Stop worrying about being the Alpha, Beta, or whatever the fuck. If you go along with this mentality you'll constantly be judging yourself against labels and the expectations they carry. They exist - sure - but fuck the labels. Focus on developing yourself, _for_ yourself, and the rest comes naturally. If you want confidence, work for it; *INVEST in yourself.* That's all there is to it. The more you push your own limits and discipline yourself (Exercise, read philosophy, Journal...), the more self-trust you develop in your own abilities, which equates to confidence. Exercise, meditation, and cold showers are the best for strengthening your self-discipline. Fuck cold showers - but that's the point; victory over yourself is power. After three years of having cold showers I still don't look forward to them, or working-out, but the command I have over myself seeps into all other areas of my life; my body language, communication, decision-making, and so on. Grab a pen and write; really consider your goals and make a plan. All that matters is your ability to lead yourself, which is only harnessed through self-reflection (which is why I recommend philosophy) and owning the discipline and self-control to follow your own plan. Every personal achievement will make you stronger and more confident in yourself. Men need purpose, which we primarily get from building things. Make it your purpose to build your own kingdom, every day, *for yourself.* The rest will follow in time. - If your focus is girls, change that focus. Women want a man who owns himself. This is what worked for me. Good vid nonetheless.
It is kinda like a psyop to make males thick as shit...all loud mouthed, unthinking, zombies that want to constantly prove themselves. I don't give a fuck about how I seem to dumbasses and nobody else should either.
Absolutely on point. The irony of all of the "alpha" advice is that even seeking those guidelines is weak. Just be the best version of yourself and try to be better than yesterday/last week.
I watched this, expecting it to be bullcrap. But it turned out decent. Just too much emphasis on not being nice. Aggressiveness will get you shut down faster than niceness. Assertiveness is the balance.
What's even worse are the girls who are full of shit and videos such as these seem to suggest it is always the man's responsibility. I agree with self-improvement but I think the notion of accountability in this context ought to be reassessed in some respects.
Then you are a beta. There is no omega or anything (an omega basically is a beta who cannot accept his position as a beta but who can't confront alphas either thus avoids getting tangled with them). There is only alpha and beta, it is just that the alpha-to-beta is a continuum and is defined by social relations. I.e. if you put a 100 typical betas on an island, these will re-order and 10-15 of them will stand out as alphas. If you put a 100 top-alpha-dogs on an island the bottom 80 of them will start showing typical beta behaviour (... and those who refuse, will die fast and painfully, LOL!).
True. Usually i am really confident (it's true, not just something i am saying) but idk why but for some reason in larger social gatherings i always without realising i start to self doubt myself. I guess it's pretty normal but im glad im now picking up on it and can hopefully change.
You see, since alpha males are primates and beta males are fish, it's reasonable to say the supposedly gamma "males" are germs, which are asexual. So, no need to go down the road, man. No need.
Sometimes, when I pay attention to my own behavior I seem to lose all spontaneity, I create a feedback loop in my mind that makes me appear weak and doubtful to others. Other times, though, I am totally alive and awake, and my behavior is natural and powerful. Trusting and accepting oneself is so important...
Iggy Wake I have the same thing sort of. I think I'm actually very alpha, but I just don't present myself as one, partly because of the ongoing pondering my mind is occupied with. (I found out alcohol helps with that, but if you're underage, I didn't tell you that)
newtguy *I would've...not would of. They sound the same but what you are actually hearing is would've, a contraction of would have. Don't shoot, just trying to spread some knowledge. Cheers.
its not being nice, its not being ambitious. "too nice" guys roll over in confrontations and just generally give up easily. Has nothing to do with bad boy - good boy.
Hi, it is I, a girl who has no idea why she watches these videos. IF YOU ARE A BETA MALE THIS IS PROBABLY WORTH READING TO THE END. AH FUCK IT. IT IS PROBABLY WORTH READING NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE. The Alpha male is a natural born person, as is the Beta. If you want to try to become a different person, that's your choice, and I understand the feeling. Maybe this is not the case with most girls, but I have a knack for very deeply understanding and relating to almost everyone. I am not sure what it is about me that makes people trust me so easily, but a girl who literally one person in school had a conversation that lasted longer than 10 seconds with just poured all of her unsaid thoughts on me, and now I am actually her only friend. What I am getting at is you don't need to change. (ACTUALY ADVICE AND MY POINT STARTS HERE): Let's call every person a kingdom. The buildings are all the nuanced things about someone's personality. The animals and people in the kingdom are the thoughts that pop up. Maybe it is not a big kingdom, but is still one. If nobody loves you now, somebody will someday. While, yes, putting a wall up in front of any side of your kingdom causes other kingdoms to try to connect their kingdom to yours through other sides, seeing in you what you want them to see, walls can also keep other kingdoms out. Maybe you don't know that another kingdom wants to join forces because you have built a wall too big on the part of your kingdom that they want you to show. If you build a big enough wall, no matter how many kingdoms are standing on the other side other side of that wall, wanting desperately to build a road in and form a deep alliance, you'd never notice. If I am the only kingdom trying to get in, then person's kingdom's walls come down almost immediately, but if there are kingdoms trying to enter from other directions, I am suddenly facing a wall that I cannot pass. Even if I like other aspects of someone's personality, I often enter their heart through parts of their personality that the person themself doesn't like, because when I think I like someone, I need to know a lot of things about them(but of course I don't ask people to spill all their secrets and emotions, just their personality). Too often, I find myself screaming and pounding on that wall for while, before just staying there, doing nothing. The person on the outside of that wall almost always ends up heartbroken, and you never know how many people's affection you are blind to. I wouldn't purposely ignore aspects of myself to get people to like me, if they don't like me and I like than, then hey don't like me. Even if it makes me cry, it's okay. I find that the warmest people will enter your heart through part of your personality you don't like. I get get people to let me into their hearts, and I let them in mine. Then as time moves on, some people start trying to attract more people, and they put up a wall, or they completely destroy or ignore he part of their personality I entered from. That causes us to loose our connection, as it is with most people who get a wall put uo in front of them. The people you leave outside the wall ends up heartbroken. So, please, if you ever choose to block offpart of your heart or personality, make sure you check on it every once in a while. Even if you have a mentality that letting people into your kingdom can lead to attacks from the inside, so you don't want to let people in, you are not wrong. But isn't love and trust going both ways when both kingdoms open their gates, giving each other the ability to comepletely wreck them and trusting them not to? The best thing about your kingdom is that it is yours. The people who are in your kingdom(remember, those are thoughts and feelings), are part of you. While you can choose whether or not the people in your kingdom decide to reproduce(this metaphor/simile is getting a little weird), but you don't have to let those thought-people become dictators. You should acknowledge and accept them, but a truly unified kingdom, in the end, functions better than a kingdom ruled in fear, hate, or sadness. This is my opinion, so you don't have to agree, but thanks for reading it. If you read this entire thing I am sending you a virtual hug. **hugs everyone who reads this entire thing**
Random Weirdness I'd agree with your thoughts. However, I do agree with some things in this video as well. If you take chances and try to go beyond your limit, people will notice you. You need to start living your life the way you want to do it, but don't change who you are in the process. It never works out in the end if you change who you are.
Random Weirdness I do appreciate both the words of advice and the hug, however I do have a few points I'd like to make See you are mixxing up changing and evolving, to stick with your kingdom metaphor (or I'll just use a castle to make it easier) You assume that video's like these ask one to demolish bits of the kingdom whereas in reality they are telling you to add furnishings, add insolation, fly your banner and add a flag blowing in the wind above. To give an example of myself, I am a writer and an artist at heart, I tell stories and I make people think and feel, my carreer path (my main one) is a web designer with novel writing and game design as somthing of a hobby that might turn into more in the future who knows. Regardless I know why I do these things, but I can improve upon my craft by learning the balance between knowing when my vision is more important, have confidence in my own skills to not be torn down by the slighest hint of negative critisiscm, to have the confidence to go out and go talk to the publishers etc etc. To improve is not to change, your castle should be as pristine as possible, it can still be yours but it has to be the best you've got
The importance of self reflection, discipline, and self improvement can never be overstated. Never be happy with who you are. Be happy with who you are becoming.
