20 Signs that Narcissist Infected YOU (Zombie Narcissism)
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Coercive, synchronized, or mirror snapshotting (introjection): narcissist entrains you to introject his expectations (your idealized introject in his mind), to share the internal object (=merger, fusion)
Only if departure from previous identity, not including bodily signs of trauma and abuse:
Decline in empathy (post traumatic)
Irritability
Impulsivity
Mood lability
Emotional dysregulation
Suicidal or self-destructive ideation
Self-defeating and self-handicapping (e.g., perfectionism or procrastination)
Cognitive distortions (e.g., grandiosity or Dunning-Kruger)
Aggression or Passive-agression
Recklessness
Identity disturbance (“this is not me!”)
Defiance and contumaciousness
Thrill, novelty, and risk seeking
Projection
Splitting or dichotomous thinking
Denial
Exploitativeness
Repetition compulsions
Automatic negative thoughts
Dissociation
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Congratulations on your nomination Dr Vaknin !
By the time my husband (33 years) was almost done, I was his personal assistant, cruise director, president of his fan club, governess, and most importantly, his medical expert(taxed with the pleasure of dosing out his final medications). He died a little over a year ago and I’m finally feeling better, everyday grateful that I’m not enslaved anymore or having to suffer humiliation, lies, chaos…it’s so sad when someone dies young, but not this time
Same here
@@trini_a_Lana I had to take care of him in hospice for his last 4 months, he thought it was good to “come clean” about his whore in another city, 36 year old gold digger!!!! Every day now I wake up with gratitude that I’m left in peace
@@oilselevated4808wow!! What a way to go. I’d have left him right then and there. You’re a good person for still staying by him. Better than me. 😊
@Dr. Sam Vaknin congratulations on your very deserving nomination! I have been a follower of yours for about four years. You have rescued me mentally! You have explained within your videos exactly what narcissistic abuse is. You have helped me to understand that it was not me, it was them. You have helped me to gain back my respect of self! I remember you spoke about respect in one of your videos, and you stated that it was going to be harsh, but we needed to hear it! I am certain I am not the only one that you have help to regain self and love of self! Again, congratulations on your nomination! You are well deserving of the honor!
Yes 👏 I absolutely agree 👍
a charismatic narcissist can infect not only the inner circle of family and friends, but also entire groups of people within a company or community and turning them into a cult of self-praise
Sam, as your student, I am Happy to hear about you being recognized for the significant contribution to making the world a better place. ❤
That’s why some victims question where or not they are narcissistic. So this makes sense.
In my opinion you've already won the award 🥇🏆 congratulations 🎉
Yes, he wants me to become an internal object. I am his “project” … never a wife.
Awesome! Congratulations on the nomination! Believe it or not you inspired me to return to school to, as you so lovingly say, "READ A BOOK."
I actually had a dream that my vindictive covert narcissist was a zombie.
I had this dream years before I was able to finally confirm it.
Thank you for all your videos.
Hi Prof Vaknin, I hope you get the award. You were instrumental in my making sense of the confusion and what has happened to me.
You are absolutely a winner already! Your contribution to humanity cannot be described. Congratulations 🎉
Wow, and the victim of an NPD person gets accused in every situation for their emotional dysregulation, brain fog, lack of empathy, and more!
Congratulations Dr. Vaknin!
This is exactly why our 8 year old daughter behavior has changed so dramatically! It's because of him😢😢
Imagine how difficult is to take care of a mother with 92 yo!! She still with all her narcissistic personality. I am a Psychoanalyst and my brother has all this behavior and I am try to help him understand " how he is becoming soo infected by taking care of her for about 8 years !!! He used to be a good person ! I can not help him!! I am seeing precise with this behavior!! Only God help me with my prayers! Dr Vaknin many thanks to you!! Your videos are very important!!! Many thanks!! You deserv this nominations!!
Congratulations on the nomination! Well deserved ❤
Dear Sam,
I came across your videos in my darkest hours few years ago.
At that time, I was recovering from abuse,I still do but with much more awareness and much more supple vocabulary to name what I went through.
Everything you say in this video resonates with me and I have been meaning to write a comment under your videos for a while but, I felt very split even about writing a short message.
I have and I stil am afraid to he rediculeted for the things that I have allowed to happen in my last relationship.
Hence why, the nothingness attitude appeals to me very much, though, it is a very difficult task to rebuild your life and make living if you renaming to be unseen.
Though, I made it work in the last few years but at times I feel myself to be a victim of the past, though I dispise that term .
I prefer to call myself an survivor but it has been one hell of a price to survive through madness.
Everything of what I knew was shuttered, only the essense remained and even that I questioned through my recovery.
I had to filter my voice and his voice, I still do so even after 3 years of it all ending.
