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  • In a country where people can own two or three homes, these are the stories of those who don’t have one.
    All three girls and their families have endured the emotional trauma of being thrown out of their homes. With nowhere to go they are absorbed into the hidden world of bed and breakfasts, hotels, safe houses and temporary accommodation. With all of their belongings locked away in storage the girls are literally left with the clothes they stand in.
    Living in overcrowded and cramped conditions often miles away from school and friends, the fate of homeless families falls to anonymous council departments who judge and decide if they deserve to be helped and housed. If they are found “Intentionally Homeless” then the Council can remove them from its homelessness statistics, and no longer has a responsibility to house them beyond 28 days in a B&B. Shelter and other charities have seen that the numbers found “intentionally homeless” have increased considerably since central government instructed Councils to “reduce homelessness”.
    Meanwhile the impact on families and children are devastating. The children in particular face isolation, social exclusion and bullying; they may also miss months of schooling.
    Home is something we don’t fully appreciate until it is taken away, its not until this happens that you understand just how important it really is, and how bleak and terrifying life can be with No Home.
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  • @afiqahaishah9651
    @afiqahaishah9651 3 роки тому +2624

    When the father took off the posters and said 'hes lost too much' about his son, my heart broke into a million pieces. He is as strong as a lion, a real father.

    • @megramos2888
      @megramos2888 3 роки тому +56

      I'm bawling my eyes out. Any update? Omg. I feel sick.

    • @cindymorgan5280
      @cindymorgan5280 3 роки тому +42

      I cried when he took those posters down too heart breaking stong man

    • @carolinewhitehead7530
      @carolinewhitehead7530 3 роки тому +11

      Yes;/

    • @bhartisingh5296
      @bhartisingh5296 3 роки тому +52

      Trust me this guy is really trying....he soooooo strong, and his hearts is sooo pure....mummy please be strong....

    • @brandonfaubert7180
      @brandonfaubert7180 3 роки тому +32

      I just seen that part as I started into the comments. I think he is a strong man that has been beaten down by a broken system

  • @aussiechic4219
    @aussiechic4219 7 років тому +4179

    Not all homeless people are scumbags. I worked for 30 years until I got sick and lost everything I worked so hard for and became homeless. Nobody knows what's around the corner. it's been 2 years and my son and I are still in emergency accommodation waiting for housing. Never in a million years did I think I would be in this situation. It really can happen to anyone so don't be so judgemental people because one day it may be you.

    • @BritneyWaldron
      @BritneyWaldron 6 років тому +172

      Aussie Chic Agree. People think that their life will be picture perfect for the rest of their lives....but thats far from true. You could get into an accident or suffer a heart attack.

    • @tyronesunde8314
      @tyronesunde8314 6 років тому +49

      What did you learn? What would you have done differently? Would you have bought a long-term disability policy? Maybe a healthy fear of being homeless when you were not homeless would have resulted in a different outcome.

    • @kabo0m
      @kabo0m 6 років тому +90

      People do not realize until they go through it themselves. Some people will never realize but think they realize by watching. I feel for the families. Some life situations can land you in the cracks of life and screw your life up and feel like no way out.

    • @purplerainxox4234
      @purplerainxox4234 6 років тому +94

      This comment is the most honest and empathetic I’ve seen so far❤️life can change dramatically without warning.walk a mile in my shoes and then judge!👌🏻

    • @skapunk7024
      @skapunk7024 6 років тому +38

      Aussie Chic very true statement my dear I couldn't say it better myself I live in America and rent is very high I'm in a good place right now but before it gets worse I'm thinking of getting the van and making that my home and then that will save me you should try to get the van and living it live off the grid

  • @hollythecrossstitchaddict83
    @hollythecrossstitchaddict83 Рік тому +574

    That dad is what REAL dad's are about. The support he gives his kids is unbelievable. My heart breaks for all of them.

    • @milvertonmom50
      @milvertonmom50 Рік тому +12

      hmmm...interesting POV. I think REAL dads (and mums) get a freakin' job and pay their rent/mortgage. What is this dude doing all day? Comforting the emotional wreak of a mum. How about look for a job in the meantime?

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Рік тому +9

      Real dads provide.

    • @Charlie-bh3yk
      @Charlie-bh3yk Рік тому +27

      If he worked while his wife was mentally unwell and couldn’t cope, the children would’ve most certainly have gone into foster care eventually and as someone abused in that system myself, I can attest to the fact it’s a terrible place to be.
      As a psychotherapist, I’m sad to see such a lack of empathy or understanding from you both, it must be wonderful to be perfect!

    • @hollythecrossstitchaddict83
      @hollythecrossstitchaddict83 Рік тому +1

      @@Charlie-bh3yk I do have empathy

    • @charlottewalker-zt3dc
      @charlottewalker-zt3dc 10 місяців тому +8

      @@milvertonmom50you know nothing, my dad &mum are the best. Please keep you’re negative comments to yourself!!!

  • @DstyShsty
    @DstyShsty 2 роки тому +463

    I love that dad. Especially when he keeps saying one more bite like 7 times. Total parent move. He got her to eat so much more with that clever trick. He’s definitely holding that whole family together. Just hope they get everything they need and deserve.

    • @marieboldmere1939
      @marieboldmere1939 Рік тому +23

      All of these people through no fault of their own, have found themselves homeless, seem to be such solid, decent people. The problem is the system, and the way the authorities lack real purpose to rectify the situation. You would expect that they would take a real look at the situation; the determination of the father to support his ff mily

    • @marieboldmere1939
      @marieboldmere1939 Рік тому +8

      family, and do everything possible to help an obviously, genuinely good family unit.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Рік тому +5

      Why isnt it their fault? Their choices and decisions have consequences.

    • @aversivespider
      @aversivespider Рік тому +3

      40 years ago, these families would have a council house...... but of course they've all been sold off. One of the worst of Thatchers policies which still has an impact now.

    • @charlottewalker-zt3dc
      @charlottewalker-zt3dc 10 місяців тому +4

      My dads our rock ❤

  • @timhyatt9374
    @timhyatt9374 4 роки тому +2362

    As a father myself, I respect Charlotte's dad so much. If I'm considered even a fraction of a man that he is, I would be happy.

    • @Kousaburo
      @Kousaburo 3 роки тому +49

      My drunken rat of a father once walked off a job because there was a pub over the road.

    • @emilywoodcock9040
      @emilywoodcock9040 3 роки тому +81

      Totally agree. He actually made me cry, such a lovely guy, wish I had one like him.

    • @Ecst3r
      @Ecst3r 3 роки тому +1

      Haa was
      B hi

    • @fludderkiddie
      @fludderkiddie 3 роки тому +52

      And as an American, this documentary is an amazing and foreign concept: that a homeless shelter/center can take the counsel to court for letting a family with children be homeless for a night...That’s so far from what we have here IDK if I should be happy for these families or nauseous with envy, or resentful of Mr Columbus..or all 3... this reminds me of when I was pregnant with my son and worked FT right up 3 days up until his birth (not at a desk, either-I was a bartender) and returned 3.5 weeks later due to the whole “if I don’t work I don’t get paid” thing ). I was told that in the UK the Mother AND Father (?!) are given several weeks paid leave(?!) regardless of what type of work they do to be able to acclimate to being parents(?!) and actually Bond (?!?!) with their children(?!) as a family (?!?!). I’d like to thank this documentary for Reminding me to renew my passport this yr...

    • @fludderkiddie
      @fludderkiddie 3 роки тому +37

      All that being said: my heart aches for Charlotte-being barely a teenager and suffering from constant fear of being punished by CPS for hitting hard times. THAT seems like a very unfortunate thing that we have in common..hearing her and her father’s fears have MY heart racing..

  • @charlottewalker11
    @charlottewalker11 6 років тому +3681

    It’s amazing and quite sickening some of these comments on here wow!! My mum is a beautiful strong amazing woman. She has over come her illness and is doing amazing.
    Bet half of these vile comments are off people that have never been in a desperate situation not noting were your going to sleep at night.
    Let’s all just remember this documentary was filmed 11 years ago I’m now 25 years old

    • @charlottewalker11
      @charlottewalker11 6 років тому +252

      Thankyou x

    • @marshmellow989
      @marshmellow989 5 років тому +314

      Most people do not understand what post natal depression and mental illness is.
      I Can't believe that people on here have labelled you're mum as useless etc. That does not help the situation at all.
      I am very happy that your Mother is doing well. I am sure she will go from strength to strength which will allow her to enjoy precious family time.

    • @darlenepaul2934
      @darlenepaul2934 5 років тому +168

      I hope you your siblings and mom and dad are all well I love your family.May God bless you all!

