Don't beat your kids, don't allow your kids to be beaten. I'm not victim-blaming, just pointing out that our childhoods have a whooooole lot to do with who we become. And how we treat others is mirrored by our kids. 👍🏼
As a mother, your first priority is to protect your children. Edwardyne failed in that department that she allowed her husband to abuse his stepson. I don’t know what to feel about this case.
So very important to not allow abuse to impact your children’s life ,if your partner is controlling or abusive towards your children no matter if they’re his or not ,it is damaging…they need at least one parent to support and defend them …l knew my ex husband ( the father of my two kids) was going to make their lives miserable and dangerous..l got out real early ,my son was 2 my daughter my 1 …they don’t remember the abuse he inflicted on me ,they have no bad memories,they are happy healthy kids ..l know l did the right thing
It's not that easy, sometimes it takes a while for you to realize that you have to protect your children from the person that is supposed to be doing just that.
I completely agree. I said this to myself. Being abused and watching his mother get abused caused him to be abusive. He was very much wrong for what he did to his mother, but you just don't know how abuse will affect a human being. Tragic.
Lo de la hoja es que no mames una hoja ah por qué lechuga tan bien chiquitita es así pues tan chiquitas pero hay que contar hoja por hoja tenemos que ponerse 6 hojas de o sea sacarse y soho de ahí y luego armó una montañita no otra montañita de la otra muy palita y agarrar otra lechuga de contar se hizo hojas e hizo hojas se hizo hoja no bien fastidioso y en el muchacho mañana el nuevo y pues ni hace nada no se nata nada no nada le regrese mañana no viene le dije hasta otra caja de lechuga Lo de la hoja es que nomás es una hoja ah porque lechuga tan así bien chiquititas así pues tan chiquitas pero hay que contar hoja por hoja tenemos que poner 6 hojas de o sea sacarseis hojas de ahí y luegarme a una montañita en la otra montañita y la otra montañita y agarrar otra leche voy a contar 6 hojas 6 hojas 6 hojas no bien fastidioso y el muchacho a mañana el nuevo y pues ni hace nada no se nata nada nada le sabes qué hay de mañana no viene le dije hasta otra caja de lechuga y pues yo haya entierro muchas cosas por lo menos quería porque luego no sé qué es que no no pero ella mismo
Agreed. Am widowed for a few years, I don't bother dating. My full time job, raising my 2 kids keeps me very busy, happy,besides you don't know if they want to date you for you, or because you have kids they can abuse.
@@felicitywillboughby6901well, i m a mother of 3, got divorced when youngest was 5, got my second husband a year later, have been happily married for 20 years, if MY children have any trouble or smth to ask they call him. If i want them to do smth i ask my husband to ask them because they will never say no TO HIM. I think they love him more than me. So well, there ARE men who are there for u. The elder son is 32
@@felicitywillboughby6901 I read somewhere that your children are _20 times_ more likely to be abused when an unrelated person joins the household. I'm not suggesting that single parents shouldn't date, but don't bring that home to your children. Your first responsibility is to them.
'"Children come first" what a fkng dmb comment apparently you missed tha whole fckg boat! It was NOT MEN who did her in. BUT YOUR LITTLE BABIES WHO COME FIRST. What a waste of your life you lived . I didn't come into this world looking for children they came as a result of what I live my life for, which is the irreplaceable partner. A million kids CAN NOT replace that.
I feel the hurt and the anger he must’ve held onto all his life which led to him killing his mother. No one abuses your child. He obviously felt unloved, betrayed by his own mother, and alone.
Maybe Terry was deeply triggered when his mom seemed so nun-ya-business about having a new boyfriend; he had deep trauma from her ignoring the abuse he endured from her second husband. The whole "it's none of your business" nonchalance can probably feel like "I don't care what you think now, I didn't care back then either, I'll pick whichever man I want regardless of you or how they treat you."
It’s wrong that he got first degree murder. It’s sad that his sisters are so angry with him. Apparently, they were not being abused as he was so they have no compassion for him. They idolize their mother who, basically, was unable to function without a man in her life even if that man was abusing a child repeatedly whom she had with a previous man. Of course she did not deserve to be murdered. No, it was not premeditated and, therefore, 2nd degree. She was guilty of egregious neglect to have allowed her son to be treated so badly.
Now I'm 50 yrs old and my son is 24 I never have man in my life coz I don't want to be ruin by someone...I raised my son on my own until he finished college.. proud single parent here .
We must have been pregnant around the same time because I’m 50 but my son is 25. He didn’t graduate college but he still a good kid and he has his own 6 bedroom home and he is doing really good. Look at us proud mamas for life. Congratulations on your son. You did an amazing job 😘👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She was not really a mother to him since she preferred staying with a man who violently abused him for years: a child living in terror when she could have stopped it. Her ''needs'' were her priority. Too bad he never got help to process such a toxic environment and deal with the accumulated rage. Unfortunate that eventually she had in turn, to experience the impact of such rage.
So many complaints about the sound quality, yet I can hear it just fine. I’m watching UA-cam on my TV though and I don’t have my volume set any higher than usual.
