They weren’t friends. They hooked up every now and again, and it wasn’t even worth them hooking up because they were split right up. Then women start talking about. They want to be friends with a man first. SMH
She was a 11 and the boy was 10. Then, she said he’s so fly, I’m going to marry him one day. Really? Really? Really? Are you serious right now? Y’all are kids.
We ain’t even 5 mins in and the red flags 🚩 are flagging🙃. This relationship should’ve been over before it even turned into marriage🤦🏾♀️.. He is for the streets, the woods, the alley, the sewers, for everybody. She looks tire, broken, hurt, disappointed, and over it. I hope she stays firm on her decision, she deserve better, cause he ain’t sh!7✌🏾
She got what she wanted. She wanted that man so bad she proposed, he was no good and she thought he would get better. Ma'am own your part on your way out the door.
He was immature and weak. I don’t know why people think alcohol is such an innocent drug. If you’re immature and drink alcohol, what do you think the outcome is going to be? I’ve seen men hook up with other men that they thought were women. But if they weren’t drinking alcohol, they would’ve been able to tell that it was a man and not all ugly woman.
I know ppl who do fucd up shyt and then drink afterwards! All to blame it on alcohol. They are known alcoholics. Sometimes they pretend they drunk to get away wit stuff.
n it will 100 percent never work if the man doesn't ask to marry the woman. That means that man will not tolerate the bs that comes with the relationship. A man has to be strong and in love with the woman for that. U take that away and you have a man with a clear mind.
I went through this w/ my ex. He made multiple children. & did not understand why I didn’t want to sleep w/ him. Gross🤢 So thankful for wisdom & growth. Thankful to be away from that situation.
Once someone else knows your partner in a way that only you should know them. It is hard to look at them with the same perspective that you used to. Largely because cheating is a massive blow on multiple levels, mental emotional, physical, visual etc. and it’s hard to find your way back to what drew you to that person when they are constant reminders of the ultimate disrespect, such as cheating in the eyes of children that are not created between the two of of you.
Why do men do the most heinous things to their spouses over the years but then beg to stay married. He’s laughing at her she needs to leave his ass for good.
She exudes desperation. She said that she already had 2 children prior to ASKING him to marry her at age 20, but that her parents modeled a stable relationship and marriage for 40 years. She fell off the rails and in a fit of absolute desperation pushed that man into a marriage he didn't want or need. And she sealed it all with a baby. She should have let that boy go on about his business and made a life for herself. Now there are 7 children, all connected through the mess those two have made. Wow.
I pray that she takes her decision seriously now because this man is just using her and if she stays with him he's going to have loads more children. From when I heard 1 child I would have 'put on my Skechers and RAN!!!!!!!!!! but she stayed around for so many years because he's a handsome man with no love.
Guys like him then wonder why women "act bitter". Too many guys drag women through the mud, then get mad when she will not remain with him. To lose that kind of "power" over "their" woman is more humiliating to them than their own actions. Just sickening all around.
In the words of my niece “ain’t no KCUFING way!” This is just too much. We need to learn to stop wasting our time. You cannot get time back. You have got to know when enough is enough and cut your losses.
Good for her finally gaining enough strength to leave. I just wish she had learned sooner and not let him hurt her for so long but it's never too late for a shower of rain. Move forward girl and leave him in your dust 👏🏼
He has never been WITH her! All this is of her creation and he just went along. He showed who he was long before the proposal, HER PROPOSAL. The man she sees is in her mind, not in him. 💜💪🏾💜
Nope, that other woman is already laid out at the door and ready to be stepped on... She was probably waiting for him at the airport when he landed....😊
I was hoping someone would keep it real in the comments and let this woman know this is her fault for not paying attention to red flags and being desperate. She is not taking accountability. Ladies you must love yourself.
He claims she ‘stole’ settlement money awarded to her because she didn’t give him any?! This only displays how trifling he is in other areas! She should get rid of him for her own peace of mind!
