Bob is highly communicative, warm, verbally limber, empathetic, learned, charismatic, and conceptually organized for an introverted loner. Very impressive, valuable, and uplifting. God bless.
I'm an introvert usually. However, having a unusual ailment that has prevented me from leaving and being on the road for almost 1 1/2 years. I feel very stuck. I do love watching and listening to a few folks online and YOU BOB are my favorite. Much love to you.
Getting a dog really helped me. Not for everyone perhaps but worked for me. Just be certain your able and willing to take on the responsibility. A healthy happy dog is a great companion. A well trained and properly exercised dog is a great friend to have.
I agree. I can call and text my friends but now I dont feel obligated I have an excuse, not drinking, eating less, cooking, reading, doing repairs. But I do have a cat....very important...never lonely.
I delivered for Uber during the safer at home time and it was some of the best months ever, no traffic, quiet, peaceful, and I enjoyed providing a service to people. I don't deliver anymore because the way people drive in traffic makes me crazy. So many angry people! I've been around for quite some time & the attitudes of drivers have definitely changed.
I learned years ago that there is a big difference between being lonely and being alone. I learned how to be my own best friend. And of course having a dog beside you works! Loneliness is a state of mind. You can change your own mindset if you really want to.
Another loner here for 70 years now, more or less. Enjoy my own company, enjoy art, science, philosophy, genuine ...if rare... company, my dogs, fitness, my motorcycles, travel, the desert, the tropics, beauty in all its manifestations.
I think having a pet to love and take care of cancels some of the need for human companionship. I'm much more comfortable with my cat than I am with human beings.
Its normal for even nomadic people to crave a tribe. Humans are communal by nature. Bob may say he loves being alone..meanwhile he has created a community for himself and is filling himself with his youtube community. He is not doing an "alone" life....he is just not doing alot of proximity to other human bodies
You really nailed it, Bob. Solitude is where I feel happiest, truly content and anxiety free. I enjoy company very infrequently, but it's in solitude where my batteries are charged. Be well and safe travels!!
When I first retired I had a constant nagging feeling I should be doing something, didn't know what. After 2 1/2 years it disappeared. Now all is great.
I grew up out in the country an only child so I learned at an early age how to occupy myself. I had my animals and still prefer them to most people. I've been widowed since 2011 and I'm fine with just me and my two dogs. Bob I know exactly what you mean about thriving during this time. Nothing has really changed for me either. Stay safe
Janet, same here! I enjoy my own company. I actually have less anxiety now that no one is trying to make me socialize. But I think we are in the minority.
Those of us who are introverts Love This! No scheduled activities even at this campground means I don't have to feel guilty not attending things - like potlucks with food that isn't on my gluten-free diet, etc. For fun, my little dog and I go to a middle school track and 'walk laps'. Yes, this Social Distancing time works great for me. I'm also writing more! 😊. I do have neighbors who are as you described and they can't stay away from each other. Thankfully, I'm not included!
Randyl J I guess I'm an introvert because I have no problem staying at home. It's odd because at work I'm really quite social. I do have a dog and a cat so I suppose that helps (still have the routine of feeding the animals and taking them outside). Stay healthy and safe. 😊
Look at that mountain over your shoulder Bob! Magnificent! Nearly finished my cargo van conversion and I've got you to thank for all the inspiration. Love all your videos. 💛
A really great video Bob and I agree with everything you say. If people can't be alone for a few days or a week and that causes severe anxiety they need to look inside and figure out what is causing their angst. Having a Calm Mind and being alone go hand-in-hand.
I'm staying with a relative in southern Cal. Right when all this began he was out of town in Hawaii and had the place to myself for a week. It was the most peaceful and amazing time ever now hes back and I hate it I think I'm just gonna get in my truck camper and go hang in the hills
I would suggest for those that are lonely, write your feelings in a journal. Getting them on the page helps with those loops in your mind. Also, you can examine those feelings. I've done this even though I'm an introvert.
Vagabond_Rob, great idea. This could be a very useful practice for many people. Time to look inside and see who we really are compared to who we think we are. Stay safe!
I love the way you address sensitive issues, Bob. "Faced with our feelings, thoughts, hearts..." in times like these. How rare it is to have a UA-cam personality be REAL about what people are going through. For me, going on the road during Covid 19 was a needed shift after 5 years of too much self isolation processing much loss. Being alone with myself (especially with the background of a songwriter since childhood) has been a natural and embraced part of my life. BALANCE, however is super important for me. Quiet, alone time AN social, engaging community/tribe and expanding the circle time with meeting new people....super important. Thanks, Bob for your uplifting conversations.
Very well put Bob, I'm with you, I could be out where you are for weeks and not miss people at all, still saving for my van. Be safe man, love your videos
Freedom is worth more than security. With freedom, there is a lack of loneliness. Freedom is worth more than practically everything. And you are a living example of this, Bob. At any rate, it is the very best of social distancing.
