‘Most miserable day of my life’: father mourns daughter who fell to death in accident
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A two-year-old in eastern China’s Zhejiang province fell to her death from the eighth floor of a residential building after she was forgotten in a lift by her nanny. Her father, in videos posted on social media, shared his grief at the tragedy.
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The father should sue for the apartment management too. The lift had closed unreasonably fast and the window was built insanely low
China..
Most asian countries have lifts that close rly fast tho
They should change windows so it has an opening at the top of the window. It doesn’t help that the window is deep into the wall which made it easy for the girl to climb
Right it should hv safety railings...
I don't know why you would sue an apartment manager for making an elevator that does it's job
If the nanny had been honest and told the father everything they might have found her in time. That's what angers me so much
I doubt the girl would survive the 8 stories fall.
@@hyc1266 Nobody knows, but 60 minutes is a very long time that can cause sure death.
@@hyc1266 The fact that she survived that long gives the maybe part of it but like someone else said, we'll never know
What did she lie about? How was she supposed to know it went to the 8th floor? She just knew she was in the elevator.
@@gladitsnotme According to more detail interview, the nanny suspected that the child was on 8th floor but then lied to the employer that maybe she was on the first floor.
I dont even have kids but just hearing the father's painful cry for his little angel got me crying too 😭😭
Gotta be the worst kind of pain. You know he'd gladly take that fall 100 times in a row if it brought her back.
Father is also responsible
@@user-qm5df2jp3bHow? For hiring a nanny?
@@user-qm5df2jp3bhoww
@@user-qm5df2jp3bHe was responsible. He hired a certified Nanny.
The Nanny is criminally negligent. Her crime and the baby she killed because her cellphone was more important are here for the world to see 😊😊
Seeing your pretty little precious baby who means whole world to you, scared and alone, crying, in her last moment of her short life, so sad
That is so upsetting. They could be more sensitive and not post that.
@@fiestadancers they posted it to raise awareness, and I mean, it's working right?
As an architect. I blame who designed the building. It neglects the building standards.
Who puts a window so low like that? It was even accessible to be open. RIP little girl
As an architect, you should be aware that the building ordinance/regulations inspector should've corrected anything that is not compliant.
So in this case, either the regulations aren't sufficient, no one at building inspection did their job properly, or the contractor ignored the drawings.
The door also closed almost immediately
@@drunkenmonkey1887 It passed in building inspection and permits are also given considering the flaws of the building. Both are at fault.
@@renjiabarai6081 that is an assumption. We've all seen how lax and how rules are ignored in Chinese construction.
And let's take a step back. If the Architect produced a drawing that is within Building Ordinance Guidance, why is he liable? He did his job and followed the rules.
Are you sure you're an architect?
She probably didnt know how to manually open elevator doors. I found out i can do that on my 100th elevator ride!
The fact that she was still alive after the fall. That agonizing 40mins where she's alone and severely injured and in excruciating pain. I cant imagine... Poor little angel. May you rest in peace.
Yeah why did nobody help her!
@@jackieclan815 Nobody knew where she was
@@studentcopyofburgerking8108 someone must've heard! Idk maybe your right I'm just venting about the whole sad situation!
@@jackieclan815 She's still a toddler and just fell couple of levels down, she couldn't be able to make a loud noise, even adults can barely talk if that happened to them
Report said she was able to breathe and still moving at the time she was found ...
But later died ...
Could be traumatic brain injury or very heavy internal bleeding ...
This makes me wanna learn first aids or learn some doctor stuff to prevent deaths from tragic events like this ...
May she rest in peace ...
i don’t speak chinese, but you can hear the pain in his voice. it’s universal. 😢
Yes he’s literally crying
As someone who speaks Chinese, it's so much more heartbreaking.
@@_nothing.yes, i also speak chinese and broke down 😢
@@swaggyxlizzy Isn't UA-cam banned in China?? And I heard Chinese don't know and don't speak English??
@@studyhard-tl4bx yes, youtbe is banned in china- but you can still send videos to a middle man outside of china so they can be uploaded to youtube. Only around 15 million chinese people speak english fluently, but it is taught in schools, kindergartens, and universities.. Swaggyxlizzy doesn't explicitly state they're chinese, just that they know a chinese language [presumibly mandarin, as it is the most popular one]. people can learn languages.
The saddest part is hearing the baby crying in fear and the father mouthing his loss 😢
There’s a lot of things to blame here:
- the nanny’s negligence
- the elevator taking off to the top floor too soon
- the building poor safety regulations on exposed windows
True but to be fair most of the fault is on the Nanny
The Nanny could have save her if she follow the elevator arrow and climb up the stairs each floor until she finds where the elevator stop. I guess she panicked. Poor baby girl.
@@straycat4067 thats was my thought. smh
It’s all the nanny fault, seems like she barely took any effort to try and find the toddler after she went up. Just horrible tragic story.
@@Vision-lz4ru didnt you see how fast the door closed???
When you are babysitting someones child, you hold their whole world in your hands.
When you’re designing elevators you hold worlds in your hands. When you’re installing apartment windows, you’re holding world in your hands. When you’re passing off your child to a nanny, you are passing off their world to someone else’s hands. Moral of the story is, just do everything yourself. Lol.
@@burtonl7239 moral of the story just do things right.
@@burtonl7239 yes well said. I disgust these babysitter things
@@burtonl7239 In this world, you can’t do everything yourself. It’s impossible. That’s why people are cared for by their parents/guardians until adulthood, civilizations were created, and jobs for for a variety of fields-construction, programming, accounting, medicare, therapy, math research, science research, biology research, etc-were created. So how do we prevent things like this from occurring? Like the father said, we need to hold people to a higher standard and pass and enforce stricter laws.
@@burtonl7239 it is nanny's job to take care and always watch out the baby not the architect or the one who build the elevator/building,also always let the baby beside you and infront of you. What happens here can be prevented if the nanny is not carefree and always aware of the baby, not letting the baby behind her. Babies deserve to be watch out and take care by adults.
As dad of a little girl myself this is heartbreaking and I was tearing up watching the little girl freaking out being trapped in an elevator.