I have always said that African-American women are the most forgiving women on Earth. In my book- this woman is a Saint. I hope she stands firm in her decision, because he started laughing when she produced the divorce papers. He will miss this woman, the comfort she provided, and the stability she provided for their offspring and him. You don't miss your water, until the well runs dry.
They are only forgiving to men they are sexually attracted to. Let’s be real. Every other man woulda got left in dust and the divorce stats prove that.
This judge gave good advice, she needs to move on. Poor woman had hopes and dreams, she looks older than her years, too many of them wasted on a despicable man.
I’m so glad star read him when he said “we were married at the time” so he feel like he’s entitled to some money. But you weren’t respecting the marriage AT ALLLLLLLLLLLL during the whole time. Now you wanna claim marriage! Man please.
I must be the dumbest person on earth, how on earth can a 10 year old fall in love. Honestly at 10, I didn't know anything about dating. All I knew was playing with my friends and no conversation about dating was known. I had my first boyfriend at 17 when I was a little grown.
She created her own delusion and was so committed to it, she tolerated ALL THE RED FLAGS. Then, she finally woke up and realized he doesn’t love her the way she loves him. He loves his ex
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Sometimes continuing a relationshit is like begging to be in purgatory for eternity. It's scary, but being free from all that shenanigans is a major relief and a chance of happiness. This woman had her chance the first time...she should have taken it.
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get her back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
I do not like when men and women saying the liquor make me have sex. If you do not want to have kids and play around in the field, have protection. Men protect your seed women value your worth. She had her breaking point and she really done.
Speaking from experience: just because they are a great friend does not mean they'll make a great partner.
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Just because you went to school 30 years ago doesn’t make the person good for you.
Amen. Some people are better friends than partner
They weren’t friends. They hooked up every now and again, and it wasn’t even worth them hooking up because they were split right up. Then women start talking about. They want to be friends with a man first. SMH
She was a 11 and the boy was 10. Then, she said he’s so fly, I’m going to marry him one day. Really? Really? Really? Are you serious right now? Y’all are kids.
We ain’t even 5 mins in and the red flags 🚩 are flagging🙃. This relationship should’ve been over before it even turned into marriage🤦🏾♀️.. He is for the streets, the woods, the alley, the sewers, for everybody. She looks tire, broken, hurt, disappointed, and over it. I hope she stays firm on her decision, she deserve better, cause he ain’t sh!7✌🏾
Oh damn😂😂😂🫣
Well said.
She got what she wanted. She wanted that man so bad she proposed, he was no good and she thought he would get better. Ma'am own your part on your way out the door.
She looks fedup and mentally exhausted
She brought all that nonsense on herself she the damn fool for keeping him around. 😎
@@colors5778…and continually having unprotected sex with random women. He’s nasty and trifling!
I Hate when people attempt to justify screwing up by blaming their actions on Alcohol, It comes off, SO WEAK SMH 😡
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Yea for real though i think that its just ludicris!
He was immature and weak. I don’t know why people think alcohol is such an innocent drug. If you’re immature and drink alcohol, what do you think the outcome is going to be? I’ve seen men hook up with other men that they thought were women. But if they weren’t drinking alcohol, they would’ve been able to tell that it was a man and not all ugly woman.
I know ppl who do fucd up shyt and then drink afterwards! All to blame it on alcohol. They are known alcoholics. Sometimes they pretend they drunk to get away wit stuff.
I have said it a hundred times before and I will say it again, if you have to propose to a man it is because he does not want to marry you 💯
Say dat!
Please say it again for the people over the River and through the Woods
n it will 100 percent never work if the man doesn't ask to marry the woman. That means that man will not tolerate the bs that comes with the relationship. A man has to be strong and in love with the woman for that. U take that away and you have a man with a clear mind.
I'll be single the rest of my life before i EVER propose to a man. Its not how God designed it.
