6 Creepy Hug Defenses for EVERY Woman
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
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Thank you, this video has taught me how to defend myself from my Uncle.
Lmao
me: reads this
Me 2 seconds later: spits out waterr
Yo your uncle?!-
If you are adult and you are 16+ you have choice to whom hug or not and you can openly talk to your parents too that you don't like people hugging or something. I'm glad this helps you but always speak up . Nothing bad in speaking up and telling you not okay with that
wtf
This kinda stuff is great along with bear hug defending...my sister had a drunk guy, friend of a friend, that tried several times giving a creepy hug then followed her to her car and surprised her with a bear hug grab from behind. Renner you guys have seriously changed the world!! From the combative to bully proof and women’s defense!!! Just awesome keep it up brother!
Luke Rockhold needed this against Yoel Romero post fight.. dude was caressing his ears and shit 😂
Imagine if he would've kept going. Who would've stopped him? Ref's already gone home. Fight's over.
Help.
I thought i was going to see some brutal krav maga techniques, but the awkwardness that such a defense move would create is even more brutal.
Arrrghh, he just won't leave her alone. First the hugs then she's expecting. 😂 Congratulations 💖💖💖
0.52 looked like an age of empires 2 soldier dying
Could you do one fir men to defend themselves against creepy hugs from girls.
It's a problem some of us are having it's just difficult as being polite doesn't seem to work.
Could I put it down as sexual harassment
you can do basically the same stuff she did in this video - use your arms and body to redirect their attempts.
@@megsley I was being sarcastic
Batista bomb em
yes! sexual harassment has no differentiator in gender please never feel like u have to take harassment from women or men.
@@DP-dd6hl Sarcasm is fine. But the situation you outlined is true for many people.
What about multiple attackers? Is there a defence to the Night At The Roxbury attack?
What is that?
@@AB-J This > ua-cam.com/video/AUiiIvY7ruE/v-deo.html
9mm
0:00 I'm going to defend against this creep!
*50 seconds later*
I'm pregnant
can you do a video on how to counter these hug escapes ?
My sneak attack hugs cannot be defended.
This is why men and women in Islam just bow down with their hand on their chest where the heart is
How about this boys, just don't touch or interact with women at all 🤷♂️. Saves you 💰. Gives you more time for yourself.
@Magical Frijoles
That's what you think. Then the lies and drama begin. Not worth it.
Go fuck yourself
@@SilverstreamPJ28 whoa lighten up
@@SilverstreamPJ28 woahhhh
Congratulations! 6 years ago. Hope that all is well.
Those were effective...and funny ! There I've seen The Seagull, The Gropper, The Fullhander, The Octopus, even the government endorsed one: The Sniffer !😆
P.s.: the gasp was priceless !
I most usually doesn't go for the hug, because it's a bit over the top. But if she deserves a hug, I would verbally say "you know what? That deserves a hug, come on" if she is not into hugs, you could politely say and tease her "not a hugger now are you? What about a high5? Surely a high5 wouldn't hurt?" Give her a high5. No awkward moments at all.
Congratulations on the new baby! ❤🎉🎊
As primeiras defesas são realmente muito boas já que são bastante sutis sem exagero,aos olhos leigos nem dá para dizer que é defesa pessoal e sim um mecanismo natural,isso evita uma situação de combate o que na verdade é o objetivo a defesa pessoal,é bem melhor ser discreto do que chamar a atenção e é o suficiente para mandar uma mensagem de que não quer ser tocada.
very helpful tips, but it depends if your crush hugs you LOL
And how do you know a huggy is creepy or not or you are judging hug as creepy ?
I wish I had seen this about 5 years ago when a coworker went in for a hug and did the full body sweep.
People: Thankyou I'll use this from now.
Me: You all getting hugs?☹️
Is there a video to counter these defenses from our loving hugs?
Last one was the best. Awesome 👍
Oooh, I can use these on the in-laws! Because the creepiest hug comes from people who’ve spent twenty years hating everything about you yet still feel entitled to wrap their arms around you in a show of false affection.
I usually do the side hug but then I catch crap for being a horrible hugger
I'm scared to even look at a woman's face for fear of being cancelled.
Just shared with my Daughter...Thank You!
If guy is poor, short, small, weak, etc., apply moves.
