump thru and such a let down. I'm so sorry guys! I can't imagine the disappointment you feel. Check this. My fiance and partner of 23 years just broke up with me out of the blue cuz he has a psycho female coworker that he likes now I guess lol and is leaving me and our apt if 15 years to purposely be homeless and live in his car. We live in LA. It this insane or what? At least you have each other, me and my partner have been thru it all, we were homeless like you guys when we were in our 20s too. I thought we would be forever, I am broken. Hold on to each other and be grateful for what you do have. I would rather be homeless again than lose my beloved partner, but there is nothing I can do about it. Hope things get better for you guys, you deserve so much 🩷
omg I'm 5 minutes in to this video , I can't believe how you lost that apartment, through her negligence, I'm so upset for you , can't you put in a complaint I'm so mad , you deserve to have a home this breaks my heart 😢 💔
On the car search 🔍- please spend the 100-150.00 to have your next car inspected. It really is well worth that money in the long run- both financially and mentally 😅 💪🙏. Keep your heads up.
@@SweetJustice919 it’s easier to get housing for a woman with children or a single woman then it is for a couple. Unfortunately, I have been homeless. And people think just because you’re disabled you get to cut the line. As a totally blind person, I’m here to tell you I waited six years for section 8, and they didn’t want to give it to me because I’m blind. they actually said I should receive support from my family and I was 19 years old. I had to fight all the way to Hud just to get back on the list and wait.
So what paperwork did she need that didn't get submitted?? Do you have a list from this service of EVERYTHING that's required when you submit these applications?? Jes im sorry but your keyword here was "assumed!" With these services Jes you have got to stay on top of absolutely everything and never allow anything to go that long again!! So clear the one issue... just stay homeless to THEM and make copies of everything!! But never assume with THESE people!! As far as the paper to get signed that you're homeless... just be selective and bite the bullet.... how about just another so called homeless person or some one from the gym!!
I think they kinda stay away from other homeless people because they found that a lot of them are druggies, alcoholics, have mental problems, etc...and if you admit you are vulnerable or are followed (or they know) where you stay in the car, they can do stuff to you. That's what they said in prior videos. I can see how they can't tell non-homeless friends bc it's a little embarrassing and I can see how they wouldn't want to get it around (altho they have a UA-cam channel...) that they are homeless when looking for jobs, so probably don't want to admit it to the gym people either. I would go with family that already knows they are homeless. Can't have her disabled sister come to where they are staying to "witness" the car they are staying at, but her mom can come just one time, see the car (with video and/or photo evidence...or just say that she did) and sign the paper verifying that Jes is homeless and has been for a year. If relatives can't sign the paper, then maybe a sympathetic but understanding friend of her mom's, her sister's (able-bodied, maybe a sympathetic nurse), or Jesika's. There's gotta be a way to do this. Just crazy.
While I uphold positivity, lifelong. From interactions and observation it seems mental health, worldwide is an issue. As a family gifted empath, I encourage balance of desire to manifest with being realistic. Esteemed intellectuals,historians,seers,etc pretty much agree it's all going to shit. Common ppl coming together to facilitate survival is a great idea. Depression, anxiety, loss of hope is getting more common ✌💜
I live in Jersey and it’s easier if you have kids to get housing, I understand but it’s crazy how long you guys have been homeless. So good to see you you both. ❤
I know this is a serious time in your life. The way you tell the story its obvious you guys have a sense of humour The " secret number " hilarious. Thats how it feels working with social services. Hours calling and if your lucky to be able to talk to someone they never give you any information. Why are we subsidizing the cost of government workers who seem to know very little ?
If Jay is disabled depending on what is for I. Know for menta illnesses the have special programs that help with housing. You might think of grants Okay for the proving your homeless you might try one of your friends or a relative that would fill that out for you.
I really wish there was a way I could reach out to you. I’m in the bay area and I’m guessing you might be. I’m blind so when you post your videos, I can’t see different buildings and such. But I know of a lot of resources and work around that might be able to help you. I’ve been where you are only difference is I had six children and we were living at the Comfort Inn in South city for three whole month! This scumbag of a potential landlord tried to rent a house to me that was in foreclosure. Defraud section 8? I don’t think so. So we were homeless. And I understand the depression. I have just been outsourced… It was horrible. I really would like to be able to help you if I could.
