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I had this coworker who couldn't commit to her boyfriend because he wasn't a good kisser but named 9 other things he was great at. To this day I call her 9 out of 10. 😂😂
My wife dont have social media. We been strong for 15 this year .... she my rida fasho. She waste zero time on that ish. We gets it done! Love you babe!!!
When they talk about mothers kicking daughters out and not sons. Don’t forget some of these moms have son husbands which is disgusting. It’s crazy how single parent homes with mothers kick out daughters and family push out sons.
Bruh, not having social media, or at least IG, Twitter, FB, Snapchat, is so liberating. All I have is UA-cam and Linkedin, and outside of not smoking and drinking, its the best decision Ive made for the mental.
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I would like to add in for social media men doesn't need validation from others in terms of looks or how i felt at the moment hence why we dont use it for personal use vs only using social media for business
41:00 The reason she said cheating was all of a sudden a deal breaker when it wasnt before, was becaise the "perfect" guy she had before, she was going to the club when he told her not to, and she was getting PIPED by dudes at the club.
Yes, this is what NYC looks like. Good thing about this show is they have the girls with their friends, so they’re more comfortable and are more of themselves.
@@regalsylvester this is what men in NYC have to choose from for wives? No regular black women in the city? I feel sorry for these guys fr trash every episode 💯
First, all of them look good. Looks is almost never the issue, but I’m glad I didn’t end up with their “type”. Back in the day I felt insecure around them, but looking back it would never work. Sad thing is, they have everything else. All they gotta do is self reflect with an ounce of accountability/empathy.
KING OF COOKING FOR WOMEN ON THE FIRST DATE!!! LOL My go to meal. Crab cakes/Cod/Mushroom Green Beans or Brussels/Garlic Potatoes/Cheddar Bay Biscuits. White Wine and fresh lemon aid. Chocolate Lava cake wit mint ice cream and fresh whipped cream!!! THEN?!?!?! turn off the lights. light a candle!!!! 😂😂😂
Its easier to avoid a devil than it is to resist it Also i see no wrong in men hopping on a game to enjoy the comradery, or even gym hangouts. Issue with the gym then look for an all male gym(rare now). As long as its healthy i think there isnt anything wrong.
I never understood the you dont want someone that nobody else think is attractive...Why does that matter? As long as you want that individual who cares what someone else thinks.
I don't get it either. Women seem to say this alot more than men. I think it's self-centered. They want the man that other women want but they want him to choose not to cheat. They want the validation that there's something special about them specifically.
@@Truth_Tella True!....I never hear any push back when someone makes that statement. The only validation a women or any one for that matter should want is the person who actually chose them. Like why would anyone care if a out side person wouldn't date the person their talking too? Our society as much as they claim they don't care what other people think, actually cares too much.
@@jas1565 It's just so crazy too me....A person can check ✔️ all their boxes, but they will stop talking to the individual because of what other people are saying smh...Thats why I laugh when people say they don't care what other people say...Its all a lie they do
Never tell a person your love language unless you’re in a LTR with them. Plus the Love Language book is for married couples, not single people. Single people who actually want to be a partner must cultivate love, discernment and humility. That’s the only way to attract the right person and polarize the wrong person. I think people focus too much on sounding right that being right. I think you should be able to share if you want to on SM but just know ppl lack love in general so they will naturally envy it. I think that people think because they’re ‘attractive’ that they can be a jerk or rude and tactless. A rude person will never get genuine love.
I think one of the first conversations when getting serious should be love language…Both partners should know what makes both sides happy. Both have the responsibility of asking what’s the love language & many other things. Everyone is different when it comes to reciprocating love & receiving it.
1:01:50 She exposed the problem with black men not commiting- black women don’t want to settle down young in their prime, they want to settle down when older- which is when she’s less physically attractive, had more sexual partners and often already have kids. 😂
She exposed the problem with black men not commiting- black women don’t want to settle down young in their prime, they want to settle down when older- which is when she’s less physically attractive, had more sexual partners and often already have kids. 😂
Basically women only settle down when all the attention and validation drys up but men typically wants women to give that up in their younger years because it shows the man that she is actually worth more than her looks. When the woman refuses to give up attention and validation from others, for a man. The man will refuse to play his roll because his roll is already taken by everyone else.