    • @Ma-cn7yn
      @Ma-cn7yn 5 років тому +60

      Charlotte Walker what illness? Heroin addiction

    • @unapologeticallywhite7920
      @unapologeticallywhite7920 5 років тому +122

      Charlotte you have a beautiful and loving family, I hope everything worked out well for all of you.Sending love from the U.S.

  • @megancarter9997
    @megancarter9997 Рік тому +135

    I’ve rarely cried during a documentary but that father tracing down his son’s pictures just put me over the edge.

    • @shanac5536
      @shanac5536 11 місяців тому +3

      Yup that broke me

    • @Andi-ix5bc
      @Andi-ix5bc 3 місяці тому

      Too much grown ups crying instead of being strong.

  • @annapurna9893
    @annapurna9893 2 роки тому +153

    That man is truly the definition of what a father should be. What an incredible human being. I truly hope their family are doing better and are happy. It’s atrocious there are people going through times like this in first world countries.

  • @tinyass2007
    @tinyass2007 6 років тому +1143

    Nothing but respect for the father keeping his family together. Such an emotional rollercoaster for these families.

    • @gimoloverie7008
      @gimoloverie7008 5 років тому +26

      I agree amizing husband and father

    • @ella-bt8hp
      @ella-bt8hp 5 років тому +35

      He really is a good father isn't he. There are dads out there who are successful financially but don't have a fraction of the bond they have with there father.

    • @yay-3012
      @yay-3012 5 років тому +2

      He sucks as a father it’s his fault he doesn’t work hard enough for his family

    • @yay-3012
      @yay-3012 5 років тому +4

      He sucks the man doesn’t work 2 years no excuse

    • @dadob8458
      @dadob8458 5 років тому +27

      @@yay-3012 You suck as a human

  • @Tina06019
    @Tina06019 7 років тому +1180

    Charlotte's father is a REAL DAD.
    He hasn't given up on his very sick wife, he did everything he could to keep his family together and hid children out of "care." And finally, after what? almost 2 years? He did it - he got his family back into a house. I would be proud to have a friend like him.
    Bad things happen to people, and the measure of a decent society is how we care for our most vulnerable members. Unfortunately social services are not oriented towards keeping men with their wives and children!
    And WHAT ON EARTH does it mean to call people "intentionally homeless?" That is just crude and nasty.

    • @billjoe39
      @billjoe39 6 років тому +51

      The 'intentionally homeless' label was invented by Thatcherite bureaucrats who themselves are 'intentionally' molly coddled by government largess

    • @outlawJosieFox
      @outlawJosieFox 6 років тому +37

      Tina being homeless causes mental health problems. You are so right. I wish more people were as decent as you are.

    • @chany6336
      @chany6336 5 років тому +28

      Unfortunately there are a small amount of people that do not pay rent intentionally, get evicted and then try and claim a house of the council. If it can be proven that they had the means, did something illegal (in this case the family s friend housed them illegally) or that they had no intention of trying to sort it out (by avoiding all contact and not replying to letters etc) it is deemed they are intentionally homeless and even with children, are not eligible for housing benefits.
      And that sadly spoils it for the rest of them that are in genuine need.

    • @vhead612
      @vhead612 5 років тому +13

      29:23 where Charlotte's little Rosy baby sister is sleeping covered by her dads jacket! So sweet.

    • @Irene-gq4jr
      @Irene-gq4jr 5 років тому +5

      Well said Tina, all of it.

  • @cbricks9326
    @cbricks9326 Рік тому +80

    The other day I was complaining that it was cold in the house so I just went and turned the heat up, then I watched this. Seeing that girl with chattering teeth sitting in the cold with her family, having no where to go, made me burst into tears. I take so very much for granted. It’s so sad and heartbreaking for these families.

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp 11 місяців тому +4

      Indeed we forget how lucky we are.

  • @leeshOxox
    @leeshOxox 2 роки тому +336

    This man is amazing. What a fantastic father and husband he is. The way he’s supporting his wife through her depression is so admirable. I hope this family are doing ok now 💔

    • @getout9728
      @getout9728 Рік тому +4

      @Donnell Okafor Because they can't afford it.

    • @KonohazFinest
      @KonohazFinest Рік тому +2

      I wish my wife was like that she ended our 15 year relationship and now I feel utterly destroyed and lost.

    • @vanessaarnell
      @vanessaarnell Рік тому +5

      @@KonohazFinest I'm so sorry for your loss. Even though she didn't pass it still a loss. Things will get better. Stay safe and merry Christmas.

    • @KonohazFinest
      @KonohazFinest Рік тому +2

      @@vanessaarnell I appreciate the kind words. Your husband is a very lucky man to have someone like you.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Рік тому +1

      Maybe he should provide

  • @davegrant9310
    @davegrant9310 4 роки тому +779

    If every man in the world had the courage and stamina of this father, we would be living in a perfect world.

    • @barbarabee5734
      @barbarabee5734 4 роки тому +23

      lesser men would have just run away and abandoned the family, this man is trying his best.

    • @davegrant9310
      @davegrant9310 4 роки тому +4

      Gold School If only everyone in the world was as blessed as your good self and able to look into the future.

    • @goldschool3077
      @goldschool3077 4 роки тому +6

      Dave Grant I concede Brother. I am grateful this man was able to find a way out of poverty

    • @davegrant9310
      @davegrant9310 4 роки тому +4

      Gold School Thank you for taking my reply in the right frame of mind my friend. In this day and age and the hardships a lot of the population is feeling just now it would be easy to kick a man when he is down but I feel you have a good heart. Take care and be safe 👍

    • @susanleitch8649
      @susanleitch8649 3 роки тому +4

      Bless the dad... he's trying so hard to keep his family together. Perhaps the hard choice would be to put the younger ones into care and then go from there. Get his wife that help and then go forward. Once he can find a home they can get those kids back. Surely there is a way. I hope it works out for them , I really do.

  • @roisinregansheehan5866
    @roisinregansheehan5866 7 років тому +436

    I find the young man who is the father of the five kids (whose partner and mother to their children is so heart-breakingly ill with depression) positively extraordinary in his commitment to his family. What a remarkable man.

    • @vanyeen8210
      @vanyeen8210 6 років тому +26

      RoisinRegan Sheehan honestly that bit was so touching. He holds everybody together and to see him break down hurt my heart

    • @denisejohnson4037
      @denisejohnson4037 6 років тому +13

      not everyone is built to go through stressful, and depressing, situations. Stuff like this really shows what a person is made of.

    • @lifeafterj8060
      @lifeafterj8060 5 років тому +3

      RoisinRegan Sheehan exactly that is truly a real man !

    • @igentbk9232
      @igentbk9232 5 років тому +1

      One can be depressed or in despair in a difficult life situation without the symptoms of clinical depression. Respect, people in the world nowadays especially the western world are so naive and probably will not miss the water before the well is suddenly dry.

  • @shelleyannbeme
    @shelleyannbeme Рік тому +104

    To refuse a child their medicine is beyond cruel. I have asthma and I can't even imagine not having the medicine that helps keep me alive.😰

  • @Lassieandfriends2019
    @Lassieandfriends2019 2 роки тому +611

    “Intentionally homeless” yet it was the government who caused them to loose the house? Gosh I’m glad I live in Australia. While we do have a homeless problem, it is no where near to the scale of other countries and our homeless have much more options available. This made me so mad! I cannot believe people are treated this way in a country that’s royal family can hold a £25M royal wedding!!

    • @pameladiamond9603
      @pameladiamond9603 Рік тому

      You hit the nail on the head! Utterly disgusting. The Conservative party who are in government in the UK only care about the healthy and the wealthy. Whilst people were losing their businesses during COVID and confined to their homes, couldn't even see their dying loved ones our so called Government were partying it up breaking every rule they made! What's done about it NOTHING! Every one of those politicians should be in jail. People are living in these conditions in 21st Century Britain is disgraceful and every politician should be ashamed but they don't care.

    • @kazania7653
      @kazania7653 Рік тому +56

      I've recently just watched a documentary about the rental crisis in Australia and ppl living in tents

    • @juliet7703
      @juliet7703 Рік тому +4

      Ashlee Alyce you said it!!!

