To parents who are out here sleeping with multiple partners, this what you cause. Some men out here with 10 children and 8 baby mama's. Women out here with 4 children and 4 baby daddies. You're destroying your children's lives.
This young man has too much potential to struggle through life alone, surely there’s a man out there who can mentor or assist him w/getting enrolled for the GED and then college. Who has a scholarship that fits his needs???? Reach out to the show, they’ll put you in touch. He’s only 23, I see greatness in him.
This is exactly what I thought! Mathis can connect him to someone. I’ve seen a lot of episodes of men that come on who have foundations that cater to this exact situation. I hope he goes far, he has such potential to be great!!
Hopefully Judge Mathis offered some assistance. He seemed a little to disappointed to stay out there. Understood, this is sad. Why do parents do that to their children?🤦🏾♀️
This relationship is divinely orchestrated. They may not realize that the blessing is that they are now part of each others life… regardless of kinship.
When I hear stories regarding absent fathers, my heart goes out to these young men and women; boys and girls. My father was always there, worshiped the ground we walked on (there were 5 of us), hugged and kissed us daily, my sisters were his princesses, his boys were his buddies. He protected us, we ran from him when he was having a drink; not because we were afraid, but because he kissed you more, loved you more. I never knew the importance or how blessed we were, because in our eyes, it was just a way of life. We loved him to death and until we were adults, we did not know or care about the importance of him being a Dad. So i send this message to all Fathers, be a Dad. Never let your child, your seed, wonder who you are, where you are, and what you are supposed to do for them. I wish every child had a Dad like ours. Mom, you picked a good one. Moms, try your best to pick a good one. You and your children deserve that. Fathers, stop being absent or dont create life!!!
Yep. Most of the men in my family on both sides aren't not much of shit. But my dad was also good to me and in my life. My mom and him was married til I was 15. Same house for 10 yrs. I really had a good foundation. Grew up in the 90s, a 80s baby. And I was one of the only handful of students, at a predominantly black middle sko. Who had their father at home. So it's rare. The blk comm has to do better.
Same here. My parents have been married for 58 years. My dad to this day is my ACE! I visit my parents multiple times a week and we call each other daily. Fathers its important to be present, I promise you matter just as much as momma do!!!
This women has refused to let her child know who the father is. It is absolutely crazy. Mothers often keep the kids from their dads because they hate him. Women have to do better
He is an amazing young man. He can go so far once he completes his secondary education. That hug has me in tears. There are still amazing people in this world. ❤
7:45am and im crying like a baby.. that was raw emotion and I felt it all... i wanted them to be siblings sooo bad...he was so in touch, it low key made me proud
This may sound really weird but I wouldn't be surprised if they end up dating after processing it all. Did you see how she melted in his arms? They may be a safe space for each other. This was hard to watch 😪
In all the episodes I've watched over the years, this is the first one that ever had me tearing up. These two young people have been so hurt and wronged. I really hope good things for both of them. 💜
I was in the middle of commenting about her needing a hug (him, too) when they finally hugged. I kinda wish this was one of those moments where JM came off the bench for them. He's done it before and these 2 were in DESPERATE need of that humanity from a male/father figure.
Exactly , it could be her father & not his . I don’t think her mother truly knew though because the birth date was wrong which makes sense why she didn’t want to help her look for him or pursue with the child support when the aunt suggested it .
Right.. That's why it's always a better outcome when it's.. say... If a male dies and paternity needs to be established.. for children he left behind, IF POSSIBLE.. IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO USE THE DECEASED MOTHER DNA.. 99.99% of the time the deceased is the mother's real child, but with fathers.. if the man... thought 2 be the deceased man's father.. but he really isn't, but the dad didn't know, and they swab him... it will come back NO RELATIONS.. IT COULD BE A FALSE.. NO... BECAUSE THE GRANDFATHER AIN'T the dead baby daddy's real father.. Hence, the DNA won't match.. Leaving the girl with the baby, to BELIEVE that her deceased bf or ex isn't her baby's father. WHEN the baby really is the FAMILIES child... That's why it's best to use the mother's dna profile, if she's available or even... the deceased's man's sibling, that share the same mother.. Nobody talks alot that enough.. It can really be complicated.. and sadly the actual parentage could be missed.
I wish I knew her…she needs so much love. Her mom wasn’t the nicest to her on top of not being honest about her dad smh! He didn’t hug her bc he was processing it himself…you saw his heart drop. Just bc people doing respond quickly it doesn’t mean they don’t care or aren’t hurting. Men respond differently…for him to hug her says a lot about his respect for her. I hope they stay in touch and he takes heed do JM’s advice. Blessings to them both!
Exactly..Judge Mathis kept asking him to express his feelings but some people will have an unbearable breakdown if they let go. We all process emotions differently...