@Ewan Jones Shit dad? Some dads just prefer their sons to grow up as respectful young men, who don't have the idea that either gender is superior to the other. They don't want their children to believe in that "aLpHa" shit. My dad taught me that there are no alphas in life, and even if there was, you didn't have to have certain traits to be considered an alpha, you find it in yourself to be an alpha. You don't lead anyone because everyone else leads their own lives.
I always thought being reserved about your talents and passions made you seem a bit more mysterious and interesting. I don't mean not telling people what u do, but such as having one major passion that most know about (for example tennis) but when people get to know u it comes as a shock that u also have other interest (guitar or social games of volleyball)
Throw the popcorn away, demand a refund, and decisively leave and go to another theater and or do whatever he feels, he doesn't need to ask what to do next because he can decide on a reasonable thing to do.
Vlog It Up only a dumbass ape...err... "alpha male" LOL would leave a theater cuz his popcorn wasnt prefect. These stupid videos teach men to be dumb jackasses, not real men.
Fallen Hero Direction. Outweigh the pros and cons of confrontation and if there are less pros than cons, take the stale popcorn and eat it. The thing with being a true alpha male (likeable, fun guy everyone wants to impress) is that they don't care that their popcorn is stale in the first place.
Skimtar funny how u boys love to make up your own ideas of what am alpha male is lol, just so u feel like you're one ;) Do what you want, there is no "alpha male" in humans, everyone makes their own damn choices.
Don't even have to make a big scene, you just ask with a stern but calm voice "get your manager" if the person refuses.. no major scene that bodes ill on you but the guy who threw you the stale popcorn (also depends on how stale we're talking, if we're talking, the crap is at least a couple hours unheated then by goodness that is not flying)
That doesn't mean you are a beta male. Beta males don't exist. Males with different brains exist, you can't divide men in strict categories. Fear of judgement is okay, don't worry.
+C- Yes, I'll double up on safety equipment. I've done tons of complex repairs and never got a scratch. Problem is it takes me much longer. But I end up overanalayzing things to the extreme, always second guessing my decisions. I think my case was having a very weak, non-aggressive father and being raised mostly by overprotective, paranoid women. My father taught me things like never ask for a raise, just be thankful you have a job. Never quit a job under any circumstance. The advice women gave me about dating was useless (maybe 50 years ago it would work). I was brainwashed that if a woman has sex before marriage she is a worthless whore. Telling a woman you want to wait today is like telling ebay you will pay when your package comes. I also have fear of diseases. You are right about the inertia thing, I'm not going to starve but I'm far from rich. I live very frugally and become comfortable with being alone. Marriage is a pretty big risk, especially in 2017.
The one thing I would say about this that is most important is knowing what you want in a relationship. I personally am a Christian and I know what I would be seeking in a relationship. If you are looking to "build" something and it is not established on a foundation of honesty, then it is doomed for failure. We as people (not trying to judge) should try to develop the habits of resisting the temptation of compromise in the beginning for the desired outcome. It is easier to take a blow in the beginning, than in the end....divorce, damaged childhoods, depression..etc. These only add to the problems that we as human beings have in life. I say, just be who you are and love yourself (In the context of what is healthy) If you are seeking to build a "real relationship" there are plenty of people in the world and if you try hard enough, you will achieve your goal and meet your ideal person---there are just too many people in the world for there to not be someone compatible with a specific person. Don't worry about what others think. If you are not being who you truly are (again, in the manner of being healthy) then how will you be happy. We are human beings with choice of will as opposed to strictly acting on instinct. Alpha and Beta in the context of human will does not necessarily have to have significance. It takes variety of character and personality to maximize our accomplishments as human beings. If everyone was the same, we wouldn't have much ingenuity in our life. So basically, guys (and women) just be yourself and love yourself. You will accomplish a lot more out of life and be happier this way. "If there is a will, there is a way". There is too much bullying in the world and imagery of what a "person" should be. Don't succumb to anyone's pressure of trying to change the person you are....again, just love yourself :-)Sometimes these things can cause depression and other unhealthy experiences but there IS help out there...and everyone can get better. Don't ever give up. Be who you are and for the bullying out there, these people act the way they do due to a weakness within themselves that they need help with...remember, if you stay true to who you are, you are the stronger person...again, not trying to judge and fight hate with hate but keep that in your mind.Unfortunately there is too much suicide and oppression and unhealthy means others resort to when they don't feel connected...but I promise you there are other people in the world just like you that will love you and except you for who you are....so value yourself. If you truly want to meet someone, again, there are Plenty of people in the world that will have similar characteristics and values as yourself. (Remember to have discernment and try not to be too naïve yet too narrow as well---sometimes it's hit and miss with these things but with practice you will learn them)God Bless all the men and women and children reading this....If you are not religious, (which can be understandable --- not everyone has had the same life and walked in the same shoes as everyone) these values still within themselves lose no meaning to the truth behind them....we are all worthy of love and respectBe true to who you are and I wish the best for EVERYONE to have a happy life....find a healthy passion and purse it...Peace and Love everyone...take careAgain, best wishes people...remember this message :-) ....never give up
MrBsaudios you have to start somewhere bud no one watching these videos will magically become an alpha male tomorrow it's a gradual process respect the process trust the process
According to science, beta male is actually the second in the hierarchy of the group, ranked higher than all the others except the alpha. Males in a chimpanzee group are divided in high, middle and low ranking. It's like in human society, but our status can increase or decrease depending on the inviroment. Trust me. I've read a lot of academic works about this. I'm not american, so in case of some grammar misteaks just let it go
Confidence in women is very important too. If she isn't confident, how can she possibly hold a good job and support you? I had a woman flirt with me one time in a laundromat. Red Flags went up instantly. How could a woman who could not afford a washer and dryer possibly support me? I got out of there quick. If a woman wants to get laid, she's going to have to have earning power.
This is only the case if you expect the women to support you. In most cases, the man supports the woman. I hope you were being sarcastic with the rest of your comment. Your comment is hilarious
What town was that in? I knew a girl who hated bars and was screamin' rich who would sometimes take a load of clothes to a laundromat just to meet guys.
This is exactly what I struggle with. It’s like I have an alpha and a beta fighting inside of me all the time. Love the video. Gonna study it not for just getting women... but for self improvement.
As a woman, if any guy ever let the word “alpha male” leave his mouth I’d run. Alpha males are the most cocky misogynistic guys ever. Please just be yourself, women make fun of guys like this. I came to this channel for a good laugh and I’ve gotten it.
I was what you call a beta male for so long, but since i began working out in the gym and started to see myself getting bigger, my confidence became sky high. Since then i wear what i want and say whats on my mind, because im confident doing so and if you are you should never be embarassed. Now i get so much attention from girls that its annoying. So basicly if you are like i was, you just have to start working out
I hope guys looking for more confidence don't take this too seriously.. Pretty vague instructions on how to be fairly specific kind of dude. Human breeding doesn't really work quite like wolves and apes... there are more than two kinds of personality... Etc etc
Sadly I have exhibited all the beta male traits, & also been an aggressive beta at times. I think the reason is basically my past history (especially being gay). But recently I decided to change, & am working on that. This video has given me much to think about. Thanks.