Bob I love your videos. I completely under stand being in heaven nature alone. I also have social anxiety. But at home I am getting lots done. Stay safe.
Thank you for this video Bob. I never watch "live" due to data limits and limited power to recharge phone/laptop. I am also an introvert and a nomad. I would like to share a personal observation. I notice some anxiety and depression creeping up on me, since it has become necessary to isolate, distance, etc In addition to being an introvert I am a compassionate person. My social interactions are generally related to either working for pay or volunteer work. I figured out that one of the emotions I have been feeling is guilt. I am in a beautiful warm place in Canada. (no kidding). My friends, family and the vast majority of Canadians are not enjoying the spring blossoms, green grass, etc. I felt so guilty I was unable to feel joy for a few days. I was a "news" junkie, devouring pandemic news until my heart and soul just couldn't produce joy. I've limited my exposure to news to a very few moments each day. I've learned that I don't want to live without joy. I am grateful for the opportunity to be alive in a world that is for the most part beautiful. My advise, get outside, feel the air, cold or warm it sustains life. Listen for the sounds of birds, wind, water, rain, etc. Touch the ground, make a snow ball, rake your fingers through the dirt. Welcome joy into your heart. Be kind to yourself. Be mindful and practice gratitude.
It's great to have video chat at least. I'm an empty nester. I go outside just to see life: people & nature, to feel the weather, to feel a part of the world. I hate living in a box alone.
I'm 25, I've always been a loner ever since I was a little girl. I'm more nervous of crowns and I'm nervous to go to the grocery store. I ran out of fruits and vegetables. I've been seeing videos of evil people intentionally spreading the virus and that is so sick. I pray everyone is safe and sound and to do your best to lower your stress levels. It weakens your immune system. God bless, stay safe and nurture your health on all levels.🌻
Ive been utterly and completely alone in a gorgeous 2,500 sq ft home for over one year. After a failed suicide attempt, no one really knew how to process what had happened or knew how to ask why I felt as if my life had become so meaningless. Once I was released from the psychiatric icu, I was left alone. All alone. In due time, I developed agoraphobia, which on top of clinical depression & psychosis was devastating. It wasn’t even the first time I wanted to die, but the first time God sent a Red Fox who saved me. That’s a pretty profound story. I know a little of your story of recovering from your painful divorce (I’m sorry). What I’m feeling now is the difference between choosing to be alone and having to be alone. Suddenly and without warning, I will be alone for perhaps another year. I love my own company, but I’ve had enough. Unlike you, I’m feeling the strong desire to be with others, simply bc I haven’t even had a visitor in my home for so long. Enjoy your isolation. I can see that it’s rejuvenating you and I’m happy for that🙂💜
Halleluja. So glad you have time to be completely alone, at ease, kick back and drink in the spaciousness of the desert. 🌼🌼 so HAPPY for your time off.🐾just animal tracks, plants🌱the moon🌛the sun🌞 and P e a c e!
Its been a while since I watched one of your videos. A lot of us are used to be around other people and its hard to be by your self. But it's good in away to take some time off be a lone and value your self and be more independent. Take care, thank you for the video
In my life experience, being alone has been safer than being with people. I think it can go both ways. That said, I moved to a small town in order to have the best of both worlds, time alone and time with people. But I agree that this a such a great time to go within. I am also enjoying the silence and the absence of fast moving lives. There is a quietude now that is deeply soothing. Meditation helps tune into that peace.
Bless you Bob you are teaching all of the time. We are taught as a race that it is not normal to be or enjoy being alone. SO comforting to hear about people thriving when alone.
I truly believe there are a lot more folks out there that love solitude, and we are a couple of them! We go for long hikes in wildlife management areas, and were usually alone, maybe see 1 or 2 people. Love it!
People don't believe when I say I'm not lonely. I'm happy with my own company. I do gardening, I have my laptop and crafts. They keep me busy. I do miss being outside and going for a walk. But I'm self-isolating here in the UK.
I don’t understand why people think they can’t go outside... I’ve been sitting in the sun every chance I get for vit. D. Listening to the birds and feeling the sun on my face, the breeze through my hair...it lifts any lonely or depressed feeling I may get. ❤️ I’m not living as a nomad, but I live in a beautiful place, my view is trees and sky. Just outside a small town full of artists of all kinds. I’ve lived it here since the 70’s.
Very good Bob!!! I guess as we get older fears come up of becoming alone because of tragic events happening in our lives.. Death of a spouse, children. I think keeping busy with what one really loves to do such as traveling and seeing beauty that God provided for us to see is my happiness. But during this stay home it is a bit over whelming... Sunday drives for instance can become a Tuesday Drive.. it did for us this week.. So that did help us being confined to home.
