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"If it’s endurable, then endure it. If it’s not endurable, then stop complaining. Your destruct will mean its end as well" - Marcus Aurelius
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“Sometimes You Must Hurt In Order To Know, Fall In Order To Grow, Lose In Order To Gain, Because Life’s Greatest Lessons Are Learned Through Pain.”
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Beautiful dawg
Dayuummm..
Brilliant!
Who's the owner of that quote?
"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering"
-Nietzsche
Not the other way round?
@@ayebarberfuckmeup4689 yea thats what i thought lmao
Nietzsche was kinda insane tho
RIP DMX
That's defeatism bro opposite of self improvement
“To live is to suffer
But to survive, that is to find meaning, and to suffer”
-DMX ( slippin)
Ayo I remembered that song, when I heard that bar first time it hitted home you know, DMX legend though my top 10 fav music artists
Shouldn’t it be the other way around
but isn't he literally quoting Nietzsche -"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering"
Its a Nietzsche Quote and DMX quoted him in Slippin
deffo a rip off of a Nietzsche quote lmao
Hamzas is a type of storyteller who makes a group gathering alot more interesting
He is good at telling stories.
I was floored by the vulnerability in this video. Thank you for turning on the camera and bearing your heart for all of us to see. I've been studying your videos for a while and your honesty motivates me to open up more in my own art
well said
30 seconds in and I feel like Hamza Unfiltered videos are literally like a big of chips 40% content and 60% air like him staring at the camera intensely and breathing
😂😂😂
Ah yes, perfect way to up your watch hours
Tbh the first time when its not necessarily a bad thing
Hamza ASMR channel 😂😂
It’s actually better than highly edited fast paced vids tho isn’t it
"Don't commit to low quality women just because you're in love with them," - Hamza, 2022.
My suffering was good for me, for it taught me to pay attention to your decrees.
Psalms 119:71
Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory God will reveal in us. Romans 8:18
He that sow to his flesh shall reap corruption, but he that soweth to the spirit shall reap life everlasting. Galatians 6:8
Bible is FULL of the good wisdom these guys teach and its thousands of years old, no wonder the degenerate culture hates it. I can find tons of scripture on being a man of worth, a masculine man who delays gratification. Who chooses the right path. Having the faith to step out in courage and go after the dream God himself put in their hearts. The culture wants to destroy us, and hide the truth. They tell us lies saying "obeying the Bible is old nonsense for people who dont understand that vice and sexual sin is liberating and progressive. Your life is bad because not of your own choices but because youre a victim." This culture is blind. :( It pains me to see them so lost. I understand beause I was once very lost and totally dead in my sins and addictions. But God heard my plea and Im a completely new person.
@@evolgenius1150 💯💯💯💯💯💯
“A man who suffers before it is necessary, suffers more than is necessary” - Lucius Annaeus Seneca
Holy shit I understand this
This hit deeply into my soul bro....gonna screenshot it
Can you explain?
= work smart not hard
@@emmanuelbuachie1592
I've found some examples on reddit:
TurboTortuga·3 yr. ago
I like to use cycling as a metaphor. Sometimes I go cycling. I generally enjoy the ride except for a steep hill at the end of the ride - I hate that hill! If I think about that hill on most of the ride, simply dreading and having unpleasant feelings about the thought of me sweating up that hill, then I suffer even before I reach the hill. Consequence: I end up suffering mentally on the enjoyable parts of the ride, but also when I actually reach the hill.
JihadDerp·3 yr. ago
When a kid is going to the doctor for a flu shot, he'll cry and flail and scream because he knows it's going to hurt. But a lot of times, the doctor will simply distract the child with a toy or joke and give the shot while they're not looking, and the child doesn't even realize it's happened.
The kid freaks out because he thinks the shot is going to be painful. In his mind alone, he creates and reacts to pain that hasn't happened yet.
These are really basic and you can go deeper than that, but the general idea is that
You should not suffer before the thing happens. You should not worry so much that you suffer about something that might happen in the future. i guess. something like that. :D
The honesty is beautiful bro. It’s amazing how you’re able to be this open with this large of an audience. Hats off to you.
لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear
Yet people kill themselves daily but ok
just curious, why there are people still commit suicide if that statement is true?
