100 Women Rank Themselves by Happiness | The One
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- Опубліковано 19 тра 2024
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In this episode of The One, 100 women took a happiness assessment in order to rank the entire group from Least Happy to Most Happy. But only one person ranked above the rest. Through discussion, debate, and discovery, can the group of 100 find The One?
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0:00 Intro
0:24 Round 1
4:51 Round 2
9:20 Round 3
14:08 Final Round - Розваги
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How is this posted 18 hours ago? The video ain't even been up that long.
I think alot of these ladies needs healing
I just skip to the end now. The whole process is meaningless. Lol
Please help kimya, her story made me so sad
bro everyone smiling creepily bec they want to stay is so hilarious
Smiling creepily😂😂
it was really an "all about me" episode. i think Tia is happy but her visible distaste for others being happy is indicative of someone who's bitter
NPC galore
😭😭😭😭😭nah fr I feel like they were forcing it. Especially when listening to some of Tias laughs💀😂
Like is there a prize, why do they so bad,g want to stay lol?
Everyone forcing the biggest smiles to prove they should stay is so funny
Yes lol Tia was doing way too much imo
@karmaramirez yes omg
Literally 😭 it’s icking me
@@karmaramirez it's soo annoyingg
Hugest
Being happy doesn’t mean you have to be super bubbly and outgoing so I get why Tia wasn’t the one.
Literally
Everyone like YOUR WNERGY
THE VERY GIRLS who need help and r turning to tik tok scammers lol
wow thanks for spoiling
@@samu-chanthat’s why I never read the comments before finishing the video 😭
@@samu-chanur brain dead . Just don’t read the comments then? Hope this helps
seriouslyy
The way that the one that’s the smartest is also the second happiest. What a life to live 😅
I was surprised that there wasn’t any mention of this! But maybe they filmed the IQ video after this one?
I actually think that's kinda strange...I would get it if she Was like the 10th, then I wouldn't say anything about it but the 2. place? That's sus...I don't think that the happiness test measured happiness well
That's proof that the popular belief "smart people are unhappy" is wrong.
Yea she seems so chill
Remember, she's a DJ when she's intellectually capable of doing much more profitable work. She's living her dream life and doing what makes her happy. Also, maybe they filmed this after ranking her as the 1 for IQ.
imagine the opposite version and people trying to proof they are sadder than others lol
I'd be far more interested in watching that, lol 🙃
That was literally tumblr back when I was a teenager lmao
@@wawaicedcoffee same ahahaah i was thinking teenage me would have stormed out during the first second here
Maybe they could use a questionnaire about depression, it is almost the opposite.
Without a doubt we're already living this online through the victim Olympics on social media.
can we talk about tho how Anahit is the one with the highest IQ AND 2nd Happiest???! being smart and happy.. what a blessing
I think high IQ people do best when they realize they can create their own happiness and stop conforming to other's expectations. I remember she was a DJ or something.
was waiting for this comment😊
Thanks for the shout out 🗣️ I can’t believe the rankings I got either 😅
We need your life story if possible, congratulations on your scores 👏👏👏
She's smart enough to lie on the test
Jubilee should post the test and full results so you can rank yourself amongst the 100 people whilst watching the video and play along
Agreed
WAIT I LOVE THIS
THIS NEEDS TO BE TOP COMMENT
this is an incredible idea omg
i came to the description looking for the test. cause i know i wouldn’t make it to the end but i feel like i’m very happy. i just don’t ever try and quantify my happiness, it just is. i can’t think of what makes me overtly happy but i’m very positive. just interested where that would land me.
bro how do you find out who is happier 💀
i think they answers questions on a test.
@@imegacameplz Yeah but they can just lie... It's not hard to understand what answer means you are happier
In the first 3 seconds of the video it says they took a happiness assessment
@@orenzagalsky6414 well duh anyone can lie. im not saying its gonna be 100% accurate, im js answering ur question lmao
And all of the questions are subjective like "I laugh alot" how much is alot? Everyone has a different definition.
