WHAT THE NARCISSIST WAS THINKING
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
- What the narcissist was thinking. The narcissist knew what they were going to do to you in that relationship. They knew how long the relationship would last. The narcissist knew that that relationship would have an expiration date, it would end. The narcissist wants to take as much as they possibly can from people. The narcissist wants to dump their negativity, their toxicity into other people. The narcissist is shallow and hollow. The narcissist was thinking that they could manipulate you and fool you. The narcissist never thought you would see behind the mask. The narcissist never thought that you would be strong enough to HEAL. Sending positive energy and strength. Namaste
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Always love the content and knowing more and more people see this because you do it Every. Single. Day. And we love you for it Andrew! DO NOT STOP UNTIL YOU THINK YOUVE GOT THE WORD OUT TOO ALL THAT CHOOSE TO LISTEN!
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Andrew, AFAIK, you haven't covered the feeling of being surreal. Confused I guess you have but at the peak of the abuse, dissociation and life being surreal is something worth covering IMHO. DPSD and other disorders are serious business and might be worth examining. Just a thought. Nice video :)
Well, i thought my ex was a narcissist, but i'm the one who isuppose.i leave. He made no contact, and that hurt. Iwent back time and again to contact as i processed what was happening. I couldnt marry him, and i left. I saw a vision of me being in a cage. I asked him to practice the same beliefs i thought they had, and they brefused, so i left. That hurt. I left feeling bad because my needs weren't heard, feeling bad because i wouldn't lose myself there.
This video is my life even though it’s my family member/ today 21 July 2024 / they two narcissists yes two😢 I’m going through medical procedures and they have doubled down on their victim mentality last night dropped me a text to say we them😮are phoning me at 6 tonight I really couldn’t sleep all night seriously so me being me I knew the new supply is not wanting to speak to me because she’s his new flying toxic relationship However I text late afternoon to say could we have our conversation now He didn’t answer When he finally did call it was tea time and made out what was wrong with me and the new toxic relationship 6 new ones in a line 😮I know tell me about it / he made out to her that I was demanding am I mentally unstable 😮and laughing and grinning I could tell through the phone I just got on with I’m needing to go so within 4 minutes of the caring sharing phone call / not / I was told I need some wine and drugs and need to chill out 😮all because I wanted to get the phone call over earlier out of the way However I came off the phone this time feeling I hope I’m painted like I’m the nastiest human being Well I’m exactly the opposite ❤and don’t care 🤷♀️ no more I’m free another than I’m seeing it right in front of my eyes it no longer is effective of abuse to me not even to feeling shame for them Thank you Andrew and the hard work on these videos it’s exhausting but we all appreciate you❤
He’s got me, I’d be lost without my daily Andrew, everything he says is 100% spot on, my ex narc is so text book , it blows my mind.
They were thinking you’d never figure them out. WRONG
The narcessist in my famely are intelligente, they bullied at the level ,they did not expect i found out. I became realey tired. I am now healing and i will never go back to the horreble situation they put me in for years.
THAT is actually Wrong. They didn't Care if we figured them out,,,because they would just go silent and pick up the same sh*t in a different format.
If any viewers are still battling that Demon. I urge you to end it with that entity and Go No Contact you will feel a black cloud lift off your shoulders.
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Left it gladly 3 years ago . I'm so happy
For those survivors who ruminate...remember what they did to you. ❤
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This is a daily struggle for me, two months no contact now. She broke me in the span of 6 months.
You aren't broken you found us all here. @fokker34
@@fokker34whatever you do DO NOT GO BACK.. I went back to him after three months of no contact. He came back with a vengeance. I on the other hand showed loved. Only One month back together and I have had enough. I have not spoken to him in two days. I’m over it.
Narcissists will take what you have and they will take or try to take your mind and drive you crazy. Remember the Narcissist blames you for everything!