The sound is pretty good actually so I'm a bit confused how ye can't hear it oh well maybe your TV is a bit fucked and needs assistance or maybe not lol ❤
She was a bad mother to him, and ignored the abuse he endured from her ex husband, but that does NOT excuse the fact he was depraved enough to murder his own mother. I know a fair few people personally who have gone through worse abuse, both mental, physical, emotional even sexual…for years and by their own family members…they have still managed to become productive members of society and have chosen NOT to murder their mothers/abusers. I get that everyone has different experiences and trauma is something you can never measure on a scale, but he is a murderer. Most people with trauma choose NOT to murder. He did. His mother did not deserve to die and he had no right to take her life away. He deserves to be in jail for the rest of his life.
@soldieron3935 I am so glad you wrote about all the people who have been abused during their childhoods but do not kill their abusers. And there are millions of us.
She let her son (that young man) be singled out and abused for years, so if he did commit the crime, that semi makes sense to me. He committed the acts he witnessed and experienced firsthand. But honestly, without further evidence other than those keys, it could be her crazy ex or that other guy.
Not defending the.son, but my brother suffered my dad being violent towards him, and I know that my mom's failure to protect him from that hurt him more than our father's abuse towards him. It was a profound betrayal by the person who should have protected him the most.
how did she survive when MIKE who was suffering from cancer.... how did she eve make it after HE DIED....like it was So00o0o0o0o0o difficult for her......Could it be Karma???
Children will become a abuser if they dont recieve any help.. they just continue the cycle...its very sad..the kid never stood a chance and mom let him down... It doesnt excuse his killing her but it does explain why he had so much anger against her.
She shouldn't have rushed to go out to meet a male friend(s) while her husband was in death bed. Also, as soon as her husband passed away, wanting to get rid of her deeply tramumatized son as fast as she could to bring another guy into her house (her husband's originally, perhaps..) was her fatal mistake. I mourne for the lives of two victims, Terry and his mother's. From S.Korea.
Mothers that allow men to abuse their children are evil themselves. For some strange reason, I don't feel sorry for this woman. I feel sorry for her surviving family.
The daughter is delusional and has no clue what being "put first" actually means. Since she had such a horrible role model, how could she think differently though? A strong woman would not have felt the need to marry men who are failures. She certainly would not have chosen to have children with them, thereby exposing them to a life of instability. Strong women do not remain with abusers; they don't stay with a man that abuses their children. They get out of the relationship and raise their children on their own, doing everything possible to ensure that their children are not subjected to abuse or neglect. 😡
i am a father. Here are my "RULES" that I wish EVERYONE would follow. I know from failing to do so myself. If you're married/together before kids and are with the parent - then the PARENTS come first. You gotta maintain the foundation that produced the children. If you're a mother OR father and you already have kids before the new relationshipt - the KIDS have to come first. Whomever came first needs to stay first.
This all family is toxic, the " mother" let her child being abused by a stranger to him , and the sisters have not any sympathy for their brother ! The conclusion, even many facts about their behaviour towards him was not disclosed , is none of them had real feelings of love for him. I can't imagine how he would feel being the only unloved member of this family!
Agree. Especially them calling him half brother. My siblings by my mom are just my siblings. I thought kids from the paternal side would be considered half. Especially if they aren't raised together. Though I just call all my siblings' brothers and sisters. Not half. It shows love and respect in my opinion.
Being strangled to death is horrific enough let alone being strangled to death my your own child! Im not victim blaming but to put anyone ahead of your childs safety is the next worse thing to murder. Its astounding how many "moms" allow men to abuse their children.
Was looking for 1sane mindset....how can a grown man be living with his mom in this era? For goodness sake she raised them and loved them,why couldnt they give her a break at her 50's. Most parents abandons their children and bury their pain in drugs and alcohol
It hits totally different having my closest brother of 36 years murdered in 2020. I don't think I could be asked all these questions without breaking down. I totally hate the fact that I can relate to that kind of pain. It really sucks. But, sadly. I can relate..............................................................
In reality I learned one fact from women's shelter. It takes on average 7attempts to finally leave abusive relationship. Thous who never been in one are lucky,but also judgemental towards victims ability to leave safely. Mg personal motivation to leave was children's school who called the alarm and I had to choose lie or protect my children. I chose children. But still carry guilt every day that I wasn't able to leave sooner.
Many of my moms boyfriends abused my siblings & I. We went through far worse than physical abuse as well, just like millions of others. You can't point blame when someone turns into a cold blooded killer.