    • @Lassieandfriends2019
      @Lassieandfriends2019 Рік тому +15

      @@kazania7653 yes in the recent months here unfortunately rent has gone through the roof after covid causing an issue, but there are many government funded housing projects in play and being built right now to try to combat it. Unfortunately covid has hit aus hard, just like everywhere else causing alot of people to have to sell their investment properties and so forth and demand is currently outweighing resource. Though homeless here are much better taken care of and even though some are living in tents, they are given free food, tents, blow-up or foam mattresses, bedding, clothes, shoes, personal care items amongst alot of other things for free. There shouldn't be a homeless crisis in ANY country in the first world at all. Though we tend to treat our homeless a lot differently to alot of other places in the world and even now with our "crisis" the percentages of homeless are far lower still than most other western countries.

    • @ameliashostak4764
      @ameliashostak4764 Рік тому +15

      I JUST finished watching like a 7 video series on how bad it is in Australia as well. That's actually how I came across this video. People living in sheds, IF they're lucky, or living in the bush...it's crazy! Huge families of 7 or more kids living in someones garage! It was really difficult to watch because those people had the same exact stories like the people in this video.

  • @zerogaming566
    @zerogaming566 2 роки тому +419

    😮 THAT man is literally carrying his entire family (children and wife 5ppl) on his shoulders. Kids aged 3-16, with a mother that is not mentally available to help out. This man needs an platinum award. Father

    • @morganablackwater2017
      @morganablackwater2017 Рік тому +51

      He also needs help... That wife needs help... Its so heartbreaking to watch...

    • @Julia36D
      @Julia36D Рік тому

      That wife needs to pull her finger out instead of sitting around smoking and crying. She has four children she made and is letting them down

    • @persephone2268
      @persephone2268 Рік тому

      The mother needs mental health/ medications and then to get a job. Same as the 16 yr old. Family should work together.

    • @SandyMay61
      @SandyMay61 Рік тому +3

      Absolutely!

    • @suziewoozie9006
      @suziewoozie9006 Рік тому +9

      What a fantastic father that man is looking after his wife who obviously needs help and keeping so strong for those children absolutely heartbreaking to watch what has happened to this country 😢

  • @BobbyManford
    @BobbyManford 4 роки тому +674

    Lee, the father of that family is a hero. He’s the glue that keeps that family together,

    • @leenliannewalker3517
      @leenliannewalker3517 3 роки тому +11

      Thankyou.

    • @EI_24
      @EI_24 3 роки тому +11

      @@leenliannewalker3517 your an amazing man and i have so Much respect for how you kept strong and kept fighting for your family. The way you took care of your partner when she was unwell was touching even though you yourself were going through a rough time you stayed strong and was a rock for everyone in your family. Your awesome!

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 3 роки тому

      Really?

    • @EI_24
      @EI_24 3 роки тому +1

      @@blobbyblob2573 yes REALLY!

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 3 роки тому

      @@EI_24 they should have bought a house before kids 😂 😂. Now 🤐

  • @lilianetv1482
    @lilianetv1482 Рік тому +30

    This is what a true man is. He stands through good and bad times and does not hide out..he goes through it all with them until the fight is over..love how he comforts the children and his woman..

  • @kyboogz6473
    @kyboogz6473 Рік тому +47

    their friend is so pure. you can tell they dont have much either and the fact she had to put her friends out was heartbreaking for her

    • @philtwowheels
      @philtwowheels Рік тому +6

      Should be illegal, if you pay the rent you can have whoever you want stay for a while, what harm does it do? Hope those self important landlords get their comeuppance.

  • @martyboyfan
    @martyboyfan 3 роки тому +349

    I worked for a hotel that would take in women and their children from the women's shelter when they were full. I would always buy snacks for the kids from the vending machines and even a lot of our guests would. I worked night shift so a lot of the times the mother's would sit in the lobby and talk to me. I hugged many women and cried with them. But always told them how proud I was of them for leaving their abusers and would give them a list of resources in the town that could help them. People need to have more compassion. I will never tell someone how to handle a situation I have never been in myself because I do not know how I would handle it if I were in it. It doesn't take much to be nice to people ❤️

    • @gardenjoy5223
      @gardenjoy5223 3 роки тому +12

      Well done, Barbie! We need more kindhearted people like you, who actually do their best to comfort and help.

    • @corrinnacorrinna5572
      @corrinnacorrinna5572 3 роки тому +4

      Well said.

    • @raherateika9859
      @raherateika9859 3 роки тому +3

      Love it 👍

    • @tiliasp.5137
      @tiliasp.5137 2 роки тому +6

      Thank you so much for being such a kind soul, the worlds needs you.

    • @banbans859
      @banbans859 2 роки тому +4

      That is super nice of them to give you work. Ya some ppl think easy, just get a job and pay rent. But getting job is not easy.

  • @wisdamnmaglangit3965
    @wisdamnmaglangit3965 3 роки тому +404

    Protect that father at all cost the world needs him, his family is so strong

  • @ludmyllasanchez1036
    @ludmyllasanchez1036 Рік тому +24

    This doc deserves an update,not only for the families shown but also as a general update on the homeless crisis in the UK

  • @crochetbyrhiannon
    @crochetbyrhiannon Рік тому +87

    This is utterly heartbreaking. This was 16 years ago and nothing has changed. Housing should be a fundamental human right - the way these people are treated is so incredibly dehumanising and unfair. I hope their lives have improved as time has passed. These are all intelligent emotionally astute human beings, they're no different from anyone else yet they have to endure stress most of us luckily could never imagine.

    • @alis4650gls
      @alis4650gls Рік тому +4

      Your right nothing has changed

    • @papichuckle
      @papichuckle 11 місяців тому

      Nothing changes because the British public are cowards that refuse to fight back and also the rich boomer landlords need to be abolished

    • @vtrmcs
      @vtrmcs 11 місяців тому +2

      That would be such a simple way to explain this away. I agree the situations depicted here are dehumanising and unfair, but how can housing be a fundamental human right? That notion is illogical. In modern times, there are simply too many people in the world and not enough habitable land, which is causing not only these problems, but climate problems, yet nobody wants to speak about it, because the real solution is so unspeakable. It doesn't make the reality any less true.
      People worldwide are choosing to have kids with either no or limited means to support them. They give no regard to the eventual consequences on either themselves, or the planet. Nothing is a human right, we are just animals, like all the others. "Human rights" are just made up by well meaning but misguided unrealistic people. The more the idea of human rights is pushed, the more poorly educated people suffer because they believe the narrative and think their acts are without consequence. The irony is, by promoting those ideas en masse in an uncontrolled way, it's creating more and more human suffering worldwide. Famine, lack of housing, lack of education, it's been a global issue for decades and despite countless billions thrown at the situation, it gets worse and worse. The next big (massive) thing is going to be water, not housing. There isn't enough to go around. Is water a human right too? Try telling that to the planet, which has a finite amount of it.
      I feel so entirely sorry for the kids in this equation, because all the made up human rights in the world don't give them a better actual existence. They didn't ask to be born. The can gets kicked down the road by so called "humanitarians". Nobody in power wants to tackle the actual root causes, they just want to pretend they care, win votes and bank the cash.
      A true humanitarian is looking 50-100 years from now, not at oil or petroleum products, but at water, or rather the lack of it.

    • @crochetbyrhiannon
      @crochetbyrhiannon 10 місяців тому

      @@vtrmcs That's sure a lot of words for a load of bullshit. You're not a good person, nor are you intelligent. you aren't misunderstood, you're just an embarrassment. This mortifying word salad being one indication.

  • @sarahpitcher4615
    @sarahpitcher4615 7 років тому +433

    The father trying to take the boys' posters with him and crying at the beginning broke my heart

  • @nxdime2892
    @nxdime2892 4 роки тому +432

    After watching this video I realised how grateful I am

    • @shahniwiki2298
      @shahniwiki2298 3 роки тому +4

      Finally a comment with reading

    • @chloehaves1788
      @chloehaves1788 3 роки тому +5

      Me too 😔

    • @mishamagik6594
      @mishamagik6594 3 роки тому +2

      🙏

    • @annaszdidi1355
      @annaszdidi1355 3 роки тому +2

      many space in my house...so many empty bedroom..and yet many more are homeless..

    • @LaWendeltreppe
      @LaWendeltreppe 3 роки тому

      Me too. Although I am not sure, if I could really say, this could never happen in my ccountry. Homeless people here are always elder single men. Never heard of families being homeless.

  • @jannananaa
    @jannananaa Рік тому +22

    This father is the literal glue holding this family together. I pray for this entire family and that things get easier for all of them. And that mental health gets better as well ❤️

  • @charlottewalker-zt3dc
    @charlottewalker-zt3dc 2 місяці тому +16

    Can’t believe how long ago this documentary was, I just wanted to say a huge thank you for all your lovely comments and well wishes! I appreciate you all! ❤

    • @melancholypearls
      @melancholypearls Місяць тому +1

      How are things now? I hope everything has picked up and you are all well!