I am in Greenville SC and its not so good. The storm hit my area really hard, I don't see how you do it. I have no power and mental health is declining. Please pray for me.
please do a go fund me , you need a van so you can live in it , a travel van with a sink abd toilet, abd a bed , that would be so good for you right now, ❤❤
Wow. Just wow. The system is just… (literally shaking my head.) I know how much your sister means to you Jess, but hear me out. Do you think maybe going somewhere for a period of time, re establishing yourselves in an area/state where you would be able to actually flourish instead of what’s been happening this past year, could be a possibility? I always think of the airplane advice for parents, we put our oxygen masks on first before we help our kids, because if we’re not okay, who will be there for them? Hope that makes sense. Like, a little time away to help yourselves and actually succeed in doing so, and then you can come back. Ugh- such a hard situation. I know you both aren’t believers in God, but I’m still praying for you and your circumstances. 🙏🏼
That is so infuriating that happened. People are so incompetent these days and worse, they don’t even care. Those rules about homelessness being reset after one night in a motel or homeless shelter is absolute absurdity.
Jay I believe that you are getting cysts on your eye from prolonged use of your contact lenses. I have this unfortunately happen. I AM BEYOND IRRITATED FOR YOU GUYS HEARING ABOUT THIS SITUATION MAKES ME OUTRAGED!! I REALLY HOPE THIS VIDEO GETS SEEN BY PEOPLE THAT REALLY NEED TO SEE THIS!! CHANGE IS NEEDED!! ❤❤❤
Omg this new person is just lazy and not doing her job. It sounds like everyone drops the ball. So sorry how frustrating for you both. Prayers ❤️ things will turn around soon 🙏
I’m sorry. I think things are just impossible where you live. It’s one of the the highest rent areas in the country if not the highest. Is there any way to get to another state ? Once you get a car. Or no?
Is there a way to appeal this? Im so sorry you're having to deal with people who don't know what they're doing. This is unacceptable!! Any outreach teams out there? CA is really backwards. In NYC you would have been housed by now. So sorry 😢😢
omg I'm a few more minutes in , from what yiur saying now seems it'll be impossible for you to prove your homeless, this is ridiculous, those people running this housing for the homeless needs big lessons about people like you who are suffering, , you probably get another comment from me by the time I've finished watching this , ❤
My mouth was literally hanging open in disbelief this whole video. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Unbelievable and scary that people in need are treated this way.
How frustrating for you guys. Thanks for the update
I was in this situation years ago and i started going to a local church regularly and the pastor wrote a letter for me and then i got housing
Thanks for the update guys!! I pray the housing situation gets better and hopes for a car soon! Good to see you guys
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So happy to see you. Keep posting videos
You should go
and ask to speak with the supervisor. There must be accountability. They should at the least put you back at the top of the list!
Wow! What a broken process! 🧐🥺
These obstacles in the process are absolutely abhorrent and completely unacceptable! I am so sorry! I pray that through these experiences, one day you guys will be able to also advocate for change in the system that keeps people trapped in homelessness! Rooting for you guys!! You two are resilient AF!
Wishing both of you good, kind people the best.
That is horrible,I’m so very sorry for all your going through.
Sis, speaking on things you want to happen is HOW you manifest! The word NEVER is a jinx and a curse quiet as it's kept. You must speak on it, write it, think about it, and move towards it if you want it!
We did start preparing , even if we didn’t share it..we started cleaning our storage , looking at the neighborhood etc 😒🫠
😢i have not heard of that mess they are given ya'll the run around
GOD Bless you both 🙂
@@jesandjayDo you all go dumpster diving ? I saw this guy doing a challenge to survive he did ok getting stuff to sell etc
You have to advocate for yourselves. You need to assume no one ever follows through with anything. If Jay is disabled, contact social security. They will be able to turn you in the right direction.
It’s not that easy to do when you are depressed and exhausted from homelessness. They shouldn’t have to follow up on every little detail. People should actually just do their jobs right .
@@nr1785 They should, but sadly they dont.
I PRAY THERE IS A HOMELESS RIGHTS ADVOCACY GROUP WITH A LAWYER..FOR ALL PEOPLE DEALING WITH THIS..WONDERFUL JOB JESSICA ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 THAT SOUNDS GREAT...I KNOW WHY YOU DONT ASSCOCIATE WITH OTHERS YOU ARE WELL SPOKEN AND INTELLIGENT PEOPLE.....❤❤❤❤❤
I am so sorry this has happened to you. I hope something good happens soon. You guys need something good. Sending hugs, good vibes, love and prayers ❤
I’m glad to hear this update. I’m sorry all this has been so difficult. The system is so messed up. California has such a high turn over of social workers. I hope something opens up soon for you two.
