SEA RAY RESTORATION: Fixing up my Dad's Boat Before He Dies: START TO FINISH

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  • @jamesplihcik4574
    @jamesplihcik4574 5 місяців тому +183

    Rob, I understand as I am writing this in tears. Your mission was not in vain. It will be 19 years on the 13th that I lost my dad. I, like you, had the privilege of taking care of him during the last 30 days of his journey on this earth. You have honored your father in a wonderful way. May the good Lord take care of you and your family during this difficult time. Time heals all pain and suffering...that I know for sure.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +28

      Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it. It was really hard but I was really lucky to have the time to do so, and I am not exaggerating; without Sarah's medical care he would have been dead within 3 days, and instead we got to spend 7 weeks with him. We looked at lot of photos, talked about a lot of things, and I shared the progress of this boat with him every night before bed. It was a lot. Time to go float, cheers!

    • @johnathanknight8906
      @johnathanknight8906 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@ADDvanced hey Sir I want to say thank you for sharing and also I'm deeply sorry you didn't get to take him for that ride on that boat! But amazing Job on everything you did and also giving him that final ride at the end!! I'm actually in the process of redoing our childhood boat so yes sir I know the hard work you went through also seems like that boat is running better than ever you was hauling A$$!! 😁 Wish I could meet you in person Good Sir but keep making memories! Incredible

    • @adrianlivingstone8520
      @adrianlivingstone8520 4 місяці тому +5

      I first lost my wife then my dad, both to cancer, my wife passed 19/10/2017, then my dad 4 years later. My wife was my soulmate, that's a pain that has never left me, the grief is almost all consuming. I envy those whose wait thru time has allowed them to heal, I doubt that I ever will.

    • @onthegowithgreggsavage
      @onthegowithgreggsavage 4 місяці тому +2

      First, let me say that your dad could not have asked for a better son !! I was drawn to this video because I had the same make it model, and then I read the title and I was glued to every minute because I lost my dad a year ago and I wish I could have gotten him on the water one more time, but he was paralyzed with dementia 3yrs The worst hell I ever seen a man go through
      And it still haunts me. I was lucky enough to give him one of the most beautiful funerals ever because he was a police officer, end the army and both came out with their honor guard and did a fantastic job.. I jokingly say that if he was alive, he would have loved it.. As I saw your dad's face, it reminded me of my father. They looked very similar and I'm good at reading faces and I could tell your father was very proud even if he wasn't feeling good on that day on the pontoon boat, he would have rather been there than any place else in the world.
      because he wanted to be there for you. You are a very good man, I'm sure i'm not alone in saying this ! Your father's in heaven, having an awesome time, No pain no sickness, no death. And you will see him again. And he will look like the man you remember from when you were a child. I'm sure you'll never sell that boat. And when your out on the water with it, and you feel something nice , It's cause he's sitting in the seat next to you. I'm from connecticut, but I wish I was in your neighborhood at the time you were working on that boat, because I would have gladly helped you. I'm saying a prayer right now for your dad.

    • @paulmurray5525
      @paulmurray5525 2 місяці тому

      Yep I miss my dad to and now my mum it still hurts but it is part of life 😢😢

  • @vernonjjf
    @vernonjjf 5 місяців тому +99

    Dad's all over the world would feel the warmth of this video. Strongs mate.

  • @murraycrow3656
    @murraycrow3656 2 місяці тому +4

    My father passed when I was 12 years old and I never had the opportunity to do the things that you did for your father. I was not expecting the personal reaction that I experienced with your ending. Thank you for your dedication to do one final thing for your father. Your father is looking down on you proudly now.

  • @scottcreesy6084
    @scottcreesy6084 5 місяців тому +46

    I just lost my dad a few months ago. Even at 55 years old, I would always call him and keep him updated on my latest project... I still find myself going to pick up the phone and fill him in.
    Great video, sorry for your loss. Remember all the great times!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +6

      That hits hard. I just finished hanging new lighting in his garage, it looks so much better, and when I turned them on I wanted to show him so bad. Appreciate the comment, Scott. Stay tuned, I'm pretty far along on the yellow boat already. Cheers

  • @lawnworksllc9533
    @lawnworksllc9533 4 місяці тому +26

    Dude,I understand completely,I just found out my dad has cancer in the liver and lungs incurable has less than 4 months.I have decided to take off work and I am taking him to my cabin in mountains,so me and him can have one last adventure together before he gets to bad.God bless you and your Family

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +7

      Please contact a hospice network in your area, the people are there to help and provide you with the medical equipment you need to make them more comfortable in the final stages. It's not pretty, and it's really really hard. But it's worth it. We all die eventually; I just don't want to be in a friggin hospital under fluorescent lighting

  • @kellybrandt8874
    @kellybrandt8874 Місяць тому +2

    Loved your video. When my dad passed I got his 1975 Starcraft. I restored I got it looking the best I could. But that boat was a huge part of my healing process after losing him. So much respect for what your accomplished.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Місяць тому

      Thanks Kelly! I appreciate you leaving a comment. Life is short, do cool things!

  • @alanw.4511
    @alanw.4511 4 місяці тому +16

    I have no idea why UA-cam pushed me here but I am glad it did. Great job on the boat and video. Rest in peace Dad.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Probably the algo; looked at your vids and we are both cyclists and into snow sports, so maybe that? We are building an off grid ski chalet in the rockies; here is the 'cabin'
      ua-cam.com/video/K7nJFMf6xZw/v-deo.html

  • @tomwebb766
    @tomwebb766 5 місяців тому +23

    First time on your channel. Found myself in tears by the end. You did your Daddy proud. Remember he taught you how to be a Father. And a lot of other stuff. Condolences to you and your family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thanks for the comment, I appreciate it. If you liked this one, be sure to check out the SST project. Or the $500 CeeBee.

