@@lanfour4444 And there's many more mothers who abandon their child the moment anything happens that would require a possible lifetime of care. DNA really doesn't mean anything.
@@helenasnut2637 he's probably 9 years old and learned the word "cringe" and is now spamming it everywhere. i see him on all the comments here saying the exact same thing.
The human body is remarkable. From his illness to the brain power of the medical team to successfully break and put him back together to his mom’s strength for her child…..all truly amazing
Bruh he was bent over for over 20 years, his mum didn't leave him and he could even play an instrument. These doctors were amazing. So happy for them, legitimately.
I mean he started to practice instruments and writing right after he recovered from a 20 year nightmare. And I as a perfectly healthy human being can lie in bed for weeks doing nothing after finishing a simple assignment.
@@DHU11 I am half korean born in Busan city and believe me when i tell you that around 330.000 children are abandoned by their parents and those are the ones who were registrerd we do not know the total numbers of abandoned children,for babies and pre-teens because in korea we have the same as japan we live in a shame society where you are shunned by everyone if you do not function as the others do and therefor many children are abandoned,seeing this happen where the poor old motheris still taking care of her son instead of abandoning him is a rare thing to see in Asia,i find it so sad she is there crying worrying that if she dies who will take care of her disabled son knowing that nobody around or the goverment would even try and help but just let him suffer more,they really have a great bond and i hope they both be healthy and live long and happy.
@@Ormeli its not impossible at all. We have better equipment and better doctors from all over the world. We lead in research of medications and equipment as well as treatments. However China does have extremely well developed facilities and very well trained doctors. Its too bad that its so gilded. China is owned by a horrible government. The media is only really allowed to post positive things in China. The government controls everything there. It looks great here because rhey are required to show only these things. Its become well known what china does.
The mother’s tears are like diamonds from heaven - what a brilliant example of what we can do for each other and I admit I never knew something like this existed. I’m humbled to see this.
i could only imagine the relief Li felt when looking at the ceiling of his hospital room for the first time after waking up from his final surgery. i hope he’s living happily and healthy❤
@@moritze.2449 From what I read, China's government is pushing for health insurance companies to cover at least 70% of the hospital bill. This surgery could have been possible from that.
Incredible operation !! There must be millions of poor people in villages away from the cities that have severe medical conditions that never see a doctor because they are so poor ! Thats not right if the CCP can constantly build mega projets all across China !
I literally cried I really felt that, even when its only my hand bleeding, but when my mom founded the cutted part healed(?) she was really happy My mom is single parent and I don't meet her for some days, because she was working to make me life this happily, thank you mom... /btw, srry for my bad English\
Man this got me. I'm in tears. Such a simple thing, being able to stand up straight. Truly, it makes you appreciate the things you have. Everyone has issues, but man, there really are worse things out there in almost every instance.
So true ,,live in the present,its the infinite moment , as the past is gone ,and future does not exist yet except in our minds , gratitude is the key to happiness and /abundance ..,,❤🌀🌄
Unfortunately this is very realistic for children with certain conditions. If their parents die, they usually end up on institutions that care little about them
@Anesh Verma there is the time for people to say something to other , even your enemy still need your love and respect Anesh, if you want to mock other find out the healthy and happy people to be your target , please stay human as much as possible , enjoy yourself as long as you can walk and breath normally,
He is "fortunate" that he gets to really value things we take for granted. We go thru life not appreciating our "gifts". Whilst he is thankful for what little comfort he has achieved. Seeing his achievements I will forever be thankful for simply getting out of bed n dressing up and go about my life. Great motivational video. 👍
This makes me happy. Imagine receiving such a life changing gift. He'll have to work so hard, but there's so much beauty in him having the opportunity to work hard in the future.
The lead surgeon calling his wife before his break to let her know how things went in the first operations made me really happy. Everyone needs some support
marialovesmusicalot commitment and dedication. A lot of doctors actually recognize the gravity of their work. One mistake can end a patient’s life or paralyze him for life.
@@Julia-jd9fr Glad you guys are available when he needs someone to talk to. Children nowadays find it bothersome. I hope you continue to be his strength. 🙂
When you think you have problems in your life, and then you look at something like this. Kind of makes my problems seem really small. Congrats to him and his family!
this is absolutely crazy to me how skilled these doctors are. breaking the bones around the neck and spine without paralyzing this guy. absolutely amazing.
That's his karma. Harsh truth. He probably did something bad in his past life that's why he is suffering now. Maybe in his next life he will be in a better state.
Hopefully thanks to his determination to live on he would be able to achieve something we cant and maybe the one to advanced humanity. Maybe just maybe.
agree. I like how his mother always stay positive and didn't complain anything about the doctor and the treatment even though it takes 28 years of his son to cure
My father had this, but he gratefully wasn't bent over that far. But he had to walk with a cane and wasn't able to drive. He was 76 when he died. Regardless of his health problems he was a wonderful father and he's greatly missed.
@@looksirdroids9134 some parents cant cope. My parents gave up on my brother he had depression and when they told him to move out he killed himself. Its very sad but its a huge amount of pressure
Drained When something severe happens without much options for a cure it’s not uncommon to see that they lose hope, develop bad mental health and ultimately lose their willingness to live.
@@AiraSoliven thats not true. Unless you dont have depression, youll never be satisfied. A person who loses a limb or two will get used to it. They may be in shock the first few weeks, but losing hope? Never. Any strong individual will fight on, as i said, there are no one who would want to just die. Because death isnt the religious heaven many imagine, life is.
@@drained1177 That's what he said. Depression is a mental illness that can largely result from loss of hope or reason. There's also a lot of debate going on on self euthanasia because the patients would rather die than keep on living in their current state.
