Crashing into Fatherhood

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  • @legal_beagle5294
    @legal_beagle5294 Рік тому +666

    The level of accountability that this young man is assuming....that's called growth!!! He ain't perfect (none of us are), but he's definitely on the path to healing, and it shows!!! Kudos!!1

    • @dopenesslight7243
      @dopenesslight7243 Рік тому +10

      Exactly... Kudos sir💕

    • @emancipatedtalent
      @emancipatedtalent Рік тому +20

      Yeah, I really liked this guy. Well spoken and accountable

    • @chevonaughwalker3826
      @chevonaughwalker3826 Рік тому +11

      I just wished women could do the same

    • @traceyjackson4470
      @traceyjackson4470 Рік тому +10

      I pray that he will “continue” to be a DADDY to “his daughter” He is the only dad she’s knows!
      Regardless…THEY NEED EACH OTHER!
      Find a productive and accountable way to CoParent. Be the genuine King and Queen to your innocent PRINCESS 🌹

    • @Lisa-MarieG
      @Lisa-MarieG Рік тому +10

      Soon as it started & I heard he stepped up, while knowing the child might not be biologically his, I knew he was a stand up guy.

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 Рік тому +380

    I'm really impressed at how this young man presented in court,and his communication skills. He seems very honest and forthcoming.

  • @alexkeaton9032
    @alexkeaton9032 Рік тому +543

    He is so articulate and kind spirited. I’m
    Sorry to hear that he is caught up in such low vibrational circumstances

    • @beprettylife
      @beprettylife Рік тому

      😂 Black people love using the stupidest terms to sound smart. Just say you are sorry for the unfortunate circumstances.

    • @Price8903
      @Price8903 Рік тому +24

      This is what happens when ppl casual have sex and don’t even use condoms.

    • @rubyjaez
      @rubyjaez Рік тому +7

      @@Price8903 they were in a relationship. She was just nasty

    • @Lisa-MarieG
      @Lisa-MarieG Рік тому +1

      @@Price8903It happens with condom use too. 80/100 women who use only the male condom for BC will have at least 1 pregnancy every 10 years. There’s an interactive chart you can see to show the effectiveness of different forms of BC by searching “NYT How likely is my birth control to fail?”
      Women are fertile for 30 years. 1-2+ unplanned pregnancies during that time period is completely normal.

    • @Sheherhis
      @Sheherhis Рік тому +3

      Yes, you said that well. Me too. I wish them well especially him.Cool dude!💯🙏🏾

  • @ThickSenpaii
    @ThickSenpaii Рік тому +353

    He was broken in the end. I feel so bad for him. I hope this doesn't stop the progress he's made for hisself.

    • @coreyanderson5563
      @coreyanderson5563 Рік тому +12

      Him not being the father was a blessing..

    • @lattiejohnson1056
      @lattiejohnson1056 Рік тому +3

      Well I’m in the middle and you spoiled it🙄😩

    • @ThickSenpaii
      @ThickSenpaii Рік тому +14

      @@lattiejohnson1056 You 10 days late reading comments. Maybe watch the video before opening the comments.

    • @angelicrealtor1
      @angelicrealtor1 Рік тому

      @@lattiejohnson1056 🤣🤣🤣

    • @williamdungee
      @williamdungee Рік тому

      Got damn you fine af... you should remove those butterflies off ya face, let the world see it clear... smfh

  • @lafiosamusic5531
    @lafiosamusic5531 Рік тому +252

    I really like the defendants character and demeanor. He represents himself, his family, and our black community the way a man should. Salute soldier! 💪🏾💯

    • @liona1657
      @liona1657 Рік тому +9

      The same here. He is a good black man.

    • @simonsez1787
      @simonsez1787 Рік тому

      He a good dude but he doesn’t represent “our Black community” lol. Cut it out wit that white supremacist idea the all Black ppl are and should be the same.

