New flash: you already lost them. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 true... I love your realness. Its been a full year since i haven't heard from them. I focused on me thanks to your advice and i love the life I have cultivated this past year Im looking forward to this new year and all the plans i have set for my self. He may not ever come back and (thanks to you and the team teaching me about how to work on me and be my best self) I'm finally starting to be ok with it.
The best video on mutual no contact I've heard. It's been 28 days on my second no contact. I struggle some days but I know its for the best. I'm working on myself, and she is becoming less and less, albeit so slowly, of an emotional drain. The pain is getting less. I just have to get past Xmas and new year, with the other things going on in my life. Update! I broke no contact, fell off the wagon, wished her a happy new year. No reply. I'm more than over her now I know more from others what she's been doing/saying. Having a good laugh and enjoying life not caring about the damage she caused me.
I am always listening to your advice. You are not giving me hope but youre giving me a lesson of acceptance, rebuilding myself worth and also other wonderful perspective of life i dont know before. Thank you so much. Your channel is so amazing.
I will never call my former relationship an ex it’s over and it’s done we moved on. I am responsible to heal myself and hone in on my autonomy so that I am able to not repeat the same mistakes and make better choices who I bring into my life. Take your time to heal so that when the appropriate person enters your life you will be ready without having any unresolved issues to carry over into your new relationship that can sabotage your life. If you can help it stop using the word EX even if you want to connect with the person enter as a new you it will be proven that you have done the work on yourself through healing
I don't watch ,love adviced tv channel , because l want to forget my ex completely ,but by watching dis video change me, by the word "focus on things that I can control"
If someone breaks up with you do NO CONTACT STRAIGHT UP it maybe hard but I’ve done it, and cut it off, NOW SHE WONDERS WHAT HAPPEN TO ME ANS ASK ABOUT ME HER FRIENDS, She been calling me, texting me, begging me even tho I begged her on the break up So DO NO CONTACT IMMEDIATELY.
He did no contact first...crushed me...was so confused and thrown off but I realized he had all signs of covert narcissist...he asked me out on date again on the 1st of January but I just quoted something he said to me which was "just not wired the same" ...I am done! No contact allowed me to see his demons!
, Adrian, thank you! This is what I need to hear as well. My bestie took me shopping for swimwear and we are planning on going to Hawaii in 6 wks. Super excited!!!😊 we went shopping . Her husband and son are arranging our special activities for us because I have polio which affected both my legs & these activities are going to be skydiving, jetskiing, and snorkeling yay! This has been our bucket list since we were very young in early twenties. I just wanted to share this super exciting news!😊
I'm really glad this topic came up. Great video! I've really been enjoying the videos that you guys post on this channel. They have definitely helped me to get my mindset in the right place! Your videos have helped inspire me to use this break up as fuel to move myself forward, to work towards my goals, to show the world the best version of myself, and it's already paying off in much bigger ways than I could have imagined when this whole thing started. I'm in a good place and feel happy again even without my ex in my life. I still care for her because I really do feel that we shared a significant connection but I also know that I can and will be happy with or without her. If she does end up coming back around then I'll be ready to show her my growth. If not then I'll be in the best place possible to start something new. win win! Keep doing what you guys are doing because it really and truly is helping people out here.
Okay this is really crazy but last night, literally the same day that I wrote the comment above my ex reached out with a very kind message after us not having any contact with each other for over a month. I don't know what will happen from here but honestly just getting that message from her meant a lot to me. Just knowing that we still respect each other and hold each other in high regards brought me a lot of peace. I just wanted to post about this here to let people know that there is hope and that the methods that these videos recommend really do seem to be working on multiple levels. Just make sure you are approaching using these methods as a way of giving both your ex partner and yourself what you need and not as some sort of emotional manipulation. You should not ever want to manipulate someone into being with you. You should inspire them by first inspiring yourself!
Pls make a video on 1( how to act if you made mistake when ex reaches out like saying how U love them or wana commit again ) 2. also if an ex reaches out giving mixed signlas while shes in a rebound relation & how to act
Thank you coach Adrian, this is happening to me right now... I don't think she'll ever contact me again, I might be wrong but I doubt it very much... I'm being as strong as I can and I will NEVER contact her again... Your the best.. God bless you Adrian
It’s all in gods hands we didn’t stop loving she ran to please others and society all I know is the heart knows god knows our hearts he has the final say god knows us both the hearts can’t and will not keep lying love will win god has promised me my hearts desires and we love each other she’s moved on but clearly not happy I know that so I just trust god
My ex dumped me after 6 years but was very sad about it. It was her first relationship so i guess she had a hard time detaching despite breaking up, because we stayed in physical contact for 6 months. Then texting slowly stopped, until she asked for no contact so we could move on early december. It's so true "newsflash: it already happened" i'm feeling like we just broke up but it really happened 9 months ago...