He's lucky to have a mother who loved him so much, feeding him and bathing him for almost 30 years. What the doctors did was a miracle. I hope he and his mother can live a happy life for the rest of their years.
I lived in China and Chinese mother love their kids and will take care of them till her last breath. American parents are like, if you are 18 you are responsible for everything. If they pay for your food or healthcare they will fight like a kid and ask for their money.
@Perfect Events the funny thing is that aint completely false. There's some crazy Asian parents out there, forcing their kids to do the impossible such as the highest grade etc
@@quicksolutions1634 Although it seems he will partially recover it's mobility, I hope somebody teaches him a profession that doesn't require much movement but lot's of thinking, like design, architecture or programming. He seems like a warrior, he'll probably learn whatever so he can take care of it's mother.
That is standard flair in Sinic (Confucian) cultures. Parents sacrifice for their children. And children in turn pay their parents back by taking care of them during their senior years. That's why this man was grieving when he talked about how he had a been such a burden to his mom all these years.
@@Clipified386 Not really the govt’s job to provide for its citizens on the individual level. But it is their job to provide for the public as a whole.
China should legalize assisted euthanasia for disabled people. ~ *Several European countries such as Switzerland and Belgium have legalized doctor assisted euthanasia for the disabled, elderly, terminally ill people, and in some cases, even just severely depressed people.* ~ ~ That is my retirement plan.
That's exactly the point I broke into tears. Nothing about his own pain and the unbelievable risk to his life or the risks posed by the surgery, but only the thought of wanting things to be easier on his mother 😭
@@fidelianerina Same here. My eyes were teary watching this but that sentence really did it for me. A loving and caring parent would never see their ill child as a burden.
I think that he called himself of burden because he think that must be hard for his mother take care of him. It's a hard situation living under care of anyone, even being his mother, it's hard because of physical and mental consuming.
The harmonica song he play early was a song dedicated to his mother hardship, it a song to cherish their own mother who raised them lovingly... I cry when I heard it since I listened to it many times when I'm small because my grandmother is Chinese 😢😢😢...
Wan Khairul Wan Ali can you share the name of the song and full lyrics if you know them. This is so beautiful. Humanity at its absolute highest all around.
He’s had a debilitating illness for most of his life, that wasn’t his fault and he feels bad that his mother had to look after him 🥺. Trust me, as a parent, you do anything for your kids. Such a sweet family ❤️
She's been strong. She's super mom, I doubt I would have been like her. I guess being a mom knows no boundaries of not going through each phase with your child.
mad props to the mother, she took care of him and loved him and dedicated her whole life to taking care of her son even though he was disabled. thats true love. ❤
Just shows that even something as simple as sitting up straight or standing up straight shouldn't be taken for granted. And the mother is truly an angel.
I can't imagine the psychologic pain this guy endured... After being able to do everything as everyone, being at the beginning of adulthood and suddenly it's taken away from you... I hope he can recover not only physically but psychologically.
i think he will. having only seen this brief glimpse into his life and character, I venture to say, i know he will. surviving the physical toll this amount of surgery takes out of one is impressive enough, but to hear him voice his concern for relieving his mother of the responsibility of caring for him makes me think his head is in the right place to make a full recovery :)
"After the operation, I could finally take a closer look at my mom. She looks older and her hair turned grey. I feel so sorry. She can't take care of me her whole life. I hope I recover soon, so she can be relieved of this burden" hearing him say that broke my heart. I'm sorry for anyone going through tough situations. It's not fair that some people's lives arent the way it should be. The mom couldn't do anything other than take care of her kid for over 20 years. I would do the same for either of my kids
@@cheilibond6940 Well technically it says "eats southern californian gang members (crips)" but yeah im sure thats a spelling mistake, quite disturbing to be honest, and as a british citizen i can say, no... we do not eat crips, well i don't.
The burden from this disease is tough on family members. I have AS and my wife has Psoriatic Arthritis. We are both turning into each other with our problems. I have spine issues similar to his and my wife has extremity issues in her hands and feet.
Started crying when he said that he could finally see his mum and that she looked a lot older and her hair became grey Like can you imagine having an image of someone very close to you for years to see them change before you knew it Thats so sad :(
The fact that they didn’t focus so much on his abnormal disease and but on his being someone’s son is a great way to tell a story. Amazing doctors, nurses, physical therapists, and the medical team behind this! And kudos to his mom for being the epitome of motherly love.
From the age of 40s to 70, his mother took care of him. Not every mother has the patience and perseverance in such conditions. He is really lucky to have her as his mother.
What do you mean not every mother?? 99.9% mother take care of their disable son or daughter...i have seen multiple example right in front of my eyes they taking care of their severely disabled son/daughter with full love
@@faizanshamsi8046 Lots of parents kick their children out usually when they kids are lgbt 2.2% of young people are lgbt while 24% of young homeless people Are lgbt
What an amazing human being, being cared for by another amazing human being for 28 or more years, and being operated on by another group of amazing human beings. Truly inspiring.
Why does this makes me cry, Li is the toughest man ever he went through so many surgeries and i'm very proud that he made it through, wish you the best Li, stay safe!......i'm crying while writing this coment.
me too Im just amazed at what the human body can go through for the worst. It made me cry because I realise I should be more grateful but also im so grateful that he got the help he needed and his mom is happy. Bless both of them for being so strong
I cried when he said " I want to remove this burden off my mum ".. I'm so happy the operations were a success. Such a huge sense of appreciation for the doctors and nurses at Shenzhen Hospital. ❤️
That was one of the times I cried the most. The other time was when he said he did not want to be a burden to his mom any longer. I have disabilities and cannot walk . I depend on my family for most of everything. I 100% understand what feeling like a burden to your loved ones is... they want you to be cared for but you just want them not to HAVE to care for you. Another time I cried... the most, is when he took his first steps. Bless his mom , him and his family.
i started crying when he said he hopes to no longer be a burden to his mother like baby please don’t beat yourself up at all...you can’t control these circumstances and a mother’s love is stronger than any obstacle
My dad is a surgeon and he always tells me that while in a surgery never stress even if something is wrong or else more things will go badly just clamly fix things
Thank You. .Have tear's..flowing now from my Pain's..and it's raining. .had a Haylow Brace..fitted back in ..83 March,. Pain's have never Ever Left Me Till Today.!!