  • @user-if4df7lk1z
    @user-if4df7lk1z Рік тому +261

    The young man is conducting himself like a perfect gentleman. I would hire and train him despite his background.

    • @kerrywhite5253
      @kerrywhite5253 Рік тому +17

      Maybe you could look him up. 🙏

    • @pmgumeebear
      @pmgumeebear Рік тому +7

      For some reason I feel like there was a reason he played this game, he didn’t ever have his own place and admittedly not working she must’ve been the main provider just my opinion

    • @pikachu3763
      @pikachu3763 Рік тому +12

      I really love his energy. He took accountability and that speaks volumes! People love to play victim these days!

    • @queshebalittle6023
      @queshebalittle6023 Рік тому +11

      I pray u can find him and offer him those things u desire to help him with.

    • @gigga693
      @gigga693 Рік тому +2

      @@pmgumeebear character means more than things. At the end of the day, you can provide somebody an opportunity or some career training to get on their feet. But his character will sustain opportunities for him. He definitely can go places just off his accountability and integrity alone.

  • @jilldambrosio4273
    @jilldambrosio4273 Рік тому +106

    Love the defendant. Intelligent and definitely needs to further his education. He will be a great asset to anyone's business.

  • @Alisha1003
    @Alisha1003 Рік тому +102

    I can see the pain all in his eyes 😔

  • @MaryMac04
    @MaryMac04 Рік тому +90

    I'm thankful he wasn't held liable for the damages he seems like a wonderful young man. I wish them both the best

  • @mmmfun77
    @mmmfun77 Рік тому +51

    ' That little girl changed the light in me'...profound and beautiful all in one❤❤❤ He can make money with that voice

    • @blaireq.4473
      @blaireq.4473 Рік тому +1

      Agreed
      His entire being! Extreme level of consciousness.. 💜

  • @jplaya2023
    @jplaya2023 Рік тому +118

    I think JM knew he wasnt the father thats why he dismissed that car case despite him having no police report or statement saying he wasnt at fault for the incident.

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 Рік тому +19

      Good point, and she was being shady too

    • @Ms2010collegegurl
      @Ms2010collegegurl Рік тому +31

      I thought the same. Because he def owes for the car accident

    • @carihenderson5944
      @carihenderson5944 Рік тому +7

      yup i agree.

    • @TheQueenrevolution
      @TheQueenrevolution Рік тому +12

      And that's why I think serious cases shouldn't be brought to JM..if u serious about the issue. While I think he was a great young man and this would be sad news for him...and her and the child...its not a reason to absorb him of his responsibility when it comes to the accident. I do wish them all the best tho. I thought they were mature young ppl.

    • @jerrandorose5443
      @jerrandorose5443 Рік тому +9

      @@TheQueenrevolutionhe paying child support for a child that’s not his. He not getting that money back

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 Рік тому +44

    That was rough. I like the plaintiff and the defendant. They have a lot of respect for one another.

  • @annlulu29
    @annlulu29 Рік тому +50

    You could see it in his eyes when the Judge gave the results.

  • @susiesolangesimpson2828
    @susiesolangesimpson2828 Рік тому +123

    He seems like a really good guy. I love seeing good men on here. She seems a little shady and took advantage of his feelings.

    • @UTBBT
      @UTBBT Рік тому +7

      I agree with you, but I LOVE this profile picture of yours!

    • @TheSolitary1
      @TheSolitary1 Рік тому +1

      yep jailbird, unprotected s*x, laying up in her house. A GOOD MAN 😊

    • @scottrogue946
      @scottrogue946 Рік тому +3

      @@TheSolitary1 I was waiting for someone to say this. I can’t for the life of me wrap my head around how he is a “good guy” 😂

    • @pache7216
      @pache7216 Рік тому

      unfortunately u only get bad rewards for being a "good guy"

    • @5822huron
      @5822huron Рік тому

      You can't be a little shady

  • @wadilotus
    @wadilotus Рік тому +50

    He seems like a good guy. I hope he stays on the right track! He can do great things with the right woman.

