As someone who used to struggle with an eating disorder, this looks absolutely terrifying to me. These women are so brave and strong. Im so happy that everyone was so respectful and positive towards each body type.
I lost one of my sisters to complications from bulimia, and the other sister passed away from complications due to overeating. The amount of pain underlying this video is very heartbreaking to fully witness. I hope exposure to these lived experiences shifts society's perceptions of weight.
So grateful someone mentioned orthorexia. Worst years of my life and I was unable to understand that I had an eating disorder because I didn’t match the criteria for the more well known EDs
I had never heard of it before but I used to be that way ! I don't know if it counts or not though, I genuinely was just super health conscious and didn't do it for my appearance at all.
I’ve long suspected my bestie is orthorexic. I want to support her as best as I can but she’s stuck in the paranoid cycle of eating. Not a nice way to live 😢
As someone with an active ED, I can totally strive to be recovered and healthier. Next time you judge someone for their weight, stop, think about how it affects their self esteem.
It makes me so upset how many of these women struggled with an ED / body image issues. I was a ballet dancer as well, so I can absolutely relate to Liz and definitely had my own set of struggles. All the women in this cast are stunning - I want to give them all a giant hug
Honestly I felt really terrible about being 160 but after seeing women near my weight I feel way better. This video is super sweet and honestly spreads a deep message. These girls were lovely.
Well it's not that hard due to the extra processed food in America. I'm 6'3 and 80kg.....you're gonna be bigger than me because you're shorter. It really depends on height, take Lebron and Shaq as examples. Nobody really cares anyways, so idk why you decided to comment this
I can relate with Kahmil. When I was 8, an older woman in my life told me I wouldn't be able to have children with how small my body was and that haunted me for years.
They’re all insanely beautiful. I was genuinely taken aback when they took their blindfolds off 😭 very important messages in here as well. Thank you to these women and Jubilee!
@@24killsequalMOABboth the commentor and I believe they are all beautiful how they are. It's a subjective opinion, you don't have to be so rude for no reason
She’s light skinned and mixed. Let’s not pretend that she’s at the bottom of “black beauty hierarchy” because that would be a lie. Also she’s very young, of course she feels like less of a woman, she hasn’t fully grown into her womanhood yet.
@@frenchgirl5878 no one said she was at the bottom of the hierarchy. none of what you said contradicts what she said. also why are you assuming her age?
So, so, SO proud of these women for being so vulnerable. I completely agree with Kahmil about the perceived perception of eating disorders (stuff like only girls have it, all girls with an ED are deathly skinny, ana is the only ED, etc.) and people failing to realize that eating disorders are mental, not physical.
i want to give all these women a hug, being so vulnerable to other women but also to have it recorded and posted is so strong and amazing. i am so proud of all these ladies and they are all gorgeous ❤❤
The girl that said being under 100lbs made her feel less of a woman🥺 me too girl I was 75lbs when I was 19.. Im 23 now and 115lbs but still have no boobs, I’m short and petite, with a baby face, everyone still tells me they thought I was a child.. even 40lbs later I felt her so hard on that I hope she feels better
This episode was so incredibly wholesome, all of the women who participated are so beautiful and respectful towards one another. I don’t comment on videos much but this made me emotional as someone who watches my weight and beats myself up for it. It made me realize a lot of things about myself and while I have a long way to go towards loving myself, this video gave me all the reason to keep going❤
11:44 amen! Just cause someone is skinny does not mean they’re healthy. You can’t see high blood pressure, high cholesterol, eating disorders, mental illnesses, etc. Stop assuming and start listening
gosh first of all everyone in the video seems genuinely so nice and sweet and like really cool people. and secondly since we‘re on the topic all of these women are just stunning. wow.
