A Potential Sibling in the Mix

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  • @stevenlesane6820
    @stevenlesane6820 Рік тому +267

    To parents who are out here sleeping with multiple partners, this what you cause. Some men out here with 10 children and 8 baby mama's. Women out here with 4 children and 4 baby daddies. You're destroying your children's lives.

    • @deshawnmyers
      @deshawnmyers Рік тому +12

      Facts

    • @SoleahWright
      @SoleahWright Рік тому +11

      Emotionally If No Other Way. Definitely Destroying Them Emotionally

    • @deshawnmyers
      @deshawnmyers Рік тому +4

      @@SoleahWright facts

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock Рік тому +15

      Yes... also just BE HONEST! Just like Judge Mathis said, just say that you don't know rather than send this young lady on a Easter egg hunt. Smh

    • @LindaJeanette
      @LindaJeanette Рік тому +6

      It’s not only the quantity but the quality.

  • @LisaLisa-jr3gr
    @LisaLisa-jr3gr Рік тому +316

    This young man has too much potential to struggle through life alone, surely there’s a man out there who can mentor or assist him w/getting enrolled for the GED and then college. Who has a scholarship that fits his needs???? Reach out to the show, they’ll put you in touch. He’s only 23, I see greatness in him.

    • @1980tiffani
      @1980tiffani Рік тому +25

      This is exactly what I thought! Mathis can connect him to someone. I’ve seen a lot of episodes of men that come on who have foundations that cater to this exact situation. I hope he goes far, he has such potential to be great!!

    • @Shonda-vj7qb
      @Shonda-vj7qb Рік тому +12

      Hopefully Judge Mathis offered some assistance. He seemed a little to disappointed to stay out there. Understood, this is sad. Why do parents do that to their children?🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @lynnharvey5894
      @lynnharvey5894 Рік тому +1

      Fraternities, Masons, Nobility.. first 3

    • @evonza4858
      @evonza4858 Рік тому +10

      I see greatness and unfortunately sadness in his life,God take away the sadness so he can have gladness amen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @lynnharvey5894
      @lynnharvey5894 Рік тому +7

      Pastors, Deacons, MEN where are you.

  • @kpatterson72570
    @kpatterson72570 Рік тому +87

    This relationship is divinely orchestrated. They may not realize that the blessing is that they are now part of each others life… regardless of kinship.

  • @glennjackson4911
    @glennjackson4911 Рік тому +159

    When I hear stories regarding absent fathers, my heart goes out to these young men and women; boys and girls.
    My father was always there, worshiped the ground we walked on (there were 5 of us), hugged and kissed us daily, my sisters were his princesses, his boys were his buddies. He protected us, we ran from him when he was having a drink; not because we were afraid, but because he kissed you more, loved you more. I never knew the importance or how blessed we were, because in our eyes, it was just a way of life. We loved him to death and until we were adults, we did not know or care about the importance of him being a Dad. So i send this message to all Fathers, be a Dad. Never let your child, your seed, wonder who you are, where you are, and what you are supposed to do for them. I wish every child had a Dad like ours. Mom, you picked a good one. Moms, try your best to pick a good one. You and your children deserve that. Fathers, stop being absent or dont create life!!!

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock Рік тому +8

      You are not lucky but BLESSED 😇

    • @CerseiLannister999
      @CerseiLannister999 Рік тому +7

      Yep. Most of the men in my family on both sides aren't not much of shit. But my dad was also good to me and in my life. My mom and him was married til I was 15. Same house for 10 yrs. I really had a good foundation. Grew up in the 90s, a 80s baby. And I was one of the only handful of students, at a predominantly black middle sko. Who had their father at home. So it's rare. The blk comm has to do better.

    • @TheJocha31
      @TheJocha31 Рік тому +8

      Same here. My parents have been married for 58 years. My dad to this day is my ACE! I visit my parents multiple times a week and we call each other daily. Fathers its important to be present, I promise you matter just as much as momma do!!!