  • @DejaWiz
    @DejaWiz 4 місяці тому +8

    "Water has always been life to me.
    Always flowing, changing, and moving forward.
    The current pushes everyone on different paths.
    Sometimes you get back together just to say goodbye.
    I learned a lot from my dad:
    Spend time with dogs.
    Dont take anything too seriously.
    Laugh when things get tough.
    Go places youre not supposed to.
    Always be willing to help out.
    Enjoy going fast.
    Enjoy slowing down, too.
    Create memories, share knowledge & always spend time on the water."
    This is the most amazing closing outro to a video that I've ever seen since UA-cam has existed. Every word resonates with me...being near or on water isnt just a recreational/tourist thing - it is centering/Zen. IYKYK
    My condolences to you and your family, and thank you for capturing and sharing the true spirit of the water.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for your comment, especially about how much you enjoyed the outro. I had 90% of the video edited and done, and then it just stalled for over a month. I didn't know how to end it. I recorded some talking bits.... but the words just didn't capture everything, so I just decided to write some stuff. My dad gave me a love of the water, repairing things, and exploring buildings where I'm not supposed to be lol. Keep on floating man

  • @guymanicone7921
    @guymanicone7921 2 місяці тому +1

    My father died when i was 9. I only recall going on a boat once with him. We went crabbing. But my mother remarried 6 years later to a very kind man who treated her well. He lived in a lake community and i was able to use his boat often for water skiing and fishing. I was given a boat a few weeks ago, a 1981 Cobalt Runabout. I got it running and now I am fixing it up. Hope to have it on the water in the spring.

  • @markhayward3017
    @markhayward3017 5 місяців тому +27

    Dear Rob. So sorry to hear about your dad. Mine passed away 16.5 this year, he was 82. It was his funeral 5 days ago (things are pretty backed up and f****d up here in the UK). He was the greatest man I ever knew. Sat with tears in my eyes both watching and writing this. You did the greatest thing and were lucky enough to say goodbye. It would be great if you could restore 'Prime Time'. A beautiful boat. Look after yourself and keep up the fantastic vlogs.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +4

      Hey Mark, I'm sorry for your loss as well. It's pretty hard when someone has been your best friend your whole life isn't there anymore. Prime Time is on the list, I'm half way through the yellow boat now, so stay tuned for that one. Cheers!

  • @ELCADAROSA
    @ELCADAROSA 3 місяці тому +2

    My sincere condolences to you and your family, Rob.
    I'm sure the efforts of you and your wife were appreciated and kept him going for a bit longer.
    --------
    I'm hoping that you will find the time & energy to restore the boat you grew up with. A connection like that is hard to break.
    The boat in my photo was originally purchased by my grandfather in 1973, and I'm slowly restoring and modernizing her. Like you, I have lots of great childhood memories associated with her.
    Best wishes to all.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for the comment! It was good to be able to spend that time with him. Really hard, but I am glad we were there. Stay tuned man, this weekend I am dropping a second video where I finish restoring another one of the boats. It's going to be a good one. What kind of boat is in your pic? Idk how to blow it up.

  • @philf4086
    @philf4086 4 місяці тому +8

    Rob - you are the best son ever. Caring, patient, understanding. I know you got these traits from your Dad. My condolences for you and your family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Phil, appreciate the comment!

  • @georgeveneziano2754
    @georgeveneziano2754 2 місяці тому +1

    So sorry to hear bout your dad and I'm sorry you couldn't get in the last ride. But in a sense he did I'm sure he's proud of you great job great video and God bless ty

  • @chrisbasilebuilds
    @chrisbasilebuilds 5 місяців тому +12

    This hits close to home. Me and my dad used to love boating together. He got me into it. When he passed we had to sell his pride and joy boat. But I was able to keep his old cobalt ski boat. It’s been 11 years. And I love to take it out and just remember to the good times. Love your videos man. Best wishes through this terrible time.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +3

      I grew up on this river, mainly on that gigantic SunRunner I showed in the beginning of the video, but we traveled all over the country going to boat races in the 80s and 90s. So many of his friends that visited brought their boats, idk, it's hard to separate them at this point. Glad you still have the Cobalt; take as many people out on it as you can. Cheers!

    • @DavidSmith-tu1nd
      @DavidSmith-tu1nd 4 місяці тому +1

      @@chrisbasilebuilds The cobalts are great boats. Oldie but goodie. Your Dad is with you I bet when you're out on the water. Take the boat out this weekend. Fall is around the corner.

    • @gghostrrider
      @gghostrrider 4 місяці тому

      18:09 I was thinking of switching hobbies to boats, but I was still looking to see what bike is for sale 😅

  • @Astro25man
    @Astro25man 4 місяці тому +2

    I am truly sorry to hear of your dad passing. But seems he waited until it was finished being built. You and your family in that boat will be great memories your cherish for the rest of yalls life. Keep your head high and that boat just rollin.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Astro, appreciate the sentiment. Cheers

  • @Mowk86
    @Mowk86 3 місяці тому +3

    Man. You've earned a subscriber. It's good to see a good man recognize a good man, with his good woman helping him. Strong values. I'm very sorry about your father. While my father is still with us... I too grew up on the water of many different lakes. I felt a pain that I've got no reason to feel yet. Hugs to you, man.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for the comment, it's appreciate. Was pretty hard to shoot this video, and edit it, but sort of helped me organize my thoughts and how to process all this. I still feel lost. Update video this Sunday morning; finished restoring the 70s Yellow Sea Ray shown in the beginning of this video, it's going to be a great story! Cheers

  • @daveharrison7970
    @daveharrison7970 4 місяці тому +1

    Sorry for your loss. You did good, unfortunately weather doesn't care. Wishing you and your family all the best in a most difficult time.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Nature can be a real B sometimes. Thanks Dave

  • @gsSGgwbUtb
    @gsSGgwbUtb 5 місяців тому +6

    Rob, typically not one to comment on a UA-cam video but I felt the need to say something after following along on your adventures for a few years and now seeing this. The zeal with which you approach life is a testament to the lessons your father taught you. Thinking of you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thanks. Zeal feels a bit less lately. Need to get my groove back.

  • @pulsing1982
    @pulsing1982 4 місяці тому +1

    Looks like you learned a lot growing up with your Dad. He will have been pleased with your efforts. Nice movie, and as you said, create memories and pass it on.

  • @jordanlevitt6639
    @jordanlevitt6639 5 місяців тому +5

    Wow. What a wonderful tribute to your Dad! You know, you will have that boat as a special reminder of him. The Special Olympics athletes oath goes, " Let me win. But if I cannot win, let me be brave in the attempt" . You certainly did that! My bet is that your Dad loved and appreciated what you were doing. Take care!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the support, I appreciate it. I shared updates with him every night before he went to bed, and we troubleshooted... troubleshot? a lot of things together during this build. Cheers!

  • @paulwheeler1199
    @paulwheeler1199 3 місяці тому +2

    Sorry for your loss mate. You did an amazing thing for your dad and I'm sure he's looking down on you as a very proud dad. Thinking of you ❤

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Paul, appreciate the kind words. It's been rough.