Putting relationship status on social media is so overrated... I can be private and still post on social media... Some people have some deep rooted issues starting with that woman in the middle...
I’ve recently been binge watching your episodes and I must say this is a great one. But before we can make eachother happy in a relationship we gotta figure out as black people how to make ourselves happy first.. that’s definitely one of our issues we both give to much and don’t give enough to ourselves before the relationship
Do most BW figure out what makes them happy? I think that’s part of the problem. Assuming BM should be inside your head and know without asking. A lot will parrot what they’ve heard but I’m questioning how many genuinely take the time to consider for themselves before placing expectations on a Man to do so.
@@seensay2132 BW really don’t know how to make themselves happy until they’re tired of being hurt , or being in unsuccessful relationships.. but rarely some woman just know how to enjoy themselves…and just do their own self work just to be better in general. I think that’s hard to find . BM don’t need to be our heads …I think both parties should learn how effective communication works in a relationship before getting into one.I think most woman are not emotionally mature or just have trauma that isn’t talked about..and that’s not the burden for the BM to carry .
@@seensay2132 BUT BM & BW should understand that we both come from trauma in different ways ..so instead of placing blame we should at least try to work on having healthy relationships and fixing our issues together instead of putting all of the burden on one person .. that’s to much of a load to carry for anyone in any race ,
Authenticity is the key. You are who you are and the real you always comes out. You can’t turn something on and off…. Respectfully, the women on the panel are “average at best.” They should be going to over the top to cooperate with a man who’s willing and put up (and frankly settle) with them.
She said “we’re ovulating, look at the calendar, make sure you’re doing it when you’re supposed to”. Ovulation kits are $20-$30, and can be bought at Target or Amazon. It’s usually 5 sticks in a box that women can pee on, and get results within 5 mins on whether they’re ovulating or not at that moment. And it fits perfectly in a purse. The fact women have access to this, yet decide not to utilize it as a benefit, or an opportunity to notify the man that you’re currently ovulating before being intimate with him, doesn’t get discussed enough. It’s another layer of consent for men that men don’t get an option to enact on.
As far as social media goes, I don't understand why some women feel the need to be flaunted in front of others. What are they seeking? Validation from others? Why isn't the love and commitment from their man enough?
The lady in the middle … I’m going to be that parent … I’m going to be there in any n every stage of adult hood for my boys .. I kno there going to be men but listening to a lot of young blk men …they need support regardless of age mama gone have your bk 😊
Don’t ask questions if you not gonna bring your man’s on to give the other side of the argument/conversation otherwise we don’t know what the real issue is
Quean said they got babies. Every man I know is or has raised a kid that was not theirs. I know a few men who have put kids through college that was not theirs
😢😢😢Men and women just are not being groomed to be wives and husbands by their parents at a young age. At 30+ years old, some of these issues being discussed shouldn't even be issues in relationships. A lot of these arguments are built on people's own insecurities. Also... how can ole girl openly say she has a bad attitude, yet expect a man to behavior like a gentleman??? This is why the relationship/marriage world is falling apart. To say i have a bad attitude, but im a good person is an oxymoron.
I agree but what we have to remember, a lot of the young people were just born and not nurtured. Their parents were probably teenagers when they were born and you can only teach and nurture at your maturity level unless you have elders around you.
@@sonjadf47 I agree, which is why these discussion should mainly stay focused on people having kids out of wedlock, or at a young age and the affect it has in our community. Most men and women just aren't prepared to be husbands and wives... too much pride, ego and selfishness in them.
Me personally, I don’t abide by social standards. The only social that I even have is UA-cam. But I’m big on privacy so no don’t flaunt. It just creates more opportunities for people to insert negativity into your relationship. You never know what bad a person is wishing on you. Everybody knows “Real Gs move in silence like lasagna ~Lil Wayne.” lol.