Amen!!! So much truth here. I'm more of an introvert like you. And I found myself "needing" people instead of wanting people. So I did that soul searching and found out I need to deal with people on my terms, and I've come to terms with being alone and not so much lonely. I do get lonely sometimes, of course, and as long as I can be around people on my terms only, I'm okay and don't get anxiety. Right now I'm stuck at my folks' house and I hate it. I love them but they get on my nerves, and can't go to the places I'm used to escaping to because I have to take care of them. It's hard...I'm grateful for everything they've done for me, and I'm glad to help back in a mental way, but emotionally? I'm crying out to be free....
So well said ! 👍😊 Self-reflection is a good starting point. 🔗 Start journaling. Transform loneliness into solitude. Remember, the most important relationship you will ever have in your entire life is the relationship with yourself.
I don't have any problem being alone, and english is not my natural language, but I enjoy your company. What I like most probably is that you speak with a real good intention and after a deep thought. Thank you sir.
As a shy person I was alone alot and only had 1 best friend In high school , my best friend shunned me due to a rumor. It was hard being alone. But I'm used to it now I have my animals to keep me company,
I have always enjoyed being alone. I love people and being social, but on my terms. I love ME and have always been my best friend. I have never been lonely or bored Learned this many years ago when I was trapped in the mountains for several months without seeing another human being
This video really spoke to me. You captured the strengths of an introvert in a way that is empowering. Thanks for being so straightforward and real. Stay healthy and safe! 😊
Some absolutely great advice Bob! I think most ,if not many, of our problems, come down to our own thinking. What you think you become, seems obviously true.
I am a loner. I lived in the mountains in Northern New Mexico in a cabin for 2 years....I LOVE being alone,although I never feel alone,there is too much going on in and around me. Great video,bro.
The introverts aren’t in a panic😊 this social distancing no problem. Boredom occurs when we limit our imagination, not because we lack one. Bob great points on why many people struggle with being alone. Agree, many disguise being social as escape to soothe from dealing with their inner struggles.
You have nailed it again, Bob! Thank you for this informative video. A few more thoughts here. I was born and raised in the USA, but spent many years in Europe. My parents were legal immigrants into the US after the Hungarian Revolution - 1956. They were bombed out. They had nothing when they escaped Hungary. We had nothing when we were raised in the US except for "love". As we grew into adulthood, we recognized how much society is influenced by mass consumerism to a fault. A majority of friendships and unfortunately family relations are dependent on this consumer based mentality and our work ethic from 9 to 5. When the benefits of consumerism evades a certain relation, the friendship seemingly ends. I've found that most Americans truely do not have good friendships as a result of this. They are more prone to have solitary lives even though they may believe they have true friends. Because European countries for the most part relied on each other for centuries, people have healthy relations with their family, kin folk and true friendships as well. In the US, it is almost "customary" for people to "own" pets; dogs and cats. Europeans as well, but they do not rely on them as partners when loneliness presents itself. It takes much time to harness a tried and true friend which will ultimately last a lifetime. I am an introvert, but not by choice. I prefer the relations of people where friendships are not hinged on the "stuff" we own or our careers. It's an inside job. There is a certain "spirit" within the nomad life where people seem to "drop their cares". They seem to rely more on each other than city dwellers. The friendships as a result are more meaningful. People are less apt to be lonely in a caravan.
Today is 8-7-24 and I'm just now commenting on this good video. It's nice to see you Bob, talking about things that are always in our minds. Nice scenery around you! Hope you enjoyed your time there . Friends being concerned about friends. Thanks from Central Oklahoma
Very insightful video. I've just been through four weeks with ZERO conversation as this virus situation has played out. Alone is great, no community whatsoever sucks. As does living in FL - lol
Hi Bob! I'm right there with you on enjoying my own company. I enjoy the company of others but also need that alone time to "recharge my batteries". During this quarantine, everyone else is going stir crazy at home while staying home for me, watching tv and doing hobbies is what I love. Keep up the mental and spiritual self care. And thanks for sharing and helping others. You're an awesome person 💝
Amen Bob .. People needs to find what they deem sacred and/or God .. Then grow a relationship .. Stress, anxiety and loneliness fades away .. Love your videos .. And can't wait to volunteer for HOWA one day .. It's an Amazing Blessed Organization !! ❤❤❤❤
I am neither introvert nor extrovert, but I live with 3 chinchillas, a cat and a bunny, in a studio; I help outdoor cat colonies, and I tend to think that being 17 mos. clean and sober it's normal, during this time, to feel like wanting to cry on someones' shoulder. Thank goodness for Zoom meetings! And thank you, Bob, for caring so much for everyone.
I like the Universe philosophy. Hard to be lonely today with FaceTime, internet, books, movies, UA-cam, etc, etc. Doable for a couple of weeks but then the interaction with someone face to face is needed. Miss going to my dance classes.
Absolutely no loneliness for me at all. Self isolation is the norm for me anyway. I do miss being able to go out as usual but that's about it. Bob, you've got it made... being out in beautiful nature with peace and quiet and Cody... sounds like heaven to me. Be safe and well. God bless!!