  • @karensalandy5388
    @karensalandy5388 2 місяці тому +3

    This guy is great and honest , I wish him all the best ,wish he can be sponsor to further his study , he will be a great asset to the community .

  • @MsJ1970s
    @MsJ1970s Рік тому +75

    Very unfortunate, but I think they both knew just was hopeful, the young lady knew when baby was born. Hopefully the child still has him in her life as a dad🙏🏾

    • @cookingwithgrannypeaches
      @cookingwithgrannypeaches Рік тому +8

      He said no matter what it said he would be there and she's still his child. I commend him. ❤

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 Рік тому +5

      This is why I got DNA test on my kid the minute he was born. He is better than me because no way in hell am I raising another man’s child. I didn’t get the fun to make the kid I shouldn’t have the responsibility to pay for it.

    • @LissyVee
      @LissyVee Рік тому +13

      @@jamescash887 well that doesn’t exactly make sense. You DID have the fun, you just didn’t get a kid or else you wouldn’t be questioning paternity. Plus the little girl has been in his life for 7 years now, that’s hard to walk away from, especially if she considers him her daddy. But I do get what you’re saying. That’s why people need to stop being sloppy and having sex with multiple people without birth control. Hell, I have an IUD but I’d still make them wrap it up because you never know where they’ve been lol

    • @sheneyquamercan1699
      @sheneyquamercan1699 Рік тому +3

      @@LissyVee Well said!

  • @LeeLiB
    @LeeLiB Рік тому +89

    Something about her eyes… says crazy

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 Рік тому +9

      Yep, I noticed that too

    • @gt43025
      @gt43025 Рік тому +8

      Very

    • @kerrywhite5253
      @kerrywhite5253 Рік тому +18

      I couldn't get past that ring in her nose. *sigh* it was distracting.

    • @aeonflex4261
      @aeonflex4261 Рік тому +21

      Looking like the damn walking dead by the eyes

    • @jerrandorose5443
      @jerrandorose5443 Рік тому +9

      I was looking for this comment.

  • @angelphilbert1200
    @angelphilbert1200 Рік тому +23

    I could listen to this man all day. Articulate, intentional, determined and willing to accept responsibility for his actions. I wished they could end up a couple because he is a good guy. He is an example of fatherhood when love is more important than differences of opinion. They should choose peace over wanting to be right.

  • @nettejones8276
    @nettejones8276 Рік тому +13

    Very articulate and emotionally intelligent young man. Im so proud of you Hilmon and you've got a great future ahead of you. I truly hope that you are still in the little girl's life because you are her dad.

  • @skilletkitchencooking8993
    @skilletkitchencooking8993 Рік тому +55

    I knew JM was gearing up a defense for the defendant. He had googly eyes for him 😂😂😂😂

  • @charlessantee8329
    @charlessantee8329 Рік тому +27

    I praise this man, for taking care of her child, although, he is not the biological father of the child some men doesn't take care their own biological child he seems like a good man.

  • @vonyorker4482
    @vonyorker4482 7 місяців тому +3

    I love how he articulates his words. Sadly, he's caught up in a situation based on emotions. Seven years is a long time with not finding out who the father is, some people DO NOT NEED THE TITLE OF BEING A PARENTS. SMH

  • @jillcabler2186
    @jillcabler2186 Рік тому +43

    The plaintiff looks scary as Hell can tell she was a Hellian Hope Bro moves on with his life he's a Good Guy

  • @ickieyon1254
    @ickieyon1254 Рік тому +16

    He is what it's like to understand and appreciate everything, as a flawed human, he has/you've been through. And he has a super level of self-consciousness.