@@Ams_5590 sorry to hear what they did to you and you siblings. If I hear that I'm so mad at your mom. What the H she let them hurt you guys! Your mom to blame. In this case this guy is not that evil. Some time is self defense
The amount of commets that say "not victim blaming but .." or "not saying it's her fault but .." is absolutely disgusting. I hope none of those people ever have to be in am abusive relationship & if they do I hope they have the willpower, support & all around ability to leave, ESPECIALLY if an innocent child is also being abused. My mother brought countless men & boyfriends into mine & ky siblings lives, who not only beat her but also us, verbally & mentally abused us, one rap3d my oldest sister, another rap3d my mother in the same room he forced me into a corner of to watch & told me if I moved or looked away I was next, one forced alcohol down my throat at age 3, one stabbed my mom 27 times as he told her he had to get her out of the way to get to my 2nd oldest sister, who miraculously saved my mothers life. There was 6 of us kids, we all grew up to be very loving, helpful & generous people who couldn't intentionally hurt a soul. There's zero excuse for this dudes actions & I'm sick of seeing people sympathize with murderers. Yes the kid went through some years of abuse that left trauma but many more go through far worse & manage to go on without murdering anyone, let alone their own mother. Idc what anyone says, if he was able to do what he did he had it in him regardless what he went through. How anyone can judge an abused woman for not leaving her abuser fast enough, but can coddle someone who brutally took the life of the very woman who gave him life, is disgusting. And don't tell me I have diuble standards. I know what it's like to grow up in an abusive home at the hands of my mothers many men, and I know how hard it is to leave a domestic situation. There is never a justifiable excuse for this kind of murder, period.
It's a sad fact that some people who are abused will themselves become violent and even homicidal at a point in their lives. Response to trauma is complex, and although you say the son may have had it in him to kill, that possible inclination may have stayed dormant if he weren't traumatized by the abuse. This story is tragic for all involved.
We 5 sisters were abused by our parent, especially mum bcox dad was hardly at home, that stopped at the age 10, then it went on with ONLY verbally abuse,screaming,yelling,shouting,its always our fault no matter what Today,i am a mum of 2 healthy and beautiful children, 13 and 8 yrs old. My marriage broke after 18 years and i met a new guy, also divorced with 2 grown up kids I have told him from the very first day, my children are my everything. Do not raise your voice at ME or my kids, do not lay your hands on US! 4 years on with him,i am so thankful having him as my partner. A lovely kindhearted gentleman❤
I grew up being abused by my father but never thought about killing my mother. Anger doesn’t resolve anything. Her son was a failure with himself but he wanted to blame her for his own problems.
You need to keep in mind that the violence was directed specifically towards him. It seems the two girls were safe. Having been in the same situation I've never wanted my mother dead, but her allowing me to be abused has caused a deep seated anger that I feel 40 years later & which I won't let her forget
You'll be astonished, to know the percentage of children, just greedy, sickening ungrateful children who are even grandparents themselves,ready to kill their own mother over money... It's unbelievable.😔😔😔😔😔😔
No matter what they'd been through prior, Terry had no right to viciously strangle his own mother who loved him and take her away from his two beautiful sisters. Unforgivable and incredibly sad. So sorry for Tabitha and Ann. 💕🌸
His mother let him down when he was a defenseless child. She did not protect him, instead choose her man over her own flesh and blood. I don't understand why women chose having a man over their children. Very sad.
Unfortunately, you see this too often. Women not able to leave their abusive Partners. Sometimes the biological father and sometimes the stepfather. No one has the right to take anybody's life. But what happens to your children has a whole lot to do with what they do as adults? It is a pparent responsibility at least one to defend their kids.
Mama was beautiful so her beautiful daughters ! What a family tragedy. Such a sad story ! I believe the girls will always remember their Loving Mother !!!!
Mama's, your babies come first. If they are being abused by your partner, it's your responsibility to leave. Otherwise, you're guilty of abuse too. What Terry did was so wrong, but I do hope his ex-wife and sister's can eventually see this from the highest branch on the tree and offer him compassion. The unhealed part of him that lead him to do what he did deserves love. You can tell he was a good and kind child and abuse can for real change the chemistry in your brain. Rest in peace Edwardyne💔🥀🕊
Agree with your comment 100% I've experienced this for over 38 years. Finally my arse woke up, it's been 1 month since I left, lots of triggers but I'm taking 1 day at a time and I'm happy. If I can help 1 person to make the decision to leave then my job is done
Being 38 now and recently separated unlike my mom I will never Choose a man over my kids . End of !! Ppl take for granted the emotional and mental damage you do to kids by staying with toxic kids . Always choose your kids
Why do so many stepfather's hate their stepson's? cause they cant stand a male rival in the household.. its no excuse for murder though.. Terry could of just had nothing to do with his mom.. if his resentment went that deep for his mother he should of just left
I'm going to put this out there, as moms we have one job. The one daughter said that her mom would do anything for her, but obviously defending her children was not one of those things? Or just the girls and not her son? I grew up in a house exactly like this, my father was absolutely horrible to my brother, that affects a child. To know that the one person in the world that is supposed to protect you always, care's more about the man in her life then her child. I'm not saying she deserved to die at all what he did was wrong, however for those girls to sit there and judge him having no idea what he went through is wrong as well. I'm not saying they shouldn't blame him, but they should also look at the entirety of the situation and their mother's fault in it. Mother's protect your children, that is our job.
This woman was obsessed with having a man at the expense of her children. Sons are more protective of their mothers. You can imagine his resentment when she refused to leave his abuser and protect him. He was probably treated as an outcast being mixed and his sisters didn’t seem close to him. During his divorce the mother’s focus was still on spending time with another male ‘friend’. Rather than support him. That’s probably when the rage set in. Mothers who prioritise abusive partners often create abusive/killer sons.