I have a little sister. My gut wrenched in pain when I heard how she was still alive and feeling the deepest pain for 40 minutes straight. How scary, how agonizing would've been for little baby. May she rest in the beautiful place now. ❤
I think that the apartment can be blamed partially for this as well, the lift's door closed unreasonably fast that anyone would have trouble reacting. This was truly an unfortunate accident.
And windows on the floor that can open are not exactly smart in an apartment complex where I'm sure there are many more kids
@@rhondakelly987 it’s possible that someone recently painted and left the window open for circulation, hoping that guardians would monitor their children aptly
Anh the fen of corridor is so slow, not hight enough apartment standards ,,,!
Fr fr
Most lifts wen u put Ur hand they reopen that one just closed shut
Poor girl, she probably didn't understand the concept of an elevator. She just saw doors close, the nanny vanish, and then them reopen, so she obviously went looking for her not knowing she was on a different floor and also not realising she was high up, so peered out the window. I really hope the father is staying strong out there.
Staying strong? How?
@@amandamorgan2802 they said they HOPE they are staying strong. Maybe they arent right now, but we wish they will stay strong afterwards.
@@amandamorgan2802 🥸
I remember being that age and being able to understand that elevators took you up and down because I could feel it moving. I think we downplay a toddler's intelligence sometimes. Her panic could've been that she simply didn't know how to go back.
Well, obviously. She's not even 2.
That was a very honest mistake. She looked down and the child’s hand was on the handle bar to the scooter. Looked up to Step off the elevator and when she glanced back down the child’s hand was gone.
finally someone with room temperature of iq
I really do think, after only 7 days on the job, she didn’t have the experience to know how dangerously fast these elevator doors closed. They closed way too fast to be safe. People are scaling like she left the kid alone for a long time; she didn’t, it was a split second. Obviously the question is, was there a display and did she see that it went to the 8th floor, and in what way did she “lie” to the father? When you are panicked you are not thinking clearly. This all happened so fast and the real problem is a window low enough for a small child to climb out of. Those windows were an accident waiting to happen. And this whole situation could’ve easily happened to the father as well when he was with the child, except for the fact that he had the experience with these elevators to know how fast they closed. He wants someone to blame because he is destroyed by this. It’s so strange to fight for higher standards for nannies when he should be fighting for windows to be installed higher.
*people are acting like
Not a very honest mistake. There’s so many reasons why. Even though the little girl’s hand was on the scooter, she should have held it more tightly. And even let the child out before she went out. I’m not even a mother, but with my little sisters I always make sure to hold their hand wherever we go, especially if we’re leaving an elevator or doorway or something. I also make sure they’re walking in front of me while I hold their hand so that I can see them, too.
The doors closed quickly, though, so let’s say that was a mistake. But after the doors closed, it says the elevator was on the floor for over 30 seconds. Unless this elevator has some weird design where pressing the button doesn’t re-open the doors right away, it should’ve opened if she pressed the button. 99% of elevators do re-open the doors when you press it, even if someone on another floor calls for it. Also if you press it right away, it should open back up, because you pressing the button immediately takes priority over the electrical signal when pressing the button from another floor (if someone had called the elevator around the same time).
Not only could she have opened the door, the most important part is that the girl wasn’t found until 40 minutes later. 40 minutes is a LONG TIME to not know where a child is (unless they’re safely in your home or something). Especially if you’re being paid to watch someone else’s kid!! How did she not go searching for the girl in those 40 minutes but the father found her right away? Was she just messing with her phone again for those 40 minutes?
She also said the girl “might have been” on the 8th floor. How did she not go and check right away if that was the case? Apparently the nanny also lied to the father about why Cherry was left in the elevator. There’s too many factors at play, so the negligence charge does not seem unwarranted here.
The way my heart broke when the little girl realized she was left alone and was crying and when the father held her toys. This makes me put my phone down more and spend every loving minute with my kids more. This can happen to anyone not just a nanny.
The most concerning part is how the elevator door closed immediately and refused to reopen once the nanny tried to get back in. I have been in many different buildings and most of it, if not all of their elevators opened even if it detects a slight movement near the door or if the elevator button was pushed even after the door closed. Im going off if the nanny immediately pushed the elevator button right after her mistake of leaving the girl behind, if she did, part of the fault was whoever designed said elevator. My prayers and condolences goes out to that family.
I noticed that too. Not to say the nanny is not responsible, but those elevator doors snapped shut awfully quick as soon as she walked onto the platform, and looking at the video footage it does appear she tries to push the scooter back in the way of the doors to keep them from closing, but they closed so quickly. What's also strange though is, why was she taken to the 8th floor? She didn't look tall enough to be able to reach those buttons. In addition to the window being open so low, the whole design and function of the building just seems not right. May this little girl rest in peace.
Yes the elevator was a bit too quick, but I think in those big buildings in China, at some times there's a lot of traffic so it needs to be quick.
I believe, like in most elevators in Beijing, if there's something in between the doors or if we push the "open" button, inside of the elevator, it would have opened. Unfortunately the nanny wasn't fast enough to reach in-between the doors and the little girl didn't know, or didn't think about pushing the button.
@@pault9544 Maybe someone on the 8th floor called the elevator then left before it arrived ? To take the stairs or maybe he forgot something in his apartment so went back. It happens I guess.
Elevators in China are terrible. There was one horrible example where a lady was stuck in an elevator there and was only found dead weeks later by maintenance workers. Bad building planning, low building standards, and so on add to high occurrences of death due to negligence. For one thing, why is the window so low and open?
There's a hotel owned by a Chinese that also close is a short time than any elevator I've used. But that never happen in any other Chinese owned hotels as well. Perhaps that one owner by a person from China and maybe that's a China thing.
Let everyone learn from this, take the kid's hand when leaving the lift. Material things don't matter, the life of a child is irreplaceable.
Absolutely agree.
^ everyone ignore the troll and move on with your lives
@@KKara268 "Truth hurts"...I can get it brodh. 🥰
@@KKara268 How?
When parents choose a place to live, must make sure the building design is child-proof and senior proof for safety. This building has two design faults, 1. elevator door is closing too fast and not sensitive to low objects, 2. low open windows in hallways that even an adult can fall through.