Huge respect for his mother his endurance and the whole hospital team , doctors and whoever those who were part of this process.. congratulations to everyone..wish u many more happy years ahead keep smiling
The mother dedicated her whole life to taking care of her son. There’s really nothing like a mother’s love, bless them. Also, props to the amazing doctor who devised the spine and everyone involved in the surgeries. I hope Li Hua lives a happier, more fulfilling life now.
@@JD-kp6pt So you came onto this video to tell us what your retirement plan is? And instead of talking about how this was actually a success, you'd rather talk about euthanasia? Get over yourself, seriously.
“I hope i can recover soon so i can relieve her of this burden”. What a gentle soul. I wish him and his mother the best in life. She would have preferred it no other way than to look after her child.
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so happy I can see heis progress
It's the first time watching this video and it's been for 4 years need to see his recovery status
Props to his mom for not giving up on him for all those years
Considering she's a mother, it's kinda in her DNA to be so dedicated.
@@lanfour4444 And there's many more mothers who abandon their child the moment anything happens that would require a possible lifetime of care. DNA really doesn't mean anything.
No.loxes. Fr
@@KupoKro I'm with you. That was one EXCEPTIONAL mom!
@@everydaynews1657 keep them racist opinions to yourself
I’m really glad his mom is there for her son. She is a true mom.
Yes :)
@Joseph just cause ur daddy walked out on u when u were 5 don't give u a pass to be selfish 🤣
@Joseph don't act all smart with me when you forgot to put a fullstop at the end of both your replies.
@@helenasnut2637 he's probably 9 years old and learned the word "cringe" and is now spamming it everywhere. i see him on all the comments here saying the exact same thing.
@@humanityyy 🤣🤣 yikes
This makes me appreciate the fact that I can stand up straight.
Itchi Sackimoto okay????
Me too
It’s videos like this that make you appreciate the small things
I mean I'd rather die but yeah I guess
Itchi Sackimoto your entitled to your own opinion, but it’s not wanted here.
The human body is remarkable. From his illness to the brain power of the medical team to successfully break and put him back together to his mom’s strength for her child…..all truly amazing
Bruh he was bent over for over 20 years, his mum didn't leave him and he could even play an instrument. These doctors were amazing. So happy for them, legitimately.
I mean he started to practice instruments and writing right after he recovered from a 20 year nightmare. And I as a perfectly healthy human being can lie in bed for weeks doing nothing after finishing a simple assignment.
What type of awful person would abandon their child because they were disabled
All he needed was an inversion table & his doctors knew it. They are not heros.
@@DHU11 I am half korean born in Busan city and believe me when i tell you that around 330.000 children are abandoned by their parents and those are the ones who were registrerd we do not know the total numbers of abandoned children,for babies and pre-teens because in korea we have the same as japan we live in a shame society where you are shunned by everyone if you do not function as the others do and therefor many children are abandoned,seeing this happen where the poor old motheris still taking care of her son instead of abandoning him is a rare thing to see in Asia,i find it so sad she is there crying worrying that if she dies who will take care of her disabled son knowing that nobody around or the goverment would even try and help but just let him suffer more,they really have a great bond and i hope they both be healthy and live long and happy.
That must've been the most painful 20 years mentally and physically
Can we take a moment to appreciate the mad skills those doctors have.
What they do is so amazing
@@kamanaos4643 I agree
@@kamanaos4643 i know TwT
Mastering the discipline of Medical Science is a Herculean Feat.
Definitely brother!❤❤❤❤❤
they literally did the IMPOSSIBLE
im so proud of the hospital and the doctor
Nothing is impossible if you don't give up!
It is not really impossible but the success rate is low and the cases are very rare.
It became possible, it was always possible. It was just, time and patience that you needed to pay.
It would be impossible if it was in the USA
@@Ormeli its not impossible at all. We have better equipment and better doctors from all over the world. We lead in research of medications and equipment as well as treatments. However China does have extremely well developed facilities and very well trained doctors. Its too bad that its so gilded. China is owned by a horrible government. The media is only really allowed to post positive things in China. The government controls everything there. It looks great here because rhey are required to show only these things. Its become well known what china does.
Props to all the medical staff…Couldn’t imagine a world without them
His mother was the most legendary thing , all this 28 years she was with him .
I wanted to comment this
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yes, real love,indeed.
That's why in Islam it is believed paradise lies under your mother's feet ❤❤
Im not crying man, im not
"I could finally take a closer look at mum. She has grown old and her hair has turned grey"
That broke my heart
Same 😥
Same :(
same T.T
The mother’s tears are like diamonds from heaven - what a brilliant example of what we can do for each other and I admit I never knew something like this existed. I’m humbled to see this.
What about nurses ?? Who spend their entire life to surve for the humanity.
"He has already endured so much pain for 20 years, this is nothing. He can do it." Underrated line.
and very very sad
You could hear the pain in her voice when she said it 🥺
@レンシャー its a she..
@レンシャー 32 seconds ago 🤣
I didn't fish for likes but I guess people mirror my thoughts. Stay safe everyone.
i could only imagine the relief Li felt when looking at the ceiling of his hospital room for the first time after waking up from his final surgery. i hope he’s living happily and healthy❤
Not only did they save his life. They given his mother's life back to hers. This is a beautiful story.
it is indeed. Life can be as compassionate as it is cruel. Actions..., equal and opposite reactions.....,
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Indeed.