God bless you both. 🙏🏻❤️ just try to keep a positive mindset. Never give up.
Things will get better It takes one day at a time
GOD Bless you both🙏🏻
The Ca. Housing Authority is so mucked up and ssa backwards. I have a friend going through this rn and it’s ridiculous. Then once you get a housing voucher you have to make 3x the rent in order to even be considered. It makes no sense and you have to rely hope & pray that some landlord out there will be gracious enough to give you a chance. I’m keeping you both in my prayers. I really hope that someone out there is kind enough to give you a break and a chance. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I know that if I had a spare room or inlaw unit I would gladly help you two out😢
I'm so happy you guys are moving into the right direction
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Stay positive guys.....I get the feeling all will be well soon....
So very sorry that you guys have had to go through this! It sounds like someone from the bay area has some help for you guys. I pray that works out. I agree with the person that said if 1 of you qualify the government won't let the other person stay. Can you guys afford to rent 1 room and then work towards a car? I really believe that the system can't help you. They have it set up that way, unfortunately. Spend your time, energy and money on getting yourselves a place to live. I bet there is someone out there that needs help paying the rent or mortgage and would love to have you guys there. I pray that you guys find relief soon! Thank you for the update. We appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Love and light to you both! ❤
@@lisameader4927 we cannot afford to rent a room. Rooms in this area are 1000 and up
Good to hear your update and see you guys…praying something good happens very soon. 🙏🏻
I wouldn’t tell them anything but im homeless and have been
I would of been so angry I am so sorry she didn't follow through for you guys.
1 year of homeless is absolutely insane
Jay same for me didn't go to dentist because we couldn't afford it when I was a kid. Also extreme fear of going. I have to be medicated I relate sorry you also go though that fear
It's not OSHA 😂😂😂
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Obviously don’t tell them when you stay somewhere
Exactly! After I would have learned that, I wouldn't tell them anymore...just what they need to know to qualify them to get the free housing. They most likely pay in cash for any motel rooms...I'd use a made-up name. What would the motel care; they're getting their money.
Agree with the comments about bringing your case manager’s screw up to the attention of her supervisor. The reality is that there is high turnover in many of these positions so you will likely encounter more people who are new and inexperienced. If her supervisor is advised, they may be able to help you or at least they can train her better so she can assist the next person better. I know all that takes a lot of time and energy you may not have but just wanted to put it out there for your consideration. Take care!
I do ask if she can run things by others first and she’s learned now to do that on her own
@@jesandjay yeah, not to get her in trouble, necessarily - just to make sure she is doing things correctly. Sigh… so sorry this has happened.
So good to see you guys. I hope you get a home soon.
Jay.. your disability should help a bit because in my state disability comes before anyone else!!
He doesn’t have his own case, they never started one on him
@@ambergibson1930 he has to get one open I don't know what the problem is
Thanks for the update. It was nice to see an update from you guys.
Acknowledging the positive items is important for me and my mental health. It can get so bleak that I can't/don't/won't acknowledge the positive. I'm so glad you were able to share them with us. I would add to your positive items the fact that you were able to reach out and make some doctor appointments. Even just making the appointments can seem so overwhelming yet you did it!
Congratulations Jay on getting insurance. Please stay focused on both the dental and vision processes because both are so important to your overall health.
I'm sending you warm hugs from Atlanta, GA. XOXOXO
Thank you 💜
I just found y’all channel recently, I hope things turn around soon. Are you working with organization similar to Housing First? It sounds like it. I’m a 69 year old Grandma and struggle with depression, thank you for sharing your journey.
Yes we are and have been working with multiple agencies.
