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What I'm bringing to the table is provision, stability, guidance, leadership, strength, support, discipline, and when I ask a woman what she brings I'm talking about peace, support my stress relief after dealing with the outside world trying to rip me to shreds on a daily basis. Is she the one that's going to say it's ok you got this or, am I going to come home to nothing to eat, and have my woman coming at me sideways as well?
It shows the requirements women really be having for the men they date. Then pick the men who are out in the streets expecting them to actually be the ones to fulfill those requirements, and when they don't, the rest of us get the blame for it, lol.
What’s amazing to me is when Blk women say Blk men don’t protect them. When they keep voicing and their actions keep saying they don’t want our protection.
@@R0yALtySI think his point is a lot you all act as though you don't need men. I even hear black women say it often. Not needing one leads one to think you don't need his protection.
Had a driver, had all her bills paid, was able to save her money, never felt safer in her life and still left him and expects the same and better from the next man 😂 She hit the lottery and didn’t even realize it
A good man in the middle east comes with controlling family members you don't have the same views as your good man. unless you're willing to be treated like crap by his family and her being a black woman she probably was going through it form his family, hence her missing home part..
So her calling him on his platform “this nigga” over and over is considered her being respectful but him calling women who sleep with men for money “prostitutes” is disrespectful? Make that make sense please.
This is why arguing with women is nonsense. They don't have the logic for it. Example: fight for the "right to make own money", begin dating a man who she THINKS she makes just as much money as, then leaves him when the feminine role and right to access masculine roles is too much but somehow doing it ALL on her own is easier than splitting the load with a decent man. How does that make sense?
"I can't worry about people's feelings, especially when it comes to women because they are very emotional. I'm not the type to walk on eggshells just to protect your feelings " I felt that💯
Shout out to Eli and the gang not letting these women tone police them to death on their own podcast, because they don't like the blunt observations and conclusions men have come to due to a lot of women's behavior.
Exactly I’m so sick of them taking about their feminity has to be brought out of them by the right man makes no sense. Women I the past generations would get offended by just saying to a girl that they weren’t feminine it was an insult to them and they would go off on you
White shirt is a feminist, middle woman said 8 words, light skin woman likes to hear her own voice cuz none of her thoughts were coherent. I'm glad they weren't ratchet bc it proves that delusion, confusion, & bitterness aren't class based. Gentleman choose carefully & wisely...SMH
@@butterflymage5623slowing down the conversation and making a concise point. This never happens here, women make asinine claims and it’s usually overlooked or breezed passed!!!
The prostitution Convo was funny. How this woman going to say what those women were “ trying to say”. 😂😂😂 they said what they wanted to say. Women swear they are the most educated but can’t articulate themselves well? 😂😂😂😂 Crazy. Thank yall for standing strong and not conforming because their feelings are hurt.
Some of the dumbest things I heard women say. In addition to having ALL TYPES of excuses for those women lined up and ready. She didn't go up there in good faith to have a wholesome Convo with an exchange of opinions...she came on there to catch them slipping. You saw she had her Handy Dandy Notebook 📓 at the ready.
They literally was trying to change the words of what other women say. "Oh she didn't mean to say it that way" huh? So when she say "F love I'm looking for a bag" she meant she's looking for a masculine leader that treats her right.. these women are wild and avoid accountability.
They’re unaccountable worldly children who have no relationship with the most high. They worship the things of this world and themselves. They will not be seeing the kingdom of god the way they’re going. These fools chose 5 million dollars over being in the presence of the most high. All Jezebels.
So we cant call prostitute actions...prostitute? That's like saying we can't call a dude wit no place to stay homeless..critical thinking is lost amongst women in my culture and its scary. Not even thru wit the episode but i had to point this out
White shirt is a feminist. She will challenge your authority every step of the way. The narcissist manipulation would never stop. Not until the relationship breaks up
Yup she's a chameleon. She tries to talk soft to make herself seem feminine, but she masculine b/c she "thinks" she's smarter than most men. Therefore she's going to disrespect every men she comes across unless, he's a top tier guy with a PHD or making a lot of money.
@@truebengalsfan We as a people better take every one serious. They have children or will have children & they WILL put poison N theirs heads waaaay before the world gets a hold of them. They they will use the exact same language, "My DAD wasn't N my life"
The *ENTIRE BLACK COMMUNITY* has been hurt and is traumatized. We can no longer use our history as a shield against the recognition of our bad actions. Also, people are able to be better because of their trauma, not only worse. You can take that pain and use it to empower yourself.
@@thefirstprime0124 I haven't watched the vid yet but FACTS! Especially, the non-toxic black men we BEEN hurting since the 70s! It's slim pickings outchea. Peace to you fam!
Hearing the biracial girl speak solidify that women do not know what they want had a good man it seems like she wanted some toxicity in her life and that’s why she left smh
I've been tuned into this podcast for a few months now and this is the first time I'm commenting. This was def one of y'all better episodes. Keep grinding
I feel like this is probably the worst. These women are very uneducated and didn’t pull off a good conversation to meet in the middle. Too much emotion. But these guys did stand on their toes to keep them in check
BM…we know you don’t understand ALOT of things about how REAL men seeking POWER move in the world. I’m sure this comment will go over your head but that only explains why black men in the diaspora has allowed their own race to be where it has been for centuries
@@TheBlackGeoI thought you can tell by the energy of a woman if she's feminine. So shouldn't that be enough for you to know if she's wife material? IJS🤷♀️
It's unfortunate during this dating Era that men and women don't date exclusively for a purpose other than speed dating because if it was like the past...well, yes, men should foot the bill, but it gets really expensive if your dating 2 -3 times per day on a daily basis. Back in the day, you'd date 3 women and settle with one....in that case footing the bill ain't an issue, which it shouldn't be.
@@DailyRapUpCrewWhat is it a man needs to “stay woke” about? If as a man you are choosing a woman based upon the standards you have set for the type of partner you desire, why stay to the point that you over invest.
I met 1 high value man in my life.He loved me and treated me really good.I was from the hood and he still wanted me 😢 he did work alot but made time for me.He lifted me up and taught me all the good things i know today.Hes proud of me ,he watched me grow.I thank him still today for showing what a man is 😢 i messed it up i can admit it. Ladies, they are out here, and he hated that i wore weave and nails ( its what i done for work a stylist" 😢 i feel bad for this generation 😢we all need healing men and women ❤
This is a lose lose situation. There's not enough time on earth to fight up stream just to find happiness with modern black women. They want everything but want to give nothing. It's not worth it. Go abroad. This is too insane
These women are demonstrating the exact problem with the current state of dating discourses now. The absence of shame and lack of accountability, the two girls on the ends not liking the terminology should hold they fellow girls accountable and they wouldn't seem like black women being "labeled as sex workers." She defend characters she don't even know, talk about delusional fr 😂 cuz how she know all them past women wasn't this (hypergamous) or that (bein masculine) they must be psychics too
I believe this is a generation thing rather than a race thing. Sooo many people of our generation no matter race are going through the same relationship issues.