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“After 28 years, Li Hua can finally lift his head toward the sky” yup that did it. I’m crying even more
that was literally where I broke down
I love how this comment with more than 3k likes has barely any replies in it lol
@@Waddle_Dee_With_Internet this comment is just something that everyone agrees
@@varun-xu8gv well people are just speechless for them to reply on this comment..
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That mother's smile after her son's surgery and he can finally lay flat on his back, no treasure in the world can buy that
A Treasure worth the Hospital bill could...
@@moritze.2449 From what I read, China's government is pushing for health insurance companies to cover at least 70% of the hospital bill. This surgery could have been possible from that.
@@moritze.2449 Not all hospitals are expensive... This is china, not usa
Incredible operation !! There must be millions of poor people in villages away from the cities that have severe medical conditions that never see a doctor because they are so poor ! Thats not right if the CCP can constantly build mega projets all across China !
I literally cried
I really felt that, even when its only my hand bleeding, but when my mom founded the cutted part healed(?) she was really happy
My mom is single parent and I don't meet her for some days, because she was working to make me life this happily, thank you mom...
/btw, srry for my bad English\
Man this got me. I'm in tears. Such a simple thing, being able to stand up straight. Truly, it makes you appreciate the things you have. Everyone has issues, but man, there really are worse things out there in almost every instance.
Totally agree with you.
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So true ,,live in the present,its the infinite moment , as the past is gone ,and future does not exist yet except in our minds , gratitude is the key to happiness and /abundance ..,,❤🌀🌄
"what if i die, but he's still sick? who will take care of my son?"
im sad.
Unfortunately this is very realistic for children with certain conditions. If their parents die, they usually end up on institutions that care little about them
Theodora T. Just from mother heart is the saddest feeling ,Mother ❤️
@Anesh Verma 😂😂😂
@Anesh Verma there is the time for people to say something to other , even your enemy still need your love and respect Anesh, if you want to mock other find out the healthy and happy people to be your target , please stay human as much as possible , enjoy yourself as long as you can walk and breath normally,
Her son is about 40 years old yet she still care for him as much as when he was a child.
He was unlucky with his health, but very lucky with his mother. I feel for his mother.
Most Parents would've had him go through euthanasia to end his suffering.
@@thetau4866 it would have been better than 28 years of suffering in my opinion but respect for him for not giving up
I try more my best, if I see this man and mom.
The mother is so Happy and so is he . 🥰
He is "fortunate" that he gets to really value things we take for granted. We go thru life not appreciating our "gifts". Whilst he is thankful for what little comfort he has achieved. Seeing his achievements I will forever be thankful for simply getting out of bed n dressing up and go about my life. Great motivational video. 👍
“What if I die,but he’s still sick?Who will take care of my son?”
That made me cry a little
True
@@matthewttful what?
That made me cry as well 😢
@@angel-gx7zy oof
Same
This makes me happy. Imagine receiving such a life changing gift. He'll have to work so hard, but there's so much beauty in him having the opportunity to work hard in the future.
I like how all the nurses and the doctor were making sure his mom wasn’t worried
I mean some family members have gone after the doctors if they mess up the operation. Like, Raskolnikov go after
Ikr I feel so bad :(
They are so kind😊
I like how no one knows Chinese here
FrostPlays I bet I’m the first chinese in the replies of this comment 🤣
The lead surgeon calling his wife before his break to let her know how things went in the first operations made me really happy. Everyone needs some support
And the doctors need some mental care as well...I dont know how they do so much for others without expecting anything back...
marialovesmusicalot commitment and dedication. A lot of doctors actually recognize the gravity of their work. One mistake can end a patient’s life or paralyze him for life.
I love talented doctors. They deserve every penny they make. Saving lives.
My dad does that!! he calls my mom and me and my brother
@@Julia-jd9fr Glad you guys are available when he needs someone to talk to. Children nowadays find it bothersome. I hope you continue to be his strength. 🙂
This is a true example on why you should never give up
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I agree
If u have rick astley he will never gonna give you up
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Idk ... back surgery = life with pain
When you think you have problems in your life, and then you look at something like this. Kind of makes my problems seem really small. Congrats to him and his family!
There is always someone with bigger problems. That doesn’t mean your problems aren’t real problems. Life can get you.
this is absolutely crazy to me how skilled these doctors are. breaking the bones around the neck and spine without paralyzing this guy. absolutely amazing.
I was just thinking the same thing… if I ever have a severe medical issue I’m calling them up
Sesh350 FACTS
You got that right. One sneeze, paralyzed.
@Sound Money Don’t hate to say it, hate that you are able to say it. I’m with that 100% Fauci is an absolute puppet
There was absolutely no margin for error for this surgery. What amazing skill and patience from everyone involved in the surgery. Bravo!
He endured for that for 28 years. That must be really rough, I'm glad he's able to stand up straight now
I would've lost my mind, the kid's brave
@@unapologeticallysimar2029 lol "KID"
@@kengorion8190 we'll all be kids to someone
That's his karma. Harsh truth. He probably did something bad in his past life that's why he is suffering now. Maybe in his next life he will be in a better state.
@@syriakhan1253 I don't think that was necessary and truth? you have no proof that there is an afterlife or if he did something in a previous life.
To suffer like that for 28 years is so inhumane. Personally, I would have already lost hope. I'm glad he didn't.
i’m glad the mother didn’t! She has a heart of gold 🧡
He's a very strong man and her mother is a very patient and also strong. I have huge respect for both of them.
Its all part of God's plan, for character development. 🤣🤣
Amino,
The difference between a warrior and one that jumps from a bridge.