I relate to Kahmil so much!! I'm from Colombia and I feel like I'm expected to have "the latina body" but, like her, I'm on the petite side. I struggle to feel like an attractive woman for my lack of curves. like a woman trapped in a pre-teenager's body
Same here! I’m Mexican though, and I don’t think many ppl expect Mexican girls to have curves like Colombians or Dominicans for instance. But I’m a Latina nonetheless so whenever ppl hear that, they expect a curvier body. I’m not, I’m on the smaller side too. Sometimes I do feel like less of a woman🥲 i completely understand u
@@7ccs350Most Mexicans look small (very short) and might look petite for sometime in their younger years, but they're rarely super skinny or lean... even if they were skinny at some point they gain weight in their mid 20s. They gain most of their weight around their waist or hips/butt. Mexican women always ask skinny women if they even eat and will talk about it behind their back with other women or make jokes about it, I've seen it especially if you're skinny and tall.
And the worst part about being petite is it's hard to get curvy/ thin waist appearance relative to hips/bust because skeletal proportions literally just dont allow for it.
this is both super hard and yet beautiful for my ED brain to watch. i’ve struggled for years at 75-80 lbs and I want to be strong and healthy but also am absolutely terrified of it. these girls are really really brave ❤
It’s so sad to see how many women are so insecure about their weight, but also weird how they said that it would be expected that almost all women are. As a woman myself I have never cared about my weight or appearence that much and have found for example intellectual abilities much more important and something that I would be insecure about if I didn’t do well in them.
Just because you're a woman who's not insecure about your appereance (which is great) that doesn't mean it's not a common thing that happens to a lot of women.
@@nataliare576 I know that it is a thing that happens to most women, most of my friends too are very insecure about it. The whole point was that it’s sad that it is so, but also that it shouldn’t be expected that everyone is insecure about themselves just, because they’re women.
These women are all so brave, especially considering almost all of them have struggled with eating disorders. Proud of all of you for being so vulnerable! ❤
Please just put a small conversion of units when you use the imperial system. Most of the world uses the metric system so when we see or hear these measures, they mean nothing to us 😢
The fact almost all of them have had ED’s at some point/ have active ED’s should seriously be a wake up call about the type of standards that are being put on women. Love the video but yeah that’s kinda insane.
Yeah, I thought that was one of the first things to ask. Just from this set of ladies, the first four were perceived to be small while talking about themselves, and in the final ranking, you can see how they weigh proportional to their height (shortest to tallest).
I'm black but grew up in Asia. You can imagine how confusing life was for me. My family wanted me to lose weight at first but then started pressuring me to gain weight. But the damage has already been done, not to mention I wanted to be like the petite skinny girls at my school. So I ended up starving myself and exercising when my family wasn't looking. I went from a bit overweight to severely underweight. Even so, I still wanted to lose more weight because I still wasn't happy. I never was. Even tho I lost 60 pounds but I was still unhappy with my body. I hated everything about it. I had gone from 150 pounds to 88 pounds. My family was very worried for me and tried to force-feed me but I just vomited it out later. I still haven't fully recovered but I'm slowly getting there. Rn I'm 95 pounds and even tho it's taking some getting used to I hope I can learn to love my body.
i struggled with bullimia for years and im in recovery and at a place where im happy/neutral with my body but weight related things can still trigger me so i was nervous to watch this video and i loved the women in it so much theyre all so amazing and i love the energy in this video i'd be friends with all of them
I had the same exact experience as Kahmil growing up :( in a way it’s nice to know you’re not alone in the feeling but at the same time it’s not something anyone should have to go through
the girl talking about comparing herself to her sister is definitely real for me because my sister has a fast metabolism and never gains weight but im more on the heavier side and that has wrecked my relationship with my weight
It's crazy to me that NONE of these women are happy with their body and think that no women are🤷🏾♀️ They did a great job sorting themselves though👌🏾❤🙏🏾
Wow, I’m surprised to see how much more supportive and calmer the comments are regarding weight and body dysmorphia versus those videos negotiating overall beauty and attractiveness.
I am someone who is overweight but I always do everything in my power to starve myself and get skinny. It is most definitely a mental thing because people will say “oh you’re not even that big!” but to me when I look in the mirror I’m disgusted. People also have said to me “oh you would be so pretty if you lost weight” and it truly does affect me. I have a medical co diction and the pill I take causes me to put on weight very easily and make it impossible to lose. I love how at the end they said how anorexia doesn’t have a weight “class” or “limit” because it’s true. Just because I’m on the bigger side doesn’t mean I don’t starve myself for days on end, end up becoming anemic, want to throw up when I see my weight on the scale or see myself in pictures, the mirror etc.