I love my solitude! And, your videos Bob, help me not to be lonely. Thanks for showing all the beauty there is to be seen in nature. Don't forget to show Cody so that we can say hello to him too.
Looks like a nice place to be, Bob. I agree with you about the fear aspect. People who are comfortable with themselves, healthy in mind, body and spirit are less likely to have a problem with solitary times. In fact, they embrace them, look forward to them because it is when they have the opportunity to think about and do the things that fulfill them. If, however, someone is struggling especially their physical health, maybe they have an ailment, for example, then they might become concerned, anxious, fearful at a time when the help they need or feel like they need is unavailable as a result of circumstances like what we have now. They feel cut off from what is normally part of their normal life line.
Thank you Bob for all of your help with loneliness. I too would prefer to be alone. Unfortunately I cant right now. I will be on the road as soon as I am able . Thank you for all of your videos. I enjoy all I find. Be safe be well.
Can so relate to this, I've been a van dweller going on twenty years and the times when I feel the most alone is when I'm around other people. I take great comfort in solitude and having no one to answer to but myself.
I must concur about being alone. We've built a compound out in the new Mexican desert. Taken over 10 years to build. Still a work in progress! But the solitude is priceless. Like you I thrive in "desolation "!
I work 12 hour shifts. I have a coworker who loves to talk to people. I couldn't believe it, but one day I watched her talk for the entire 12 hours. She is a nice person with 2 kids and a husband. She told me that she can't stand being alone and not interacting with other people. She says that interacting with other people energizes her. I am just the opposite. I like people, but I can only take just so much. It exhausts me having to engage with others too long. I love being by myself. It reenergizes me.
It can be lonelier to be around a person who ignores you than to be alone. I learned this from a therapist while I was married.
You needed a therapist to tell you that?
Introverts are THRIVING!☺
....and the meek shall inherit the earth....
YES!!!
Bob I am proudly a native Canadian. Lived in Phoenix for 8 years.i am now benefitting from the HT ppsyouta. I want to help others.get back to me
I am on a pension. I can go help
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Bob is highly communicative, warm, verbally limber, empathetic, learned, charismatic, and conceptually organized for an introverted loner. Very impressive, valuable, and uplifting.
God bless.
I'm an introvert usually. However, having a unusual ailment that has prevented me from leaving and being on the road for almost 1 1/2 years. I feel very stuck. I do love watching and listening to a few folks online and YOU BOB are my favorite. Much love to you.
Getting a dog really helped me. Not for everyone perhaps but worked for me. Just be certain your able and willing to take on the responsibility. A healthy happy dog is a great companion. A well trained and properly exercised dog is a great friend to have.
i love being alone.. this quarantine thing is the best thing to ever happen to me
Yes! Please make me stay home!
I agree. I can call and text my friends but now I dont feel obligated I have an excuse, not drinking, eating less, cooking, reading, doing repairs. But I do have a cat....very important...never lonely.
I delivered for Uber during the safer at home time and it was some of the best months ever, no traffic, quiet, peaceful, and I enjoyed providing a service to people. I don't deliver anymore because the way people drive in traffic makes me crazy. So many angry people! I've been around for quite some time & the attitudes of drivers have definitely changed.
Yass introvert here
I feel the exact same way!
I learned years ago that there is a big difference between being lonely and being alone. I learned how to be my own best friend. And of course having a dog beside you works! Loneliness is a state of mind. You can change your own mindset if you really want to.
Mary O I have a cat. That works as well.
Right at this moment while I’m watching Bob I have my dog on my left leg and my cat on my right 😁
When I feel lonely I watch Bob's videos. Seems to help quite a bit. Thanks Bob!
I'm a true loner. I always have been. It's a gift.
same here
Me to,dont ya love it✌❤
Loners unite!....Oh, wait.
Another loner here for 70 years now, more or less. Enjoy my own company, enjoy art, science, philosophy, genuine ...if rare... company, my dogs, fitness, my motorcycles, travel, the desert, the tropics, beauty in all its manifestations.
Me too - there's too many bad people in the world sadly - that's why I prefer my own company.
I think having a pet to love and take care of cancels some of the need for human companionship. I'm much more comfortable with my cat than I am with human beings.
Me too, I am happy to be around my cats. I tolerate people, but prefer the company of animals.
I hear 'ya!
Same here...!
@Zed Love some folks may have ....yikes and yuck
Its normal for even nomadic people to crave a tribe. Humans are communal by nature. Bob may say he loves being alone..meanwhile he has created a community for himself and is filling himself with his youtube community. He is not doing an "alone" life....he is just not doing alot of proximity to other human bodies
You really nailed it, Bob. Solitude is where I feel happiest, truly content and anxiety free. I enjoy company very infrequently, but it's in solitude where my batteries are charged. Be well and safe travels!!
I drive over 2500+ miles a week. What helps me deal with loneliness is listening to audiobooks
When I first retired I had a constant nagging feeling I should be doing something, didn't know what. After 2 1/2 years it disappeared. Now all is great.