Say that one more time to the black men in the front...not sure why they think relationship issues are mainly black women when we live I'm this modern world. Sometimes these black dudes sound prejudiced against their own kind
Say whatever you want Eli. Don't be afraid to hurt feelings. Kevin Samuels didn't care and you shouldn't either. Feeling sometimes need to be hurt.............AND feelings can lie to you...... so F their feelings........ Facts over feelings everyday all day.....
Right like Antwoine Daniels be saying I don’t give a damn about your feelings the facts speaks for itself. Don’t hold back on em cuz women don’t like the truth only the lies
Only Black History ignored by Blacks... THE NEGR0 PROJECT: *38% of Black pregnancies are aborted, over 50% in NYC. BW are by far most overweight, least married, most in debt, and 78% of their children have no Dad by DESIGN. THE NEGR0 PROJECT is now called Planned Parenthood💥 The Welfare Act finished the job of destroying the Black Family. 1854 founded to STOP SLAVERY... Republican Party 1860 founded to KEEP SLAVERY... Democrat Party Republicans literally beat the Democrats in the Civil War in 1865. "we want to exterminate the Negro population.” -Margaret Sanger, founder of THE NEGR0 PROJECT/Planned Parenthood & a Democrat. See the Democrat's plan yet?
Here's an example of a Woman's Hypergamous nature. She's dating 2 guys, one makes 60K a year and the other makes 120K per year! She chooses, the guy that has more security than the other guy. She still exhibits single behavior, posting sexy pics on IG for attention, displays herself as single when she's alone or out with friends. She's not married yet so in her mind she's still single. Although this woman has started dating this one man exclusively, she turns down other men that doesn't exhibit the level of security her man has, until the more handsome, more wealthy, athlete pulls up in an Aston Martin and tries to get her number, and then she caves and gives him the number. She sees a guy that has far more security than her man and she doesn't turn him down. It doesn't have to be an athlete, it's just that the mext man is on a leveluch higher than the giy she's with and she continues the cycle until she reaches a level that she's comfortable with. Alot of women feels as though Men should know, expect, and be okay with this..... But don't let a man operate on his nature to want to sleep with more than one woman while dating 😂
The problem with these types of conversations is that the idea of relationship is discussed from a transactional perspective and not from a doing life together with a partner. They are two very distinctive perspectives.
Why is she trying to tell Eli what the saying? How to say it? This is ridiculous. This man can say what he want to say. He's a grown man. See I'm tired of women doing this foolishness. When is this going to stop?
The root of the problem is both men and women don't want to put more then 50% and are ready to call it quits , because to much emotions not enough commitment.
This be my problem with most women 1:04:15 the light skin woman just said most men don't provide or give that security for a woman to feel like she can just be a housewife and how other races got that then in the same breath say she had a good man that did everthing but she didn't want to be a housewife because she wanted more freedom and didn't want no kids or stay home lol I say this all the time most women are just looking for a good time not a long term relationship the age gap play apart but that's why it's funny when girls get mad at men dating younger women but it's cool for younger women to pursue older man for their resources lol 😂 the way some think is so backwards
MOST BLACK MEN say out of their oen mouths that they dont want to get married. Alot of women say out of their own mouths that men are telling them they arent looking for relationships. Its men who dont want to commit. If you think women dont want to commit, it must be because you dont have any options.
@@soundsaboutright--- everything she said was contradictory, she wants the freedom to do what she wants to do at the same time want a man to play his part and not hold her to her part, sounds like a contradiction to me and that most women nowadays. It annoying that our roles as man is i have to provide and protect but at the same i should allow my women to be free to do what she wants and i shouldnt make adhere to her role as women and also be ok with her leaving me coz she doesn't want to feel tied down, yeah i think us men need to change our roles since it become negotiable
@stacih1025 and most women aint wife able enough to be provided for. We can do this all day but what i said stands " one rule for you but not for me" that how most women move nowadays and to say otherwise is just being disingenuous
The fact these women didn't have enough sense to realize that just bcus you're spending 5 minutes with Jesus doesn't mean you're out right dead in addition to the fact they care more about money than their immortal soul is crazy
@@Gnosis639 That's not what was presented. It was either take the 5 mill and not spend time with Jesus or spend time with Jesus but not take the 5 mill. There was no option of take the money then after that talk to GOD or talk to GOD first then take the money after
I've watched about 3 of your show's i like it alot. Just because we in the comments give our opinion don't mean we didn't enjoy what your talking about, we do ❤❤❤ and ill always hit like ,these are important conversations very needed.
Super models ? Just bc they look better than the women yall are able to pull in a first world country , doesnt make them super models. And yall say women are delusional 😂
33:40 HYPERGAMY- the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background... LADIES WE CAN UNDERSTAND WHY WOMEN WANT A SUCCESSFUL MAN, HOWEVER MOST WOMEN DONT QUALIFY THE HIGH VALUE MEN YALL SEEK.
They dont even want successful men. They want HYPER successful men. If she making 40k and i make 80k, im more successful than her yet im broke to alot of women
@stacih1025 in reality most BW do Pratice hypergamy. That's the reason is so many bby mommas. We prioritize only finances and status vs character and morals. If BW PRIORITIZE TANGIBLE THINGS THEY WOULD HAVE BETTER AND LONGER LASTING RELATIONSHIPS.
I guess she was saying like contributing financially period …not EXACTLY 50/50 ..and theirs nothin wrong with that .. especially if it’s a chance the man probably would most likely make more than her anyway
That's cuz some women don't think bruh. A lot of women will carry this notion that women aren't supposed to work or contribute as much but all of human history will prove opposite. There is no 50/50, you contribute as much as the house and family needs.
@@radiantgoldensun6438please explain 100/100 when the man and the woman are not making the same salary? This make no sense. Your ancestors did not think like you.
Awesome! Finally, women that can articulate their thoughts. And she as absolutely correct about being socially responsible when it comes to the women of your race. You are setting a trend like rappers have, then you dislike the affects of your words. You say that you are leaders, but a woman has to tell you how to lead...
@DailyRapUpCrew I got some feed back for jeuu I noticed that you had some pushback about men wanting women to cook /clean and not helping. I watch adult of these podcast I can confirm allot of men put out the message and say adamantly even if she work a 9-5 she should be responsible for cooking and cleaning. They never say that should be a shared role. In fact this channel is the only channel that has said that especially you as a married man has always said that I salute that.
