Van Life 101: How to Find Other People When Living in a Van
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- Опубліковано 25 лип 2024
- With the RTR coming up soon, I'm getting lots of questions from people heading out, either right now or very soon for the Arizona desert. Their main question they ask is, how do I find the tribe once I get there? In this video I want to let you know, 1) where you are most likely to find them, and, 2) how to find them once you get there.
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Bob I'm 73 years old and I've always been a nomadic person. I'd work a while and roam for a while when money got low and I wanted to keep roaming I'd sell the car then HOBO for a while and enjoy the beauty of our COUNTRY, stopping of for a couple of days for crop harvest or day labor and I was very happy with life. Then I got married and life became a living HELL. any way when I no longer had the NIGHTMARE of a wife I became a drifter once again. I lived in my astro van on the river bank for 6 summers in a row and worked then rented an apartment in the winter. I had some MEDICAL issues and had to live in an apartment for three years and my savings were soon gone. I just got a clean bill of health from my VA doctor to go back to traveling again as I told her of my life style. Anyway I just got my first smartphone 6 months ago and learning how to use it has been a challenge for me. I accidentally came across you on UA-cam and it blew me away. You sir are the GODFATHER of nomads, as James Brown is to soul music. You are a blessing to me Sir and I'm moving back into my Astro Van July 1ST as I'm putting money back to replace all 5 sensors new in it. iv been spending money on getting I mechanically sound. I'm moving out of housing July 1ST live on the river untill Aug 1ST then I'm going to SD and get the mailing address set up like you suggested. Thanks for your knowledge. My niece is going to show me how to log into your website in July. I will be at the 2019 RTR. Hopefully with the money to buy a hightop like you suggested. I'LL rough it out in the old Astro untill I can afford a good old hightop in good shape and low mileage. Again if you get this COMMENT I want to thank you for removing all my fears of bondockin. Like I said SIR your a blessing to us.
"I hope that doesn't sound egotistical." Sir, I've watched enough of your videos that I think it's safe to say you have more humility than most humans possess in a lifetime.
Agree 100% we need more people like Bob!
not to mention long-winded. He can sure obscure the point of his story.
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Absolutely. Bob is a true gem. 💝
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I just have to tell of this experience. My son, step son and I did an impromptu camping trip for an overnite at Mammoth cave KY and just packed the bare essentials. we had pretty much what we needed but being just a quickie over niter we didn't really stock pile the food (we had enough though) and the camper neighbors either saw we were roughing it or just had fixed way too much breakfast stuff, but they sent over the biggest bunch of grub with OJ and milk at that. The father and son (I assume) came over asked if we could use some extra fixings and so we said sure and thanked them very kindly. This was many years ago and have never forgotten that kindness. So I always look around to see if there is a little something that I can help with be it firewood/charcoal , water, fishing doodads or maybe what they may be lacking. The generosity and kindness is out there, so just smile and say hi and you probably will meet some the nicest people .
I am social worker/ therapist listening to this in 2021 and couldn't agree with you more! How nice of you to address this-
Reminds of 30's depression era language of hoboes sharing wisdom of the road by leaving a 'sign' on a fence or tree, code for " Nice Lady Will Offer Apple Pie Here" or " Bad Dog, Do Not Approach", " Can Sleep In Barn " ....
Reminds me of my granny. We began to think that someone put out by word of mouth about her sharing heart. Because seems like someone was always coming from the trains to her house. Or normand's that had build a tiny home on the back of their trucks ( known as gypsy wagons) to get something to eat. And she was blessed, because all these people ( males, families) always looked out and shared with my granny. Whether they sharing with whatever they could or by only telling good folks about her. Her heart 💓 was big. Granny transitioned many years ago. But this reminds me of her loving Spirit. We are blessed with many great memories and have great funny stories ❤️
Hi Bob my name is David and I came across your videos some time ago. I walked from the US Capitol to a bit past Denver Colorado carrying a 75 lb backpack. I did so for PTSD awareness. I'm a Navy veteran at 59 years old. I had four heart attacks on the journey so your videos were very much welcomed. I am getting a bus, 5 window fixing it up to live in. Thank you for all the info and I will see you on the road!