    • @charlottewalker-zt3dc
      @charlottewalker-zt3dc Місяць тому +7

      @@melancholypearlsSo well thank you! I am now 31 and have a family and home of my own 😊

    • @jessicarobinson3268
      @jessicarobinson3268 Місяць тому +1

      Oh my goodness this was so sad to watch, when was it recorded? X

    • @Gogetemscoobie
      @Gogetemscoobie 26 днів тому

      Oh love i cant believe what you all went through, it was hearbreaking to watch, i genuinely hope things got better, i dont know how you all got through it xx

  • @Kittybarcode
    @Kittybarcode 4 роки тому +478

    Charlotte ‘ dad is amazing . He dearly loved his wife and his children and fought for them with the system.

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 3 роки тому +5

      Let’s all have loads of kids then we can fight the system. It’s the systems fault!

    • @zerogaming566
      @zerogaming566 2 роки тому

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Yinnyboy360
    @Yinnyboy360 5 років тому +596

    That man with 5 kids is my hero. What an amazing man. How do you I become even a fraction of a father that, that man is. Hold your head up mate and if I could do anything to help you I would.

    • @lumilabonte3980
      @lumilabonte3980 4 роки тому +19

      Yes he is a "good dad/husband" but many are praising him as a " Saint" which is fine but in my mind that's what a husband/father is SUPPOSED to do....I mean marriage vows are for better/ worse, richer/poorer, etc....he should be THE NORM...but being praised for being what he is supposed to be by following his roles with Integrity. Sad Society has come to praising a man for doing what men are supposed to just DO...

    • @22ergie
      @22ergie 4 роки тому +8

      crying and smoking and NOT WORKING-a hero? what a joke

    • @proudmilitarybrat8984
      @proudmilitarybrat8984 4 роки тому +12

      @@lumilabonte3980 it SHOULD be the norm, but it's not. That's why people make comments like that and praise him for doing everything he did. Most people would have said screw it and leave the situation. Unfortunately, people are very selfish and they don't care about how they treat others. I understand exactly what you mean, but sadly, this isn't the norm, so when people see it, they are pleasantly surprised.

    • @garymccann5079
      @garymccann5079 4 роки тому +13

      @@22ergie You have no idea ,5 kids is more work than any job, as for smoking Thank God he s not an alcoholic and the Mam on drugs. I know as I have seen it so have some compassion.Read some of the comments and see how wrong you are , this is so sad.

    • @22ergie
      @22ergie 4 роки тому +5

      @@garymccann5079 They ALWAYS have money for cigarettes.THAT'S SAD! Do the math: 9 BPS a day times two, as both smoke, 16 BPS per day x 365= 5,840 BPS per year: THAT'S SAD! So no, YOU'RE WRONG.

  • @ashleydawson54
    @ashleydawson54 2 роки тому +71

    I struggled with postpartum depression for two years after the birth of our daughter, and I would, quite frankly, rather feel physical pain than go through that again. My husband picked up so much slack while helping me care for our baby. I can't imagine having to parent other children and face poverty and homelessness as well. I hope that mother was able to get on medication and find some government-funded counseling program.

  • @Kiwi-ICU-RN
    @Kiwi-ICU-RN 8 місяців тому +12

    I find it a little bit frustrating when parents complain about their child’s “terrible asthma”, and then they both smoke inside the house.

  • @cathyabril8615
    @cathyabril8615 3 роки тому +688

    For the school to say “we are not responsible” about charlottes schoolwork being sent to her is absolutely repulsive. They are responsible. If a family is calling to ask to have it sent, they are taking responsibility on their end... for the school
    To say no is them NOT fulfilling their responsibilities. Horrific.

    • @pillowtalk1925
      @pillowtalk1925 2 роки тому +54

      Yeah that’s common for houseless kids or not. I almost failed high school due to being put into independent study with my public school because I medically could not go.
      Just asking a teacher to send me a packet of the papers they regularly printed each week , FOR ME TO PICK UP, they wouldn’t.
      So I left and went to the continuation school in my town…. In which all my teachers from my previous school told me that no one would hire me and I wouldn’t get into school if I did that. Instead, I went and I graduated 8 months before my peers.

    • @juliet7703
      @juliet7703 Рік тому +7

      Good for you 👏

    • @purplemandala
      @purplemandala Рік тому +7

      @@pillowtalk1925 Well done.

    • @user-do2ev2hr7h
      @user-do2ev2hr7h Рік тому +7

      Because of the way schools are organized/funded they're legally mandated to only accept students with a fixed address within a given area. What they're really saying there is "we can't because that student no longer qualifies to be enrolled here." (but does qualify to be enrolled at a school where they currently live)

    • @jenniferromero571
      @jenniferromero571 Рік тому +4

      Well it's not. It is the schools decision.

  • @Catty07
    @Catty07 3 роки тому +915

    The father is a GREAT man. I feel the mother needs to get some help so that she can overcome her illness. God bless that family. I hope they are doing better in year 2020.

    • @jaderatzlaff8625
      @jaderatzlaff8625 3 роки тому +56

      Apparently they all doing well and are working on a farm and happy yay

    • @Zygmunt-Zen
      @Zygmunt-Zen 3 роки тому +8

      @@jaderatzlaff8625 Is the a follow up documentary or article?

    • @Powerduo88
      @Powerduo88 3 роки тому +21

      I read that the daughter had run away and was gone. I hope she came back and they are doing better. Al the families fir that matter. I've watched so many of these docs so far that my heart is just hurting!!!

    • @Sosadior_sosa1
      @Sosadior_sosa1 2 роки тому

      I'm happy they doing better

    • @aurorasangalli8112
      @aurorasangalli8112 2 роки тому +10

      I hope everyone is doing good in 2021

  • @melhoman8302
    @melhoman8302 9 місяців тому +12

    This father shows absolutely unbelievable strength, I don't have words and I hope the universe somehow sorts things out for this family. Heartbreaking.

  • @MICHELLEBLUEISH
    @MICHELLEBLUEISH Рік тому +71

    Lee is the absolute definition of a dad !❤ What a legend. Not many like him around sadly 😔

    • @mielissa100ify
      @mielissa100ify Рік тому +3

      There are plenty of great dads like him around. They’re not a dying breed like they want you to believe

    • @misterlister-wm2tj
      @misterlister-wm2tj 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@mielissa100ifyI know right lmao 🤣 plus most good dads actually sort out their finances before having lots of kids.

  • @dawnmarie9813
    @dawnmarie9813 3 роки тому +1152

    This is one of the saddest documentaries I’ve ever seen. Seeing the little boy cry in his dads arms absolutely broke me. I pray to god they find their way,

    • @danielosullivan2256
      @danielosullivan2256 3 роки тому +23

      In Jesus name AMEN

    • @timmolloy7574
      @timmolloy7574 2 роки тому +18

      Pretty hard to find your way when the government have the system set up for you to fail....

    • @timmolloy7574
      @timmolloy7574 2 роки тому +34

      When there's even people with full time jobs now homeless because they cannot afford housing it's not the individuals fault it's the governments!

    • @amyrivers4093
      @amyrivers4093 2 роки тому +8

      Sometimes I feel despair for the state our world (I live in New Zealand) is in. Covid only made homelessness worse. When I was well I was a foster Mum and school teacher so I felt like I made a difference but being bedridden I feel useless in terms of helping others in this way.

    • @timmolloy7574
      @timmolloy7574 2 роки тому +13

      @@amyrivers4093 You did your bit well done, if everybody did their bit we wouldn't be in such a bad housing situation like we're in. This 'housing crisis' is no accident, it's an artificial crisis that could be solved by, building enough housing for the population.

  • @porscha6610
    @porscha6610 4 роки тому +159

    "Its hard because I want to learn" yall my heart literally broke in a million pieces 😭😭

    • @km4227
      @km4227 3 роки тому +3

      It was nice of that family to take her into their new home 💕

  • @llCoupDEtatll
    @llCoupDEtatll 2 роки тому +33

    That father is an absolute trooper. That man is working so incredibly hard to take care of his family and I hope they are happy and healthy today.

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp 11 місяців тому +1

      He is an absolute legend.

    • @misterlister-wm2tj
      @misterlister-wm2tj 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Padraigpwhy does he get praise for being irresponsible and having kids he couldn't afford yet people who have kids they can afford are called privileged and snobs? Even when they give their kids the same love and affection?

    • @jlp11889
      @jlp11889 3 місяці тому +1

      @@misterlister-wm2tj Because he's a great father even in a horrible situation. It's easy to be a good parent when money and housing aren't an issue. Many more better off 'fathers' are so much less with so much more available, if they even stick around.