I would love to know what evidence they had. I know the keychain, and I thought it was him from the beginning. I just would like to know what else they had that led to his conviction.
He def got what he deserved. I see a lot of commemts about him being abused, and that is horrible and im sure it impacted him badly. HOWEVER, he was in the military where help was certainly available. His wife clearly knew there were issues with him but he didn't want help to fix his rage and anger. Idk what he was doing at the time of her death but he did nothing to change himself. Abuse is horrible i know personally but him using that as a crutch to treat the women he cared for like punching bags is ridiculous! He was living in her home, where im sure she recognized he was angry and he scared her. This horrible act was his fault alone. He could have gotten help but he didn't want to. He enjoyed making women scared akd powerless. 1st degree murder justified but jmo. Prayers to the sisters and their families. ❤❤
Don't beat your kids, don't allow your kids to be beaten.
I'm not victim-blaming, just pointing out that our childhoods have a whooooole lot to do with who we become. And how we treat others is mirrored by our kids. 👍🏼
Yep, Violence breed violence.
i absolutely concur!
So true
As a mother, your first priority is to protect your children. Edwardyne failed in that department that she allowed her husband to abuse his stepson. I don’t know what to feel about this case.
So very important to not allow abuse to impact your children’s life ,if your partner is controlling or abusive towards your children no matter if they’re his or not ,it is damaging…they need at least one parent to support and defend them …l knew my ex husband ( the father of my two kids) was going to make their lives miserable and dangerous..l got out real early ,my son was 2 my daughter my 1 …they don’t remember the abuse he inflicted on me ,they have no bad memories,they are happy healthy kids ..l know l did the right thing
You did, girlfriend. Prayers for you and your children.
It's not that easy, sometimes it takes a while for you to realize that you have to protect your children from the person that is supposed to be doing just that.
I completely agree. I said this to myself. Being abused and watching his mother get abused caused him to be abusive. He was very much wrong for what he did to his mother, but you just don't know how abuse will affect a human being. Tragic.
Lo de la hoja es que no mames una hoja ah por qué lechuga tan bien chiquitita es así pues tan chiquitas pero hay que contar hoja por hoja tenemos que ponerse 6 hojas de o sea sacarse y soho de ahí y luego armó una montañita no otra montañita de la otra muy palita y agarrar otra lechuga de contar se hizo hojas e hizo hojas se hizo hoja no bien fastidioso y en el muchacho mañana el nuevo y pues ni hace nada no se nata nada no nada le regrese mañana no viene le dije hasta otra caja de lechuga Lo de la hoja es que nomás es una hoja ah porque lechuga tan así bien chiquititas así pues tan chiquitas pero hay que contar hoja por hoja tenemos que poner 6 hojas de o sea sacarseis hojas de ahí y luegarme a una montañita en la otra montañita y la otra montañita y agarrar otra leche voy a contar 6 hojas 6 hojas 6 hojas no bien fastidioso y el muchacho a mañana el nuevo y pues ni hace nada no se nata nada nada le sabes qué hay de mañana no viene le dije hasta otra caja de lechuga y pues yo haya entierro muchas cosas por lo menos quería porque luego no sé qué es que no no pero ella mismo
I’d rather be alone than have a relationship where my child is mistreated it does not condone what he did but his behaviour is learned.
Exactly.
Agreed. Am widowed for a few years, I don't bother dating. My full time job, raising my 2 kids keeps me very busy, happy,besides you don't know if they want to date you for you, or because you have kids they can abuse.
Ah, just started watching i was thinking that son did it the first time they said she disappeared. Now i was right
@@felicitywillboughby6901well, i m a mother of 3, got divorced when youngest was 5, got my second husband a year later, have been happily married for 20 years, if MY children have any trouble or smth to ask they call him. If i want them to do smth i ask my husband to ask them because they will never say no TO HIM. I think they love him more than me. So well, there ARE men who are there for u. The elder son is 32
@@felicitywillboughby6901 I read somewhere that your children are _20 times_ more likely to be abused when an unrelated person joins the household. I'm not suggesting that single parents shouldn't date, but don't bring that home to your children. Your first responsibility is to them.
Children FIRST - men LAST. I raised 3 kids alone and couldn't ask for better human beings.
I did also❤
Very true ! So many single moms out here today and for many years has been
100% AGREE
Awful that she was killed by her own child. Poor lady, and she was single too.
'"Children come first" what a fkng dmb comment apparently you missed tha whole fckg boat! It was NOT MEN who did her in. BUT YOUR LITTLE BABIES WHO COME FIRST.
What a waste of your life you lived . I didn't come into this world looking for children they came as a result of what I live my life for, which is the irreplaceable partner. A million kids CAN NOT replace that.
I’m not blaming her but staying with a partner who blatantly abuses your own child is just unacceptable.
Why are you not blaming her ?
She did not deserve to die but nobody should ever, ever allow someone to abuse their child.