All those kids b4 yall married. Whyyyy did u marry him. Have yall baby n move on girl. Omggg on a breakup so tht mean u can raw dog every hoe.
I went through this w/ my ex. He made multiple children. & did not understand why I didn’t want to sleep w/ him. Gross🤢 So thankful for wisdom & growth. Thankful to be away from that situation.
Once someone else knows your partner in a way that only you should know them. It is hard to look at them with the same perspective that you used to. Largely because cheating is a massive blow on multiple levels, mental emotional, physical, visual etc. and it’s hard to find your way back to what drew you to that person when they are constant reminders of the ultimate disrespect, such as cheating in the eyes of children that are not created between the two of of you.
I'd tell him I'd never do him again and live with him for financial security.
@@cymbolichuman433tried this… it won’t last long hun. They’ll treat you worse when you stay for the sake of money
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Lady divorce him...run run 🏃♂️
Why do men do the most heinous things to their spouses over the years but then beg to stay married. He’s laughing at her she needs to leave his ass for good.
Because he loves the fact that he can be unfaithful and do the most and she’ll still be around
Because they are selfish
She's pretty but 😔
Beg to stay married, only to end up doing the same dog @ss sh!t all over again... 🙄
@@kattiethomas4687 But what?
“Lottie, Dottie and everybody” …. I love Judge. She rocks
He is definitely an AW😮😮
Silly woman don't waste another minute with him 😮
Why would a woman take crap off of this fool???
Ma'am you went wrong by, buying the rings and proposing to him. All of that was out of order. That wasn't your place Ma'am.
Yeap he lost respect for her and it shows
The bailiff has a way with words.
Judge star is going off and I’m loving every minute of it
A mistake is not a pattern of behavior. Period.
There is no such thing as a mistake. It's what you do and what you don't do. And both are choices.
She exudes desperation. She said that she already had 2 children prior to ASKING him to marry her at age 20, but that her parents modeled a stable relationship and marriage for 40 years. She fell off the rails and in a fit of absolute desperation pushed that man into a marriage he didn't want or need. And she sealed it all with a baby. She should have let that boy go on about his business and made a life for herself. Now there are 7 children, all connected through the mess those two have made. Wow.
RIGHT THERE 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯😢
Whew. She been through too much. I pray for her healing because she really needs to be rid of him.
RUN!! Honey, run and don't look back!
This man doesn't even know the definition of love at all
#Facts
He sure loves himself!!
This is what happens when you propose to a man. Let him choose you. You looked at him as the prize and now…smh.
Even when they “choose you” it is often the same mess and same results.
Women get proposed to, and still get cheated on. He just wasn't ready or faithful..
She gives me either Scorpio or Taurus vibes with trying to own and possess a man 🤔
i was gon say the same thing @tib1632
Good point. If you let him choose, then you know for sure that he won’t cheat.
You right.
I pray that she takes her decision seriously now because this man is just using her and if she stays with him he's going to have loads more children. From when I heard 1 child I would have 'put on my Skechers and RAN!!!!!!!!!! but she stayed around for so many years because he's a handsome man with no love.
"Woman I'm pregnant again " are you serious the first time I hear he got a another woman pregnant I'm leaving that cheating asshole
Word
BIG FACTZZZ
Exactly! Not one but two outside babies..like wth
But stayed with him and birth 3 kids with this serial cheater,gurl bye,
Facts
You know Judge Star is mad when she says "FYDELITY" 😭😭😭
love me some robert😂😂😂, that hand gesture he made killed me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Guys like him then wonder why women "act bitter". Too many guys drag women through the mud, then get mad when she will not remain with him. To lose that kind of "power" over "their" woman is more humiliating to them than their own actions. Just sickening all around.
Thankyou
In the words of my niece “ain’t no KCUFING way!”
This is just too much. We need to learn to stop wasting our time. You cannot get time back. You have got to know when enough is enough and cut your losses.