"fear keeps you in your house and in a miserable situation." that comment sir was the most concise phrase that sums up my current situation. I am currently looking for a vehicle as we speak. I am miserable living in a city and with a person, I can't stand. Thank you for making these videos.
You are welcome. I hope you are able to find happiness and a life you love! Good luck.
Here is a suggestion. A camping group I meetup with sometimes uses the yellow happy face so we can find people in the group we do not know yet. We put it on our rig or by the road next to our camp. I have a yellow plastic plate I drew my happy face on. If someone else just happens to have a happy face they just get to meet new friends too. Some time the happy face is just made on a white paper plate.
☺ REALLY? Ha ha ha
People at huge concerts do this to find their friend groups, they call them "totems"
Something we used to do at rallys was have a welcome sign, a ribbon on a door handle, a rope tied on a bumper or anything simple that a stranger could recognize as an ok to approach. Mine would be out all day until supper when it was our time the i would just remove it. Fairly simple and makes it easier for a strager to say hello.
David Mears Good idea. Somebody should sell those. RTR “Meet Me” Door knockers $4.99! Hmmmm
Heck in my area a lot of people down on their luck that are able to help others would have a rope tied from their trailer hitch on their rear bumper or just any where their. It means come of over I am in the tribe.
Bob I have been binge watching your videos and you have captured the culture I remember as a kid in the early 1960s. My Dad converted a VW van in 1963 to a camper we took on weekend trips and vacations. Back then we ran into people who converted all kinds of vehicles (buses, box trucks, mail trucks, etc.) or were really innovative tent campers. Campers/RVers are the best. They loved showing each other the innovations, work arounds and inventions they came up with to make life on the road more comfortable. They reveled in helping one another and found joy not in how much money they had to spend, but how little they spent and how far they could make it go. There was a great sense of kinship. Great people!
That would be a pretty cool way to spend free time...among fellow creative types....count me in!
Bob you have the biggest heart ❤️ on UA-cam!!! God Bless you and Thank You for all you do! ~Lisa
Omg Lisa glad you posted I just watch him and wonder if hes so busy, lol I mean with women. Ive liked him since I first seen and heard his voice. I agree Lisa, I really like him.
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You are such an amazing asset to the community, Bob! Thank you for all you do!!!
Thanks so much Bob.. For 35 years i have been with my late hubby . care taking him from dementia, so i didn't get out much. My life was just work and back. He passed 2 years ago. Now i want to go on the road.. Nothing holding me back .. I will purchase a van soon. And preparing to go!!. You have eased the fear that i had to go out and Travel.you have insipred me. I will be taking a big step . just to drive far places. But i have to do it to beat that fear.God Bless You😊. I will start off going to RTR. Hope to see all the tribe. In cluding meeting you!😊and regular youtubers!! Yay!! im excited.thank you for the map to quartsite..A leap of Faith..Thx Bob.😊
Yolanda Ventura So sorry for your loss. I pray that your new life adventures are all you hope for and more. God Bless and be with you in your travels!!
Shnell Alln awhh ..Thank You for the Sentiment.. I hope to meet such caring people like YOU. Along my new jourmey.😊💝.. Lord bless You as well. Made my Day!!
raleighman3000 Thank you. For word of encouragement. Bless you!!
So sorry to hear!
Bless you!
stanley steele Thank You so much for the Heartfelt words .. God Bless You!!☺🎶🌞.
Boy Bob, you hit the fear-nail right on the head!
Maybe we can take a lesson from AA and introduce ourselves with: "Hi. I'm a friend of Bob." Or put a similar sign on our rig or at our camp?
John Bergholm that's a cool idea! I am a friend of both Bob's. Lol
This is one of my favorite videos that you've done. I think so many of us have some level of that primal social anxiety of sorts. One of the first things I thought of after deciding to go to the 2019 RTR was "OMG! How am I going to do the initial awkward meet people thing?!!!?" But after watching this video I feel a lot better about it. Thank you for everything you do. :)
Ahhhhhhh.....the age old dilemma....how to make friends.
Humblness is #1. Learn to listen more, talk less. Offer to help others, be generous & kind.
Do not expect everyone to like you & learn bodylanguage. If you feel awkward around a group after an hour or so its probably because thats not who you gel with.
Move on to the next group until you feel comfortable. Its ok, theres plenty of vandwellers out there!
Good luck!!!