I started my own business, because I had too many jobs where I had managers who exhibited an overly aggressive beta-male overcompensating type behaviour. I was not able to tolerate people bullying me or telling me what to do only if I felt they were intentionally being rude. I went from one job, to the other and to another. Then I realized that I don't give me myself enough credit and automatically discounted my own abilities. Sometimes men become or think they are beta through abusive situations in childhood or through tough situations. The key is to forgive and accept others and then do your own thing. Make mistakes and accept that we are all flawed individuals. When you humble yourself, you become thankful without resentment for others, thus clearing your mind to focus on your life's desires. Some people try so hard to appear like a big boss by intentionally being mean to others and it just doesn't work. It's hilarious that people are so weak like this. I go to some of my clients and I routinely see middle management employees or sons/daughters of business founders/CEOs exhibit these insecure qualities. These types tend to be highly triggered especially when regular employees bring up better ideas than them. Overall, the only problem I have with this video is that not all men can become alphas and it's mean to pressure them to become one. Many men will get the wrong message and continue to overcompensate. People need to be themselves....If you are a beta, you can still get what you want if you believe enough in yourself to not pay attention to the alpha/beta complex.
9:24 "girls would pick up on this quickly" i don't think so, many have witnessed a nice guy or two pretending to aggressive with girls and they get them in the end
Yeah i hate Beta´s assuming that all my muscles just came out of nowhere. If people in wheelchairs can get fit and muscular , then they really have no more excuses. If someone worked hard for their money , then they earned it. If you cant backup your lack of humour , fitness or confidence with money , then you lost my friend. The reason why women appreciate some level of fitness is because of the associated mental traits that come with it, like Discipline , mental toughness, stamina and self identification. Same goes for finances. The only one holding you back is YOURSELF.
If your height is the reason of lack of confidence , then you are one whiny ass beta. Play with the cards you have been dealt. Bitching about circumstances that you cant change is insanity and wasted energy. If a few centimeters is all it takes to break your will , then youre simply not tough enough to be an alpha YET. my best buddy is 1,62 cm in height. He was lanky as fuck and the most shy mofo around. He started lifting and taking care of himself mentally and physically. He developed his sense of humour , which he always possesed , just never refined and expressed. Not a fucking year later and the went on a humping spree with women you dream of every day. BE FUN TO BE AROUND, and dont demand the attention of others if yours isnt worth it.
By the way great job with your videos man 💯🙏🏿 u been holding up for quite a while now ✊🏿 I just wanted to say I don’t agree with the last point about being secretive bc it’s better not to share your goals with everybody due to the fact some people may try to manipulate u knowing your goals I would put the last point as don’t be afraid to go after what u want in life bc of people but u can do this without having to say a word to anyone The element of surprise 🤙🏿💯
There's no shame in keeping your plans & desires a secret. Most may do it out of fear but some do it so to not worry about others getting in their way. If you have a true passion for something, the last thing you want to do is to tell others. Like wise saying "Do not cast your pearls before swine."
-work out and run -don't miss out on expanding your knowledge aswell (learn new things,and study at least the minimum) -try to get over porn addiction -don't generalize...the moment you think MOST women are whores is when you lose -apear moderate...and if you have unnpopular views express them steadly and not immediatly. Then after repeating these steps everything will sort out by itself. Repply if you have more suggestions.
most think they are alpha until its time to stand for yourself i learned so much growing up in the system not glorifying it but it made me the man i am today .
This video is a complete joke. You say alpha male stands up for himself (popcorn example) Every sane person on earth knows that standing up for yourself is a must. What people do not know, however, is HOW to stand up for yourself. Instead of making a completely useless video and giving guidelines that are clear to everyone, you should make a video which actually explains HOW to act and WHAT to say in these conflict situations. But it is kinda clear you have no idea yourself. You just provide cliche bullet points of general ideas without explaining how to actually achieve those ideas. A 6 year old kid can google some general ideas ant make presentation like yours in a video. Please, try harder to provide content that is actually useful to people. :)
Again, you can change the definition of terms all you like, but the central characteristics of what most people consider an alpha male person are pretty negative.
Knowing the problem is the first step to overcoming what it is that is discouraging you. I'm just assuming this video has very accurately addressed beta characteristics and that's what you find discouraging. Please be thankful to the messenger if that's the case. Because it's open up the opportunity to change
watched this simply to check which one i was. never actually considered anything like this. glad to know im a total alpha even tho im skinny and around average height. then after watching this i can immediately recognize who among my friends are betas - not many. alphas dont surround themselves with betas. they surround themselves with other alphas. we want to be challenged. we want to be wrong sometimes as to improve ourselves. self doubt just doesnt exist. example: last night i was at a party, met a lovely girl. we spoke for a long time and after a while i straight up told her i liked her. we went on a date today and it didnt go all that great. im happy about everything that happened because whether or not it went great is of no consequence. i guess you can sum up any alpha HUMAN (men and women) in one simple phrase: its better to try and fail that not try at all.
My only concern with this whole "Alpha" and "beta" thing is this: So showing concern for another human being is a "Beta" sign? I'm beta cause I help people? I'm a nice guy but I understand when I need to get mean. I do have a sense of where I want to go, I am confident, and I don't care what other people think of me. Yet because I'm nice I am "Beta"? Wow......
Its about when you disadvantage yourself to help others too much, being nice is amazing, but like he says in the video, you can become too nice which implies to others and a gril that you value your own self below other peoples happyness
An Alpha will help people. But he won't go so far out of his way that he is damaging himself. Many Betas will make the mistake of offering to help a girl no matter what, however this can come across as clingy. You should help people, but don't go so far that people will abuse your kindness to walk all over you. If this happens people will constantly ask for help, knowing you will help, even if you had something better to do.
so many people understand all the alpha- beta male thing wrong, also the video is a bit wrong. I have expericed it really often because my best friend is kinda the alpha mal and I'am more the beta male. Girls are magically atracted to him and he had much more girls than me, even if we go out together, he is a better conversion starter also and he gets often much more attention than me. To be an alpha Male like my friend does, you don't call yourself it! An Alpha Male don't say he is the best and make is friends feel shitty. To be an Alpha Male you should try to support your friends in some situation with girls if he needs a bit help from you, you could say he need also be a good wingman sometimes.
Take it with a grain of salt. Your first instinct is to remember all these hints and implement them in real life. This makes you focus on this and not act natural. And girls notice this. The best thing to do is just strike up a random conversation and just enjoy yourself. Don't worry about what someone else might think. Everything will come naturally if you just keep eye contact and maintain your own personality. And like I said. Have fun! The worst case scenario is that you gain experience and will have more confidence next time. Don't worry. :)
Essentially, being alpha is simply being the "best" human being in the group. The most confident, the most socially intelligent, the most mentally stable. The person who is the most self-actualized is always going to be the Alpha.
No. Whether the video was really any good or not, clicking on the video is a sign that I am open to improving myself, and deciding its usefulness. A beta male would've gone so far as to call out people for clicking on this video in hopes of seeking improvement.
"Doesn't worry about other people's opinions" Agree. Watching videos like this (which is about other people's opinions) will not make you more alpha. It will make your more beta.
I feel bad ,like I don't like the feeling of awkwardness in trying something new or stepping out and being the odd one out This is stopping me to achieve my dreams and goals I always imagine my goals but never do try to follow them cauz the feeling of awkwardness is jst very awkward Pls Answer this and give me a solution Ily and your Vids
After some years in my life I kind of act more like an alfa... People look at you more when you are confident... If you feel week and unatractive it is only in your mind.... I am still improving myself about it but I am very happy with the changes I have made.
the structure of our modern society isn't based around an alpha and beta dynamic and it hasn't been that way since we all started to live in caves. Everything is based around mutual constructive collaboration.
You must be really bored to have made that user name and post regularly using it. To be honest, I understand that level of boredom. May the "troll" be with you!
