One of Sam's most helpful techniques is to tell the abusers introject to shut up. Also talk to yourself about the things you loved before you ever met the abuser. Tell yourself "I love marshmallows, or I love Big Bang theory" etc etc etc. whatever you loved before they infested your mind.
The day I opened up about the abuse, i felt safe. Because of something were to happen to me, fingers would point to my abuser. That in itself would be a deterrent, because his image was at risk, and he would leave me alone.
You open my eyes and mind to narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and cluster B personality disorders and I'm very thankful for the wealth of free knowledge and wisdom you have and continue to give us all. 💚
Thank you. You are helping so many people Professor Vaknin. You’re part of the reason I am still alive today. The abuser is not but I am healing and recovering through the tools I’ve been learning and you have taught me so much.
I really enjoyed this video. I love your interviews they are so good, and it's good to here the same information from your previous told again similarly, it really smooths out understanding what is being talked about. Also enjoyed the quiz, fun times.
I appreciate the ladies, living what you apparently have moved beyond… but wow, I applaud professor Sam, ( saving time), your ability to remain calm and focused with the, “ great answer” I can’t… I appreciate you Sam and ladies, breath before you speak with such a man. I do however appreciate your sisterhood.
One of Sam's most helpful techniques is to tell the abusers introject to shut up. Also talk to yourself about the things you loved before you ever met the abuser. Tell yourself "I love marshmallows, or I love Big Bang theory" etc etc etc. whatever you loved before they infested your mind.
It was a privilege meeting and speaking with you. Thank you for joining me and The Matadoras!
Thank you for having me. The pleasure was all mine.
I kept the abuse secret so reality testing was so difficult for me.
That's how the infestation thrives.
The day I opened up about the abuse, i felt safe.
Because of something were to happen to me, fingers would point to my abuser.
That in itself would be a deterrent, because his image was at risk, and he would leave me alone.
The gaslighting caused me to fall into psychosis.
@@CheezhOfficial Me too
This is where I'm at. Fuck
You open my eyes and mind to narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and cluster B personality disorders and I'm very thankful for the wealth of free knowledge and wisdom you have and continue to give us all. 💚
10:19 Sometimes I panic in abusive situations and lash out. This tip is therefore worth its weight in gold for me.
One of the worst narcissists in my life didn't ask me what I want in a restaurant when it was out second date
Maybe he thought u would just give your order to the waitress & order for yourself. Did he tell u what he was going to eat & order?
@teresadvorak6145 when the waiter came up he said "we are odereing this tea and this pizza", so... I felt uncomfortable to add anything to that
Thank you. You are helping so many people Professor Vaknin. You’re part of the reason I am still alive today. The abuser is not but I am healing and recovering through the tools I’ve been learning and you have taught me so much.
My skin shuddered after the listing of the three categories.
Amazing. So much information and insight from Professor Vaknin ❤
19:58 Exactly, mines turned me into a puppet.
I had to convince..The Malignant Narcissist I was with, that he won and I lost him.
thank you Vaknin for giving depth and content to this.
I really enjoyed this video. I love your interviews they are so good, and it's good to here the same information from your previous told again similarly, it really smooths out understanding what is being talked about. Also enjoyed the quiz, fun times.
Fantastic and useful. Thank you, Professor Vaknin
Thank you, Professor Vaknin. Just what I needed. ♥♥♥
I appreciate the ladies, living what you apparently have moved beyond… but wow, I applaud professor Sam, ( saving time), your ability to remain calm and focused with the, “ great answer” I can’t… I appreciate you Sam and ladies, breath before you speak with such a man. I do however appreciate your sisterhood.
Wonderful nugget, thank you ,Prof.Vaknin
Thank you so much Dear Sam❤❤❤
I'm learning a lot 😮 who wants to come to divorce court with me??
Thank you. ✨🙏✨
fantastic video!.....
Hello professor. One question, please. I am recovering after narcissistic abuse. Is it good that I want to cry sometimes? Is it good to cry?
Thank you
Yes, it is.
Sisters in arms
Companies can be narcissistic also ❤
Search the channel for “collective”.
God help Sam Vaknin