Hopefully thanks to his determination to live on he would be able to achieve something we cant and maybe the one to advanced humanity. Maybe just maybe.
im glad this is not on instagram
fr
Same, I hate Instagram users insensitivity to harsh and serious topics :/
fr if it was Instagram it would just be people being mean and racist towards him for literally no reason at all
His mother is a real hero, that woman deserves the world.
@Max’s Jungle how is it wasting her whole life?! What if your child is diagnosed with that same disease? Wouldn't you take care of her?
moms can do everything for their children 🥺🥺🥺they are so special 😩
@Max’s Jungle you could use the word *spent* instead of waste
@Max’s Jungle no no
You didnt offend me!
The replies above me were offended i think so i just suggested that so no more people get offended
That's why we shouldn't abandon our mother or break her heart. Nobody can love us as truest as our mom
That man's mom is a real hero. She never left her son's side no matter how unlikely recovery seemed
One must never underestimate the love a mother has for her child.💖
99.9% of mom around the world.
It’s really admirable. I don’t care about people enough to be able to do something like that. Precisely why I won’t have kids.
@Smiling While Thriving I don’t see the connection of this story and his response to cisheteropatriarchy can you explain
For real. She had his back for 28 years..... from the front.
This man’s willpower is unbreakable, I have nothing but respect for him and his mother
agree. I like how his mother always stay positive and didn't complain anything about the doctor and the treatment even though it takes 28 years of his son to cure
And respect to the doctors
Amen
Ikr 🙏
No doubt about that
He was like that because they couldn't afford treatment? Wow what a people's paradise, truly.
My father had this, but he gratefully wasn't bent over that far. But he had to walk with a cane and wasn't able to drive. He was 76 when he died. Regardless of his health problems he was a wonderful father and he's greatly missed.
Official madlad dad right here
I'm sorry for your loss. May your father Rest In Peace.
RIP to your father I’m sure he’s very proud of you 💜
Rest in peace. I wish you the best :).
As a son u must be great
That lady is more than a hero for her son for not giving up on him. And the medical team did an amazing work.
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She isn't a hero for doing what she was supposed to do. A parent should never give up on their child, ever.
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@@looksirdroids9134 i wanna know where the dad was this whole time.
Also, sick name
@@looksirdroids9134 some parents cant cope. My parents gave up on my brother he had depression and when they told him to move out he killed himself. Its very sad but its a huge amount of pressure
His willingness to live and his mother’s love and doctor’s and nurse’s work. This amazed me.
Are you from Nepal? You are so beautiful.
Willingness to live? What? Of course he'd want to live. No ones going to just lay down and die.
Drained When something severe happens without much options for a cure it’s not uncommon to see that they lose hope, develop bad mental health and ultimately lose their willingness to live.
@@AiraSoliven thats not true. Unless you dont have depression, youll never be satisfied. A person who loses a limb or two will get used to it. They may be in shock the first few weeks, but losing hope? Never.
Any strong individual will fight on, as i said, there are no one who would want to just die. Because death isnt the religious heaven many imagine, life is.
@@drained1177 That's what he said. Depression is a mental illness that can largely result from loss of hope or reason. There's also a lot of debate going on on self euthanasia because the patients would rather die than keep on living in their current state.
im just so happy this aint posted in insta 😭😭😭😭😭😭 aside from that this is a miracle!
He's lucky to have a mother who loved him so much, feeding him and bathing him for almost 30 years. What the doctors did was a miracle. I hope he and his mother can live a happy life for the rest of their years.
I lived in China and Chinese mother love their kids and will take care of them till her last breath. American parents are like, if you are 18 you are responsible for everything. If they pay for your food or healthcare they will fight like a kid and ask for their money.
@Perfect Events the funny thing is that aint completely false. There's some crazy Asian parents out there, forcing their kids to do the impossible such as the highest grade etc
@@quicksolutions1634 don't generalize Americans
@@quicksolutions1634 Although it seems he will partially recover it's mobility, I hope somebody teaches him a profession that doesn't require much movement but lot's of thinking, like design, architecture or programming. He seems like a warrior, he'll probably learn whatever so he can take care of it's mother.
That is standard flair in Sinic (Confucian) cultures. Parents sacrifice for their children. And children in turn pay their parents back by taking care of them during their senior years. That's why this man was grieving when he talked about how he had a been such a burden to his mom all these years.
The mom is such a strong woman. Shows how strong a mother's love can be.
Some mothers
Whats with the son he is strong too for this
Yet western people still disrespect their parents.
@@PrechtGaebolgHades Not only western people.
@@annoyedoverripegrape1429 Generally it happens in the west. If you try to discipline your child, the authorities will come and take away your child.
“I haven’t slept on my back for 20 years” That just makes you appreciate the little things life has to offer.
Me watching this laying in my comfortable bed just made me appreciate my health and life in general a bit more.
@@amoghthorave3385
Yes, appreciate it all
I can only think of how painful his life is.
That mom is the best, even in tough times she managed to pull through
“What if I die, who would look after my son?”
That hit really hard ]:
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Isn’t this how ALL mothers think?
@Cyan Rosebud True..
😪
Tabitha Freeman no, not all, but way too many unfortunately and some have no hope for recovery.
I hope this man gets everything he ever dreamed off. Him and his mom.
That's governments job to give him his needs
@@Clipified386 You mean the Communist govt.
@@jonrudd4733 o dont care which govt but it's govt's job
Thank you Nicolas! Jesus bless you!
@@Clipified386 Not really the govt’s job to provide for its citizens on the individual level. But it is their job to provide for the public as a whole.