They do that in other countries. Only thing is there is such a procedure that women can go under to have their hymen reconstructed. Not only that but have some sort of fake blood also put there to make it seem like she was a Virgin when she really never was
When shawty said "white women created feminism..." and bro asked "but who followed it?" and shawty jus acted like he aint say nothing....... That told the whole audience that she was gonna be intellectually dishonest for the whole conversation.
That shit really ain't true....just people in large metro areas, mainly coastal..have a warped idea of what the world really is. Yall been trained to "need" certain things and to be in certain places.
Heavy on the compassion black men and women need to have grace and compassion for each other. Check yourself individually to make sure you're healed and come together and build eachother up.
This trauma bs amongst the black community is getting old. I’m a black male attending medical school and I’m living a great life. I’m happy where I am currently. I worked hard. Trauma just seems like an excuse.
The counter argument for not successful yet vs not emotionally ready is that not being successful yet doesn’t mean you are bringing potential harm to the relationship. Not being emotionally ready can and will bring harm to the relationship.
@@coreythomas3633 Why do black men think being masculine is only have “BBC” ? I’ve never heard my brothers or cousins say that having money is not important for masculinity, this is why I stay away from this manosphere space , plus I have a wife so advice on how to pick up women is irrelevant
She is low-key in her feelings. Like how you going to come on somebody else's platform and tell them how they should be careful with their delivery I mean at the end of the day you can't care about people's feelings because it is what it is.
The differences between men and women in relationships are that women want choices to do what they want to be happy and men simply don’t have 1:18:49 choices they must provide , protect and help within the household every day regardless of his individual happiness. He is head of the household and must act accordingly to solve every problem within his family and come up with solutions to many problems for every member of his household. It’s never was a choice it’s his responsibility.
1:28:00 Spousal support ends when one partner dies, or receiving partner remarries. But also when receiving partner is cohabitating with a romantic partner , typically as man and wife. Laws differ per state. See an attorney to see what is defined as cohabitation (and length of tme) in your state. And if your case has merit. And for God's sake, don't let your ex know you are considering terminating spousal support! You are still on the hook for child support, unless they arent yours...if you have doubts, talk to your attorney about this too.
These women are so traumatized they complain for the finer things in life they get it, then sabotage their own relationships. They need to struggle in life or relationship
The reason female hate the what you bring to the table question is not just because they know they don't bring anything to the table, they don't want to say anything for you to then hold them accountable. Females are more social adept and deceptive. A man should not have to waste time and energy to find out what you are. You should know it, state it and demonstrate it from day 1. Why should he provide for her physically, emotionally, mentally,financially etc without knowing what she is?
12:34 i think i figured some ish out. Problem seems to be different expectations on these dates and relationships. First dates back in the day used to be where you first GET to know someone. You really got a sneak peak before that but you really get to know a bit of them on the first date on both ends. so it was a more nuanced way of saying "so what you bring to the table" for both parties. TODAY's first date some people are expecting to already know and like you well beyond what was expected in the prior generations and at that point its more do i like going out with you for dinner vs getting to know someone and some people are stuck living old fashion why others have pushed standards into hyper drive that others can't correlate with. 33:08 another problem right there is assuming the bigger the bag the more competent the man. she's equating money to compatability which is wrong. a dedicated school teacher can be just as dedicated without having millions of dollars (base salary). Money is the easy lazy way to *assume* a competent man and she is mentioning that as the ONLY criteria is why women like her make audacious assumptions.
I have YET to see a video where these women arent trying to justify, deflect, and shame their way out of accountability. its always "....yea, but" or my favorite - "....its not about....". And then you hear "why do black women have to struggle?" - NEWS FLASH, EVERYONE STRUGGLES. THIS IS LIFE. I find the entitlement, the lack of accountability, the deflection, the selfishness - all absolutely repugnant. Forget a relationship - would you even want a friend like that? How do people like this even have friends?
So black women are selfish for not wanting to accept bread crumbs from a man? And wanting the dude to be financially stable ? NOT RICH but financially stable…everybody does not struggle ..and what’s the point of getting a relationship/marriage to struggle ? Might as well struggle by yourself
@@Maiajlisaaa what exactly are "bread crumbs"? bc let some folks tell it, that means you cant eat out 5 nights a week, cant pay for the fake nails, hair, etc. non-american/non-western women submit and build families with men who wait outside home depot all day with no papers making pennies. why? bc its about their children and the family! not those fake ass nails, hair, weave, phony synthetic pretend costumes that coosts thousands to maintain all for some hollow ass ego and sense of self. money doesnt mean you dont struggle - just means your struggles are different. and frankly, if your man doesnt make enough, get a job and CONTRIBUTE. unless you think you're a 1% woman who doesnt need to and by definition, thats HIGHLY UNLIKELY. Reply
@@keno1766 when I mean accept bread crumbs I’m not saying we saying that because we want materialistic things… it’s nothing wrong with building with your man..but if a woman wants a gut to have his shit together what’s wrong with that? And when I mean “have your shit together “ I mean have a car , job, and are you financially responsible? We not teens anymore ..and building with men is risky because men use women alll the time..and I’m sure your not the men in the percentage that is a high earner😂😂😂
@@keno1766 and In my relationship I don’t mind. contributing .. I don’t think any woman should be sitting on her ass doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING UNLESS she’s pregnant and after she had the baby she stay Home for a while and rest and take care of the baby..but black deserve proper love not struggle love ..
"True, no discipline seems for the present to be joyous, but it is painful." That quote is from one of the most excellent teachers to ever live. People have gotten so soft that they can't stand the sting of truth. Sometimes what you want to hear isn't what you need to hear.