  • @diofiglio1
    @diofiglio1 Рік тому +32

    I remember in high school this girl argued with me from last period until I got to my car...."why are you walking away.... oh you don't wanna talk......" that is annoying

    • @LissyVee
      @LissyVee Рік тому +1

      Damn, my ex would do that and we’re like 15 years past high school. And as soon I would try to leave (we lived together) he’d prevent it even though he’d simultaneously be screaming GET THE F*CK OUT! Some people are just better off single and I’m not talking about me

  • @tjneverdefeated4394
    @tjneverdefeated4394 Рік тому +10

    This case is so civilized, both sides represented themselves well.

  • @gonegirldiaries
    @gonegirldiaries Рік тому +28

    oh man, I was hoping that was his child but I’m sure he will still be there for the child

  • @30YADIG
    @30YADIG Рік тому +23

    Why didn’t we hear them both talk at the end? 😩

  • @nothgir
    @nothgir Рік тому +2

    HE IS A GREAT DUDE! He is a keeper.

  • @quannyvgrimes
    @quannyvgrimes Рік тому +5

    This has to be one of the most honest &d straightforward cases I’ve witness on this show ! Commend to both of them &d hope everything will workout for the best!

  • @maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083

    I'm so sorry for the defendant. I'm glad the camera didn't dwell on the man's face after thinking most likely this little girl was his daughter.

  • @ren6510
    @ren6510 Рік тому +9

    That young man is such a good man .❤ Hopefully he moves on and find a woman who will appreciate him and continue his growth

  • @MrsDymples76
    @MrsDymples76 Рік тому +16

    Let’s unpack here. She didn’t even tell this man the child was born 🚩 She only started pursuing a relationship with him while he was incarcerated 🚩 if those eyes are a window to her soul… 😬 🚩 I’m trying to see where she’s nice as stated in previous comments

  • @joyuniquenessempowerment
    @joyuniquenessempowerment Рік тому +6

    Words can't even express how much I respect this man for his truth. I pray great success and true love over His life!

  • @ggboot1
    @ggboot1 Рік тому +538

    A DNA test should be mandatory at birth.

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 Рік тому +22

      💯

    • @gianalogan8957
      @gianalogan8957 Рік тому +17

      Yes

    • @Nevaeh1
      @Nevaeh1 Рік тому +51

      at-least she was honest with him about the possibility that it wasn't his kid

    • @gianalogan8957
      @gianalogan8957 Рік тому +25

      I respect all women that are honest about DNA test but there’s a lot of women that lie about DNA test so I believe that there should always be DNA done first for the woman for the child for the man it’s just fair

    • @gianalogan8957
      @gianalogan8957 Рік тому

      Yes you are right there is men that lie about paternity and there’s women that lie about it to I think it’s best to do a paternity at birth just for a piece of mine for the man and the woman and the child it’s OK to get a paternity test i’m in a couple of women that lied I had a friend she said it was this guy he pay child support till the kid was 17 then he finally got a paternity test it was never his and she told another guy it was his kid wasn’t his but everybody knew she had slept with the guy that worked at the corner store they had a little affair but she never checked to see if it was his kid she just left it alone after two DNA test that’s wrong I had another friend she was married had four kids with her husband went to Vegas slept with a guy came home raise the kid as if it was her husband one of her kids got sick they did a paternity test and all her kids come to find out the second kid wasn’t even his it was the guy that she slept with in Vegas so do I believe in paternity test yes women do lie men lie and stop all the lying just have a DNA test when the child is born there’s nothing wrong with it it stops all the heartache for the future and it protects the child I am not here to bash a woman I’m not here to bash a man I just believe that everybody should have a DNA test even if you’re married

  • @allinme2008
    @allinme2008 Рік тому +11

    I really feel like this young man deserves better

  • @dance4life1208
    @dance4life1208 Рік тому +53

    He knew that child wasn’t his, which is why he didn’t want the DNA test. She must of started threatening child support.

    • @pmgumeebear
      @pmgumeebear Рік тому +4

      I think he was freeloading he knew it would be an open door situation because he “stepped” up he just putting an act on now

    • @gigga693
      @gigga693 Рік тому +5

      How would child support get him? He didn’t sign her birth certificate and biologically isn’t the father. He likely didn’t get the DNA test because he grew attached to the child.