I hope Kimya gets better she seems so sweet 🥺
I know , She shouldn't feel guilt about being sad just because she has the stuff she needs around her , the sadness is still 100% valid
For sure, money doesn't buy happiness. I've learned that over time after working with wealthy people. If you don't have genuine, loving relationships in your life, you really have nothing.
She radiates warmth
@@rais.3817 me
Yes, I'm concerned about her. I hope they’re helping her. Her saying she felt guilty for being last broke me.
There is no way that Tia is always like that.Its looks superficial and not to mention completely draining...
I don't trust people, who are always happy. There are too many problems to be always happy.
so draining.
looks a bit creepy 😂
"no way" - Ah, where did you find your ability to peer into someone's mind through the internet? I'd like to try it
"looks superficial" - So you're not sure? You're judging her personality by what you see in a handful of minutes?
"completely draining" - For you. You're judging the sincerity of her behavior based on how you would exhibit that behavior?
I've come across a few people throughout my life that were always happy. There was one girl in my middle school I only knew as "smiley". She literally always smiled. One day a group of kids were being disruptive causing a commotion in one of the halls, and the vice principal saw her in the area and questioned her about the noise. Her grinning made him think she was being rude. He said something like, "So you think this is funny?" I think her face went more neutral, then back to a nervous smile. Other kids had to explain to him that's just how she was. Some people are just that way.
@@social3256 can you just shut it lol. why are you getting offended lol
It's funny how extroverted people always get to the podium even tho they are not the one, when will the world understand that being the loudest doesn't make you the "happiest" etc.
There’s no other way to vote for the top unless you know their story and a quiet shy person won’t tell everyone their story
this feels so dystopian
like the "Nosedive" episode of Black Mirror
The way they talk to them when the round is ending...like what...
@@justinwilson9848exactly it’s like “why can’t you be happier!?”
@@QueenZsWorld Damn, you made me remember that disturbingly awkward episode
The happiest person in the room would not be forcing a smile the entire video 😭 I truly believe the person who’s the happiest is someone who’s been through a situation in which their happiness was taken away but with time and healing they found away to come back from it and feel genuine happiness again. Not this unrealistic“if my tire is flat I’ll still smile” - this is just my opinion though
Completely agree
Yeah this goes back to the point someone made in the beginning about toxic positivity. I 100% agree with both points.
totally agree. I feel like you have to know what if feels like to be on the ground to know what true happiness is.
This! I completely agree with you
How do you know she's faking it? Believe it or not, other people have different thoughts and perspectives and brains. You personally not behaving in a certain way doesn't mean it's an act.
As an introvert and a realist, Tia is the type of person that I avoid, because they drain my energy. I don't know if anyone else feels like this, but over the top happiness leaves me exhausted.
No fr I feel exhausted just by watching
That isn't her fault though, it's something within yourself.
@@2026Johndoefr 😭
The same is true for extroverts with introverts. Extroverts have so much energy that they tend to overly counterbalance for introverts, which can also be draining. Sometimes, there needs to be a break from each other. I'm the extroverted one in my group of friends and my bestie is the introvert. We get along with each other so well, but in large groups, I tend to lead because she's hyper empathetic.
Nah same I really believe you need sadness have happiness like you can’t just be happy all the time doesn’t work like that. Inside it taught us taht
Hey everyone, this is America. Thank you for all of the supportive comments for me, I tried to get to them all.
I am working with a psychiatrist who recently put me on an antidepressant on top of my anti anxiety medication.
I’m currently midway through my junior year and I will have to drop this semester because of my mental health. Mind you, last semester I made deans list and this semester I’m failing almost every class I’m in.
I wanted to be real and upfront about my struggles of being born into a dysfunctional family. I felt media coverage for a background such as mine was important, and Jubilee valued this perspective.
If you’re seeing this and also struggling, I hope it gets better for you. I wish you all the best ❤🎉
this is very random, but your name is so cool.