    • @artistkennethjlewissr9608
      @artistkennethjlewissr9608 Рік тому +3

      This women has refused to let her child know who the father is. It is absolutely crazy. Mothers often keep the kids from their dads because they hate him. Women have to do better

  • @natashanjf7177
    @natashanjf7177 Рік тому +87

    He is an amazing young man. He can go so far once he completes his secondary education. That hug has me in tears. There are still amazing people in this world. ❤

  • @feefee9768
    @feefee9768 Рік тому +105

    Praying for both of y'all .. That was hard. He spoke soo well and can see the hurt on him. Stand tall young man and young lady. ❤

  • @mariab2819
    @mariab2819 Рік тому +89

    7:45am and im crying like a baby.. that was raw emotion and I felt it all... i wanted them to be siblings sooo bad...he was so in touch, it low key made me proud

    • @robinaaayyeee
      @robinaaayyeee Рік тому

      💯

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock Рік тому +2

      This may sound really weird but I wouldn't be surprised if they end up dating after processing it all. Did you see how she melted in his arms? They may be a safe space for each other. This was hard to watch 😪

    • @india-ds3wf
      @india-ds3wf Рік тому

      They dating now

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock Рік тому

      @@india-ds3wf Wow

    • @Zay-_-Zigge
      @Zay-_-Zigge Рік тому

      Lmao no their not, I know Ken personally 🤣

  • @smoothbottomnotautumn3284
    @smoothbottomnotautumn3284 Рік тому +44

    In all the episodes I've watched over the years, this is the first one that ever had me tearing up. These two young people have been so hurt and wronged. I really hope good things for both of them. 💜

  • @monicarosemindset
    @monicarosemindset Рік тому +7

    This young man brought tears to my eyes. “I wasn’t loving correctly…No one teaches us how to love…” is 100% relatable

  • @AK19909
    @AK19909 Рік тому +77

    So glad he finally hugged her!

    • @Melissa-ii2ix
      @Melissa-ii2ix Рік тому +12

      Lol I came to the comments to see if anybody else was yelling at their phones "go hug her baby!" 😂😂😂❤

    • @ktreshamickens4670
      @ktreshamickens4670 Рік тому +18

      He didn't know how to react. He's clearly emotionally damaged as well.

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 Рік тому +8

      ​@@ktreshamickens4670exactly...they've both experienced a lot of trauma...May God heal them both completely.

    • @LamontLloyd
      @LamontLloyd Рік тому +4

      Yes! Because I was about to jump through the screen and hug her myself.

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 Рік тому +6

      I was in the middle of commenting about her needing a hug (him, too) when they finally hugged. I kinda wish this was one of those moments where JM came off the bench for them. He's done it before and these 2 were in DESPERATE need of that humanity from a male/father figure.

  • @lacadiarandolph538
    @lacadiarandolph538 Рік тому +106

    The problem with the sibling test is that you never can tell which one isnt the child of the father....

    • @estherbradley3218
      @estherbradley3218 Рік тому +21

      Right. I was wondering if paternity had been established for the son. 🤔

    • @ariesss4
      @ariesss4 Рік тому +27

      Exactly , it could be her father & not his . I don’t think her mother truly knew though because the birth date was wrong which makes sense why she didn’t want to help her look for him or pursue with the child support when the aunt suggested it .

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock Рік тому +5

      Wow! I never thought about that!

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Рік тому

      Right.. That's why it's always a better outcome when it's.. say... If a male dies and paternity needs to be established.. for children he left behind, IF POSSIBLE.. IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO USE THE DECEASED MOTHER DNA.. 99.99% of the time the deceased is the mother's real child, but with fathers.. if the man... thought 2 be the deceased man's father.. but he really isn't, but the dad didn't know, and they swab him... it will come back NO RELATIONS.. IT COULD BE A FALSE.. NO... BECAUSE THE GRANDFATHER AIN'T the dead baby daddy's real father.. Hence, the DNA won't match.. Leaving the girl with the baby, to BELIEVE that her deceased bf or ex isn't her baby's father. WHEN the baby really is the FAMILIES child... That's why it's best to use the mother's dna profile, if she's available or even... the deceased's man's sibling, that share the same mother..
      Nobody talks alot that enough.. It can really be complicated.. and sadly the actual parentage could be missed.