I truly disagree just because we are in a relationship doesn’t mean I have to flaunt you on my page and prove to others that I am in love with you or you mean this or that much to me there’s other ways to go about showing my love.
I think it's a generational thing. I've never been a social media, picture taking, sharing my life type of person. Buttttt I'm 40+ soooo it just isn't my thing. I technically still don't/never did Facebook page. I feel like if your still seeking attention and validation from outsiders...u shouldn't be in a relationship.
It’s crazy for me to see if a man ask you to cook or get a plate it’s crazy , it’s weird but it’s not crazy to have me take you to the steak restaurant or to a high in restaurant on the first few dates? Make it make sense
Not jealousy, just controlling behavior. Thats actually narcissistic behavior because he wants to be her everything, and he feels as if he can't. His fault.
Not controlling behavior, nor jealousy. Its called being adult, and having the character enough to tell your parents "Noooo I'm str8". Has nothing to do with you not asking as a child, or patent offering, at some point just say no. Not saying no (even when it's ur parents) just goes to show the lack of maturity, and independence so many of this generation seems to pride themselves on.
@@gregb1374Exactly, we know she’s not telling the entire story. She is intentionally leaving out 75% to make him seem jealous and her appear innocent. I hate when we let this slide however I understand that without him it is almost impossible to get the truth. More than likely she goes behind his back to get money and at the very least gives the impression to her parents that he can’t provide. He should just leave as this is disrespectful behavior. Shortly after my wife and I married I became an officer in the Navy and retired. Now I’ve owned my real estate firm going in 17 years and my wife’s father who owned his own mechanic shop never offered her a penny. In fact she’s given to them even though she never worked. This woman’s father’s actions are solely based on the daughter allowing them to believe he can’t provide.
Im sorry, i cant get with the whole “if it’s meant to be then it will be” mentality. If you agree with that then you also believe that the women and men who *missed out* and regret it, were meant to miss out.! And that could very well be you, mind you. Also meaning that those who know that they married the wrong person were meant to do that too. I dont agree. We have free-will and with it comes choices. But with choices comes consequences that we then have to live (or die) with.
Bring me on the show. I have a unique point of view. I know y'all would love me. Low key want to be a guest appearance on multiple shows. Get to know me and you will see all the avenues I have experienced. added bonus: I have lived in almost every state and experience things people can't comprehend
This is crazy .. that social media talk is so dumb and shows where we are . Social media somehow proves something ... this is the conversation u should have . How do you feel when both are posting on social media and still cheat . Then what is the point lol what is it that about it that makes you feel somehow
I don't think men are jealous of women support, I think they are annoyed to see them still complain about not having support while getting support, in one way or another.
Women made “ social media “ apart of ya relationship smh lol now if I don’t post you I don’t love you ? Lol I’m done with relationships I rather be alone I’m good this episode showed me why I’m going to stay single
How do you know nobody wants? How do you know that everybody wants. Unless you live in a small town, travel in a small circle, who would want somebody that everybody wants?
Not a single second during this podcast where these women did a bit of reflecting. The answers as to why they see men wanting to settle are all in this episode. Coming from themselves LMAOOO I've never seen anything like this
Bruh!!!! Lil mama that’s the Scorpio is telling the whole truth! Ain’t nothing like a Scorpio woman. You will have your hands full… When they on you they on you!! That attitude is in her DNA, the attitude will never change. If you get one just know it will be an adventure, you gotta be ready!!! But like I said when they on you they on you!! Scorpio woman are all that for me! Only Scorpio men understand and can handle the challenge😂😂 Real talk!
@@christophersterling6788 you misunderstood me. I was merely finishing the quote. “If Jesus can’t save these hos, then why are you trying to? What makes you think you’re greater than Jesus nigga?” - Minister Jap
@@christophersterling6788 and you still choose to misunderstand when im simply adding to a quote inspired by another person. Good day. I don’t argue with stupid people.
32:59 bro it was because he was cheating. she was effected by that despite what she says. SHe wanted a good man that didn't cheat even if she believes otherwise of men. that's what it was, she just too entrenched her own belief system to admit otherwise.