Wife duties, To be a good Wife and Mother you must listen and provide needs not wants. Non-negotiable: Respectful= prioritize him over everyone. treat him the way you would treat your grandparents. Cooperative=ask questions provide information Wife duty #1 Companion=Be a joy to spend time with
@@Maryland-Man-Son the way she was disagreeing to me wasn't a genuine "ok I see where your coming from" but more of a "passive aggressive" stand point. I don't have a problem with people disagreeing but the way she was doing it was moreso to gain control over what was said, how it should be said, and how she feels. Throughout the whole Convo she's (women with white T) is trying to make all these excuses for the women but yet it's a definitive thing with the Men. For instance the very beginning she was trying to control the flow of the Convo and dictate what feminine vs masculine was (which was flat out wrong) and then later on say "we explained what this particular thing is" when everyone as a collective didn't do that, she by herself did. Then multiple times when Eli explained something she would quickly try to rearrange what was being talked about. Even when she told Eli to his face "you need to be careful on what you say on your platform" at face value it may have looked sincere but it was very much so a hidden undertone of "stop talking about it like that and now specifically about Black Women". Through the whole thing it was clear to me she wasn't there for a genuine Convo but to catch Eli slipping so she can correct. It's the same thing that other women tried with Kevin Samuel's but tried to play sweet and koi
This debate is useless, the women in white was simply arguing; “BUT THE MEN ALSO”🥴 its like BW can’t be criticized unless BM are mentioned or criticized too. In her mind women are only gonna be submissive/feminine when men start becoming masculine, the men are saying we won’t date/marry you if you don’t start as a feminine/submissive woman. logically it has to start from the women, cus women are the gatekeepers of sex, since relationships start first with sex then commitment. She has to make the first sacrifice otherwise that VALUABLE man won’t date/marry her, then after she proves to him, he will prove to her why she should date him too, by courting her. After the relationship is solidified. She has to keep him, cus he can go find another one. Men’s standards aren’t as high as females, so he can replace you faster
45:00 House work involves more than cooking and cleaning. Men are always tricked into only talking about those 2 aspects which naturally fall under a queans duties. No 1 ever talks about maintenance in the house, lawn care, car maintenance for usually 2 vehicles, which naturally falls under a mans duties. The things men do are always overlooked and forgotten.
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What I'm bringing to the table is provision, stability, guidance, leadership, strength, support, discipline, and when I ask a woman what she brings I'm talking about peace, support my stress relief after dealing with the outside world trying to rip me to shreds on a daily basis. Is she the one that's going to say it's ok you got this or, am I going to come home to nothing to eat, and have my woman coming at me sideways as well?
“I want him to help me focus on myself”😂😂😂😂 if that’s not the most narcissistic thing I’ve heard all year I don’t know😮
This is exactly the reason not to get into a relationship lmaoo
Yeah that shit was wild
It shows the requirements women really be having for the men they date. Then pick the men who are out in the streets expecting them to actually be the ones to fulfill those requirements, and when they don't, the rest of us get the blame for it, lol.
@@BLee09lmaooo
we really gotta retire the word narcissistic. Especially when it's used wrong.
These chicks had more excuses than a pregnant 🤰🏽 nun. 🤦🏽♂️
They will be working until retirement with this mindset
😂😂😂
These females have more excuses than Bruce Jenner when he killed that white girl in a Mercedes with his Hummer.
😂
😆 😂😂
Black women will never run out of excuses.
For real, dam its annoying, you can't find common ground like that
N don't grow out of it
What’s amazing to me is when Blk women say Blk men don’t protect them. When they keep voicing and their actions keep saying they don’t want our protection.
Pawns of feminism aren't B1...
I never heard a woman say she doesn't want a man's protection
We do want to be protected 😢
@@R0yALtySI think his point is a lot you all act as though you don't need men. I even hear black women say it often. Not needing one leads one to think you don't need his protection.
She reaally justified leaving a good man ...delusion is incredible.
Had a driver, had all her bills paid, was able to save her money, never felt safer in her life and still left him and expects the same and better from the next man 😂 She hit the lottery and didn’t even realize it
@@malik5531 it's crazy
You can’t make this shit up
A good man in the middle east comes with controlling family members you don't have the same views as your good man. unless you're willing to be treated like crap by his family and her being a black woman she probably was going through it form his family, hence her missing home part..
She wanted power and she’s definitely not submissive she’s just fronting
It's all about what they want IN THE MOMENT. give them everything they ask for and they'll desire something else.
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So her calling him on his platform “this nigga” over and over is considered her being respectful but him calling women who sleep with men for money “prostitutes” is disrespectful? Make that make sense please.
Black people don’t care about the n word being used between other black ppl so stop it lol
One way aggression is acceptable
They gotta pin this comment
White top is the worst type of black woman
You can't. Clearly they want things to benefit them and be as harsh to men as possible.
This is why arguing with women is nonsense. They don't have the logic for it. Example: fight for the "right to make own money", begin dating a man who she THINKS she makes just as much money as, then leaves him when the feminine role and right to access masculine roles is too much but somehow doing it ALL on her own is easier than splitting the load with a decent man.
How does that make sense?
It doesn't... it's female nature...
It's greed/Hypergamy at it finest.
"I can't worry about people's feelings, especially when it comes to women because they are very emotional. I'm not the type to walk on eggshells just to protect your feelings " I felt that💯
Eli’s breakdown on the reasoning of “what you bring to the table?” deserves a gold plaque.
Only BM….smh
@@jmjenkins97 it’s not only black men. You clearly didn’t listen to what I’m referring to. Why would you disagree with it?
“I want him to pay for me to focus on myself” stay single
Lmaooo
That was fuckin wyld 😂
Man. Let them talk long enough and they’ll tell u everything u need to know!!
@@jhermaineharris2142it never fails.
So basically pay u to sit at home. This is wild. No way would I touch these selfish ass chicks
Some black women can't admit to just being a bad deal in relationships that they claim had to leave to work on themselves ⚠️
Agreed
Shout out to Eli and the gang not letting these women tone police them to death on their own podcast, because they don't like the blunt observations and conclusions men have come to due to a lot of women's behavior.
This nigga feminine bro stop it he lame just like ya.
Spot on 💯
@@rodm49 he soft and feminine ya INCELS are mad because these women dont respect ya. AND THEY SHOULDN'T SUBMIT TO YA.
Eli be projecting mad heavy in these podcasts
@@morganyu812no he doesn't
One of the very few groups that actually make sense when they talk. Keep up the work
I need y’all to start checking these women, femininity is non negotiable
Exactly I’m so sick of them taking about their feminity has to be brought out of them by the right man makes no sense. Women I the past generations would get offended by just saying to a girl that they weren’t feminine it was an insult to them and they would go off on you
They do 😂. Some of these women just excel at verbal gymnastics and dodging the topics by subverting the conversation.
White shirt is a feminist, middle woman said 8 words, light skin woman likes to hear her own voice cuz none of her thoughts were coherent. I'm glad they weren't ratchet bc it proves that delusion, confusion, & bitterness aren't class based. Gentleman choose carefully & wisely...SMH
What does checking look like to you?
@@butterflymage5623slowing down the conversation and making a concise point. This never happens here, women make asinine claims and it’s usually overlooked or breezed passed!!!
Yep these shows help me to rethink about relationships period it's gonna be a lot of call girls in the future
The prostitution Convo was funny. How this woman going to say what those women were “ trying to say”. 😂😂😂 they said what they wanted to say. Women swear they are the most educated but can’t articulate themselves well? 😂😂😂😂 Crazy. Thank yall for standing strong and not conforming because their feelings are hurt.