  • @tishaharold4551
    @tishaharold4551 Рік тому +24

    This is tough! Hang in there! You two are beautiful people. Keep being an inspiration for others! 🥰❤

    • @evaneymiddlebrook700
      @evaneymiddlebrook700 Рік тому +1

      Keep God And Jesus Christ First Stay Prayed Up and Keep the Faith You all have this …Everyone has a testimony it’s on u too recognize

  • @WWJD-MIA
    @WWJD-MIA Рік тому +29

    I wish I knew her…she needs so much love. Her mom wasn’t the nicest to her on top of not being honest about her dad smh! He didn’t hug her bc he was processing it himself…you saw his heart drop. Just bc people doing respond quickly it doesn’t mean they don’t care or aren’t hurting. Men respond differently…for him to hug her says a lot about his respect for her. I hope they stay in touch and he takes heed do JM’s advice. Blessings to them both!

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 Рік тому +3

      Exactly..Judge Mathis kept asking him to express his feelings but some people will have an unbearable breakdown if they let go. We all process emotions differently...

  • @geegeenicholas5385
    @geegeenicholas5385 Рік тому +13

    Two beautiful young people.... They sound intelligent and seem to be 'decent'....I pray life brings them peace and happiness...

  • @ramiyna
    @ramiyna Рік тому +23

    He’s such a wise young man. I hope he goes far.

  • @MutedSins26
    @MutedSins26 Рік тому +7

    The whole audience is crying. This was so emotional all around. I pray these young people can guide and support each other throughout their journey. Great episode, we miss you Judge ❤

  • @Inr_Peace
    @Inr_Peace Рік тому +15

    Her mother is soo irresponsible to not help her in her journey. Such a beautiful young lady and handsome young man. I hope they can help each other.

    • @GeorgiaWhisper
      @GeorgiaWhisper Рік тому

      Probably because she didn't have the slightest clue.

  • @isaidwhatisaid2750
    @isaidwhatisaid2750 Рік тому +7

    That broke my heart....two sweet adorable young people. I pray babygirl find her peace. He is just a good man...he said she healed him a.nd now he has to help her heal...now that's a son to be proud of and a great person to want to call brother. I'm praying for you both.

  • @wilmadavilus
    @wilmadavilus Рік тому +49

    Gut wrenching…these parents! Ugh!!!!!

  • @PrettyPreciousG
    @PrettyPreciousG Рік тому +46

    3 minutes in... The step dad is WRONG for just abandoning her. He raised her for a significant amount of time and after divorce just left her out like that?!

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 Рік тому +6

      Unfortunately a lot of biological dads aren't much better after divorce.

    • @gigga693
      @gigga693 Рік тому +3

      Emotionally immature and emotionally damaged. They see those relationships as a branch of the mother and if they’re done with her they’re done with what’s connected to her. She said he was there for his child, but as a sound adult it’s no way I can cut off a child who I was a father figure to especially when I was their father figure when I was with their mom. I know forsure im the father figure when I’m not with her. It’s low and cold.

    • @GMDOCNICE
      @GMDOCNICE Рік тому +2

      It could be the mother probably threatened him not to involve himself anymore with her and to a degree, he might have had to oblige. Very sad.😢

    • @motivation-hd7mw
      @motivation-hd7mw 3 дні тому

      So he's supposed to stay in the life of a child whose not his own, whose mother is obviously a liar and someone who is no longer in his Life? 🤷🏿‍♂️🤣

  • @PrincessEzeofor1
    @PrincessEzeofor1 Рік тому +18

    Some parents really will never know the amount of sheer PAIN they cause their children. NO idea.
    Both of their stories were so heartbreaking. Abandonment is a wound that runs DEEP deep.
    I am praying deeply for God’s fatherly hand to be upon them. If you see this comment please please do the same.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому +2

      Oh some know. They just don’t care. Same mess from my bio mother. I’m fine because she didn’t raise me - her sister did, but my two brothers had different dads, and were raised by her. The other two never met their fathers. Idc what anyone says there is no way that did not affect them. Mine was a different being adopted by my aunt because she was also married. And when I turned 14 I asked my aunts who adopted me about my biological father. She found those people for me. There was no question. They accepted me. Because I looked like my sister in two of my cousins. My father was already dead. No paternity test or anything. My bio mother, she realizes exactly what she did. But at 73 years old, she still does not care. And sees nothing wrong with having three kids by three different men and a three year time span who’ve never seen their children.