You can’t get STK on the 1st date or Sushi. You gotta earn STK and Sushi. The 1st date is a meet up for coffee for that’s it. The least expensive date should be the 1st date or 1st few dates should be free. Then as y’all establish liking each other then you should start spending money on each other with the STK and Sushi dates. Get into a relationship 1st before you gout for STK and Sushi. And no Sea or Spice Thia restaurants either unless y’all establish a relationship.
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When are y'all going to go live again.
I had this coworker who couldn't commit to her boyfriend because he wasn't a good kisser but named 9 other things he was great at. To this day I call her 9 out of 10. 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
That’s funny
Damn….lol
She sounds like a lifetime loner. 😅
My wife dont have social media. We been strong for 15 this year .... she my rida fasho. She waste zero time on that ish. We gets it done! Love you babe!!!
🔥
Thank you for sharing your perspective
This channel has improved so much. Even the quality of women they're bringing on has improved tremendously. Much love and respect to these brothas!
Appreciate that means a lot thank you
Eli low key funny a little bit. He said " because he got his fit it on" 😂😂 I was dead
When they talk about mothers kicking daughters out and not sons. Don’t forget some of these moms have son husbands which is disgusting. It’s crazy how single parent homes with mothers kick out daughters and family push out sons.
Black men are in no position TOO HOLD ANY ACCOUNTABLE with all the shit ya do.
Bruh, not having social media, or at least IG, Twitter, FB, Snapchat, is so liberating. All I have is UA-cam and Linkedin, and outside of not smoking and drinking, its the best decision Ive made for the mental.
Facts. I mainly use UA-cam now and occasionally check Twitter. You're right the mental clarity is way better without the extra junk scrolling
Listen! Its Finesse Culture today.... Dates in the beginning will be the gym, coffee diner, ice cream, tropical smoothie, or we meet at the park an i bring something to sip.... Pricey dates earned earned! Its levels to this 5hit.
i can never get pass 10 minutes of watching these kinds of videos with these kind of women
I'm curious... do you think you could watch for longer if they looked more appealing to you? If they were prettier?
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The quality is getting crazy y'all fr, much better guests and good conversation. 💯
Glad you're noticing the improvement!
I agree social media influencing your relationship is for the emotionally immature.
I would like to add in for social media men doesn't need validation from others in terms of looks or how i felt at the moment hence why we dont use it for personal use vs only using social media for business
Fellas, if these are the types of females we have to choose from 😅 WE ARE DOOMED
Im so happy i have never ever ran into females like this I genuinely feel that way
I'm really glad to hear you enjoyed the video! Thanks for your support!
I love it when a woman does not need to swear with every other word. Makes me mind manners and treat her like a gentleman🎉
Absolutely, manners matter!
You guys are chill as hell ,nice podcast
Thanks
Notice how no woman admitted to fumbling. Which means no man is good enough in their eyes. The guys aren't good enough.
41:00 The reason she said cheating was all of a sudden a deal breaker when it wasnt before, was becaise the "perfect" guy she had before, she was going to the club when he told her not to, and she was getting PIPED by dudes at the club.
Exactly. It’s not a deal breaker because she’s doing it. 😅
Clubbing past 27 is overrated. If the club is entertainment and social media is a hobby to a woman, I won't deal with it.
To Eli: I've deleted all my Social Media except Instagram (and that's getting deactivated on Friday). You're not missing anything.
1:02:36 most women don’t do enough on the front end that shows the wifely qualities but the man is expected to show the husbandly duties from day one
I aint never seen a good women on this show yet. Is this what NYC is looking like 😂😂😂
I beg to differ … but if you know perfect women send them to the show
@kevikev214
Agreed.
I wouldn't say they are not good ... they don't keep it a hundo ...
Yes, this is what NYC looks like. Good thing about this show is they have the girls with their friends, so they’re more comfortable and are more of themselves.