The whole audience is crying. This was so emotional all around. I pray these young people can guide and support each other throughout their journey. Great episode, we miss you Judge ❤
That broke my heart....two sweet adorable young people. I pray babygirl find her peace. He is just a good man...he said she healed him a.nd now he has to help her heal...now that's a son to be proud of and a great person to want to call brother. I'm praying for you both.
3 minutes in... The step dad is WRONG for just abandoning her. He raised her for a significant amount of time and after divorce just left her out like that?!
Emotionally immature and emotionally damaged. They see those relationships as a branch of the mother and if they’re done with her they’re done with what’s connected to her. She said he was there for his child, but as a sound adult it’s no way I can cut off a child who I was a father figure to especially when I was their father figure when I was with their mom. I know forsure im the father figure when I’m not with her. It’s low and cold.
Some parents really will never know the amount of sheer PAIN they cause their children. NO idea. Both of their stories were so heartbreaking. Abandonment is a wound that runs DEEP deep. I am praying deeply for God’s fatherly hand to be upon them. If you see this comment please please do the same.
Oh some know. They just don’t care. Same mess from my bio mother. I’m fine because she didn’t raise me - her sister did, but my two brothers had different dads, and were raised by her. The other two never met their fathers. Idc what anyone says there is no way that did not affect them. Mine was a different being adopted by my aunt because she was also married. And when I turned 14 I asked my aunts who adopted me about my biological father. She found those people for me. There was no question. They accepted me. Because I looked like my sister in two of my cousins. My father was already dead. No paternity test or anything. My bio mother, she realizes exactly what she did. But at 73 years old, she still does not care. And sees nothing wrong with having three kids by three different men and a three year time span who’ve never seen their children.
I couldn’t help but break down crying when I saw the girl crying. I know that caused another large scar in her heart. She said she asked her mom if she hated her because she won’t tell her anything, then she comes to find out and gets crushed all over again. I hope he’s doing okay too. Her mom’s dishonesty is disgusting. This is why it’s important to build a solid foundation for your children. Try your hardest to give them TWO PARENT HOUSEHOLDS. I’m so upset for them and I pray they are able to heal from the decisions made that they had no control over😢
@@urluvizmyluv1999 thank you for pointing this out. I liked the earlier comment but will unlike it now. My grandmother had 16 children. She had a mental disability and was taken advantage of by numerous men. Just awful.
I’m a grown white man sitting here crying for these two. Parents we have to do better and stop making choices that will devastate our children in the future and ultimately make them dysfunctional.
Very emotional u can tell shes felt so alone...she still asked him to be her brother 🥺 and he was understanding and respectful to accept what she asked.. I love this 💕
Be encouraged young lady, wish I had a daughter like you. Don’t let your mother get you down. Just break the cycle starting with your own children. Wish you both the best.
😢 I hate cases like this. Folks are too hopeful especially going on dribs & drabs of information. I hope these 2 young people create an unbreakable bond. I wish them the best in their journeys.
. ( JOB ) 8 : 8 .. "For enquire, I pray thee, of the former age, and prepare thyself to the search of their fathers": The beast system, has, "BROKEN" us; torn us apart : now we just, "destroy" each other ! / ( ECCLESIASTES ) 2 : 17.. Therefore I hated life ; because the work that is wrought under the sun is "Grievous" unto me : for all is vanity and "vexation of spirit". Thank you for your time. Repent.
I belong to no one. I make my own future. No other human made me. I decide who I am and how I want to be. Too many people look to someone else for validation or to "save them". If you don't like your ways, CHANGE!
These 2 humans are amazing and I hope they can both help each other to heal and process this. Im bawling my eyes out and was rooting for them to be siblings. Sending them both strength and positivity for the next chapter of their lives. ❤💪🏽🙇🏿♀️
My heart goes out to these wonderful well spoken children. Their parents should be proud of them. I wish they continue to be a pillar for each other. I have a 22 year old son and i can feel the young man’s pain. I pray for peace for both of them. I’m so proud of them. May God continue to shower them with His love and affection.
By far the best and saddest episode. Hits home and brings back memories. The young man nailed it. Explains a lot about inner city youth that people don’t realize. My heart aches for that young lady to be 11 years old and put in that traumatic experience.
It's so sad that they had to grow up without a father...I had my dad bt would've been better off without him could've saved myself from so much psychological emotional &nd physical damage smh...
@Melissa my dad mistreated my mom &nd the kds she had before him for many yrs...when they divorced I did his time she treated me like trash cus he wasn't that way with me...bt growing up in a violent home really wears on you follow you through adulthood...if I asked about him I was slapped it's just alot to even talk about smh...needless to say I don't have a relationship with either one...I had to go find my peace...