@@arih3133 people do suicide on stupid things,doesnt mean that that stupid thing was too much for the soul
@@arih3133 first you need to believe in life after death,because if you think that this life is all there is,you're just gonna end up killing yourself the minute things go bad,and people often underestimate how much they can take.
@@hussain_abbas7789 my brother in christ their suicide proves it was too much
"Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor" - Alexis Carrell.
Al-Hasan al-Basri (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Do not resent the calamities that come and the disasters that occur, for perhaps in something that you dislike will be your salvation, and perhaps in something that you prefer will be your doom.”
Can't wait to watch this while I study later. I seriously love your videos man - the unfiltered ones moreso, but the main channel ones are also good. You opened my mind to a whole new reality man, and your interpretations brought a sort of perspicuity to my life, now I've been getting back on track and actually getting sh** done, mainly due to the fact that I simply didn't respect myself as much as I thought I did, and now I'm starting to more and more. Truly grateful for this channel, I added that to my list this morning with a couple other things.
@Noodle Boi very true
Andrew Tate lol
“Do not pray for easy lives my friends, pray to be stronger man” JFK
I'd pray for both.
Bad quote. Better one is by bruce lee:
Dont pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one
@@alen-commentnazi8774 literally the same thing
This comment section looks like these nitwits are trying to compete for who has the best quote. Just write what you feel. It''s so annoying, where are the men who admit what they thought of the video/title? Gosh man. Grow a pair.
Well, a good part of the audience are youngsters and they are excited at accessing such content.
@@conversationcorner1837 good point
“Hard times create strong men” 💪🏼
We should be grateful for the suffering and shit cards we have been dealt as this is how we will grow
What if our suffering emanated from our own stupidity ?
@@conversationcorner1837 then we learn from that also, and take it as a lesson to prevent it from happening in the future. This should also be accompanied by learning from other peoples mistakes to help prevent running into the same roadblocks, problems, etc. “men learn from their mistakes, wise men learn from others mistakes”
I also want to say that the self inflicted suffering should not lead to you growing resentment towards yourself as this is even more damaging, instead, practising healthy habits on a daily basis such as meditation, should grow and improve your mental health, in turn helping you to make better decisions. And just becoming more self aware.
It’s also normal to fail at things and then suffer because of it if that’s what you’re also referring to, it’s all part of the journey.
I hope that helps.
@@marcosf8875 It does help. Thanks.
real shit creates real niggas
real niggas be straight chillin
straight chillin makes bitch niggas
bitch niggas start some real shit
if you don't suffer you'll never experience true joy
love your vids bro
love your vids bro
Yup. People who had it easy don’t know what its like to be at the bottom until time catches up to them. I suffered as a kid. I had no 2 front teeth as a kid. Said 3 words a day. Afraid to smile and laugh. Got to a very dark place in my life as I seen others who had it easy enjoy their childhood. But all that suffering guided me to the gym, and finding peace within myself. And a source of income that can make me millions at best per year. And I look back at those guys who had it easy and they aren’t on self improvement. Also the guys who made fun of me for not having teeth lol. Its getting to adulting time and I spread awareness of it but there own ego stops them from growing. Not saying im better than them cause im not. But like Hamza said, im grateful to have gone through that suffering.
so i have a genuine rebuttal and a question to ask.
what about those who didn’t have to suffer/struggle? there’s passion, fire, and drive within the struggle and it’s up to those who have fire lit under them to shine. but what about those who didn’t have to go through that? where do those kids find their drive?
the quote “strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak mean create hard times, and hard times create strong men” is a good example to use from this. how do the weak men “find” the hard times that create strong men around them?(because they didn’t organically come from it.)
@@0piumaeternum they go through hard times after living a life thats easy to them. They find their purpose and what matters in life. No its not money and girls. Your purpose goes deep to as paying your family back. You can only stay at your parents home for 200$ a month rent and play video games for so long before having a light bulb light up in their head. But struggle also has to deal with how they were raised. If there wasn’t a sense of being disowned by your parents if you don’t do something with your life then you wont feel the struggle to make something happen. There is a lot of kids who are not well educated and struggle because of it. They just need the right coach and mentor and open mindedness to make a difference in life
Proud of you brother
What do you work in ?