Weight is also super dependant on height! I’m 6,2 and weight 135 lbs so while that might be heavy for someone who’s 5,5 it’s perfectly fine for a 6,2 person
Everyone is saying that they’re surprised that all being so nice which is sad that most ppl expected a different outcome from this video. It shows how we make such a big deal about weight
as some who struggles with an ED and has for a long time it makes me so happy to hear that and to see how uplifting these gorgeous women were with each other
I can relate to Kahmil being under 100lbs… and thats even after my body having to go through pregnancies and literally went back to my normal weight…and even though i worked out at the gym for a year still nothing but i think its just my metabolism
"Body neutrality is really the most important thing. I think your body is the *least* interesting thing about you, so you really shouldn't worry as much about what you look like versus what kind of a person you are. What you put into the is worlds bigger than how big you are" This is why I've only been physically attracted to like 10% of the people I've liked/crushed on in the last 25 years of my life. It's just not that important, bro. If I love you, you're a cutie.
When I started therapy, I was so ready for my therapist to tell me everything that is wrong with me. But all she wrote as a diagnosis for the health insurance company was “eating disorder”. I told her I thought she would diagnose me with something psychological, and she said, “An eating disorder IS something psychological.” We actually discussed symptoms of many other things, but I am so grateful she did not focus on diagnosing “disorders”. It really challenged the belief I had that something was fundamentally wrong with me. And simultaneously made me realize the seriousness of my eating disorder. I am doing much better now! Mindfulness and gratitude for what I can experience through my body (rather than what it looks like) helped the most :)
It’s not surprising that many women deal with eating problems because they have the pressure too look pretty so of course they’re gonna wanna eat more or eat less etc. I think us guys don’t struggle much with eating but we have other struggles or pressures.
I’ve struggled heavily with ED and weight fluctuations. Now with my daughter, I’m trying to change my own perspective of food so she can have a healthier relationship with her meals and diets. It’s been hard. I’m trying my best.
I really enjoyed this video. I struggle with anorexia and this was really inspiring to see people who have overcome thier food dificulties. it was also nice to see and hear about every girls life expereiencfes related to society and their views of themseleves. I also really loved how they were all so support and swett to one another. tysm for doing this video.
I love all of these women 😭 being vulnerable is hard and I appreciate them doing so and being supportive.
Why no comments??
@@45_hellocause it’s a L comment
they are pushing 400!
@@Ben_Ben_Ben_Benfr
They aren't helping at all
It's so interesting to see that not one of them were happy about their weight but they all still valued and respected one another
I mean tbf is anyone really happy with their weight? I have yet to meet a person that is happy with their weight.
@@nkhensanimakhuba9631I am happy with my weight
Both the girls with the green tank tops said they were fine with their weight
Tbh everyone i know and im a guy always wants to be a different weight 💀
@@nkhensanimakhuba9631I’m happy but also I never really weigh myself
As someone who used to struggle with an eating disorder, this looks absolutely terrifying to me. These women are so brave and strong. Im so happy that everyone was so respectful and positive towards each body type.
im sorry but every video I go to I see your comment before tis the rotten mango one lmaooo
@@Blair._waldorrfHOW IS THAT FUNNY?
im sorry my humour is broken anyways@@SicilianAmericanDreams
@@Blair._waldorrf lmaoooo. You again!!!! We do watch the same stuff fr
yeaaa lol@@fatima_jamil
I lost one of my sisters to complications from bulimia, and the other sister passed away from complications due to overeating. The amount of pain underlying this video is very heartbreaking to fully witness. I hope exposure to these lived experiences shifts society's perceptions of weight.
im so sorry for your loss bro
I’m sorry for your loss. And as far as society’s perception on weight, I kinda doubt it will change in my lifetime
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find the peace you need and continue to strive to live a happy life.
so sorry for your loss!
why did you need to say that at all@zenjigaming3342
they’re all so respectful, this is really refreshing to see🥰
when are people not super hyper respectful on jubilee?