We’re are you couch Adrian I been searching new content from your UA-cam without luck. Hope you’re find love you’re advices. I am lucky that I found you when I needed the help that was 2 years ago now I am happy with my husband. Thank you ❤️
Thank you so much u explained it so beautiful, I understand right now , I need focus on myself and let my missing feelings make me stronger, it is good if he doesn't reach out because I might not be ready to speak. Right time for us come on time.
I got the straight silent treatment, living together 3 years, never pulled away and then dumped me over a text and hasn't responded to anything and won't even give me my stuff back? WTF does that even mean, who wants their ex to have house keys
You have to process your emotions.....this is the hardest part of a breakup. But usually nothing happens for a reason. Things do happen. We just have to be willing to accept our feelings.
Omg Thank you so so so much for this I feel better. This video was to the point short and very informative. I ha e distanced myself from "him" but he is doing the same. But I don't mind but I do miss him a little.
Ihave my ldr bf we just talk that day then suddenly no contact at all for 2weeks then her watsapp i think he delete the app but not the account coz i saw her number still have watsapp maybe your right im too clingy with him thats why maybe hard for me but ghosting is more painful hard to move on than telling me breaking up atlease as closure
I have no contact with my ex friend because, we had not spoken for a month and I tried to call him twice and he ignored my calls. When he did decide to call me he acted like nothing was wrong. No one wants to feel rejected.
But my ex is not talking to me unless i initiated the conversation, and she barely answers !! I don’t really know if its no contact or she moved on or..... !!!
Thanks for your advice! I moved on indeed, but if there is possibility to get back together, I would use it But what if I betrayed my partner and he doesn't respond to my messages for almost 2 weeks? Which tactics should I use,
Can you do a video on what to do when your spouse agrees to work on things, but says that if he doesn't feel good about it then he wants a divorce? I just want the best possible way for how to show him that things can be different. I feel like I've learned a lot since we've been separated. I just want him to see that I'm changing things for the better.
My ex broke up with in December after celebrating our 1year Aniversary we promised each other to meet for the first time cz we met on through social media but after abreak up I decided to do no contact but surprisingly me is that whenever I post my staff on social media he still checks on them and sometimes comments and recently he came into my inbox after hearing that someone from social media abused he came to me to calm so now my qn is does he still love me
I feel like we are strangers ☹️. No contact for 6.5 months. I believe he's talking to other woman. He changed his mind overnight, twice! I ❤️ him but am afraid to go through it a 3rd time! Ironically, he was the 1 making all the promises and future plans 💔
How about in my situation. We're still good the last time we talk ang suddenly he just vanish and never contact me since the last time we talk. What do i need to do in this situation?
My ex isn’t speaking to me. I cheated in the past (he has cheated also in the past and I’ve forgiven him multiple times) and he took me back. I went out one night and he thinks I was was cheating again but I wasn’t. He says he doesn’t trust anything I say. What do I do? Should I do no contact? We’ve been together for 12 years and live together
What about my boyfriend blocked me on Facebook and I ask him he say that he's not ready for relationship...so I stopped contact him after that conversation...but he doesn't block me on whatsapp....
Me and my guy has a plan last new year, we planned it days back, so when the day came, he didnt come to fetch me, he never calls that the plan was canceled, I've been calling and texting him but he just read my messages and ignore my calls, so I decided to go with my plans cause im waited so long.. At night I thought he will come to my friends house to send me back to my house but he didnt, so i said, "maybe we should not see each other anymore", I nag, I complain and I admit this fault but he disrespected me, flakes on me.. And now were in a no contact for 10 days and I don't know if we can still be back together..
What do I do if your ex husband wants nothing else but to be friends but it's not what I wanted we still had communication during the divorce process he got upset at me and decided to have no contact so we are on one contact now
Ok, but. What if you were the one that hurt them in the relationship. In short COVID/lockdowns triggered a mental breakdown for me, I did not deal well with things and became very disrespectful and snappy, destroying an otherwise wonderful long term relationship. Surely at some point, I need to reach out, given I was the one who ruined things with my behaviour? No contact basically since early Feb, complete no contact since the middle of Feb. Would love your advice Adrian!
Can I ask you what should I do if I’ve been with my girlfriend for 7 years she left me because of lack of respect love and support and I realized she’s right and want to fix things but instead of talking to her I ran to her family and asked for help and now everyone thinks I’m desperate and her family blames her for breaking my heart .. I don’t know how to fix this and we have still kept contact ever since the break up because we both agree that we can fix this but she needs time to focus on her career and goals now that she has space since she didn’t get it during the relationship due to the lack of support
I have a question. I'm about to be getting married to my partner and I love him so much. I couldnt imagine life without him. But the past year has been tough, we aren't communicating properly and I have feelings of neglect from my partner.. As in I no longer feel appreciated or loved and I've been battling with this for a while in my head. I've tried to talk to him but nothing changes. How do I fix this? Is it just me?