There is a reason why we have two eyes, two ears, and only one mouth....
Will you be there later this year 2022 Bob ? I'm in Arizona now. Husband passed away recently. You're a breath of fresh air. Leading many to the promised land. Thank You 💖
Bob, you touch many lives. I'm not an RVer but let me join the chorus who thanks you. Your videos are inspirational and uplifting. This is your best IMO.
I went to Quartzite last year with the intention of going to the RTR. When I saw how many people were already in town, I was immediately intimidated and turned around and hung out in Ehrenberg for a week. Maybe I'll give another try this year and won't chicken out.
my first time this year. go and don't be intimidated. we can say hello.
You are a good man Bob. On the path of a true human being.
Thank you so much for this great video. Everything you said hit home for me. I am a shy person and love to be by myself, but there are times I need to be around people. I would love to go to the RTR. Maybe you will see me there. Thanks again!
hope to see you im the same way
Great info Bob! This is so wonderful. I guess if I had a like minded tribe around me, I wouldn't be sitting here watching this video from the comforts of my home. LOL!
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Thank you Bob, I've been seriously thinking about hitting the road. Yes it scares me, as I would probably be alone. Watching your videos, has been so helpful. I love seeing all the different types of people boondocking, and enjoying the great outdoors! I'm now saving money to purchase a van. I'm getting so much valuable information about setting it up, and what my needs will be. Maybe I'll get to meet you and some of the wonderful people, you have been interviewing.❤️ Take care and God bless you all.🙏🏼
You are awesome Bob. Thanks for taking the time to make such a helpful video. -Mark
Its my dream way of living. so happy I found your informative channel in March. I love to see all the adventure and so much good info.
Can always count on you to help folks feel comfortable and welcome.
If you're boondocking in camper as a lifestyle, you're probably not all that interested in being around people. However, we're people, so when we realize that we need SOME human interaction, it induces a little panic when you think about going out and meeting strangers. Good questions.
I have panic attacks when I'm around to many people. I hate the way this world has become I wanna move to Alaska and live in the wild if I can
I'm the same way, and observe the same world. I hope you can make it out to Alaska if that's what you want to do. I'm currently trying to find a remote webmaster job so I can boondock in a van/camper in the PNW.
Don't eat the berries and the Alaska story never ended well for anybosdy well no matter what!
Capt. Cutler. Good Luck! Best wishes! Prayers sent... It's beautiful country! 💙
Have you seen the movie? The guy dies alone in a broken down school bus. STOP NORMALIZING Homelessnes and poverty. Don't #Resist, #REVOLT!!!
I remember the video you did on the Ehrenburg location. You are so precise in your directions I could find it in the dark during a sand storm. Really good info on the area, time of year and the RTR. Thank you Bob.
Bob how amazing that you share that info with everyone & are willing to help everyone. It is truly your calling helping others. I hope some day to be able to meet the tribe.
I love your thoughts. Thank you Bob!
I lived in Baghdad, az. For five or six years, on solar panels, batteries and a generator. And on the Navajo reservation for five or six years before that. I found homes for 235 dog's, 125 cats, and 1 rooster.
just an FYI, I was headed down to Tucson, AZ and it is WAY TO HOT!!! it's in the high 80's and my body isn't adjusting and my van is scalding hot, sweating at night. I'm gonna go back up to prescott, a little higher altitude and cooler at night.
How can I contact you? I'm raw food vegan setting up nomad existence. I have questions about fresh veggie storage and prep off the grid (How much fridge, how much water to make it work to limit shopping trips? If man made it, I don't eat it). Plus I have questions running a Vita-Mix/ Norwalk Juicer and maybe dehydrator)
Thanks so much Bob. I'm really hoping to make it to the RTR this year! I may not be living full time in my car by then, but I can hardly wait!
Will I'm not afraid, to met people myself, and if your travel alone, remember your not alone there's a whole world of people that have the some life styles, and it's the most awesomest way to life. true freedom!!
Once again Bob, your video is full of GREAT information and welcoming SPIRIT. I am SO Blessed with the HOPE you emit from every pore.
You talked me into joining your forum... 😜
oops.... sorry,,, hit wrong button!
How does one join the forum?