I was thinking the same lmao I was like so now college educated women can’t articulate their points? Give me your whole degree ma’am 🤣
Some of the dumbest things I heard women say. In addition to having ALL TYPES of excuses for those women lined up and ready. She didn't go up there in good faith to have a wholesome Convo with an exchange of opinions...she came on there to catch them slipping. You saw she had her Handy Dandy Notebook 📓 at the ready.
@@malik5531 😂😂😂. Yeah we gonna need that back. That education didnt earn you the degree for real 😂😂
@@kaimobley5324 at the ready 😂😂😂
This is why they got rid of “affirmative action” … the education ain’t translating to intelligence lol
I’m so tired of women saying “Real Man” or “Real Woman”. I have yet to see AI out in the real world dating.
These ladies didn't acknowledge any statements made by other women. It was always “that's other women not us.”
They literally was trying to change the words of what other women say. "Oh she didn't mean to say it that way" huh? So when she say "F love I'm looking for a bag" she meant she's looking for a masculine leader that treats her right.. these women are wild and avoid accountability.
Women generalize men in situations but when it's something bad on women they single themselves out
i always say , pay attention to those women who say “ i can’t speak for all women “.
“That’s other men, not me”
“Not all men are the same”
“You should’ve chose better”
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They’re unaccountable worldly children who have no relationship with the most high. They worship the things of this world and themselves. They will not be seeing the kingdom of god the way they’re going. These fools chose 5 million dollars over being in the presence of the most high. All Jezebels.
😂😂 she said she wants him to pay and work to take care of the house so she can focus on her business and grow her business 😂😂 these women are WILD
Behind WILD family 😂
So we cant call prostitute actions...prostitute? That's like saying we can't call a dude wit no place to stay homeless..critical thinking is lost amongst women in my culture and its scary. Not even thru wit the episode but i had to point this out
The fact that she started off telling people how to perceive her was ironically masculine as hell😂😂
White shirt is a feminist. She will challenge your authority every step of the way. The narcissist manipulation would never stop. Not until the relationship breaks up
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Yup she's a chameleon. She tries to talk soft to make herself seem feminine, but she masculine b/c she "thinks" she's smarter than most men. Therefore she's going to disrespect every men she comes across unless, he's a top tier guy with a PHD or making a lot of money.
Don't take the woman who come on this show serious they are modern
@@truebengalsfan We as a people better take every one serious. They have children or will have children & they WILL put poison N theirs heads waaaay before the world gets a hold of them. They they will use the exact same language, "My DAD wasn't N my life"
A man that expect a woman to go 50/50 is a feminist smh
The *ENTIRE BLACK COMMUNITY* has been hurt and is traumatized. We can no longer use our history as a shield against the recognition of our bad actions. Also, people are able to be better because of their trauma, not only worse. You can take that pain and use it to empower yourself.
Some black people want to be a forever victim
Bro that whole part was pissing me off I'm tired of hearing but " black women are soo hurt " so Is black men stop using that damn excuse
@@thefirstprime0124 I haven't watched the vid yet but FACTS! Especially, the non-toxic black men we BEEN hurting since the 70s! It's slim pickings outchea. Peace to you fam!
@kwaku9953 you feel me bro like wtf, like I get it that's we gotta heal together or on journey try to heal stop feeling sorry for ya damn self
@@truebengalsfanfacts
Hearing the biracial girl speak solidify that women do not know what they want had a good man it seems like she wanted some toxicity in her life and that’s why she left smh
We need to stop trying to negotiate with modern women.
Exactly. Satan has them wrapped around his finger. These Jezebels are not worth the time & energy.
Exactly! Don't go back and forth with women. Either they're on your program or tell them to kick rocks.
Yeah like why do that?
Big boy facts I'm getting straight to the point every trip .
The more you listen to these podcast. I see why men don't want to be in relationship anymore. It's better to just buy the cheeks and keep it moving.
I've been tuned into this podcast for a few months now and this is the first time I'm commenting. This was def one of y'all better episodes. Keep grinding
I feel like this is probably the worst. These women are very uneducated and didn’t pull off a good conversation to meet in the middle. Too much emotion. But these guys did stand on their toes to keep them in check
59:59 he paid all the bills, gave her the option to work and it still wasnt enuff, the women are far beyond repair
It is always odd to me that during the dating phase men are to watch and observe while also footing the bill
Stay woke lol
BM…we know you don’t understand ALOT of things about how REAL men seeking POWER move in the world. I’m sure this comment will go over your head but that only explains why black men in the diaspora has allowed their own race to be where it has been for centuries
@@TheBlackGeoI thought you can tell by the energy of a woman if she's feminine. So shouldn't that be enough for you to know if she's wife material? IJS🤷♀️
It's unfortunate during this dating Era that men and women don't date exclusively for a purpose other than speed dating because if it was like the past...well, yes, men should foot the bill, but it gets really expensive if your dating 2 -3 times per day on a daily basis. Back in the day, you'd date 3 women and settle with one....in that case footing the bill ain't an issue, which it shouldn't be.
@@DailyRapUpCrewWhat is it a man needs to “stay woke” about? If as a man you are choosing a woman based upon the standards you have set for the type of partner you desire, why stay to the point that you over invest.
I met 1 high value man in my life.He loved me and treated me really good.I was from the hood and he still wanted me 😢 he did work alot but made time for me.He lifted me up and taught me all the good things i know today.Hes proud of me ,he watched me grow.I thank him still today for showing what a man is 😢 i messed it up i can admit it. Ladies, they are out here, and he hated that i wore weave and nails ( its what i done for work a stylist" 😢 i feel bad for this generation 😢we all need healing men and women ❤
This is a lose lose situation. There's not enough time on earth to fight up stream just to find happiness with modern black women. They want everything but want to give nothing. It's not worth it. Go abroad. This is too insane
This is American western culture. BW are just upfront with the feminist idealogy
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Go Africa ! Game changer
Any logical man can see they're a absolute waste of time, money, mental, and physical energy.
Conversations like this is why I feel zero guilt when I pump in dump these women.
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These women are demonstrating the exact problem with the current state of dating discourses now. The absence of shame and lack of accountability, the two girls on the ends not liking the terminology should hold they fellow girls accountable and they wouldn't seem like black women being "labeled as sex workers." She defend characters she don't even know, talk about delusional fr 😂 cuz how she know all them past women wasn't this (hypergamous) or that (bein masculine) they must be psychics too
These hoes are lost.
These women have no relationship experience..pooky and ray ray types mindset they will pick.😅😅😅
I believe this is a generation thing rather than a race thing. Sooo many people of our generation no matter race are going through the same relationship issues.