Good to know... retiring this year and was worried... i know i will love it once i ease in.. looking forward to a new chapter, a new life!
K M I think you just have to do what makes you happy. If sitting around just relaxing is what you want to do then alls good. I do.
I have to last until April 1 of next year then I can retire. Get my pension 401(k) whatever is left over that is, and hit the road I hope.....
It took me two years to relax and let go of the person I was. Much happier and relaxed now.
K M been retired for 9 months struggling with this now.
I grew up out in the country an only child so I learned at an early age how to occupy myself. I had my animals and still prefer them to most people. I've been widowed since 2011 and I'm fine with just me and my two dogs.
Bob I know exactly what you mean about thriving during this time. Nothing has really changed for me either. Stay safe
Janet, same here! I enjoy my own company. I actually have less anxiety now that no one is trying to make me socialize. But I think we are in the minority.
I agree ..me and my family miss our pitbull terrier she was sweet
Those of us who are introverts Love This! No scheduled activities even at this campground means I don't have to feel guilty not attending things - like potlucks with food that isn't on my gluten-free diet, etc. For fun, my little dog and I go to a middle school track and 'walk laps'. Yes, this Social Distancing time works great for me. I'm also writing more! 😊. I do have neighbors who are as you described and they can't stay away from each other. Thankfully, I'm not included!
I don't love it as an introvert, but it does not bother me. The isolation I mean. I don't want to see people getting sick.
Randyl J I guess I'm an introvert because I have no problem staying at home. It's odd because at work I'm really quite social.
I do have a dog and a cat so I suppose that helps (still have the routine of feeding the animals and taking them outside).
Stay healthy and safe. 😊
It’s 2024 and I just got to watch your videos! I’m so happy to listening to you!
I've found that even pets get lonely. My pet is always full of joy when I return from someplace (5-minutes or all day).
I have been self-satisfied for many years-I suddenly realized-I've been social distancing all this time.
Right?!?
@@LivingtheIrony Hi Alissa, I didn't understand your comment. I don't interact with people often in person. I am an active correspondent...
@@tomcondon6169 It wasn't so much a question, more of an acknowledged agreement 😉.
Age/experience makes a big difference in fewer feelings of loneliness.
love the one you’re with
-stephen stills
You can feel alone in a crowd ,learn to love yourself and the rest will follow.
I always feel alone in a crowd,like I'm in another world,strange eh✌❤
I’m loving that beautiful mountain behind you...
Look at that mountain over your shoulder Bob! Magnificent! Nearly finished my cargo van conversion and I've got you to thank for all the inspiration. Love all your videos. 💛
Looking at that cactus tree, I suspect he was in NM.... beautiful place. You literally can be in the middle of nowhere!
As a combat disabled veteran from the Vietnam war, I must have my 'alone time'. Too many people, too much of too much
Hi Dale. Thank you. My husband Roger, was a Vietnam Combat Veteran. Lost him in December 2019. Married since 71. I am lonely now.
A really great video Bob and I agree with everything you say. If people can't be alone for a few days or a week and that causes severe anxiety they need to look inside and figure out what is causing their angst. Having a Calm Mind and being alone go hand-in-hand.
One of your absolute best commentaries! Thank you, Bob!
Beautiful backdrop Bob!
I'm staying with a relative in southern Cal. Right when all this began he was out of town in Hawaii and had the place to myself for a week. It was the most peaceful and amazing time ever now hes back and I hate it I think I'm just gonna get in my truck camper and go hang in the hills
I hope he doesn't see your post...lol
@@debbiedebbie9473 why what's wrong what I posted
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Not you hun.
"Soon to be" said some relative is making her crazy...🙂🌷
@@debbiedebbie9473 Oh ok
Wow! Great words of wisdom... Thanks, Bob!
I would suggest for those that are lonely, write your feelings in a journal. Getting them on the page helps with those loops in your mind. Also, you can examine those feelings. I've done this even though I'm an introvert.
Vagabond_Rob, great idea. This could be a very useful practice for many people. Time to look inside and see who we really are compared to who we think we are. Stay safe!
This is possibly the best idea.
Vagabond_Rob. This is a great idea. Journaling is a way of life for me.
I love the way you address sensitive issues, Bob. "Faced with our feelings, thoughts, hearts..." in times like these. How rare it is to have a UA-cam personality be REAL about what people are going through. For me, going on the road during Covid 19 was a needed shift after 5 years of too much self isolation processing much loss. Being alone with myself (especially with the background of a songwriter since childhood) has been a natural and embraced part of my life. BALANCE, however is super important for me. Quiet, alone time AN social, engaging community/tribe and expanding the circle time with meeting new people....super important. Thanks, Bob for your uplifting conversations.