If guy is hung, rich, strong, tall, etc., hugging is allowed.
After 3-4 shots in the club the man have to apply those moves
People make fun when a dude asks how to stop girls touching and especially hugging you but that actually happened to me, I had a girlfriend and a friend of her used to hug me and touch my lower back and it doesn't matter how I tried to tell her that I didn't like that and wanted her to stop she would always do that whenever I was around (not even while talking to her) my girlfriend broke up with me because she said it was my fault and then her friend suddenly stopped doing that. All of my friends where laughing and saying that they wished something like that happened to them. It's not funny after all, if I was the one doing that I'm pretty sure the story would have been different.
Wow… sorry to hear that you had to went through this… hope your „friends“ are not your friends anymore…
People make fun of it, because those are problems akin to "I don't have any space to park my yacht".
But as for my genuine advice: a single slap has always stopped all physical aggression I've ever encountered from a woman.
Is it bad that I’ve used 5 of those hugs back in the day 🤦🏽♂️
My wife and I did the same thing.... now she is pregnant too
You act like this is only a problem women have. It's not.
The Gracie family is known to reproduce like rabbits lmao. Congrats you 2.
Goodness this reminds me of my days at the club
Pregnant again: that's where the defence mechanism failed
Really great techniques, except that it is very hard to make it work if your oppoent is giving a full strengh to his arm.
So I tell my daughters to do some weight lifting too, but they are just too lazy to do that...
Looks like you're man defeated your defences like a boss! ❤👶❤
_Throws him to the floor..._
5 seconds later
*We are pregnant again*
Even her baby daddy can't get a hug lol. Seriously though, this is valuable info, I'll share with the women I know who might need it.
I ALWAYS get underhooks. I'm paranoid about it since starting jiu jitsu
Please make a video how to escape from my far away creepy aunt we boys need to understand
Great video
The way she said then DROP HIM
Nice move
thanks god in Indian culture (esp. in our family )... no one really hugs. ... it's just a namaste 😀 or we bow down usually to elders
It's only creepy to them, when they aren't attracted to you.
that's the whole definition of "creepy" my friend. he likes me but i don't like him therefore he is creepy. not the original definition of the word but that's the way it is. the word has got a lie rolled into it though.
@@PeterJames143 it's a double standard. Because they think it's okay for them to give us a "special" hug to let us know, they're interested. They smile and flirt, to let us know they like us. It we smile, flirt and they're not interested, you're "kinda' creepy, ew!
go hug some strange men then
You guys are hilarious 😂
Ella totalmente lo hizo!!! Quisiera aprender más!!
Basically any Spanish or Italian dude ever.
I'm from Spain and we have that stereotype about Italians too ... Didn't know we Spaniards did so .
@@jacobotoral6050 maybe I was wrong about spanish. I just know that spanish people hug when they greet women.
After all that defense and sges still pregnant lol😂
Ps very helpful👍
Only the last ones made sense....
Can't wait to see with weapon (knife, chainsaw). 😊
My uncle stands no chance
Ok, dropping him might have been extreme unless you are La Femme Nikita. Otherwise, very practical! I will send to my daughter.
I am very nice to people I do respect the ladies . And I am super super nice person to people hey I give them a big hug once a great while not to be defense .
What about reversing moves with equal or more force? Would that perhaps get the point across? 😉
I have never hugged any one
And write it down I will convince the guro who initially doesn't hug me through body language
Let women carry two knives for intimate encounters.
Congrats
This video, is awesome!
Well done.
I never let anyone hug
I didn't hug anyone
Only person I hug was dad
But he is dead 😭
I am cursed child
And I am boy
I like this alot
When is the counter series gonna drop???
The middle-aged women in my office are ALWAYS looking for an excuse to hug me whether it's an office party or meeting. During one chance meeting in the hallway, a female boss insisted on hugging me and only didn't do it because I told her I was worried about COVID. I once held out my hand to prevent a hug and all the women talked about what a jerk I was that day. They just don't get it.
Keep it up my dude, woman on work place are a big red flag.
They get it. They're gaslighting you about your boundaries
Yeah, try not to take yourself so seriously though. They'll see it a mile away and play on it.
YA
And then you woke up?