Hey I am struggling a bit financially rn can you tell me about something that will make me some money. Even 500 a month would be great for me 🙏
47:30 that gives so much context for your relationship with Jade. Would of never thought the details of your last days would be like that
"Life is suffering, that's what makes it beatiful" I made that quote by myself 2 years ago when I was going through my puberty depression (15 years old back then), still have it in my UA-cam channel description and when I found self improvement and Jocko Willink then I came to fully know meaning of my own quote, but also I've had personal problems plus bullying in school and I was kind of raised to be kind, not like a pussy but I can say as coward, that's what made be grow up and to mature a lot more than other kids. Btw I'm not native english speaker, but I'm two language minded person (serbian and english), and was back then also.
"Life is suffering, that's what makes it beatiful"- summary not only of this video, but also LIFE. Evolve people, it's our time!
,,passion aint compassionate''-Neffex. And thats the beauty of it
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Hamza, I went through a lot of trauma when I was young also and in recent years have been diagnosed with IBS. For a long time I feared food and living normally and it only became progressively worse. When I decided to consciously take control of my life and live differently, the biggest shift being that I came back to the Lord, I came to understand that IBS isn't a disease, but is a symptom of my really bad anxiety and stress due to negative mental health. Sometimes I still have a flare during really stressful periods, but I'm no longer on medication, eat like a normal person and have faith and trust that I can live my life as I intend to and let the "special program" as I like to call it, finish. So, despite the pain and hardship I had to deal with, I am so grateful it happened. It led me back to God, it made me mentally stronger and when I do experience flare symptoms, I try to see it as a blessing and indicator of my mental state and immediately consciously work on my mental health. I never comment on anything, but I'm very appreciative of your content bro, and hopefully this story can help someone else out. Bless
Does your condition require you take painkillers ?
When u said she was red and swollen my whole heart sunk. Can’t even imagine the feeling of seeing that in person. Insane amount of courage and security in yourself to share this bro. You’ve been the biggest inspiration to my self improvement. In half a year I’ve completely changed my life. YT channel coming soon too
One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.
Sigmund Freud
You know the shut the fuck up is coming when you hear "oh but the..."
Shoutout to Hamza for getting his Gf to level his Runescape account ✊ True Adonis
Hahah skinny fat is suffering?? No worries hamza I'm an outsider in every place, people either fear me or are creeped out. And I'm not ugly I'm 6ft and a sharp jawline and 12% bf at 190lbs my own grandma feels threatened by me and her friends have had the police come to me and question me I'm a menace or a caricature to people family means nothing in reality I've never had support other than my mother
And I can't wait to reap the day I can deny every one that begs me for help when I make it especially my old man
bruh
@@nickjoseph5258 fr, what this actually said...
Zafir, become drug lord bro or mafia boss, you will be successful there believe me
@@Masked_madness09 my old man has beat me to it, he is from a country with the highest murder capitol in the world outside of war torn countries
There's good point in there. Dopamine and pain are regulated by the same area in our brain. Feeling good or bad is always about brain balancing itself. When you disengage in a pleasurable high dopamine activity such as video gaming or eating junk food, brain starts to balance itself by inducing pain on you. There's no way you'll stop video gaming and not feel pain. It's not about your mentality, it doesn't care if you're 100 lvl on stoicism. It's brain chemistry and you can't force it to stop.
Another point is that if you use high dopamine activities as an escapism, as soon as you'll stop you will feel every negative emotion you were running from but coupled with guilt and that pain from brain balancing itself.
And another thing. Breaking habits requires conscious effort. It takes energy and can make you tired. There is one true crime case about son killing his own father with an axe, completely destroyed his father's frontal lobe, but not killing him instantly. Father woke up with his alarm, went to the bathroom, brushed his teeth, shaved his beard with his jaw hanging on skin. He couldn't realize he was hurt, he didn't have any brain that could think. He then went to the kitchen, sorted his email, then went outside to get newspaper, accidentally locked himself out, but took a spare key from a secret place near his front door, opened it and only then collapsed and died. This case terrified me in a sense that we are not even actually "alive" the majority of the time were awake. So think about how much our brain doesn't want us to think, it tries to save energy all the time. Thinking and making effort takes a lot of energy. To change your whole day requires you to think 100% of your waking time. You'll be dead tired by the end of the day, and you need to be prepared to push through that pain.