  • @MrSlipstreem
    @MrSlipstreem 4 місяці тому +7

    I wasn't expecting to watch a journey of love today. I wasn't expecting to cry either. Thank you so much for sharing this, and deepest sympathy to everyone who's lost a parent or two. It happens to most of us eventually, and it's a hard path to travel. Stay strong and hold on to those precious memories for the rest of your days. Love and peace from a stranger who knows what you're going through. 🥲✌

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks, Slipstream. You're welcome, I'm glad other people are finding this video valuable; it was tough to capture everything, communicate what I was feeling, and edit all this, but I think it helped me deal with things somehow. Cheers and get on the water

  • @bobw8290
    @bobw8290 5 місяців тому +10

    Very sorry for the loss of your father / father in law Rob and Sarah. I'm sure he is very proud of the work you both did to get his old boat running. Whether he got physically in the boat or not for the last ride, I'm sure he was with you. I lost my dad 20 yrs ago next January and I still think about him often. Prayers lifted for you and your family and work through this difficult time.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thanks Bob, I appreciate it.

  • @leonperkins6555
    @leonperkins6555 5 місяців тому +10

    This one hit me hard.. 😢 My dad last boat was a Sea Ray just like this one, and I was fortunate to take him on his last ride before he passed. Sorry for your loss, Rob. Enjoy the memories ❤

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thanks Leon, it was so frustrating to have the weather take a turn when the boat was ready to go. I am excited and intimidated to tackle the big one I showed in the beginning; both from a mechanical and memory perspective.

    • @sharonbraselton3135
      @sharonbraselton3135 5 місяців тому

      Master cgef dad had kits of searay best boat ever had searay sundcer kugauna 17 searay jet boat

    • @sharonbraselton3135
      @sharonbraselton3135 5 місяців тому

      And searay 16 fot bowrinder.

  • @aguywiththreefirstnames1850
    @aguywiththreefirstnames1850 5 місяців тому +9

    the pain in your voice through out this video shows how much this project ment to you... sorry to hear your dad wont be able to ride his boat one last time... but he'll be there watching over you, making memories like he made with you all those years ago

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +2

      Yeah, it was rough. Appreciate the comment, life is short.

  • @farmdog93
    @farmdog93 5 місяців тому +8

    My mom passed March 3rd 2023, little over a year ago. Love what your doing, and have liked the channel for a while, awesome work haus and stay strong

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      I'm sorry for your loss, and I appreciate your comment. Thank you and get on the water for me.

  • @TheBuckeye
    @TheBuckeye 5 місяців тому +2

    You were a good son and he was a great Dad. I'm so sorry for your loss. I loved watching the video but it did bring me to tears.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Appreciate the comment, thank you. I'm already almost done with the yellow boat.

  • @glennsjobom4370
    @glennsjobom4370 5 місяців тому +10

    So very sorry for your lost, you took care of him the last time and honored him with getting the boat fixed again. Hats off for you and your wife ❤️

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +3

      Thank you Glenn, I appreciate it. I was lucky to have time to spend with him in his last few months. He told me a lot of dirty jokes :)

  • @malibusbc
    @malibusbc 3 місяці тому +1

    I just happen to see your video on my feed. What a very classy and touching tribute to your dad. To be able to push through a project during such a difficult time, is the ultimate tribute. Well done

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Mal, appreciate it!

  • @tommiller5014
    @tommiller5014 4 місяці тому +4

    Rob, my sincerest sympathies. Just discovered your channel a couple days ago and am trying to catch up on what I missed.
    I work in cancer care and see death and dying every day. It's not easy. But know that he is in a better place, no longer suffering and at peace. He knows your love for him and you will once again be with him. Cherish the memories and create new ones with your wonderful family for them to remember. My prayers are with you and your family. Stay well.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you Tom! It was pretty rough. I am trying to be thankful for knowing him, and that anything good ever happened at all, vs focusing on what you don't have anymore. Cheers

  • @RJE6585
    @RJE6585 4 місяці тому +1

    New subscriber, Great video, So sorry for the loss of your Father. I have be very fortunate and really dont know the feeling as of yet. I am 64 youngest of 6 and my Dad is 95, cant walk but has all his faculties.. we've been very fortunate.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Ron, appreciate it. Time comes for all of us. Make it count.

  • @johnswansey2066
    @johnswansey2066 4 місяці тому +5

    Rob - my sincere condolences. I'm a subscriber and lifelong boat fixer, and I remember well the last ride I took my Dad on. He's been gone over 40 years now. I think of him every day, and I still have the boat, restored it during the pandemic, and took my sons out for a ride. In the final analysis, the boats don't matter. It's the people we love and the time we spend with them that does. Godspeed, brother.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Hey John, thanks for the comment. My mom told me once that I need to stop worrying about 'stuff' so much, but she doesn't understand that 'things' like boats and snowmobiles create such rich, vivid memories that last an entire lifetime. I miss him a lot. Cheers

  • @DArtagnonsSword
    @DArtagnonsSword 4 місяці тому +2

    You, Sarah and a few friends "stepped up" for your Pop busted your humps to make an experience and more than likely recall memories of his younger years for him on one of his water toys. He got to see it out on the water where it belongs and know YOU and yours made it happen. Well done! Thanks for sharing your story to tell and your perspective. Anyone who watches will be inspired to step up and "do it right."

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      We shared a lot of memories, and a lot of them involved the water. Glad it resonated with you; everything is temporary, even the bad times.

  • @greyone40
    @greyone40 5 місяців тому +6

    This is a sad story, but also a very happy one. It reminds me a lot of my Dad and our life on the water. Thank you. May your Dad rest in peace.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Good way of putting it. Super hard, but grateful I was here for him.

    • @hankschrader149
      @hankschrader149 5 місяців тому

      💯

  • @WildTex-m9u
    @WildTex-m9u 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey Rob, tip of the hat to you Sir. I too have been through this. It's crazy I discovered your video because I am in the process of restoring my Dad's old pontoon boat. He passed away in 2016. He was an awesome man and he loved the outdoors. Thank you for sharing.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks! It was rough but I was lucky to have been there for him. Good luck in the restore; if it gets too bad remember that pontoons are a dime a dozen. I'm not above scrapping boats if they're too far gone; this one just happened to work out. Your dad would rather have you on the water vs throwing money into a hole being stressed out. Cheers!