Sharlena Giles my dear, make sure you address those issues before you say I do, go to premarital counseling, voice your concern, because after marriage it will get worse. Pray . Good luck
I’m facing a second break up with my wife but this time it took a month with no contact and after that we had good time together but all of the sudden she freaked out and said that was wrong us to see each other and start avoiding me again ... I kind of forced to see her but I made everything harder because she wants me out of her life , but I could see love at this short time we spent and now she changed completely and started ignoring me again ... is there a chance for us to go back together since she said that can’t forget the past ?
Hello love advice tv, need some words from you 😔 my boyfriend ask for a space. He did not broke up with me its just he need time for his self and i understand that. I gave him space. I told him i dont want lose him i will wait whenever he's ready. But my problem is he starts talking and getting to know with others.😭😭😭 it broke my heart because cool off tends to just fix our selves. Is he trying to forget about me? Is there a posibility that he will commit to his rebound😔 the fact that he is still not breaking up with me. Gosh i feel soo anxious this days but im already giving him the no contact its just it keeps bothering me if he will come back😔😭. THANK YOUUU SOO MUCH
What if I had been no contact 5 weeks and he had a friend call me to check my temperature. He then talked to me and said he did not know what that call was about (I don't) believe him but he had no answers to any questions. I am Trying to move on so I went right back no contact. Haven't heard a thing. I am tired of thinking about him but despite the drama I miss him. I am so confused. Your thoughts.
Same here I'm on 8 days no contact I got dumped by my bf of 7 years he was cheating! So its hard he has not contacted me either i guess I need to move on !
My boyfriend never initiates after a fight or an argument even if he is wrong... Acts accwti his mood all the time... Showcases his ego above all.. Everything.. We've been together for 7 yrs but I still feel I am not his priority when it comes to his ego or his comfort sometimes.. I broke up with him few days back.. His family tells me that he is not ok but I see no efforts from him... I don't know what to do.. I want him back.. Please suggest something
Should I tell her that I’m doing no contact? We already broke up a week ago… but I came to the conclusion that I wanted to do no contact because we needed to space and time away from each other to grow. When we broke up I did everything with the idea that I wasn’t going to live without her I know it’s only been a week now but I’ve been listening to other people’s opinions and things along those lines. I also said to my ex that she shouldn’t have guy friends or is that too much
What if you have broken up a month ago and u have not started no contact yet as both talked on and off since the break up? Can I still start no contact now and. Still have a chance to get her back
What should i do. My ex broke up with me a week ago. She realy wanted to be friends because she still sees me as her bestfriend in her life. We have been together for 1.5 years, but she began to lose her feelings. She told me she had problems to love herself and kept fighting with her feelings and that it is the reason she stopped also loving me in that way. We had a talk in person and she said that at this moment she is not open for any type of relationship with anyone unless she had help and loves herself back. But that there is a small possibility in her perspective that when we stay friends she could regain her feelings, but on the other hand she says it's better for me to move on and see later on if both of us could get our feelings for each other back. When I asked her how she feld about the no contact for a longer period, she said it would only reduce my chances of getting back with her. I don't know what to do anymore...
Is she still have feeling for mehh though she said she has no feeling for meh ....as our break up has been about to be a month and I stop contacting her for two weeks now but her Instagram, fb and email password haven't change still as I check time to time but still didnt change ????🥺
We in no contact 45 days, past week she posted the whole week on WhatsApp pictures of herself along with songs I dedicated for her, what she trying to do?
Hi. So my ex broke up with me a year ago. She did this few days after my birthday. We moved for the first time after 2 years to live together and we but started studies. I quitted and she continues with the university. We split at the middle of the contract and we decided that no one will be there, we continue to speak only on apartment stuff until last September when we finished contract. We have had a kinda of a closure conversation where i understand she hung out with others and im not, and we didnt speak since then. Recently one of my friends told me she deleted our photos and stopped following me on IG . Is this a sign ? Is there a chance for a second chance to teo of us? We did finish in very good condition. Thank you
Quick Question: I am doing no contact with my ex. 6 year relationship, i begged and pleaded for 2 months until I got blocked. She is long distance and is talking to someone. Should I do no contact for 30 days or is that too long? should I do 21 days instead? I have no concerns that I am blocked, I think that she will unblock me as soon as I reach out in the right manner. She told me she loved me and will love me forever but that we are not compatible. I understand why she says that and I have changed since broke up and I have address my mistakes. I actually think we are meant for each other in an objective way
Hey! I think that we have the same problem here. I left him because we were too different for each other, we wanted and dreamed about different things in life. We were on 2 years long distance relationship, I loved him I still do and I know that he did too. The problem is that after the breakup I reached out to him, I begged, I called, I cried, I screamed. Nothing. He doesn't to hear a word. He said that he was broken, that he could never forgive me. That this isn't love, that if I did love him I should've accepted him just the way he was...and I could'nt for many reasons. Now I want him back, cuz I love him, I miss him but he doesn't want to. WORST. He's saying that he's never gonna change and that I have to move on and forget about him. 😔 Help please, I am desperate.