@@regalsylvester this is what men in NYC have to choose from for wives? No regular black women in the city? I feel sorry for these guys fr trash every episode 💯
To hear many women say 'it just wasn't meant to be ' is the BIGGEST Capp ever. Stop!!
It was juu lazily saying " don't do that " x2 😂😂😂
I don't even say whether I am single or not.
Im only 28 and im starting to think that people just gotta let the wild ones be.
First, all of them look good. Looks is almost never the issue, but I’m glad I didn’t end up with their “type”. Back in the day I felt insecure around them, but looking back it would never work. Sad thing is, they have everything else. All they gotta do is self reflect with an ounce of accountability/empathy.
Yall show is dope!!❤❤ yall be talking about some good stuff! Lol
Fire episode fellas!keep doing your thing!
Big thanks, buddy! 🔥 Stay tuned for more awesome episodes!
Yo finally caught yall live...shawty was crazy honest there's no way yall Happy being alone
Social media got these women in a choke hold.
Social media has men in a choke hold. All dudes do is listen to bs relationship podcasts and not get pussi.
Thank you for sharing your perspective
KING OF COOKING FOR WOMEN ON THE FIRST DATE!!! LOL My go to meal. Crab cakes/Cod/Mushroom Green Beans or Brussels/Garlic Potatoes/Cheddar Bay Biscuits. White Wine and fresh lemon aid. Chocolate Lava cake wit mint ice cream and fresh whipped cream!!! THEN?!?!?! turn off the lights. light a candle!!!! 😂😂😂
The perfect date!
recently yall been comin at each other more. Yall better stay tight n just b jokin y'all got this locked! keep goin
Nah the brotherhood is tigjt we locked in
Going to the club is acting single
Its easier to avoid a devil than it is to resist it
Also i see no wrong in men hopping on a game to enjoy the comradery, or even gym hangouts. Issue with the gym then look for an all male gym(rare now). As long as its healthy i think there isnt anything wrong.
I never understood the you dont want someone that nobody else think is attractive...Why does that matter? As long as you want that individual who cares what someone else thinks.
I don't get it either. Women seem to say this alot more than men. I think it's self-centered. They want the man that other women want but they want him to choose not to cheat. They want the validation that there's something special about them specifically.
@@Truth_Tella True!....I never hear any push back when someone makes that statement. The only validation a women or any one for that matter should want is the person who actually chose them. Like why would anyone care if a out side person wouldn't date the person their talking too? Our society as much as they claim they don't care what other people think, actually cares too much.
Right. At least it’s less likely for them to step out in that aspect. Nobody wants someone that knows everybody and is too friendly.
Both men and women do this. I think it stems from wanting approval or acceptance from other people. Some people care too much about what others think.
@@jas1565 It's just so crazy too me....A person can check ✔️ all their boxes, but they will stop talking to the individual because of what other people are saying smh...Thats why I laugh when people say they don't care what other people say...Its all a lie they do
Man i respect yall🎉content keep it fellas 💯💪🏾🥇 always great content👑👑👑
Never tell a person your love language unless you’re in a LTR with them. Plus the Love Language book is for married couples, not single people. Single people who actually want to be a partner must cultivate love, discernment and humility. That’s the only way to attract the right person and polarize the wrong person. I think people focus too much on sounding right that being right. I think you should be able to share if you want to on SM but just know ppl lack love in general so they will naturally envy it. I think that people think because they’re ‘attractive’ that they can be a jerk or rude and tactless. A rude person will never get genuine love.
Appreciate your perspective!
I think one of the first conversations when getting serious should be love language…Both partners should know what makes both sides happy. Both have the responsibility of asking what’s the love language & many other things. Everyone is different when it comes to reciprocating love & receiving it.
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
1:01:50 She exposed the problem with black men not commiting- black women don’t want to settle down young in their prime, they want to settle down when older- which is when she’s less physically attractive, had more sexual partners and often already have kids. 😂
She exposed the problem with black men not commiting- black women don’t want to settle down young in their prime, they want to settle down when older- which is when she’s less physically attractive, had more sexual partners and often already have kids. 😂
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
Basically women only settle down when all the attention and validation drys up but men typically wants women to give that up in their younger years because it shows the man that she is actually worth more than her looks.