    • @gigga693
      @gigga693 Рік тому +3

      @@pmgumeebear if he was no good I’m sure she would’ve objected to his testimony and gave her side in court. She nodded along & never disputed what was said about him as a person or father.
      She also looked sad after the results which speaks to his character and impact as a father to her child. She is likely nervous that her choices may have negative consequence on her child.

    • @dance4life1208
      @dance4life1208 Рік тому +1

      @@gigga693 because he playing dad to her child. I never heard that he didn’t sign the birth certificate. Many dudes that ain’t kids fathers end up on child support

  • @jeanturner9792
    @jeanturner9792 Рік тому +7

    Judge Matthis is always encourage young people to do better.

  • @Onlybridgette
    @Onlybridgette Рік тому +5

    The hurt in his eye at the end 😔 I hope the judge gets him counseling smh

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris Рік тому +11

    She’s giving me BLADE vibes with her look.
    He’s giving me Terence Trent D’Arby vibes.

  • @BrielleRobin-ti1ii
    @BrielleRobin-ti1ii Рік тому +1

    I love the way he handled the situation he kept everything cordial and put his feelings aside and even though he didn’t know if the baby was he stepped up to the plate and even referred to the baby as his baby

  • @lattiejohnson1056
    @lattiejohnson1056 Рік тому +6

    HE WAS SUCH A STAND UP MAN!!!!

  • @emanueldavis1627
    @emanueldavis1627 Рік тому +2

    She don't deserve a man like him. He's the type of man women run to after they have been used up, abused abandoned stretched thin by the low life's they go for.

  • @Megaman8707
    @Megaman8707 Рік тому +1

    Well spoken and had accountability. Clear and concise. This guy has it. Blessings to him for really doing his best in this life. Hate that the child wasn’t his. I know he probably really wanted that.

  • @ivonned32
    @ivonned32 Рік тому +3

    Hope all works out well for them and the girl/
    JM was proud of this young man!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @BlkMagickGaia3
    @BlkMagickGaia3 Рік тому +3

    The wig, contacts, w/ the nose ring stopped my scrolling... Bless her heart !

  • @NiecyDanae89
    @NiecyDanae89 Рік тому +4

    I know those results crushed him. It hurt my heart for him. Praying he continues on the good path he has started for himself and leave the low vibrational stuff behind.

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 Рік тому +2

    The defendant was very articulate and genuine ! I was really impressed by his testimony! He’s a good man! Who unfortunately got caught up in some foolishness.

  • @antoniowilliams756
    @antoniowilliams756 Рік тому +3

    This is the reason why I am TERRIFIED about bringing a kid into this world….as bad as I do want a child it’s the WICKEDNESS you don’t know about

  • @kayalso2722
    @kayalso2722 Рік тому +62

    Judge Mathis always gives the paternity results weird

    • @Hotwingzlover84
      @Hotwingzlover84 Рік тому +5

      How?

    • @MrsB320
      @MrsB320 Рік тому +1

      Very 😮

    • @gwenhewitt9710
      @gwenhewitt9710 Рік тому

      No the lying women are weirdos

    • @teneikalaprincess2669
      @teneikalaprincess2669 Рік тому +6

      Hell yeah. He says a whole speech about random stuff and then I'm like ok.... so what are the results?🧐😳🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Hotwingzlover84
      @Hotwingzlover84 Рік тому +1

      @@teneikalaprincess2669 😆 ok that's true

  • @bremccoy327
    @bremccoy327 Рік тому +1

    I admire how responsible and accountable this young man was the ENTIRE CASE. It hurt my heart to see the tears swell in his eyes to know that's not his daughter..

  • @Bray_Jay
    @Bray_Jay Рік тому +16

    "...not really..."
    She tried to wiggle herself out of admitting that she was getting her cheeks clapped by more than one guy during the same time period.