  • @publicdefender77
    @publicdefender77 5 місяців тому +3

    1988 was such a memorable year for boating for me. Both Sea Ray and Four Winns going head to head, Brunswick going against OMC. So many little companies in the mix: Sunbird, Sea Sprite, Chapparal, VIP and the list goes on. I miss those days filled with 2 stroke smell on the lakes... As a kid that grew up on lake Mendota this really hit home. As a kid I had every boat memorized at every house. I passed this boat hundreds of times on my way to the Musky lounge and Christie's. This actually brought tears to my eyes as I'm in a very similar situation with my father. I'm waiting for the water levels to drop so hopefully I can get his boat on the lift. He is unable to get in it but once the water drops maybe I can find a way to get him in the boat so we can have potentially one last ride. Thanks for sharing Rob. Hugs to you and your family!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Which boat, Prime Time? And yeah, when the boating actually cared about the middle class, it was awesome. Same experience, I memorized where all the cool boats were, and the channel was just a constant boat show, so many Bajas, Checkmates, Hydrostreams, Chapparels, all sorts of stuff used to be fun, fast, and affordable. I've spent the last 8 years at Mercury and I felt like I was screaming into the void when I talked about performance boating becoming more attainable. Very frustrating.The yellow and black Bat Boat is still around btw! Saw him a few days ago lol. Cheers, and be sure to check out some of my sled content if you haven't, I think you'll dig it. Thanks for the comment!
      ua-cam.com/video/2ngOA7msP-M/v-deo.html

    • @publicdefender77
      @publicdefender77 4 місяці тому +2

      @ADDvanced Yea, Prime Time. Awesome to hear the bat boat is still going! It's sad all the new boats are slow expensive, wake machines. Nothing like the 80s and 90s. I'm really missing the Yahara lakes. Few years ago, I moved over to the Mississippi side of the state. Great boating besides this year. I actually almost bought your yellow boat, the cee bee 😆. Glad I didn't after seeing all the overheat issues. Been a big fan of your content, including all of your sledding stuff too. Keep up the good content brother!

  • @rappeezy
    @rappeezy 4 місяці тому +1

    My god that ending. I'm gutted. So sorry for your loss. Great video.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks. Was pretty gutting for me as well. I don't know if I'll ever be the same person again.

  • @yunak9665
    @yunak9665 5 місяців тому +3

    So very sorry for your loss. Your father was a great man as evidenced by your love for him. May his words of wisdom guide us all.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the comment, I appreciates you

  • @richardgabel33
    @richardgabel33 4 місяці тому +2

    One of the very best videos I have seen in years. Thank you for taking us along on this journey. Stay safe.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you Richard, appreciate your comment and it means a lot. It was a pretty personal journey but documenting this boat resto helped somehow; we talked about it a lot every night.

  • @stephenwebber3076
    @stephenwebber3076 5 місяців тому +3

    You and your family are good people. I restored a 64 Impala as a tribute to my dad after he passed, 30 years later I still think of him when ever I drive it

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      That's awesome. Use it or lose it. Life is short!

  • @farmingfromabove2234
    @farmingfromabove2234 3 місяці тому +2

    Life can be so fickle. It is undeniable that you loved your dad. Thanks for sharing.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for the comment. It was emotional.

  • @RifeB6892
    @RifeB6892 5 місяців тому +2

    You did your dad proud man. I have the same passions in me because of my dad and I owe it all to him. I’d be doing the same for him and his Glastron if it ever got to that point. Definitely made me tear up thinking about it. I’m glad your dad got to see it float and I’m glad you were able to be with him during that time. No doubt he’s proud. Good job.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks man. It's been tough. Already half way done with the yellow sea ray, time for round 2. Also I need a CVX-20 eventually.

  • @tabcreedence6553
    @tabcreedence6553 4 місяці тому +1

    You did a great job and made your Dad proud. Lost my dad at the end of '23. Thank you for posting this for everyone to see, it will help a lot of people.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      I hope so. Life is so short. Too many people are worried about things that don't matter. Cheers

  • @steveo7767
    @steveo7767 5 місяців тому +6

    Damn man I was just wondering why no videos in such a long time now I know. Worn the same shoes you have with my Mom passing unexpectedly totally caught off guard. Life’s crappy time to experience that loss when things are going so right. Pet or human loss…it just sucks. Live long live happy! Keep at it!!!! Love the videos. Sorry for your loss!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +2

      Yeah. To be honest life has been throwing me a lot of Ls lately. I have a lot of videos already done and uploaded and ready to post, but I wanted to put this one out first to help explain. More videos soon, thanks for the comment, Steve!

    • @steveo7767
      @steveo7767 5 місяців тому +1

      @@ADDvanced 👍🏻✌🏻🥃, btw on a different note my wife said Sarah had an engagement ring or wedding ring on in this video, I didn’t catch it. 👊🏻🤙🏻💪🏻things will get better!

  • @shiinecorp
    @shiinecorp 3 місяці тому +1

    Never got to go boating with my dad as he passed way too early but sure is a memory I want to create with my son! RIP to your dad

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      I'm sorry man, life really sticks it in and breaks it off sometimes. Good on you for creating those memories, they are priceless. Cheers!

  • @jimkeys7580
    @jimkeys7580 5 місяців тому +3

    Rob, thanks for sharing your Dad's story. Things don't always work out the way you plan, but all you can do is your best. My wife and I were out on the boat this afternoon. A song came on the radio "rock the boat" and I was immediately transported back in time, sitting with my Dad (passed 15yrs ago) fishing on his 14' wooden boat. Nice memories are the ones that last... Be well.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      You're welcome, I am glad you enjoyed it. It was pretty rough. I have definitely been playing some music my dad played on Prime Time recently. Good vibes.

  • @thomvandrie9109
    @thomvandrie9109 3 місяці тому +1

    first condolences on the loss of your father.
    I came across your video by chance.
    I am grateful that I was able to see your story.
    god bless you

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      Thank you! If you liked this one, you'll like the next video that I am putting out this Sunday. I finished restoring another one of my dad's boats, be sure to check it out

  • @Scratchingforcash
    @Scratchingforcash 4 місяці тому +12

    To all that lost your parents or parent, I did too and I miss mine so very much. I’m sure your parents are all proud of you. Well done bud. You did your daddy proud.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks man, appreciate it. I wish you could still call them.

    • @Scratchingforcash
      @Scratchingforcash 4 місяці тому

      @@ADDvanced me too, I gotta tell ya. This video is pretty awesome, from your knowledge of boat repair to the love you have for your dad driving you is extremely inspiring to me and probably a lot of others. Keep up the good work, your family is proud of you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      @@Scratchingforcash Thanks! We build a lot of random things, and my dad was the one who taught me a lot of skills required to do so.