❤
praying for you 🫶
you’ve got this girl, it’s so hard ♥️
i think your soul is beautiful and hope you find the happiness that you deserve one day. i understand what it's like not being able to control the circumstances you were born into, but i trust you can overcome this. sending hugs ❤❤❤❤
kimya seemed so sweet. I hope she finds peace with herself.
“Schindler’s List is the saddest thing you can watch” mfs clearly haven’t watched this movie.
Kimya’s interview tore me to shreds
I wouldn’t even qualify for the circle 😭
Omg 8 minutes I and I have to dip at the bluebird story. Reminds me of my toxic positivity SIL. I mean dang I was in cheer in the south and I can’t cope with that level nope lol
SO TRUE FOR ME TOO 😂
😂😂
no fr!!!! id be the first one gone
Same🤣🤣🤣😭
Tia was doing too much.
i thought so too at first but some people are fr born like that! Let her be bubbly and happy! one less miserable person.
I feel like I would be so exhausted being around her lmao
No she wasn't, stop projecting.
Let people be happy, sadist.
"People who are coping with apparent mental illness or denial about their self worth are doing too much." - you
Like, we can all see through it, but the most common reaction in the comments is people taking joy in the fact that she may be secretly miserable like the rest of us; give it a rest, practice empathy and moisturise your cuticles.
i knew from the first minute that tia was gonna be chosen as the happiest, but I think more quiet people can actually be a lot happier often than the ones who are soOoO hAppy :-))))
I knew shed be chosen but also not win. Came off forced
$oo0 H4PPy
These questions are subjective like "I laugh a lot" how much is a lot? Everyone has a different definition. There's no way to actually gauge who's the happiest in the room.
Where did you see the questions?
How did you see the question
@@ssteffniiyou sign up for casting, the links are usually on their instagram
@@ssteffnii They are in the first couple seconds of the video
@@empressofawesome7099 They are in the first couple seconds of the video
why is this even creepier than the one where they were finding the best body? it's so weird to make people reflect on their life in order to compare themselves to other people.
yeah this whole series has seemed really dehumanising and unproductive
Also all the videos in this series has been women only
@@Whirlbee hosted and created by one too
@@lobmob3235 not my point
@@Whirlbee ik I was just pointing it out
I wanna see a men's version because i feel like the male version would tackle so many things
Yeah, like the male suicidal rate ❤️🩹
I'm not trying to be rude, but I honestly believe Tia was putting on an act. Every day, she is happy when she wakes up and is thankful. Has she never been tired or not wanting to get out of bed?
I've been ultra tired and didn’t want to get out of bed-but that was more about preserving my happiness & self care. I'm still thankful for another day because I have family & friends who are no longer here. I live for myself by remembering how they would want my life to be.
It's all about perspective.
she's religious so im willing to believe it
@@AngelCaroline9 are you this is how most religious people are?
@@jinakaye that part is ture but I still don't understand how she can be happy everyday.
i think to be the happiest person in a room it’s not about being happy all the time, it’s about being present, optimistic, and expressing gratitude. i express the full range of my emotions. the sadness, anger, and happiness. by doing that i feel happy overall because i’m releasing stuck emotions from my body. trying to put on a happy face 24/7 only damages oneself by not feeling everything they may be experiencing
Yes! Yes! Yes!
So well said. Feeling my full range of emotions is what makes me feel human.
I would just leave the circle early on because those "happy" people there are so annoying.
hahaha
100% 😂😂😂😂 “byeeee”
Happiness is an emotion, joy is a characteristic/attribute. You can be sad and still be joyful, you can be happy and be joyful. No one is happy all the time, but we can choose to have a joyful spirit even in our sadness.
The most realistic comment here everrrrrr ❤
Exactly, happy is not a state of being
well put!