That is completely insane to me that everything resets if you stay in someone's home, a motel or a homeless shelter! I believe it's best not to tell them any of that in the future! I believe your housesitting is under the table correct? So they can't follow the paper trail there! I wish the best for the both of you. I really really really hope you get a home soon soon.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 by the way Jay I cannot stand going to the dentist. It is the most frightening thing for me! The sounds of the drills and the needle & the smells really trigger me. They have to give me gas and let me tell you that doesn't even calm my nerves. It's like going into a horror show for me so I get it! I always have to psych myself up before I go. So I feel your pain so much for that it truly sucks!! But if you need to have those wisdom teeth pulled because they are infected you wanna make sure you take care of that before they abscess because that's a whole other extreme pain if you go in with an infection, they're gonna give you antibiotics to clear it up and then once it's done, you need to get yourself back into the dentist, or you just gonna keep having infections. I know it's hard, very hard! But just think of the outcome you'll be in no more pain or discomfort
Waiting on more insurance approval for moving forward for Jay
Or get him some sovereign silver at a natural grocery. Surprise!!! Others things to help.
We're fairly fkt at the mercy of systems
If you both were here in Alabama you both are welcome to live in my house 😢
Hate that you have to struggle with the incompetence of others in such a desperate situation. How infuriating! Praying and trusting for good things on the horizon. Love y’all 💜🙏
Since Covid it seems very hard to get anything done, medically,legally or any social services. Honestly only the strong survive. You are both very smart, don’t give up. Keep pushing thru all of the ridiculous process. You both deserve the help you need. I appreciate your honesty.
I'm also sure free legal advice may drive the process faster....possible get an affidavit...compensation for prolonged delays as such...
This system is fed up . I’m so sorry I wish i could be of help
I would've reported her and spoke to upper management because it wasn't your fault
Whatever whatever fake news
She is new and working on remedying it. People make mistakes. Sounds like they are working on it. Maybe I'm paranoid but I've dealt with a lot of people, and you don't want to get someone mad at you that you got in trouble with their boss from underhandedly delaying or losing or saying that they didn't fill out the paperwork right, etc. later as payback for getting them in trouble.
Yea, but when it is as serious as someone losing housing, then I need to do whatever it takes to get my spot back. Like Jessica said, if it was a simple mistake that didn't really cause any harm, then ok. But they lost their housing because of her, and that's big.
@@MrLouisiana36 then why are you here
Yes absolutely she needs to be reported that’s unacceptable!
Sending positive vibes that all goes well... ❤️🙏❤️
I was glued to my sit just hearing that you were getting close to having an apartment. Someone mentioned in the comments that a priest or a pastor might be able to help you with that letter of verification. Maybe they run a food bank too. Wishing you both well and a speedy process.
yes ! Talk to her supervisor. Make some waves. Dont let it rest. That is so unfair. Even if it comes to nothing let them know. And always always keep copies of paperwork turned in with date stamp. They will lose and do lose paperwork constantly. They dont answer phones wont call back. You must keep checking because somewhere is that person who can sign your paperwork and make it happen.
I'm so sorry but not surprised by the incompetence that is / was probably a nonprofit organization.
Hang in there sweetheart, we are routing for you both 💛
I'm back to say I am sorry if I sound mean. I'm very compassionate and sympathize deeply. Yeah jes, it does look like no one really care if you or anyone is homeless. A concern I have is good people want to hold on to the goodness that we know is possible or experienced ourselves. We,as a society have relinquished much of our independence to those in power. The suffering afoot is horrendous. My wish for sufficiency, survivalisum, caring for families, community,etc would do better without fighting a system that is actually destroying our BROTHERMEN !
My comments have come from caring...as a mother prepping children for the harshness in life.
I know exactly what it's like to be assed out. Buckle up good people here. It's a rocky road. Wishing only the best...with all my heartfire this is what I send 💜
So Be It...
About 3-4 months ago california shamelessly admitted they were unable to track 24Billion allocated to solve homeless crisis.
Gotta wonder how much effort goes into solutions ?
Yes it was used to line the pockets of someone somewhere
@@jesandjay exactly
God bless. I hope things work out. Sounds pretty frustrating via the housing, but the other good things that are happening sound great!
Fingers crossed!
you want to know something I never went to the dentist as a child. We didn't have much money. One apartment we lived in had roaches it was humiliating. Especially in school. I had to have my four impacted wisdom teeth removed they got infected. It can be dangerous because the infection can spread to the heart. I heard a friend of mine had to have a heart transplant because his teeth got infected and it spread. Please take care of it. I pray you find an oral surgeon that accepts your insurance. Love always
Yes , it makes me nervous for him having these be infected but it’s been hard enough to even get home to the dentist.