  • @frankskeen1310
    @frankskeen1310 3 місяці тому +1

    Very good story and a lot of love shown for your dad, GOD bless him and your family. I lost my dad in 2003, I am 68 now and I still miss him so much . Remembering how he took us to the beach and fishing for trout in West Virginia, caught so many it was great fun and a lasting memory. Hello DAD and to your DAD, keep moving forward and don't let anyone slow you down or try to stop you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      Thank you Frank! I'm sorry for your loss as well. Everything in life is temporary, it feels a lot more brief now that he's gone. Memories are all that matter to me, at the end of the day. I am dropping a new video this Sunday; I finished restoring another one of my dad's boats, be sure to check it out! Have a good one and make it count!

  • @samhorn387
    @samhorn387 5 місяців тому +2

    What a beautiful tribute to your father, he would be proud of the new life given to the sea ray. Lost my father to cancer 2/28/2015, and felt this video in so many ways. Thanks for sharing your journey with us, I know it was not easy to relive some of those moments.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Oddly, editing this helped me distill some of my feelings into something more tangible, but I still feel lost. Cheers.

  • @alanshaw4655
    @alanshaw4655 5 місяців тому +3

    watched the whole video, sorry for your loss. my dad passed away in may of 1999, we grew up on the water fishing, sooo..i know how you feel. great work on the boat, enjoy it, because that boat will always be with you and your dad.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      To be honest, I'm not even sure if I'm keeping this one. I have 7 boats. End of the day, any boat reminds me of my dad, except nasty ass pontoons, which we both despise :P

    • @alanshaw4655
      @alanshaw4655 5 місяців тому

      @@ADDvanced that big one you and your wife walked into at your yard ?, that was very nice !!. whatever you do ?..do not get rid of all of them, you will regret it for the rest of your life. your dad is gone, but the memories should always stay with you, and the boat is what keeps you and your dad close.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, I want to get Prime Time on the water this season

  • @marksmith7054
    @marksmith7054 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm glad you have happy Memories of your father. also good job on bringing this boat back to life.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Mark, he was a great guy

  • @stevejones924
    @stevejones924 4 місяці тому +3

    Virtual hugs from us up in Vancouver, BC, Canada eh? I didnt get to see my dad before his cancer operation took him. For my father in law, I wanted to take him to the local Flying club and see if they would let him go up with one of the pilots but by then he couldnt walk...sometimes that tide can swamp us and push us away but knowing we all will be gone one day, seize the day I say if at all possible, dont add to the drama out there, live and love. Such is life eh? Glad he got to at least see it, nice tribute on his last boat excursion~

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you Steve, appreciate the comment and support. Time is limited, everything is temporary, make the most of it. Pitter patter!

  • @zatoichi101
    @zatoichi101 4 місяці тому +1

    Such a great tribute and wonderful effort. My condolences on the loss of your father, I know that pain very well. It is a blessing he got to see his boat back on the water. (And by the way, my father loved the water and we spread his ashes in the Pacific Ocean.)

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Zatoichi, appreciate it. It's been hard, but I'm still grinding. Yellow Sea Ray is almost done, update video soon. No ashes this time. Cheers!

  • @douglasvannuys
    @douglasvannuys 5 місяців тому +2

    What an absolutely warm, heartfelt and proper tribute. So will done. Thank you for sharing it with us. I am so sorry for your loss, but I know your Dad is smiling down on you and the man you are. Cheers Mate!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for the kind words. It was an experience that was really hard, but I am glad I had. Miss him a lot. I know I'll think about him often as I keep building shitbox boats.

  • @michaelbarrett1914
    @michaelbarrett1914 4 місяці тому +1

    I am watching your video full of emotions. Like you, water & boating was my life. It fell to the wayside 21 yrs ago when we lost our 15yr old son. My wife, daughter & I spent the last 3.5 yrs also caring for my FIL that was bedridden. He needed 24/7 care. I can't imagine restoring a boat (they are so different than cars) while trying to care for a parent in their final days. I have a 19'9" VIP fish and ski with a 5.0L Ford V8 that is probably going to need much of the same work you did on the motor and outdrive. I'm not looking forward to it at all. I do however want to get it up and running again and on the water. My soul needs this. I was happy to see you take the boat out for a ride with family and friends and send your dad's ashes into the water where he invested so much of his life to bring his family along. Your video was very touching and worth every minute of viewing time. Sarah's involvement along with providing your dad with so much care was astounding. You married a rock star too. Keep her happy for all your days, she is worth it. May you both be granted decades of joy, happiness, and blessings.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Hey Micheal, appreciate you taking the time to leave such an awesome comment. I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine. I grew up on the water, and my dad and I traveled to boat races around the country throughout my childhood, so many awesome memories. Caring for someone for 3.5 years must have been exhausting, I was spent and it was about 2 months. Outdrives aren't so bad if you have a helper, and it sounds like you have a very supportive family. Cheers man!

  • @martinmcquaide4807
    @martinmcquaide4807 5 місяців тому +3

    God speed pops, Sarah you are a woman among women, helping out with this. Bravo!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thanks, she makes a lot of things possible. She changed the waterpump impeller on the yellow boat today.

  • @braccali
    @braccali 5 місяців тому +1

    Rob, You are a great son. I see the man you are and know a lot prob came from your father. I bet he is very proud of you. Mission accomplished. Keep up your hard work and outlook and you will be rewarded. Love you and Sarah and your content. May your dad rest in peace and may you find solace in your fond memories of your father and family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thanks, he was supportive my entire life, and one of my best friends. I'm lucky to have had the time to spend with him near the end, and keep him out of the hospital.

  • @monoskier2112
    @monoskier2112 5 місяців тому +4

    Sorry about your dad buddy, my deepest condolences to you and your family. It’s great to have you back, we missed you up here in Canada. Take care 😎🇨🇦

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thanks for the comment, I appreciate it. Pitter Patter!