What is the link to the forum? I didn't find it..😕
Come to Alabama in the November time. One can grow your own food and I have 40 acres, a well and electricity.... The winter is great here, the summer is hell...
Where in Alabama are u located ?? It's sounds great I doing that & inviting folks on & to ur land ! God Bless U ! I hope I can come camp there in the near-future ! I'm in Northwest Florida is why I'm asking where ur located cause it wouldn't be far for me to go. Thank u !
@@vickief.schoeneberg9839 Right? I want to go too! 😃
More info ease I'm from FL and just starting out. Would love to spend time I. Alabama.
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@@vickief.schoeneberg9839 I’m also nw Fl. Building out my van now.
I'm sure you've thought of selling a CheapRVLiving.com window sticker. It would be a cool way to meet people, even if they're 2,000 miles from Arizona.
Hey Scott. That's a fab idea!
I have one on my van window. Quite a few of us do. Bob will have them at the RTR.
But he doesn't ask for money. He might accept a donation, not sure though.
Nice, thanks.
You sir are a kind human. Good luck to all. I wish I could join you..........
You always speak from the heart, Bob. That is something I really appreciate and value in a person. Thanks for your gentle and compassionate spirit...
Thank you for another great video, Bob. What you do for the tribe is incredible!
You are just the best type of a human being, Bob!
Thank you for your awesome videos! I appreciate the effort you put into these. It has opened my mind to many things. Keep it up!
Bob, we're a young couple (in our 30s) and want to join.. so thanks for keeping us posted. You bring up some good points. We believe its healthy to meet new people, especially of different ages, backgrounds, and experience levels. One rule we follow that helps break through the fear of meeting strangers that always work for us is "do unto others as you would want them to do unto you"
sunshinemodels1 Very informative as usual. Awesome
Exactly!! Thank you covering this subject Bob.
Thank you so much, Bob, for all the suggestions and useful information - it's much appreciated :D
Outstanding video Bob. This lifestyle is fascinating to me. You give so freely of your life experiences and thoughts and philosophy that is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I like that. Your YT videos, that you work so hard to make, is a very honorable and noble service that has enriched so many lives. Thank you so much. I hope to meet you one day.
Thank you Bob..I see this growing way larger than you could ever have dreamed..
Love you Bob and so love your videos!! You really cover everything and it shows how much you care. I wish you all the best and I sure hope one day I get to meet you and others in the tribe. God bless!!
Great commentary. Spread the knowledge. Thanks Bob!
Thanks ever so much for posting this video, Bob. I look forward to meeting up with you, and the tribe.
Bob, thanks. Your social network is a blessing. As an introvert/loner I was still wondering this very question. You are awesome dude! I won't choose to be living out of my car or van, but if I do, it is not the end of the world. In fact, I am learning joy can be found inside of a car. Wow!
Thanks, Bob, for such a great, informative video. I am already planning my trip to join the tribe (I love that word) next year. I have been tracking the weather so I know where I can go where it is not too hot or too cold, but I will also be flexible on the road. For me, it is fun planning out the basics ahead and takes out some stress. This will be my first extended trip on my own, so I look forward to meeting some people. The info you provided is so helpful.
Thank You, for answering those questions. I was wondering how to ask those questions without looking stupid.
Thank you, bob. You give great info and you are so, so kind. And Kindness matters!
Bob, you are a gifted inspirational teacher! Thank you for sharing, educating, and motivating us dreamers!
Thanks Bob, for this video. We are excited about the RTR, and had the very fears you discussed. We feel this event will change our lives forever. We no longer want to be prisoners of the "established' norm. And our family thinks we're nuts.
THank you Bob! As Always a great video with a lot of information and visuals.
Yay! I'm so glad. I was waiting for this video!
Thanks Bob!!! Great video as always!! Looking forward to meeting everyone at the RTR!!
Thanks Bob for your genuine kindness and sharing your vast knowledge about our natural world. Just subscribed to your channel and just can't get enough of it! We have a few more years to go until retirement and hope to meet you someday soon!
thank you Bob for taking the time to explain all of this
Thank you for this and all the links! Great resources, you're amazing!!
Bob your content is the best! Thank you so much for all that you do and give.
Thank you Bob for all your videos. Your heart is bigger than the land you camp on!