"How to defend against belly rubbers" hahaha
This is just gonna make feminism worse
Think I'll have to disagree, having a daughter changes things, especially when she stands out amongst her peers.
If it were your daughter or your sister would you want people groping them ?
I dont like it when certain men do what they do either. But, to think women dont have any fault in that outcome is absurd. They do a lot to antogonize men. They need to start making some changes instead of going in a linear direction with blinders on, continuing to create such stringent rules and regulations. Their will always be different types of men with all types of intentions that dont understand specific boundaries. But, the boundaries and control measures have gotten absolutely ridiculous and getting worse all the time to the point where either men are not going to know what women want or whats acceptable, or theres gonna be that ugly extreme that should never happen which is rape. And then there are those types of men who are absolutely satisfied being run by women, which is sickening to me, but whatever! As stated before, there are different types.
I agree 100%. I look at things as an equal playing field. But one thing a lot of blokes have over my daughter is size and strength so having martial arts skills to fend off the idiots is of benefit. To fend off the idiots.
I'm not holding women unaccountable for anything and I do thing the belly rub defense is funny.
are you 4 or something?
Once when I started becoming friends with a woman, I plopped my hand on her shoulder in a friendly gesture. Her eyes got real big and she looked freaked out. That's all it took for me to remove my hand. We're actually friends to this day but I never again put my hand on her shoulder.
@Talsong Kingslayer Hmm.. It scares you if a man puts his hands on you but not a woman? Anyway, most people understand the difference between a friendly touch and an aggressive one. There's also romantic touches which are only acceptable with romantic partners. (I've never executed a romantic touch because I'm not a romantic fellow). Still, there are people who don't like being touched at all. This woman didn't seem like that type because she's nice and talks to people a lot. I put my hand on her shoulder when I saw her in a used book store and wanted to point out the sci fi event that was taking place there. (We're both nerds and bookworms). She saw who I was and knew I meant no harm but she was still freaked out. Seeing the signs of this, I removed my hand and apologized for freaking her out. We continued our conversation as if nothing happened.
@@raineyhayes3821 obviously there’s boundaries but yeah there are woman who mostly wouldn’t like a man to touch them even when it comes to certain compliments from men most woman wouldn’t like it either. Not saying that woman also don’t like woman doing that because some woman can be weird but for most woman…it’s more uncomfortable if a man does it plus there are men that do things having a motive behind their actions but everyone is different.
New rule: don't ever touch a woman without her enthusiastic consent FIRST.
@@thestarspark2288 or a man
@@thestarspark2288 it applies to everybody, this is not a gender only thing
Congratulations !! Pregnant again !! Hugs for you
Angel Castro idk man, she seems to not like hugs, lol!
Jajajaja lol !
@@Levi-yv9oe wheezing hhh
What? Are you saying this defense tutorial doesn't work? Goddmnt
@@carlogambino4894 *Cueing Takedown protocol*
Yeah, it's important for women watching this to know that creepy huggers are also women and can be worse at times because if a guy rejects them they can get so hostile and make out that you're the one being the creep which leads to more trouble
That’s the comment I just posted , asking for help! , women are like that too!!!
This is so true. Women have so many double standards because their feelings are always justified in their mind.
@@ant7018 I don't think that's true of every women, I know females that have been quite empathetic with my feelings even if they are incompatible with theirs
@@mathacks5076 Yeah there's women who recognise their feelings aren't always justified so they block them out and do the right thing but you better believe they are still annoyed deep down
@@mathacks5076 Also I think men have to do similar things to manage relationships, not just women
Thank you so much for this. I'll use this next time a creepy woman tries to hug me at college.
Just say"Mrs Robinson! You're trying to seduce me!" & she will get the hint that she is invading your safe zone.
For real man, I can't stand being assaulted by women on a daily basis 😔 How long will men be harassed?
@@bannedaccount6016 you're funny.