@jaslee7878 I was just reading the comments, and it appears that you (Jasmin the litigant) was also reading the comments and responding... I am a 47 year old man, and I never had an opportunity to develop a happy and healthy relationship with my father either. Therefore, I empathetically understand how you might be feeling. Just based on this case, and the small view and description of your life, you seem to be a beautiful young lady inside and out. As a father myself, I have a better understanding of the roles and development that they play in their kids' lives. I don't want to write too much, but "please" be mindful the people (especially men) that you allow into your life. In my opinion, a good man for you would be protective, he would be sensitive and understanding regarding your needs and experiences, and he will love and respect you. "Don't sell yourself short and settle for less. Take care young lady ❤️!
This case really hurt my heart. They are two very beautiful people. I hope they can forge a life long kinship with each other. Even though they may not be biological family, I pray that they are able to become family to each other since they have a similar journey and seem like good,, solid individuals. They both have a place of belonging. Praying for them. God-bless them.
She’s gorgeous and well spoken! Both have bright lights within them and have potential to do phenomenal things. May they both heal & lean on each other. Do the leg work to make their dreams happen! They can do it!
This hurt my heart so much. I’m 55 years old and have never physically seen my father. I remember my grandmother showing me a picture of him one day. She called me into her bedroom one day and showed me a picture and said this is your father. She also told me he was in our neighborhood one day, when I was young, and saw me. He was coming to say something to me but my grandmother told me that the neighbor advised him not to. Not sure why. I wish I had met him.😢
I kept my dreams close to my chest through my teen years for fear that someone in my family, esp. my father would sabotage them. By the time they figured out what I was up to it was too late for them to do anything negative... and that's a shame as far as needing and not getting support.
This was very though to watch. A lot of my friends didn't have a father figure growing up. These 2 have been through so much similar things they can really help each other heal and I want them to know that they have worth and value in this world... Stay strong
Lord above, this epidode is probably the most heartbreaking episode I've ever watched - and I've been a JM fan since he started in 1999. This one has me non-stop tearing up 😢. Dear God, please please please help these two bright and beautiful people find their way in this very tough world, even if they never find their dad(s). Give them strength, courage, hope, health, prosperity, and may they each find love and have the greatest of peace in their hearts, in His name I pray. 💐💐🙏🏽💞❤️💓💖🩷💜
That was so tuff. Family don’t have to necessarily be blood. I hope these two young people form there own family, and give each other what they so desperately need from family. That’s what I did. I branched off from the disfunction, and formed my own family, and I’m proud of myself.
This was heart breaking damn...... Just tell the truth regardless of the outcome. Tell the truth, you don't know if you dating a family member or not in the future, this is extremely critical.
JUDGE MATHIS. But let me tell u something DON'T EVER IM LET U FINISH THAT PLAINTIFF. DON'T U EVER ASSAULT ME WITH ANOTHER PIECE OF CHICKEN DO U HEAR ME 😂😂❤
Cases like this are hard to watch😭 Parents definitely have to do better & be truthful about paternity. So sad. I pray these two are successful in whatever their heart desires.
Wow, The he Truths of Two Young People Searching for Answers. Two Seemingly Lost Souls, Figuring Out Life on Their Own. Is Both Heartwrenching and Heartwarming. Another Reason Why I Love to Watch The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis TV Show is how; The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis Imparts Truth and Knowledge to His Viewers. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis is an Exemplary Man of Integrity.
Is it bad that I want them to date.. Hear me out, the level of maturity that young man has I know that he would treat her great and she deserves a a good guy like him to show her a different view of man. God bless these 2
Painful to hear their stories but so glad its shared. This is what having multiple babies w diff fathers and just dysfunctional mess in general brings. This young man is very self aware and the young lady seems very sweet. I hope they both get therapy and creat the lives they desire. Sending good energy.
Oh bless these two although they are not siblings they met for a reason so beautiful although the news wasn't what she expected this made me cry and I pray for her and him hopefully they can be there for each other
This one touched my heart and soul. Hopefully everyone watching can see the lesson in this case. May God ease the pain of these 2 and of everyone who's going thru similar struggles.
This young man needs someone. He has a beautiful soul but needs support. As does this young lady. Lord please bless these two young people along the way. I pray if they have children they can put their children first and be better than their parents. Amen.
They should have tested the siblings with the dads family memebers. Im saddened that neither one of them had anyone to show up on their behalf for supprt
This messed me up. Her mother is so damn selfish, you have this baby thinking you hate her! And to hear he was in a low spot of his life before his sister reached out, that was an angel reaching out to him thru her. I just know God will continue to love them both and heal their broken hearts
That's probably why the mother didn't want to help her daughter get in contact with the supposed father because she knew he wasn't the biological father.