I've never seen elevator doors close SOOOOO quickly. There should be an investigation into the company that installed it and see if they were told to speed up the door time to close faster because that was ridiculously fast
I feel so bad for every parent who lost their child when the child was at a young age. This made me want to cry. The father did not deserve this. You can feel the pain.
I cant imagine how scared the child was. The way she was crying while sitting down crushed my heart. Strength to the parents
Broke me 💔💔💔
this is why nannies should be banned from every country on earth. if you cant take care of your own child, then you dont deserve your child.
I can't believe that the child had to live her last days like that. It feels sad and traumatizing to know
💔💔😓
she could've pushed the open door button anytime. she deserved it.
A lot of people are talking about how she was still alive after falling, I'm praying that her last moments seeing her father before passing gave her a peaceful drift from the pain! 🥺🥺
Yes! Hopefully, she felt comfort in those final moment knowing her father who loved her so much was there by her side. RIP... poor baby 😔
@@xstrdn This persons comment is a comforting thought in such horrific and tragic circumstances. No, life is not a Disney movie. But the bond between child and parent is real. If she had any sort of way to tell her father was there, it may not have taken her physical pain away, but it would have brought her the immediate feeling of safety and security only a parent can provide. We have no way of knowing if she was able to tell if her father was there, we can only hope. Why would you not want to want to hope that?
@@xstrdn see but you said "you're pretty sure" neither one od us was there so neither know, however you prepare for the worst and hope for the best! I was just saying it would be better if she felt even a bit of comfort.
Are you kidding me? She was lying there for almost an hour with horrible pain and you think she might had a peaceful drift?
@@jonathanc264 did you not read the comments?? We stated multiple times that we HOPE she died feeling more at peace knowing that her father is embracing her. None of us were there so we don't know for certain. Reality is often cruel but all we can do is hope that she didn't go out in complete pain and suffering.
The baby crying in the elevator and the dad sobbing was just too much for me. Now I’m sobbing.
Me too
Oh sweet sweet baby :( my heart hurts for that father as a father myself to a precious little girl. Rip baby girl
the fact that if the nanny didnt lie and misdirect the parents then the little girl probably would have been alive is sickening, she should have been tried for concealing the truth in addition to negligence
How could she have known where the child was? She did not lie and gave her perception of what happened. As anyone would in that situation she would have assumed someone had taken the girl. It was an accident and that's all there was.
@@fungames24 If she was slightly more sensible and responsible herself, she should have followed where the lift stops by looking at the display. The display shows at which floor the lift is currently in. She should have observed at which floor the lift is going to stop and rushed to that floor by the lift itself. Now since she didn't do any of it at least when she went to inform the parent, she should have given the exact lift location right away. But say somebody else might have used the lift before they made it to lift to see where it last stopped, even in that case they could have sent one person to check the CCTV footage of that particular lift and the other simultaneously could have looked for the child and recieved information on the footage via phone. Under no circumstance, it could have taken 40 minutes and the baby would have been saved. This is how she is responsible for causing delay in addition to the obvious negligence. That's a very small child to have the ability to rationalize, think through and not panic the second left alone. She should have been extra careful with the child of that age. Absolutely no excuses.
Also, if she were to right away direct them to the exact lift, in such a short span it's not possible to simply assume someone might have taken the child. And taken or not, you have to follow and trace the child where she could have ended up through the lift. That's the most plausible way of looking at things here. She may not have exactly lied but definitely irresponsibly handled the situation. She should have been crystal clear with where she left the child especially in the case of such a small child.
I will add three more important observations. Since she was a nanny to such a small child, she should have let the child leave the lift first and not after her. You never let the child behind, you hold their hand and keep them at the same level as you or a little (marginally while holding) in front of you or hold the child in your arms. This is common sense.
Secondly, she could have stopped the door from closing very conveniently but she didn't.
Thirdly, the lift stood their for 30 seconds. One could have pressed the open button several times within this timeframe.
She kept on delaying everything. Her reaction wasn't reasonable and too slow. How does that make her quality for as a Nanny? Too many unpardonable mistakes.
@@fungames24 she literally turned around and saw the girl was still in the elevator. She didn’t even press the button again so the doors can open. Cameras literally show the baby crying for 30 seconds b4 it was taken to the 8th floor. She left the baby there on purpose then didn’t even tell the parents where the last known location was.
@@SuzyW0ozy to
@@SuzyW0ozy When people are under extreme stress, they are unable to see things, or do things. If they could all sit back like you and be an armchair detective, then yes they would know exactly what happened.
The little one left her scooters handle and stayed back in the lift. Looked like the nanny realised just as the doors closed and perhaps the lift went on to the 8th floor. Really terrifying. A horrible accident.
it says the lift stayed at the first floor for 30 seconds (can also be seen in the video). more than enough time to push the button and open it if the nanny had realised.which she didn't. it's pure negligence
@@nonoara8807 she just saw it on the video but realized her life and the money gain where more important than the lost life of the child
why did the lift go to the 8th floor ? too bad the girl didn't meet anyone at the 8th floor..
That’s the fault of the nanny she should to hold the hand of the little kid than the scooter its because the little kid can’t be trusted of thier action specially in the elevator or escalator or even the sorrounding. Dont blame the kid the nanny have two hand she should hold in another side of her hand, she’s so careless.
Weird case
Lift goes 8 floor
That Baby just made me cry so bad, LIKE IMAGINE LOSING A CHILD THATS PROBABLY LIKE 2/4 YEARS OLD, gl riding that pink scooter in heaven, fly high 🥺
I have a sweet little one that just turned 3 years old and I can hear his cries in her little sweet cries. This story absolutely broke my heart! There are no words. May her father find purpose and peace. I can't even imagine.
The nanny was so careless with that child. Absolutely heartbreaking that this was 100% preventable.
@@divineloner777_ I’m sorry to tell you but your looking at your phone yourself
If this happened in the U.S they would 100% SUE the building owners for having the windows open. The Nanny would not be held responsible even though she should be.