The 1st girl nearly weighs 3x as much as the 7th girl ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
@@rezmisfr
@@samsquire5062what does that have to do with the comment
So grateful someone mentioned orthorexia. Worst years of my life and I was unable to understand that I had an eating disorder because I didn’t match the criteria for the more well known EDs
how did you come to recover?
Hey I've never heard of this ed , could someone explain to me ? ❤
sorry I'm tired but you can google it :)
@@YAFAVEBESTIEE
I had never heard of it before but I used to be that way ! I don't know if it counts or not though, I genuinely was just super health conscious and didn't do it for my appearance at all.
I’ve long suspected my bestie is orthorexic. I want to support her as best as I can but she’s stuck in the paranoid cycle of eating. Not a nice way to live 😢
This video was actually surprisingly wholesome
Yes, I love this.
As someone with an active ED, I can totally strive to be recovered and healthier. Next time you judge someone for their weight, stop, think about how it affects their self esteem.
very well said!
@@princesoprano wtf
@@princesopranohere at prime male medical, we specialize in Ed and low testosterone issues
@@matteanolan8964lol ED also stands for erectile dysfunction
@@matteanolan8964*erectile disfunction* as ED is what the commenter was thinking.
I’m petite like Kahmil and relate so much to her experience with her weight, especially her feeling less of a women part.
yeah me too :(
same 😭 we’re lit told that we look like men/skeletons/sticks for being underweight
Seriously pms cried about this the other day
aww these replies make me emotional, happy to know we’re not alone but sad that the world is like this. we’re beautiful no matter what !!
@@milly6907 yeah exactly my thoughts, we really are not alone
It makes me so upset how many of these women struggled with an ED / body image issues.
I was a ballet dancer as well, so I can absolutely relate to Liz and definitely had my own set of struggles.
All the women in this cast are stunning - I want to give them all a giant hug
this is so sweet:,)
I feel like every ballet dancer experienced that. It's kind of scary...
real 😭🤍
Honestly I felt really terrible about being 160 but after seeing women near my weight I feel way better. This video is super sweet and honestly spreads a deep message. These girls were lovely.
why do u feel terrible being 160lbs? If your within the normal weight range for your height I don't think u should have to be too hard on yourself.
@@ViscaAsh thank you❤️
also neither of the larger women were at all unattractive. quite the reverse.
@@sarahtyster7342 cap
My first question would be height. Height is like the only kind of objective measurement that influences weight.
Erika and I are 5’10! Jesse is 5’7, and Kahmil is around 5’2:)
@@rylie887dang y’all like so tall even the 5’2 girl
@@lasay-cp1lvare u like 4’6 or something
@@Nicole-je6bz😂😂😂
@@rylie887Thank you!
This was the most beautiful video. Everyone was so kind and honest. This has probably helped quite a few people understand they’re not alone.
you are BALD
@@637reaper yup
they were all respectful and kind, this was wholesome 💞
Thank you to all the women who volunteered their weight as entertainment for us here. Wishing u all a happy healthy life xox
Here are their weights in kg, for those wondering:
44.1, 56.2, 60.3, 71.7, 72.1, 116.6, 124.3 kg.
i am a 6'1 guy whose weight varies between 75 to 80kg, how can someone reach 100+ is beyond me
@@its__OVER
its almost like women bodies are different from mens😱😱and womens bodies were designed to gain more weight😴
@@its__OVERits really not that hard to grasp overeating is so easy thanks to fast food
@@Ali-fm4eudon't argue with male weebs, they won't listen
Well it's not that hard due to the extra processed food in America. I'm 6'3 and 80kg.....you're gonna be bigger than me because you're shorter. It really depends on height, take Lebron and Shaq as examples. Nobody really cares anyways, so idk why you decided to comment this
Metric conversion
Lbs --> kgs
97.2 lbs -> 44.09 kg
124 lbs -> 56.25 kg
133 lbs -> 60.33 kg
158 lbs -> 71.67 kg
159 lbs -> 72.12 kg
257 lbs -> 116.57 kg
274 lbs -> 124.28 kg
@@poejavelski148it ain't easier like that
Thank you ♡
@@idkwhattodowmalifeig2579 Oh I didn’t watch to the end, didn’t realize they were listing out the weights of the contestants. My bad
Thank you so much!