When I said "May the "troll" be with you!", that was a positive humorous remark... I thought that "Triggered" people are usually angry and pissed off. However, if triggered only means that the post caused a person to respond... then it looks like you were triggered too! Karan triggered. :)
Wrong. Arrogance is believing that you are better than others period. CONFIDENCE, which this video focuses on, is about believing in yourself, that's it.
I unknowingly became alpha after I broke up with my girlfriend. I reflected onto how I treated her and I just tried improving myself. A year later I have completely changed
Based on ths video I am getting being a male on either spectrum is faulty. The main goal is to be an alpha and women have this super power to where they can see who you are. Women dont really have to do a thing in order to get a man because the alpha will get them. What I took away from this discouraging video is that being a 27 year old virgin really warrants suicide for my seeds of fear due to rejection. And that if I was born this alpha or a woman in fact I would have the golden ticket to life. Well ths is my last day on this rock. No more conflicting information about working on self, do this do that, following a guide to have a female consider me a good catch. Best of luck to anyone who follows this, hope your life turns better than mine was. -Alex
Alex Armando Come on man, don't do that. Most of my life was absolute complete shit and I was certainly no "alpha." If you want it and work for it slowly, it'll be much richer and better than those who seem to get it early on. And you'd be surprised- Many of those don't do so well later in life. In the animal kingdom, "alphas" are killed first.
Mateus Fontenelle thank you and thank you all for the positive real comments. I took steps these past few days to help myself better. having clinical depression I have found antidepressants that work for me. so far so good. gym, hobbies, my own channel and work life improved. I may not have a girl right now but I will get where I need to be soon. thank you all once again from a man who finally sacked up. peace
Lunacy Loveborne Do you find any merit in what he's saying? I don't like the dichotomous, alpha-beta framework in which this issue is discussed in the video,but I do believe that there is and has been a successful push by feminist groups to pustify white boys/ men due to their absurd beliefs that masculinity is inherently toxic and at the root of all evil in the world. Nonetheless, it's not what most women want, they don't want an emasculated men (physically or psychologically)., Even the feminists, for the few who aren't lesbians anyway, prefer a manly man.
I see no importance to this Alpha-Beta society, it seems a bit like self-loathing and petty. I don't see masculinity as the "route of all evil" either. Its idiotic on both ends. I guess its because of my lack of understanding for both parties. But overall Masculinity isn't evil but it isn't necessary either, masculinity isn't toxic in itself but its how people display it and force it over other men or boys, telling them human emotions are bad and girly but stern faced people and iron mans "Alpha-ness" should be your only idols. On the other hand, feminism isn't on my best terms with how they portray Caucasian creatures that happen to be male. I honestly don't want to get in to such a touchy subject but all ill say is I don't agree with it either. Sorry if I went on a tangent or strayed from your question, I just don't get to talk about this a lot.
Amazingly I'm a woman, but I derive a lot of benefit from teachings about alpha males. in this video in particular I like what you said about confidence. I can use that! !
from the first 30 seconds, anyone can tell that voice actor of this video is a beta male himself (girls have incredible ability) (girl have more emotional bonds than men) (girls have better hearing than men) (girl's power is 2 to 3 times better than men) .... he could just say that females are more curious therefore they will pay more attention to your words and movements, but as a typical beta, he just had to make anything related to girls seem positive and superb
Guys, relax and be yourself. This also applies to chicks. I've been an alpha female. It's a blessing and a curse at times. Power and confidence is key. Who cares what anyone thinks.
Just do drugs lol, or drink. I always go into school drunk and everyone bows to me when I start singing ACDC, even the teachers are blushing to talk to me.
I don't think that's a good idea to advise people to do unless you are really really desperate to be an Alpha. Gl living a shorter life and experiencing your existence shamble as you get older WHOOPS
The way you become an alpha male is not giving a shit about being an alpha or beta or a kappa....
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Yes, being conceited, arrogant, and generally useless are indeed characteristics of an alpha male.
Beta males
Wtf is a Kappa.
1. treat all people with respect
2. don’t give a fk what people think
3. Big heart - Back yourself
4. Always be humble
NOICE
I wouldn't say respect is the solution. Treat who deserves respect with respect, and treat others with common decency.
Now that's a real man not know Alpha shit!!!!
always be humple is exactly the opposite of alpha
Wow i felt like you knew me personally.
I was an alpha then I got married.
Worrying that married man is watching these videos.
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@@dilz2012 that I must agree on! 🤣
@@carljohnson4128 in my class alot of girls look at me get close to me try to sit next to me i believe I'm alpha
🤣😂 Dude! You kill me.😂🤣😂
Stop worrying about being the Alpha, Beta, or whatever the fuck. If you go along with this mentality you'll constantly be judging yourself against labels and the expectations they carry. They exist - sure - but fuck the labels.
Focus on developing yourself, _for_ yourself, and the rest comes naturally. If you want confidence, work for it; *INVEST in yourself.* That's all there is to it.
The more you push your own limits and discipline yourself (Exercise, read philosophy, Journal...), the more self-trust you develop in your own abilities, which equates to confidence.
Exercise, meditation, and cold showers are the best for strengthening your self-discipline. Fuck cold showers - but that's the point; victory over yourself is power. After three years of having cold showers I still don't look forward to them, or working-out, but the command I have over myself seeps into all other areas of my life; my body language, communication, decision-making, and so on.
Grab a pen and write; really consider your goals and make a plan. All that matters is your ability to lead yourself, which is only harnessed through self-reflection (which is why I recommend philosophy) and owning the discipline and self-control to follow your own plan. Every personal achievement will make you stronger and more confident in yourself.
Men need purpose, which we primarily get from building things. Make it your purpose to build your own kingdom, every day, *for yourself.* The rest will follow in time.
- If your focus is girls, change that focus. Women want a man who owns himself.
This is what worked for me. Good vid nonetheless.
ChickenWings103 you're exactly right. We shouldn't care about what other's think. achievement should be done for the self.
That's what I'm currently doing now.
ChickenWings103 That was the most alpha comment I've ever seen.
It is kinda like a psyop to make males thick as shit...all loud mouthed, unthinking, zombies that want to constantly prove themselves. I don't give a fuck about how I seem to dumbasses and nobody else should either.
Absolutely on point.
The irony of all of the "alpha" advice is that even seeking those guidelines is weak.
Just be the best version of yourself and try to be better than yesterday/last week.
i was surprised in the middle of the video he actually said what you can do to improve yourself, instead of i have a course you can buy down below.
Jalin Williams I know. That's what I was waiting for. Some book or website where we can learn the rest of the tips.
How to be alpha :
1. Deal with your fears
2. Being okay in the conflict
3. Get over self-Inhebitle(?)
4. Be assertive
5. Do not be a follower
Augusta Verbian how can u be alpha with that profile pic
@@user-jq1ie7iy6s look at your you sound like a 7 year old kid trying to act like and alpha Male._.
Retro girl just cuz u have the same gay profile pic ur trying to come at me
@@user-jq1ie7iy6s how does my profile pic look gay ._. Bruh use common sense
@@flam8924wow i didnt know that, So 7 year old know how to be an alpha huh?
I run a Seafood department in a supermarket and I saw more fish in this 5 minute video than in my 12 hour fucking work day.
omg I'm dying hahahah
Rawnfella this is the best comment
Have a fish!
What kind of fish were they? Catfish?
Ok, me and my awful puns are going now.
I love eating pu$$y that shit is tasty, healthy and fucking expensive:(
I watched this, expecting it to be bullcrap. But it turned out decent. Just too much emphasis on not being nice. Aggressiveness will get you shut down faster than niceness. Assertiveness is the balance.
David Hoyle I find overly aggressive guys to be very similar to overly complacent guys. Very insecure.