    • @misterlister-wm2tj
      @misterlister-wm2tj 2 місяці тому

      @@jlp11889 give it a rest. He's brought kids into the world knowing full well he can't provide for them. Like I said people who work hard and actually give their kids a good life get looked down upon by people like you when really they deserve more praise

  • @weemack3531
    @weemack3531 Рік тому +20

    This absolutely devastated me. This man reminds me a lot of my husband and the weight he carried caring for me and our son. I really do wish this family all the love, health and blessings in the world. Heartbreaking and no one helping them. The system is so broken.

    • @philtwowheels
      @philtwowheels Рік тому +1

      I couldn't believe a pro bono lawyer was going to take the council to court if it didn't put up funds to house people. Just incredible that the world has come to this. You think the developing countries suffer from corruption, but it's rife in developed countries now.

    • @samanthabean9059
      @samanthabean9059 7 місяців тому

      ​@@philtwowheelsthis was in 2006..

  • @chloegrace7470
    @chloegrace7470 3 роки тому +311

    “I’ve got too take my little boys pictures he’s lost too much” my hearts broken😫 that dad is such a soldier for his children 😫

    • @HaggisMuncher-69-420
      @HaggisMuncher-69-420 2 роки тому

      Shame the mother is selfish and useless.

    • @eloisehowell2245
      @eloisehowell2245 2 роки тому +4

      @@HaggisMuncher-69-420 She was ill. There's a difference.

    • @morganablackwater2017
      @morganablackwater2017 Рік тому

      Stop glorifying army... Hes a brilliant father. No reason to blend army into this.

    • @ethan-es3cw
      @ethan-es3cw Рік тому

      @@morganablackwater2017 a soldier is someone who carries on through tough times, it's a figure of speech not literal

  • @gordonhotchkiss7270
    @gordonhotchkiss7270 4 роки тому +448

    I've been homeless before and that is no place for young children, that council is a disgrace.

    • @benjaminmulder4828
      @benjaminmulder4828 3 роки тому +7

      Same here. I was homelesss in seattle with my ex wife in seattle for 9 months. It was crazy

    • @infernogamers168
      @infernogamers168 3 роки тому +2

      What's the answer then Gordon?

    • @sophie1706
      @sophie1706 3 роки тому +4

      @@infernogamers168 defund police, use money to protect the community instead

    • @gallifreyanrefugee7982
      @gallifreyanrefugee7982 3 роки тому +4

      @@sophie1706
      sophie a complete buffoon > "DefUnD ThE pOliCe"

    • @Dablooner
      @Dablooner 3 роки тому +1

      @@gallifreyanrefugee7982 how?

  • @oranjelibertine
    @oranjelibertine 7 місяців тому +8

    Those ones saying their daughters have bad asthma, then sat there with cigarettes in the house 😂 🙄

  • @ann-mariebaker118
    @ann-mariebaker118 Рік тому +14

    I really hope these families are all doing well. We're now in temporary accommodation, a ground floor studio property, with a small kitchen & bathroom. I'm extremely grateful to my son's teacher, as this annexe is on her property, & she's let it to us xx

  • @electrickhippo8603
    @electrickhippo8603 4 роки тому +446

    I felt so bad for the first families friend, she was so heartbroken that she had to make them leave.

    • @mrsbee5056
      @mrsbee5056 3 роки тому +5

      They are scroungers who should never have put that poor woman in that situa\tion in the first place. What about erm...let me think...work?

    • @ghofranelahib7353
      @ghofranelahib7353 3 роки тому +100

      @@mrsbee5056 all your comments are vile. Is everything okay at home? I'd suggest you get some therapy x

    • @shahniwiki2298
      @shahniwiki2298 3 роки тому +8

      She was so upset..was heartbreaking

    • @ihaveaverylongname
      @ihaveaverylongname 3 роки тому +8

      Super Mum you’re evil

    • @julienorman5923
      @julienorman5923 3 роки тому +8

      Thats illegal, 7 days notice, they would have to give written notice for 28 days to leave,, Even without being on the tenacy agreement..

  • @luvs_sugar5144
    @luvs_sugar5144 4 роки тому +187

    eveytime that amazing dad broke down and cried, i cried too. what an amazing man

  • @meghanm5000
    @meghanm5000 11 місяців тому +15

    Growing up, my family and I were homeless 3 times. I’m now an adult and I still deal with PTSD from some of the situations we went through. Seeing the dad trying so hard to hold it together was absolutely heartbreaking to watch, I know how he felt. I remember getting into one house finally, we sat and ate pizza on the ground because we had no furniture, but we were just so happy to finally have somewhere to go that it didn’t matter. I’m curious to know how these people are doing now. I hope they’re good.

  • @joeyj5924
    @joeyj5924 2 роки тому +35

    I fricken cried 😢 probably through the whole thing. I showed my kids this film because they really needed to see that outside of their safe little bubble we've created for them, there is a world that meets nobody half way. They didn't last long into the film, but later on my son came back and asked me to show him the rest. He hugged me so hard and said that he didn't know that we were so rich. I drive a little Pontiac and work 2 jobs at a gas station and a restaurant delivering food, and he's spot on. I know many people think that they have the worst lives ever, because they ain't got the car they want or the clothes they would prefer to wear. You can only focus on those kinds of things when you're sitting warm under a roof with Food in your belly. I hope these people are in a better place today. I hope this goes to show many others how good they have it and how lucky we all really are. If this can happen to them, it could happen to any of us. We Never know what life has in store for us.

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp 11 місяців тому +2

      Aww thats so sweet. I used to do that too. Even though I am single mom and poor in my country we are among the top 15 percent wealthiest ..I cant believe the people in this film. That lady who didnt get payment from the department and then said theyre intentionally homeless? That's just disgusting. The school that after some days of a child staying outside the area says they cant have her...omg people go on holidays to the bloody algarve for more than two weeks and take time off school for it...here she is struggling and they put more on top of her trouble. Absolutely disgraceful how these people are treated. Meanwhile people with money can annoy their neighbours cause all sorts of trouble and not be treated badly. Its just disgusting.

    • @joeyj5924
      @joeyj5924 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Padraigp thankyou. All your points are right on 👌 I'm glad that you are among the 15% wealthy in your country 👍. You obviously have a heart and don't take things for granted. I hope you and your kids are doing well 🙏 I know being a single mom is not easy. My mom was single with 5 kids. I've seen and been through those struggles. Be safe 🙂

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp 11 місяців тому +1

      @@joeyj5924 nó im poor in my western country ...I am top 15 in the world bottom in my country. But yes I am glad too. I wouldnt like to be top in my country ..thanks for your lovely comment. I feel rich in nice vibes already! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤾‍♂️

    • @joeyj5924
      @joeyj5924 11 місяців тому

      @@Padraigp ohh ok, I misunderstood what you said haha. And you are very welcome. I'm glad your vibes are up 🙂

  • @lovelydia101
    @lovelydia101 7 років тому +1518

    As someone who's been in homeless shelters there are a few things that need to be said.
    1. Its not as simple as get a job and rent a place. You can have a job but with all your savings gone you have no way to afford a bond and ways to look in the first place. Plus you're probably in debt by this point. Also looking for work is hard and doesn't happen overnight.
    2. You'd smoke if you're life has turned to shit so don't go on your moral high ground and act like you're better then them.
    3. Mentally it's tasking and not everyone is up to it. I can't tell you how many people try to kill them selves in shelters but it got to a point where a girl tried hiding in my room so she could slit her wrists.
    It's the fucking pits of existence and unless you've been there you should never judge or hand out your shitty "advice".

    • @maureenndikum7550
      @maureenndikum7550 6 років тому +58

      lovelydia101 well said

    • @superbratayley3783
      @superbratayley3783 6 років тому +64

      lovelydia101 that is SO TRUE!!!!!!!!!! People need to stop being judgemental and just support!!!!

    • @sharonfair9276
      @sharonfair9276 6 років тому +2

      Maureen Ndikum jh

    • @tashalee666
      @tashalee666 6 років тому +51

      lovelydia101 thank you, I worry about the human race sometimes but your comment has restored it

    • @e.torres6797
      @e.torres6797 6 років тому +53

      Don't apologize for your comment. We need your personal experience and if more people were interviewed or could share their experience we would have a more humane response from the government and from regular folks. Hope your future is more secure as every day goes by.

  • @LibbyLibbyBrooks
    @LibbyLibbyBrooks 5 років тому +202

    When the Dad said he had to take his little boys picture because he already lost so much and broke down it broke my heart into a million pieces. I wish I could just reach through the internet and help these people. God bless him for being there for his wife and taking care of his children and not walking out like so many do. I just ask that God bless this family somehow.