I'm not trying to over explain what Hamza said, I just thought it would be useful to share my two cents.
@@generalkai2417 google the murder of Peter Porco. He was only 52,too, so it's a very sad case in many aspects.
Ok :(
Jk.... Pressure makes diamonds
Ahahahaha
Lol
Also, I really approve of this message. My depression made me avoid any discomfort, suffering, at any cost cuz of fear of failure and I read somewhere that depression makes you have more pain intolerance..... anyway, cuz of that I've never started doing anything ever that I wanted to do, even simple things like watching a movie or a series (it's also a sign of depression). So everyone, life is full of suffering, you gotta accept it and embrace it instead of running away from that fact, especially if you're religious cuz this gives you even more reasons to endure the suffering.
My Father always said the problem with you young lads is A you never went to the Army you have no discipline and B you never suffered in your Life
"Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men."
As much as I agree, I have to say that not any kind of suffering is profitable. Some just drain you of your mental health resources without teaching you anything in return. Both occur.
I have dealt with suicidal thoughts since I was about 11, started to self harm at 9. I'm 18 now and last week had one of the lowest times I have had in months for no reason at all it just happens. Never been tested but I can quite confidently guess I suffer from depression. However, when I do get out of these times I use them as fuel. Kind of like "if my own brain can't take me down neither can this run" or something along those lines.
@@minimumx4481 yeah and it's not very helpful is it? If that mindset was helpful you would not have to deal with those thoughts anymore, this is just blatant coping
I read the title and it made me smile, that's why i clicked on
i love the parts where he drops something deeps asf and just stares at the camera smiling
Today I went into a bakery to get something to eat and Ukrain war news were playing in the background and the cashier told me "I feel sorry for you boys" and it really hit me and made me realise in what world we as young people live in.
Been on self improvement for around a year and my life was by far the best it had ever been and it just crumbled for no reason , i dont know what i did to cause it but i fell into the worst depression ive ever had and i really dont know what to do and i feel so incredibly lost and hopeless,my discipline is so low that i can barely make myself eat and im going back to my old skinny boy days, i really hope i get myself out of this because im not doing good mentally right now and im trying so thank you because if i didnt see your videos pop up every time theres a new post i would probably have quit self improvement and maybe even wouldve killed myself, thank you hamza, i really really do appreciate what you are doing.
Bro same, this last few days have been an all time low. You've got an IG?
you got discord or snap we can talk there?
How and where do i start?
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People here in the comments don't seem to know the difference between suffering and struggling, lots of fake woke people who say they've suffered and you can clearly tell they haven't by the way they speak, also lots of people trying to cope with generic motivational stuff to ignore the fact they haven't gotten any better themselves. You should wish that people struggle and overcome those struggles, not wish suffering onto people.
This
“Don’t show weakness to women” why would anyone put up with someone who doesn’t let you be yourself?
I was able to show a tad bit to my current girl. We been on and off for the past 2 years. You gotta find that person who you will have forever wrapped around your finger
I think the best analogy that I’ve heard was that you should love your girlfriend like you would love your daughter, not like your mother.
@@_4L lmaooo I want a gf not a mom or a daughter
@@yeckio the point is that you could cry in front of your daughter, but you wouldn’t expect her to solve your problems/ask her to do so. You’d find a solution and move on.