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I definitely felt my IQ drop in the narcissist’s presence. Anytime we would break for a time I would return to being steady and clear. Now with no contact I am 🌟🌟🌟!
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It's not an IQ drop it's a virus a litteral computer virus attached to you blocking you from source
Ive come to the realisation today that when we say narcs have no soul
It's litterally true. They are computer programmes in this matrix trying to study and understand souls.
Please understand you are involved in a computer simulation
We've all seen this being developed right? AI is being developed by computer programmers that are essentially IA themselves the intellectual people developing computer programmes are programmes themselves
We live in a world that's a perpetual motion infinate
It's already happened.
AI is here amongst us.
It comes in various levels of programmes that we refer to as narcasists.
People with true emotions and feelings are clustering confused we call ourselves empaths because we have empathy and kindness
We feel different because we are.....we are souls on earth the matrix amongst other "humans" born without souls that are just here to bulk out
This is why the population increased to vastly It was the birth of IA !
I bet there's likely to be 6 or 7 narcs to one soul
Hahahahahah😂 so true... Zoning out omg its a havoc... Even the tiniest of communication.
never be flattered by a hoover
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Let the narcisist do what they do, think what they think but STAY AWAY FROM ME! Thank you 🙏 Andrew . God bless you ❤
No matter how much they take, they will always run out, and we can always make more.
Cold rainy weather is the best!
Thank you, Andrew!
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They are bottomless pit!
Part of the difficulty in ending these toxic relationships is something called 'the sunk cost fallacy'.
The sunk cost fallacy is our tendency to continue with an endeavor we've invested money, effort, or time into-even if the current costs outweigh the benefits. And while the term sounds like technical jargon, it's a common decision-making pitfall in both life and business.
Keep fighting.
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So true! I was determined to see him through university as a mature student because I'd already given up so much to get him through, at great cost to myself in every way. I wanted him to achieve his goal and not have another failed journey in his life. We got there... and then started the discard right after he graduated. Unbelievable!
@@emmashaw8733Disgusting of him! Good for your perseverance, even under those circumstances. I hope you are past him now
I love how brutally honest you are. You don’t sugar coat a thing. You’re helping me through a tough time right now. You are awesome!!
I agree great advice and help Andrewis a God send 🙏
Oh I’m done, no matter what they say, my former friend of 50 years and she is a terrible, vicious, vindictive sociopath. I want nothing to do with her.
the narcissistic boss is insecure and jealous of the employee and the employees knowledge and abilities. The narcissistic boss will have you do jobs you shouldn’t be doing but they know you will get it done and they will shine.
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This is true! They are jealous of you! I have experienced this several times in my career (read, many) and then had a spell of a few years where I had a self-confident, kind and supportive boss and I just loved my job beside this person. Then, she quit and moved away and a new boss replaced her. Another jealous boss who twisted and turned to try to get me to do jobs outside of my contract that were harmful to me, and she threatened my job if I wouldn't take them. What did I do? I decided to retire early. Just LEAVE. Never again will I put up with that. I'm doing just fine without that job and she must've had to just scratch her head, amazed she lost a great employee who would not do her bidding.
I’ve experienced this very recently. Was recovering from financial ruin caused by covert narc ex, got myself off welfare and a new job, only to be on the receiving end of a toxic covert narc boss. Bad luck for me but also have learned a lot of lessons
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Now all alone family is gone , but I’m definitely not complaining the peace is such a blessing
I’m getting ready to go NC with mom and 2 brothers. I’m 68 years old and found out I was the adult scapegoat my adult life! I’ve tried all these years to try to make them love me, but that will never happen. The golden child, my younger brother, always wins. I’m tired of this effed up family dynamic. I never realized what was happening until this late in late. I’m sad at the years I’ve wasted trying to make people love me. I’m outta here. Anyway, by “gone” do you mean passed away or No Contact? Thanks and best wishes! 🌸🌻🌹
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still tough right
@@JodyFidelis Hi Jody 🙏🏼🌹 I’m 62 I finally figured it out because of Andrew
2 1/2 years ago I went no contact with my narcissist mother after she killed my dad , everyone else followed her thats when I found out I was the Empath scapegoat, my daughters , brother all cut me loose , they can have her , so many horrible memories so much abuse mentally and physically she is not a good person.