  • @cgogetit
    @cgogetit Рік тому +10

    Wow! Four kids, four baby daddies and three are gone! His mama was a little wild.

    • @urluvizmyluv1999
      @urluvizmyluv1999 Рік тому +2

      Or she was taken advantage of. Both are equally possible.

    • @ms.hjohnson6820
      @ms.hjohnson6820 Рік тому +3

      @@urluvizmyluv1999 thank you for pointing this out. I liked the earlier comment but will unlike it now. My grandmother had 16 children. She had a mental disability and was taken advantage of by numerous men. Just awful.

  • @guidedbygodsgrace6265
    @guidedbygodsgrace6265 Рік тому +14

    I couldn’t help but break down crying when I saw the girl crying. I know that caused another large scar in her heart. She said she asked her mom if she hated her because she won’t tell her anything, then she comes to find out and gets crushed all over again. I hope he’s doing okay too. Her mom’s dishonesty is disgusting. This is why it’s important to build a solid foundation for your children. Try your hardest to give them TWO PARENT HOUSEHOLDS. I’m so upset for them and I pray they are able to heal from the decisions made that they had no control over😢

  • @Itsalla_blur
    @Itsalla_blur Рік тому +14

    Beautiful, well-spoken individuals ❤ God bless

  • @allytrahan4739
    @allytrahan4739 Рік тому +3

    Very emotional u can tell shes felt so alone...she still asked him to be her brother 🥺 and he was understanding and respectful to accept what she asked.. I love this 💕

  • @adrianprince7266
    @adrianprince7266 Рік тому +78

    Never stop searching for whom you belong to. Certainly a crisis that continues to plague the black community and household.

    • @marquelladavis1472
      @marquelladavis1472 Рік тому +3

      So true

    • @xxxx2935
      @xxxx2935 Рік тому +1

      . ( JOB ) 8 : 8 .. "For enquire, I pray thee, of the former age, and prepare thyself to the search of their fathers": The beast system, has, "BROKEN" us; torn us apart : now we just, "destroy" each other ! / ( ECCLESIASTES ) 2 : 17.. Therefore I hated life ; because the work that is wrought under the sun is "Grievous" unto me : for all is vanity and "vexation of spirit". Thank you for your time. Repent.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому +1

      They stole the real Adrain again

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Рік тому +1

      I belong to no one. I make my own future. No other human made me. I decide who I am and how I want to be. Too many people look to someone else for validation or to "save them". If you don't like your ways, CHANGE!

    • @Brngrojoy5315
      @Brngrojoy5315 Рік тому +2

      @@xxxx2935… and turn your life over to your Creator, Who knows EVERYTHING, Christ, Jesus.

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris Рік тому +16

    😢 I hate cases like this. Folks are too hopeful especially going on dribs & drabs of information.
    I hope these 2 young people create an unbreakable bond. I wish them the best in their journeys.

  • @ThePrettiiTrucker
    @ThePrettiiTrucker Рік тому +11

    It’s so sad and unfortunate that children have to go through this because their parents were on BS!

  • @PurdyNapps
    @PurdyNapps Рік тому +6

    Be encouraged young lady, wish I had a daughter like you. Don’t let your mother get you down. Just break the cycle starting with your own children. Wish you both the best.

  • @mysterywoman3800marie13
    @mysterywoman3800marie13 Рік тому +2

    These 2 humans are amazing and I hope they can both help each other to heal and process this. Im bawling my eyes out and was rooting for them to be siblings. Sending them both strength and positivity for the next chapter of their lives. ❤💪🏽🙇🏿‍♀️

  • @hakeemademoluable
    @hakeemademoluable Рік тому +2

    What an outstanding young brother. May God continue to guide your ways and grow. Blessings to you both!