@British vlog how did you conclude that hes careless through a comment😂
@@duckster_playz531 not while watching a child
@British vlog looking at your phone if you have a child is apparently being careless now? and in a elevator, they cant just get out of the elevator whiles it moving
not to mention she wasnt even looking at her phone when the elevators closed
The way she cried in distress being left all alone just to fall to her death minutes later..... my heart is completely torn into pieces after seeing this.
The father said she was still breathing because the nanny would tell him where to look. There’s a possibility if she had told the truth he could have gotten to her quicker. These situations time is of the essence and he didn’t even get that.
After the Nanny left her in the Elevator..and then come this little Girl Out ,but she was in the near by the Nanny ..My Question is , how she can get Up the Window to Fall ???
you would get a torn heart while watching this
@@Sonja-qj4jg She wasn’t near the nanny. The elevator took the baby to a different floor.
The doors closed really fast and the nanny did try to stick the scooter right back in…
i can’t believe she was still alive after such a fall.. my heart aches for her and her family.
you can hear the pain, grief and mourn in his voice after the death of his baby😕
She lied in pain for 40 minutes, each part of her body burning and aching like never before, a 2 year old doesn't deserve this. Please look after your children, get trustworthy people to take care if your kids when you're not around, what a precious soul we lost that day. RIP cherry
He thought the woman WAS trustworthy.
@@amandamorgan2802Listen, the kid was right behind her and the elevator shut. I'm sure she holds enough guilt without your comment.
@@stinkyliuuqz I am also sure.But now a child is dead..you can not do it that way.
@@amandamorgan2802Oh yeah because you’d really associate a child in a lift with her then jumping out of a window 🙄
Really? I was told that when the body was damaged to the point beyond the mind can take, the brain will stop translate the pain in order to keep its life.
I've never experienced such a fall so Idk what it feels but it could also be possible that she just laid there feeling 'notining' at all. Lifelessly laid there, yet still breathing.
Pro tip: if you’re working as a nanny or caregiver, hold and never let go of the person you’re supposed to be watching over instead of taking the scooter out first.
if the lift was stuck at level 1 for 30 seconds the nanny could have easily opened the doors by pressing the buttons outside, no?
cause she thought the kid was on the scooter, if the kid was on a bicycle I would take out the bicycle by its handle too.
@@andyng5321 thats what i thought too, but the lift was made in china, so.
@@andyng5321 the lift close too fast and she didn't realize in time that the child was still on the lift, and unfortunately nobody was there when the lift opened on the 8th floor
@@andyng5321 that’s true. But it’s extra responsibility for the nanny to hold on to their bread and butter. That’s what they were getting paid to do, to keep children/babies they’re supposed to be watching safe and alive by the time their work is done. The bicycle if left in the elevator would be fine and it can always be replaced. personally, I’d done this before watching over kids and taking a walk outside because there came a point in my job I started thinking I could not afford to get these kids lost and start a whole incident, was tie a short, soft rope or piece of cloth securely around my wrist (with a locking mechanism) and tie the other end around the kid (sort of like a leash), that way I’d never lose track of them even in case I get distracted and my attention went briefly somewhere else.
I hate these types of lifts
I also got into this situation 2 times being left alone after i didnt manage to get out in time. Luckily im 10 when i got into this situation, i can just go back to the lobby and call my parents or they just pressed the button again
RIP little girl
Man the care giver should of told him the truth...RIP little angel ✝️💜🙏🏻🕯️🌷
This little girl was alive for an entire hour….laying there alone. Still wondering where her dad or nanny were. That poor girl. I can’t imagine the fear and pain she went through.
This makes me physically ill, knowing the little girl was tortured, all alone dying. RIP Little One
Watch it again. Her dad found her at 40 minutes. I guess thats close to an hour!
That's why he wants justice. They could've found her sooner but it sounds like the nanny was scared to lose her job.
@@jaclynramirez1805
40 minutes has passed!? Jesus that woman needs to be arrested and sent to jail. If she would just tell him the truth she would at least be able to survive
@@t.j.7789 found at 40+ time to hospital etc. 1 hour plus. guess 1 hour is close enough to 1 hour:D
The voice of the dad while talking about finding his daughter on the ground is really heartbreaking. I really hope this family finds peace one day.
Absolutely heart breaking. This is too painful.
That’s what they get for making the China virus
This can happen to anyone and not a matter of law or regulatory issue
@@cilthepen shut up and rewatch the Video. The father had nothing to do with the child falling down, by the time he opened the window which allowed him to find her, the child had already been there for 45 minutes; she fell 45 minutes before the father opened the window. So obviously you did not understand the Video at all.
Also, it clearly is the nannys fault, its her job to ensure the child is safe, she is not supposed to leave the child in an elevator on its own. This woman cared more about her Phone than about the child she was supposed to take care of, how tf can you say its not her fault?! She also took way too long to tell the parents.
Edit: sure the building should be built safer and children shouldnt be able to reach the Windows but still this danger wouldnt matter if the nanny actually did her job and took care of the child.
And that nanny to her deserved place !
Those cries tore my heart out. I'm literally bawling. That poor baby!!
This was heartbreaking to just watch. I can’t imagine how the father and the child went through. May the little angel rest in peace ❤
*That was too painful to watch, I wish nobody goes through anything like this*
don’t care
@@beaualIoevv 🤓
@@beaualIoevv 🤓
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SUE THE BUILDING CONTRACTOR. For safety requirements, openings like windows should be regulated to be at least 90-110 cm off the ground, depending on the country. This is to ensure no child can climb and accidentally fall through. Not to mention that that lift is NOT safe. It shouldn’t close that fast. Safety features are, unfortunately, often overlooked for the sake of aesthetics, especially when an accident seems unlikely to happen.
It’s China. These kinds of buildings are everywhere! There’s a lack of building regulations, which is why Ai Wei Wei called the government out on it and he ended up getting arrested / tortured. If you want to find the sole problem, it’s the government
@@MyAura funny fact: 1984 by George Orwell isn’t banned in China 🇨🇳
Exactly what I thought about that Elevator. It closes so fast that I couldn't imagine if multiple people are riding that Elevator then the next person would have to wait or will get squeezed by the automatic door, then opens again.
It's China.