What's even worse are the girls who are full of shit and videos such as these seem to suggest it is always the man's responsibility. I agree with self-improvement but I think the notion of accountability in this context ought to be reassessed in some respects.
You know your stuff david
yeah, mee too..but it helped:))
This post gets 135 likes but is completely wrong about what the video said. SMH.
As a girl, I can tell you that being confident and humble is the base of what you need to become an 'alpha male'
Teach me
You won't teach me how be alpha.
Stop drawing the fucking fish.
he uses. the same few sprites over and over and over again :)
cheaper that way , yuck
Saturite He's drawing a beta fish.
Yes, I eat da fish.
The fish is running a beta version of macOS High Sierra. So it's a beta fish/Mac thing.
That moment when your neither alpha, or beta, and just weird af.
lolololololol
You're an Omega :)
So do you get laid often? and why would you be afraid
Then you are a beta. There is no omega or anything (an omega basically is a beta who cannot accept his position as a beta but who can't confront alphas either thus avoids getting tangled with them). There is only alpha and beta, it is just that the alpha-to-beta is a continuum and is defined by social relations. I.e. if you put a 100 typical betas on an island, these will re-order and 10-15 of them will stand out as alphas. If you put a 100 top-alpha-dogs on an island the bottom 80 of them will start showing typical beta behaviour (... and those who refuse, will die fast and painfully, LOL!).
me im just me
You're right about confidence. Everything falls into place when I begin to trust myself, as do things fall apart when I doubt myself.
True. Usually i am really confident (it's true, not just something i am saying) but idk why but for some reason in larger social gatherings i always without realising i start to self doubt myself. I guess it's pretty normal but im glad im now picking up on it and can hopefully change.
My cat listened this this and now he's a lion. welp.
Manhandle the lion, you beta.
M E lmao
...Or just say fuck it, and become an omega male
October Sky Or a phi male!
boy!! this comments are gold😂
omega refers to "last", while alpha refers to "first". so you mean to say go and be a loser instead? uh... LOL
Be an emo kid
I am the Alpha and Omega!!!
just be confident bro
I'm not handsome. :(
Yasin Kılıç doesn't matter women will find you sexy
wow thanks my anxiety and depression is cured
wow forgot its actually that easy, suddenly Im good looking, smart and achieved anything meaningful in life :O
not too confident
Alpha and beta males? What about delta, sigma, gamma, epsilon males? Do an episode about epsilon males!
You see, since alpha males are primates and beta males are fish, it's reasonable to say the supposedly gamma "males" are germs, which are asexual. So, no need to go down the road, man. No need.
epsilon male? what's that? are you a trans or something?
Hahahahahahahahahahahaah NotHuman687 > Typical respond of a zeta male 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Haha u r so funny omg
NotHuman678 Calm down.
Sometimes, when I pay attention to my own behavior I seem to lose all spontaneity, I create a feedback loop in my mind that makes me appear weak and doubtful to others.
Other times, though, I am totally alive and awake, and my behavior is natural and powerful.
Trusting and accepting oneself is so important...
uhhh, me too, sometimes I'm good spontaneously, but a lot of times I wind up being out of tune and things come out poorly/rudely.
I have the exact same problem xd
Iggy Wake
I have the same thing sort of.
I think I'm actually very alpha, but I just don't present myself as one, partly because of the ongoing pondering my mind is occupied with. (I found out alcohol helps with that, but if you're underage, I didn't tell you that)
Yup
I feel u bro. That's so natural, I'm like that too at times. Keeping working on it; you'll get there, more than you are already.
I'm the alpha of the betas
Same bro..
Facts bro, all you’ve gotta do is be an aggressive man & stand with confidence.
69th like
Pure Jokes so all I gotta do is be an asshole? Sounds legit
Step up then
Im the type of guy to walk into my girlfriend cheating on me and say, " Oh sorry, I came at the wrong time."
I would of joined in. The other person she's cheating on you with is another girl right?
is it just me or was that a hilarious choice of words...sounds kinda weird.
newtguy *I would've...not would of. They sound the same but what you are actually hearing is would've, a contraction of would have. Don't shoot, just trying to spread some knowledge. Cheers.
That's just, lacking common sense.
Tf?
The defining trait that separates alphas from betas is the action taken in what is desired.
"Girls are like metal detectors". Thanks for the advice mate.
*bEeEp*
@@thefabulousoogabooga6410 Lmao
"How to animorph into an orange fish every ten seconds"
It really deters me from finishing the video
Or fishing it?
hahahahaha
Ben 10 what a coincedense... because animo and Ben
+Zamed2995 lolz no one cares
Step 1: NoFap
Well Id sure as hell rather stay a beta
Lmao don't even think of banging girls now
NoFap is all fun and games until you get her in your bed and you're done in 30 seconds.
M
m no no
@@ferrisclark3324 fapping does the exact opposite though
its not being nice, its not being ambitious. "too nice" guys roll over in confrontations and just generally give up easily. Has nothing to do with bad boy - good boy.
The best way to become an alpha male instantly and to attract all the women in the proximity is to show that you have money :))
Mosotti loser
80% right.
That also draws in people that are more trouble than they're worth.
Hope you joking, you can have money and women could still view you as a beta male provider
This is weird, because the majority of males I know do display traits of both Alpha and Beta!
I guess majority of men overall show both traits
Not if your gay. That makes you an Omega male.
Wow u are such a lying beta
It's a spectrum. Most things in life are not binary. That's one of the reasons why religious fundamentalists are always so dangerous.
Hi, it is I, a girl who has no idea why she watches these videos. IF YOU ARE A BETA MALE THIS IS PROBABLY WORTH READING TO THE END. AH FUCK IT. IT IS PROBABLY WORTH READING NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE. The Alpha male is a natural born person, as is the Beta. If you want to try to become a different person, that's your choice, and I understand the feeling. Maybe this is not the case with most girls, but I have a knack for very deeply understanding and relating to almost everyone. I am not sure what it is about me that makes people trust me so easily, but a girl who literally one person in school had a conversation that lasted longer than 10 seconds with just poured all of her unsaid thoughts on me, and now I am actually her only friend. What I am getting at is you don't need to change. (ACTUALY ADVICE AND MY POINT STARTS HERE): Let's call every person a kingdom. The buildings are all the nuanced things about someone's personality. The animals and people in the kingdom are the thoughts that pop up. Maybe it is not a big kingdom, but is still one. If nobody loves you now, somebody will someday. While, yes, putting a wall up in front of any side of your kingdom causes other kingdoms to try to connect their kingdom to yours through other sides, seeing in you what you want them to see, walls can also keep other kingdoms out. Maybe you don't know that another kingdom wants to join forces because you have built a wall too big on the part of your kingdom that they want you to show. If you build a big enough wall, no matter how many kingdoms are standing on the other side other side of that wall, wanting desperately to build a road in and form a deep alliance, you'd never notice. If I am the only kingdom trying to get in, then person's kingdom's walls come down almost immediately, but if there are kingdoms trying to enter from other directions, I am suddenly facing a wall that I cannot pass. Even if I like other aspects of someone's personality, I often enter their heart through parts of their personality that the person themself doesn't like, because when I think I like someone, I need to know a lot of things about them(but of course I don't ask people to spill all their secrets and emotions, just their personality). Too often, I find myself screaming and pounding on that wall for while, before just staying there, doing nothing. The person on the outside of that wall almost always ends up heartbroken, and you never know how many people's affection you are blind to. I wouldn't purposely ignore aspects of myself to get people to like me, if they don't like me and I like than, then hey don't like me. Even if it makes me cry, it's okay. I find that the warmest people will enter your heart through part of your personality you don't like. I get get people to let me into their hearts, and I let them in mine. Then as time moves on, some people start trying to attract more people, and they put up a wall, or they completely destroy or ignore he part of their personality I entered from. That causes us to loose our connection, as it is with most people who get a wall put uo in front of them. The people you leave outside the wall ends up heartbroken. So, please, if you ever choose to block offpart of your heart or personality, make sure you check on it every once in a while.