    • @lilbilhawk70
      @lilbilhawk70 5 років тому +6

      Dorothy Brooks at that moment I cried

    • @donnaspino4930
      @donnaspino4930 4 роки тому +3

      God Bless this family protect them 🙏🙏🙏

    • @taraerskine3954
      @taraerskine3954 4 роки тому +1

      Chris M that's a very blunt thing to say?

  • @vanessaarnell
    @vanessaarnell Рік тому +40

    I went through this as a child and I vowed that I would never put my kids through what I went through. My mom didn't want to ever work. There were plenty of jobs available at the time. She just chose not to work. My kids are grown up now and I kept my word, I never had them homeless or go through what I went through.

    • @philtwowheels
      @philtwowheels Рік тому +4

      Now just hope your children don't have to go through it, because regardless of what anyone thinks, it can happen to anyone!

    • @taylorburtis
      @taylorburtis Рік тому +5

      You didn’t “keep your word” you just didn’t have anything happen to you that would cause you to be homeless. These families didn’t choose this. What a condescending and judgemental comment. Homelessness doesn’t discriminate, and this can happen to ANYONE. Regardless of how much money you have, or if you have a good job.

    • @user-xr7qn3rs4v
      @user-xr7qn3rs4v 10 місяців тому +2

      @@taylorburtis It's true that life can be precarious for most people. What is ALSO TRUE, as this woman experienced is that some adults CHOOSE to do the absolute minimum, have no shame to live off the government in perpetuity and do it for generations. The UK and the US have families that prove this simple fact.

  • @catjohnson2522
    @catjohnson2522 Рік тому +70

    Absolutely heartbreaking. In 2022 in a “civilized” world nobody should deal with housing insecurity of any kind. It’s a disgrace

    • @sweatt4237
      @sweatt4237 Рік тому

      We keep voting for them to save us and they keep telling us they want to depopulate. We refuse to acknowledge who we are dealing with.

    • @nwofoe2866
      @nwofoe2866 Рік тому +5

      many of the Indian and other national immigrants haven't these worries. How did this happen?

    • @restlesscow2137
      @restlesscow2137 Рік тому

      @@nwofoe2866 what are you talking about?

    • @nwofoe2866
      @nwofoe2866 Рік тому

      @@restlesscow2137 I'm saying that many immigrants - legal and illegal - have more security against homelessness than millions of Americans.

    • @restlesscow2137
      @restlesscow2137 Рік тому +1

      @@nwofoe2866 maybe that's down to America's aversion to more socialist programs that help the more unfortunate rather than the blame being put on immigrants themselves

  • @user-wickedflower
    @user-wickedflower 4 роки тому +488

    Give that father a government position, hes totally what we need.

    • @bettybla2379
      @bettybla2379 3 роки тому +2

      Kate money makes people greedy.

    • @nunyabuisness7552
      @nunyabuisness7552 3 роки тому +11

      That would go against the government standard. It's a requirement to be inefficient and wasteful of time and money for every government program. When enough complaints happen they can then cut some waste as if they're doing something wonderful. Also remember governments are bureaucracies and any bureaucracy that isn't growing and need more workers gets their funding cut so they need to make sure there is more to do than they can get done.

    • @forestfaint9269
      @forestfaint9269 3 роки тому +2

      @@bettybla2379 Not always

    • @bettybla2379
      @bettybla2379 3 роки тому +1

      @Abid Maybe 2% might help but the rest will be greedy. Before people became government they had normal lives and they wasn’t greedy but as soon as the become president they changed.

    • @PooftMancrap
      @PooftMancrap 3 роки тому

      @@nunyabuisness7552 The reality is that our government is trying and is doing everything it can to ensure that working families get the care and support that they need! Housing prices have skyrocketed and Sadiq Khan has done nothing to stabilise the market. He has been economically reckless with London economy! We need a london mayor who will lower housing costs for working families!

  • @PhinaLovesMusic
    @PhinaLovesMusic 5 років тому +389

    this has honestly given me a new perspective that I needed. How on earth is that poor father supposed to get work when he has to deal with EVERYTHING and how can the mother even attempt to get better with ZERO stability. it really is a vicious cycle

    • @soniag4516
      @soniag4516 5 років тому +9

      I pray for them and I believe they will.

    • @ginam6691
      @ginam6691 4 роки тому +22

      This is my life but much worse. Im a single mom of 3 sons, my middle son is disabled, he's has 19 brain surgeries and is like an 18 mo old. No one cares how we live or that we are about to becone homeless. All I want to do is work and take care of my family but I have no one to take care of my son and their are no services to help. No one cares.

    • @3mastiffsme
      @3mastiffsme 4 роки тому +6

      Gina M - I don’t know how u can do it, but moving might be ur answer. That’s if ur in the US- Every State is different & in all my travels nothing compares 2 Massachusetts -absolute best healthcare! I’m so sorry & if u come my way ur welcome 2 get in touch. Hang in there- Mother’s r strong- u got this- it will get better

    • @iamgroot_x5288
      @iamgroot_x5288 4 роки тому +4

      Gina M If you live in the UK, you need to contact SHELTER, go down to your local council and make a homeless application. If you have found your self intentionally homeless, they WONT house you and you will have to find private accommodation or they will be put into care , but because one of your children has a severe disability then maybe it’s different.

    • @Meow-gp5nk
      @Meow-gp5nk 4 роки тому +4

      @@ginam6691 Good job having 3 children ...

  • @CM-vs5cj
    @CM-vs5cj 2 роки тому +3

    Here two years later once again just amazed at this dad 💗. What a man, I pray they found somewhere safe and content x

  • @zoorenard1101
    @zoorenard1101 11 місяців тому +5

    You can just feel the pain everytime Sarah is smiling and giggling. Like you have nothing else left but hope and need to keep a positive mind. I hope she is in a better place right now ❤

  • @somebody4244
    @somebody4244 4 роки тому +422

    Why do they bloody care who stays in the house? Broke my heart to see the friend cry as she told them they had to move on.

    • @retardedthomasthetank1059
      @retardedthomasthetank1059 3 роки тому +60

      I am really annoyed with the landlord for that, that was so heartless of them

    • @jamie-leighgibson2338
      @jamie-leighgibson2338 3 роки тому +23

      @@retardedthomasthetank1059 its nothing to do with a landlord it was the council it was a council property

    • @jamie-leighgibson2338
      @jamie-leighgibson2338 3 роки тому +7

      @Cookie no one was paying for them they were staying in a friends whos house was a council house so it was being paid

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 3 роки тому +12

      Overcrowding

    • @justocean2197
      @justocean2197 3 роки тому +10

      It's a safety hazard per square footage of house, cant have 10 people living in that small space

  • @andrealove7758
    @andrealove7758 7 років тому +840

    Until you have literally walked in their shoes, you have absolutely no right to judge. I mean, lived their exact lives, being able to relate is completely different. Every set of circumstances is different. So many judgemental people people commenting are just making themselves look immature. It is ok to not know everything or be able to understand because you never will. You are only responsible for your actions, and you aren't better than ANYONE sorry to inform you.

    • @cokajo
      @cokajo 7 років тому +39

      Preach girl, preach!
      People don't understand, and are blind to these things.
      It's nice to see someone who understands, rather than to judge.

    • @vanycadete
      @vanycadete 7 років тому +27

      andrea Love thank you for your comment. nice to see some humanity here. I feel the same. I'm no one to judge.

    • @bgreenshoes1
      @bgreenshoes1 7 років тому +19

      YASSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!
      Preach girl, PREACH!

    • @mz.latashalovesjourney9670
      @mz.latashalovesjourney9670 7 років тому +16

      andrea Love I walked in there shoes its hard as hell staying on the streets living with people sleeping in cars etc

    • @pearlpurlperrell
      @pearlpurlperrell 7 років тому +9

      I have walked and I do judge because of that fact

  • @MsShandy111
    @MsShandy111 2 роки тому +30

    The father loves his family. He is so supportive. The odds are stacked against them. To lose your home is so devastating. This is so wrong. I feel for the family.

  • @davidwinchester2878
    @davidwinchester2878 Рік тому +9

    The little boy talking about his dad "he fights for his family". God bless them all 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @starryeyes2810
    @starryeyes2810 5 років тому +141

    What an amazing dad! The way he looks after his wife and children!

    • @susanna8612
      @susanna8612 4 роки тому +4

      I hope he got a job and they are doing better.