  • @20truck
    @20truck 4 місяці тому +1

    I've had the start this comment at least five times because I start crying so hard that I can't talk and I don't type I use voice recognition. Your dad may not have got to ride in that boat but he was there, just seeing that boat done he imagined it on the water again I truly wish he would have got to ride in it but you did a wonderful job. My brother passed away in January and the strange thing is he had a Sea Ray just like this boat identical to this boat (Red and White) and then the after that boat he bought a Chaparral Villain lll and I happen to be watching an episode of the sopranos and Tony soprano was using a Chaparral Villain lll with the same color scheme as my brother's boat, this happened in the same day, I saw your video and then the video with the Chaparral Villain. You did wonderful thing I hope you enjoy that Sea Ray for a long time.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks man, I'm glad the video meant something to me. Funny about the boat coincidences; one of the strangest coincidences in my life involves my dad. My dad was an electrical engineer/designer at a company started called Nicolet Instruments that produced the world's first digital oscilliscope, back in 1960s. Here's the crazy part: ~50 years later, I had moved to a different city to go to college for industrial design (design of anything mass produced, tools, medical stuff, boats, cars, etc), and was in the shop building stuff, waiting for a thermoformer to heat up to make some prototypes, and I was bored, so I started looking through old cabinets. A lot of the tools we had in the shop were old AF, donated from other companies that upgraded to newer machines, and sometimes they were bolted onto random cabinets filled with random garbage. So I decided to dig through one of them, and I find... a 8.5x11, full color, beautiful studio shot of a Nicolet oscilloscope, mounted to hardboard. This wasn't a snapshot, this was a professional photo that must have been made for marketing reasons; it had a red 'fill light' illuminating the side dramatically, with a spot on the upper part showing off all the machined metal. I called my dad and and told him what model it was.... "Yup, I designed that".
      What are the odds.... that going to school for design, I would find a beautiful studio shot example of what my dad designed, mounted on hardboard, in a random cabinet 50 years after he designed it? It's one of the weirdest things that has ever happened to me.

  • @jorgeperezdeprado8941
    @jorgeperezdeprado8941 5 місяців тому +7

    So sorry for your loss my brother from another mother. He's OK now, watersking and having a blast. He will always have seat waiting for ya.😢😢😢😢❤❤😇😇

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Oh man, you should see his obituary photo, it's him waterskiing in front of the capital with a cigarette and no life jacket, I think he was 77 years old? haha

    • @jorgeperezdeprado8941
      @jorgeperezdeprado8941 4 місяці тому +1

      Tough old bird, he raised a great son and man ,his job was complete . OK dude he's not gone ,just out of sight.

  • @elijahbl5745
    @elijahbl5745 2 місяці тому +1

    I understand your pain, I'm sorry for your loss, my uncle passed and his final wish was always to run one final race in is mirage with a Merc 2.5 racing outboard, never got to do it, the only race planned got cancelled last minute, and he died 3 days after, hate it, I know how much he loved racing it and how much work he put into it

  • @johndandrea8034
    @johndandrea8034 4 місяці тому +3

    There is no doubt that your dad was with you on the water when you took the boat out...Your a good man for what you did and I am sure what you will do in the future. Sounds like you had a great teacher.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks John, appreciate the comment. He taught me a lot about things, miss him a lot. Cheers!

  • @louishansen3900
    @louishansen3900 2 місяці тому +1

    I just love this video I shed a tear my father was retired Nave sub mariner

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Місяць тому

      My dad served in the late 50s, navy. He grew up with WW2, so his plan was get in, and then get out as fast as possible so they couldn't draft him lol

  • @peterewski
    @peterewski 4 місяці тому +3

    Rob you did your father proud. I lost my father 21 years ago to lung cancer and had the privilege of taking care of him the last 13 months. You seem very talented and a wonderful son and a sweet wife helping you. Good job to you both. You also did a great job on the video 🙏❤️

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you Peter; taking care of him was really hard but we were lucky to have freetime to do so. Appreciate the kind words, it means a lot.

  • @williamkemm673
    @williamkemm673 4 місяці тому +1

    First of all Sarah is a unbelievable trooper and you are so lucky to have a participant in life as you do!!!!
    I knew what the ending was going to be, the young man you persevered on a mission I wish you could have fulfilled!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      She's a beast! I miss him a lot. There have been so many times where I wanted to share something with him, since he moved on. Stay tuned for updates; I'll be releasing a vid on the yellow sea ray shortly.

  • @kashjewell3775
    @kashjewell3775 5 місяців тому +3

    Your video made me cry. Sorry for your loss dude.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      I'm sorry, I think? Thank you for the words. Everything is temporary.

  • @celestialgirl8893
    @celestialgirl8893 5 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for your loss. And your amazing for trying to make his late days the best for him.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      It was a lot but real shoutout goes to Sarah, she kept him alive. Cannot say enough about her medical abilities.

  • @jimmyz2098
    @jimmyz2098 5 місяців тому +4

    This is an amazing vid. Probably one of the best videos I have ever seen on the Toob. And I am a longtime Toober, and kind of even obsessed with it. And yeah - this vid is that good. Inspirational and a lot of fun, at the same time. I love anything boats and motors. So there's that aspect. And you did an amazing job. But the tribute aspect of this vid is great, and I know your Dad was, and is proud of you. You've got great skillz! Oh - and yeah - you've got yourself one heck of a boat there. There's a reason Sea Ray has the rep they do - and same with Murcruiser. That Alpha 1 (or 1B or whatever that is LOL) is a Dawg! Awesome boat, and once you really finish it with some more cutting and buffing.... will be amazing! Awesome awesome video, Brother. Subbed. Our souls are similar.... the water is where my soul is at its peak. For sure. I get you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Your words mean a lot; this was a very hard video to make, so I'm glad it's connecting with you. Yeah, I think the chevy 350 + alpha is such a good combo, and after noticing what's in all 3 of my dad's boats, he definitely had a type. I cut and buffed it again since the video, so it's even shinier now. Be sure to check out the sleekcraft builds, and the Ceebee, and the hydro. :P

    • @jimmyz2098
      @jimmyz2098 5 місяців тому +2

      @@ADDvanced Will do for sure. I grew up with all this stuff. Grandpa worked for Johnson Motors / OMC for 40 years. I'm a child of the Chesapeake Bay, and all kinds of Lakes, Rivers and Sounds! I'm like you. I'm at peace out on the water. I'll be checking you out. I hope your sadness turns to happiness... soon !

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      @@jimmyz2098 Thanks Jimmy! I'm about to water test the yellow boat later today, wish me luck!

  • @loudonbands6296
    @loudonbands6296 4 місяці тому +1

    Rob you did an outstanding job on the SeaRay, and your Dad was SO proud of you! It took me back to a job I did about 10 years ago... same steps. Remember, he was not just proud about the boat. YOU were his greatest work, his masterpiece. I know I'd be beaming with joy over your skill set he helped form in you. Now YOU get to pass it along. ;)

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      That comment meant a lot man. We were very close. I miss him terribly. But yeah, sharing knowledge and having fun is what this channel is all about; the only goal I had when starting it was to show people that even seemingly impossible tasks are easy if you break them down into small enough steps; progress every day for many days and you can get almost anything done. I wish more people would think like this, and spend less on new depreciating things that aren't as good as old ones. Especially boats.