I feel the hurt and the anger he must’ve held onto all his life which led to him killing his mother. No one abuses your child. He obviously felt unloved, betrayed by his own mother, and alone.
I agree. Unfortunately, she created him by putting him in that environment.
I totally blame her @@jintyc9133
Maybe Terry was deeply triggered when his mom seemed so nun-ya-business about having a new boyfriend; he had deep trauma from her ignoring the abuse he endured from her second husband. The whole "it's none of your business" nonchalance can probably feel like "I don't care what you think now, I didn't care back then either, I'll pick whichever man I want regardless of you or how they treat you."
We don't know what conversations they had that night. That was all made for t.v. conversations.
It’s wrong that he got first degree murder. It’s sad that his sisters are so angry with him. Apparently, they were not being abused as he was so they have no compassion for him. They idolize their mother who, basically, was unable to function without a man in her life even if that man was abusing a child repeatedly whom she had with a previous man. Of course she did not deserve to be murdered. No, it was not premeditated and, therefore, 2nd degree. She was guilty of egregious neglect to have allowed her son to be treated so badly.
Exactly!!!!
I grew up in a household where we were abused by my stepfather. My mom finally had the courage to leave. She lived in terror for far too long.
Well we can see where he learnt this. Resentment builds being exposed to violence if a child's not protected
THE GOOD THING IS THE SISTERS HAVE EACHOTHER ❤
He kept her car keys?? He wanted to get caught. Ladies, NEVER put a man ahead of your children! The damage is lifelong and devastating.
Now I'm 50 yrs old and my son is 24 I never have man in my life coz I don't want to be ruin by someone...I raised my son on my own until he finished college.. proud single parent here .
You had a man sometime or you wouldn't have a child.
@@streaming5332 She left the man and raised the child on her own
We must have been pregnant around the same time because I’m 50 but my son is 25. He didn’t graduate college but he still a good kid and he has his own 6 bedroom home and he is doing really good. Look at us proud mamas for life. Congratulations on your son. You did an amazing job 😘👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Same Here 🎉
Good on you, mama.♥️
She was not really a mother to him since she preferred staying with a man who violently abused him for years: a child living in terror when she could have stopped it. Her ''needs'' were her priority. Too bad he never got help to process such a toxic environment and deal with the accumulated rage. Unfortunate that eventually she had in turn, to experience the impact of such rage.
Lay off her - she DID get a divorce while girls were still small. What else do u want
@@bambinaforever1402she should’ve left that man immediately. That is the ultimate red flag. Period. Clearly she left him TOO late!
Don’t stay with someone that abuses you
Fact
The mother was not an innocent victim. She created the anger in her own child which ultimately caused her death.
Thank you. It is only so much abuse a person can take before they lash out in violence.
Teaching her daughters to "be independent, to not rely on anyone" then proceeds to show how that's not reality.
Her daughters could've reported her missing, too.
Excellent point!
So many complaints about the sound quality, yet I can hear it just fine.
I’m watching UA-cam on my TV though and I don’t have my volume set any higher than usual.
The audio balance could be better. Background "music" is too loud.
thanks for the useless comment. Keep up your useless existence.
The sound is pretty good actually so I'm a bit confused how ye can't hear it oh well maybe your TV is a bit fucked and needs assistance or maybe not lol ❤
I'm watching on my tablet and it's just fine.
It's mono sound. It's only one sided on my headphones. That's a bit stupid. 🙂
The first time for me mono sound on UA-cam.
She was a bad mother to him, and ignored the abuse he endured from her ex husband, but that does NOT excuse the fact he was depraved enough to murder his own mother.
I know a fair few people personally who have gone through worse abuse, both mental, physical, emotional even sexual…for years and by their own family members…they have still managed to become productive members of society and have chosen NOT to murder their mothers/abusers.
I get that everyone has different experiences and trauma is something you can never measure on a scale, but he is a murderer. Most people with trauma choose NOT to murder. He did. His mother did not deserve to die and he had no right to take her life away. He deserves to be in jail for the rest of his life.
@soldieron3935 I am so glad you wrote about all the people who have been abused during their childhoods but do not kill their abusers. And there are millions of us.
I knew it was him right from the beginning.
So did I.
As soon as i heard the sister talked, i def knew it ws him and nt the uncle
How did you know it was Terry?
How sad for this family.
She let her son (that young man) be singled out and abused for years, so if he did commit the crime, that semi makes sense to me. He committed the acts he witnessed and experienced firsthand.
But honestly, without further evidence other than those keys, it could be her crazy ex or that other guy.
I feel like this all stems from the mother ignoring red flags between the son and stepfather.
She saw them. She just didn't care. 🍆 Was too important to her
She did him wrong, he did her wrong and the real perpetrator living his life like nothing happened the stepfather
No it’s not acceptable that he killed his mother, but she had a responsibility to protect him first and didn’t!!!
Yea. ..blame the victim ...
Not defending the.son, but my brother suffered my dad being violent towards him, and I know that my mom's failure to protect him from that hurt him more than our father's abuse towards him. It was a profound betrayal by the person who should have protected him the most.