Very scary though 😭
I really feel bad for you guys. And I understand you don't want to leave your state but sometimes you have to. Illinois where I live we have a small shelter but we also have two rivers and general assistance that will help. Jay has an income but you don't so they will either put you in a motel by weekly and Jess if your activity looking for job they will help each week with the rent. And your salvation army will help 2ith bus tickets. If your homeless in this town it's because you wanted too... Have you filed for SSDI Jess.
I’m putting in where I don’t belong, Jess has a sister in California that is in care who needs her to be near. My heart breaks for them.😂.
That is suck a string of hoops to jump thru and such a let down. I'm so sorry guys! I can't imagine the disappointment you feel. Check this. My fiance and partner of 23 years just broke up with me out of the blue cuz he has a psycho female coworker that he likes now I guess lol and is leaving me and our apt if 15 years to purposely be homeless and live in his car. We live in LA. It this insane or what? At least you have each other, me and my partner have been thru it all, we were homeless like you guys when we were in our 20s too. I thought we would be forever, I am broken. Hold on to each other and be grateful for what you do have. I would rather be homeless again than lose my beloved partner, but there is nothing I can do about it. Hope things get better for you guys, you deserve so much 🩷
omg I'm 5 minutes in to this video , I can't believe how you lost that apartment, through her negligence, I'm so upset for you , can't you put in a complaint I'm so mad , you deserve to have a home this breaks my heart 😢 💔
On the car search 🔍- please spend the 100-150.00 to have your next car inspected. It really is well worth that money in the long run- both financially and mentally 😅 💪🙏. Keep your heads up.
Jessica you might want to check unemployment some states after a while you can draw unemployment if you quit
Next question... WHY can't you guys do a dual application. Do it together and get housing together??
Probably because they’re not married.
@@SweetJustice919 it’s easier to get housing for a woman with children or a single woman then it is for a couple. Unfortunately, I have been homeless. And people think just because you’re disabled you get to cut the line. As a totally blind person, I’m here to tell you I waited six years for section 8, and they didn’t want to give it to me because I’m blind. they actually said I should receive support from my family and I was 19 years old. I had to fight all the way to Hud just to get back on the list and wait.
I guess I didn’t make it clear in the video, we are on a dual application, me as the head of household.
So what paperwork did she need that didn't get submitted??
Do you have a list from this service of EVERYTHING that's required when you submit these applications??
Jes im sorry but your keyword here was "assumed!"
With these services Jes you have got to stay on top of absolutely everything and never allow anything to go that long again!!
So clear the one issue... just stay homeless to THEM and make copies of everything!! But never assume with THESE people!!
As far as the paper to get signed that you're homeless... just be selective and bite the bullet.... how about just another so called homeless person or some one from the gym!!
I think they kinda stay away from other homeless people because they found that a lot of them are druggies, alcoholics, have mental problems, etc...and if you admit you are vulnerable or are followed (or they know) where you stay in the car, they can do stuff to you. That's what they said in prior videos. I can see how they can't tell non-homeless friends bc it's a little embarrassing and I can see how they wouldn't want to get it around (altho they have a UA-cam channel...) that they are homeless when looking for jobs, so probably don't want to admit it to the gym people either. I would go with family that already knows they are homeless. Can't have her disabled sister come to where they are staying to "witness" the car they are staying at, but her mom can come just one time, see the car (with video and/or photo evidence...or just say that she did) and sign the paper verifying that Jes is homeless and has been for a year. If relatives can't sign the paper, then maybe a sympathetic but understanding friend of her mom's, her sister's (able-bodied, maybe a sympathetic nurse), or Jesika's. There's gotta be a way to do this. Just crazy.
🙏🙏fur u both, I’m one way from being homeless myself not a good feeling
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While I uphold positivity, lifelong. From interactions and observation it seems mental health, worldwide is an issue.
As a family gifted empath, I encourage balance of desire to manifest with being realistic. Esteemed intellectuals,historians,seers,etc pretty much agree it's all going to shit. Common ppl coming together to facilitate survival is a great idea. Depression, anxiety, loss of hope is getting more common ✌💜
I live in Jersey and it’s easier if you have kids to get housing, I understand but it’s crazy how long you guys have been homeless. So good to see you you both. ❤
I know this is a serious time in your life.
The way you tell the story its obvious you guys have a sense of humour
The " secret number " hilarious.
Thats how it feels working with social services. Hours calling and if your lucky to be able to talk to someone they never give you any information.
Why are we subsidizing the cost of government workers who seem to know very little ?