Hi Soul, There is a video on this channel that talks about doing no contact when kids are involved. I hope you find the time to check it out. ua-cam.com/video/iW1PiVmFdLY/v-deo.html
I need help... my ex doesn’t want to be with me but he wanted to invest in my business. He said it was purely for an investment... what does that mean?
It's your business, vision and purpose in life. And in business It's an entity which has an equity why would you want to have an ex as an investor? I can advice do it alone as it's your vision and to avoid contact with your ex. He/She know your business is worth it and has lost a good business person which is you value that as it's for you only
What if I re established contact, things went well, but then they got more and more distant until finally they blocked me everywhere (without me messaging them too much or annoying them in any way shape or form)? I'm tempted to send them an e-mail to tell them my plan (LDR getting back together), which I was going to tell them organically but they pulled away and disappeared before I could, it's now been over 2 weeks and they still haven't even logged on to see my last messages...
Hey coach!me and my fiance was decited to break up in 3 weeks ago,me i was strong at the first day and try to make her stay strong also while she was really sad..but the day after i was realise that i lose her for forever and i was begging her for a week to be together again or maybe theres a chance in future,and she was said "we need to heal and make ourself happy thats the reason we decited to break up"and she told me stop for hope.. But when i told her to send all my document etc to my sister cause im in the jail but she said "your document is safe with me so the day when u out just contact me..is that mean anything??thanks coach
Today l logged in to my Facebook account for the first time in 7months and the first picture I see is my ex in the pool with another woman I believe he left me for. I felt all those old feelings. I was doing just fine before i saw this. Now I'm stressed, angry and my anxiety has heighten tremendously. Why me?
Block him block everything that has a bound with him and let it go ... cause you’ ll get sick day by day anxiety will increase ... i’ ve been there and is very painful ... you need to start healing and stop stalking focus on yourself and pray God
Hello coaches, I need advice. My ex asked me if I want us to talk or not at least for now after 2 weeks of No contact and within that 1 week of radio silent. What do I answer? I know my ex definitely wants to keep me in their life but I think right now its most likely still only as a friend. Ive been thinking for almost a week of what to answer cuz I dont want to ruin my chances of getting them back that are already low because we have been long distance and my ex travels for work and is almost 24/7 with the people that helped my ex decide to end it with me by giving my ex all these view points of why stuff werent the best for us and also by showing my ex they are the kind of happy people my ex wants to be around, therefor, me having a hard time in my life I wasnt "happy/positive enough" for my ex.
I was bit clingy n needy because of his less priority given to me but how would he know my change if ill b in no contact.. What if he thinks tht its good i stopped contacting him by my own..
It's confirmed.... We are both on no contact... I think he's toxic, he thinks I'm toxic
Whats the truth? Is he watching vids trying to figure out your mind and his?
New flash: you already lost them. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 true... I love your realness. Its been a full year since i haven't heard from them. I focused on me thanks to your advice and i love the life I have cultivated this past year Im looking forward to this new year and all the plans i have set for my self. He may not ever come back and (thanks to you and the team teaching me about how to work on me and be my best self) I'm finally starting to be ok with it.
Pulling away completely. When u are a good person and u was good , eventually they will come , they always do. But it will be to late.
4 months being ignored, i do not want to be in it anymore
Going through this right now. This is exactly what I needed to hear :(
The best video on mutual no contact I've heard. It's been 28 days on my second no contact. I struggle some days but I know its for the best. I'm working on myself, and she is becoming less and less, albeit so slowly, of an emotional drain. The pain is getting less. I just have to get past Xmas and new year, with the other things going on in my life.
Update! I broke no contact, fell off the wagon, wished her a happy new year. No reply. I'm more than over her now I know more from others what she's been doing/saying. Having a good laugh and enjoying life not caring about the damage she caused me.
Thank you. Am struggling to let go completely. Feel learnt and growing but I am probably not ready. Letting go in my heart seems to be so hard.
I am always listening to your advice. You are not giving me hope but youre giving me a lesson of acceptance, rebuilding myself worth and also other wonderful perspective of life i dont know before. Thank you so much. Your channel is so amazing.
I will never call my former relationship an ex it’s over and it’s done we moved on. I am responsible to heal myself and hone in on my autonomy so that I am able to not repeat the same mistakes and make better choices who I bring into my life. Take your time to heal so that when the appropriate person enters your life you will be ready without having any unresolved issues to carry over into your new relationship that can sabotage your life. If you can help it stop using the word EX even if you want to connect with the person enter as a new you it will be proven that you have done the work on yourself through healing
I agree fully with all you said and I needed to hear. I now decide to focus on what I can control. Thank you coach!
This is the best no contact video I’ve ever seen.
I'm glad you found it helpful!