Sometimes I love to be alone, but not always. Sometimes I need to smile at another human who smiles back. Don't ask me why. LOL
Very well put Bob, I'm with you, I could be out where you are for weeks and not miss people at all, still saving for my van. Be safe man, love your videos
Freedom is worth more than security. With freedom, there is a lack of loneliness. Freedom is worth more than practically everything. And you are a living example of this, Bob. At any rate, it is the very best of social distancing.
Bob I love your videos. I completely under stand being in heaven nature alone. I also have social anxiety. But at home I am getting lots done. Stay safe.
Thank you for this video Bob. I never watch "live" due to data limits and limited power to recharge phone/laptop. I am also an introvert and a nomad. I would like to share a personal observation. I notice some anxiety and depression creeping up on me, since it has become necessary to isolate, distance, etc In addition to being an introvert I am a compassionate person. My social interactions are generally related to either working for pay or volunteer work. I figured out that one of the emotions I have been feeling is guilt. I am in a beautiful warm place in Canada. (no kidding). My friends, family and the vast majority of Canadians are not enjoying the spring blossoms, green grass, etc. I felt so guilty I was unable to feel joy for a few days. I was a "news" junkie, devouring pandemic news until my heart and soul just couldn't produce joy. I've limited my exposure to news to a very few moments each day. I've learned that I don't want to live without joy. I am grateful for the opportunity to be alive in a world that is for the most part beautiful. My advise, get outside, feel the air, cold or warm it sustains life. Listen for the sounds of birds, wind, water, rain, etc. Touch the ground, make a snow ball, rake your fingers through the dirt. Welcome joy into your heart. Be kind to yourself. Be mindful and practice gratitude.
It's great to have video chat at least. I'm an empty nester. I go outside just to see life: people & nature, to feel the weather, to feel a part of the world. I hate living in a box alone.
being lonely and feeling alone are so different..
I'm 25, I've always been a loner ever since I was a little girl. I'm more nervous of crowns and I'm nervous to go to the grocery store. I ran out of fruits and vegetables. I've been seeing videos of evil people intentionally spreading the virus and that is so sick. I pray everyone is safe and sound and to do your best to lower your stress levels. It weakens your immune system. God bless, stay safe and nurture your health on all levels.🌻
Governor: I am issuing an order that all people stay h.....
Me: Done.
Yep, lol!
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Ive been utterly and completely alone in a gorgeous 2,500 sq ft home for over one year. After a failed suicide attempt, no one really knew how to process what had happened or knew how to ask why I felt as if my life had become so meaningless. Once I was released from the psychiatric icu, I was left alone. All alone. In due time, I developed agoraphobia, which on top of clinical depression & psychosis was devastating. It wasn’t even the first time I wanted to die, but the first time God sent a Red Fox who saved me. That’s a pretty profound story. I know a little of your story of recovering from your painful divorce (I’m sorry). What I’m feeling now is the difference between choosing to be alone and having to be alone. Suddenly and without warning, I will be alone for perhaps another year. I love my own company, but I’ve had enough. Unlike you, I’m feeling the strong desire to be with others, simply bc I haven’t even had a visitor in my home for so long.
Enjoy your isolation. I can see that it’s rejuvenating you and I’m happy for that🙂💜
Halleluja. So glad you have time to be completely alone, at ease, kick back and drink in the spaciousness of the desert. 🌼🌼 so HAPPY for your time off.🐾just animal tracks, plants🌱the moon🌛the sun🌞 and P e a c e!
Love the video. I am a bit jealous I'm not able to go nomad just yet. Keep on keeping on! Good luck out there!
Its been a while since I watched one of your videos. A lot of us are used to be around other people and its hard to be by your self. But it's good in away to take some time off be a lone and value your self and be more independent. Take care, thank you for the video
In my life experience, being alone has been safer than being with people. I think it can go both ways.
That said, I moved to a small town in order to have the best of both worlds, time alone and time with people.
But I agree that this a such a great time to go within. I am also enjoying the silence and the absence of fast moving lives. There is a quietude now that is deeply soothing. Meditation helps tune into that peace.
Bless you Bob you are teaching all of the time. We are taught as a race that it is not normal to be or enjoy being alone. SO comforting to hear about people thriving when alone.
I just love what you do the way you live I homeless year,God just bless me I have ptsd I have terrible anxiety 1 or 2 people but any God bless you sir
God bless you too!
You can do this... hang in there!
I truly believe there are a lot more folks out there that love solitude, and we are a couple of them! We go for long hikes in wildlife management areas, and were usually alone, maybe see 1 or 2 people. Love it!
Yes, the challenge, (gift) is learning to find a balance. Being OK with being alone and being OK with being with people. AH SO.
People don't believe when I say I'm not lonely. I'm happy with my own company. I do gardening, I have my laptop and crafts. They keep me busy. I do miss being outside and going for a walk. But I'm self-isolating here in the UK.
Great name,i'm in the UK too .
I don’t understand why people think they can’t go outside...
I’ve been sitting in the sun every chance I get for vit. D.