Even if you have a mentality that letting people into your kingdom can lead to attacks from the inside, so you don't want to let people in, you are not wrong. But isn't love and trust going both ways when both kingdoms open their gates, giving each other the ability to comepletely wreck them and trusting them not to?
The best thing about your kingdom is that it is yours. The people who are in your kingdom(remember, those are thoughts and feelings), are part of you. While you can choose whether or not the people in your kingdom decide to reproduce(this metaphor/simile is getting a little weird), but you don't have to let those thought-people become dictators. You should acknowledge and accept them, but a truly unified kingdom, in the end, functions better than a kingdom ruled in fear, hate, or sadness.
This is my opinion, so you don't have to agree, but thanks for reading it.
If you read this entire thing I am sending you a virtual hug.
**hugs everyone who reads this entire thing**
Random Weirdness I'd agree with your thoughts. However, I do agree with some things in this video as well.
If you take chances and try to go beyond your limit, people will notice you.
You need to start living your life the way you want to do it, but don't change who you are in the process. It never works out in the end if you change who you are.
Guess I don't get a hug.
Random Weirdness
I do appreciate both the words of advice and the hug, however I do have a few points I'd like to make
See you are mixxing up changing and evolving, to stick with your kingdom metaphor (or I'll just use a castle to make it easier) You assume that video's like these ask one to demolish bits of the kingdom whereas in reality they are telling you to add furnishings, add insolation, fly your banner and add a flag blowing in the wind above.
To give an example of myself, I am a writer and an artist at heart, I tell stories and I make people think and feel, my carreer path (my main one) is a web designer with novel writing and game design as somthing of a hobby that might turn into more in the future who knows. Regardless I know why I do these things, but I can improve upon my craft by learning the balance between knowing when my vision is more important, have confidence in my own skills to not be torn down by the slighest hint of negative critisiscm, to have the confidence to go out and go talk to the publishers etc etc.
To improve is not to change, your castle should be as pristine as possible, it can still be yours but it has to be the best you've got
Ash bringer, she is a girl. She knows what she is talking about
The importance of self reflection, discipline, and self improvement can never be overstated. Never be happy with who you are. Be happy with who you are becoming.
-always put others above own needs
-don`t be too nice
choose one
Sign of an alpha male:
Don't take shit from anybody.
another sign of an alpha male: has no real connections with anybody
wow. i jus learnd sumthin. Thanks for the tip
"He's going to stand up for his rights and get some fresh popcorn." 😂
Sign #1: you're watching this video.
@Ewan Jones Shit dad? Some dads just prefer their sons to grow up as respectful young men, who don't have the idea that either gender is superior to the other. They don't want their children to believe in that "aLpHa" shit. My dad taught me that there are no alphas in life, and even if there was, you didn't have to have certain traits to be considered an alpha, you find it in yourself to be an alpha. You don't lead anyone because everyone else leads their own lives.
If you want to be Alpha you need to head over to Alpha M and buy some Tiege Hanley! Instant Alpha and the women love it.
Sell out
and you will be a Senorita magnet
😂🤣😂🤣
I dont like that :D
I always thought being reserved about your talents and passions made you seem a bit more mysterious and interesting. I don't mean not telling people what u do, but such as having one major passion that most know about (for example tennis) but when people get to know u it comes as a shock that u also have other interest (guitar or social games of volleyball)
Obsessing over becoming an alpha male is the worst thing you can do.
Beda mail looser
Not obsessing but caring about it
Instructions were unclear, I became a gamma
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An alpha stands up for his rights for fresh popcorn. But what if the popcorn guy refuses? What to do then besides aggression?
Throw the popcorn away, demand a refund, and decisively leave and go to another theater and or do whatever he feels, he doesn't need to ask what to do next because he can decide on a reasonable thing to do.
Vlog It Up only a dumbass ape...err... "alpha male" LOL would leave a theater cuz his popcorn wasnt prefect. These stupid videos teach men to be dumb jackasses, not real men.
Fallen Hero
Direction. Outweigh the pros and cons of confrontation and if there are less pros than cons, take the stale popcorn and eat it. The thing with being a true alpha male (likeable, fun guy everyone wants to impress) is that they don't care that their popcorn is stale in the first place.
Skimtar funny how u boys love to make up your own ideas of what am alpha male is lol, just so u feel like you're one ;) Do what you want, there is no "alpha male" in humans, everyone makes their own damn choices.
Don't even have to make a big scene, you just ask with a stern but calm voice "get your manager" if the person refuses.. no major scene that bodes ill on you but the guy who threw you the stale popcorn (also depends on how stale we're talking, if we're talking, the crap is at least a couple hours unheated then by goodness that is not flying)
Fear of rejection, so I avoid every social interaction.
alb12345672 truth
Wonder what it comes from? Genetics? Upbringing? Combinations? I take zero risk when it comes to everything. Probably the polar opposite of a bad boy.
That doesn't mean you are a beta male. Beta males don't exist. Males with different brains exist, you can't divide men in strict categories. Fear of judgement is okay, don't worry.
+C- Yes, I'll double up on safety equipment. I've done tons of complex repairs and never got a scratch. Problem is it takes me much longer.
But I end up overanalayzing things to the extreme, always second guessing my decisions. I think my case was having a very weak, non-aggressive father and being raised mostly by overprotective, paranoid women. My father taught me things like never ask for a raise, just be thankful you have a job. Never quit a job under any circumstance. The advice women gave me about dating was useless (maybe 50 years ago it would work). I was brainwashed that if a woman has sex before marriage she is a worthless whore. Telling a woman you want to wait today is like telling ebay you will pay when your package comes. I also have fear of diseases.
You are right about the inertia thing, I'm not going to starve but I'm far from rich. I live very frugally and become comfortable with being alone. Marriage is a pretty big risk, especially in 2017.
That's lit bro! When you gonna release the mix tape?!
The one thing I would say about this that is most important is knowing what you want in a relationship. I personally am a Christian and I know what I would be seeking in a relationship. If you are looking to "build" something and it is not established on a foundation of honesty, then it is doomed for failure. We as people (not trying to judge) should try to develop the habits of resisting the temptation of compromise in the beginning for the desired outcome. It is easier to take a blow in the beginning, than in the end....divorce, damaged childhoods, depression..etc. These only add to the problems that we as human beings have in life. I say, just be who you are and love yourself (In the context of what is healthy) If you are seeking to build a "real relationship" there are plenty of people in the world and if you try hard enough, you will achieve your goal and meet your ideal person---there are just too many people in the world for there to not be someone compatible with a specific person. Don't worry about what others think. If you are not being who you truly are (again, in the manner of being healthy) then how will you be happy. We are human beings with choice of will as opposed to strictly acting on instinct. Alpha and Beta in the context of human will does not necessarily have to have significance. It takes variety of character and personality to maximize our accomplishments as human beings. If everyone was the same, we wouldn't have much ingenuity in our life. So basically, guys (and women) just be yourself and love yourself. You will accomplish a lot more out of life and be happier this way. "If there is a will, there is a way". There is too much bullying in the world and imagery of what a "person" should be. Don't succumb to anyone's pressure of trying to change the person you are....again, just love yourself :-)Sometimes these things can cause depression and other unhealthy experiences but there IS help out there...and everyone can get better. Don't ever give up. Be who you are and for the bullying out there, these people act the way they do due to a weakness within themselves that they need help with...remember, if you stay true to who you are, you are the stronger person...again, not trying to judge and fight hate with hate but keep that in your mind.Unfortunately there is too much suicide and oppression and unhealthy means others resort to when they don't feel connected...but I promise you there are other people in the world just like you that will love you and except you for who you are....so value yourself. If you truly want to meet someone, again, there are Plenty of people in the world that will have similar characteristics and values as yourself. (Remember to have discernment and try not to be too naïve yet too narrow as well---sometimes it's hit and miss with these things but with practice you will learn them)God Bless all the men and women and children reading this....If you are not religious, (which can be understandable --- not everyone has had the same life and walked in the same shoes as everyone) these values still within themselves lose no meaning to the truth behind them....we are all worthy of love and respectBe true to who you are and I wish the best for EVERYONE to have a happy life....find a healthy passion and purse it...Peace and Love everyone...take careAgain, best wishes people...remember this message :-) ....never give up
Hey, thanks buddy. Just speaking the truth to you and to everyone. Glad to be inspirational, my friend. Take care and blessings!