"why would anyone put up with someone who doesn’t let you be yourself?" That's a path to weakness if you don't keep yourself in check
Damn.... You were describing me the whole time... I feel everything you did every day, and I did nothing about it. I just keep sulking and saying to myself that "it's just how it goes"... This was one hell of an eye opener. Thabk you
So true!my best friend was the skinny fuck boy type and i was skinny fat,looked like shit,we started going to the gym and he didn’t last more than 1 month,1year later im still in the gym 5days a week and a lot bigger and now people say i have great genetics 🤣
You know what's crazy Hamza, I thought I got my family behind my back, but when I was in that road trip and a small problem occured, too long of a story but
It's crazy and amazes how plastic they are man, they made fun my of my depression and I didn't wanted to speak for the whole 7 hours of that road trip because If I start talking,
they'll never know me as a family anymore. I mean, I don't even fit in lol so. Anyways, It's crazy because of how fuck up the people are in that car, playing some heartbroking music even though no one in that car, knows what I am going through, and people are quick to judge, instead of helping, you have to make fun and make it worst. But I didn't react or showed emotions, i've been through worst, it shows me on that night, the lack of self love in the room, it showed me that I am glad that I was alone most of my time because that day didn't faced me at all because I learned how to love myself, I learned my lesson, and thank god for showing me and opening my eyes. And then the next day before, I get messages about "pills and how to cure depression" texts, and I know those are coming from my family members. Fuck up shit hah?
Motivation is temporary Discipline is eternal
( do the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it )
hes really calling me out with the whole skinny fat thing
Hamza, your life stories are not cringe in any way. Trust me, the story told in this video about the girl was truly interesting. I just had a cringe moment in my own life, and listening to your story, I actually felt some kind of connection through that story. It felt like I was talking to my best friend just now! Wow.
Yep
When I saw this video in my recommended page, and this title, I thought it was very kind and loving advice. For those who know, anyway. Another note, I know this isn't related, but just the struggle itself that you went through, taking you 7 years unlike it being 4 years for others, reminded me of how when Muslims learn the Quran. There's people who can learn the whole Quran, in a year or two. BUT, there is a lesson from how some people did it in the past. When they would go to herd the animals, their fathers would tell them only 1 verse to repeat ALL day. There's 6,236 verses in the Quran, 114 chapters. That's dedication, suffering on a certain level, but most importantly: GROWTH. Those people who took time to do things properly (doesn't have to go to the extreme, this was just an example), learn it for LONGER. The people that learn the Quran in only a year, tend to have a harder time keeping it in their memory, than those who took it with more respect and seriousness, and for that, they GREW.
I'm saying this because of your, soon to be appearance in the 3 Muslims podcast :) See you there, inshallah.
Bro Holt shit youre right. Im shooting fucking pellets when im anxious. Literally get the most insane constipation. But its all Down to anxiety and dehydration. Its fucking annoying. Cylinder life should not be taken for granted.
Bro that notification was was scary asf I’m about to board my plane. Anxiety 📈
I had depression for 3 years in my early teens and can't thank the experience enough because I know that the suffering has made me a strong-minded person today.
gb
Pertaining to what Hamza is talking about at 39:38, I wanted to ask a question to both Hamza and the boys in the comments:
Is there ever a time in which it is acceptable to show negative emotion in front of your significant other?
It's hard for me to see this as black and white, most likely because I've seen my own father cry (not ugly cry but shed a few tears) in front of my mother whenever tragedy struck the family. I myself would not show negative emotions or express the things I deal with to a woman if I'm either trying to get with her in a romantic relationship or if we're both partners already. The only way I could see it being acceptable is if we're married and have been for years on end.
If anyone has any input that could clarify this for me, I'll be very grateful. There is someone in my life that I have strong attraction to and I am doing my damnest to not make the same mistakes I've made in the past. Thank you for your replies and have a blessed day.
Not crying at a funeral for a close friend or family member is probably an exception, but bar that kind of tragedy probably not.
Death is usually the exception
@@listeningtomusic7665 So death is the only exception. Got it. Thank you.
@@hanzoY248 That’s what I’ve been told thus far. Thank you for your reply.
we as men have to be pillars for our family. We need to stay strong as we keep moving forward. I agree with the replies that death would be an exception to show negative emotions in front of someone. But, you cannot keep it bottled. Find healthy ways to express it whether by yourself or with a trusted person. The only ones who know for certain are the ones who keep moving forward.
Hearing hamza talk about his girl texting his friend reminded me of the time I was with my ex and she was texting a guy that jumped me, and I was just thinking “wtf am I doing here” shit hurt deep
"Profit from that suffering."
Lmao, 10/10. What a legend.
This is a topic the education system needs to teach us, so many teens my age just have a nihilistic view on the world and anything that doesn’t gratify them instantly
No one's a nihilist when they need medicine for themselves.