They both seem like genuine sweet souls I pray they stay connected because they do relate to each other. They really can help heal each other by the grace of God I wish the best for them both I really felt her hurt and pain God bless them both 🙏🏽✝️💟
Why do parents do this to their children? It will only make them resent you. That's why the mom didn't want to put her alleged father on child support. She knew he wasn't the father either.
The boy's story almost breaks my heart. He lacked guidance and male mentor to help him go through life. But he looks an upstanding guy with responsible mindset. And I appreciate his insight of his own situation and attitude to act to it accordingly. And I know there are many children that don't have parental support. They end up either in prison or in the graveyard. So, parents, you get to be more responsible towards your kids growing up.
Wow! My dad said the same thing about how he learned a lot from my granddaddy because he didn't know his dad. When I was 17 my dad and I met his dad for the first time together. Prior to him arriving I was so excited. However my dad said it wasn't a big deal to him because the man was never there for him nor his brothers.
This case broke my heart, more so because I had the same experience. I’m 37 yrs old and to this day im still unclear on who my father really is. I have a sister who I look identical to so I’m sure her father is my father but he passed away and I never got a chance to met him and it would be nice to have proof on paper or just to hear the words out of his my acknowledging and claim me as his own 😢
Dang I'm getting tearful listening at work!!! PARENTS!! STOP lying to YO KIDS!!!! if you were out the being a "garden tool" and giving it up to everyone that's your business, but think about the child PLEASE!! Find out for who their father is BEFORE they grown!!!! PLEASE !!! Its just not right!
To parents who are out here sleeping with multiple partners, this what you cause. Some men out here with 10 children and 8 baby mama's. Women out here with 4 children and 4 baby daddies. You're destroying your children's lives.
Facts
Emotionally If No Other Way. Definitely Destroying Them Emotionally
@@SoleahWright facts
Yes... also just BE HONEST! Just like Judge Mathis said, just say that you don't know rather than send this young lady on a Easter egg hunt. Smh
It’s not only the quantity but the quality.
This young man has too much potential to struggle through life alone, surely there’s a man out there who can mentor or assist him w/getting enrolled for the GED and then college. Who has a scholarship that fits his needs???? Reach out to the show, they’ll put you in touch. He’s only 23, I see greatness in him.
This is exactly what I thought! Mathis can connect him to someone. I’ve seen a lot of episodes of men that come on who have foundations that cater to this exact situation. I hope he goes far, he has such potential to be great!!
Hopefully Judge Mathis offered some assistance. He seemed a little to disappointed to stay out there. Understood, this is sad. Why do parents do that to their children?🤦🏾♀️
Fraternities, Masons, Nobility.. first 3
I see greatness and unfortunately sadness in his life,God take away the sadness so he can have gladness amen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Pastors, Deacons, MEN where are you.
This relationship is divinely orchestrated. They may not realize that the blessing is that they are now part of each others life… regardless of kinship.
Agreed
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When I hear stories regarding absent fathers, my heart goes out to these young men and women; boys and girls.
My father was always there, worshiped the ground we walked on (there were 5 of us), hugged and kissed us daily, my sisters were his princesses, his boys were his buddies. He protected us, we ran from him when he was having a drink; not because we were afraid, but because he kissed you more, loved you more. I never knew the importance or how blessed we were, because in our eyes, it was just a way of life. We loved him to death and until we were adults, we did not know or care about the importance of him being a Dad. So i send this message to all Fathers, be a Dad. Never let your child, your seed, wonder who you are, where you are, and what you are supposed to do for them. I wish every child had a Dad like ours. Mom, you picked a good one. Moms, try your best to pick a good one. You and your children deserve that. Fathers, stop being absent or dont create life!!!
You are not lucky but BLESSED 😇
Yep. Most of the men in my family on both sides aren't not much of shit. But my dad was also good to me and in my life. My mom and him was married til I was 15. Same house for 10 yrs. I really had a good foundation. Grew up in the 90s, a 80s baby. And I was one of the only handful of students, at a predominantly black middle sko. Who had their father at home. So it's rare. The blk comm has to do better.
Same here. My parents have been married for 58 years. My dad to this day is my ACE! I visit my parents multiple times a week and we call each other daily. Fathers its important to be present, I promise you matter just as much as momma do!!!