And why didn't the nanny just press the elevator button? I take elevators everyday, where I am from if the doors close and someone outside the elevator presses the button the doors will open again. I don't understand how this could happen.
Im so so sorry this happened to your child , the worst that could happen in someones life is losing a child.
Gods love and peace be with you all
My heart was breaking, cracking, and hurting seeing the girl so scared when she was left alone on that lift. I seriously cannot imagine being away from the large guardian who made you feel safe as a child who didn’t know any better.
😞
The sound of her crying and banging on the elevator doors broke my heart. And the fact that she was still alive after the fall; I can't imagine the pain the poor little girl was in. Rest easy little cherry.
It' breaks my heart
😂😂
Absolutely 💔
@@GroupKakiPancingPantai why laugh emoji
@@GroupKakiPancingPantai this why your parents disowned you
I physically felt sick when I saw how she cried, and then my stomach dropped when they mentioned the 8th floor. The fact she was still alive when the dad found her makes me think of the amount of pain she endured. My heart breaks for him and his daughter because he genuinely sounded so heartbroken as he was in tears. I'm so sorry Cherry. May you rest easy.
The person behind the killing of Prime Minister Shinzo Abe is Obama and the underground democratic party with China
@@khoapub8750 this has nothing to do with politics. Shut the fck up and leave.
I don't understand, did she really fall from 8th story heights straight to the ground? Because I think not even adult would survive that, not even for 40 minutes
@@yogap6162 if a person is loose and limber (as in, not all tensed up) sometimes they can survive, but in this case the height was too great, and tragically the child died.
This is just my theory. She might not have been aware she was going to die. Although its also a fact that even infants have a fearful reaction to a sudden dropping sensation.
@@yogap6162 maybe it’s because of the weight difference , the more you weight the more speed you get when falling so it’s more dangerous.
For example if a mosquito falls from the 8 floor it will mostly survive .
I think this is the reason why she didn’t instantly dead from falling the 8 floor .
Rest In Peace little girl
Oh my gosh at this point the way the father feels is the way i crying rn i feel bad .The person who was recording and showed the window got me with tears in my eyes. But we know she is high up to heaven ❤🥹She will always be in her father heart 💗💗💗
Losing a child is the most painfull event a human being can go through😢
This was gut wrenching. Seeing how scared and upset the little girl was when left on the elevator and hearing the immense anguish and pain in her father's voice was absolutely brutal. No parent should ever have to endure something like this especially when it's something that so easily could have & should have been prevented. My heart goes out to this man and his family.
So deeply sorry for your loss of your delightful little daughter!!!! So sorry for the pain in your hearts, and your empty arms!!! May you find peace in time.
(As a mother and grandmother, my heart is weeping with you. I send much love to you, the family...).
Boo boo 🙄🖕🏻
😢
China fascists believe in racial segregation
Seeing her leave that elevator just tore my heart out. She was in such a state of distress in her final moments.
the father's crying is what really got me to start crying too, I can't imagine what he's feeling right now and how the little girl felt when she fell
That's what actually brought my tears and cattarh
Sadly I can imagine because I've lost two of my children. That's why I immediately started crying for this poor man. I know the long road of grief he has before him 💔
@@crazycatlady4023 I’m so sorry for your terrible losses 💔💔
@@crazycatlady4023 I'm so sorry for your losses ❤ I hope you are recovering and are ok right now
@@crazycatlady4023 I'm so sorry I really hope the best in your life and that you'll live it the way your children would've want you to
I’m so sorry for these parents loss. My parents lost a toddler when I was a baby. They never stop loving that baby.
🕊🙏🏽
She's so cute.Rest in peace baby girl.It's so painful to watch.
I don’t think I’ve ever felt worse for someone in my entire life. They loved that little girl with everything that they had.
Yes, he did. He sure did, he did.
Idk who you mean by "they" but that nanny cared more about herself if she lied to the dad about important facts of what happened.
@@DanAPink-du9oh what was even her "lies" again? she supposed to know the elevator taking the toddler to floor 8?
As a father myself our number one job is to protect our family though that’s not always possible since we need to provide aswell. That feeling of helplessness when you aren’t able to be there to protect them is one of the sharpest pains a man can feel.
@@havel6060 YEAH! If you have any idea about how elevators work, above the entry you can see what floor it's on as you wait or in this situation, what floor it would've stopped on, when it did... hold up... it must be... Are you related to the BECH!?
That's the fastest closing elevator door I've seen.
Nope. 100% Her negligence. Children go out first, then the adult to ensure nobody gets left behind or are capable of calling emergency if locked in
@@PoweredByAudiolooked pretty fast
I’ve also got a two year old, I’m gonna be super protective with my lil bro!
Sad
@@PoweredByAudio 100% her negligence, true. But the door was 10x faster than a regular elevator tho.
This is so heartbreaking. I can’t bear the sound of the little precious girl crying when the doors closed.
So sorry for this father’s loss. Cherry is in the loving arms of her Creator!
It literally makes me sick to think that this precious little girl laid dying for 40 minutes by herself! She must have been beyond terrified!! To know those were her last feelings is beyond heartbreaking!!!
Not that it is any comfort, but she reunites with her father before falling asleep. Hopefully she felt safe in her father's arms and made her death not as scary.
She probably was to injured to feel any time and understand anything u know..
@@ango3185 she was injured so ofc she felt all the pain but couldnt do anything
@@bruhno1545you didn't read their comment. when you experience to much pain your body goes numb. so no she did not feel it.
@@stinkyliuuqzyou dont know that for sure
I'm not even a nanny and when I'm around children I cannot take my eyes off them. Children do impossible things and can hurt themselves EASILY. You need to be severely responsible around them at ALL TIMES.
I am the same way! ! if i see a toddler I am keeping my eyes on them to make sure they are safe. This is so heartbreaking to watch.
Do you also blame parents whose children get kidnapped?
@@leafy4142 depends on situations.
@@MsXenyy1 That's fair.
What if a parent let's a child walk to school? If the child gets kidnapped on the way, is that the parent's fault?
@@leafy4142 if it's in Japan, no .. if it's in other countries where kidnapping happens, yes...