Blessings to you I hope you too find your peace 🙏🏼🕊️🌹
@JodyFidelis I, too, found out late in life. I was 62. I'm almost 64 with nothing or no one to show for my years of hard work, dedication, and loyalty, which were all destroyed by my narcissistic family of origin and then by my narcissistic immedate family.
Nevertheless, we find out when we find out. Finding out late is better than never finding out and I believe it happens when it happens for a Good Reason.
Keep the faith, stay strong, and do your best to keep moving forward. It's not easy but it's for the best which is what I wish for you on your new journey.
Took 2 months to figure out my narc now full on No Contact and changed my bank account completly even changed my locks. Thank God she lives 160 miles from me
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She had a man with a great job fairly nice car and full of love and I caught her vibe the first time I told her No. Now I'm empowered and much more self aware for the next demon
@@Venom_741Exactly. They're the nicest people until you say "no" to them. That's when their true color shows 😱
They are demons in human skin. I finally broke away from him. I had to change my number because he was harassing me on my phone no matter how many blocks I put. The effect these devils have on us can be devastating. Thank you for the information.❤❤❤❤
My narc husband chose me because of my strength, character and popularity, all what he wasn't. Lent him credibility. Throw kindness, generosity, giving to a fault and believing the best about him, he hit the jackpot! I had a prestigious job also in the beginning. We know why they chose us. Love you Andrew, so much!! I knew there was something broken, but no vocabulary words known then. Immature emotionally, "stuck" I used to say. Cold.
my experience too
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This is so true they TAKE, TAKE TAKE...and give the bare minimun. Highly manipulators they promise to fail you over and over. Very draining.
You were on fire today, Andrew I love you so much
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The narcissist thinks thoughts only to serve their purpose & use you to benefit their outcome.
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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These people are very greedy for money ..........
They're greedy, they screw people out of money left and right, but so many of them live like shit. Where does the money even go?
I love that you reclaimed the rain! I reclaimed my love for flowers and gardening. And biking at the park! This year it is just the front yard! Next year my goal is the backyard too! You know someone really went through narcissistic abuse when they know that even walking and getting outside for a few steps could be almost impossible. I love that you encourage getting outside and just taking a little walk. I remember when I couldn’t even walk out the front door or walk around the block. It has taken almost 2 years of healing but I on my way! Thanks for your videos Andrew. I am on my way to the mountain top of indifference. One step at a time. ❤
Thank you for sharing..💯💯😌💜🙏🚶🏻♀️⛰️
I have my trees and plants 🌱 and I talk to them when I’m taking care of them
That sky is so black !! The impact of their destruction is wide spread and wide felt. I'm ashamed my children had to see me so distressed. That's why he is gone forever, toxic poisonous individual. Freedom 💜
evening andrew yay night video😊🌚😂
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I was caught in a narcissistic relationship, I was about to get trapped in another, even worse than the previous. The new one is more sadistic than the previous one. Very annoying, every goodness he turns into hell, bully, very rich and bad, spoiled, liar, cunning, a predator. Thank you very much for your content, you give me wisdom every day. Love you Andrew!
Yes. Cruel, heartless thirsty little critters
"The narcissist wants what they don't have, and when they have it, they dont Want it". Perfectly said.
Love the rain 🌧️🥰
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Yes this I told him: 1,5 year ago…. Just stay away from me, stay out of my life! He provoked this reverse discard! But when this words came out of my fingertips. They were the last one that he read of me! And I meant it!! This time It was for ever game over! I am proud I made it!!!