  • @DaRealBootz
    @DaRealBootz Рік тому +4

    2 beautiful souls❤️I hope they continue to form a sibling bond because even though they're not related they both need each other

  • @TaxProGirl
    @TaxProGirl Рік тому +1

    Two wonderful & thoughtful young people. I hope they stay in touch. 🙏

  • @mrs.pettway7506
    @mrs.pettway7506 Рік тому +2

    My heart breaks for her…your smart, resilient, and amazing. Praying for your healing for the both you.

    • @jaslee7878
      @jaslee7878 Рік тому +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @mrs.pettway7506
      @mrs.pettway7506 Рік тому

      @@jaslee7878 your welcome❤

    • @shawnhill7222
      @shawnhill7222 Рік тому

      @jaslee7878 I was just reading the comments, and it appears that you (Jasmin the litigant) was also reading the comments and responding...
      I am a 47 year old man, and I never had an opportunity to develop a happy and healthy relationship with my father either. Therefore, I empathetically understand how you might be feeling.
      Just based on this case, and the small view and description of your life, you seem to be a beautiful young lady inside and out. As a father myself, I have a better understanding of the roles and development that they play in their kids' lives.
      I don't want to write too much, but "please" be mindful the people (especially men) that you allow into your life. In my opinion, a good man for you would be protective, he would be sensitive and understanding regarding your needs and experiences, and he will love and respect you. "Don't sell yourself short and settle for less.
      Take care young lady ❤️!

  • @user-hl6ub4gf9u
    @user-hl6ub4gf9u Рік тому +4

    I really wanted to hug both of them through out this case. I hope they’re okay and doing good in life…

  • @philomenaezeh7770
    @philomenaezeh7770 Рік тому +5

    My heart goes out to these wonderful well spoken children. Their parents should be proud of them. I wish they continue to be a pillar for each other. I have a 22 year old son and i can feel the young man’s pain. I pray for peace for both of them. I’m so proud of them. May God continue to shower them with His love and affection.

  • @wadilotus
    @wadilotus Рік тому +4

    Poor baby…her tears have me crying.she really needs the support of that amazing introspective new brother of hers. I wish them the best.

  • @tonyray7546
    @tonyray7546 9 місяців тому

    By far the best and saddest episode. Hits home and brings back memories. The young man nailed it. Explains a lot about inner city youth that people don’t realize. My heart aches for that young lady to be 11 years old and put in that traumatic experience.

  • @nothgir
    @nothgir Рік тому +11

    I’m a grown white man sitting here crying for these two. Parents we have to do better and stop making choices that will devastate our children in the future and ultimately make them dysfunctional.

  • @NKAB4
    @NKAB4 Рік тому +20

    It's so sad that they had to grow up without a father...I had my dad bt would've been better off without him could've saved myself from so much psychological emotional &nd physical damage smh...

    • @Melissa-ii2ix
      @Melissa-ii2ix Рік тому +3

      And I often have that thought of is it better to grow up with a father even if he's trash it better if you never knew him🤔

    • @NKAB4
      @NKAB4 Рік тому +3

      @Melissa my dad mistreated my mom &nd the kds she had before him for many yrs...when they divorced I did his time she treated me like trash cus he wasn't that way with me...bt growing up in a violent home really wears on you follow you through adulthood...if I asked about him I was slapped it's just alot to even talk about smh...needless to say I don't have a relationship with either one...I had to go find my peace...

    • @LoveYAH7
      @LoveYAH7 Рік тому +1

      @@NKAB4 ❤ sending u love.

    • @NKAB4
      @NKAB4 Рік тому

      @Gods Princess thank you sis I really need it...same for you ❤️❤️❤️...

  • @latishadavis6985
    @latishadavis6985 Рік тому +4

    the way some people are having kids and damaging their childhood, is heartbreaking, this case is very 😞 sad, my heart goes out to them

  • @kelliemartin36
    @kelliemartin36 Рік тому +5

    No high school diploma but still very smart and talented. I see a bright future for him

  • @wadilotus
    @wadilotus Рік тому +7

    Judge, please extend a hand of friendship to this young man so he can reach his full potential. His natural light is ready to shine through.