Pressure creates diamonds or busts pipes. I understand the power in suffering thats why I purposely try to put myself in uncomfortable situations. Just heard some of my roommates talk about how they hope they die before there mom dies and that just confirmed how fucked young men are nowadays. They cant handle suffering, they dont know the benefits. I love my mom but theres no way in hell i would rather die before her. Her whole life purpose was to bring me into this world and for me to live my life completely. Its hard to stay focused on my self improvement journey being surrounded by people with this type of mentality.
You never learn how to appreciate the little things in life until your in that cold cell, alone. Surrounded. And that door SLAMS. And the locking mechanism whines into the lock. And then your there with your own mind. That's when the real battle begins. And that is when you truly have to fight for your life..
That's the only rock bottom, it took me so much, to realize that. So that's why now. I don't lie. I can't mentally and physically lie. I've been through all of that, everyone has it easy. But whatever cool story. I do me, just wait till they go through the shit I've been through. So before anyone judges anyone this is the whole point im trying to get out.
Labels and judges, people need to stop .... You don't even know some of the shit that people's faced.
Experiencing the same thing now .Shit's hard but as it goes we need to stand tall and strong + fierce at these situations ,Goodluck man. And don't worry you know what kind of people your commenting to.I do believe they don't judge like you said
Hamza led me to 1stMan... hopefully 1stMan leads me to my 1st Mil
Adonissssss
Only 1 mil? Lol, Imma be 100 times richer than you ;) wanna compete? When get your ambitions up brah, have that sikkunt mindset, don't be sadkunt with only 1mil, and only one who will lead you to 1st mil is YOU, LET'S GO I'M SO HYPED, brb gonna do cold shower fr no joke
@@Masked_madness09 he said “first” mill
I can’t even have a routine because of my mom fr shit sucks family is important but mine is different
You're not going to see this, but I'll say it anyway. You tell everyone here to take responsibility. That man needs to take responsibility. To paraphrase Marcus Aurelius: stand straight, not held straight. You did far more than most people would. You brought him stability. But he is a grown man; he can sort his own life or fail. It's the sad, harsh truth. You cannot help those who do not want to be helped.
pov: "red and swollen" 👁️👄👁️
this show no weakness thing is real, even implying that one of your ex's broke up with you can completely kill the vibe
Gratitude gratitude gratitude Gratitude gratitude gratitude Gratitude gratitude gratitude Gratitude gratitude gratitude!!!!!!!!!
Could you please talk about the toxicity and arrogance that is growing amongst young woman (15-25) because they are poisoned by all the fame and simping they get by modern boys not even men, but then converts into misery as they don't find anyone for a relationship and start being left behind with a single mother hoesehold
Is that under your control ?
Stop being a Jeffrey and focus on what’s in your control. You aren’t actually worried about arrogance in young women, your problem is that women act arrogant to YOU. Fix it
People who quit for having a bad knee, really stfu. I am a basketball player and I suffered a labrum tear last summer. At first i couldnt even open a door with my right hand. Now i am able to do handstand pushups because I wasn't a bitch who quit at the first obsticle he saw. I went through the rehab and kept getting stronger every day. Now i still have small stability issues with my shoulder but its getting better as time goes on. I am so grateful that I had the positive mindset and neither quit basketball or sports. I am grateful to have done the rehab and trust in the proccess.
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I honestly think you would like reading a work of fiction called Berserk, it reflects so many of the things you have said in this video and in the past.
“Don’t commit to girls who are low quality just because you are in love with them”
I suffered with my ex girlfriend of two years a lot of mistakes from me and her but she ruined my mental finding hamza has helped me ngl
For most of my life, I had to endure suffering, but I always looked at the brighter side of my life and found that instead of self pitting myself,f I reflect on my failures and find a way not to make the same mistakes.
I feel bad for those who never had to suffer
They will be in for tough times at some point in time and would find it hard to deal with it.
I love how u do that pose at the start of every vid 😂😂
Hamza, I’m about to enter an extremely large tournament and im fairly certain I will be steamrolled. It is wrestling and im no good at it because this is my first time ever doing it Im genuinely scared because there’s people that have doing it their entire lives and I will most certainly get hurt because I haven’t fully recovered from last weeks tournament and this for the championship tournament.