I couldn't imagine how hard it is for a father to lose her child at a very young age. Praying for your loss. 🙏 😢
just watching the little girl start to cry reminds me of my little sister (she's not dead) and if that happened to her i would start crying i'm starting to tear up just from this 😢
Same...
His pain is indescribable, this hurts no matter who's baby it is, any true parent would cry with him and for that beautiful little girl. So very sorry 😔
I am crying..
im crying too. i dont think i can forget this
I'm crying. I'm single, but I can't nor do I ever want to image how it feels to experience it. I remember when my older siblings was playing with their infant n while I was lying on my stomach they sneaked on me and placed my niece on my back n then saw them walking in front of me. My older siblings wife and me got a heartache cuz I wasn't prepare to know how to move in case my niece fell on her face and don't fall on the couch but on the ground cuz I made a wrong move.
I dont want to even picture what this father must have thought while searching his child and then when he got to find her in such a state.
She literally looks like my lil bro 😭
I couldn't even watch the entire video. My heart wouldn't take it.
Doesn't matter what language, pain still sounds the same. I feel so sad for the father. My condolences. 😔
It's in Chinese
@@banknotesgalaxy.japan.6658 Thanks, captain obvious
@@sasino welcome.... Where are you from?
The way you saidthatsounds like you think your nationality is more superior
@@dinosaur5726 yeah
My heart goes out to the parents of this little girl and to the little girl. I am so sorry for what happened to them. 😭😞Heartbreaking 💔💔💔
This poor father you can even hear his voice breaking I wish I could give him a hug fly high little angel am sorry that you had to leave us too soon😢😢🕊️🕊️
seeing the father sobbing with the babys toys is soul crushing
That part got me too, I’d be doing the same. Dad was so used to having his little girl around and to wake up one day and not hear her little feet running around the house and her little voice must be the hardest part for him.
For real 😢
That part broke me 😢
not really. Iraq was so much worse. I can't sleep sometimes of what i did
@@user-vj3ti2zl1l its not a contest
As a mom this absolutely breaks my heart and can’t imagine the heartbreak ,pain and sorrow this father is going through.
Me too. I am a literally sobbing mess. I have a 2.5 year old daughter. The way she was so frightened being left alone. You can tell she was so very loved by her father. What a terrible accident. A tragedy
F you and your family, nobody cares about you its not about you stvpid woman.
Shut up. U being a mom doesn't mean anything
i aint a mom, but this leaves me heartbroken too.. i feel so bad for the dad, n the child :'(
@@nityah6815 so do I. I prayed so hard last night that May I never ever have to feel the pain that Cherry’s father felt.
I am so sorry I am crying so sad I hate seeing her kick and yell she was scared she is in a wonderful place now in heaven ❤
The sound of the dads crying hit hard. Wish I could give this man a hug
edit: Don't wanna be that one guy, but this is the most likes I have ever got.
Lol
@@tommyvercetti891 wdym 'lol'
@@tommyvercetti891 it aint funny man
Same bro...
@@89dust_mfs lol
The fact Wu concealed what she knew after the fact is reprehensible. That beautiful baby may have lived if found in time. I am very sorry to the family.
Well what’s there to conceal in the first place? The baby was stuck in an elevator. Not intentionally left right next to the window. This was just an accident and the lady shouldn’t be punished
I think that's mostly just something the father's is saying out of his pain, he needs to find someone to blame. They didn't say what the nanny told them. Probably something along the lines that the girl got trapped in the lift, so they were trying to find her near the lift.... She didn't have any way to know that she went to the 8th floor and fell to her death from a random window
What's there to conceal ? Maybe she didn't tell them immediately and thats what he mean. After watching this I would hate the nanny so much if they were crossing the road. But this? This is an elevator and that thing shut so quick
I mean the nanny was not paying attention to the baby sure but she tried saving her and trying to open the door
@@griddycheese and she wasn’t on her phone while exiting the lift and was holding baby’s hand. It all just happened so quickly!
But maybe she didn’t call parents right away hoping to find the girl herself and conceal the fact something happened at all :(((((
That is so sad. What a beautiful little girl. I feel like crying. RIP sweetheart.
Cherry was such a pure soul anyone could tell just from this video and the pain in her fathers voice that she did not deserve such a painful death although this is so so so sad i cant help but say cherry is really beautiful name
It's not. It's a bad nickname. The Chinese in the most recent of modern day started doing this to their kids and it's horrible. You actually thought it was the real one? When they grow older, then they'll pick another 'Western' name to be 'trendy'. They should stick to only Chinese names, which make sense and actually have a level of importance
@roguejez I think people can name their children what they like as long is won't get them bullied and stuff anxiously there's a limit but I think Cherry is OK ❤️
This breaks my heart into pieces. I cant imagine what the father went through.
It's so sad i want to throw up
@@juraco9669 ?
its so sad,especially since its his own child.She couldve had a education and had a entire future ahead of her,if someone couldve hesrd her cries as she made it to the 8th floor they couldve saved her.Rest In Peace Little Cherry ❤️
oh it broke into pieces alright 😏
@@purple6705 not even funny.
I wish I could just take his pain away 💚💜💚💜💚💜💚😢
Thats the most horrible thing a parent could go through loosing your children 😞 my condolences 🙏 for you,i could probably never forgive that woman watching my child,but it literally takes a second 😢
This might be one of the saddest videos I've ever seen. The father's grief = unbearable.
I agree. I will never forget this one. Burned in my brain. RIP little angel
So sorry to the dad 😢😭 it was horrible to watch. I wonder where the mum was?
@@AK-ql8yp Most likely both parents held jobs.
@@bentleyrv6 same..
@@Landis_Grant They now have lots of money and no baby. The opposite of many "poor" parents attacked by "child protection" alphabet agencies and NEGLIGENT parents who call and try to have their children removed during their most vulnerable financial time while home with their one and only child, not enforced by any Chinese one child policy- rather, responsibly elected. But that's censored by "Chinese" de factos; just like other population control polices recently (about "2 weeks" ago) by de factos calling themselves leaders of a "nation" . Disgusting money grabbing fails should not attempt to judge who is poor by putting their children in the balance. We will see who is found wanting.
This is devastating. Every adult who really cares for a child would always hold their hands first or if possible, just carry them.