Listening to the birds and feeling the sun on my face, the breeze through my hair...it lifts any lonely or depressed feeling I may get. ❤️ I’m not living as a nomad, but I live in a beautiful place, my view is trees and sky. Just outside a small town full of artists of all kinds. I’ve lived it here since the 70’s.
I am isolating but I take a walk at night and sit in the sun in my back yard every day. Just don’t hang out around people!!!
In the USA we can still go outside as long as we maintain our distance.
I am ok with me. A person, has to like spending time with themselves. In other words, you have to like yourself. ha.
Ty Bob for all you do
Very good Bob!!! I guess as we get older fears come up of becoming alone because of tragic events happening in our lives.. Death of a spouse, children. I think keeping busy with what one really loves to do such as traveling and seeing beauty that God provided for us to see is my happiness. But during this stay home it is a bit over whelming... Sunday drives for instance can become a Tuesday Drive.. it did for us this week.. So that did help us being confined to home.
Amen!!! So much truth here. I'm more of an introvert like you. And I found myself "needing" people instead of wanting people. So I did that soul searching and found out I need to deal with people on my terms, and I've come to terms with being alone and not so much lonely. I do get lonely sometimes, of course, and as long as I can be around people on my terms only, I'm okay and don't get anxiety. Right now I'm stuck at my folks' house and I hate it. I love them but they get on my nerves, and can't go to the places I'm used to escaping to because I have to take care of them. It's hard...I'm grateful for everything they've done for me, and I'm glad to help back in a mental way, but emotionally? I'm crying out to be free....
Excellent video Bob! You’ve answered a few questions oI have. Thank you for all you do for the nomadic community.
spot on Bob ! one of those few times when being introverted works well...and...this channel as a life line :)
So well said ! 👍😊 Self-reflection is a good starting point. 🔗 Start journaling. Transform loneliness into solitude. Remember, the most important relationship you will ever have in your entire life is the relationship with yourself.
I don't have any problem being alone, and english is not my natural language, but I enjoy your company. What I like most probably is that you speak with a real good intention and after a deep thought. Thank you sir.
As a shy person I was alone alot and only had 1 best friend In high school , my best friend shunned me due to a rumor. It was hard being alone. But I'm used to it now I have my animals to keep me company,
I have always enjoyed being alone. I love people and being social, but on my terms. I love ME and have always been my best friend.
I have never been lonely or bored
Learned this many years ago when I was trapped in the mountains for several months without seeing another human being
Books, playing cards, Coloring books & crossword puzzles are a must. I enjoy alone time.😀
This video really spoke to me. You captured the strengths of an introvert in a way that is empowering. Thanks for being so straightforward and real. Stay healthy and safe! 😊
Home is where the introvert is anyway. It's a quiet power the extrovert who craves others around simply won't comprehend.
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I feel the same. I'm very content, where I live, solo! Beautiful area your at. Thanks Bob Very good talk. You are great to listen to.
Some absolutely great advice Bob! I think most ,if not many, of our problems, come down to our own thinking. What you think you become, seems obviously true.
I am a loner. I lived in the mountains in Northern New Mexico in a cabin for 2 years....I LOVE being alone,although I never feel alone,there is too much going on in and around me. Great video,bro.
The introverts aren’t in a panic😊
this social distancing no problem. Boredom occurs when we limit our imagination, not because we lack one.
Bob great points on why many people struggle with being alone. Agree, many disguise being social as escape to soothe from dealing with their inner struggles.
You have nailed it again, Bob! Thank you for this informative video. A few more thoughts here. I was born and raised in the USA, but spent many years in Europe. My parents were legal immigrants into the US after the Hungarian Revolution - 1956. They were bombed out. They had nothing when they escaped Hungary. We had nothing when we were raised in the US except for "love". As we grew into adulthood, we recognized how much society is influenced by mass consumerism to a fault. A majority of friendships and unfortunately family relations are dependent on this consumer based mentality and our work ethic from 9 to 5. When the benefits of consumerism evades a certain relation, the friendship seemingly ends. I've found that most Americans truely do not have good friendships as a result of this. They are more prone to have solitary lives even though they may believe they have true friends. Because European countries for the most part relied on each other for centuries, people have healthy relations with their family, kin folk and true friendships as well. In the US, it is almost "customary" for people to "own" pets; dogs and cats. Europeans as well, but they do not rely on them as partners when loneliness presents itself. It takes much time to harness a tried and true friend which will ultimately last a lifetime. I am an introvert, but not by choice. I prefer the relations of people where friendships are not hinged on the "stuff" we own or our careers. It's an inside job. There is a certain "spirit" within the nomad life where people seem to "drop their cares". They seem to rely more on each other than city dwellers. The friendships as a result are more meaningful. People are less apt to be lonely in a caravan.
Breathe that freedom deep, & stay safe & healthy.
Thanks for all you do for Nomads Bob.