Infection it is , I felt it after our immediate separation that I use to say or think in the way that he did.
Though, I was most at the time aware of it and I am still sifting through it.. I wish it was all different.
So, my biggest thank to you is for helping us to understand the not so understandable mind of an injured and traumatised person, myself and my abuser included
Also, I thank you for your honesty and objectivity, professionalism and your sense of humour.
Congratulations. A reward for you genuinely hard work to humanity. That no one can steal. You are already a winner to many of us whose lives you have positively impacted.
Professor Vaknin, as a philologist, I love your language, vocabulary and all the synonyms. Each and every video brings so many beautiful words. 😊
Congratulations Prof... You are well deserving of winning, hands down the best in what you do 👏 👏 👏
Facts on facts! What a ride it can be! Thanks for explaining! Hope you win! 🏆
I'm so pleased to hear you are receiving the recognition and top honours you deserve, Sam. Ever since I first discovered you, nearly 3 years ago, with your lecture in Budapest 'Manipulate the Narcissist and Live to Tell About It?' you have opened up a door to a world of considerable and meaningful (never hateful) understanding concerning the narcissist in my life. Lucky for me I found you. Please continue to shine a guiding light where there is darkness and confusion. I shall raise a glass of red wine to you!
Thank you Dr Vaknin
Another outstanding presentation of what really happens. Imagine your shared fantasy leading you to be with 2 more of these predators and how destructive the whole thing is. Congrats on your nomination it’s extremely well deserved.
Dr Vaknin, not sure if that was a Freudian slip but “Replicunt” is a very good description.
No offence taken. 😂 I still think it’s very appropriate.
Praying for healing ❤️🩹 I think I have been infected and am suicidal. I have been hurt so badly that I just want to end my life. I feel like I don’t know myself anymore and am always fearful and anxious. I feel like am always moody and so many things going on in my mind. I do not want to be angry anymore.
Check out the harmful affects if E M Fs.
Congratulations Sam. Your videos have informed me of everything I ever needed to know and have helped me through a very challenging period of my life. Without your videos I wouldn’t be as thriving after narcissistic abuse as I am. So thank you for all
Your dedication and hard work and I hope you win.
Congratulations professor Sam!🎉
I cannot even describe how much your content has changed my life. Thank you so much!
Glückwunsch, Professor Vaknin 🎉
Congratulations Prof.sam
Thanks for sharing your accomplishments, nothing wrong with that, we are a community here
Congratulations ! You sure have helped me. 🤗⏳🐬
Congratulations for the nomination! You deserve to win the prize!
A massive step to more recognition and helping millions around the world, a well deserved honour
Excellent choice in nominating You!
Good going!! You deserve it! Wishing you good luck!
(Blowing raspberry) Get me out of this fantasy world that is not mine! Movie; Bedazzled 1967
CONGRATS!! 🎈🎉🎉
WELL DESERVED NOMINATION! 🏆🏆
It could be pessimistic attitude. This creates any kind of anger or disapproval ,it may lead to punishment or revenge.
CONGRATULATIONS Professor Sam!!!! You're already a WINNER 🏆
I owe you my life Sam. I see what I was in this video. But by following your advice I have come out of this spell and I can see the efforts you suggest do work. I'm becoming me again, thank you so much 💚
I had been married to a Narcissist for 14 years and all the signs i had except the suicidal one.I can only say that getting out of that relationship was the greatest blessing of my life . I had 3 young children at that time but the timely separation helped the children to grow up into responsible youths. I would like to add that God helped me to heal very much otherwise my family wouldn't have understood me and put me into a mental asylum. I got healed by hearing faith based programs on tv and youtube. I could become the best mother to my kids when I understood that my kids r not my own but they are God's property and its my role to just look after them by giving them good values and morals. I also stopped calling my kids names and cursing them. Instead i started to bless them always. All this helped me to find myself and be a good person. I always thank God for being so kind to me and protect me and kids from all harm.
Congratulations!
Very well deserved
I am grateful for your videos. Life is so complicated and I am slow to react. But at least I now realize I must hold onto what's left of my own identity and reality.
God bless Sam for sharing his invaluable insights...
Congratulations and I hope you win.
Sam u deserve a prize for breaking this news to the world its a big thing out there now
Hey Sam,
Smiling from ear to ear for you sweetie!
You are more benevolent than your family of origin. could see!!!
Same thing happened to me!
I love how you are leading people away from these terrible people!
Truly saving lives!
You are full of sagacity!
I took latin and Greek derivatives class in high school!
Very helpful tool in going toe to toe with the so called intellectuals that try to baffle the majority with their Baloney!
We share the same birthday and you are my senior by one year.
I taught myself to read by age four as you said you did in one of your videos!