Say that one more time to the black men in the front...not sure why they think relationship issues are mainly black women when we live I'm this modern world. Sometimes these black dudes sound prejudiced against their own kind
I hate the whole race thing, they really act like black folks are the only ones who have dating troubles nowadays
True. Yt women are the most dangerous
Good point 🍁
Say whatever you want Eli. Don't be afraid to hurt feelings. Kevin Samuels didn't care and you shouldn't either. Feeling sometimes need to be hurt.............AND feelings can lie to you...... so F their feelings........ Facts over feelings everyday all day.....
Facts I need someone to summon godfather energy
It’s truth in this message
Right like Antwoine Daniels be saying I don’t give a damn about your feelings the facts speaks for itself. Don’t hold back on em cuz women don’t like the truth only the lies
These chicks were in their feelings playing mental gymnastics contradicting everything they said. SMH ridiculous 🤦🏽♂️
Well keep that same energy with ALL modern women, not just black women...you men sound prejudiced against your own kind!
This was a good podcast. Ms. Brownstone, you did your thing once again. Shoutout the everyone on this podcast as well , it was a good conversation.
Only Black History ignored by Blacks...
THE NEGR0 PROJECT:
*38% of Black pregnancies are aborted, over 50% in NYC. BW are by far most overweight, least married, most in debt, and 78% of their children have no Dad by DESIGN.
THE NEGR0 PROJECT is now called Planned Parenthood💥 The Welfare Act finished the job of destroying the Black Family.
1854 founded to STOP SLAVERY...
Republican Party
1860 founded to KEEP SLAVERY...
Democrat Party
Republicans literally beat the Democrats in the Civil War in 1865.
"we want to exterminate the Negro population.”
-Margaret Sanger, founder of THE NEGR0 PROJECT/Planned Parenthood & a Democrat.
See the Democrat's plan yet?
Here's an example of a Woman's Hypergamous nature. She's dating 2 guys, one makes 60K a year and the other makes 120K per year! She chooses, the guy that has more security than the other guy. She still exhibits single behavior, posting sexy pics on IG for attention, displays herself as single when she's alone or out with friends. She's not married yet so in her mind she's still single. Although this woman has started dating this one man exclusively, she turns down other men that doesn't exhibit the level of security her man has, until the more handsome, more wealthy, athlete pulls up in an Aston Martin and tries to get her number, and then she caves and gives him the number. She sees a guy that has far more security than her man and she doesn't turn him down.
It doesn't have to be an athlete, it's just that the mext man is on a leveluch higher than the giy she's with and she continues the cycle until she reaches a level that she's comfortable with. Alot of women feels as though Men should know, expect, and be okay with this..... But don't let a man operate on his nature to want to sleep with more than one woman while dating 😂
I'll never forget I curved an athlete for my boyfriend who ended up cheating on me. Don't ever go against your nature. Level up.
The problem with these types of conversations is that the idea of relationship is discussed from a transactional perspective and not from a doing life together with a partner. They are two very distinctive perspectives.
Why is she trying to tell Eli what the saying? How to say it? This is ridiculous. This man can say what he want to say. He's a grown man. See I'm tired of women doing this foolishness. When is this going to stop?
Hyena mindset isn't about being a helpmeet...it's nit going to stop in a enabling environment
The root of the problem is both men and women don't want to put more then 50% and are ready to call it quits , because to much emotions not enough commitment.
This be my problem with most women 1:04:15 the light skin woman just said most men don't provide or give that security for a woman to feel like she can just be a housewife and how other races got that then in the same breath say she had a good man that did everthing but she didn't want to be a housewife because she wanted more freedom and didn't want no kids or stay home lol
I say this all the time most women are just looking for a good time not a long term relationship the age gap play apart but that's why it's funny when girls get mad at men dating younger women but it's cool for younger women to pursue older man for their resources lol 😂 the way some think is so backwards
Nothing she said was contradictory. Even though sure may not aspire to stay at home, most black men can't provide that type of lifestyle anyway
MOST BLACK MEN say out of their oen mouths that they dont want to get married. Alot of women say out of their own mouths that men are telling them they arent looking for relationships. Its men who dont want to commit. If you think women dont want to commit, it must be because you dont have any options.
@@soundsaboutright--- everything she said was contradictory, she wants the freedom to do what she wants to do at the same time want a man to play his part and not hold her to her part, sounds like a contradiction to me and that most women nowadays. It annoying that our roles as man is i have to provide and protect but at the same i should allow my women to be free to do what she wants and i shouldnt make adhere to her role as women and also be ok with her leaving me coz she doesn't want to feel tied down, yeah i think us men need to change our roles since it become negotiable
@@cett4scorpio973 most men not being able to afford a housewife is separate of her personal desire to be a housewife
@stacih1025 and most women aint wife able enough to be provided for. We can do this all day but what i said stands " one rule for you but not for me" that how most women move nowadays and to say otherwise is just being disingenuous
These conversations are not going anywhere. Either they are pure comedy or frustration to the fullest. 😂😂😂
exactly waits of time just take it as entertainment at this point bro
I only tune I when I need a good laugh, or to refuel my cynic gague.. these type of videos nd convos are actaully sad
The fact these women didn't have enough sense to realize that just bcus you're spending 5 minutes with Jesus doesn't mean you're out right dead in addition to the fact they care more about money than their immortal soul is crazy
Exactly... I choose Jesus
Super crazy😂
Thank you. It can't b just me
But they can take the 5mill and talk to Jesus on their own. Regardless, I'll take the 5mill any day of the week.
@@Gnosis639 That's not what was presented. It was either take the 5 mill and not spend time with Jesus or spend time with Jesus but not take the 5 mill.
There was no option of take the money then after that talk to GOD or talk to GOD first then take the money after
I've watched about 3 of your show's i like it alot. Just because we in the comments give our opinion don't mean we didn't enjoy what your talking about, we do ❤❤❤ and ill always hit like ,these are important conversations very needed.
Thanks for your support and kind words! I'm glad you're enjoying the content.
Men can make 30k a year and go overseas and date a super model
Super models ? Just bc they look better than the women yall are able to pull in a first world country , doesnt make them super models. And yall say women are delusional 😂
We still having these conversations
33:40 HYPERGAMY- the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background... LADIES WE CAN UNDERSTAND WHY WOMEN WANT A SUCCESSFUL MAN, HOWEVER MOST WOMEN DONT QUALIFY THE HIGH VALUE MEN YALL SEEK.
Exactly
They dont even want successful men. They want HYPER successful men. If she making 40k and i make 80k, im more successful than her yet im broke to alot of women
The reality is most bw aren't actually practicing hypergamy. They never really have. If they didn't most bm would never even get a date.