Thank uu!!!
camille was so refreshing for me to see, i’m so glad she had an opportunity to talk about her experience without being invalidated
Agreed! I never got that, I understand why, but just because it's not as "hard" of a situation, doesn't mean it isn't a hard situation
i'm really glad that woman brought up body neutrality! i think it's a healthier mindset and more important than "body positivity".
Glad they were so honest and open with such a topic, it can be difficult to open up especially to the whole internet.
Kahmil makes me so sad 😢 You’re not “less of a woman”, you’re beautiful and healthy and amazing don’t ever doubt ❤
awe 🥹 thank you so much you’re the sweetest
@@milly6907 You are so gorgeous! Be yourself and be proud of who you are
@@milly6907 What’s your ethnicity if u don’t mind me asking?
I can relate with Kahmil. When I was 8, an older woman in my life told me I wouldn't be able to have children with how small my body was and that haunted me for years.
@@milly6907 Forgive the bluntness but I couldnt help but notice that you are the prettiest girl who I have ever seen featured on this channel's videos
They’re all insanely beautiful. I was genuinely taken aback when they took their blindfolds off 😭 very important messages in here as well. Thank you to these women and Jubilee!
Nah, half of them are not ideal at all. Higher likelihood of chronic disease in the future.
@@24killsequalMOAB not ideal?? What do you mean?
@@24killsequalMOABonly 2 of them, not half
@@24killsequalMOABdid you just say the bodybuilder will develop chronic disease in the future 😂😂😂
@@24killsequalMOABboth the commentor and I believe they are all beautiful how they are. It's a subjective opinion, you don't have to be so rude for no reason
i agree soo much with kahmil, the black beauty standard is to be “curvy” or “thick” and only black people would point out how underweight i am
thick but with a flat stomach
She’s light skinned and mixed. Let’s not pretend that she’s at the bottom of “black beauty hierarchy” because that would be a lie. Also she’s very young, of course she feels like less of a woman, she hasn’t fully grown into her womanhood yet.
@@frenchgirl5878what the frick is a black beauty hierarchy?
@@nude_cat_ellie7417 let's not act like colorism, featurism, and texturism don't run rampant in our community....
@@frenchgirl5878 no one said she was at the bottom of the hierarchy. none of what you said contradicts what she said. also why are you assuming her age?
So, so, SO proud of these women for being so vulnerable. I completely agree with Kahmil about the perceived perception of eating disorders (stuff like only girls have it, all girls with an ED are deathly skinny, ana is the only ED, etc.) and people failing to realize that eating disorders are mental, not physical.
Erikaaa is just so positive and girl like her would make anyone feel confident!
i want to give all these women a hug, being so vulnerable to other women but also to have it recorded and posted is so strong and amazing. i am so proud of all these ladies and they are all gorgeous ❤❤
The girl that said being under 100lbs made her feel less of a woman🥺 me too girl I was 75lbs when I was 19.. Im 23 now and 115lbs but still have no boobs, I’m short and petite, with a baby face, everyone still tells me they thought I was a child.. even 40lbs later I felt her so hard on that I hope she feels better
This is one of the most emotionally vulnerable videos I've seen, and these women really hit it out of the park
This episode was so incredibly wholesome, all of the women who participated are so beautiful and respectful towards one another. I don’t comment on videos much but this made me emotional as someone who watches my weight and beats myself up for it. It made me realize a lot of things about myself and while I have a long way to go towards loving myself, this video gave me all the reason to keep going❤
Loved each and every one of these girls, and I appreciate how vulnerable/respectful we were with each other! Great experience 🫶🏾
this may sound so random but have u ever lived in Virginia i think i recognize u lol
Omg where'd you get the earrings in the vid??? So cute 😩💀💀💀💀💀
You're all sooo stunning too
11:44 amen! Just cause someone is skinny does not mean they’re healthy. You can’t see high blood pressure, high cholesterol, eating disorders, mental illnesses, etc. Stop assuming and start listening
Correct, however that doesn't apply when it comes to very overweight and obese people. Their weight absolutely is not healthy.
gosh first of all everyone in the video seems genuinely so nice and sweet and like really cool people. and secondly since we‘re on the topic all of these women are just stunning. wow.