I can’t believe I went through all that. She send the most rudest text at the end that attempted to rip apart my faith and manhood
Hey Andrew!!! Just preparing to go to bed and didn’t think there was going to be a video today. Pleasant surprise 🙌☺️🥰😘❤️💜❤️💜
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Amen to this! I will rise and find a relationship with a healthy attachment 🫶🏼
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Oh, the community reached 200,000! Wow! 🎉
Also been through narcissistic devastation.
After a nine year marriage I finally woke up when my Narc wife told me she didn't want a family, I was 49 she was 43. I had no choice but to file for divorce. She seemed to be fair through the negotiations process but when she realised that there was no way back she raged like a demon, canceled negotiations and filed for the courts showing an interest in my parents' family home and my pensions. Then she went on holiday the next day.
I nearly beat the narcissist through educating myself through great UA-cam footage like Andrews, but the UK family courts do not recognise NPD instead they empower the Narc even when red flags are flying High and don't question bad behaviour or their destructive actions.
No questions asked.
This then enables the cruel, greedy narc to succeed in their evil ways.
They awarded her money and assets that she did purchase. No child divorce. Absolutely devastating.
UK Family Courts are archaic and are destroying good peoples lives but they have no interest
in fixing the system.
Never tell your Narc your worst nightmare because they will make it come true.
I'm now going out for a walk.
The mind manipulation never seems to end with these creatures great video Andrew. 🦁🐲🐦🔥💥
Working on my exit plan. Your daily videos keep me sane. Thank you Andrew 💜🙏🏻
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Thank you for your consistent kindness Andrew. ❤️🌷
Thank you for the encouragement to go no contact. I blocked him after his last text new years eve. Court in 25 days!!! Yay!
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Nice to see you tonight Andrew. I was about to go to sleep. Goodnight 😴💜
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GOOD morning from France Andrew,, we are All on fifferent Time Zones🤣🙏🇫🇷🌎🌒I know All the Facts of the Narc's/ thinking!! Thanks to you!!It is the first nighttime visit from you!! Love the night sounds!! Have a great sleep!! 🙏💯❤️
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Read this today from Armie Hammer... When you give up all of of the things that you think define who you are, or make you what you think. you are and you no longer have those things it forces you to leave the external and study the internal and find out who you really are.
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Just looked down at my devise and saw I sent this at 11:11.
Yes, they do lie a lot. And the Narc made fun of my natural hair, but he didn't have any hair, he always wore a hat lol, until he got comfortable to show me his bald head. Then he started asking me about how much my weight was. Yes, I love rainy days too. I'm on day 2 of healing. Thank you.
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My narc started to talk crap about my house. When he was living with his parents with no house. I pointed out how ridiculous he was. I’m in the middle of trying to get out right now.
Hey Andrew, I’ve been 6 months out of the relationship and back and forth ALOT on my healing journey. And one thing that’s helped is your daily videos, believe it or not, I wake up first thing and play your video here in Australia because otherwise the negative self talk sets in, thanks so much for the daily encouragement, I really look forward to it everyday. May you feel and see the fruit of your labour.
⚡️ couldn’t tell if it was the moon shining or lightning 🌩️
Glad you’re enjoying your favorite things 🙏 great message 💎 💖
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for sure they wear a mask and change it depending on what they think will fit the best at that moment. It is interesting to watch that but it is kind of sad they are stuck in that type of life. I love the rain and nature too. Hiking helps me with anxiety.
I too love the rain. Always have, always will. Love Mother Nature too. It gives me peace. Thank you Andrew. You keep me going each & every day. ☔☔☔
Great video Andrew!!
The rain is a sign that tells us to slow down, and look within.
I am so much better at doing that now. When we were in Central America I couldn't look within. All I could do was look for a way out.
When you heal and find peace again you are able to look within yourself for the right answers for you. Rain or Shine.
Wishing everyone clarity and peace..