The video was actually about joy, at least in my opinion and in the opinion of other ladies there, but since at the end of the day it's a semantics thing, we just used the word "happiness" instead since we all knew we were talking about state of being and gratitude instead of transient emotions
Someone give Maya a hug 😭
america too 😭
And Kimya!! But honestly everyone deserves a hug
Lmao extra af doesn’t mean happy
Ironically, the people fighting to be #1 are probably the ones furthest from being genuinely happy.
Smiling and laughing all the time does not equate to overall happiness. Happiness is gratitude, love, appreciation, feeling a sense of meaning in life, family, etc...... It's very shallow to assume being giggly and bubbly means you are the happiest person.
I knew it wasn’t Tia… something about her seemed forced.
Prayers for Kimya though… it takes courage to be vulnerable.. keep going sis ❤
I hope Jubilee provided some therapy options, especially for the women who felt hopeless.
the forced smiles-
Can't they just lie and say they are happy while they are not?
duh
They could lie to them selves and lie on the test exactly
Yes mate every survery , every questionaire almost everything will never be 100% accurate , even tests you can guess and get correct .... humans honesty is the only way to get accurate results lol
No survey 100% accurate
@@Darkjnr5Especially not this one
Feels weird judging people on how their life is going 💀
The fact that Julia is surprised that she's the happiest makes me believe she's the happiest. Super contented and chill.
Jubilee falloff confirmed.
Tia’s laugh, her confidence, and vibe is almost everything i hate in a person 🔥🔥💯
You caught me off guard with that ending.
@@fatimaisra9143 was so out of pocket but so true lmao
LMFAOO
Robin Williams had the biggest smile and was once the loudest in the room too.
We also knew about his struggles with depression & drug addiction…and losing his best friend (Christopher Reeves) didn’t help, either.
Which is exactly why I can't fathom why SO many comments about Tia seem to relish in the theory/fact that she may be secretly miserable.
I honestly think NF said it best when he wrote "the truth is I need help but just can't imagine who I'd be if I was happy...been this way so long it feels like something's off when I'm not depressed." I've never felt more seen than I did when I heard that line.
Big NF love ❤
Tia gave me the vibes of the people in my school who are the loudest and the most hyper ,but are really superficial and shallow-minded behind your back and will even backstab you.
4:05 She's such a sweet soul , I am so sorry that you are going through all these
When she said "I don't think I'll ever be happy" I understood that and It's something that is in my mind also
❤ you America
I’m currently watching my part and I’m sobbing in bed. Thank you for your kind words. I hope I find change eventually.
@@Mer381 Aw , Of course
I have to say , to go through all that and still being able to get up each day and battle your struggles every single day , You are very strong and I am proud of you for going there, sharing your story and being hopeful for the future 💓
this made me so uncomfortable, happiness is such a subjective term. And how they fought so hard to prove their lives are perfect and they are happier than other girls???
One person can think they are the happiest bc they have both parents and a house but then someone that lives in india with barely food for the day is hundred times more grateful and happy.
I think the premise of deciding who’s the one is silly and will never be accurate, but I like hearing everyone’s stories and perspective which is why I like this series.
I love Tia’s outfit ❤
Just the fact that she said that she thought that maybe someone else should be in her spot bc there’s no way she is the one person says a lot about her confidence which is part of happiness 😭
Tia's outfit is fly. I need to know where she got it.
I also hope, especially with this episode, there were counselors on set because there were a lot of triggers going off.
I feel so much for America. I feel the exact way she does. I don’t know that I’ll ever really be happy. I didn’t have a real ‘dad’ growing up and my mom didn’t help with my college so I have a ton of debt too. The thought of having a house or kids someday feels impossible even though I want them. I’ve tried so many medications and sometimes I’ll do okay for a while but I always end up in a pit again. I’m so sorry America feels like this too. I wish I could give her a hug and cry it out together
As I read your message I’m crying. I feel like I am there with you. Your message was comforting to know I’m not alone. This is why I wanted to come on here and express my truth. I felt like people need to know this is how some people really live life on a daily basis. I appreciate you sharing. I have an absent father and my mother raised me with a lot of abuse. I’m a trauma survivor and it’s hard reflecting on the past and moving forward on my own independently.