This video made me very emotional. The emotion coming from their voices was very touching.
One of the best episodes ever just because how cool every single woman was
This is such a great group of women. For a video like this you need girls that are not “pick me”’s and that are kind, and they all seem that way 🥰
I relate to Kahmil so much!! I'm from Colombia and I feel like I'm expected to have "the latina body" but, like her, I'm on the petite side. I struggle to feel like an attractive woman for my lack of curves. like a woman trapped in a pre-teenager's body
Same here! I’m Mexican though, and I don’t think many ppl expect Mexican girls to have curves like Colombians or Dominicans for instance. But I’m a Latina nonetheless so whenever ppl hear that, they expect a curvier body. I’m not, I’m on the smaller side too. Sometimes I do feel like less of a woman🥲 i completely understand u
@ximenapaola9628 most mexican girls I know are all very petite and small. Or at least the famous one's are
@@7ccs350Most Mexicans look small (very short) and might look petite for sometime in their younger years, but they're rarely super skinny or lean... even if they were skinny at some point they gain weight in their mid 20s. They gain most of their weight around their waist or hips/butt. Mexican women always ask skinny women if they even eat and will talk about it behind their back with other women or make jokes about it, I've seen it especially if you're skinny and tall.
And the worst part about being petite is it's hard to get curvy/ thin waist appearance relative to hips/bust because skeletal proportions literally just dont allow for it.
Stop when it cut to all of them talking to the camera- they’re all so cute omgoodness!!
Halfway through and the amount of held back tears you can hear in their voices is heartbreaking
this is both super hard and yet beautiful for my ED brain to watch. i’ve struggled for years at 75-80 lbs and I want to be strong and healthy but also am absolutely terrified of it. these girls are really really brave ❤
It’s so sad to see how many women are so insecure about their weight, but also weird how they said that it would be expected that almost all women are. As a woman myself I have never cared about my weight or appearence that much and have found for example intellectual abilities much more important and something that I would be insecure about if I didn’t do well in them.
Just because you're a woman who's not insecure about your appereance (which is great) that doesn't mean it's not a common thing that happens to a lot of women.
most people are insecure about their bodies in this day and age you're definitely an anomaly
Dude 😮.. i been tryna make it out the hood so on my UA-cam channel i do food reviews while I’m high 😂
@@nataliare576 I know that it is a thing that happens to most women, most of my friends too are very insecure about it. The whole point was that it’s sad that it is so, but also that it shouldn’t be expected that everyone is insecure about themselves just, because they’re women.
@@SevenHunnid what😅 okay you do you, but that has nothing to do with this lol
These women are all so brave, especially considering almost all of them have struggled with eating disorders. Proud of all of you for being so vulnerable! ❤
Please just put a small conversion of units when you use the imperial system. Most of the world uses the metric system so when we see or hear these measures, they mean nothing to us 😢
They didn´t lose the civil war to use communist units. /s
Having them weigh themselves is diabolical ngl like ..
The fact almost all of them have had ED’s at some point/ have active ED’s should seriously be a wake up call about the type of standards that are being put on women. Love the video but yeah that’s kinda insane.
It would’ve been interesting to also know their heights for context/perspective
You can pretty much tell
Someone replied to a different comment-- the two tallest are 5'10, the shortest is 5'2.
Lmao “context”
lol fr like I'm getting fellow ED vibes haha, someone wants to go on a bmi calculator@@lolipoppz
Yeah, I thought that was one of the first things to ask. Just from this set of ladies, the first four were perceived to be small while talking about themselves, and in the final ranking, you can see how they weigh proportional to their height (shortest to tallest).
More people need to understand that eating disorders are a mental challenge, it does not matter how you look because it’s not about that.
I absolutely love how respectful and gentle all the girls were. Very refreshing to see.
Please bring them back. All these women were so beautiful inside and out. I loved the energy of all of them.