When the woman refuses to give up attention and validation from others, for a man. The man will refuse to play his roll because his roll is already taken by everyone else.
Women be always capping
We giving yall wat yall Really want
No black women are giving ya what ya want. That why ya complaining
Integrity, character and financially stable.
Thank you for sharing your perspective
Great episode 🔥🔥
thankyou
Putting relationship status on social media is so overrated... I can be private and still post on social media... Some people have some deep rooted issues starting with that woman in the middle...
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
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Thanks for another great episode
Appreciate you for tuning in with us
I’ve recently been binge watching your episodes and I must say this is a great one. But before we can make eachother happy in a relationship we gotta figure out as black people how to make ourselves happy first.. that’s definitely one of our issues we both give to much and don’t give enough to ourselves before the relationship
Do most BW figure out what makes them happy? I think that’s part of the problem. Assuming BM should be inside your head and know without asking. A lot will parrot what they’ve heard but I’m questioning how many genuinely take the time to consider for themselves before placing expectations on a Man to do so.
I agree and in that process expect our partners to make us happy not knowing what makes us happy at times loo
true !
@@seensay2132 BW really don’t know how to make themselves happy until they’re tired of being hurt , or being in unsuccessful relationships.. but rarely some woman just know how to enjoy themselves…and just do their own self work just to be better in general. I think that’s hard to find . BM don’t need to be our heads …I think both parties should learn how effective communication works in a relationship before getting into one.I think most woman are not emotionally mature or just have trauma that isn’t talked about..and that’s not the burden for the BM to carry .
@@seensay2132 BUT BM & BW should understand that we both come from trauma in different ways ..so instead of placing blame we should at least try to work on having healthy relationships and fixing our issues together instead of putting all of the burden on one person .. that’s to much of a load to carry for anyone in any race ,
Love Language....Lord, they should have never made that shit up!
Ong they run with it EVERY TIME
love language is a pseudo science that was proposed by a man. just so you know.
Great show y'all. SALUTE! 🙌🙌
Authenticity is the key. You are who you are and the real you always comes out.
You can’t turn something on and off….
Respectfully, the women on the panel are “average at best.” They should be going to over the top to cooperate with a man who’s willing and put up (and frankly settle) with them.
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
If i wanted to go out every weekend so what? I promise u these women nowadays arent worth it.
Thank you for sharing your perspective
Women that love and have respect for there man wouldn't even think about going to a club let alone question it.
You truly get it
She said “we’re ovulating, look at the calendar, make sure you’re doing it when you’re supposed to”. Ovulation kits are $20-$30, and can be bought at Target or Amazon. It’s usually 5 sticks in a box that women can pee on, and get results within 5 mins on whether they’re ovulating or not at that moment. And it fits perfectly in a purse. The fact women have access to this, yet decide not to utilize it as a benefit, or an opportunity to notify the man that you’re currently ovulating before being intimate with him, doesn’t get discussed enough. It’s another layer of consent for men that men don’t get an option to enact on.
Thank you for sharing your perspective
As far as social media goes, I don't understand why some women feel the need to be flaunted in front of others. What are they seeking? Validation from others? Why isn't the love and commitment from their man enough?
Keep your private life private. If you post your private in public, don't get mad when everybody has opinion
The lady in the middle … I’m going to be that parent … I’m going to be there in any n every stage of adult hood for my boys .. I kno there going to be men but listening to a lot of young blk men …they need support regardless of age mama gone have your bk 😊
Thank you for sharing your perspective
Don’t ask questions if you not gonna bring your man’s on to give the other side of the argument/conversation otherwise we don’t know what the real issue is
Thanks for the feedback! Having different viewpoints can lead to a more informative conversation.