  • @laramonroe3363
    @laramonroe3363 6 років тому +139

    What a guy! Charlotte's dad is an incredible human being. What a role model to those kids. Wow - I am humbled by his dignity and strength. And I am floored by the injustice that can cripple a decent family.

    • @laralaursen3697
      @laralaursen3697 5 років тому +4

      I 100% agree!!!I guess I'm NOT the only Lara in this vast world,and one that feels like I do!My husband is alot like this incredible man and I adore him for it.I have suffered clinical depression and he takes care of me. I am always terrified something will happen to him cause of all the strength he shows but I know he must feel like crying like this poor dad at 10:30.We are only a couple paycheques away from homelessness at any time.Scares me to death but I am trying to be a strong partner for him too!

    • @judytripp2908
      @judytripp2908 4 роки тому +1

      Lara Monroe cute cat!!!!!

  • @laurence2824
    @laurence2824 2 роки тому +22

    The wonderful children featured in this documentary are a complete credit to their parents. When I see with what these families have to contend on a daily basis, I realise I don't know what a real problem is. Watching this was both humbling and sobering; such things should not be able to occur in what we call a first-world country.

  • @vidishamanikkara6121
    @vidishamanikkara6121 Рік тому +3

    I am very proud of this man for putting in blood, sweat and tears to helping the family survive. Even during the most adverse circumstances, he kept going. People don't realize what they have until its gone.

  • @eccentricnoise3583
    @eccentricnoise3583 6 років тому +134

    A very rare man indeed. Blessings to all of the families.

  • @charliejohns1053
    @charliejohns1053 4 роки тому +215

    Wow, this broke me 7 minutes in. Seeing the father having to explain to his kids they are going to become homeless again, having to move on AGAIN. I've been through a similar thing in the past 6 months, movinf from house share to house share, dodgy landlords, losing employment, losing benefits. It is an extremely difficult life to live, and that was only on my own. The thought of bringing 4 kids with me on such a journey, and a wife who is extremely mentally unwell, is unimaginable

    • @rachelgawrysiakschwister2982
      @rachelgawrysiakschwister2982 4 роки тому +6

      I totally agree. I've got 2 kids, and though I'm poor, at least we've got a nice apartment to call home, a vehicle, food, clothes, internet and cable TV. I feel beyond blessed. My heart aches for these people, especially the kids. I feel very rich, and that certainly isn't the case!! I hate how unfair life can be. My heart goes out to them♡♡♡♡♡♡

    • @banbans859
      @banbans859 2 роки тому +3

      I had hard situation too before , having no home and basic needs not met changed me. I got so desperate and no body would understand. I didn't want to die but didn't want to live at that time..but now I am ok, things did get better. No matter what what you are going through just remember that this is just temporary. And it will get better. Don't lose hope.

  • @ann-mariebaker118
    @ann-mariebaker118 9 місяців тому +5

    We're in the same position now, we're in a B & b, no cooking facilities, shared bathroom. We're grateful we're still in our local area. It's really not a nice situation, & my heart goes out to anyone, in the same position

  • @Sleezysnailz
    @Sleezysnailz Рік тому +11

    Props to that older sister for helping out and being a second parent as her mom was unstable mentally.. that’s a lot for anyone to go through and especially the children.. her being there for her siblings, her dad and her mom is very honourable.

    • @dgathome4345
      @dgathome4345 Рік тому +2

      She’s a smart and strong girl. My heart breaks for her. I think she will be ok despite everything she has had to deal with.

  • @mohammadalsalahi1321
    @mohammadalsalahi1321 7 років тому +175

    I would like to tell charlotte s father that he is a real life hero for supporting his family the way he did. he showed a good example to his kids for sticking up for them, supporting them emotionnaly and help them to keep their head high through the devastating situation. hes a good man and he should be proud of himself and hope his wife gets better and start appreciating and being grateful for everything. may god lead you to the right path.

    • @woods1504
      @woods1504 Рік тому +1

      I really don't think you would "appreciate and be grateful for everything" if you were in the same situation as them.

  • @joricameron7132
    @joricameron7132 5 років тому +324

    "the shelter they were in has been closed down and boarded up" so there's a perfectly good shelter sitting empty whilst these people are thrown onto the street?! well Bravo!!! bunch of useless...

    • @timf7413
      @timf7413 3 роки тому +1

      I would imagine it would not be deemed to be "perfectly good" for some reason.

  • @Erikafman
    @Erikafman 2 роки тому +3

    As a fellow human, living with anxiety and a kid I feel with these people. Crying very much here.
    I wish them all the best!

  • @daniellaslon1774
    @daniellaslon1774 Рік тому +17

    This is heartbreaking and eye opening. I can't believe this goes on in a first world country. Intentionally homeless is the most outrageous oxymoron I have ever heard!

  • @Sharabehayat
    @Sharabehayat 4 роки тому +163

    I was homeless for most my teen years. It was more like move in move out, never had a stable house, neither did my parents have a stable job or income. Maybe around $300-400 a month. Though I have my business now and doing well in life, the thing that breaks my heart the most is remember my poor dad, he never let us sleep on a hungry stomach. He couldn't afford much medical care and his health kept worsening. By the time I could actually do something and afford the health care, it was too late, his heart was beyond repair and passed away two years ago. Two months after I got my first house. Sadly his health was too bad to enjoy the fruits of his last days. Sometimes it keeps me awake at nights and makes me weep. There is honestly nothing that I lack now, but the emotional trauma is still there and perhaps will always be there forever. At least in the West, humans still exist. Here in Africa, you're just an animal and nothing more.
    It's a really touching and relatable documentary.
    And I'm glad the family is doing well now. Thank you for the upload.
    Peace.

    • @perthkraya3209
      @perthkraya3209 3 роки тому +12

      @The Poet I'm very sorry for your loss. Your dear dad was holding on for you and I believe he is resting in peace because he knew that you were in a better space and you would be ok. The one thing he would have like was for you to be happy so try and cherish his wonderful memory of strength and love and live life to the fullest. Smile whenever you think of him even as you allow yourself to miss him as that is ok. I hope you heal from your pain.

    • @jenniferjoseph1560
      @jenniferjoseph1560 3 роки тому +2

      I hope you are still doing well and have survived all the horror our world has to offer lately! Please do me a favor..know you are a loved, special beautiful PERSON!!! zebras, chickens and cats are animals..not you!! That hit me hard..smiles and hugs from a friend in the west!

    • @sasthyme8857
      @sasthyme8857 3 роки тому

      So Poignant 💫

    • @mandanaweingartner153
      @mandanaweingartner153 3 роки тому

      god bless you and your parents

    • @eship9603
      @eship9603 2 роки тому

      Hugs

  • @bettydamnboop3030
    @bettydamnboop3030 3 роки тому +170

    Sarah choked me up, she is a gentle girl and she literally has made a difference in the little kids life just by loving them 🙏🏻.

  • @johnpaulp494
    @johnpaulp494 7 місяців тому +4

    Omg!!! Seeing that boy crying to his dad broke my heart into a million pieces, I hope they’re living a wonderful comfortable life and are doing well ❤️

    • @charlottewalker-zt3dc
      @charlottewalker-zt3dc 2 місяці тому +3

      We are all doing amazing now! Lovely home children of my own! Life is good 😊

  • @eleanorsmith9706
    @eleanorsmith9706 2 роки тому +8

    That father is so good and also as a husband. Four kids and a sick wife is a lot to handle for a person with a stable home. He keeps a calm sprit through it all.

  • @jeannejenninga3845
    @jeannejenninga3845 5 років тому +116

    We put our beans in can on the radiator when we go out, and it's warmed when we come back. What a little angel ❤

  • @suzzanimalchannel1030
    @suzzanimalchannel1030 2 роки тому +241

    Awe it made me smile at the end to see Charlottes moms hair growing back and a huge smile on her face. I couldn’t imagine the mental toll it must have been on her and the whole family , so happy they got their home at the end. Such a beautiful family with parents that love them!

    • @davidsmith9826
      @davidsmith9826 2 роки тому +15

      I'm glad I read your comment cos just 10 mins in I feel sadness and so much anger. Anger at government anger at do gooders. These are people living here already and they are homeless.

  • @LostSoul-iq4gc
    @LostSoul-iq4gc Рік тому +5

    It’s so heartbreaking to see kids suffer like this. The dad is amazing and how he keeps the whole family together is admirable.

  • @sepesasigatokacakerasili
    @sepesasigatokacakerasili 2 роки тому +2

    He is a great father and more. Couldnot hold back my tears when he started sobbing. Bless his heart.