I wish the best to you.
9:30 shes been forcing a smile and voice just to look happy 😭😭😭😭 wow
That's actually her personality. There's another “The One” video Tia is in and it's consistent with her personality here. I know people like this. One of my aunts had that exact personality-always perky & bubbly. She was my favorite aunt.
I think this is the first “The One” episode that I've seen that the person chosen as the one wasn’t the one, but still ranked in the Top 10 (Top 5, too). I'm not surprised Tia didn’t get #1, but I knew she was in the Top 10, at least. Also, shout out to Anahit-the smartest person in the room & the 2nd happiest?! Respect to her!
they couldn't think of a more interesting idea than this?
The happiest person must have experienced being sad, hard times, crying nights...etc. Without that, you don't know true happiness.
I agree
Would a happy person really care about being ranked #1?
I just want to give Kimya the biggest hug and tell her that no matter what she is loved and cared for.
bro idk it feels so weird to me to say yeah im the happiest
Expecting to be happy 24/7 is a façade. Stuff happens, life happens.
Happiness is not about how much you are 🌟🌠💞💕positive❣💝🌟🌠 and bright and bubbly, but really closing your eyes and being content with what you have, what you have achieved, the road you have chosen (no matter how many bumps there are in that road, or achievements, or * insert anything*).
Happiness is a smile, but is SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT.
Happiness is an emotion, not a state of being. It's obvious Tia is infused with joy and because her personality is bubbly, it's easy to see her happiness. One can go through many emotions, but I do find it weird when folks think others are being extra or over the top because they are so positive. They've done the work and aced it…that's all.
@@jinakaye 1000% agree
Omg so true. Life has ups and downs but you can still be happy. I think happiness is how content you are and if you can be positive no matter what happens. And being thankful for life.
It’s so weird how most of them are playing it up but I feel like it’s especially prominent with Julia. Like girl there is no need for all of that 😭
LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT
Dude number 2 is the smartest AND second most happy. What a life!
fr must be nice
and she is a dj
Love seeing the woman who was #1 in IQ as #2 here.
kimya you said exactly what i always say- i always look back and question if i was ever happy or if all those “happy” moments i was just lying to myself and pretending… it was actually really healing to hear someone else say it too. i’m not the only one and we aren’t alone. thank you for being so vulnerable ❤
This video was so much fun to film! ❤ As the comments know, we did film three The One videos in one day. Love this group of ladies. I wish they included more of Rachel's story, as she has really taken control of her life and turned it around, which I think is very important for people to see, to develop an internal locus of control ❤️❤️❤️
I feel like some people were just overcommiting on pretending to be happy that they actually looked kinda creepy
#2 was the smartest from the last video AND 2nd happiest?! such goals
Agreed!! I can’t believe it!🎉
To me, the happiest people are those like Rachel. Those who are comfortable in feeling all the emotions. Julia and Tia to me are clearly, definitely in the toxic positivity side, and they lack empathy, compassion and humbleness.
That much confidence about being the one, and then the light turning red is sad
Im really surprised at the second happiest woman, since she ranked with the highest IQ. I always thought smarter people are less happy because they can better realize how shitty the world is 😂
could be because she's a dj and has fully let go of certain academic expectations and is literally just enjoying life and having fun. not to mention she must have a great support system and be resilient to get to the point of contentment and happiness of where she is now
Intelligence gives you the ability to see the forest for the trees.
@@dimadozen5199 true, she's just vibing!!
IQ =/= knowledge, so there's your answer.
OMG!!! I know Julia
Tia is so jarring
Smiling a lot =/= happy. I feel like contentedness has a lot more to do with happiness then how you allow your body to form itself.
Is that Maren?? ♥️♥️♥️ I totally respect her for being the first to go it must have been an unknown assignment.