    • @AbadScratchingHabit
      @AbadScratchingHabit 2 місяці тому

      I’m with ya, I know JM got his own family but I whole heartedly agree…

  • @gigga693
    @gigga693 Рік тому +1

    She’s gorgeous and well spoken! Both have bright lights within them and have potential to do phenomenal things. May they both heal & lean on each other. Do the leg work to make their dreams happen! They can do it!

  • @nettricegaskins1871
    @nettricegaskins1871 Рік тому +10

    I kept my dreams close to my chest through my teen years for fear that someone in my family, esp. my father would sabotage them. By the time they figured out what I was up to it was too late for them to do anything negative... and that's a shame as far as needing and not getting support.

  • @MonroeMat
    @MonroeMat Рік тому +6

    Her mother was trying to hide something but unfortunately her past came to light and emotionally drained her daughter 😢

  • @MrsB320
    @MrsB320 Рік тому

    That hug at the end DID IT FOR MEH!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @joshuapeoples6795
    @joshuapeoples6795 Рік тому +2

    This was very though to watch. A lot of my friends didn't have a father figure growing up. These 2 have been through so much similar things they can really help each other heal and I want them to know that they have worth and value in this world... Stay strong

  • @DFergie722
    @DFergie722 Рік тому +5

    This case really hurt my heart. They are two very beautiful people. I hope they can forge a life long kinship with each other. Even though they may not be biological family, I pray that they are able to become family to each other since they have a similar journey and seem like good,, solid individuals. They both have a place of belonging. Praying for them. God-bless them.

  • @staraquarius199
    @staraquarius199 Рік тому +1

    They will bring so much peace and love to each other

  • @mrshappilymarried1
    @mrshappilymarried1 Рік тому +5

    Jesus have mercy...the testimony from these young people BROKE MY HEART😭

  • @julieannemichelle
    @julieannemichelle Рік тому +4

    What nice young adults. I feel so badly for her.🌸

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 Рік тому +2

    This was extremely painful to watch. These are 2 beautiful young people. They deserved better parents.

  • @mellyjackson3297
    @mellyjackson3297 Рік тому +3

    Awww I’m in tears for them. So sad smh .

  • @rosalynasare5765
    @rosalynasare5765 Рік тому +2

    This touched my soul..

  • @priscillaowiredu5236
    @priscillaowiredu5236 Рік тому +2

    This was heart breaking damn...... Just tell the truth regardless of the outcome. Tell the truth, you don't know if you dating a family member or not in the future, this is extremely critical.

  • @esh5168
    @esh5168 Рік тому +1

    They both have me in tears i pray everything good happens to them moving forward

  • @tabithagoodwin6040
    @tabithagoodwin6040 Рік тому +4

    This hurt my heart so much. I’m 55 years old and have never physically seen my father. I remember my grandmother showing me a picture of him one day. She called me into her bedroom one day and showed me a picture and said this is your father. She also told me he was in our neighborhood one day, when I was young, and saw me. He was coming to say something to me but my grandmother told me that the neighbor advised him not to. Not sure why. I wish I had met him.😢

  • @kharonparham98
    @kharonparham98 Рік тому +2

    I grew up with bro we stayed in the same neighborhood he really do come from the trenches, got hella talent too

  • @ChontellMills
    @ChontellMills Рік тому +1

    That was so tuff. Family don’t have to necessarily be blood. I hope these two young people form there own family, and give each other what they so desperately need from family. That’s what I did. I branched off from the disfunction, and formed my own family, and I’m proud of myself.

  • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
    @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Рік тому +1

    Dang, He could've went and hugged her when she started crying..