I started crying when he said "I could finally take a closer look at my mum"
Same
My friend after I folded him in a minecraft 1v1
thats the worest thing happen in life for me 😢
@@pedalprincess5408 bruh I laughed but not the right time
I didnt cry tho
This mother, no words could describe how lovely he was taking care of him
I can’t believe he lived 28 years like that🥺 But I’m happy he is working so hard to stand and walk agian😭
China should legalize assisted euthanasia for disabled people. ~
*Several European countries such as Switzerland and Belgium have legalized doctor assisted euthanasia for the disabled, elderly, terminally ill people, and in some cases, even just severely depressed people.* ~
~
That is my retirement plan.
@@JD-kp6pt STOP COMMENTING SAME EVERY WHERE. IF YOU HATE CHINA WHY ARE YOU HERE?
@@Mikasaxx0 as a Chinese, hes not hating on China, he's just saying stuff China can improve on.
中国人的观念不同，蝼蚁尚且偷生。人活着就有自己的作用。
We should see this and realize our lives are better than what he had to endure.
What's more important is that he can stand straight now. I'm proud of that guy for staying strong and waited for years to recover.
I'm more proud of the mother who didn't give up for her son no matter what.
@@VatchiMyoi both are so amazing tho
@@PinkMelatonin Yes! The mother who wanted her son to have a normal life and the son to keep going in life!
Animeliam I can admit, I would’ve never been able to do that. And the mother’s role is so difficult. But issa vibe now:)
..,,. .ll l. Il
This guy is a warrior of the soul and mind.
Grimnir 100th like Yw :)
1000th like eyyy
Its amazing how he desired to stay alive in that body shape
His mum is
His mother is the biggest blessing for being strong for him and kept pushing forward
the way the nurses encouraged li during surgery makes be believe in humanity again
Yeah same 😭
Expwcting Humanity from China? Yo we don't do that here
@@endroholic7161 stop equating what the government does to the people there
@@NEPtune-fy1ug Truth.
@@endroholic7161 Blame the government not the people. Can't believe that people still has childish mindsets
He said he was a burden to his mom her whole life and he felt sorry..
That broke my heart
It is not his fault, only fate can be sorry for that.
I cried at the part. To think he constantly saw himself as a burden because she had to take care of him. It's so sad.
i really hope he knows his mom loves him. i doubt she felt like he was burdening her, she clearly has so much love for him.
"Fate" as in the loving care of your dear leaders.
That's exactly the point I broke into tears. Nothing about his own pain and the unbelievable risk to his life or the risks posed by the surgery, but only the thought of wanting things to be easier on his mother 😭
@@fidelianerina Same here. My eyes were teary watching this but that sentence really did it for me. A loving and caring parent would never see their ill child as a burden.
Stories like this one are where the internet shines
agree
And also humanity. Those that helped him get to where he is now. Us for mentally supporting him
100% believe so too
I know. It's horrible to see all the preventable destruction going on in the world. But this is giving back life. Amazing!
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A child is never a burden to his mother. No matter how old they are. ❤
This made me realized that UNCONDITIONAL isn't enough word to describe a mother's love.
In this case 'unconditional' wouldn't even be an appropriate way of describing her love. Her son was handicapped not a criminal...
😭
Poor guy. Calling himself a burden on his mother. He loves her, but it’s so obvious she loves HIM! That’s a mother’s love, to take care of her boy
Great comment but, it’s not necessarily like this with mothers who leave their kids and it’s happening a lot these days sad to say.
Absolue wonderfull work of doctor !!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I think that he called himself of burden because he think that must be hard for his mother take care of him. It's a hard situation living under care of anyone, even being his mother, it's hard because of physical and mental consuming.
Oh my goodness. Your comment has me crying again.
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Dude still played the Harmonica through thick and thin. ABSOLUTE G.O.A.T
The harmonica song he play early was a song dedicated to his mother hardship, it a song to cherish their own mother who raised them lovingly...
I cry when I heard it since I listened to it many times when I'm small because my grandmother is Chinese 😢😢😢...
Wan Khairul Wan Ali can you share the name of the song and full lyrics if you know them. This is so beautiful. Humanity at its absolute highest all around.
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Can we appreciate the doctors who worked so hard to help cure him? And for his mom, for staying by him for 28 years. Now she’s a real one. A
Agreed. All incredibly brave and persistent.
They are superheroes
We do Agree with you 😘 all the love to his mum and the Doctor's 🙏😍
Whites are WONDERFUL
@@sapphirecatherine9902 😍
This man, his mum and Doctors are all Angels.
But Seraphim Angels
Wow
You mean mom
Soo true
@Kasia off roasted, fried, burnt-stew!!!!!!!!
Man he must be really strong. 28 years like that... Wow.
It's like prison time and torture at the same time.
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I wonder what were the things that motivated him for 28yrs
sejal 03 most likely his mom not giving up on him and taking care of him
Fr probably twenty 8 years ago the doctor wasn’t even a doctor
The medical team and his mother are angels here on earth. This story is a tale of a miracle...much strength.
He’s had a debilitating illness for most of his life, that wasn’t his fault and he feels bad that his mother had to look after him 🥺. Trust me, as a parent, you do anything for your kids. Such a sweet family ❤️
Like me and my kitten, i'll do anything for my smol baby😭❤️
Aaqaaaaaaqqqq!+
How great she must've felt on the day he was released that she now knows her son will be okay after she's passes on.
Aww
Mom is mom, none can replace mom ❤
The mums smile could make the saddest person happy, she is so wholesome along with this video
yes.
She's been strong. She's super mom, I doubt I would have been like her. I guess being a mom knows no boundaries of not going through each phase with your child.
Her smile just made me sadder
Go bed ella
I almost cried when I saw him sitting, eating by himself, writing, walk-in, using a phone... So many things we take for granted.
Amen!