I'm black but grew up in Asia. You can imagine how confusing life was for me. My family wanted me to lose weight at first but then started pressuring me to gain weight. But the damage has already been done, not to mention I wanted to be like the petite skinny girls at my school. So I ended up starving myself and exercising when my family wasn't looking. I went from a bit overweight to severely underweight. Even so, I still wanted to lose more weight because I still wasn't happy. I never was. Even tho I lost 60 pounds but I was still unhappy with my body. I hated everything about it. I had gone from 150 pounds to 88 pounds. My family was very worried for me and tried to force-feed me but I just vomited it out later. I still haven't fully recovered but I'm slowly getting there. Rn I'm 95 pounds and even tho it's taking some getting used to I hope I can learn to love my body.
They are so brave, being able to look at the numbers of the scale after an eating disorder (I'm in recovery I hope one day I can be like them)
I love how they all gave positive emergy towards each other and were polite
I love this to see the different sizes and how we’re so much a like mentally. Thank you Kahmil for sharing. I’m always proud of you.
This was really wholesome, all the women are really beautiful. 😊
i love love LOVE jessie’s attitude towards her body and perspective on things
ily 🫶
They were really close & kind to each other .
so proud of all my girls!!
Metric system users
97.4lbs = 44kg
124lbs = 56kg
133lbs = 60kg
158 and 159 lbs = 72kg
257 lbs = 116kg
274 lbs = 124 kg
everyone's so sweet and genuinely beautiful inside and out, and jasmine has suchhhh a gorgeous smile omg
I have not weighed myself in years & I did today & I am now extremely DEPRESSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel very low & so disappointed with myself!
i struggled with bullimia for years and im in recovery and at a place where im happy/neutral with my body but weight related things can still trigger me so i was nervous to watch this video and i loved the women in it so much theyre all so amazing and i love the energy in this video i'd be friends with all of them
This made me feel so much better about my own thoughts. These women are so beautiful
Omgg I relate to what Kahmil said so much about the black culture thing really nice to see that I am not alone
same!
awe this makes me happy but sad to see, we are not alone fr ! we’re such a niche so it’s hard to hear about it
@@milly6907 yup :/ but that’s why we need to stick together and support each other as women, instead of tearing each other down :o)
@@milly6907 omg it's youu yess
@@milly6907 thank you for saying that ❤️
Gosh being a woman is so hard 😭 I wish I could hug all of them
How? Everyone struggles with weight issues and insecurities ⁉️💀
Huh what? You don’t think these things apply to both genders
Both men and women struggle, I hope you know that
lol what
Having so much food available you get overweight..first world problems
kahmil is actually so beautiful- HER FACIAL FEATURES 😳🤗
thank youu!🤍🤍🥹
Wait omgg is this actually you??@@hellomillyy
@@hellomillyy Wait you’re actually Kahmil?
I love this episode, these women are REAL.
They were kind and almost spot on.
I love how all these women were mature and honest (hopefully) and took themselves to understand one another
Whoaaa kahmil doesn’t look black I thought she was Asian
Same here, she looks South Asian.
She’s mixed. Half black
@@angelica_mausinot
I had the same exact experience as Kahmil growing up :( in a way it’s nice to know you’re not alone in the feeling but at the same time it’s not something anyone should have to go through
I’m a guy and there hasn’t been one time where someone has come close to guessing my weight. They usually guess around 170 but I’m actually about 200
the girl talking about comparing herself to her sister is definitely real for me because my sister has a fast metabolism and never gains weight but im more on the heavier side and that has wrecked my relationship with my weight
Kahmil is beautiful, I thought she was a Filipina at first
This made me feel sad but made me feel a lil better about my body and how I should stop caring what people think ❤😭
They were pretty close with their rankings
The vid was one minute ago and is 12 mins long u couldn’t of finished
@@urfavzahcould’ve skipped to the end
It's crazy to me that NONE of these women are happy with their body and think that no women are🤷🏾♀️ They did a great job sorting themselves though👌🏾❤🙏🏾
Wow, I’m surprised to see how much more supportive and calmer the comments are regarding weight and body dysmorphia versus those videos negotiating overall beauty and attractiveness.