- Coach Adrian
Yeah thnx for the hope, I might need to be more chill because rushing is not an option
In fact I don’t fear her contacting me. I fear she hasn’t changed
I don't watch ,love adviced tv channel , because l want to forget my ex completely ,but by watching dis video change me, by the word "focus on things that I can control"
One of the best videos on this topic. Short, straight to the point, and so very true.
If someone breaks up with you do NO CONTACT STRAIGHT UP it maybe hard but I’ve done it, and cut it off, NOW SHE WONDERS WHAT HAPPEN TO ME ANS ASK ABOUT ME HER FRIENDS, She been calling me, texting me, begging me even tho I begged her on the break up So DO NO CONTACT IMMEDIATELY.
Did you go back?
ARK-X91 how long did it take?
Thank you. Your words make me feel better, even if we get back together or not.
You guys are the best much love from Japan 🇯🇵 thank you
Your chanel helps me a lot in my healing process...that is my situation now...
He did no contact first...crushed me...was so confused and thrown off but I realized he had all signs of covert narcissist...he asked me out on date again on the 1st of January but I just quoted something he said to me which was "just not wired the same" ...I am done! No contact allowed me to see his demons!
I needed this. Thank you coach Adrian.
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Adrian, thank you! This is what I need to hear as well. My bestie took me shopping for swimwear and we are planning on going to Hawaii in 6 wks. Super excited!!!😊 we went shopping . Her husband and son are arranging our special activities for us because I have polio which affected both my legs & these activities are going to be skydiving, jetskiing, and snorkeling yay! This has been our bucket list since we were very young in early twenties. I just wanted to share
this super exciting news!😊
Thank you sooo much , this was happening to me now and make me smile and very inspiring message.
*Today is my ex lover's birthday, I didn't say anything nor will*
Why at all are you even commenting about him? Erase him.
@@thetree7694 shut up..and let her have her say here..
@@thetree7694 I Know the feeling it's hard😎..Wanna say happy birthday so bad😪
I totally understand completely.
I'm really glad this topic came up. Great video! I've really been enjoying the videos that you guys post on this channel. They have definitely helped me to get my mindset in the right place! Your videos have helped inspire me to use this break up as fuel to move myself forward, to work towards my goals, to show the world the best version of myself, and it's already paying off in much bigger ways than I could have imagined when this whole thing started. I'm in a good place and feel happy again even without my ex in my life. I still care for her because I really do feel that we shared a significant connection but I also know that I can and will be happy with or without her. If she does end up coming back around then I'll be ready to show her my growth. If not then I'll be in the best place possible to start something new. win win! Keep doing what you guys are doing because it really and truly is helping people out here.
Okay this is really crazy but last night, literally the same day that I wrote the comment above my ex reached out with a very kind message after us not having any contact with each other for over a month. I don't know what will happen from here but honestly just getting that message from her meant a lot to me. Just knowing that we still respect each other and hold each other in high regards brought me a lot of peace. I just wanted to post about this here to let people know that there is hope and that the methods that these videos recommend really do seem to be working on multiple levels. Just make sure you are approaching using these methods as a way of giving both your ex partner and yourself what you need and not as some sort of emotional manipulation. You should not ever want to manipulate someone into being with you. You should inspire them by first inspiring yourself!
Did you get back together?
This was amazing. My ex is battling pride. I just prayed for God to remove pride from her.
I really needed to hear this, I'm very grateful, now I'm starting to feel better, thank you very much
Pls make a video on 1( how to act if you made mistake when ex reaches out like saying how U love them or wana commit again )
2. also if an ex reaches out giving mixed signlas while shes in a rebound relation & how to act
Thank you coach Adrian, this is happening to me right now...
I don't think she'll ever contact me again, I might be wrong but I doubt it very much... I'm being as strong as I can and I will NEVER contact her again...
Your the best.. God bless you
Adrian
Pulling away is not my problem, my problem is my woman getting laid by another man during no contact.
If you aren't together, what she is doing is none of your concern. Move on and find someone else
I feel U Daniel 😂
He's ABSOLUTELY WRIGHT,,,Thanks man for the enlightenment
It’s all in gods hands we didn’t stop loving she ran to please others and society all I know is the heart knows god knows our hearts he has the final say god knows us both the hearts can’t and will not keep lying love will win god has promised me my hearts desires and we love each other she’s moved on but clearly not happy I know that so I just trust god
i'm doing no contact now,and i think he's also doing the same way
i miss him alot
@Ate JB Tv I know my ex's therapist told him to do no contact. I could tell
My ex dumped me after 6 years but was very sad about it. It was her first relationship so i guess she had a hard time detaching despite breaking up, because we stayed in physical contact for 6 months. Then texting slowly stopped, until she asked for no contact so we could move on early december. It's so true "newsflash: it already happened" i'm feeling like we just broke up but it really happened 9 months ago...
Thank you coach for ur reality based human psychology.
Thank you so much for watching!
We’re are you couch Adrian I been searching new content from your UA-cam without luck.