If Jay is disabled depending on what is for I. Know for menta illnesses the have special programs that help with housing. You might think of grants
Okay for the proving your homeless you might try one of your friends or a relative that would fill that out for you.
I really wish there was a way I could reach out to you. I’m in the bay area and I’m guessing you might be. I’m blind so when you post your videos, I can’t see different buildings and such. But I know of a lot of resources and work around that might be able to help you. I’ve been where you are only difference is I had six children and we were living at the Comfort Inn in South city for three whole month! This scumbag of a potential landlord tried to rent a house to me that was in foreclosure. Defraud section 8? I don’t think so. So we were homeless. And I understand the depression. I have just been outsourced… It was horrible. I really would like to be able to help you if I could.
We are in the Bay Area , yes
I am in Greenville SC and its not so good. The storm hit my area really hard, I don't see how you do it. I have no power and mental health is declining. Please pray for me.
I’m sorry to hear that! I hope this is all over for you soon!
@lynngardner8672 stand strong...the devastation is massive. Look online for ways to filter water...it will always be a valuable skill. Stand strong ❤
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please do a go fund me , you need a van so you can live in it , a travel van with a sink abd toilet, abd a bed , that would be so good for you right now, ❤❤
We had a gofundme already, and we’ve closed it 💜
Wow. Just wow. The system is just… (literally shaking my head.) I know how much your sister means to you Jess, but hear me out. Do you think maybe going somewhere for a period of time, re establishing yourselves in an area/state where you would be able to actually flourish instead of what’s been happening this past year, could be a possibility? I always think of the airplane advice for parents, we put our oxygen masks on first before we help our kids, because if we’re not okay, who will be there for them? Hope that makes sense. Like, a little time away to help yourselves and actually succeed in doing so, and then you can come back. Ugh- such a hard situation. I know you both aren’t believers in God, but I’m still praying for you and your circumstances. 🙏🏼
That is so infuriating that happened. People are so incompetent these days and worse, they don’t even care.
Those rules about homelessness being reset after one night in a motel or homeless shelter is absolute absurdity.
Dumbest thing I’ve heard! Stay as homeless as possible, basically
Jay I believe that you are getting cysts on your eye from prolonged use of your contact lenses. I have this unfortunately happen. I AM BEYOND IRRITATED FOR YOU GUYS HEARING ABOUT THIS SITUATION MAKES ME OUTRAGED!! I REALLY HOPE THIS VIDEO GETS SEEN BY PEOPLE THAT REALLY NEED TO SEE THIS!! CHANGE IS NEEDED!! ❤❤❤
I hope he doesn’t have cysts! But regardless he needs an appointment..( which still hasn’t been made 😩)
You guys have to feel better just getting your to fo kudt started and worked through 😅
Them people are not right
They could help you both
Omg this new person is just lazy and not doing her job. It sounds like everyone drops the ball. So sorry how frustrating for you both. Prayers ❤️ things will turn around soon 🙏
Yes if you can get a car youns could work for uber eats or something similar
Wow ❤❤
I’m sorry. I think things are just impossible where you live. It’s one of the the highest rent areas in the country if not the highest. Is there any way to get to another state ? Once you get a car. Or no?
System works for illegal immigrants not Americans 😢
Ain’t that the truth!! 🎯
This is unbelievable
Jay sweetie, please be careful with your eyes...
Is there a way to appeal this? Im so sorry you're having to deal with people who don't know what they're doing. This is unacceptable!! Any outreach teams out there? CA is really backwards. In NYC you would have been housed by now. So sorry 😢😢
Go to your local Congressman's office and let them know what's going on. They are giving you the run around.
Did already!
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Good ❤❤❤
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Is it the Bat cave and is Alfred the gate keeper? So weird! 😜
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omg I'm a few more minutes in , from what yiur saying now seems it'll be impossible for you to prove your homeless, this is ridiculous, those people running this housing for the homeless needs big lessons about people like you who are suffering, , you probably get another comment from me by the time I've finished watching this , ❤
Imagine the people who are even worse situations 😰Ours definitely sucks a lot but still there’s even worse
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And if one of you get qualified they won’t allow you to let the other stay at the place
No , we’re both on the same case
Why don’t your shut out for a good working car for a really small (Really small)donation on UA-cam
thats awful
If you guy’s ever do merch, you need a “I’m new here” shirt.👚😂 You need to find comedy amongst tragedy.🥹
Hugs from Hawai’i.🤗