Your mama made beautiful babies, and loved absolutely. May God bless and keep your family until you meet again ❤😊🎉
how did she survive when MIKE who was suffering from cancer.... how did she eve make it after HE DIED....like it was So00o0o0o0o0o difficult for her......Could it be Karma???
Children will become a abuser if they dont recieve any help.. they just continue the cycle...its very sad..the kid never stood a chance and mom let him down... It doesnt excuse his killing her but it does explain why he had so much anger against her.
Or they don't have children at all.
She shouldn't have rushed to go out to meet a male friend(s) while her husband was in death bed.
Also, as soon as her husband passed away, wanting to get rid of her deeply tramumatized son as fast as she could to bring another guy into her house (her husband's originally, perhaps..) was her fatal mistake. I mourne for the lives of two victims, Terry and his mother's. From S.Korea.
Mothers that allow men to abuse their children are evil themselves. For some strange reason, I don't feel sorry for this woman. I feel sorry for her surviving family.
Her daughters mostly say nice things about her. They had to have seen their half-brother abuse
They full of shhhhhhhhit
Daughter says mother always put them first!!! With so many different men in and out of her life!!! 😮😮😮😢😢😢
The daughter is delusional and has no clue what being "put first" actually means. Since she had such a horrible role model, how could she think differently though? A strong woman would not have felt the need to marry men who are failures. She certainly would not have chosen to have children with them, thereby exposing them to a life of instability. Strong women do not remain with abusers; they don't stay with a man that abuses their children. They get out of the relationship and raise their children on their own, doing everything possible to ensure that their children are not subjected to abuse or neglect. 😡
When she said that she looked like she didn't even believe what she was saying 😏
i am a father. Here are my "RULES" that I wish EVERYONE would follow. I know from failing to do so myself.
If you're married/together before kids and are with the parent - then the PARENTS come first. You gotta maintain the foundation that produced the children.
If you're a mother OR father and you already have kids before the new relationshipt - the KIDS have to come first.
Whomever came first needs to stay first.
This all family is toxic, the " mother" let her child being abused by a stranger to him , and the sisters have not any sympathy for their brother ! The conclusion, even many facts about their behaviour towards him was not disclosed , is none of them had real feelings of love for him. I can't imagine how he would feel being the only unloved member of this family!
I agree. there most likely would be much more to disclose about his life and the dynamics within this family.
Agree. Especially them calling him half brother. My siblings by my mom are just my siblings. I thought kids from the paternal side would be considered half. Especially if they aren't raised together. Though I just call all my siblings' brothers and sisters. Not half. It shows love and respect in my opinion.
Exactly my thoughts
The daughters were spoilt and he was the scapegoat for abuse.
Why would you call them spoilt they both seem fine
Family dynamics I understand how each one treated differently .
Yes the daughters are fine because they were nurtured and loved .
Not so for the son
No way? She was not a good mother with her boy. His trauma of always preferring a man over him. 😔🕊🙏🏻
RIP🕯️🕊✝️🙏🏻
Its not first degree murder.
A crime of passion
Being strangled to death is horrific enough let alone being strangled to death my your own child! Im not victim blaming but to put anyone ahead of your childs safety is the next worse thing to murder. Its astounding how many "moms" allow men to abuse their children.
I call BS to everyone putting all the blame on the mother. He was a grown man.
Was looking for 1sane mindset....how can a grown man be living with his mom in this era?
For goodness sake she raised them and loved them,why couldnt they give her a break at her 50's.
Most parents abandons their children and bury their pain in drugs and alcohol
It’s a thin line between love and hate.
The opposite is actually indifference. Love/hate means you care. Indifference means you don't.
I feel love for everything in this world every day and have never felt hate. For me there is no thin line. 💕☀️🙂
HER KIDS ARE GROWN THEY SHOULD FILE FOR MISSING PERSON NOT HER BRO..PPL HAVE SOME BRAIN ..
❤❤❤ Sorry but she should have protected her child. I feel sorry for him.❤❤❤
The son is very scary looking! Sad , sad story....
It hits totally different having my closest brother of 36 years murdered in 2020. I don't think I could be asked all these questions without breaking down. I totally hate the fact that I can relate to that kind of pain. It really sucks. But, sadly. I can relate..............................................................
Why all the blaming of mom being the cause of his bad behavior. What about his father?
In reality I learned one fact from women's shelter.
It takes on average 7attempts to finally leave abusive relationship.
Thous who never been in one are lucky,but also judgemental towards victims ability to leave safely.
Mg personal motivation to leave was children's school who called the alarm and I had to choose lie or protect my children.
I chose children.
But still carry guilt every day that I wasn't able to leave sooner.
You've done the right thing mumma, may your future be better.
Well said. I'm glad you're safe now. People who haven't been through it, have no idea what they're talking about. I wish you all the very best 🩷
so weird about the purse and $3000.
We need to stop the victim blaming. Wrong is wrong.
I'm watching all my phone and I can hear just fine.It's free i'm not going to complain.