Hope you’re find love you’re advices. I am lucky that I found you when I needed the help that was 2 years ago now I am happy with my husband. Thank you ❤️
I tried to interact as friends after 3 weeks of NC, but he didnt respond. I guess that means I have to go back into it now.
Thank you so much u explained it so beautiful, I understand right now , I need focus on myself and let my missing feelings make me stronger, it is good if he doesn't reach out because I might not be ready to speak. Right time for us come on time.
I got the straight silent treatment, living together 3 years, never pulled away and then dumped me over a text and hasn't responded to anything and won't even give me my stuff back? WTF does that even mean, who wants their ex to have house keys
You have to process your emotions.....this is the hardest part of a breakup. But usually nothing happens for a reason. Things do happen. We just have to be willing to accept our feelings.
Omg Thank you so so so much for this I feel better. This video was to the point short and very informative. I ha e distanced myself from "him" but he is doing the same. But I don't mind but I do miss him a little.
Ihave my ldr bf we just talk that day then suddenly no contact at all for 2weeks then her watsapp i think he delete the app but not the account coz i saw her number still have watsapp maybe your right im too clingy with him thats why maybe hard for me but ghosting is more painful hard to move on than telling me breaking up atlease as closure
I have no contact with my ex friend because, we had not spoken for a month and I tried to call him twice and he ignored my calls. When he did decide to call me he acted like nothing was wrong. No one wants to feel rejected.
Am stuck with a narcissist am completely depressed I want to leave but the society will treat me like an outcast
dora white sky dora
Me too
Fuck society. Just dump their manipulative ass.
Thnks for the valuable advice.
You are very welcome, Martin! We are glad you enjoyed the video.
-Coach Adrian
But my ex is not talking to me unless i initiated the conversation, and she barely answers !! I don’t really know if its no contact or she moved on or..... !!!
What if ex gf is showing tht she is alright and happy aftr braekup through social media
THIS IS 100% TRUTH
this video enlighten my mind..thank you
I'm happy to hear the videos were helpful for you, Leizel.
Coach Adrian
U very good
Been NC for 6 weeks and now don't want him back
Take me back!!!
Joking. Congrats and hope the best for you
Thanks for your advice! I moved on indeed, but if there is possibility to get back together, I would use it
But what if I betrayed my partner and he doesn't respond to my messages for almost 2 weeks?
Which tactics should I use,
Can you do a video on what to do when your spouse agrees to work on things, but says that if he doesn't feel good about it then he wants a divorce? I just want the best possible way for how to show him that things can be different. I feel like I've learned a lot since we've been separated. I just want him to see that I'm changing things for the better.
My ex broke up with in December after celebrating our 1year Aniversary we promised each other to meet for the first time cz we met on through social media but after abreak up I decided to do no contact but surprisingly me is that whenever I post my staff on social media he still checks on them and sometimes comments and recently he came into my inbox after hearing that someone from social media abused he came to me to calm so now my qn is does he still love me
I feel like we are strangers ☹️.
No contact for 6.5 months. I believe he's talking to other woman. He changed his mind overnight, twice! I ❤️ him but am afraid to go through it a 3rd time! Ironically, he was the 1 making all the promises and future plans 💔
How about in my situation. We're still good the last time we talk ang suddenly he just vanish and never contact me since the last time we talk. What do i need to do in this situation?
Ask how they're doing. A quick and simple message. Don't text back instantly keep them wanting more.
Thank you so much adrian
My ex used to update status in what's app. Should I watch them or ignore them? Please advise
My ex isn’t speaking to me. I cheated in the past (he has cheated also in the past and I’ve forgiven him multiple times) and he took me back. I went out one night and he thinks I was was cheating again but I wasn’t. He says he doesn’t trust anything I say. What do I do? Should I do no contact? We’ve been together for 12 years and live together
What about my boyfriend blocked me on Facebook and I ask him he say that he's not ready for relationship...so I stopped contact him after that conversation...but he doesn't block me on whatsapp....
Me and my guy has a plan last new year, we planned it days back, so when the day came, he didnt come to fetch me, he never calls that the plan was canceled, I've been calling and texting him but he just read my messages and ignore my calls, so I decided to go with my plans cause im waited so long.. At night I thought he will come to my friends house to send me back to my house but he didnt, so i said, "maybe we should not see each other anymore", I nag, I complain and I admit this fault but he disrespected me, flakes on me.. And now were in a no contact for 10 days and I don't know if we can still be back together..
What do I do if your ex husband wants nothing else but to be friends but it's not what I wanted we still had communication during the divorce process he got upset at me and decided to have no contact so we are on one contact now
Ok, but. What if you were the one that hurt them in the relationship. In short COVID/lockdowns triggered a mental breakdown for me, I did not deal well with things and became very disrespectful and snappy, destroying an otherwise wonderful long term relationship. Surely at some point, I need to reach out, given I was the one who ruined things with my behaviour? No contact basically since early Feb, complete no contact since the middle of Feb. Would love your advice Adrian!