  • @popcorn526
    @popcorn526 Рік тому +1

    Prayers for that young beautiful woman and young men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @LeeLee-hj7ft
    @LeeLee-hj7ft Рік тому +1

    This was so sad. I hope they stay in touch and still consider each other as their sibling. 😢

  • @uniwemusic2929
    @uniwemusic2929 Рік тому

    That’s why I respect this judge - he is an agent of change‼️‼️‼️🙏🏾💥🫶🏾✊🏾

  • @justphilly8983
    @justphilly8983 Рік тому

    Omgggg i am washed away in tears! This was so sad yet so inspiring &beautiful in some way 🥺😩😩😭😭

  • @bhornannawindeedeigh5007
    @bhornannawindeedeigh5007 Рік тому +3

    Lord above, this epidode is probably the most heartbreaking episode I've ever watched - and I've been a JM fan since he started in 1999. This one has me non-stop tearing up 😢. Dear God, please please please help these two bright and beautiful people find their way in this very tough world, even if they never find their dad(s). Give them strength, courage, hope, health, prosperity, and may they each find love and have the greatest of peace in their hearts, in His name I pray. 💐💐🙏🏽💞❤️💓💖🩷💜

  • @misslovely4679
    @misslovely4679 Рік тому +2

    That’s so messed up. Just tell her the truth!!

  • @lizpride745
    @lizpride745 Рік тому +1

    Young lady do a 23 and Me test …trust me! I’ve been in your shoes and found my dad through 23 and Me!! My heart goes out to you so much!!

  • @MrKlyrix
    @MrKlyrix 11 місяців тому

    This one touched my heart and soul. Hopefully everyone watching can see the lesson in this case. May God ease the pain of these 2 and of everyone who's going thru similar struggles.

  • @elainecaldwelljoseph4705
    @elainecaldwelljoseph4705 Рік тому +4

    My heart goes out to these two young people. They are two remarkable young people

  • @GlobalPrivateTruthWarrior
    @GlobalPrivateTruthWarrior Рік тому +2

    She bout to get 40,302 marriage proposals. lol. Ya'll need to chill.

  • @amybrooks2604
    @amybrooks2604 Рік тому +3

    Cases like this are hard to watch😭 Parents definitely have to do better & be truthful about paternity. So sad. I pray these two are successful in whatever their heart desires.

  • @WilbertGross
    @WilbertGross Рік тому +1

    I just don't have words for this one. Too much pain.

  • @ericablige9449
    @ericablige9449 Рік тому +1

    I pray the People that message was meant for heard it and innerstand. Let the healing begin! Blessings

  • @xenablac
    @xenablac Рік тому +1

    He is such a stand up young man💯✨💪🏾👑

  • @prettyblindeyes4375
    @prettyblindeyes4375 Рік тому +1

    Oh bless these two although they are not siblings they met for a reason so beautiful although the news wasn't what she expected this made me cry and I pray for her and him hopefully they can be there for each other

  • @regina805
    @regina805 Рік тому +4

    Wow, The he Truths of Two Young People Searching for Answers.
    Two Seemingly Lost Souls,
    Figuring Out Life on Their Own.
    Is Both Heartwrenching and Heartwarming.
    Another Reason Why I Love to Watch
    The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis
    TV Show is how;
    The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis
    Imparts Truth and Knowledge to
    His Viewers. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
    The Honorable Judge Greg Mathis
    is an Exemplary Man of Integrity.

  • @babydoll5052
    @babydoll5052 Рік тому

    I hope they keep in touch, and be there for one another

  • @men385
    @men385 Рік тому +1

    Dam him explaining how he didn't have no father n his life touched me frfr I wish nun but the best to them both

  • @Kimm470
    @Kimm470 Рік тому +3

    He took FOREVER to hug her!

    • @Leelang931
      @Leelang931 Рік тому +5

      He trying to process the news himself.

    • @cc3956
      @cc3956 Рік тому +5

      Remember he is disconnected, as he spoke about not knowing how to love/treat a woman

    • @karensmith6815
      @karensmith6815 Рік тому +4

      The man don’t kno how to love a female better yet show affection relax atleast he did it

    • @urluvizmyluv1999
      @urluvizmyluv1999 Рік тому +2

      How does he not know how to love a woman when all the love he has received was from a woman? Its not like it's a romantic relationship.

    • @Leelang931
      @Leelang931 Рік тому +1

      @@urluvizmyluv1999 I guess loving a women from a men’s POV, men love differently than women.