Guys do you want to know how to become an Alpha Male?
Well i can tell you one thing: Not by watching Videos on how to become an Alpha Male!
MrBsaudios you have to start somewhere bud no one watching these videos will magically become an alpha male tomorrow it's a gradual process respect the process trust the process
MrBsaudios he's right
Lmao. True
Whuadt a week beta mail u r
MrBsaudios Is it just me or do you sound insecure?
Buying popcorn is an important decision?
Valentin Constantine well do you wanna get hungry in the middle of a movie?
I'm Caillou or just do intermittent fasting.
Eat beforehand, save money.
for a alpha male it is hahahahahaa
Valentin Constantine I mean 9$ is a waste for stale popcorn
I’m slowly becoming an alpha! 💪🏻
According to science, beta male is actually the second in the hierarchy of the group, ranked higher than all the others except the alpha. Males in a chimpanzee group are divided in high, middle and low ranking. It's like in human society, but our status can increase or decrease depending on the inviroment. Trust me. I've read a lot of academic works about this.
I'm not american, so in case of some grammar misteaks just let it go
Confidence in women is very important too. If she isn't confident, how can she possibly hold a good job and support you? I had a woman flirt with me one time in a laundromat. Red Flags went up instantly. How could a woman who could not afford a washer and dryer possibly support me? I got out of there quick. If a woman wants to get laid, she's going to have to have earning power.
This is golden! I love this
This is only the case if you expect the women to support you. In most cases, the man supports the woman. I hope you were being sarcastic with the rest of your comment. Your comment is hilarious
What town was that in? I knew a girl who hated bars and was screamin' rich who would sometimes take a load of clothes to a laundromat just to meet guys.
Sweetcheeks Babycakes It was in the quad cities area of California. Alta Coma, Alta Luna, El Tijo and Merchandise.
Baji Kimran dude...is your comment serious???
The best part about this is the comment section...
How to be Alpha:
Step 1: Be the better man and walk away from this video
Found the beta
BETA
Astrozombie13 Donald is speaking straight faxx
does this video hurt you? lol yeap a beta.
Naw, I am female. Just trying to lose some brain cells.
Wow, so getting a refund on stale popcorn is all it takes to become an alpha male in 2018.
This video is right on POINT I hope alot of men take this information to heart and not misunderstand what you are saying.
This is exactly what I struggle with. It’s like I have an alpha and a beta fighting inside of me all the time. Love the video. Gonna study it not for just getting women... but for self improvement.
As a woman, if any guy ever let the word “alpha male” leave his mouth I’d run. Alpha males are the most cocky misogynistic guys ever. Please just be yourself, women make fun of guys like this. I came to this channel for a good laugh and I’ve gotten it.
I was what you call a beta male for so long, but since i began working out in the gym and started to see myself getting bigger, my confidence became sky high. Since then i wear what i want and say whats on my mind, because im confident doing so and if you are you should never be embarassed. Now i get so much attention from girls that its annoying. So basicly if you are like i was, you just have to start working out
MKG - COMMENTATOR Yeah dude confidence is key, and I guess working out also gave me confidence, and masculinity
"don't be a follower" I just realized my goal was to follow what the alpha does
Here is an important alpha male trait, take responsibility and stop blaming other when things go wrong
i was a beta male. I ate teige hanley and now im an *alpha* male
I was a beta male and now I am a fish
I hope guys looking for more confidence don't take this too seriously.. Pretty vague instructions on how to be fairly specific kind of dude. Human breeding doesn't really work quite like wolves and apes... there are more than two kinds of personality... Etc etc
But we work like fish!
Sadly I have exhibited all the beta male traits, & also been an aggressive beta at times. I think the reason is basically my past history (especially being gay). But recently I decided to change, & am working on that. This video has given me much to think about. Thanks.
Buying popcorn is an alpha decision
Do I have to feel bad now that I know that I'm a 100% Beta Male? Oh man science pisses me off
Beat_master77 No, you can stay that way
This isn't science. Relax.
Start hitting the gym
I started my own business, because I had too many jobs where I had managers who exhibited an overly aggressive beta-male overcompensating type behaviour. I was not able to tolerate people bullying me or telling me what to do only if I felt they were intentionally being rude. I went from one job, to the other and to another. Then I realized that I don't give me myself enough credit and automatically discounted my own abilities. Sometimes men become or think they are beta through abusive situations in childhood or through tough situations. The key is to forgive and accept others and then do your own thing. Make mistakes and accept that we are all flawed individuals. When you humble yourself, you become thankful without resentment for others, thus clearing your mind to focus on your life's desires. Some people try so hard to appear like a big boss by intentionally being mean to others and it just doesn't work. It's hilarious that people are so weak like this. I go to some of my clients and I routinely see middle management employees or sons/daughters of business founders/CEOs exhibit these insecure qualities. These types tend to be highly triggered especially when regular employees bring up better ideas than them. Overall, the only problem I have with this video is that not all men can become alphas and it's mean to pressure them to become one. Many men will get the wrong message and continue to overcompensate. People need to be themselves....If you are a beta, you can still get what you want if you believe enough in yourself to not pay attention to the alpha/beta complex.
9:24 "girls would pick up on this quickly"
i don't think so, many have witnessed a nice guy or two pretending to aggressive with girls and they get them in the end
All of this begs the question: "HOW???"
ME ALPHA MALE ME SMAAAASHH!!!!
you are you are nobody can't take that away from you.
Bam! Bam!
Sounds like alpha rape
*russian voice* deestrroy ze mazarfakerrz
HULK SMASHHHH
well after watching this good video ive come to the conclusion suicide is the way to go ! thanks !
me too
Group suicide on skype? It'll set it up.
Suicide is not an option.
mcpartridgeboy what about living for yourself and not thinking about women all the time?
lol exactlu what im thinkinh anout
except it is far easier to be an alpha if you were 6'4 and muscular af back then or today having tons of money. Those things just help...
Yeah i hate Beta´s assuming that all my muscles just came out of nowhere. If people in wheelchairs can get fit and muscular , then they really have no more excuses.
If someone worked hard for their money , then they earned it. If you cant backup your lack of humour , fitness or confidence with money , then you lost my friend.
The reason why women appreciate some level of fitness is because of the associated mental traits that come with it, like Discipline , mental toughness, stamina and self identification.
Same goes for finances.
The only one holding you back is YOURSELF.
You can't gain height.
Yeah but you can gain confidence.
Bitch please, how can you gain confidence if the reason of the lack of confidence is the fucking height which can't be gained?
If your height is the reason of lack of confidence , then you are one whiny ass beta. Play with the cards you have been dealt. Bitching about circumstances that you cant change is insanity and wasted energy. If a few centimeters is all it takes to break your will , then youre simply not tough enough to be an alpha YET.
my best buddy is 1,62 cm in height. He was lanky as fuck and the most shy mofo around. He started lifting and taking care of himself mentally and physically. He developed his sense of humour , which he always possesed , just never refined and expressed. Not a fucking year later and the went on a humping spree with women you dream of every day.