This women has refused to let her child know who the father is. It is absolutely crazy. Mothers often keep the kids from their dads because they hate him. Women have to do better
He is an amazing young man. He can go so far once he completes his secondary education. That hug has me in tears. There are still amazing people in this world. ❤
Praying for both of y'all .. That was hard. He spoke soo well and can see the hurt on him. Stand tall young man and young lady. ❤
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7:45am and im crying like a baby.. that was raw emotion and I felt it all... i wanted them to be siblings sooo bad...he was so in touch, it low key made me proud
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This may sound really weird but I wouldn't be surprised if they end up dating after processing it all. Did you see how she melted in his arms? They may be a safe space for each other. This was hard to watch 😪
They dating now
@@india-ds3wf Wow
Lmao no their not, I know Ken personally 🤣
This young man brought tears to my eyes. “I wasn’t loving correctly…No one teaches us how to love…” is 100% relatable
In all the episodes I've watched over the years, this is the first one that ever had me tearing up. These two young people have been so hurt and wronged. I really hope good things for both of them. 💜
So glad he finally hugged her!
Lol I came to the comments to see if anybody else was yelling at their phones "go hug her baby!" 😂😂😂❤
He didn't know how to react. He's clearly emotionally damaged as well.
@@ktreshamickens4670exactly...they've both experienced a lot of trauma...May God heal them both completely.
Yes! Because I was about to jump through the screen and hug her myself.
I was in the middle of commenting about her needing a hug (him, too) when they finally hugged. I kinda wish this was one of those moments where JM came off the bench for them. He's done it before and these 2 were in DESPERATE need of that humanity from a male/father figure.
The problem with the sibling test is that you never can tell which one isnt the child of the father....
Right. I was wondering if paternity had been established for the son. 🤔
Exactly , it could be her father & not his . I don’t think her mother truly knew though because the birth date was wrong which makes sense why she didn’t want to help her look for him or pursue with the child support when the aunt suggested it .
Wow! I never thought about that!
Right.. That's why it's always a better outcome when it's.. say... If a male dies and paternity needs to be established.. for children he left behind, IF POSSIBLE.. IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO USE THE DECEASED MOTHER DNA.. 99.99% of the time the deceased is the mother's real child, but with fathers.. if the man... thought 2 be the deceased man's father.. but he really isn't, but the dad didn't know, and they swab him... it will come back NO RELATIONS.. IT COULD BE A FALSE.. NO... BECAUSE THE GRANDFATHER AIN'T the dead baby daddy's real father.. Hence, the DNA won't match.. Leaving the girl with the baby, to BELIEVE that her deceased bf or ex isn't her baby's father. WHEN the baby really is the FAMILIES child... That's why it's best to use the mother's dna profile, if she's available or even... the deceased's man's sibling, that share the same mother..
Nobody talks alot that enough.. It can really be complicated.. and sadly the actual parentage could be missed.
I wish I knew her…she needs so much love. Her mom wasn’t the nicest to her on top of not being honest about her dad smh! He didn’t hug her bc he was processing it himself…you saw his heart drop. Just bc people doing respond quickly it doesn’t mean they don’t care or aren’t hurting. Men respond differently…for him to hug her says a lot about his respect for her. I hope they stay in touch and he takes heed do JM’s advice. Blessings to them both!
Exactly..Judge Mathis kept asking him to express his feelings but some people will have an unbearable breakdown if they let go. We all process emotions differently...
Two beautiful young people.... They sound intelligent and seem to be 'decent'....I pray life brings them peace and happiness...
This is tough! Hang in there! You two are beautiful people. Keep being an inspiration for others! 🥰❤
Keep God And Jesus Christ First Stay Prayed Up and Keep the Faith You all have this …Everyone has a testimony it’s on u too recognize
The whole audience is crying. This was so emotional all around. I pray these young people can guide and support each other throughout their journey. Great episode, we miss you Judge ❤
Her mother is soo irresponsible to not help her in her journey. Such a beautiful young lady and handsome young man. I hope they can help each other.
Probably because she didn't have the slightest clue.
He’s such a wise young man. I hope he goes far.
That broke my heart....two sweet adorable young people. I pray babygirl find her peace. He is just a good man...he said she healed him a.nd now he has to help her heal...now that's a son to be proud of and a great person to want to call brother. I'm praying for you both.
Gut wrenching…these parents! Ugh!!!!!
Awful!
Exactly!
3 minutes in... The step dad is WRONG for just abandoning her. He raised her for a significant amount of time and after divorce just left her out like that?!
Unfortunately a lot of biological dads aren't much better after divorce.
Emotionally immature and emotionally damaged. They see those relationships as a branch of the mother and if they’re done with her they’re done with what’s connected to her. She said he was there for his child, but as a sound adult it’s no way I can cut off a child who I was a father figure to especially when I was their father figure when I was with their mom. I know forsure im the father figure when I’m not with her. It’s low and cold.
It could be the mother probably threatened him not to involve himself anymore with her and to a degree, he might have had to oblige. Very sad.😢
So he's supposed to stay in the life of a child whose not his own, whose mother is obviously a liar and someone who is no longer in his Life? 🤷🏿♂️🤣
Some parents really will never know the amount of sheer PAIN they cause their children. NO idea.