Thats valid. Just like BW wouldn't stand a chance if BM werent willing to be 'stepdads'
@stacih1025 in reality most BW do Pratice hypergamy. That's the reason is so many bby mommas. We prioritize only finances and status vs character and morals. If BW PRIORITIZE TANGIBLE THINGS THEY WOULD HAVE BETTER AND LONGER LASTING RELATIONSHIPS.
How can it be 50/50 if the man pays the mortgage (the biggest bill) and the women pays the smaller bills? 😂😂
good point
I guess she was saying like contributing financially period …not EXACTLY 50/50 ..and theirs nothin wrong with that .. especially if it’s a chance the man probably would most likely make more than her anyway
That where relationships go wrong. It’s never 50/50. It’s either 100/100 or nothing at all. Both parties should be giving their all, period. 🤷🏽♂️
That's cuz some women don't think bruh. A lot of women will carry this notion that women aren't supposed to work or contribute as much but all of human history will prove opposite. There is no 50/50, you contribute as much as the house and family needs.
@@radiantgoldensun6438please explain 100/100 when the man and the woman are not making the same salary? This make no sense. Your ancestors did not think like you.
"So you saying being feminine should be natural".....aaaaaa duhhhhhh!
This is probably one of the most productive discussions I have seen on this channel
That mean you ain’t watching enough episodes lol nah appreciate you tuning in
The lady in the black was treated like a queen in she still found an excuse to leave 😂😂
Duty and sacrifice vs it's about feelings
And she acts like she knows everything when her mouth opens you see she knows nothing
Very good episode per usual. Keep these topics going. I love the delivery.
More to come!
These kinds of woman need a convo with the last people that were interviewd. The married couples. Wanna see how that goes.
Didn’t understand what Kevin Samuels mean when he said modern women are lazy…. And now I do…. Plus delusional with expectations
Awesome! Finally, women that can articulate their thoughts.
And she as absolutely correct about being socially responsible when it comes to the women of your race. You are setting a trend like rappers have, then you dislike the affects of your words. You say that you are leaders, but a woman has to tell you how to lead...
She played that nigga lmfao all you gotta do is listen fellas these women be lying with a straight face. Talking about they want a provider 😂 😂
Ms.Brownstone is the voice I’ve been wanting to hear to represent women in these settings. Def subscribed and followed after this
All I'm hearing is well not all women or everyone is different and it's not about this and that, smh.
Thank you !!!!!
PIVOTING AND DEFLECTING AS USUAL
1:04:43 freedom comes with consequence too
This was a great conversation! I really enjoyed this episode.
Appreciate that what feedback do you have for us?
@DailyRapUpCrew I got some feed back for jeuu I noticed that you had some pushback about men wanting women to cook /clean and not helping. I watch adult of these podcast I can confirm allot of men put out the message and say adamantly even if she work a 9-5 she should be responsible for cooking and cleaning. They never say that should be a shared role. In fact this channel is the only channel that has said that especially you as a married man has always said that I salute that.
Good conversation fellas keep representing the bros well
Imagine if women had to show proof of virginity in order to qualify to date a man making over $100k.
They do that in other countries. Only thing is there is such a procedure that women can go under to have their hymen reconstructed. Not only that but have some sort of fake blood also put there to make it seem like she was a Virgin when she really never was
This should be a mandate
Those men would die a virgin 😂
I always look forward to liking certain videos like this so young men can acquire the wisdom they need to succeed and not be hoodwinked.
200K! Congratulations brothers!
aayy appreciate that!
When shawty said "white women created feminism..." and bro asked "but who followed it?" and shawty jus acted like he aint say nothing.......
That told the whole audience that she was gonna be intellectually dishonest for the whole conversation.
Bro In the time we are living One Income is not enough anymore u need to have two incomes
That shit really ain't true....just people in large metro areas, mainly coastal..have a warped idea of what the world really is. Yall been trained to "need" certain things and to be in certain places.
Heavy on the compassion black men and women need to have grace and compassion for each other. Check yourself individually to make sure you're healed and come together and build eachother up.
The woman in the blue shirt will make a man stay in his car a extra hour in the driveway smh
lmao
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This trauma bs amongst the black community is getting old. I’m a black male attending medical school and I’m living a great life. I’m happy where I am currently. I worked hard. Trauma just seems like an excuse.
Interesting, are u in therapy or counseling ??
Shorty’s example of feminine energy was wild.
It was nonsense
Men always have to be masculine all the time that's why we out here building roads, buildings, society for everyone
These women will literally find any excuse to blame men for anything instead of sticking to the topic and being held accountable which is sad.
The counter argument for not successful yet vs not emotionally ready is that not being successful yet doesn’t mean you are bringing potential harm to the relationship. Not being emotionally ready can and will bring harm to the relationship.
1:17:09 they're really trying to equate NATURAL femininity to making an extraordinary amount of money as a black man in America. 😂
Black men arè feminine they no that that why they dont respect ya.
Yeah Bc masculinity is being a provider
@@really8704 EXACTLY THEY DON'T GET IT.
Making a lot of money is equivalent to being a natural leader and ambitious, natural qualities of a good man 🤷🏽♂️
@@coreythomas3633 Why do black men think being masculine is only have “BBC” ? I’ve never heard my brothers or cousins say that having money is not important for masculinity, this is why I stay away from this manosphere space , plus I have a wife so advice on how to pick up women is irrelevant
16:24 if that's the case, then I don't need a women to cook for me. I'll just go to Popeyes 😂
She is low-key in her feelings. Like how you going to come on somebody else's platform and tell them how they should be careful with their delivery I mean at the end of the day you can't care about people's feelings because it is what it is.
The differences between men and women in relationships are that women want choices to do what they want to be happy and men simply don’t have 1:18:49 choices they must provide , protect and help within the household every day regardless of his individual happiness. He is head of the household and must act accordingly to solve every problem within his family and come up with solutions to many problems for every member of his household. It’s never was a choice it’s his responsibility.
Yo that light skin chick is a smart ass 😂
I thought it was just me. She sounds smart but ain’t really sayin shit
Bi racial are problematic
1:28:00 Spousal support ends when one partner dies, or receiving partner remarries.
But also when receiving partner is cohabitating with a romantic partner , typically as man and wife.
Laws differ per state.
See an attorney to see what is defined as cohabitation (and length of tme) in your state. And if your case has merit.
And for God's sake, don't let your ex know you are considering terminating spousal support!
You are still on the hook for child support, unless they arent yours...if you have doubts, talk to your attorney about this too.
Basically They Want A Man To Come In and get on Their Program and Sponsor Them
Yep you got it lol
Not one time have I heard these women talk about what they would do for a man.
These women need to marry each other, maybe then they can see how ridiculous they sound…….
I LOVE when yall guys stand your ground.