  • @rocko81679
    @rocko81679 5 місяців тому +2

    Sorry for your loss. Awesome video and a great memorial to your dad.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Thank you. It was a lot.

  • @benjaminpounds2461
    @benjaminpounds2461 3 місяці тому +2

    Rob, Your video has touched me. Watching this reminds me of my Granddad. He passed on my birthday 22 years ago and my childhood and teen years were spent with him on the water, in the woods, and anywhere else life took us. Thank you for sharing your journey to honor your dad and to give him a last ride. I pray for you and your family to have peace and comfort in the days to come.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Ben! Not a great birthday present, sorry for your loss. I'm glad it meant something to you. It's been hard but I am staying busy; def check out the video I'm releasing tomorrow morning. I just finished boat #2! Cheers

  • @RedEyedJack
    @RedEyedJack 5 місяців тому +7

    My dad is in late stage alzheimer's, the long goodbye.....we spent as much time together as possible before he no longer could. He is still with us but no longer able to walk. Sorry to hear about your dad. 🙏

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому +1

      Man... I am so sorry. I went through that with my grandma, and it was the absolute worst thing I could imagine, and my greatest fear in life (getting it). I hope you get moments of clarity where you still recognize him. Good vibes, cheers!

  • @circe42
    @circe42 4 місяці тому +1

    Very touching video and a great tribute to your dad. he had to be so happy and proud for what you did for him . Enjoy the memories as he is smiling with you from above.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Circe, appreciate the comment. It's been hard.

  • @user-vr2tx4tt6b
    @user-vr2tx4tt6b 4 місяці тому +2

    Sorry to hear he didn't get his last ride.
    But you are an awesome son... no question he was proud of you.
    All the best, enjoy that boat in memory of him.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks man, appreciate the comment.

  • @kbrown1350
    @kbrown1350 4 місяці тому +1

    Great video, thanks for sharing and I am very sorry about the loss of your dad. First thing I did after watching was called my pops who is 85 and had a great conversation. You reminded how important it is to take the time to communicate with those we love and not allow the little things in life to get in the way of that.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you KBrown, and I'm glad you called him up. Everything is so temporary. Make the most of it.

  • @keen1957
    @keen1957 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey man, thanks for sharing such a real story. Great job with the boat. And such a great wife thats right by your side.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Keen, I didn't film the realest stuff, it was too hard. Have a good one and stay tuned, almost done with the yellow boat so update coming soon

  • @crstfr14
    @crstfr14 4 місяці тому +1

    This video made it's way to me somehow through the UA-cam algorithm. What a great gesture to get the boat going so your Dad could see one final happy accomplishment before he passed. The final scenes and text were beautiful. RIP to your Dad.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Christopher! I had the video mostly done except for the end, for almost a month. I wasn't sure how to end it, because there's a million emotions and a million things to say, so I'm glad you appreciated it! Cheers

  • @robertpoore7604
    @robertpoore7604 4 місяці тому +1

    Rob you are good man and son. Im sure your dad is so proud. You brought tears to my eyes. God bless you and your wife.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you Robert, appreciate the comment and the kind words. Updates on the yellow sea ray soon

  • @nathanhoveyaquatics
    @nathanhoveyaquatics 4 місяці тому +1

    I don't know who you are or anything about the channel but I gotta give you mad props man. Y'all did an amazing job with what little time and resources you had and as you mentioned I'm such dads proud of y'all. May he surf the waters happily. Sorry for ur loss.. 🙏🏼. Hello from Naples FL.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for the words, Nathan- I appreciate it a lot. You should probably check out the SST build we did, if you think this was a good job. I can't wait to drive that thing; I am shooting for 90mph

  • @adamswartz5553
    @adamswartz5553 4 місяці тому +1

    Amazing job. Was in the same situation. I didn’t get him on my boat but I got my buddy to take him on his for accessibility reasons.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you Adam. Good job on getting him on the water. Cheers man

  • @ahwayzcool4630
    @ahwayzcool4630 4 місяці тому +2

    This brought tears to my eyes. My dad passed away from cancer Dec. 22, 2002. Watching this video made me think of my younger years as a kid in the 80's when my dad had a boat and took me and my brother out on Lake Michigan for boat rides and fishing. God bless you and your family my friend.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for the comment, man. Boating in the 80s was glorious, when the working class could actually afford cool boats. Now it's all pontoons and boring slow things that cost 60k+. Cheers and get out on the water!

    • @ahwayzcool4630
      @ahwayzcool4630 4 місяці тому

      @ADDvanced You ain't lying brotha! I want a boat myself but damn are they expensive. And I don't really care for slow boring pontoons.

  • @drdrain
    @drdrain 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this, lost my dad about 4 years ago, he bought us a Searay 200CC to the family that me and my brother inherited, and i was always working on the boat with him before every season.
    Now my son have taken over the ownership of the boat and im the father that have the privilage to be able to assist him in the restoration that he likes to do to the boat.
    Im really glad you shared this video, it brings back alot of memories some very emotionell, but at the end its good memories.
    Thanks alot from Sweden !

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      That's awesome. One thing I kept talking to him about was how many boats he sold, by creating other boat owners. Many of his friends told me stories how they used to go out on his big blue boat, and wound up getting their own boats later. I've done the same thing; taken so many people boating, and now they own boats. It's wild. You think you aren't affecting the world, but it's sort of the butterfly effect. Thanks for the comment!

  • @BellavistaPEI
    @BellavistaPEI 4 місяці тому +1

    I don't recall a UA-cam video ever choking me up before! This was a wonderful video!
    I've had the same feelings of loss with both my parents and my most sincere sympathies go out to you and your family. You did a wonderful thing by reviving that boat and needless to say, it was fantastic therapy for you as you were on your race against time. From what I witnessed in your video, in my opinion, possibly unknowingly, you revived that boat for the very purpose it was meant to serve....to bring your Dad's ashes where they were supposed to go. He may not have been with you in body, but I guarantee, he was and always will be with you in spirit.
    May he Rest In Peace.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for the comment, Bella. It's been really hard, he was one of my best friends and we talked very often, about everything. Time is short, do something awesome today. Cheers

  • @steven42427
    @steven42427 Місяць тому +2

    Im so sorry for your loss and ur dads riding with you everytime you take the boat out love u guys ❤❤❤😢😢

  • @charliesydnor8889
    @charliesydnor8889 4 місяці тому +1

    That was a very touching video. I felt your sincere heartfelt love for your dad. I am 76 years old so I feel how blessed your dad felt those final days that you put your heart and soul into getting the boat restored back for him that last time. But in the end he had his last ride. God Bless Your Dad and your family. Brought tears to my eyes. I am new subscriber after watching this video.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Charlie, appreciate you leaving a comment for me. It was equally both good and bad, and I am glad we were here to take care of him. Everything is temporary, have fun while you can. If you're new around here, we have a lot of boat builds in progress, but also a lot of cars, snowmobiles, and some off grid land where we turn a school bus into a ski lodge. Cheers man!