You cannot quantify happiness 😂
girl what are you even talking about 10:59😭
It’s so funny bc capitalism actually wants you to feel like you’re not enough and to have many negative thoughts so that they can sell you things to feel better like makeup skin products and a large amount of different products that are not even related to happiness
she didn't phrase it well but basically, consumerism is always selling you things that will supposedly make you happier (getting the newest phone, newer cute clothes, even to an extent 'achieving the american dream' etc.) and it's the idea of western individualism and its tendency to equate materialism with happiness when really it boils down to other sociological factors like your support system, how you were raised growing up, and your sense of self
not to mention so many people attach their sense of self worth to how much money they make (ie another capitalistic ideal)
@@dimadozen5199 yeah, but she said that expecting people to always be happy is capitalism 😭 is not, in fact capitalism wants you to be in a bad place to fill your need with material possessions
I resonated with America so so much. Every single word I could relate to.
I’m sorry you feel the same way that I do. I hope we both get through this and it gets better ❤
Anahit being #1 smartest and #2 happiest is impressive
3:36 even I would be depressed if my parents named me america.
😂😂😂😂
Let's not invalidate her feelings
Not cool
I like the name
This is so dystopian😭
theres so many girls that I recognize from past episodes of The One.
They filmed it all on the same day. They're all wearing the same clothes as the other episodes
Thank you so much RACHEL from ROUND ONE! You gave me some hope and faith in the happiness and self love I am trying to foster within myself !! Also I love your shirt
Why is it always women? We want to see men do these 100 person rankings.
Jubilee falloff confirmed
Why?
first convo being about antidepressants is just chef's kiss perfect
The goal is to maintain peace. That’s why Julia was called. Maintaining peace doesn’t mean you’re always happy either. You can be experiencing lesser favored/uncomfortable emotions like frustration or sadness & still be at peace because you have the tools necessary to regulate & maintain security in yourself & your situation. Knowing you can handle & support yourself emotionally brings so much confidence. Brings peace & brings contentment. ✌🏽
Tia scares me
I think it would be great to make the quiz available for us to take too and then see where we would’ve ranked out of the 100
I was so impressed with the honesty and insightfulness of Maren. She gave such a vulnerabie and wise answer.
You know those girls were “happy” when the red light went on Tia…. 😂😂 I can’t 😊
this is the most dystopian thing i’ve ever seen
If I see someone being that bubbly and laughing I know they are faking. I'm a really happy person and I'm not giggling and acting like a buffoon all the time.
Happiness and confidence is quiet, and denial/insecurty is loud.
This is my first time seeing I was #10! Thanks for a fun experience, Jubilee!!
I wish you guys would link the survey they used to gauge the happiness. I’d like to see the questions and take it
9:14 her feeling neutral and ending up as 52 was really cool for some reason
The One is my favorite series that Jubilee has done so far, I wish they do more in the future
I wonder what order they filmed this…happiness, body, smart🤔
I'm happiest wheny Jubilee doesn't falsely content strike ABA AND PREACH!!!!
Hi, I was waiting for those videos for 3 weeks to add English Closed Caption (CC), but I always checked those videos to see if they have CC. I don't watch videos with auto closed captions that always have been messed up or vague information that confuses me. That's why I don't watch videos with it. I hope you can add English CC on videos in the future so that I can enjoy watching and learning! Thank you!
america deserves the world i get the depression from mum so much not that my mum is depressed i just get that feeling of being upset because of her really often so shes super relatable
I like this new series!!
Next Episode: The Most Confident One?
Gurl why was this supportive like this video made me happy in the first part ❤😂 all the women saying aww whe she was crying like alleluia likei was laughing in joy causeit was so wholesome
I’m really glad everyone is sharing their stories about the privileges and struggles they’ve all gone through in life. It’s really important to humble yourself and appreciate anything positive that’s given to you in life. ❤
You guys should pair up these women 1 with 100, 2 with 99 etc for some coaching/care taking.
I feel like Tia was trying sooo hard🥱😒