You came into my life via a computer present my oldest child gave me as a gift!
Left narcissist .
I tell everyone I know whom I suspect is a fellow highjacked victim to watch you on Utube and tell them that you invented all the terms that the " so called experts on Utube use."
I tell them about your being discovered at eight or was it nine years old how high your I.Q. is.
You are the only narcissist that I admire!
Thank you for all you do!
Congratulations exponentially!!!
May you prosper and live long and well!
When is your birthday , dears ?
You saved my life, I was in a 3 yr situation and I swear to God if I hadn't came across you and some others I would of ,idk I really do not kno.but I've since found the strength from within myself I can not stress that enuf because it really did come from inside the very deep places I was running from.thank u so much for ur honest look on this matter there is nothing pretty about a relationship like this and you put it out there as such thank you
Coercive snaphotting is real. When it was finally over with my narc, there was a point where I reflected and thought, "Who am I? Who have I become? I'm not me." I had become someone so different from who I really am to please my ex-narc. I stopped listening to the music I loved, she convinced me to get rid of my body piercings and go get tattoo removal done. It was crazy. One of the best days of my life was when I walked into a piercing studio and got all my piercings redone as sort of a way to reclaim who I was.
Question here: did you become like a second narcissist? Because now rewriting everything it seems that I became a narcissist after this relationship or I was maybe before idk now. I've changed a lot in just 1 year since I started doing therapy.
Congrats on your nomination. You are the winner in my book!
Dr. Sam Vaknin congratulations on your nomination!! Greetings from Monterrey, México 🇲🇽 🙏💕
Thanks Dr Vaknin, someone near of me started to had exactly this same signs after being very closely of someone with NPD
Congratulations Dr Sam Vaknin. I am forever grateful for your work.
I will need to listen to this lecture at least twice!
@@ellamarh3016 Likewise.
Yay 😃..kudos for your nomination Sam 🤩 you deserve it 🤗!
28. Articles.... that is amazing
Congratulations, Professor Dr. Sam Vaknin ❤
Felicidades por su nominación Doctor,muy merecido!
Knowledge is power, i am so grateful for your videos. It is freeing to understand the dynamics of narcissism and these toxic relationships. To recover from all this is a long journey and Dr. Vaknin has helped me tremendously with his videos.
First of all, heartiest congratulations for your recognition.
Secondly, thank you very much for your insightful videos. The information in them has helped me gain much clarity.
Congratulations, professor! 👏👏
Congrats Sam, I think there is no one on this planet more deserving than you to have such an honour bestowed upon you.
Congratulations, Dr. V 🎉you deserve the accolades. You choose to use your insight for the greater good 👍 ❤
You were feeling yourself this lecture. Making at least twice as many cheeky jokes as usual :) Congrats, your work might help change how people think about many social problems.
Congratulations…happy for you sir…you deserve it … god bless you…thank you so much for your kindness, and service.
Been listening to Prof. Vaknin for a while and in this video, like all of his videos, I'm wondering how he is getting all of this information so accurately. It's such a deep knowledge and for us who have lived through it, every thing is completely accurate. He gives words to the feelings that we just can't explain. I believe at one point he said he was diagnosed with NPD, but it's really hard to see that, because I would have never thought someone with NPD could have this deep of an understanding of any topic.
There's something really likable about you. You haven't actually said anything yet but I'm tuned in ready to hear you. 😊
Congratulations. You deserve it.
💯🙏🏻✨☠️ So True, I lived through this
Congratulations I hope you win
Congratulations. I really hope you win 💖
Congratulations sir
Thanks 💟
Congratulations Prof Sam!
This makes so much sense, thank you.
Well done, profesore!
Well deserved honor Sir!
Well done, Sam! 😅
Congrats Sam!
Congratulations, sir! That’s friggin awesome!
Wow! Congrats! 👏👏👏
YOU ARE AMAZING!!
Congrats Dr Sam!
Much appreciated Sam. Thank you.
Congratulations Sam!
Congrats Sam, Keep up the good work.
❤ well done, and congrats my friend!
Congratulations!! Well deserved
Thank you for saying that it can occur withing hours. I have been beating myself up because I have been on only two dates with this guy 5 month ago. Saying to myself, how can someone who I have never dated affect me so badly. Am still not sure if he is narcissist or rather am convincing myself that I don't have enough proof. We are still talking and I have so many sign of this "Infection".
Ingenious, as always ❤
Congrats You Are The Best!🌹🇸🇪
Congrats 💯✨
Congratulations! Well done!
Amazing!💛
Well done Sam 😊
Congrats Sam on both accomplishments!
Way to go🎉Congratulations!
Happy for you🎉Congrats!!
Yes, well done!