Bob. ... I liked you from the first video I saw that you did. ...and right on to today. ..You have been a great inspiration for me. ... I am in the process of building a van right now.
Bob, you nailed it....thanks expounding on this topic. Wish I could meet you and the tribe this year. Love, Jo.
Thank you sir for another extremely informative video. I really do appreciate the time, commitment, and knowledge you contribute to this community/culture/life.
Just started watching your channel tonight. Very informative!
Thank you so much Bob for all the information! Safe traveling!
Your hair and beard look Glorious.
Also LOVE your heart to help people- there's no substitute. Can't fake it. People can feel and sense when someone cares.
I'm a huge fan! You have so much wisdom and experience. Thank you for sharing! I am currently in the military but will be separating in the next year. I am planning on going off grid and living the van life. I am looking forward to meeting the tribe!
Dear Bob, thanks for this video. I am so looking forward to meeting you and attending my first RTR. Just got home from the Van Build Party and it was a wonderful experience!
Thank you , I'm watching your video about the 4 places to camp. enjoy them a lot
Thanks thanks THANKS for allllll those infos Bob, you have no idea how precious they are for me !
You are an inspiration Bob! Thank You for all you do! I hope to meet you one day. Stay healthy!
Much appreciation and respect to you Bob. As someone who is new to this and seriously starting to consider this lifestyle...your videos have offered me a ton of valuable information. You are a true inspiration and a valuable resource for this community. Thank you for all your efforts, and keep up the great work
Bob I am retired Army, planning to get out full time RVing in the near future, enjoy your videos, big fan
Very much enjoying your video's. Thanks for sharing your experiences and thoughts. I love your openness and honesty.
thank you for posting these...they are really inspiring and clear and informative ...bless you brother!!
Thank you Bob for these videos. You are helping greatly in getting prepared mentally for the RTR. As an introvert that has a hard time stepping out of what's comfortable for me your words are comforting and helpful. I have work commitments where I'm currently at till Christmas. Then I'm on the road full time, for the first time in January. Safe travels tribe! Hope to meet some of you in January at the RTR!
Thank you so much. You are such a kind man. Please don't stop inspiring people...
You just make it so welcoming !! What a wonderful guy u r :)
I’m so so glad Bob to find this lifestyle I bought my first minivan nothing fancy but I’m hoping to come to the next RTR!!!!
I hope. To see ya at the rtr thank you huck.
Great and timeless video, couldnt be more on point! Just retired and will begin my journey this Fall, cant wait to meet you Bob! 👍🏼👍🏼
Very good video Bob, very informative and very useful, thanks,
A very thoughful, thank you! You spoke of yourself how I feel about myself in the terms of fear of being rejected. Being a gal looking to get into this lifestyle you give me inspiration! Thank you!
Hey Bob, great video. You answered some questions I hadn’t asked but was about to. 😂 thanks for reading my mind. This video is so important perhaps the most important of all the videos of your I have seen. I probably won’t be on the road “full time” until I turn 62 in 6 yrs, but I’m looking and planning ahead. This really helps! Thanks
Love your videos. So informative and or inspiring and to the POINT! Hope to see you on the road in the next few months to say hey ! 😊 Thank you!!
Thank you for sharing! Very powerful!
I really enjoy your shows and appreciate the knowledge thank you
Very well put. I'm pulling out next week, long as nothing pops up :) the tribe is right for me, I look forward to this challenge. Thanks for your beautiful ❤ awesome tribe leader you are.
Thanks for the info Bob, always great to watch your videos. Would love to see a few videos on Class A older RVs like 2003 Fiesta's , etc
Another great video Bob. I can talk to anyone so that’s not a problem for me, I need to get a vehicle and get out there, I can’t wait to meet you snd others. Safe travels Bob.
Great video for us RTR first timers. Looking forward to meeting everyone.
My Dad used to live in Congress, Arizona with his arctic wolf. Summers were hot. Thank you Bob for information about so much.
I've been watching your videos for 6months and now planning a trip to Quartzite this coming January. This video was so incouraging! I can do this!!! Thanks!
I love your videos. They are so helpful to learn about this lifestyle. Thank you for all you do. Darla
I hope someday to meet you!!!! You have amazing social and management skills to organize this for years!!! You have made being a Nomad a positive option for so many!! I hope you are having a blast at the RTR!!!