Quean said they got babies. Every man I know is or has raised a kid that was not theirs. I know a few men who have put kids through college that was not theirs
😢😢😢Men and women just are not being groomed to be wives and husbands by their parents at a young age. At 30+ years old, some of these issues being discussed shouldn't even be issues in relationships. A lot of these arguments are built on people's own insecurities. Also... how can ole girl openly say she has a bad attitude, yet expect a man to behavior like a gentleman??? This is why the relationship/marriage world is falling apart. To say i have a bad attitude, but im a good person is an oxymoron.
I agree but what we have to remember, a lot of the young people were just born and not nurtured. Their parents were probably teenagers when they were born and you can only teach and nurture at your maturity level unless you have elders around you.
These women live on IG fam. They could never ever have a healthy relationship
@@sonjadf47 I agree, which is why these discussion should mainly stay focused on people having kids out of wedlock, or at a young age and the affect it has in our community. Most men and women just aren't prepared to be husbands and wives... too much pride, ego and selfishness in them.
@@hardart- I agree 100%
Thank you for sharing your perspective
Nah this was a great episode 😂😂😂
That's crazy that some feel like that if you happy you have to post it. Nall not for me
I ask if you can cook for me. But I'm a chef. It's more about if you are willing to do so.
Would you post your bank account if you got money🤔 ? People be seeking validation from others instead of each other!
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
Learned the women that “don’t know” really don’t they to indecisive around superficial things so they “don’t know”
Me personally, I don’t abide by social standards. The only social that I even have is UA-cam. But I’m big on privacy so no don’t flaunt. It just creates more opportunities for people to insert negativity into your relationship. You never know what bad a person is wishing on you. Everybody knows “Real Gs move in silence like lasagna ~Lil Wayne.” lol.
she said " he didnt have nothing for me to latch onto
Ace is Sassy! He be faking Nutz!😂😂😂
I truly disagree just because we are in a relationship doesn’t mean I have to flaunt you on my page and prove to others that I am in love with you or you mean this or that much to me there’s other ways to go about showing my love.
💯! Why should you care? Keep your private life, private!
I think it's a generational thing. I've never been a social media, picture taking, sharing my life type of person. Buttttt I'm 40+ soooo it just isn't my thing. I technically still don't/never did Facebook page. I feel like if your still seeking attention and validation from outsiders...u shouldn't be in a relationship.
Thank you for sharing your perspective
Women: I believe women want to settle down more
Women a couple of minutes ago: he checked every box but 2 🤦🏿♂️
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48:27 oh nah u never wanna hear the “u laughing??”
It’s crazy for me to see if a man ask you to cook or get a plate it’s crazy , it’s weird but it’s not crazy to have me take you to the steak restaurant or to a high in restaurant on the first few dates? Make it make sense
Not jealousy, just controlling behavior. Thats actually narcissistic behavior because he wants to be her everything, and he feels as if he can't. His fault.
Not controlling behavior, nor jealousy. Its called being adult, and having the character enough to tell your parents "Noooo I'm str8". Has nothing to do with you not asking as a child, or patent offering, at some point just say no. Not saying no (even when it's ur parents) just goes to show the lack of maturity, and independence so many of this generation seems to pride themselves on.
@@gregb1374Exactly, we know she’s not telling the entire story. She is intentionally leaving out 75% to make him seem jealous and her appear innocent. I hate when we let this slide however I understand that without him it is almost impossible to get the truth. More than likely she goes behind his back to get money and at the very least gives the impression to her parents that he can’t provide. He should just leave as this is disrespectful behavior.
Shortly after my wife and I married I became an officer in the Navy and retired. Now I’ve owned my real estate firm going in 17 years and my wife’s father who owned his own mechanic shop never offered her a penny. In fact she’s given to them even though she never worked. This woman’s father’s actions are solely based on the daughter allowing them to believe he can’t provide.
@A-Thomas Yes I totally agree!
Lots of things are wrong with me . But I acknowledge it and used it to my benefit. What sign am I?
Im sorry, i cant get with the whole “if it’s meant to be then it will be” mentality. If you agree with that then you also believe that the women and men who *missed out* and regret it, were meant to miss out.! And that could very well be you, mind you. Also meaning that those who know that they married the wrong person were meant to do that too. I dont agree. We have free-will and with it comes choices. But with choices comes consequences that we then have to live (or die) with.