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Thank you Chaz 👍🌦
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100% TRUTH definitely “cowards and bullies”
I believe it is a fishing game to the narc…I want to see if I can catch this person and see how far I can get away with putting them through control and manipulation. I want to see I can get them back after no contact so I can turn around and slam dunk them in pain like never before.
Any tiny bit of exposure to a narc is toxic poison, even more so after no contact.
Another NARCdaily classic, Andrew, thank you for providing the truth and wisdom. 🙏🏻
Enjoyed the night atmosphere and night sounds. God bless you all ✝️🙏🏻🕊️💜🌿🌷🪺🦋🌲☀️
Hi Sweetie...enjoy the day 💥🙏❤
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I tried so hard to make it through just one day without a catastrophe, couldn’t do it. It was so depressing to stay in that and finally I broke it off! It was devastating to me because I wanted a normal, sweet, kind, comfortable, loving person! Wow was I wrong. But the best thing was I found Andrew and the wisdom of the NPD. Awesome!
What a great video! The hard truth! Thank you Andrew.
I didn't realise my Mum is a narcissist until recently. I feel so betrayed. I've gone no contact and are working on myself to find out who I really am. I'm exhausted, but I'm free.
These people are like ticks.
I can related to that feeling. The ex narc tried the Hoovers. I get tired just being near him. Lesson learned 💯🙏
@@hongtruong4576 I wish you well. Take care.
What a fucking nightmare trip, that just keeps giving… fuck me, a couple of months out - not crying every day, but still working through this mountain of bs… THANK YOU Andrew, FUCK THIS DEMON - has to be, who else PURPOSEFULLY does this evil shit… God keep & guide all truthseekers🙏🕊️❤️🌻
Who else purposely does this demonic shit??????........….my mother! You are on the right track......tread slowly!!!!!
After my oldest brother died, I went back to the old neighborhood. Everyone was gone and thats when I decided to confront my next older brother who is a narc as well as the dead one. I didnt even know what narcissism was, but when I confronted him, he picked up a butcher knife. I wanted him to answer for the crap he did to me all my life...WOW. I wish I had done this forty years ago. I went no contact. People, you do not know just how powerful ghosting is. It shook my brother to the core. I hope I never see him again. I gave him a million chances if I gave him one. Thank you Andrew for reinforcing what I have learned the hard way..... Never again.
Great lyrics and amazing backing vocals.
we are first, second and third per Andrew! That keeps me going.❤
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P.s. Stale from the Beginning,,but sugar coated ,you hit the truth there Andrew,t.y.👏👍❤️❤️
We or and I appreciate you Andrew 🌹😎
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As usual, word for word, exactly my situation. Always knew something was really wrong, I just couldn't put words to it... and my heart was open and vulnerable. I felt like I was too far in for it to fail. I had given too much for it to fail... but eventually I ended it. I had finally taken all the hurt I could take, especially when my career, that took me 13 years to build, was threatened.
There is a loneliness epidemic going on, I think.
No wonder they need supply. just Hearing about them exhausts me. I got so tired of being ridden like a work horse. they co-opt your Law of Attraction Vortex into theirs. This is why it is so important that we get away from them. They can't plug in anymore. And mastering Silence is very tough for me as a theatre major and a singer, but Andrew's right. Learn disciplined silence. The Narco-hog did so that they could destroy you, but your silence will terrify them. Getting a little more free everyday!
And the more you heal, the more ludicrous their eventual hoover attempts look to you. :( They really are desperate parasites at the core. Never accept a hoover. They treat you worse afterwards, because you've already committed narcissistic injury, just by being yourself. They are like children. If they feel hurt, that must mean SOMEONE ELSE (because no accountability, right?) made them hurt, and if you're the closest person around, YOU must have been the one who hurt them. It's so primitive, it's like a cartoon, once you are away, and you can see how insane their logic (or lack thereof) is. I'm glad you got out!
@@mvbigmagic4048 Thank you! They're still after me, but I made a huge leap after that Hurricane Ian. You know exactly what we're all talking about here.