@@sarahcusack it can happen lol
@@sm_stormzy1075 If you can't see the problem here, you're stupid.
can u also release a video on counters to these creepy hug escapes?
wertytrewqa lol
wertytrewqa That's funny
1-2 Rape counter works everytime
haha first comment to make me lough out loud in a while
@@kameronoleary9262 same here
These are good to know if you’re a woman who spends anytime around Joe Biden.
funny thing is she literally made this video because of Trump www.wrestlinginc.com/news/2020/02/eve-torres-says-donald-trump-forcefully-grabbed-her-during-666600/
haha that's funny, i wonder if there is a defense against getting grabbed by the pussy by traitors who want election assistance from china
Peter James Lol, you do realize he didn’t do that right? Ya he said it, as a joke, a disgusting joke, but a fricken joke nonetheless. I don’t like him as a personal friend, but he’s done great job for our country compared to the past presidents. Our economy grew to all time highs! And more pedophiles were captured during his presidency then fricken two of our past presidents, I don’t like how he is in his personal life, Im just fricken happy he’s helped America.
@@thetiredworm2100 helped America? He's a traitor. He absolutely did grab women by the pussy and you know it. He bragged about it and he did it. How many women came forward and told their stories? And that's not even counting all the girls he paid off. But that's nothing compared to killing 140,000 Americans with covid. That's all his fault. Don't tell me he did his best with his stupid ineffective travel ban. It didn't work, and it was way too late. He needed to deal with covid the proper way but he just made up his own bullshit way that didn't work. The economy is the worst it's been since 1933 but okay.
I hAvE hAiRy LeGs ThAt TuRn BlOnD iN tHe SuN
Should have called this "Joe Biden Defence Techniques"
how the fuck did he even win
im ready for war
@@ch3cksund3ad Get ready for the downfall of the so called "United States". Time to learn some survival tactics for when we become a 3rd world country.
@@ch3cksund3ad are you a trump supporter 👀👀👀
Both candidates could apply here. Which is why I voted for a third party.
This is needed for many woman! Thankyou! You guys are amazing and HEYYYY CONGRATULATIONS xoxo
I’m late to the party with the congratulations but I hope your bubs is happy and healthy! X
Hey Cass! I teach women's self-defense too and made a video on front and side hug escape. Would love some feedback ;) ua-cam.com/video/LWdVK1-zC8g/v-deo.html
@@CLROUGH bubs
And also for men. Women try to touch and hug you all the time.
I’ve had so many creepy experiences in my life,I wish there were videos like this when I was younger. Glad they’re available now.
The best thing is NOT to hug a woman that you don't know properly ! Simple. Shake hands and smile. That's all.
Man, how did he got her pregnant, lmao.
Peanuts&Corn you didn’t understand his joke dummie
Lucio Innocenzo and you didn't understand my joke dummy
She done a flying armbar on his 3rd arm one moonlit evening, securing him in place with her *insides*
@Victor Mace under rated
Peanuts&Corn well ya see consent is a magical thing.
My wife will do these moves on me now. Lol
Thanks rener and eve.
Lol lol
Careful, she may just end up getting pregnant
Was the 3 "LOLs" necessary?
@@bobbybush1750 he’s communicating his pain
@@TheMonteCarlo I keked
I'm a hugger too (I hope I'm not a creepy one 🤔) The habit is passed down from father to son in our family
This made me laugh and also feel super relieved, thinking omg now I know what to do when any of these creepy moves get thrown at me again. Thank you so much!
Like you're gonna use this without training lmao
Dont even try this, without training or you'll make a fool out of yourself
Don't worry, ur to ugly. A man will never touch u 😉
Assuming you dont have a dick, lady.
@@TT-yz7pz you don't need "training" wtf is wrong with you? It's easy to deny a physical contact like a hug and this video shows good ways to do it.
HUGE congrats Torres-Gracie families !!!! That is so cool !!! I saw the video recently, and I had an ear-to-ear smile going. Really happy for you all. :) I hope you all are doing well and are having a nice year so far.
Congratulations! Sending up a prayer for you both and your children. Also, thanks for another great video.
Congrats Gracie family!! Most families panic when their children choke on something, this family rewards it when they do it perfectly.
If dude is handsome not creepy
If dude is ugly it's creepy
Who exactly would you do this to? A stranger I wouldn't even let them hug me in the first place. A friend or family member I'm not going to throw on the ground.
No to strangers but open to the family members (except if that member is not close to you), some people express their love through hugging.
I would 100% hug you and you wouldn't be able to do shit against it.