I will suffer, but your video shows me that there is something to reap from this
I hope that I will grow as a person from this experience
Update: I lost every single match, I’m not sure how to feel.
Dont have a negative mindset about it, having a positive mindset won't win you the tournament but at least u have a good mindset about it to learn and get better at wrestling
Even if you do get steamrolled, you’re gaining more experience, knowledge and skill for simply competing. Regardless of the outcome.
Especially compared to people who aren’t doing wrestling and going up against a resisting opponent.
I just started BJJ a few months ago now and I get steamrolled, choked, locked up every night. However, I’m grateful for it because I’m gaining more from being humbled like that and sparring with other people every night in comparison to the average dude who sits around all day.
Win or lose, you’re still going to win bro.
keep moving forward. Use this as motivation to get stronger and better next time. It's ok to fail but it's never ok to fail the same way again. The only ones who know are the one's who keep moving forward. Next time win a match! You got this.
Ironic you talk about 20kg dumbbell per hand, because my gym partner who's quite cocky picks on me for only being able to lift 12kg dumbbells whilst he can already do 18kg, so i guess this has given me a different perspectives i should hopefully be able to lift more than him soon
Dude has such a positive mindset ;) awesome lets all suffer and grow bring on the gains💪💪💪
Diamonds are formed under pressure, grapes are crushed to produce wine, olives are pressed to make oil. Don’t ever forget that.
Glass is shattered to never be put together again. Some times we need to be alert and avoid doing that which brings us to our ruin.
@@conversationcorner1837 ok that’s a fair metaphor.
Since we're all philosophers allow me to add one of my personal ones "Don't stop when you're tired, stop when you're done." Bonus points if you know who said that.
~ Ron Jeremy
Hahaha Kobe
I had a good life 2 loving parents but do I really want every thing handed to me for free what advice would you give to me. I want to experience hardship yet everything’s seems easy I want to have fun a challenge the only thing that motivates me most is the gym seeing Larry wheels just motivates to be stronger
I went to uni in the UK (i'm swedish) and had a very similar experience bro ..
Unfiltered is what youtube needs, keep it up and you won't stop growing. Much love.
legit when you posted this I have been suffering ever since haha. im so damm proud how well ive handled and learned from this downwards slope recently, alot of things going wrong out of my control but im grateful for it, cause I know i'll look back on it and a planting point for the newer me.
what I did was write down every bad thing thats happened over this past week, and at the end of it I wrote why I was grateful for everything going sideways this week
Watching these videos feels like you're up late with a friend in a tent just talking about deep shit
Still hate waking up early but love my cold showers now lol
"pain is inevitable, suffering is optional"
where this podcast channel on spotify?
Yeah. I've got pretty good muscle building genetics and I look better than a lot of guys who've been going for a few years and it does make me complacent. I'm grateful for the genetics. Need to make myself push as hard as possible
Thank you hamza I really needed to hear this right now
Started working out after injuries for the 5th time now, started from 0 every time. The grind keeps going on no matter what
Did you get injured 5 times in a row ?
@@conversationcorner1837 after every injury I recovered and got a new one somewhere else
Hamza you set him up with a living wage, you did what you were supposed too. You mentioned that he never was homeless homeless so he’ll know how to move with some money. Gs bro
If everything burns down, don’t fall with it, take that fire and conquer the world, suffering is your greatest weapon
-Karim
I am actually going through many issues you went through so I really appreciate you for being someone who’s guiding me towards the light instead of descending into chaos in the face of adversity
I’m suffering right now😂😅, but I know It’s gotta get worse befor it gets better , Thanks for your vids bro, your like the older brother I never had, love listening to these longer videos when working out 👊🏽
I used to be bullied a lot when I was a kid. Now that I am grown up, people ignore me. They won't even make eye contact.
“Life is suffering, experience life.”-My dad
lol e booy
Its funny seing people wanting to suffer meanwhile sum don't have a choice
My girlfriend broke up with me not too long ago and I am skinny fat. I worked out a lot and changed a bit of my appearance but still wasn't satisfied. I was definitely set back by her tearing my heart out but I now I see clearly. I need to suffer
I am slowly getting over it too. Faster than I expected mainly because I have been working on myself a lot. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. I am going to become the father that I wished I had when I was a little boy.