Amen🙌🏾😢😢
Amen
Glad this is not posted on insta
The words when he said 'My mom looks older now i feels sorry ' man tears in eyes and i just felt the insecurity without parents🥺🥺
Same feeling
True
I’m crying
@Tautersheep hey man why the hate bro
:(
Courageous people, all deserve respect. A mother who cared for him, the doctors who saved him, the man who endured with hope and resilience.
No love can replace a mother's love❤️
Inspirational and emotional.
Well said
this comment is everything
The man is amazing. How did he withstand 20 years of suffering that much... He is a titan. (doctors and mother aswell but somehow he amazes me more)
mad props to the mother, she took care of him and loved him and dedicated her whole life to taking care of her son even though he was disabled. thats true love. ❤
can i ask props means?
@@stayaamna it basically means respect :)
Aamna Rajput its like giving someone a sign of respect and admiration
Aamna Rajput mad respect
He's not defective incorrect word usage
Everyone needs a supportive mother like her. She never ceased constantly helping him adjust. So happy for both of them :)
Just shows that even something as simple as sitting up straight or standing up straight shouldn't be taken for granted. And the mother is truly an angel.
Exactly
The things we take for granted man. Watching documentaries like this always put things in perspective
True.
Exactly
wrong. take it for granted. anything less is not acceptable.
I can't imagine the psychologic pain this guy endured... After being able to do everything as everyone, being at the beginning of adulthood and suddenly it's taken away from you... I hope he can recover not only physically but psychologically.
Annie M. You are really kind! I am a psychologist and i am glad someone thinks in this perspective too
Yeah. I hope he can too
i think he will. having only seen this brief glimpse into his life and character, I venture to say, i know he will. surviving the physical toll this amount of surgery takes out of one is impressive enough, but to hear him voice his concern for relieving his mother of the responsibility of caring for him makes me think his head is in the right place to make a full recovery :)
😢😢😢
He seems to have the attitude needed to get beyond this incredibly difficult period in his life. I wish this man all the best
When he said he haven’t slept on his back for 28 years, I realized sleeping on my back is a blessing.
Me too😭🙏🏽
Let's be honesly, sleeping on your back is all you've ever done in your little life.
@Mastema yeah, it makes people realize that theres someone out there that didnt get what u have
It's not a blessing cuz 99% of humans sleep on their back.
Nishant Modak everything that I have an opportunity to do that someone else can’t, is a blessing
I can only say how incredible these doctors really are.
Ultimate respect for the doctors and crew, the mother and himself. That took a lot of patience, courage and hope from every side.
Exactly. So well put.
There is no sides here, either you understand this is emotional manipulation and propaganda or not. The medical case really has nothing to do with it.
86Corvus Just stop!
@@13zounds just a troll, don't give them attention
*patience
I can’t imagine going though 1% of what this guy has been through. I’m glad he can finally stand straight again. His determination is amazing.
ua-cam.com/video/sr1z_ppgfhM/v-deo.html
But he can sok himself
@LifeIsDisgusting - We’re Born to Suffer And Die don't know where you got the idea procreation is bad because we need it as a species to thrive?
"After the operation, I could finally take a closer look at my mom. She looks older and her hair turned grey. I feel so sorry. She can't take care of me her whole life. I hope I recover soon, so she can be relieved of this burden" hearing him say that broke my heart. I'm sorry for anyone going through tough situations. It's not fair that some people's lives arent the way it should be. The mom couldn't do anything other than take care of her kid for over 20 years. I would do the same for either of my kids
sending love
His mother is an angel 😇
Yep it hit me hard. I'm so happy that they are fine now.💜✨
😢
You got 1k likes in just 2 hours😱.
Imagine having the power/skills/know-how to help someone in need and choosing not to because they can't afford it.
This is the most sickening world!! I tell ya!! Great point!! ❤
American healthcare 😔
I cant imagine how much relief he had when he woke up laying down.
Zxz
I'm sure it was ridiculously painful at first... he had to be held in place with weights...
Let's take a moment of silence to appreciate this guy's perseverance.
and his mom
*eats crips intensely while moment of silence*
@@Kitty-by3xt ok so ur British
@@cheilibond6940 Well technically it says "eats southern californian gang members (crips)" but yeah im sure thats a spelling mistake, quite disturbing to be honest, and as a british citizen i can say, no... we do not eat crips, well i don't.
@@womble1305 ahahahaaahaha that’s funny! no hate to the Brits btw I like yuh accents g
When he explained how his mother looked after the operation. And how he doesnt want to be a burden to her anymore, my heart melted
that one killed me. how after all that pain he felt sorry for his mum. you could hear how close he was to crying when he was talking about her
The burden from this disease is tough on family members. I have AS and my wife has Psoriatic Arthritis. We are both turning into each other with our problems. I have spine issues similar to his and my wife has extremity issues in her hands and feet.
I want to have my brain transplanted into a turnip.
bowl4two same
When he said that he didn't want to be burden to his mom anymore incredibly heart wrenching 😳🥺💔😭😭😭
She is THE SUPER MOM. I wish them love, light and happiness.
Started crying when he said that he could finally see his mum and that she looked a lot older and her hair became grey
Like can you imagine having an image of someone very close to you for years to see them change before you knew it Thats so sad :(
im crying from the beginning:((
Tong Tong ikrrr
Same as being blind for many years , sad .
This is truly a very sad but informing story Li is a true warrior
True
The fact that they didn’t focus so much on his abnormal disease and but on his being someone’s son is a great way to tell a story. Amazing doctors, nurses, physical therapists, and the medical team behind this! And kudos to his mom for being the epitome of motherly love.
Truee
Yup, it's the proper modern way of treating patients. They're teaching it at university, at least here where I live
AND an utterly wonderfully faithful MOTHER
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Steph Go You make a great point. The focus on his humanity, and not his abnormality, was a perfect way to tell this story.