Hi Cody🐕
Today is 8-7-24 and I'm just now commenting on this good video. It's nice to see you Bob, talking about things that are always in our minds. Nice scenery around you! Hope you enjoyed your time there . Friends being concerned about friends.
Thanks from Central Oklahoma
Hi Bob! Some day Alone time for me too I love to be alone too. Stay safe and Stay Healthy Bob! Thank you for everything you too. Love all videos. 😍❤️👍
Great Video Bob, my husband and I have been alone now for the most part 13 yrs, living in the middle of No Where Arkansas
Bob, you are a rock of sense. You inspire me. Thankyou!
Very insightful video. I've just been through four weeks with ZERO conversation as this virus situation has played out. Alone is great, no community whatsoever sucks. As does living in FL - lol
This was actually very inspiring and I needed to hear this THANK YOU. Saint Nick!!
Great topics. I hope your advice helps those in need.
Hi Bob! I'm right there with you on enjoying my own company. I enjoy the company of others but also need that alone time to "recharge my batteries". During this quarantine, everyone else is going stir crazy at home while staying home for me, watching tv and doing hobbies is what I love. Keep up the mental and spiritual self care. And thanks for sharing and helping others. You're an awesome person 💝
I am so glad that your okay Bob and doing good. Take care your an inspiring man and I love to listen to your advice on so many things stay safe xx
God Bless You, Your Videos bring me Great self Insight in Finding My Self. Your Courage is truly Beauftil and A Great inspiration to many.
thanks Bob...you always help...take care of yourself...
I was forced into solitude by widowhood. I’ve stayed here by choice. Happy trails Bob, I enjoy your videos.
It looks beautiful where you are.
Amen Bob .. People needs to find what they deem sacred and/or God .. Then grow a relationship .. Stress, anxiety and loneliness fades away ..
Love your videos .. And can't wait to volunteer for HOWA one day .. It's an Amazing Blessed Organization !! ❤❤❤❤
I am neither introvert nor extrovert, but I live with 3 chinchillas, a cat and a bunny, in a studio; I help outdoor cat colonies, and I tend to think that being 17 mos. clean and sober it's normal, during this time, to feel like wanting to cry on someones' shoulder.
Thank goodness for Zoom meetings! And thank you, Bob, for caring so much for everyone.
I've said it before and I'll say it again....you are such an inspiration!
I like the Universe philosophy. Hard to be lonely today with FaceTime, internet, books, movies, UA-cam, etc, etc. Doable for a couple of weeks but then the interaction with someone face to face is needed. Miss going to my dance classes.
Excellent video Bob. Can't wait for part 2...
Absolutely no loneliness for me at all. Self isolation is the norm for me anyway. I do miss being able to go out as usual but that's about it. Bob, you've got it made... being out in beautiful nature with peace and quiet and Cody... sounds like heaven to me. Be safe and well. God bless!!
Bob I love your view and back yard that you can enjoy.. God made us and made us to be around others to help others..
I love my solitude! And, your videos Bob, help me not to be lonely. Thanks for showing all the beauty there is to be seen in nature. Don't forget to show Cody so that we can say hello to him too.
Looks like a nice place to be, Bob.
I agree with you about the fear aspect.
People who are comfortable with themselves, healthy in mind, body and spirit are less likely to have a problem with solitary times. In fact, they embrace them, look forward to them because it is when they have the opportunity to think about and do the things that fulfill them.
If, however, someone is struggling especially their physical health, maybe they have an ailment, for example, then they might become concerned, anxious, fearful at a time when the help they need or feel like they need is unavailable as a result of circumstances like what we have now.
They feel cut off from what is normally part of their normal life line.
Outstanding Bob ! Thank you and be well ... Portsmouth, NH. USA
I'm never alone with me, myself and I.
Thank you so much Bob, Agreed with you 100% Please stay safe and healthy. 👍👍👍😇😇😇
Thank you Bob for all of your help with loneliness. I too would prefer to be alone. Unfortunately I cant right now. I will be on the road as soon as I am able . Thank you for all of your videos. I enjoy all I find. Be safe be well.
Can so relate to this, I've been a van dweller going on twenty years and the times when I feel the most alone is when I'm around other people. I take great comfort in solitude and having no one to answer to but myself.
I must concur about being alone. We've built a compound out in the new Mexican desert. Taken over 10 years to build. Still a work in progress! But the solitude is priceless. Like you I thrive in "desolation "!
Truly never understood anxiety in being alone. I love it. This is my life!
We are all different
You nailed it bob..the anxiety just melts away..
Gorgeous mountain in the background! Glad your safe Bob.
I work 12 hour shifts. I have a coworker who loves to talk to people. I couldn't believe it, but one day I watched her talk for the entire 12 hours. She is a nice person with 2 kids and a husband. She told me that she can't stand being alone and not interacting with other people. She says that interacting with other people energizes her. I am just the opposite. I like people, but I can only take just so much. It exhausts me having to engage with others too long. I love being by myself. It reenergizes me.