I'm not having GF. But I'm too a skinny fat. It's truly hard to see in the mirror. It cause me low self esteem. Cant even feel like a man. Literally feels I don't deserve girl. I'm too working out in gym hoping for something to change.
@@uttam_k766hey man it’s almost been a year since I made this comment and a lot has changed, I lost about 40 pounds and started gaining muscle, i still am not at the physique I want but my confidence has gone so much higher. I got a new girlfriend who’s amazing and 10 times as gorgeous and she’s the love of my life and dream girl and has everything my ex didn’t . Not only that but i overall glowed up from eating better and now receive a lot more female attention. I’m very popular at school and have great relationships with family and friends around me. This wasn’t overnight though it took many nights of crying, failing at my diet, and many hours of cardio and weight lifting. I still have struggles with anxiety and self hate but those now come from me not wanting to be or look like i did. I’m just saying you can do it and results will happen if you really want it more then anything. I wish you luck and hope the best for you🤍
@@blooddrivendamian92822 congrats man! Glad to hear it. Keep going.
If possible can u share ur routine from diet to workout?
The lightswitch effect is brutal and immensely painful. Without redpill knowledge it can kill you. Even with it, it hurts, BAD. But it can make you a better man forever, if you harness it properly.
Learning to be more greatful and having a positive mindset might be my favorite things about self-improvement 。
Recommended to me at a great time!
hamza thankyou for this video. did you tell anyone in there family they lied about cheating cause the girl i saw for 1 year has been talking to so many guys and i just want her family to know cause shes 18
Good luck to you
Saw this last night and I didn’t watch it. It’s wild how things float into my life seemingly when I need or am ready for them. I’m 21 and this year has been the hardest of my life from roommates, to jobs, financial independence and school as well as self development. I’ve been getting my teeth kicked it. All of these factors where bearing down on me so I gave up and masturbated to run away. I knew what I was doing. I’ve gotten to the point where porn can’t control me but I gave in. My life isn’t hard at all I’m just weak but I will grow stronger.
I will succeed, there is no other choice but ever once in a while I break down and that’s ok. If it’s a sign of improvement. I’m going to get to my mountain top and if you see this I hope you do to. It’s hurts and your sore but go at your own pace consistent and steady.
We got this.
I'm relating so much more to you after this video, and i'm just at the first half of it.
Two things you said in this first half of the video really hit me:
1. Working hard for months or even years to actually be the average starting point.
It's almost 8 months since i joined the gym the first time, and yet my lifts are basically everyone's starting point, sometimes lower. Sometimes i literally hear some groups talking and teaching someone how to squat for example, like "you should bend more, you should go lower" and stuff like that, while doing more than my weight. But i knew something was """off""" with me since i first started. I was so, so weak, and of course, i was skinny fat;
2. Being attached to your first love even if you know that she's not right for you.
I've experienced everything you said, every part of my body wanted to be with her, i lost my virginity to her. After we broke up i cried almost every single day for 2 months, then she came back, but she asked for an open relationship, and even if i knew that was fucked up and i could NEVER stand that, i said yes, i've literally agreed with her. After 2 weeks i realized i was destroying myself and i left her, I didn't see her since that day. It's been 2 years.
But now i have the right mindset to look back and say that i'm grateful for what happened.
I am grateful that i've started going to the gym by being so weak, so that i know i will never quit, because i know what it feels like, and i would never come back to that feeling.
I am grateful that i've experienced that relationship, so that now i know what i have to do to get what i want from a relationship, from a woman, that is how i'm living my current relationship, and it's going great.
My diet is the number one thing I just can’t seem to control. I’ll lose a lot of weight quickly through extreme methods(fasting, 800 calories a day) then gain it all back through binge eating. And every time I do it again it gets harder each time to the point where I’m ready to give up and accept being overweight
first of all put yourself in a slight calorie deficit (about 10% calries less) so you wont be very hungry and you wont binge eat second of all you have to be patient and determined, weight loss is a long journey. and third of all every time you want to binge eat remember its just an instant pleasure that will last only some time but will make you suffer for many months and even years. i hope this will help you