Absolutely true
They said Sexyy Red was dry in her corn movie! She too young to be dry like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She wasn't turned on if she was dry.
Only Child!!!! RED FLAG!!! Don't Do fellas!!! Hard to deal with!
No grown adult should be taking money from their parents... that is weird... whether you need it or not. Be an grown adult.
"Wrote that in the car and thought it was a bar" 😂😂😂
Asking a man what makes him happy is not a question u ask, be a good woman and observe and just do the little things.
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
No I post some pictures. But not personal photos or pics. Or some comments.
Bring me on the show. I have a unique point of view. I know y'all would love me. Low key want to be a guest appearance on multiple shows. Get to know me and you will see all the avenues I have experienced. added bonus: I have lived in almost every state and experience things people can't comprehend
This is crazy .. that social media talk is so dumb and shows where we are . Social media somehow proves something ... this is the conversation u should have . How do you feel when both are posting on social media and still cheat . Then what is the point lol what is it that about it that makes you feel somehow
I totally get what you mean! Social media can be a wild place. It's amazing how it reflects our lives and relationships.
17:38 The intro not matching this question 😂🤣😂got me confused
I don't think men are jealous of women support, I think they are annoyed to see them still complain about not having support while getting support, in one way or another.
Women made “ social media “ apart of ya relationship smh lol now if I don’t post you I don’t love you ? Lol I’m done with relationships I rather be alone I’m good this episode showed me why I’m going to stay single
How do you know nobody wants? How do you know that everybody wants. Unless you live in a small town, travel in a small circle, who would want somebody that everybody wants?
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Anybody that went out and got 3+ pics and videos they really werent having fun!!!!
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Not a single second during this podcast where these women did a bit of reflecting. The answers as to why they see men wanting to settle are all in this episode. Coming from themselves LMAOOO I've never seen anything like this
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I hate when women say "I will be married "...Men decide whether ur 💍 worthy or not.
Roast beef poon comes from mad pipe and babies.
The parachute poon lol
Bruh!!!! Lil mama that’s the Scorpio is telling the whole truth! Ain’t nothing like a Scorpio woman. You will have your hands full… When they on you they on you!! That attitude is in her DNA, the attitude will never change. If you get one just know it will be an adventure, you gotta be ready!!! But like I said when they on you they on you!! Scorpio woman are all that for me! Only Scorpio men understand and can handle the challenge😂😂 Real talk!
A lot of women just dont know what they want
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If Jesus cannot save these 304s what makes you think you can 🤔🤔
“You think you better than Jesus!?”
@@Bornagainvillain learn to comprehend… look at the statement again and see the message
@@christophersterling6788 you misunderstood me. I was merely finishing the quote.
“If Jesus can’t save these hos, then why are you trying to? What makes you think you’re greater than Jesus nigga?”
- Minister Jap
@@Bornagainvillain I'm not greater than Adoni... Plus I am not one of your degenerative brothers…
@@christophersterling6788 and you still choose to misunderstand when im simply adding to a quote inspired by another person.
Good day. I don’t argue with stupid people.
28:54 There you go Ace!
32:59 bro it was because he was cheating. she was effected by that despite what she says. SHe wanted a good man that didn't cheat even if she believes otherwise of men. that's what it was, she just too entrenched her own belief system to admit otherwise.
You can’t get STK on the 1st date or Sushi. You gotta earn STK and Sushi. The 1st date is a meet up for coffee for that’s it. The least expensive date should be the 1st date or 1st few dates should be free. Then as y’all establish liking each other then you should start spending money on each other with the STK and Sushi dates. Get into a relationship 1st before you gout for STK and Sushi. And no Sea or Spice Thia restaurants either unless y’all establish a relationship.
Lmao
🤦🏾♂️ i ain't even get a whole 5 minutes into the video. Folks still don't know what love languages are smh
Some wear a bad attitude as a badge of honor LowKey
STK for a first date is wild and the food there is mid
29:03 Yes sir Eli!
That is correct!
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