She did seem to hold her hand but the little girl just pulled her hand away
@@dead2675 that is no excuse tbh. If you have to hold the hand of a child, you force it if they don't comply. They don't know any better.
@@gauravamatya9602 please stop. You guilt tripping people when the accident was pure seconds from the door closing and having no sensors and the child being trapped behind. Your not going to change something that happened by guilt tripping people who already probably feel so depressed and heartbroken over what happened. Have some empathy.
@@mydogsteppedona4431 absolutely, hate when people do that
Exactly everytime working with kids i always hold their hands or they do it themselves . This is just pure negligence as the nanny should had her hands.
Such an unbearable tragedy. I hope the father's embrace brought the little girl peace in her final moments. May he find find peace of mind someday as well.
Scary and saddening! Rest in peace little one. You were obviously too precious for this world.
This is so saddening, the fact that she was able to sustain 40 mins after the fall in extreme pain in a young age... I cannot imagine the grief and regret the parents had to go through.
lack of building safety, the windows is to lower. it no problem if lift door to fast close, and nanny do not have time to react, 1st to blame is building safety, 2nd is nanny, not focus on the baby girl, i always carry or sit on me less than 4 year old baby on lift, elevator and boat.
I agree with your statement. poorly designed windows can lead to tragic events.
@@realLC07 yeah it crazy, the windonws to low. not even have a safety grill or balcony.
hopefully the brain did its job and pumped massive amounts of endorphins, adrenaline, dopamine, etc!
Yea, dang that must hurt a lot a little kid
my mom always tells me never let toddlers walk behind you, always walk behind them..watching this really made me think of those words more deeply... rip angel
doesn't matter if they are in front of you or behind you. If they on the move they on the move. The little kids are hard to catch.
@@Shion0Hibiki it does matter, every nanny knows not to let toddlers walk behind them. It's just common sense, if you think toddlers are hard to catch then make sure they walk infront of you so you can keep an eye on them🙄
@@Shion0Hibiki My mom raised us as a single mother of two crazy boys and we never had a personal vehicle to take us anywhere. She gave us rules. #1 We always held on to her belt and never let go when walking around or crossing busy streets. She was always carrying a lot of stuff thats why. She was a teacher. #2 We always walked in front of her and in arms distance. #3 She made sure that my brother and I always kept an eye on each other. Never separating. #4 If we played in public, she made sure she never lost sight of us. She was a hawk. Im 38 now and I thanked her for her sacrifice.
@@Shion0Hibiki i know sometimes unfortunate accident can't be stopped it happens no matter how attentive you are but if this way there is less risk why not do it
Exactly, the Nanny was paid to look after the kid not looked by the kid.
Rest in peace little angel, can't imagine the fear and pain she was in for 40 mins. My heart broke hearing the father speak
Seeing the father grief for his daughter with her toys really ripped my heart out and made me tear up. That is just awful prayers for him and his family ❤️
I know it’s sad for me to see that as well
Well it’s his fault for letting someone else look after his kid. Parents who leave children with others are irresponsible by nature.
How can you say that?? It didn’t say anything about the baby’s mom so maybe he’s a single dad and has to work. What is he suppose to do? He doesn’t deserve to be blamed for his child’s death. It was the nanny’s fault and she admitted it. If she was just honest and told the truth, maybe they would have gotten to the child in time to save her. I have a 22 month little girl myself. Watching this broke my heart. Rest In Peace sweet girl. You didn’t deserve this. I hope one day the dad can have some peace as well. ❤️
@@vkong3361 it’s not the nannys fault that’s not even her kid it was an accident and that kid is a spoiled brat obviously deserved it maybe next time to father will be an actual dad and take care of his own kids other then blaming
@@Emma-yg2uf dad has to work, mom has passed away. What would you do to bring food to the table?
This made me physically ill. Hearing her cries in the elevator just broke me. I am so so sorry for the loss of this child. It should have never happened. My heart aches.
Crying scared because she got left alone in an elevator, the door shutting infront of her. Being brought to a random unfamiliar floor. The door opens so she walked out and wandered aimlessly not knowing soon it'll be excrucisting pain and living out her last hours.... uh terrifying
@@kittencutie7074 agreed
@@kittencutie7074 I bet she thought the window was the outside since it'd be lit by daylight so she walked there rather than in some hallways. And that was that... I've never seen a window so low. Then again this is China
@@Walamonga1313 so these stuff aren't regulated huh... I can't even imagine how many other high places with low windows or improper railings
some parents even left their kid inside the car without knowing till their kid died inside the stuffy car, some adults really too careless to take care of kids, they dont deserved it
She stayed that long alive experiencing all the pain!!!
That's the worst experience for anyone and it was experienced by a small child
it's so heartbreaking when the father is crying 😭😭😭
As someone who nannied a couple of times, I can’t even let myself turn my back on a kid. Anything can happen in a flash of a second. I pray this father heals with time
Well, the kid can trip, fall, hit his head on the concrete and die. Anything can happen, you don't need to constantly watch the kid. My mother in law does the same and it's driving me insane.
@@numaru7 just be happy that your mother in law does that. There is a reason she is doing that. If this nanny had done the same this kid would not have died under her watch this way at least. How does one explain i left your kid in the elevator..
@@numaru7 - Wow...that was *the* dumbest comment I've read on YT in a while (and that's saying something). You've obviously never actually had to watch small children.
@@opo3628 i've been doing fine with mine. Even caught one of them while he tripped walking normally on street and almost hit his head on the border. But this is what i mean, to prevent stuff like this i would have to never let the childs hand go. A week back one of them lost his balance on the couch and hit himself on the corner of the eye. He was fine in 30 seconds, healed itself in 2-3 days. Done. Should i live only on fluffy pillows from now on?!
And stuff is going to get more dangerous as they age, am i going to protect them every second of their life? Then when they are of age they will be tied with an umbilical cord to me? The only thing you can do is set rules and boundaries and hope that they don't overstep them too much. Thankfully i see a majority of parents doing exactly like this, instead of overprotecting their children.