Both of their stories were so heartbreaking. Abandonment is a wound that runs DEEP deep.
I am praying deeply for God’s fatherly hand to be upon them. If you see this comment please please do the same.
Oh some know. They just don’t care. Same mess from my bio mother. I’m fine because she didn’t raise me - her sister did, but my two brothers had different dads, and were raised by her. The other two never met their fathers. Idc what anyone says there is no way that did not affect them. Mine was a different being adopted by my aunt because she was also married. And when I turned 14 I asked my aunts who adopted me about my biological father. She found those people for me. There was no question. They accepted me. Because I looked like my sister in two of my cousins. My father was already dead. No paternity test or anything. My bio mother, she realizes exactly what she did. But at 73 years old, she still does not care. And sees nothing wrong with having three kids by three different men and a three year time span who’ve never seen their children.
I couldn’t help but break down crying when I saw the girl crying. I know that caused another large scar in her heart. She said she asked her mom if she hated her because she won’t tell her anything, then she comes to find out and gets crushed all over again. I hope he’s doing okay too. Her mom’s dishonesty is disgusting. This is why it’s important to build a solid foundation for your children. Try your hardest to give them TWO PARENT HOUSEHOLDS. I’m so upset for them and I pray they are able to heal from the decisions made that they had no control over😢
2 beautiful souls❤️I hope they continue to form a sibling bond because even though they're not related they both need each other
Wow! Four kids, four baby daddies and three are gone! His mama was a little wild.
Or she was taken advantage of. Both are equally possible.
@@urluvizmyluv1999 thank you for pointing this out. I liked the earlier comment but will unlike it now. My grandmother had 16 children. She had a mental disability and was taken advantage of by numerous men. Just awful.
I’m a grown white man sitting here crying for these two. Parents we have to do better and stop making choices that will devastate our children in the future and ultimately make them dysfunctional.
Very emotional u can tell shes felt so alone...she still asked him to be her brother 🥺 and he was understanding and respectful to accept what she asked.. I love this 💕
Be encouraged young lady, wish I had a daughter like you. Don’t let your mother get you down. Just break the cycle starting with your own children. Wish you both the best.
😢 I hate cases like this. Folks are too hopeful especially going on dribs & drabs of information.
I hope these 2 young people create an unbreakable bond. I wish them the best in their journeys.
Never stop searching for whom you belong to. Certainly a crisis that continues to plague the black community and household.
So true
. ( JOB ) 8 : 8 .. "For enquire, I pray thee, of the former age, and prepare thyself to the search of their fathers": The beast system, has, "BROKEN" us; torn us apart : now we just, "destroy" each other ! / ( ECCLESIASTES ) 2 : 17.. Therefore I hated life ; because the work that is wrought under the sun is "Grievous" unto me : for all is vanity and "vexation of spirit". Thank you for your time. Repent.
They stole the real Adrain again
I belong to no one. I make my own future. No other human made me. I decide who I am and how I want to be. Too many people look to someone else for validation or to "save them". If you don't like your ways, CHANGE!
@@xxxx2935… and turn your life over to your Creator, Who knows EVERYTHING, Christ, Jesus.
It’s so sad and unfortunate that children have to go through this because their parents were on BS!
Beautiful, well-spoken individuals ❤ God bless
These 2 humans are amazing and I hope they can both help each other to heal and process this. Im bawling my eyes out and was rooting for them to be siblings. Sending them both strength and positivity for the next chapter of their lives. ❤💪🏽🙇🏿♀️
My heart goes out to these wonderful well spoken children. Their parents should be proud of them. I wish they continue to be a pillar for each other. I have a 22 year old son and i can feel the young man’s pain. I pray for peace for both of them. I’m so proud of them. May God continue to shower them with His love and affection.
What an outstanding young brother. May God continue to guide your ways and grow. Blessings to you both!
No high school diploma but still very smart and talented. I see a bright future for him
Two wonderful & thoughtful young people. I hope they stay in touch. 🙏
I really wanted to hug both of them through out this case. I hope they’re okay and doing good in life…
Her mother was trying to hide something but unfortunately her past came to light and emotionally drained her daughter 😢
Poor baby…her tears have me crying.she really needs the support of that amazing introspective new brother of hers. I wish them the best.
Judge, please extend a hand of friendship to this young man so he can reach his full potential. His natural light is ready to shine through.
I’m with ya, I know JM got his own family but I whole heartedly agree…
By far the best and saddest episode. Hits home and brings back memories. The young man nailed it. Explains a lot about inner city youth that people don’t realize. My heart aches for that young lady to be 11 years old and put in that traumatic experience.
It's so sad that they had to grow up without a father...I had my dad bt would've been better off without him could've saved myself from so much psychological emotional &nd physical damage smh...
