Great video! My sister in law copied everything I did, constantly competed with me, turned my brother and family against me, and ultimately pushed me out of my own dysfunctional family so she could replace me as the eldest daughter. Thank you for confirming my beliefs.
My mom is like this too. Its beyond mind boggling ... im over here struggling to survive and she's over there acting jealous and copying me, spying on me. Its so gross and pathetic ...
@@alllifemattersSorry you went through that, it's truly painful and unfair. I had to go no contact to save my sanity...best thing I ever did. We don't get to choose our families.
This is exactly what happened with my ex. She took over my entire business. I thought she was helping out and loved what I did, so I allowed it. She took over everything, the culture, operations, finances and I willingly allowed it. Once she started devaluing me, I thankfully left her, but it took me years to regain my life due to her malignant nature of destroying everything I was connected to. My reputation, friends circles and business contacts were all contaminated. She stole one of my locations, which went legal and nearly bankrupted me to the point of surrendering it over. I had to completely start over my life. Over the past 10’years, she did this exact thing to her latest ex husband, who surrendered to her his property as well.
My wife actually said she should have been an actress. She meant it like it was a good thing. I was so taken back that I couldn’t speak. Truer words had never been spoken, but she didn’t know it
Hi Professor!!! I was with a narcissist for over 6 years. I left him 3 months ago. I’m still wondering why he was trying to “kill” me, to destroy my soul. When he was discarding me, he said that I’ve changed. You’re so spot on. I feel like I have been damaged. I don’t trust men like I used to.
I am sorry you had that experience and endured something that is not your fault. Your presence here illustrates that you are now more aware of the toxicity of cluster B disorders and in time you will heal. You are loved, you are not alone.
They always say, "you changed." when they don't want to be responsible for withholding approval simply because you weren't being compliant and easy to manipulate anymore.
@@theyrekrnations8990 The reality that a narc in someone's life can be a friend or family member is openly known and discussed. No one is placing anything on men alone. Please re-watch the full video.
thank you,profesor Vaknin. Sounds so familiar-being spit out by a narcissist,I finally collected what was left of me and started from scratch,and that was the best thing that happened to me. But in the same time I am not able to see you as this narcissistic creature you just prescribed,with your unique eloquence. I'm not sure if being aware is a curse or blessing .
The ACTAUWR has totally destroyed me. Now I am picking up pieces of what's left and he's strolling around with others like He never met me. This is is so painful since I never knew that such people ever existed.
Great video! My sister in law copied everything I did, constantly competed with me, turned my brother and family against me, and ultimately pushed me out of my own dysfunctional family so she could replace me as the eldest daughter. Thank you for confirming my beliefs.
My mom is like this too. Its beyond mind boggling ... im over here struggling to survive and she's over there acting jealous and copying me, spying on me. Its so gross and pathetic ...
@@alllifemattersSorry you went through that, it's truly painful and unfair. I had to go no contact to save my sanity...best thing I ever did. We don't get to choose our families.
This is exactly what happened with my ex. She took over my entire business. I thought she was helping out and loved what I did, so I allowed it. She took over everything, the culture, operations, finances and I willingly allowed it. Once she started devaluing me, I thankfully left her, but it took me years to regain my life due to her malignant nature of destroying everything I was connected to. My reputation, friends circles and business contacts were all contaminated. She stole one of my locations, which went legal and nearly bankrupted me to the point of surrendering it over. I had to completely start over my life. Over the past 10’years, she did this exact thing to her latest ex husband, who surrendered to her his property as well.
My wife actually said she should have been an actress. She meant it like it was a good thing. I was so taken back that I couldn’t speak. Truer words had never been spoken, but she didn’t know it
Perfectly explained, thats why you shouldnt mess with shared fantasy.
They are the black void of emptiness . It's really sad. It doesn't have to be that way
They are empty vessels.
Hi Professor!!! I was with a narcissist for over 6 years. I left him 3 months ago. I’m still wondering why he was trying to “kill” me, to destroy my soul. When he was discarding me, he said that I’ve changed. You’re so spot on. I feel like I have been damaged. I don’t trust men like I used to.
I am sorry you had that experience and endured something that is not your fault.
Your presence here illustrates that you are now more aware of the toxicity of cluster B disorders and in time you will heal.
You are loved, you are not alone.
@@cabot100 thank you! ❤️
They always say, "you changed." when they don't want to be responsible for withholding approval simply because you weren't being compliant and easy to manipulate anymore.
No, there are narcissist who are friends and family as well . Don't place it on men alone.
@@theyrekrnations8990 The reality that a narc in someone's life can be a friend or family member is openly known and discussed.
No one is placing anything on men alone.
Please re-watch the full video.
thank you,profesor Vaknin. Sounds so familiar-being spit out by a narcissist,I finally collected what was left of me and started from scratch,and that was the best thing that happened to me. But in the same time I am not able to see you as this narcissistic creature you just prescribed,with your unique eloquence. I'm not sure if being aware is a curse or blessing .
@samvaknin-v2u no clue
Infiltrates to survive. It, of course, is sad for all❤❤❤
The ACTAUWR has totally destroyed me. Now I am picking up pieces of what's left and he's strolling around with others like He never met me. This is is so painful since I never knew that such people ever existed.
It's no wonder that its just a matter of time that unforseen consequences take place because of this behavior.
So true - on all points. At least I’m out now - decades later - but I’m out. Free.
in the adult age, how do the narcissist see his old, cold, still alive mother?
Thank you 🙏
This is amazing......
Wow…real life NPC’s, completely void of any life because they are too afraid to know and heal themselves.
@ why are you leaving your number? Please stop.
Yeah, it took actually all my friend group from WhatsApp and make his friends and block me off my WhatsApp