Some people like to complain when there’s nothing to complain about
😊 22:54 😊 23:03 @@samdoors5132
I am on my phone in bed ,Sound is FINE ! Maybe you need a hearing aid .❤
He is not really evil. His mom created him. Like that. Let your man lay a hand on him.
Many of my moms boyfriends abused my siblings & I. We went through far worse than physical abuse as well, just like millions of others. You can't point blame when someone turns into a cold blooded killer.
@@Ams_5590 sorry to hear what they did to you and you siblings. If I hear that I'm so mad at your mom. What the H she let them hurt you guys! Your mom to blame. In this case this guy is not that evil. Some time is self defense
Hopefully the real officer who found the van would wear gloves when opening the door and picking up the mom's phone.
good video well done except the loud background music drowns out the sound quality.
The amount of commets that say "not victim blaming but .." or "not saying it's her fault but .." is absolutely disgusting. I hope none of those people ever have to be in am abusive relationship & if they do I hope they have the willpower, support & all around ability to leave, ESPECIALLY if an innocent child is also being abused. My mother brought countless men & boyfriends into mine & ky siblings lives, who not only beat her but also us, verbally & mentally abused us, one rap3d my oldest sister, another rap3d my mother in the same room he forced me into a corner of to watch & told me if I moved or looked away I was next, one forced alcohol down my throat at age 3, one stabbed my mom 27 times as he told her he had to get her out of the way to get to my 2nd oldest sister, who miraculously saved my mothers life. There was 6 of us kids, we all grew up to be very loving, helpful & generous people who couldn't intentionally hurt a soul. There's zero excuse for this dudes actions & I'm sick of seeing people sympathize with murderers. Yes the kid went through some years of abuse that left trauma but many more go through far worse & manage to go on without murdering anyone, let alone their own mother. Idc what anyone says, if he was able to do what he did he had it in him regardless what he went through. How anyone can judge an abused woman for not leaving her abuser fast enough, but can coddle someone who brutally took the life of the very woman who gave him life, is disgusting. And don't tell me I have diuble standards. I know what it's like to grow up in an abusive home at the hands of my mothers many men, and I know how hard it is to leave a domestic situation. There is never a justifiable excuse for this kind of murder, period.
It's a sad fact that some people who are abused will themselves become violent and even homicidal at a point in their lives. Response to trauma is complex, and although you say the son may have had it in him to kill, that possible inclination may have stayed dormant if he weren't traumatized by the abuse. This story is tragic for all involved.
The volume is really low
I agree he should do something about it it's irritating
Hahaha! George Foreman grill 😂 !!! Rotfl !!! 😂
I'm only getting sound in one headphone
I thought there was something wrong with my headphones for a minute
I had no problems with my speakers. Sound/volume was fine.
We 5 sisters were abused by our parent, especially mum bcox dad was hardly at home, that stopped at the age 10, then it went on with ONLY verbally abuse,screaming,yelling,shouting,its always our fault no matter what
Today,i am a mum of 2 healthy and beautiful children, 13 and 8 yrs old. My marriage broke after 18 years and i met a new guy, also divorced with 2 grown up kids
I have told him from the very first day, my children are my everything. Do not raise your voice at ME or my kids, do not lay your hands on US!
4 years on with him,i am so thankful having him as my partner. A lovely kindhearted gentleman❤
I've never heard of siblings with the same mother call each other half siblings. The separation was there as well. Smh.
In real life, Neither have I. Mexicans don't say "half" or "1st 2nd cousin"
the hurt on Waynes face when he cries I wanna hug him 😭
I grew up being abused by my father but never thought about killing my mother. Anger doesn’t resolve anything. Her son was a failure with himself but he wanted to blame her for his own problems.
You need to keep in mind that the violence was directed specifically towards him. It seems the two girls were safe. Having been in the same situation I've never wanted my mother dead, but her allowing me to be abused has caused a deep seated anger that I feel 40 years later & which I won't let her forget
He didn’t plan it I guess. But I would never let a men lay a finger on my kids. They have to go thru me first. No one going to hit my kid
Ignorant comment.
@@fabiwilliams4644then leave her alone why go on to mentality abuse her how does that make it feel any better
He was abused because he was biracial.
He was a Vet and could have gotten help at the V.A. for Anger. I Guarantee in Time HE Will Be Crying Those Deep Painful Tears.
Please consider close captioning your videos for those who have problems hearing. Thank you🌹
The past of the child s abuse led him to inside anger and he acted out from what was done to him!
You ladies, calm down. We had never knew what she’d gone thru.
May she rest in peace
Yeah, hopping from man to man
So no local family bothered to drive around near her house and spot the van a few miles away.
I’ve often had male friends. Society can’t believe it but men and women can be good friends with no romance!
You'll be astonished, to know the percentage of children, just greedy, sickening ungrateful children who are even grandparents themselves,ready to kill their own mother over money... It's unbelievable.😔😔😔😔😔😔
Thanks ~
Poor Wayne 😢
Sister said he is evil, but I think his mom helped him become evil.
Shows the intelligence of the cop in the case.....past tense of drag is dragged.....not drug.