Can I ask you what should I do if I’ve been with my girlfriend for 7 years she left me because of lack of respect love and support and I realized she’s right and want to fix things but instead of talking to her I ran to her family and asked for help and now everyone thinks I’m desperate and her family blames her for breaking my heart .. I don’t know how to fix this and we have still kept contact ever since the break up because we both agree that we can fix this but she needs time to focus on her career and goals now that she has space since she didn’t get it during the relationship due to the lack of support
I have a question. I'm about to be getting married to my partner and I love him so much. I couldnt imagine life without him. But the past year has been tough, we aren't communicating properly and I have feelings of neglect from my partner.. As in I no longer feel appreciated or loved and I've been battling with this for a while in my head. I've tried to talk to him but nothing changes. How do I fix this? Is it just me?
Sharlena Giles my dear, make sure you address those issues before you say I do, go to premarital counseling, voice your concern, because after marriage it will get worse. Pray . Good luck
So WHY are you even still contemplating marriage?
I like this. Appreciate it. :)
🌈 thank you Coach Adrian ! 🍀
I love you coach!
We love you too! - Coach Adrian
Great video 👍
Glad you enjoyed it!
I’m facing a second break up with my wife but this time it took a month with no contact and after that we had good time together but all of the sudden she freaked out and said that was wrong us to see each other and start avoiding me again ... I kind of forced to see her but I made everything harder because she wants me out of her life , but I could see love at this short time we spent and now she changed completely and started ignoring me again ... is there a chance for us to go back together since she said that can’t forget the past ?
Hello love advice tv, need some words from you 😔 my boyfriend ask for a space. He did not broke up with me its just he need time for his self and i understand that. I gave him space. I told him i dont want lose him i will wait whenever he's ready. But my problem is he starts talking and getting to know with others.😭😭😭 it broke my heart because cool off tends to just fix our selves. Is he trying to forget about me? Is there a posibility that he will commit to his rebound😔 the fact that he is still not breaking up with me. Gosh i feel soo anxious this days but im already giving him the no contact its just it keeps bothering me if he will come back😔😭. THANK YOUUU SOO MUCH
Just tell him it's over and it's not the same I've moved on he is blocked no way jose
What if I had been no contact 5 weeks and he had a friend call me to check my temperature. He then talked to me and said he did not know what that call was about (I don't) believe him but he had no answers to any questions. I am Trying to move on so I went right back no contact. Haven't heard a thing. I am tired of thinking about him but despite the drama I miss him. I am so confused. Your thoughts.
If he left me for another woman and hasn’t contacted me four months after the break up is there no hope for me?
Why would you want him anymore? Move on and work on yourself!😊
@@svastaponetu2020 Great advice 👍
What if he is already with another girl since 2 years and i only find out recently
Same here I'm on 8 days no contact I got dumped by my bf of 7 years he was cheating! So its hard he has not contacted me either i guess I need to move on !
My boyfriend never initiates after a fight or an argument even if he is wrong... Acts accwti his mood all the time... Showcases his ego above all.. Everything.. We've been together for 7 yrs but I still feel I am not his priority when it comes to his ego or his comfort sometimes.. I broke up with him few days back.. His family tells me that he is not ok but I see no efforts from him... I don't know what to do.. I want him back.. Please suggest something
What should I do if my girlfriend ex has moved on with another man and I still love her?
Should I tell her that I’m doing no contact? We already broke up a week ago… but I came to the conclusion that I wanted to do no contact because we needed to space and time away from each other to grow. When we broke up I did everything with the idea that I wasn’t going to live without her I know it’s only been a week now but I’ve been listening to other people’s opinions and things along those lines. I also said to my ex that she shouldn’t have guy friends or is that too much
Good afternoon, may please get info on your coaching?
What if you have broken up a month ago and u have not started no contact yet as both talked on and off since the break up? Can I still start no contact now and. Still have a chance to get her back
What should i do. My ex broke up with me a week ago. She realy wanted to be friends because she still sees me as her bestfriend in her life. We have been together for 1.5 years, but she began to lose her feelings. She told me she had problems to love herself and kept fighting with her feelings and that it is the reason she stopped also loving me in that way. We had a talk in person and she said that at this moment she is not open for any type of relationship with anyone unless she had help and loves herself back. But that there is a small possibility in her perspective that when we stay friends she could regain her feelings, but on the other hand she says it's better for me to move on and see later on if both of us could get our feelings for each other back. When I asked her how she feld about the no contact for a longer period, she said it would only reduce my chances of getting back with her. I don't know what to do anymore...
Update?
What if distance happened between husband and wife and they have kid and kid is with the mother,what mother should do?
M n my ex r in no contact. I'm afraid of loosing him.
Is she still have feeling for mehh though she said she has no feeling for meh ....as our break up has been about to be a month and I stop contacting her for two weeks now but her Instagram, fb and email password haven't change still as I check time to time but still didnt change ????🥺
We in no contact 45 days, past week she posted the whole week on WhatsApp pictures of herself along with songs I dedicated for her, what she trying to do?