And I often have that thought of is it better to grow up with a father even if he's trash it better if you never knew him🤔
@Melissa my dad mistreated my mom &nd the kds she had before him for many yrs...when they divorced I did his time she treated me like trash cus he wasn't that way with me...bt growing up in a violent home really wears on you follow you through adulthood...if I asked about him I was slapped it's just alot to even talk about smh...needless to say I don't have a relationship with either one...I had to go find my peace...
@@NKAB4 ❤ sending u love.
@Gods Princess thank you sis I really need it...same for you ❤️❤️❤️...
My heart breaks for her…your smart, resilient, and amazing. Praying for your healing for the both you.
Thank you ❤
@@jaslee7878 your welcome❤
@jaslee7878 I was just reading the comments, and it appears that you (Jasmin the litigant) was also reading the comments and responding...
I am a 47 year old man, and I never had an opportunity to develop a happy and healthy relationship with my father either. Therefore, I empathetically understand how you might be feeling.
Just based on this case, and the small view and description of your life, you seem to be a beautiful young lady inside and out. As a father myself, I have a better understanding of the roles and development that they play in their kids' lives.
I don't want to write too much, but "please" be mindful the people (especially men) that you allow into your life. In my opinion, a good man for you would be protective, he would be sensitive and understanding regarding your needs and experiences, and he will love and respect you. "Don't sell yourself short and settle for less.
Take care young lady ❤️!
the way some people are having kids and damaging their childhood, is heartbreaking, this case is very 😞 sad, my heart goes out to them
This case really hurt my heart. They are two very beautiful people. I hope they can forge a life long kinship with each other. Even though they may not be biological family, I pray that they are able to become family to each other since they have a similar journey and seem like good,, solid individuals. They both have a place of belonging. Praying for them. God-bless them.
She’s gorgeous and well spoken! Both have bright lights within them and have potential to do phenomenal things. May they both heal & lean on each other. Do the leg work to make their dreams happen! They can do it!
This was extremely painful to watch. These are 2 beautiful young people. They deserved better parents.
This hurt my heart so much. I’m 55 years old and have never physically seen my father. I remember my grandmother showing me a picture of him one day. She called me into her bedroom one day and showed me a picture and said this is your father. She also told me he was in our neighborhood one day, when I was young, and saw me. He was coming to say something to me but my grandmother told me that the neighbor advised him not to. Not sure why. I wish I had met him.😢
I kept my dreams close to my chest through my teen years for fear that someone in my family, esp. my father would sabotage them. By the time they figured out what I was up to it was too late for them to do anything negative... and that's a shame as far as needing and not getting support.
That hug at the end DID IT FOR MEH!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Jesus have mercy...the testimony from these young people BROKE MY HEART😭
They will bring so much peace and love to each other
This was very though to watch. A lot of my friends didn't have a father figure growing up. These 2 have been through so much similar things they can really help each other heal and I want them to know that they have worth and value in this world... Stay strong
What nice young adults. I feel so badly for her.🌸
Lord above, this epidode is probably the most heartbreaking episode I've ever watched - and I've been a JM fan since he started in 1999. This one has me non-stop tearing up 😢. Dear God, please please please help these two bright and beautiful people find their way in this very tough world, even if they never find their dad(s). Give them strength, courage, hope, health, prosperity, and may they each find love and have the greatest of peace in their hearts, in His name I pray. 💐💐🙏🏽💞❤️💓💖🩷💜
That was so tuff. Family don’t have to necessarily be blood. I hope these two young people form there own family, and give each other what they so desperately need from family. That’s what I did. I branched off from the disfunction, and formed my own family, and I’m proud of myself.
I grew up with bro we stayed in the same neighborhood he really do come from the trenches, got hella talent too
Awww I’m in tears for them. So sad smh .
They both have me in tears i pray everything good happens to them moving forward
This was heart breaking damn...... Just tell the truth regardless of the outcome. Tell the truth, you don't know if you dating a family member or not in the future, this is extremely critical.
That’s why I respect this judge - he is an agent of change‼️‼️‼️🙏🏾💥🫶🏾✊🏾
She bout to get 40,302 marriage proposals. lol. Ya'll need to chill.
JUDGE MATHIS. But let me tell u something DON'T EVER IM LET U FINISH THAT
PLAINTIFF. DON'T U EVER ASSAULT ME WITH ANOTHER PIECE OF CHICKEN DO U HEAR ME 😂😂❤
Prayers for that young beautiful woman and young men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Dang, He could've went and hugged her when she started crying..
Young lady do a 23 and Me test …trust me! I’ve been in your shoes and found my dad through 23 and Me!! My heart goes out to you so much!!