I didn't know dragged is word😫
No matter what they'd been through prior, Terry had no right to viciously strangle his own mother who loved him and take her away from his two beautiful sisters. Unforgivable and incredibly sad. So sorry for Tabitha and Ann. 💕🌸
His mother let him down when he was a defenseless child. She did not protect him, instead choose her man over her own flesh and blood. I don't understand why women chose having a man over their children. Very sad.
Volume is okey ..
Unfortunately, you see this too often. Women not able to leave their abusive Partners. Sometimes the biological father and sometimes the stepfather. No one has the right to take anybody's life. But what happens to your children has a whole lot to do with what they do as adults? It is a pparent responsibility at least one to defend their kids.
99% of the time when auto of missing person is found within 3 miles of their home then its a male family member that murdered them.
Why is this show dragging innocent people into suspicion when the case was far more straightforward that whats been made out. Dramatic and wrong.
Agreed.
Rest in peace’🙏
Mama was beautiful so her beautiful daughters ! What a family tragedy. Such a sad story ! I believe the girls will always remember their Loving Mother !!!!
A loving mother won't let her boyfriends, husbands or whatever abuse their child. Ever.
She was selfish. And her selfishness created a monster.
Children look at you like the protector, if this fails. The impact is enormous and for life in the child life as an adult
Djeez his sisters knew wat their mother created , to me they are nothing less than the mother that let her love interest abuse their brother.
That poor man Wayne's heart has shattered. I believe he loves her but probably she doesnt want to be with him.
He could have gone on with his life instead of killing his momma!
The sound comes and goes.
Mama's, your babies come first. If they are being abused by your partner, it's your responsibility to leave. Otherwise, you're guilty of abuse too. What Terry did was so wrong, but I do hope his ex-wife and sister's can eventually see this from the highest branch on the tree and offer him compassion. The unhealed part of him that lead him to do what he did deserves love. You can tell he was a good and kind child and abuse can for real change the chemistry in your brain. Rest in peace Edwardyne💔🥀🕊
Its harder to leave an abusive man because they are good a promising to change and they spoil you for a few weeks then its on again.
Agree with your comment 100% I've experienced this for over 38 years. Finally my arse woke up, it's been 1 month since I left, lots of triggers but I'm taking 1 day at a time and I'm happy. If I can help 1 person to make the decision to leave then my job is done
It's called breadcrumbs. Very common in abusive relationships. String you along for years
Being 38 now and recently separated unlike my mom I will never Choose a man over my kids . End of !! Ppl take for granted the emotional and mental damage you do to kids by staying with toxic kids . Always choose your kids
Men are adults who can take care of themselves 🎯
You poor girls 😢😢
Good
Why do so many stepfather's hate their stepson's?
cause they cant stand a male rival in the household.. its no excuse for murder though.. Terry could of just had nothing to do with his mom.. if his resentment went that deep for his mother he should of just left
I knew it was the son the first time I started watching it!! Smdh 😢
No problem with volume.
children should always come first, (but i did found the music to loud).
It’s easy to say “protect your children” if you’ve never experienced domestic violence.
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This isbso sad
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Terry I'm sorry you went through that.
I'm sorry for the girls and I'm sorry for mom.
This is very sad
Sigh. Found 3/4 of a mile from her house. Could have found her sooner with a proper search.
Volume only works on left side
Geez he looks evil and devilish!!
I'm going to put this out there, as moms we have one job. The one daughter said that her mom would do anything for her, but obviously defending her children was not one of those things? Or just the girls and not her son? I grew up in a house exactly like this, my father was absolutely horrible to my brother, that affects a child. To know that the one person in the world that is supposed to protect you always, care's more about the man in her life then her child. I'm not saying she deserved to die at all what he did was wrong, however for those girls to sit there and judge him having no idea what he went through is wrong as well. I'm not saying they shouldn't blame him, but they should also look at the entirety of the situation and their mother's fault in it. Mother's protect your children, that is our job.
This woman was obsessed with having a man at the expense of her children. Sons are more protective of their mothers. You can imagine his resentment when she refused to leave his abuser and protect him. He was probably treated as an outcast being mixed and his sisters didn’t seem close to him. During his divorce the mother’s focus was still on spending time with another male ‘friend’. Rather than support him. That’s probably when the rage set in. Mothers who prioritise abusive partners often create abusive/killer sons.
I would love to know what evidence they had. I know the keychain, and I thought it was him from the beginning. I just would like to know what else they had that led to his conviction.
He def got what he deserved. I see a lot of commemts about him being abused, and that is horrible and im sure it impacted him badly. HOWEVER, he was in the military where help was certainly available. His wife clearly knew there were issues with him but he didn't want help to fix his rage and anger. Idk what he was doing at the time of her death but he did nothing to change himself. Abuse is horrible i know personally but him using that as a crutch to treat the women he cared for like punching bags is ridiculous! He was living in her home, where im sure she recognized he was angry and he scared her. This horrible act was his fault alone. He could have gotten help but he didn't want to. He enjoyed making women scared akd powerless. 1st degree murder justified but jmo.
Prayers to the sisters and their families. ❤❤