I really like this video because it is so realistic. A lot of woman's self defense video is so irrealistic because it portrays a direct attack like strangling or hitting. While in reality I think most of the assaults against woman begings more like portrayed in this video. And the woman in this video clerly using techniques wich is mostly about not phisically dominating the opponent, but get in control, before he becomes more agressive. Very helpful!
Lol, I’ve actually done the ‘convert it to a handshake’. 😂
Oh neat! I teach women's self-defense too and made a video on front and side hug escape. Would love some feedback ;) ua-cam.com/video/LWdVK1-zC8g/v-deo.html
Do a video for men too.. we also suffer from creepy hugs from woman
I like how it all starts with awareness of the type of person coming to you. Good video!
Could have just punched the face in every hug 🤷🏾♂️😂
And would've gone to jail.
@@HelloCarrie923 but is women are going to be like this is society continues as today.
And then get overpowered and raped/killed.
@@HelloCarrie923 in that case make sure he doesnt touch you again 🔫.
@@HelloCarrie923 a woman doesn't have to go to jail in many cases where they've done the same thing as a man, you living under a rock dude?
May you be blessed with another healthy child!
I think like, if she's an old friend, but now married, or any endearing yet nonromantic hug, I proclaim "small hug" before any contact.
Same reason you don't send flowers to gal at her job site, until you are for sure an item. Putting someone on the spot isn't cool, and odds are they'll reject, and now they'll stick to that rejection.
A girl started sitting by be me at church, but then she put her arm through mine while I standing and talking to others, and I wasn't having it. Felt bad for her, but I wasn't interested nor was I going to keep a potential away. I'm sure this happens to ladies as well.
The crappy standard is when the lady is rejected, you feel bad. If the guy is rejected, he's a creep.
That is because most whomen are not a phisical threat to most men, and because if the rejection is not clear and strong enough since the begining , and he happens to be a real creep , they 'll say thay you were flirty, that " le diste pie" and he missunderstood . If we reject it too strongly since the begining ,we are histerical , conceited and overreacting .
@@TheMaru666
Yes, the rejection does need to be strong up front, from either sexes.
How about just saying no, and then charging them with sexual assault if they don't listen. Seems like the best way to correct this behaviour. Otherwise these types of men will just figure your not in the mood but possibly another time you will be, and they will do it again and again.. Remember, it's NO, then jail time. Keep safe.
I was thinking exactly the same. I would just immediately step backwards and say seriously “don’t touch me”, “hey I don’t know you” or something similar.
Can you guys do one for us guys as well? It’s really hard to defend myself from from creepy gals, especially at cookouts.
I just need to learn how not to retaliate so I don't get in trouble. I can defend myself but when I do I get into a life or death mindset
It's creepy to go to clubs when you are pregnant and your husband is the creep. But what do I know. Brazilians are different I guess
@@kailaniandi there's no way a human being is this stupid lmao
Heres the simple steps to stop them
1. Formally tell them to stop
2. if they approach further repeat step one in a louder and more authoritative tone hinting your irritation
3. Once they incur into your space neutralize (or better yet terminate) the threat and then promptly leave.
@@thebarbarian3108 invoke the backhand
Thanks, I promise myself to use this. Unfortunately I have problems when I train dance with one of my dance partners. He touches me like his lover, I am too nice to tell him don' t do this. But now I am going to try to defend myself. I hate when he cross borders this is disgusting.
Have you told brutha you don't like it? Ya can't go trying to fight brutha unless he's aware of the problem. Your can't be nice if you don't tell him
I wish I'd known this in my 20s. So icky and scary being hugged by strange creepy men 🤢
@Alice Green Lol, are you stupid or something?
@Alice Green why so agressive? 🤣
Just carry a stun gun
I have a question, what if my attacker knows all the mechanisms I could use against him? Like what if he knows all of this has other ways :v? #scared
Unless the person is really huge, It'll still work. The person who initiates the grappling is always in advantage.
Thats when you show him your 9mm friend.
I've never been much of a hugger, so I always try my level best to avoid'em. I'm Indian so... joining my hands for a *Namaste 🙏🏼* and a head bow, serves me well.
I'm Indian 24yrs old and haven't seen anyone not even a single one doing *Namaste* ever in my life. It's only hugs, handshake, and kiss on the cheek.
@@alan77744 where do you live?