  • @mavcar38
    @mavcar38 4 місяці тому +1

    Great video, sorry for the loss of your father. Keep that boat going and he will be right there with you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Mavcar, will be keeping this one going, and already onto the next one! Stay tuned for the next vid

  • @derick-smith
    @derick-smith 4 місяці тому +2

    This definitely brought some full grown man tears! What a beautiful tribute to your pops, the boat and the video.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks Derick, life is short, pitter patter. Cheers!

  • @bornpompey2
    @bornpompey2 4 місяці тому +1

    First time on your Chanel, I watched with baited breath as a marine engineer form the Uk, literally willing you to get this done, so close, your Dad must be so proud to have raised such a great Son and family. Big up to you bro and your wife x

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks man, appreciate it. What segment of the marine market? I've been working as an industrial designer at Mercury Marine for the past 8 years, but currently looking for work. Check out my website www.gruvdesign.com it is still in early stages but please let me know if you know of companies that need design work. Cheers!

  • @MikeGierke
    @MikeGierke 4 місяці тому +1

    Its a pleasure to watch you two work together...she says what she means she do!

  • @iantait9906
    @iantait9906 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow, that was an inspiring story, but at the same time, so so sad. Thanks for sharing those messages at the end. You are a great and compassionate family. May your dad rest in peace.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for the kind words, I appreciate your comment. I'm posting another restoration video this Sunday; another one of my dad's boats, and it's going to be a great story. Cheers!

  • @TODZLLA
    @TODZLLA 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this. I would have loved for it to have worked out as you had planned but as we all know, that’s not how real life works sometimes.This ending was wonderful in its own way.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks, I wasn't sure how to finish the video at all. I tried recording some stuff but none of it really felt right.

  • @Corinthoswarehouse
    @Corinthoswarehouse 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so so much for this video. It brought back so many memories of my dad. And the times we spent together!!! Sorry for your lost. You were truely bless to have him in your life. Hang in there. I know your dad will be missed. Take care

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  5 місяців тому

      Appreciate the comment. It's been tough. I learned so much, it was hard to put into a video.

  • @jgott1745
    @jgott1745 5 місяців тому +1

    I’m sorry you lost your dad, but that mad dash to get his boat fixed extended your time together as I’m sure he fought to see it come back to life. And you got to have that part of him in the boat live on. Good work man, enjoy it!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you, I appreciates you

  • @AndrewRueckert-k1x
    @AndrewRueckert-k1x 4 місяці тому +1

    Good Bless you and your family man. Your pops must have been an good dude, because you and your family I can tell are good. You have good heads on your shoulders shoulders... Much respect man.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thanks man, appreciate the kind words, he was a great guy.

  • @scottisbell7635
    @scottisbell7635 4 місяці тому +1

    I drug my kids to the lake all the time...when they loved it when they were little, and when they got older, and didn't appreciate it as much...still have the boat, I hope someday they feel this way, this video made me tear up for sure, sorry for your loss, your Dad was loved, and that meant all the world to him for sure

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      I don't know if it's legal to drug your kids while they're at a lake :P Do they waterski? Man every kid I knew that grew up waterskiing loves boats. Have a good one, Scott, and thank you for the kind words

  • @ES-xc6fk
    @ES-xc6fk 4 місяці тому +1

    Good afternoon Rob and Sarah. Finally had a chance to sit down and watch your last video. I have to say it was probably the most moving episode on many channels I have watched. I emailed you back in August and December to your Gruvdesign email but dont know if you ever saw them. I really appreciate what you tried to do with for you Dad, I bet her really appreciated it. To me family and friends are so important and I will be passing on your video to many to see all the lessons you listed about life and whats important. Still would like to talk to you, I have yet to pull my 1979 200 black max off the one boat to go to my other Glastron Carlson. Thanks for all you have shared the past few years, wish on the best for you and Sarah.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you ES! I'm glad you appreciated the video; it was a really challenging time in life and documenting some of it, or at least this portion, helped keep me focused and organize how i was dealing with it all. I'll check my email; I love carlsons! CVX20 is probably one one of the best looking boat designs of all time. Life is short, go do awesome things and laugh about it. Cheers man!

  • @jkreach7188
    @jkreach7188 4 місяці тому +2

    Holy shit the algorithm was strong with this one. Lost my father to cancer almost 2 years ago. He was an avid recreational boater and like you, I grew up on boats. When I think about what he loved most it was family and boating. I remember him falling in the night trying to walk to the bathroom. It was brutal that last month. Absolutely horrible disease, but I am grateful we could say our goodbyes, or hopefully our see ya laters. Thanks for a good cry. I think about him everyday, but your video brought on some buried emotions. If you’re ever around the Chain O Lakes in IL, his boat is on the water and a drink is never far away. I’m lucky I get to continue to share his love of the water with my family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks J, appreciate you leaving a comment and sharing your story. Cancer is bullshit, Sarah is a survivor/patient and I hate that disease. Yeah, we tried blocking the door with chairs because when he got up in the middle of the night it was sort of like he was on auto pilot, but it didn't work, he'd just tip them over and keep going. At one point he went out to get the paper and fell at the end of the driveway really early in the morning, before anyone was awake. I am not sure how long he was out there but a neighbor helped him get back to the house. Pretty shitty. I don't make it down to IL too often but I really want to go to Blarney Island for the drag races!!! Are you near that?

    • @jkreach7188
      @jkreach7188 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ADDvanced yes Blarney Island is about a 15 minute boat ride from our house. I brought some guys from work out for the races a couple of weeks ago. First time I had been out to watch them in years. They also have a water shuttle that takes people from land to the island for free.

  • @jebbohanan2626
    @jebbohanan2626 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m glad you have the wife you deserve!
    Happy to see this video of your work for honoring your Dad!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  4 місяці тому

      Thank you, appreciate your support