  • @shannonmarieh.794
    @shannonmarieh.794 Рік тому +3

    Painful to hear their stories but so glad its shared. This is what having multiple babies w diff fathers and just dysfunctional mess in general brings. This young man is very self aware and the young lady seems very sweet. I hope they both get therapy and creat the lives they desire. Sending good energy.

  • @marioglisson1200
    @marioglisson1200 Рік тому +1

    Wow!!!!😢 come clean parents!!!!

  • @mawilliams1183
    @mawilliams1183 Рік тому +1

    JUDGE MATHIS. But let me tell u something DON'T EVER IM LET U FINISH THAT
    PLAINTIFF. DON'T U EVER ASSAULT ME WITH ANOTHER PIECE OF CHICKEN DO U HEAR ME 😂😂❤

  • @Indema117
    @Indema117 Рік тому +1

    He seems like a phenomenal young man.

  • @RoseTea77
    @RoseTea77 Рік тому

    This is heart wrenching!!!!😢😢😢

  • @yolandahall2615
    @yolandahall2615 Рік тому +1

    Dang I'm getting tearful listening at work!!! PARENTS!! STOP lying to YO KIDS!!!! if you were out the being a "garden tool" and giving it up to everyone that's your business, but think about the child PLEASE!! Find out for who their father is BEFORE they grown!!!! PLEASE !!! Its just not right!

  • @GeorgiaWhisper
    @GeorgiaWhisper Рік тому +1

    They should have tested the siblings with the dads family memebers. Im saddened that neither one of them had anyone to show up on their behalf for supprt

  • @JM_HUh
    @JM_HUh Рік тому +1

    That was a rough one to get through 😢

  • @PrePre_
    @PrePre_ Рік тому +4

    Why do parents do this to their children? It will only make them resent you. That's why the mom didn't want to put her alleged father on child support. She knew he wasn't the father either.

  • @ColorMeeBlessed
    @ColorMeeBlessed Рік тому

    They both seem like genuine sweet souls I pray they stay connected because they do relate to each other. They really can help heal each other by the grace of God I wish the best for them both I really felt her hurt and pain God bless them both 🙏🏽✝️💟

  • @bernardtalbert6729
    @bernardtalbert6729 Рік тому +2

    That's probably why the mother didn't want to help her daughter get in contact with the supposed father because she knew he wasn't the biological father.

  • @michaelcunningham1826
    @michaelcunningham1826 Рік тому +2

    Is it bad that I want them to date.. Hear me out, the level of maturity that young man has I know that he would treat her great and she deserves a a good guy like him to show her a different view of man. God bless these 2

  • @naturallove6615
    @naturallove6615 Рік тому +1

    This messed me up. Her mother is so damn selfish, you have this baby thinking you hate her! And to hear he was in a low spot of his life before his sister reached out, that was an angel reaching out to him thru her. I just know God will continue to love them both and heal their broken hearts

  • @squeint
    @squeint Рік тому +1

    Wow! My dad said the same thing about how he learned a lot from my granddaddy because he didn't know his dad. When I was 17 my dad and I met his dad for the first time together. Prior to him arriving I was so excited. However my dad said it wasn't a big deal to him because the man was never there for him nor his brothers.

  • @velmalathan3402
    @velmalathan3402 Рік тому +2

    She's pretty and he's very handsome

  • @rhondahumphrey5556
    @rhondahumphrey5556 Рік тому

    I feel their pain😢 I hope and pray that they can find healing in a world of confusion 😕 🙏🏼🙌🏽🙏🏼

  • @erindoriah
    @erindoriah Рік тому +1

    This young man needs someone. He has a beautiful soul but needs support. As does this young lady. Lord please bless these two young people along the way.
    I pray if they have children they can put their children first and be better than their parents. Amen.

  • @lifewithkeisha1761
    @lifewithkeisha1761 Рік тому +1

    This is too sad 😢

  • @Coco-ef9ps
    @Coco-ef9ps Рік тому

    My heart! 💔 Pray they both find peace and overcome this to be great people 🙏🏾

  • @urluvizmyluv1999
    @urluvizmyluv1999 Рік тому +2

    That step dad was bogus for that