This was so sad. I hope they stay in touch and still consider each other as their sibling. 😢
Cases like this are hard to watch😭 Parents definitely have to do better & be truthful about paternity. So sad. I pray these two are successful in whatever their heart desires.
Wow, The he Truths of Two Young People Searching for Answers.
Two Seemingly Lost Souls,
Figuring Out Life on Their Own.
Is Both Heartwrenching and Heartwarming.
Another Reason Why I Love to Watch
The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis
TV Show is how;
The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis
Imparts Truth and Knowledge to
His Viewers. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis
is an Exemplary Man of Integrity.
Is it bad that I want them to date.. Hear me out, the level of maturity that young man has I know that he would treat her great and she deserves a a good guy like him to show her a different view of man. God bless these 2
That’s so messed up. Just tell her the truth!!
Painful to hear their stories but so glad its shared. This is what having multiple babies w diff fathers and just dysfunctional mess in general brings. This young man is very self aware and the young lady seems very sweet. I hope they both get therapy and creat the lives they desire. Sending good energy.
Oh bless these two although they are not siblings they met for a reason so beautiful although the news wasn't what she expected this made me cry and I pray for her and him hopefully they can be there for each other
This touched my soul..
I pray the People that message was meant for heard it and innerstand. Let the healing begin! Blessings
I hope they keep in touch, and be there for one another
My heart goes out to these two young people. They are two remarkable young people
This one touched my heart and soul. Hopefully everyone watching can see the lesson in this case. May God ease the pain of these 2 and of everyone who's going thru similar struggles.
This young man needs someone. He has a beautiful soul but needs support. As does this young lady. Lord please bless these two young people along the way.
I pray if they have children they can put their children first and be better than their parents. Amen.
He seems like a phenomenal young man.
They should have tested the siblings with the dads family memebers. Im saddened that neither one of them had anyone to show up on their behalf for supprt
This messed me up. Her mother is so damn selfish, you have this baby thinking you hate her! And to hear he was in a low spot of his life before his sister reached out, that was an angel reaching out to him thru her. I just know God will continue to love them both and heal their broken hearts
That's probably why the mother didn't want to help her daughter get in contact with the supposed father because she knew he wasn't the biological father.
They both seem like genuine sweet souls I pray they stay connected because they do relate to each other. They really can help heal each other by the grace of God I wish the best for them both I really felt her hurt and pain God bless them both 🙏🏽✝️💟
Dam him explaining how he didn't have no father n his life touched me frfr I wish nun but the best to them both
Omgggg i am washed away in tears! This was so sad yet so inspiring &beautiful in some way 🥺😩😩😭😭
My heart for them ❤🙏🏾 Lord please comfort them, at the end of the day you are their ultimate Father.
Why do parents do this to their children? It will only make them resent you. That's why the mom didn't want to put her alleged father on child support. She knew he wasn't the father either.
She's pretty and he's very handsome
What does he mean they're not siblings.
He is such a stand up young man💯✨💪🏾👑
The boy's story almost breaks my heart. He lacked guidance and male mentor to help him go through life. But he looks an upstanding guy with responsible mindset. And I appreciate his insight of his own situation and attitude to act to it accordingly. And I know there are many children that don't have parental support. They end up either in prison or in the graveyard. So, parents, you get to be more responsible towards your kids growing up.
I just don't have words for this one. Too much pain.
Wow! My dad said the same thing about how he learned a lot from my granddaddy because he didn't know his dad. When I was 17 my dad and I met his dad for the first time together. Prior to him arriving I was so excited. However my dad said it wasn't a big deal to him because the man was never there for him nor his brothers.
Why don't the women get held accountable, stop getting pregnant by anyone ladies
This case broke my heart, more so because I had the same experience. I’m 37 yrs old and to this day im still unclear on who my father really is. I have a sister who I look identical to so I’m sure her father is my father but he passed away and I never got a chance to met him and it would be nice to have proof on paper or just to hear the words out of his my acknowledging and claim me as his own 😢
He took FOREVER to hug her!
He trying to process the news himself.
Remember he is disconnected, as he spoke about not knowing how to love/treat a woman
The man don’t kno how to love a female better yet show affection relax atleast he did it
How does he not know how to love a woman when all the love he has received was from a woman? Its not like it's a romantic relationship.
@@urluvizmyluv1999 I guess loving a women from a men’s POV, men love differently than women.
That step dad was bogus for that
I will never leave my wife and kids! I grew without my dad and he lived right down the street! So sorry young people!
Dang I'm getting tearful listening at work!!! PARENTS!! STOP lying to YO KIDS!!!! if you were out the being a "garden tool" and giving it up to everyone that's your business, but think about the child PLEASE!! Find out for who their father is BEFORE they grown!!!! PLEASE !!! Its just not right!