From the age of 40s to 70, his mother took care of him. Not every mother has the patience and perseverance in such conditions. He is really lucky to have her as his mother.
suddenly i now feel guilty for how i treat my mother
Most mothers would...
@@meffols5443 😭
What do you mean not every mother?? 99.9% mother take care of their disable son or daughter...i have seen multiple example right in front of my eyes they taking care of their severely disabled son/daughter with full love
@@faizanshamsi8046
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Bless him, his mother and all of the medical personnel that made this possible. Incredible stuff.
It’s the little things we take for granted that are so valuable.
I was literally just saying that. Like I’m more grateful now because it easily could’ve been anyone.
You right and im crying now😭😢
Fr man
I am your 1k like.
This comment was at 100 like a second ago
This Mother cared. Be like this mother. Be kind. Be loving. Be a person who will stand by someone’s side when they need it.
Tats called humanity....
@@freesoul3137 that's how everyone should be
Awww.
@@Giulia-om2gl I agree
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As a father I couldn’t even imagine the pain and heartache that his mother went thru for all those years she’s a very strong woman
Indeed.
The real MVP is his mom, who didnt even give up all those years, dreaming of a day like this.
I lost it. It was too much for my heart to take.
@猫猫皮我揉你 你这有必要吗？
Indeed
What an amazing human being, being cared for by another amazing human being for 28 or more years, and being operated on by another group of amazing human beings. Truly inspiring.
Why does this makes me cry, Li is the toughest man ever he went through so many surgeries and i'm very proud that he made it through, wish you the best Li, stay safe!......i'm crying while writing this coment.
me too Im just amazed at what the human body can go through for the worst. It made me cry because I realise I should be more grateful but also im so grateful that he got the help he needed and his mom is happy. Bless both of them for being so strong
I cried when he said " I want to remove this burden off my mum ".. I'm so happy the operations were a success. Such a huge sense of appreciation for the doctors and nurses at Shenzhen Hospital. ❤️
😢😢❤❤❤❤. AMAZING HUMANS. Li and his AWESOME mother and the doctors. Wow.
Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Well you have a flamingo pfp so you are crying because you have no friends
When she said "What if I die before he is healed. Who'll take care of him?", I got touched😢. Definition of a mother's love🌸.
it made me cry man! Mothers are such a blessing!
It made me cryy
@@meant.5303 It made me 😂
@@zubairali1741 I think you mean 😭
That was one of the times I cried the most. The other time was when he said he did not want to be a burden to his mom any longer. I have disabilities and cannot walk . I depend on my family for most of everything. I 100% understand what feeling like a burden to your loved ones is... they want you to be cared for but you just want them not to HAVE to care for you. Another time I cried... the most, is when he took his first steps. Bless his mom , him and his family.
These doctors and nurses are heroes. And he's a hero too. Mad respect for his hero mom too.
Everyone seems to be a hero nowadays.
Ronald Tartaglia i am still not a hero :(
The mother had to pay for the treatment twice. These particular doctors and nurses may have done well by her, but the previous ones were total crooks.
💕💕💕💕💕👏👏👏
Money too.
What a beautiful story. I hope the family is doing well. His mother deserves a thousand rewards
i started crying when he said he hopes to no longer be a burden to his mother like baby please don’t beat yourself up at all...you can’t control these circumstances and a mother’s love is stronger than any obstacle
I love my mom
This is the sweetest thing anyone could say ❤️A mother’s love is like no other
Baby Stagg yes ma’am!
that’s so sweet
@@mdshafeequrrahman5710 nice
The amount of stress these doctors went through must be unbelievable
So true 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👋👋👋👋👋👋👋
My dad is a surgeon and he always tells me that while in a surgery never stress even if something is wrong or else more things will go badly just clamly fix things
Bravo to all the doctors 👏🏼 amazing and most talented doctors 👌🏻
Imagine the stress of the mom though
ungratefulmetalpansy wow. doctors are indeed some idols of patience. Hope you’re doing well now man.
I have huge respect for his mother. And him. Actually all of them.
Thank You. .Have tear's..flowing now from my Pain's..and it's raining. .had a Haylow Brace..fitted back in ..83 March,. Pain's have never Ever Left Me Till Today.!!
His mother is amazing! She's the reason this man still had the will to live.
Its very touching a lovely man gave his all to recover for his mother who was there all the way i'm proud of him for making it so far
Huge respect for his mother his endurance and the whole hospital team , doctors and whoever those who were part of this process.. congratulations to everyone..wish u many more happy years ahead keep smiling
The mother dedicated her whole life to taking care of her son. There’s really nothing like a mother’s love, bless them. Also, props to the amazing doctor who devised the spine and everyone involved in the surgeries. I hope Li Hua lives a happier, more fulfilling life now.
@@JD-kp6pt stop talking lol
this is one of the most depressing vids I’ve seen on UA-cam
@@JD-kp6pt perhaps you can demonstrate how it's done, and put your retirement plan into action now so you can convince the rest of us?
@@JD-kp6pt So you came onto this video to tell us what your retirement plan is? And instead of talking about how this was actually a success, you'd rather talk about euthanasia? Get over yourself, seriously.
@J D What a heartless person!!!
“I hope i can recover soon so i can relieve her of this burden”. What a gentle soul. I wish him and his mother the best in life. She would have preferred it no other way than to look after her child.
:)
that part broke me
Shout-out to Professor Tao Huiren of Shenzhen University General Hospital, who heard of his case and offered the surgeries. KING.
Word
when i see these sorta stuff, i sometimes wish i had the drive and the motivation to go to med school to become a surgeon.
You gotta add a shout out for the others staff member too
KIIIIIIIINNNNGGGG
s/o shenzhen