Good for her finally gaining enough strength to leave. I just wish she had learned sooner and not let him hurt her for so long but it's never too late for a shower of rain. Move forward girl and leave him in your dust 👏🏼
Straight facts!
"A man has needs, your honor!" Well, how 'bout I give you 24/7 freedom to get your needs met. See ya!
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I Love Judge Star, that part when trifling meets Sorry that's what you get!!!!!!🔥🔥
Girl why did you keep getting pregnant and staying? You wanna blame him yes he’s raggedy but come on now
Women
Stop asking these men 2 marry u. He ain't ready which is y he hasn't asked u... DUH
Yep!!
He has never been WITH her! All this is of her creation and he just went along. He showed who he was long before the proposal, HER PROPOSAL. The man she sees is in her mind, not in him. 💜💪🏾💜
Stole her settlement money 😂 whole bum
If she did what he did he would divorce her. His attitude says it all.
Judge star I must say you look lovely during this episode. You look like a judge who's ready to get down to business.
Auntie you shouldn't have married him in the first place. 🙄
IKYFL!! Lady you better run!! If you stay with him, you’ll deserve everything that comes your way..
I guess now he has to go to Wal-Mart and get another welcome mat .Wow !! 🤨
Nope, that other woman is already laid out at the door and ready to be stepped on... She was probably waiting for him at the airport when he landed....😊
Janine is a beautiful lady with such a mature demeanor. She deserves better.
Could 2 babies in 3 affairs before marriage be a tiny red flag?
when the judge took her chair for a spin 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rofl
I was hoping someone would keep it real in the comments and let this woman know this is her fault for not paying attention to red flags and being desperate. She is not taking accountability. Ladies you must love yourself.
She should have left after the first baby. But to stay and have the side chick pull a Shirley Brown with the second baby? He's a selfish bum.
Don't say you love someone when you in the streets, please stop
Why is it that the ones with the worst behavior want to save the relationship? Stop acting crazy and maybe you wouldn't be in the situation you're in.
He really said his children are a mistake how sad for his children.
He claims she ‘stole’ settlement money awarded to her because she didn’t give him any?! This only displays how trifling he is in other areas!
She should get rid of him for her own peace of mind!
Yeah, he thought he was entitled to it because he's her husband 🙄 "stole" 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
She gave him half
Haha! I love it when Judge Star turns in her chair. Nice gimmick! 😂🖤
Whew, this dysfunction is real!!
Star off the chain! Love her!
I have always said that African-American women are the most forgiving women on Earth. In my book- this woman is a Saint. I hope she stands firm in her decision, because he started laughing when she produced the divorce papers. He will miss this woman, the comfort she provided, and the stability she provided for their offspring and him. You don't miss your water, until the well runs dry.
They are only forgiving to men they are sexually attracted to. Let’s be real. Every other man woulda got left in dust and the divorce stats prove that.
Facts
All black people always forgive please do not say black women always forgive.
And they SWEAR we aren’t. BW deal with way too much.
She’s a fool
I love this judge!
Judge Star Jones is SUPER! 🙂
This judge gave good advice, she needs to move on. Poor woman had hopes and dreams, she looks older than her years, too many of them wasted on a despicable man.
He takes no responsibility for his actions,wow??????
First red flag was them having a 5 year age gap, dating as “teens” as she said..how??
WHY IS SHE STILL WITH HIM
he obviously has no respect for her
She needs to leave and move on
The Baltimore accents tell me everything I need to know. Prayers. 🙏🏽
IT DOESNT MATTER ABOUT RACE...HE IS A CHEATER...
Action speaks louder than words......His actions says he doesn't want to be married .
I knew it was gonna be some shit when she said they met at a Jamaican festival. 🇯🇲😂
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I’m so glad star read him when he said “we were married at the time” so he feel like he’s entitled to some money. But you weren’t respecting the marriage AT ALLLLLLLLLLLL during the whole time. Now you wanna claim marriage! Man please.