Hi. So my ex broke up with me a year ago. She did this few days after my birthday. We moved for the first time after 2 years to live together and we but started studies. I quitted and she continues with the university. We split at the middle of the contract and we decided that no one will be there, we continue to speak only on apartment stuff until last September when we finished contract. We have had a kinda of a closure conversation where i understand she hung out with others and im not, and we didnt speak since then. Recently one of my friends told me she deleted our photos and stopped following me on IG . Is this a sign ? Is there a chance for a second chance to teo of us? We did finish in very good condition. Thank you
My ex blocked me during no contact and its been three days already she blocked me 😂
Quick Question: I am doing no contact with my ex. 6 year relationship, i begged and pleaded for 2 months until I got blocked. She is long distance and is talking to someone. Should I do no contact for 30 days or is that too long? should I do 21 days instead? I have no concerns that I am blocked, I think that she will unblock me as soon as I reach out in the right manner. She told me she loved me and will love me forever but that we are not compatible. I understand why she says that and I have changed since broke up and I have address my mistakes. I actually think we are meant for each other in an objective way
Go no contact forever...
Hey! I think that we have the same problem here. I left him because we were too different for each other, we wanted and dreamed about different things in life. We were on 2 years long distance relationship, I loved him I still do and I know that he did too. The problem is that after the breakup I reached out to him, I begged, I called, I cried, I screamed. Nothing. He doesn't to hear a word. He said that he was broken, that he could never forgive me. That this isn't love, that if I did love him I should've accepted him just the way he was...and I could'nt for many reasons. Now I want him back, cuz I love him, I miss him but he doesn't want to. WORST. He's saying that he's never gonna change and that I have to move on and forget about him. 😔
Help please, I am desperate.
But what if their not talking to you because they left you for someone else??
More videos please😍👍
What if you have children together and have to communicate if it’s in regards to the kids?
Hi Soul,
There is a video on this channel that talks about doing no contact when kids are involved. I hope you find the time to check it out.
ua-cam.com/video/iW1PiVmFdLY/v-deo.html
I need help... my ex doesn’t want to be with me but he wanted to invest in my business. He said it was purely for an investment... what does that mean?
It's your business, vision and purpose in life. And in business It's an entity which has an equity why would you want to have an ex as an investor? I can advice do it alone as it's your vision and to avoid contact with your ex. He/She know your business is worth it and has lost a good business person which is you value that as it's for you only
What if it's been over a year
What if I re established contact, things went well, but then they got more and more distant until finally they blocked me everywhere (without me messaging them too much or annoying them in any way shape or form)? I'm tempted to send them an e-mail to tell them my plan (LDR getting back together), which I was going to tell them organically but they pulled away and disappeared before I could, it's now been over 2 weeks and they still haven't even logged on to see my last messages...
She even said she wished she was with me and my family for Christmas... 3 days before she disappeared.
It was inspiring me a lot sir🙏♥️
Hey coach!me and my fiance was decited to break up in 3 weeks ago,me i was strong at the first day and try to make her stay strong also while she was really sad..but the day after i was realise that i lose her for forever and i was begging her for a week to be together again or maybe theres a chance in future,and she was said "we need to heal and make ourself happy thats the reason we decited to break up"and she told me stop for hope..
But when i told her to send all my document etc to my sister cause im in the jail but she said "your document is safe with me so the day when u out just contact me..is that mean anything??thanks coach
Today l logged in to my Facebook account for the first time in 7months and the first picture I see is my ex in the pool with another woman I believe he left me for. I felt all those old feelings. I was doing just fine before i saw this. Now I'm stressed, angry and my anxiety has heighten tremendously. Why me?
You're not alone
That sucks.. Get one of ur male friend, u and him grazing in the grass, blowing bubbles, somewhere along that line and post it. Good luck❤👍
Block him block everything that has a bound with him and let it go ... cause you’ ll get sick day by day anxiety will increase ... i’ ve been there and is very painful ... you need to start healing and stop stalking focus on yourself and pray God
Hello coaches, I need advice. My ex asked me if I want us to talk or not at least for now after 2 weeks of No contact and within that 1 week of radio silent. What do I answer? I know my ex definitely wants to keep me in their life but I think right now its most likely still only as a friend. Ive been thinking for almost a week of what to answer cuz I dont want to ruin my chances of getting them back that are already low because we have been long distance and my ex travels for work and is almost 24/7 with the people that helped my ex decide to end it with me by giving my ex all these view points of why stuff werent the best for us and also by showing my ex they are the kind of happy people my ex wants to be around, therefor, me having a hard time in my life I wasnt "happy/positive enough" for my ex.
I was bit clingy n needy because of his less priority given to me but how would he know my change if ill b in no contact.. What if he thinks tht its good i stopped contacting him by my own..