    • @isiahwarner3087
      @isiahwarner3087 Рік тому +7

      She attended and bought several admission tickets for Cheeks Clappin' Festival 2013!! Bet 💯%!! 🎟 🎫

    • @Bray_Jay
      @Bray_Jay Рік тому +4

      @@isiahwarner3087 😆 😆

  • @laikahmom
    @laikahmom Рік тому +6

    I don't care how good of a guy he seems, why should she be left with NO CAR. He wasn't the daddy but he KNEW there was a possibility BEFORE the child was even born. No he wasn't the daddy but he still wrecked her car.

  • @Jussme-l3d
    @Jussme-l3d Рік тому +10

    Judge Mathis makes rulings based on emotions.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 Рік тому

      Yes, normally I don't agree with these comments but this time?

  • @Nikewiththedimples
    @Nikewiththedimples Рік тому +2

    Damn! The way Judge Mathis was like "Unfortunately you been taking care of a child that's not yours! Ok both your parties are dismissed have a good day." He didn't even give the man a second to process and grieve. And he looked so sad.

  • @aminakane8643
    @aminakane8643 Рік тому +3

    Wow! I wanted to see his reaction after the paternity test results 😢I feel so sorry for him

  • @ruthmimms8905
    @ruthmimms8905 Рік тому +2

    Man you could see the tears in his eyes.. made me almost want to tear up.

  • @sandyrobinson9388
    @sandyrobinson9388 Рік тому +11

    I skipped to the end on this one. JM can be too theatrical for me sometimes.

  • @fjnomad
    @fjnomad Рік тому +7

    She just looks possessed in the other hand, the guy presented himself well.

  • @rickycandler2181
    @rickycandler2181 Рік тому +2

    She ain't shit for that. She knew he wasn't the father, but he was the best option and she ran with it.

  • @barbarapaton4005
    @barbarapaton4005 Рік тому +16

    Some couples are so flippant and lackadaisical about intimacy without protection

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 Рік тому

      Exactly! It never makes sense to me. Just raw-dogging with no care in the world about STI's, both curable and incurable such as HIV, herpes...smh

  • @lollylove1107
    @lollylove1107 Рік тому +3

    I hope he goes very far!!! A lil eductional credentials and ol dude could be behind that stand one day

  • @sereneamani1713
    @sereneamani1713 Рік тому +64

    This episode makes me so thankful for my parents. Common sense and thinking ability in high measure are just missing these days. With the availability of birth control, every birth should be a planned event. That's only part of the solution though. Because some people actually plan to have children when they nor their partner(s) are ready for parenthood. AND getting straight answers from the plaintiff is like pulling teeth.

    • @ak24553
      @ak24553 Рік тому +6

      Key word: common sense unfortunately she doesn’t use that often. This is sad and I think he always knew the child was not his that’s why it took so long for a test.

    • @theoracle2760
      @theoracle2760 Рік тому

      If birth control was the answer it would've solved the problem decades ago. It is not, and obviously there is something deeper going on that needs to be corrected. Especially amongst the so called black community.

  • @johnnelson6431
    @johnnelson6431 8 місяців тому +3

    Were is the accountability on the female part ? None ☹️

  • @kashmeredreamss1689
    @kashmeredreamss1689 Рік тому +6

    They are so honest

  • @lovelythoughts8855
    @lovelythoughts8855 Рік тому +2

    Mannnn the way judge announced he wasn't the father🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I HATED IT

  • @awarepenguin3376
    @awarepenguin3376 Рік тому +6

    I wish Judge Mathis would let us know when he's revealing paternity tests because he always tries to weave it into whatever he's talking about and it's hard to follow. That's important information and they need to hear it clearly the first time.