@@mvbigmagic4048 Oh gosh, me too. They're still trying to hunt me down (I moved into an RV to more effectively hide my whereabouts), but they're stupid. If they come here, I'm just calling the police. I'm from a big nest of them. Appalachia.
Andrew out here doing videos in the night like the Narc Slayer 💗 & I like the change of setting. Dark & sounds of Mother Nature . Thanks for this night time video
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Good evening Andrew 😊
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While watching the video it started to rain here, thunder included 😂 Thanx again for the daily powerboost Andrew! 💪🏼
It’s as you say it! This is a new life after understanding what happened. It changed everything!
nice night video cool critter ambience
I love being outside and taking my daily walks. The sound of the katydids in the background is so soothing. 😊
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Like my husband says, "it's easier to ask forgiveness than to ask permission".....makes sense for a narcissist, doesn't it.
Not sure about that one, they are always the victims 🤣🤣🤣
❤❤❤Much love and The Fathers blessings to you !👍🏻🔥
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It's to bad that they are so wicked and hell is full of people like that!
Those crickets that are cricketing in the background are the sounds of summer 🙂.. interesting that you say it’s highly likely a narc will physically stay wherever they are.. I feel this is somewhat true.. and relocating if possible is the best option.. but that there are other narcs that will up and leave themselves too.. as you say “they’re off galavanting the globe”.. but wherever they are they’ll still boost their egos to supply sources and smear you to people who don’t even know you.. ironically, yes, in recent months I actually identified just how toxic some prior workplaces of mine really were.. I realise I was manipulated in subtle ways.. nice night time video.. and very powerful message at the end.. you made me cry when you talk about the rain and overcoming your love for it being taken away.. you give me hope because I’m concerned about so many things I like becoming triggers.. and if it’s not safe to record outside in the rain.. I’m sure no one will mind 🙂.. thank you for sharing and thank you for this video 💜🪻☂️☂️
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Exceptionally great video today amazing job Andrew ❤
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Great video Thankyou
Makes a lot of sense to me
Love nature❤
"Heaven knows I never promised to be an angel
But I suppose I needed someone to protect
Then you chose to give the universe an ultimatum
Because your truth wasn’t accommodating
What did you expect?"
-Walking Papers
They Hoover via kids. It takes months and months for them to be rejected until they realize they can’t manipulate you anymore. I did therapy, recorded all his interactions helped me to listen how manipulating he was! Helped me cleared my mindset of what I was dealing with.
10 Things The Narcissist Was Thinking:
1. "They are going to be my slave forever!"
2. "They are someone that I can take advantage of."
3. "They have the resources that I think I deserve."
4. "They won't know what hit them after I leave."
5. "They will never figure me out."
6. "They are in too deep to ever see through my mask."
7. "They are forever bonded to me."
8. "They will never see a way out."
9. "They don't have the strength to leave me."
10. "They will never be able to pick up the pieces of their life and become stronger after our relationship ends."
Thank you dear Andrew from Germany 😢❤
Another wonderfully insightful video, Andrew.
I love what you said about the narcassist wanting what they don't have.. When they have it, they don't want it.
It made my day.
Have a lovely day or evening.
These videos are helping my hindsight improve my foresight.
She was thinking, he's stupid, he's and idiot, I can really take advantage of him, and he's so stupid for working for nothing,
Thanks man. Been a crazy summer, for the NARC it seems they are so happy after backstabbing and hurting people. Seems to be the way people make it sucsseful these days
Please everyone, if you got away, never go back, you are the lucky one. The avuse is worse when you go back.
Andrew..
YOU ARE A PURE INSPIRATION NO LESS !
Biggest hugs from me.. thank you so much!
Thank You Andrew! You are the best teacher. Namaste to you 🙏💜💐
My ex’s mantra . The great white narc……” I can do anything I want to as long as i’m careful I don’t get caught” and that means anything
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“Love is not pretending”
100% correct.