  • @molliemcnally223
    @molliemcnally223 7 років тому +552

    May not be in the perfect family situation, but I have SOO much respect for the father. He has to go through the whole situation like the rest of his family, yet he holds the whole family together. He has to hold back the tears whilst he breaks the news to his children that they have to move yet again. He has to hold his wife together aswell. He is so strong, despite the crying (everyone does) he knows that he has to wake up everyone, get up off the floor and face another day.

    • @Barbbfly
      @Barbbfly 7 років тому +4

      crying is ok even while we are doing God's will

    • @molliemcnally223
      @molliemcnally223 7 років тому +2

      Brendan Mather could not agree more. It really makes you comprehend most lifestyle choices

    • @sharonfair9276
      @sharonfair9276 6 років тому

      Barbara C jh

    • @JM-gh1oz
      @JM-gh1oz 6 років тому +10

      Good man... A keeper!

    • @coffeedrinker7575
      @coffeedrinker7575 6 років тому +6

      Mollie McNally these are the kind of comments i wanna read. seeing the positive side in everything we see :) You go girl

  • @yamabushi170
    @yamabushi170 5 років тому +129

    Charlotte's Dad is an absolutely amazing human being. To maintain such fortitude, supporting his family as he must be feeling the terrible despair. This is a very profound kind of courage which too often goes unnoticed.

    • @susanna8612
      @susanna8612 4 роки тому +1

      I don't know If it goes unnoticed because everyone is noticing it in comment section at least

    • @ellaroseish
      @ellaroseish 4 роки тому +1

      No matter what any one thinks ever one needs help if had the money I would help you God bless you

    • @vickibaker8372
      @vickibaker8372 Рік тому +1

      @@susanna8612 that mother is not getting the help she needs...she needs to be institutionalized...she is Not Safe around the kids. Poor Dad

    • @rudyardganuelas6254
      @rudyardganuelas6254 4 місяці тому

      My dad is better. He had a job.

  • @Thunderr_r
    @Thunderr_r 2 роки тому +3

    What a good dad. He try's he's best to keep them strong. I'm crying right now

  • @brittanymorris943
    @brittanymorris943 Рік тому +4

    That man deserves so much for keeping his family together.
    That isn’t easy for a man to do so, and honestly this is my worst nightmare and I can very grateful for what I have.
    While my boys and I do live in poverty, we have a roof over our heads and for that I am forever thankful and hardly anyone can take that away

  • @elle9547
    @elle9547 3 роки тому +79

    That father deserves so much praise and respect, especially since due to the mother's mental health issues he's basically the only one who can parent/be an adult. He's got four kids and her to look after, not everyone would stick around.

  • @kevinrby1982
    @kevinrby1982 6 років тому +230

    I'm from The United States and live in the most liberal and generous of all the states, Massachusetts. I have to say, It amazes me how incredibly polite the British are. Even when you're being told that you and your children are being turned out on the street, through no fault of your own you still stay polite. It amazes me. I think it's a wonderful attribute because screaming and running your mouth never helps your case when your wrapped up in red tape. Just an observation, incredibly amazing.

    • @SpankyG90
      @SpankyG90 5 років тому +15

      Yeah giving big companies tax cuts while at the same time cutting back on welfare and education. Disgusting.

    • @zoetonykennedy9141
      @zoetonykennedy9141 5 років тому

      Thanks. Lol

    • @Marie.b
      @Marie.b 5 років тому +17

      "you are not gonna house us because you say we are intentionally homeless. ok thank you. bye ". Polite or just lost the will. And to think the council admitted they were wrongly evicted!!! Did anyone face responsibility for all the miatakes?

    • @TheAvolicia
      @TheAvolicia 5 років тому +2

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @aprilkurtz1589
      @aprilkurtz1589 5 років тому +12

      @@13alir I believe she was talking about British PEOPLE, not politics.

  • @rinkydinkydragon1
    @rinkydinkydragon1 Рік тому +2

    If only all kids could have a dad like that. He’s amazing, truly hope they’re all doing well now!

  • @sharonellis8776
    @sharonellis8776 Рік тому +4

    My heart goes out to these families. No one makes themself homeless intentionally ! God bless them all xx

  • @graceridge
    @graceridge 7 років тому +452

    my god the dad is an amazing human being

    • @MegaCaprice123
      @MegaCaprice123 6 років тому

      Grace Peaches does he have a job?

    • @PMMagro
      @PMMagro 5 років тому +1

      The will blame the immigrants for sure.

    • @ashotofmercury
      @ashotofmercury 4 роки тому +3

      @@MegaCaprice123 Do you think he has TIME for a bloody job?? Jeez......

  • @iloveglitter149
    @iloveglitter149 4 роки тому +132

    This family may be poor but they have a strong love for each other and that is hard to find. They are lucky to have each other and I hope their situation gets better

  • @Over60sowhat
    @Over60sowhat 7 місяців тому +2

    What a great father! And the oldest daughter, just amazing!! I'm praying they've since found a wonderful forever home!!

  • @susanngin3481
    @susanngin3481 2 роки тому +2

    Charlotte's dad is great.....never giveup on the family.....united at last with a home to call its own. Tks for sharing.

  • @EmilyAShields
    @EmilyAShields 7 років тому +182

    That Dad is incredible. So much respect for him

    • @MegaCaprice123
      @MegaCaprice123 6 років тому

      Emily Shields has the dad got a job?

    • @hayleydryden8930
      @hayleydryden8930 6 років тому +2

      +Caprice123 what's that got to do with this film...my dad had three jobs and we still ended up in a hostel..

  • @jacquelineadams3770
    @jacquelineadams3770 4 роки тому +126

    It was sweet how Sarah became a big Sis to Chloe' and keeps her company. Heartwarming, really. I can feel the love between the two of them. Sarah's a kind, gentle soul.👍🏾❤️👏🏾

    • @thelaughingknight6150
      @thelaughingknight6150 3 роки тому +4

      I nearly cried at the end when it said she was still in temporary accommodation.

    • @maudelladoesstuff7276
      @maudelladoesstuff7276 3 роки тому

      The Laughing Knight does anyone know where she is now?

    • @thelaughingknight6150
      @thelaughingknight6150 3 роки тому +1

      @@maudelladoesstuff7276 I have no idea, and I wouldn't even know where to start looking. I hope she's in a better situation.

  • @ameliashostak4764
    @ameliashostak4764 Рік тому +2

    OMG!!! That little boy at 5:00 totally melted my heart!! I must've watched that part at least 10 times!! What a sweetheart

    • @simonhoye5433
      @simonhoye5433 Рік тому

      I go back to school in my new girls dress on a need high white socks 10 years old at tame people think look like in girls clause

  • @laurenmarco6162
    @laurenmarco6162 Рік тому +2

    Five minutes in and I can already have so much feelings!! The dad is the glue in the family!

  • @maxineokeeffe4548
    @maxineokeeffe4548 3 роки тому +285

    What a strong man Lee is, who’s there for him when he breaks, ?. The council should be ashamed of themselves.

    • @CanadianMonarchist
      @CanadianMonarchist 2 роки тому +9

      I know; I really wanted to hug him when he was crying by himself.

    • @rosiewhitfield123
      @rosiewhitfield123 2 роки тому +4

      Homelessness is so awful and unfair 💔💔

    • @Rihardololz
      @Rihardololz 2 роки тому +1

      can't feed em dont breed em.

    • @denisesaunders5473
      @denisesaunders5473 Рік тому +1

      The council dont care.when my ex husband lost hes job and coudnt pay the rent our local council told us they coudnt help. We had to find private acco before we got evicted. At the time i had a child under two and another under 12.we did find a private home.my kids are up now. Am 62 and in private accom. Its finding the months rent in advance that is the problem.

  • @Matilda-re1wm
    @Matilda-re1wm 3 роки тому +72

    I popped this on while doing my make up this morning and I honestly struggled not to cry my eyes out. Charlotte is/was the most amazing big sister to her little brothers, and the pain her family went through, and the strain on her as a teenager - she handled that absolutely amazingly, she was phenomenal. Charlotte's dad and mum are both LOVELY people and phenomenal parents, put a lot of people to shame. What an amazing man and family. it breaks my heart that GOOD, good, wholesome, pure hearted people are subject to circumstances like this in life.

  • @BillyCasper1976
    @BillyCasper1976 Рік тому +5

    What a bloody good man Lee is, the personification of a excellent father

  • @mael2039
    @mael2039 Рік тому +10

    Sarah's story is especially heartbreaking to me. Having to put cans on the radiator as a child's only option to have a warm meal, and that in a "developed" country. It was nice of Chloe's family to let her stay a while at their house once they got accomodation