all of these women are seriously soooo beautiful
I am someone who is overweight but I always do everything in my power to starve myself and get skinny. It is most definitely a mental thing because people will say “oh you’re not even that big!” but to me when I look in the mirror I’m disgusted. People also have said to me “oh you would be so pretty if you lost weight” and it truly does affect me. I have a medical co diction and the pill I take causes me to put on weight very easily and make it impossible to lose. I love how at the end they said how anorexia doesn’t have a weight “class” or “limit” because it’s true. Just because I’m on the bigger side doesn’t mean I don’t starve myself for days on end, end up becoming anemic, want to throw up when I see my weight on the scale or see myself in pictures, the mirror etc.
Erika is so beautiful (all of them are but her personality and how she presents herself is goals)
8:27 this girl was basically saying that her health isnt important
I was talking about how your body looks, I didn’t mention health. hope this helps
@@jessiepantzis that you Jessie? Hiiii
Weight is also super dependant on height! I’m 6,2 and weight 135 lbs so while that might be heavy for someone who’s 5,5 it’s perfectly fine for a 6,2 person
That's not heavy for someone that's 5'5 either lol
@ yes probably
Every women on set were relating to one another so much!
Everyone is saying that they’re surprised that all being so nice which is sad that most ppl expected a different outcome from this video. It shows how we make such a big deal about weight
it needs to be BMI rather than weight because they're all different heights
as some who struggles with an ED and has for a long time it makes me so happy to hear that and to see how uplifting these gorgeous women were with each other
Kahmil is adorable
thank you ! 🤍
@@milly6907 hey what's your IG
As a woman who struggled for years with eating disorders this was deep and they’re all so brave! Rooting for us all to appreciate and love our bodies
I can relate to Kahmil being under 100lbs… and thats even after my body having to go through pregnancies and literally went back to my normal weight…and even though i worked out at the gym for a year still nothing but i think its just my metabolism
So pounds to kg
44,56,60,71,72,116,124
Kudos yo these brave women though cz i could never.
1 kilo is about 2.2 pounds
"Body neutrality is really the most important thing. I think your body is the *least* interesting thing about you, so you really shouldn't worry as much about what you look like versus what kind of a person you are. What you put into the is worlds bigger than how big you are"
This is why I've only been physically attracted to like 10% of the people I've liked/crushed on in the last 25 years of my life. It's just not that important, bro. If I love you, you're a cutie.
When I started therapy, I was so ready for my therapist to tell me everything that is wrong with me. But all she wrote as a diagnosis for the health insurance company was “eating disorder”. I told her I thought she would diagnose me with something psychological, and she said, “An eating disorder IS something psychological.” We actually discussed symptoms of many other things, but I am so grateful she did not focus on diagnosing “disorders”. It really challenged the belief I had that something was fundamentally wrong with me. And simultaneously made me realize the seriousness of my eating disorder. I am doing much better now! Mindfulness and gratitude for what I can experience through my body (rather than what it looks like) helped the most :)
no weird vibes here, such a wholesome energy amongst these girls ❤❤❤
bro erika is such a queennn
love them all thoo
Jessie is such a sweetheart, I love her 😭
I love the girl who showed in one or two episodes of “odd one out”, i recognize her once i saw her
Erika has such a beautiful soul 🩷
It’s not surprising that many women deal with eating problems because they have the pressure too look pretty so of course they’re gonna wanna eat more or eat less etc. I think us guys don’t struggle much with eating but we have other struggles or pressures.
I’ve struggled heavily with ED and weight fluctuations. Now with my daughter, I’m trying to change my own perspective of food so she can have a healthier relationship with her meals and diets. It’s been hard. I’m trying my best.
I'm a recovered ED peer consultant, if you need a friendly ear give me a shout!
its crazy how much different they look without their blindfolds like dang
I really enjoyed this video. I struggle with anorexia and this was really inspiring to see people who have overcome thier food dificulties. it was also nice to see and hear about every girls life expereiencfes related to society and their views of themseleves. I also really loved how they were all so support and swett to one another. tysm for doing this video.
same here ❤