Nice background for the video.
Oh Andrew. Oh my. You share so much and very personal things,, and it’s very helpful. To know that you HAVE BEEN THERE. AND ARE USING YOUR EXPERIENCE TO
HELP us all. Since I’ve been listening?? Outdoors more!! I daily put a mist thing on my hose, drape it in a branch, to see the birds come get relief. We are in a massive long heat wave,, it threatened to close me up inside,, but no!! I refuse!! My little dog I call my “ assistant”,, we go places together outside,, to enjoy nature, exercise,, and shine. Shine our new light. Thank you thank you thankyou one thousand times. ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Andrew!!!!!!! Love you so much!! We can always count on you!!!!!!! 😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️
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Kids dad is narcissist, they turn 18 in 6 months and we are both changing our names! My kid got brave enough to tell him they werent welcome at abt age 13 and i have never been so proud of anyone! when i began to feel like i could move forward & feel free, here came the workplace narcissistic bully & i ended up without a job bec my boss was enamoured with him. But maybe it was the best thing ever to get free of that place.... We can always look for the doors that open when spirit closes that damaging door behind us!
I’m loving the rain here in the Belgian Ardennes, too. Greetings from Marron, my dog, too. He knows your voice by now and is sleeping like a baby
💯 truth how these people are and what they do……
Everything youve said Andrew,i knew,more or less,all along.As a college educated woman,who was raised with abuse,saw it during my profession as a CNA in various nursing homes,as well as private residences,im appalled@myself now,that i ever fell for this.I.fell for a sob story, dragging my children into it,as well as my family.Now,after loosing my immediate family to unexplained deaths,and cancer,i myself am the lone target of a madman.My health deteriorated 💯in this marriage.He never cared.Now,trapped,in the end stages of cancer,i 🙏🙏🙏🙏he disappears,GOD BLESS US ALL
I’m beginning to unravel what was done in my late family and people I’ve encountered. One said “I’ve done favors for you”. I think she was BPD. Yes! Andrew is right when the best thing they had was you. Another said “once a liar, always a liar”. One I was with for several years said to me recently, “I guess you made a mistake” as he’s with someone new several years and this week moved back to his home country. I suspect he lined up the new partner and set up our breakup totally unbeknownst to me. I now realize I have no friends and relatives are strangers. Your work colleague analogy is true too as I believe I was set up with work overload for eventual termination. Every word you state is true Andrew!!! Thx.
So true! Blessings❤️
Thank you for the beautiful videos Andrew❤️
Congratulations💜🤗🙏
Truthful wisdom thank you
Thank you Andrew
"I reclaimed the rain." I so relate to that! I have always loved nature, too, and the moon and the stars, but the narcissist used his knowledge of astronomy and nature to hoover people, and it all became HIS realm and not mine. I would be alone on full moon nights and think, "where is he? we should be together?" but he was off doing what he was doing and had many excuses. I began feeling sad about nature and about the full moon. Sad and lonely because I felt we should be sharing this but we weren't. He knew how I felt about this but did nothing. He would let me feel that pain. Well, after I finally broke free from him, I made the conscious choice to RECLAIM the moon and reclaim nature. I now celebrate the solstices and equinoxes, the full moons, and I get out in nature as often as I can to feel its abundance, life and love. I took it back!
This was my situation. The entire family was toxic and manipulative (I was even used an excuse by father to pick up and get one-night stands back when I was a child), only to be minimized and gaslit by my mother. It is a joke of the highest order.
The worst part was that I was groomed (by both parents) over the years to follow and even advocated for them.
They took my time, and my health (I suffered a stroke a little over two months ago- both parents made my circumstance about THEM and only about them), and my time to suit their needs.
Many of the points mentioned in the video apply to me, especially the rage fits over the years and manipulation.
They thought we would never level up!
Thank you, Andrew! Reclaim the rain - wonderful for you 🌼