She's a beautiful black woman that needs to keep her head up and don't look back.
My heart breaks for the wife. I too have been cheated on, and I will say it's one of the lowest feelings. I wish her the best 🙏
This is why I take relationships serious. Imagine wasting years with a loser.
Definitely staying Single. My kids is all I need. These people are nuts.
She started off all wrong.the man is suppose to find a wife.not the other way around.
Actions speak louder than words she should have left.
😂😂😂😂😂😂I know himmm yo wtf u doing on here yoooooo I’m crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And after the proposal his true colors came out!!!! He showed you who he is and you still married him!
I must be the dumbest person on earth, how on earth can a 10 year old fall in love. Honestly at 10, I didn't know anything about dating. All I knew was playing with my friends and no conversation about dating was known. I had my first boyfriend at 17 when I was a little grown.
That 1st child would have been it, done over
Baltimoreans have such a distinct accent
As soon as I saw that they were from Baltimore, I knew this would be an especially dusty story.
@@CoLivingSingle😂😂😂😂 Why you say that???? 😂😂😂
@@beb5407 - You already know!
It’s almost like the New Orleans accent
HE SAID "YES TO THE MESS!" SHE MESSED UP WHEN SHE PROPOSED TO HIM! IT'S HE THAT FINDETH A GOOD THING! NOT SHE THAT FINDETH!
This is the most disgusting 🤮 case period
He has no self control and doesn't desire to have any.... thats trifflin
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Thanks
She created her own delusion and was so committed to it, she tolerated ALL THE RED FLAGS. Then, she finally woke up and realized he doesn’t love her the way she loves him. He loves his ex
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Amen 🙏🏾 😊
Amen
Amen
Love Judge hair‼️😊
NAH you didn’t make a lot of mistakes, you made a lot of bad choices Bruh
He went raw
The star spin😂
I love the bailiff 😂 he’s like this is a mess lol
Don't look back Mrs. Jackson. Don't look back.
She knew what type of man he was before she married him. Don't feel sorry for her at all.
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@@killerhit00I feel sorry for her and the kids I don't feel sorry for his nasty ass 🤣💀
I don't either she a damn fool that's what she gets. 😎
@@colors5778 no that's him for being a thot and can't keep no relationship
Proposing to him was your first mistake, lol
She would be pissed off that you ask a man to marry you, she’s desperate
Chile, Judge Star was so unhinged 😊.
She has so many chances to really have been done with this man years ago.
Facts. She let too much go on.
Girl ain’t no way you proposed to a man 🙁
Especially that one.
Mr. Jackson opening statement "We have four "buddifull kids"... case dismissed...
Side chics coming the their home, reminded me of the song "I'll be down in a minute" by J'ce'nae! lol
Sometimes continuing a relationshit is like begging to be
in purgatory for eternity. It's scary, but being free from all
that shenanigans is a major relief and a chance of happiness.
This woman had her chance the first time...she should have taken it.
Run girl respect yourself he does love you or respect you
Oh no girl move on, let him go, hope you find happiness 🙏
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get her back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Cha mani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Hmm... didn't you change your photo overnight? The first one displayed an older man, not this younger man in a sharp suit. 🙂
Anyway, I wish you well!
The question should have been, "what did her mum think of their relationship when she was alive?"
He felt he could do what he wanted to do,she asked to marry him. Low self esteem.Why would you marry him??????
He is a down right dirty dog. Dumping him is the best thing she could do. Put him on child support, that'll do it.
Facts!!!!
She's just talking cause she clearly wants this fool😮😮
Robert's "wooow" is my ratchet meter lmao. That's how you know it's trifilin
He for the streets😒 glad she knows her worth and left him alone.
I do not like when men and women saying the liquor make me have sex. If you do not want to have kids and play around in the field, have protection. Men protect your seed women value your worth. She had her breaking point and she really done.