  • @queshebalittle6023
    @queshebalittle6023 Рік тому +2

    I'm very glad JM made the rite call on this situation and I pray he would further help him. The expression on his face wen he heard the news was heartbreaking. I understand y he never wanted to know because it changed him. I pray this don't stop him frm being positive and successful

  • @tierradeas5606
    @tierradeas5606 Рік тому +1

    I hope he has people around him to love on him after this, and I also wish the young lady strength for her daughter's sake

  • @5822huron
    @5822huron Рік тому +9

    The nose ring,wig,eyes says it all. I see nothing in her

  • @Shonda-vj7qb
    @Shonda-vj7qb Рік тому +4

    His appearance may be stereotypical, but he has a sweet gentle face.

  • @ciscokid.77
    @ciscokid.77 Рік тому +1

    I do not like how the judge handled the paternity part. Your a stand up dad. Don't leave that little girl sir

  • @angelicrealtor1
    @angelicrealtor1 Рік тому +2

    SHE KNEW THAT WAS NOT HIS CHILD!!! WOMEN LIKE HER MAKE ME SICK TO MY STOMACH. I HOPE HE MOVED ON AS FAR AS THEIR TOXIC RELATIONSHIP AND FOUND SOMEONE HE CAN LOVE, MARRY AND THEN HAVE A FAMILY IN THAT ORDER. HAVING NEVER GIVEN BIRTH TO CHILDREN I WOULD'VE BEEN PROUD TO BE HIS MOTHER 🙂 OUTSTANDING YOUNG MAN WHO DESERVES A 2ND CHANCE IN LIFE. BLESSINGS!!!

  • @Takeover23
    @Takeover23 Рік тому +3

    Him -“I was n a headlock n the front yard”
    judge- move on past that done embarrass yourself

  • @lenayoung1497
    @lenayoung1497 Рік тому +2

    JM, was really rooting to make this guy a stand up person regardless of the stereotype, nonetheless he caused the accident by the choice he made. The leniency came when he took responsibility for a child that wasn't his. So the Judge called it even.

  • @kentrellterrell314
    @kentrellterrell314 9 місяців тому +1

    That's why you should never judge a book by its cover

  • @denisefisher5678
    @denisefisher5678 Рік тому +3

    I really liked both of them she never lied from the get go that he was the actual dad and the fact he stepped up to be the dad was wonderful it's just so sad that he isn't the actual biological dad i would hope they can sort it out because i believe he would prefer to be in the child's life and I think she does as well when he was telling his part he made zero excuses for anything that he had previously done and when explaining about the car I think he made the right decision even though he was injured and didn't realise at the time because the situation could have been worse other than putting the car in the ditch when he was speaking he was so articulate 👏 I truly wish the best for both of them 💚🇬🇧

  • @stacyashlee
    @stacyashlee Рік тому +5

    So proud of this man

  • @yomajestytoyou2565
    @yomajestytoyou2565 Рік тому +5

    I’m having a hard time keeping up with this case! Dude speaks well, but damn he’s long winded

  • @queshebalittle6023
    @queshebalittle6023 Рік тому +1

    He is a stand up real young man
    I wish him nothing but the best in his present and future

  • @jesseoglesby9594
    @jesseoglesby9594 Рік тому +1

    This Woman is a real example of not being responsible

  • @MsDrobertson522
    @MsDrobertson522 Рік тому +32

    She's nasty, and he knew he was not the father!!

    • @pmgumeebear
      @pmgumeebear Рік тому +7

      She and him

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 Рік тому +1

      He also knew

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 Рік тому

      How is she nasty?? Both admit knowing there was a possibility of him not being the dad.

  • @brittnykeahnnah
    @brittnykeahnnah 11 місяців тому +1

    Wait a minute Wait a minute!! They can't just end it like this. He looked heartbroken and devastated. I genuinely want to give him a hug. Oh my goodness. This even breaks my heart. I hope he's okay and both of them can overcome this. 🙏

  • @blackl567892
    @blackl567892 Рік тому +12

    I need God/the universe to give this young man a break frfr. Not just a break but a come up bc just if life keeps dealing him the kind of hand we witnessed in this case, he’s going to break and I don’t wNt that for him. JM said he is strong but strong people get weak when they continually go thru shit like this. Praying and sending healing thoughts and energy his way.