@@numaru7 Hi, adult male from Australia and parent here ... and I agree with you. When my son was 2 1/2, we went to a book shop 📚. He loved books. I bent down to pick one up for him ... and he had vanished. I couldn’t believe it. At first I figured he’d been snatched but a woman said he’d bolted straight out the shop. We located him 200 metres away on the other side of the carpark.
You don’t have to be distracted by a mobile phone to lose a child. I think almost every parent has a story of a kid that has got clear away. My mother put me in a train when I was about 4 and was about to load the pram with her other child, when the train simply moved off. The passengers in the train held me in and later somehow managed to reunite me with my (frantic) mother.
I feel great pity for the father, but I also feel sorry for the nanny. The lift doors closed very quickly, and then there was a window left open in the high rise building. It seems like no one had any luck in this story.
Never ever let a small child walk through elevator doors without either holding your hand or being carried. This is only one of the many things that can happen. I personally have had an elevator door try to close on me. It knocked me over but I was big enough where the door didn't slam shut. Imagine a small child would not have enough weight to hold the door back. This didn't happen in an old building this happened in a hospital. The door sensors don't always work 100% of the time.
Absolutely I always grab my kids hand and lead them out first. At this age I would carry them in and out
this isn't the problem. It's the window and negligent worker
I let my daughter walk through because she finds it fun to ride elevators without being held. I'm just intelligent enough to pay attention to her and the door while she walks on and to keep an eye on her when getting off.
Never ever have the child behind you. I don't have kids nor do I care for them as my job and even I know that. I've a younger brother and my parents always had him at the front or holding their hands to the side. And I learned to do this myself when I've to look after young family members.
Having a little human -seems- is very laborious, should go pro choice lol
This is really sad. I'm so sorry for their loss. That nanny should have picked up the girl before leaving the elevator or at least made sure to hold her hand
0:50 Baby pushing the door to open was so sad 😢
I can't imagine the fear and pain that little girl went through for that final hour of her precious life. As a father of a daughter myself, I can't even begin to comprehend the endless amount of pain, suffering, and grief that father is having to endure right now.
This ain't real mf it's China propaganda
I'm not even a father,but i still felt his cry,sadness and broken heart. Poor little girl. May both of them find peace
i hope you and your little girl will always be safe, no matter where you are. there's no such thing as too careful especially if it involves a small child. wish people will be more aware and not take things for granted 😞💔
Well. Then you lack free consciousness.
@@zarpp9411 tf you mean
My neighbor’s grandma accidentally left their two-year-old daughter in the elevator. I live in an upper floor and just happened to press the button at the perfect time and managed to pull her out of the elevator and return her home. When I found her in the elevator, she was crying exactly like this girl. It was a very scary experience. You absolutely have to hold the elevator door until you see the kids go out.
hold the door and let the kids out first, or hold their hand! nanny hold her phone instead !
@@Evil_Vegan you even have to be careful sending the child/children out first, as the doors might close on you, and then the child/children are outside on their own... like you say, hold their hands and all walk out together!
Never trust those elevator doors, some sensors don't work and they will shut, even with you in between. Hold your baby's hand or better yet, hold your baby. That baby is so lucky to have run into you.
I agree with HOLDING a child’s hand. It’s a lot like crossing the street with them. Because some elevators have been known-very rare but still-of people walking off elevators and falling because there’s no floor to walk into or vice versa, walking into an elevator but there’s actually no lift, just the doors open.
So even myself, as an adult always look before blindlessly stepping onto elevators, or off. With a baby, hold their hands…don’t let them lead or walk without your guidance. They literally don’t know anything about this world.
So sad this poor man had no clue he’d hire someone who’d change his life for the worse.
Hold their hand, please, because they can go all over the place at any moment...just like crossing an intersection...always hold their hand until they are in safety...then you can let go if they are a responsible child that usually follows instructions.
Oh my... i very rarely cry from these kind of videos but seeing that little girl cry in fear broke my heart...
Its shocking how life can end suddenly. I just can't imagine the depression father is going through right now. 😢
This is sad beyond repair. Nothing is more tragic than for a Father to lose his little angel. Enough to drive you crazy.
Nothing is more tragic than a PARENT losing a child.. There fixed it for you🙄
@Alexthefancollector Walker 🙄
@@IsaganiPumar the soul is never the same. The dad loved that daughter and that daughter is not the same as any children in this world. Sure, he can have another one but that don't heal the scar the dad have. The new one doesn't replace the dead one.
@@siesiechampion ANNOYING!
@@mandmsmapper8400 What did he say originally? I only see the reply with an emote but based on your comment I think he they something really insensitive.
As a father this makes me sick Man I love my kids
Of course....
@@soda5191 yeah
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😎😎😎
@@andremalone3941 🤓
@@ZackO.O (pounding my chest with my chest out shoulders back and head up, while my nostrils are flaring). 😎😎😎
The little girl crying for help broke my ❤️
My heart goes out to the father and mother, No one should go through an experience like that. It's not the grand mothers fault, that door closed really fast like in a split second. She must be feeling horrible. Those windows are to low. I hope they fix that.
Hearing the baby screaming and crying was more than I can take and will never leave my memory for the remainder of my life. I hope her family will be able to live with the loss of their beloved daughter
For goodness sake.
I watched with sound off and I don't think I can turn it on now
😭after she was crying and just went out of a elevator on a random floor is just so so so so sad then a freaking window, I hope this father lives with peace and hope he will think and remember abt her everyday😭R.I.P.😭
@@eminemillyI just turned it all the way down I’m actually scared now I heard her cry a little but I don’t wanna anymore
@@eminemilly Bro I feel so happy when babies cry. Not just babies, anyone including my friends, it just makes me too happy. This video was kinda funny btw.
Small coffins are the heaviest.
I feel extremely sorry for that little girl's family.
only for few people affected, otherwise, it will always follow physics rule.
@@onengkusumah2905 whats wrong with you yer like the person who always gets everything and has never experienced sadness its really pathetic
cremation is probably more common these days
@@onengkusumah2905 that's a figure of speech. Why such a pooper?
@@onengkusumah2905 L + Ratio + Fatherless
You don’t wish that kind of situation happened even to your worst enemy. I wish a lot of strength to the family!