These women are so traumatized they complain for the finer things in life they get it, then sabotage their own relationships. They need to struggle in life or relationship
The reason female hate the what you bring to the table question is not just because they know they don't bring anything to the table, they don't want to say anything for you to then hold them accountable. Females are more social adept and deceptive.
A man should not have to waste time and energy to find out what you are. You should know it, state it and demonstrate it from day 1. Why should he provide for her physically, emotionally, mentally,financially etc without knowing what she is?
12:34 i think i figured some ish out. Problem seems to be different expectations on these dates and relationships. First dates back in the day used to be where you first GET to know someone. You really got a sneak peak before that but you really get to know a bit of them on the first date on both ends. so it was a more nuanced way of saying "so what you bring to the table" for both parties. TODAY's first date some people are expecting to already know and like you well beyond what was expected in the prior generations and at that point its more do i like going out with you for dinner vs getting to know someone and some people are stuck living old fashion why others have pushed standards into hyper drive that others can't correlate with.
33:08 another problem right there is assuming the bigger the bag the more competent the man. she's equating money to compatability which is wrong. a dedicated school teacher can be just as dedicated without having millions of dollars (base salary). Money is the easy lazy way to *assume* a competent man and she is mentioning that as the ONLY criteria is why women like her make audacious assumptions.
These women are using outliers as regular talking points.
All women do that.
I don’t even look at conventionally attractive women the same way I did the more they reveal themselves
I have YET to see a video where these women arent trying to justify, deflect, and shame their way out of accountability. its always "....yea, but" or my favorite - "....its not about....".
And then you hear "why do black women have to struggle?" - NEWS FLASH, EVERYONE STRUGGLES. THIS IS LIFE. I find the entitlement, the lack of accountability, the deflection, the selfishness - all absolutely repugnant. Forget a relationship - would you even want a friend like that? How do people like this even have friends?
Facts
So black women are selfish for not wanting to accept bread crumbs from a man? And wanting the dude to be financially stable ? NOT RICH but financially stable…everybody does not struggle ..and what’s the point of getting a relationship/marriage to struggle ? Might as well struggle by yourself
@@Maiajlisaaa what exactly are "bread crumbs"? bc let some folks tell it, that means you cant eat out 5 nights a week, cant pay for the fake nails, hair, etc. non-american/non-western women submit and build families with men who wait outside home depot all day with no papers making pennies. why? bc its about their children and the family! not those fake ass nails, hair, weave, phony synthetic pretend costumes that coosts thousands to maintain all for some hollow ass ego and sense of self. money doesnt mean you dont struggle - just means your struggles are different. and frankly, if your man doesnt make enough, get a job and CONTRIBUTE. unless you think you're a 1% woman who doesnt need to and by definition, thats HIGHLY UNLIKELY.
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@@keno1766 when I mean accept bread crumbs I’m not saying we saying that because we want materialistic things… it’s nothing wrong with building with your man..but if a woman wants a gut to have his shit together what’s wrong with that? And when I mean “have your shit together “ I mean have a car , job, and are you financially responsible? We not teens anymore ..and building with men is risky because men use women alll the time..and I’m sure your not the men in the percentage that is a high earner😂😂😂
@@keno1766 and In my relationship I don’t mind. contributing .. I don’t think any woman should be sitting on her ass doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING UNLESS she’s pregnant and after she had the baby she stay
Home for a while and rest and take care of the baby..but black deserve proper love not struggle love ..
"True, no discipline seems for the present to be joyous, but it is painful." That quote is from one of the most excellent teachers to ever live. People have gotten so soft that they can't stand the sting of truth. Sometimes what you want to hear isn't what you need to hear.
Wife duties, To be a good Wife and Mother you must listen and provide needs not wants.
Non-negotiable:
Respectful= prioritize him over everyone. treat him the way you would treat your grandparents.
Cooperative=ask questions provide information
Wife duty #1
Companion=Be a joy to spend time with
1:02:07 he was a provider and you was his priority and you was respected and you still left I’m so confused
I love the way she disagrees. Her tone is not aggressive or combative
which woman are you referring to?
@DailyRapUpCrew the one on the left.
@@Maryland-Man-SonThis is sarcasm right?
@@kaimobley5324 Explain friend...what's on your mind
@@Maryland-Man-Son the way she was disagreeing to me wasn't a genuine "ok I see where your coming from" but more of a "passive aggressive" stand point. I don't have a problem with people disagreeing but the way she was doing it was moreso to gain control over what was said, how it should be said, and how she feels.
Throughout the whole Convo she's (women with white T) is trying to make all these excuses for the women but yet it's a definitive thing with the Men. For instance the very beginning she was trying to control the flow of the Convo and dictate what feminine vs masculine was (which was flat out wrong) and then later on say "we explained what this particular thing is" when everyone as a collective didn't do that, she by herself did. Then multiple times when Eli explained something she would quickly try to rearrange what was being talked about. Even when she told Eli to his face "you need to be careful on what you say on your platform" at face value it may have looked sincere but it was very much so a hidden undertone of "stop talking about it like that and now specifically about Black Women".
Through the whole thing it was clear to me she wasn't there for a genuine Convo but to catch Eli slipping so she can correct. It's the same thing that other women tried with Kevin Samuel's but tried to play sweet and koi
Wuts ol gurl in the white podcast name, curious
This debate is useless, the women in white was simply arguing; “BUT THE MEN ALSO”🥴 its like BW can’t be criticized unless BM are mentioned or criticized too. In her mind women are only gonna be submissive/feminine when men start becoming masculine, the men are saying we won’t date/marry you if you don’t start as a feminine/submissive woman. logically it has to start from the women, cus women are the gatekeepers of sex, since relationships start first with sex then commitment. She has to make the first sacrifice otherwise that VALUABLE man won’t date/marry her, then after she proves to him, he will prove to her why she should date him too, by courting her. After the relationship is solidified. She has to keep him, cus he can go find another one. Men’s standards aren’t as high as females, so he can replace you faster
Environment in the mainstream doesn't critique women.....that breeds entitlement and a beyond reproach mindset
45:00 House work involves more than cooking and cleaning. Men are always tricked into only talking about those 2 aspects which naturally fall under a queans duties. No 1 ever talks about maintenance in the house, lawn care, car maintenance for usually 2 vehicles, which naturally falls under a mans duties. The things men do are always overlooked and forgotten.
Shout out to the ladies for not being ratchet
Truth 🔥
Ikr but what does that say about how low the bar is when we have to give props to women for not conducting themselves as ratchets.
@@jasonwolfe3252 the bar is low. Okay now let’s move forward
It was getting there 😅
@@themajorminoritieslol the bar is on the ground
Great show