    • @MsArLee1105
      @MsArLee1105 Рік тому +1

      It will start for him simply by making different decisions. It's called accountability & I think he has learned that now. He should have never messed with this chick knowing she had man. Had he made a different decision on that, 75% of his headache would be gone. He's a good dude. He has what it takes to rebound & excel. I am praying he does well & get himself back on track.

    • @kiaellis7613
      @kiaellis7613 Рік тому

      Love this! He needs this energy and opportunities to move forward. Praying for his stability! ❤

  • @susiesolangesimpson2828
    @susiesolangesimpson2828 Рік тому +44

    She would look so much better without the septum ring and a different wig.

  • @DevotionforNatasha
    @DevotionforNatasha 10 місяців тому

    Love & prosperity to them both…and the beautiful child!

  • @truthbetold1074
    @truthbetold1074 Рік тому +6

    nah Judge...He was in possession of the vehicle...like the other 90% of cases.....wow.....dismissed really????

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 Рік тому +2

      He felt bad he wasn’t the father

    • @skilletkitchencooking8993
      @skilletkitchencooking8993 Рік тому +1

      I saw it coming

    • @truthbetold1074
      @truthbetold1074 Рік тому

      @@ayana188 I did too,...but she knew...that's why she at least aint put a name on the baby's paperwork...

    • @bryangman1975
      @bryangman1975 Рік тому

      You have to prove negligence was he speeding not having a license drinking. She didn't have any thing. Mathis didn't cape this time for her. Most time he would of care this time he didn't care to ask he was done with her😅😅😅😅

  • @DarlinReal
    @DarlinReal Рік тому +2

    Smart young man. Good luck and kudos to him. Its sad that he followed the trend of moving in with women and driving their car. He deserves better but needs to pull himself a bit more together first. Unlike poles really attract each other.
    When she said, arguing like in most relationships, I thought about how young victims being groomed by their abusers are usually made to believe that's what happens in other households.

  • @bepos1luvok989
    @bepos1luvok989 Рік тому +1

    He knew that wasn’t his child thats why he waited. 🙏🏾 he keeps a relationship with the child.

  • @Mindurz
    @Mindurz Рік тому +3

    Her 👀 kind of scared me. Would've left soon as she asked me to.

  • @KayrinKae
    @KayrinKae Рік тому +1

    Good Man I wish him nothing but blessings especially to get his life together ❤🙏

  • @Extraordinary-80
    @Extraordinary-80 Рік тому +2

    Hilmon Car is top notch in my eyes. I've witness many male officers, DOCTORS, Nurses with wicked spirits and lack of compassion. the Judge is right in regards to the stereotypes.

  • @queencharlibee1991
    @queencharlibee1991 Рік тому +6

    He's a good gentleman.... Why in the hell does she look so damned creepy!!???? 😳😳😳

    • @Lisa-MarieG
      @Lisa-MarieG Рік тому +1

      I think it’s the color contacts.

  • @sunnyd6686
    @sunnyd6686 Рік тому +1

    Damn, the baby is not his. This is too much. Paternity tests should be mandatory at the hospital, period

  • @iamocube
    @iamocube Рік тому +1

    The result really hurt the defendant. He went 😕
    I pray he gets through this and don't let it make him regress

  • @morgansharee8374
    @morgansharee8374 Рік тому +10

    The look on his face at the end 🥺

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 Рік тому +6

    I think JM only ruled in his favor about the car because he knew the results beforehand. They need to stop letting him see test results ahead of time

  • @JohnSmith-y8v
    @JohnSmith-y8v Місяць тому

    He's the kind of guy whom you would imagine being a good friend.

  • @colethacrawford2053
    @colethacrawford2053 Рік тому

    Thanks for both of you being good ppl and doing the right things . Next frame , well we was beating on each other 😮