BE FUN TO BE AROUND, and dont demand the attention of others if yours isnt worth it.
By the way great job with your videos man 💯🙏🏿 u been holding up for quite a while now ✊🏿
I just wanted to say I don’t agree with the last point about being secretive bc it’s better not to share your goals with everybody due to the fact some people may try to manipulate u knowing your goals
I would put the last point as don’t be afraid to go after what u want in life bc of people but u can do this without having to say a word to anyone
The element of surprise 🤙🏿💯
Can you site any of the studies that would support the narrative with in this video? Or is this just your interpretation of pop psychology?
No study could cover 3.5billion women ,different cultures ,nationalities ,etc
No study could cover all women on the planet, they don't always want the confident one.
yes a study can u just lazy fool
maybe read a book on social dynamics and social psychology
and maybe jung's work on the individuation of the self and everything that came after?
don't pretend to be a smartass when you really don't know shit.
„Be confident“
Wow thanks
There's no shame in keeping your plans & desires a secret. Most may do it out of fear but some do it so to not worry about others getting in their way. If you have a true passion for something, the last thing you want to do is to tell others. Like wise saying "Do not cast your pearls before swine."
i feel personally attacked
TNasty 😂😂😂
TNasty I'm dying lol so many triggered betas in this comment section 😂😂
You feel personally attacked. Rofl. You're comment is hilarious. Were you speaking sarcastically?
Reflexez thats what beta males do talk shit online and you are display that behavior so don't count self an alpha cause you are not
I feel personally attacked by your comment
So I can become the Harambe?
-work out and run
-don't miss out on expanding your knowledge aswell (learn new things,and study at least the minimum)
-try to get over porn addiction
-don't generalize...the moment you think MOST women are whores is when you lose
-apear moderate...and if you have unnpopular views express them steadly and not immediatly.
Then after repeating these steps everything will sort out by itself.
Repply if you have more suggestions.
I lost so many IQ points by watching this I became the animal he's depicting us as.
Daddy classic beta talk
yeah being smart doesnt get you anywere with women, but enjoy being smart anyway, maybe ill see you on the chess circuit one day !
UwU!!!
bEtA ANS PROUD!!1!!
-im joking please dont hurt me-
mcpartridgeboy ya or maybe all the girls you talk to are just dumb fucks who talk about men all day😂😂
NOT AN ARGUMENT!
This video seems to be correct. If this video is not correct, explain how?
here are all rules for being the alpha: 1 Don't give a fuck 2. Don't give a fuck and 3. Don't give a fuck...
Ernest Lekota dumb dumb and dumb.
most think they are alpha until its time to stand for yourself i learned so much growing up in the system not glorifying it but it made me the man i am today .
This video is a complete joke.
You say alpha male stands up for himself (popcorn example)
Every sane person on earth knows that standing up for yourself is a must. What people do not know, however, is HOW to stand up for yourself.
Instead of making a completely useless video and giving guidelines that are clear to everyone, you should make a video which actually explains HOW to act and WHAT to say in these conflict situations. But it is kinda clear you have no idea yourself. You just provide cliche bullet points of general ideas without explaining how to actually achieve those ideas. A 6 year old kid can google some general ideas ant make presentation like yours in a video. Please, try harder to provide content that is actually useful to people. :)
Albert J so why don’t you make the video then, Mr. Smart?
I pissed on my cat because it looked at me
alpha life
This video is quite good. What makes you alpha isn't really how many women you get, it's how much you believe in your own self-worth and happiness.
This was a very discouraging video. Thanks man.
Don't let him get you down. He's describing the characteristic of being assertive. An alpha male is not assertive. He's a jerk.
That is the real purpose of this video. To make you feel a crap!
Real alpha males aren't jerks (unless the person needed it). You are confused about what is a true alpha male
Again, you can change the definition of terms all you like, but the central characteristics of what most people consider an alpha male person are pretty negative.
Knowing the problem is the first step to overcoming what it is that is discouraging you. I'm just assuming this video has very accurately addressed beta characteristics and that's what you find discouraging. Please be thankful to the messenger if that's the case. Because it's open up the opportunity to change
I've gone to more than 5 zoos in my life, just like the fish popping up, I see a damn gorilla every 5 seconds. Jesus Christ new drawings PLEASE!
watched this simply to check which one i was. never actually considered anything like this. glad to know im a total alpha even tho im skinny and around average height. then after watching this i can immediately recognize who among my friends are betas - not many. alphas dont surround themselves with betas. they surround themselves with other alphas. we want to be challenged. we want to be wrong sometimes as to improve ourselves. self doubt just doesnt exist. example: last night i was at a party, met a lovely girl. we spoke for a long time and after a while i straight up told her i liked her. we went on a date today and it didnt go all that great. im happy about everything that happened because whether or not it went great is of no consequence.
i guess you can sum up any alpha HUMAN (men and women) in one simple phrase: its better to try and fail that not try at all.
My only concern with this whole "Alpha" and "beta" thing is this: So showing concern for another human being is a "Beta" sign? I'm beta cause I help people? I'm a nice guy but I understand when I need to get mean. I do have a sense of where I want to go, I am confident, and I don't care what other people think of me. Yet because I'm nice I am "Beta"? Wow......
Its about when you disadvantage yourself to help others too much, being nice is amazing, but like he says in the video, you can become too nice which implies to others and a gril that you value your own self below other peoples happyness
An Alpha will help people. But he won't go so far out of his way that he is damaging himself. Many Betas will make the mistake of offering to help a girl no matter what, however this can come across as clingy. You should help people, but don't go so far that people will abuse your kindness to walk all over you. If this happens people will constantly ask for help, knowing you will help, even if you had something better to do.
Beta's do it because they are scared they will be devalued in others eyes, an alpha does it to fulfill their own values
Most Beta Males don't know there beta's. It's OK to be a beta male. I have friends who are beta males.
so many people understand all the alpha- beta male thing wrong, also the video is a bit wrong. I have expericed it really often because my best friend is kinda the alpha mal and I'am more the beta male. Girls are magically atracted to him and he had much more girls than me, even if we go out together, he is a better conversion starter also and he gets often much more attention than me. To be an alpha Male like my friend does, you don't call yourself it!
An Alpha Male don't say he is the best and make is friends feel shitty.
To be an Alpha Male you should try to support your friends in some situation with girls if he needs a bit help from you, you could say he need also be a good wingman sometimes.
honestly, these types of videos dont do shit to me anymore, they just depress me.
Take it with a grain of salt. Your first instinct is to remember all these hints and implement them in real life. This makes you focus on this and not act natural. And girls notice this. The best thing to do is just strike up a random conversation and just enjoy yourself. Don't worry about what someone else might think. Everything will come naturally if you just keep eye contact and maintain your own personality. And like I said. Have fun! The worst case scenario is that you gain experience and will have more confidence next time. Don't worry. :)
Essentially, being alpha is simply being the "best" human being in the group. The most confident, the most socially intelligent, the most mentally stable. The person who is the most self-actualized is always going to be the Alpha.
Signs you're a beta male:
Clicking on this video out of curiosity.
Hmmm...
He's just joking.
I am not a beta male I am a flounder
big difference dumbass
No. Whether the video was really any good or not, clicking on the video is a sign that I am open to improving myself, and deciding its usefulness. A beta male would've gone so far as to call out people for clicking on this video in hopes of seeking improvement.
hehe so butthurt over a simple joke
One drink at every ,, alpha". If you are a real Russian, one drink at every ,,Beta'' too
Make it two, otherwise u beda
@@Weirdomanification ur probably right.
Wait, that's not alpha
I mean. No your wrong fuck you
"Doesn't worry about other people's opinions"
Agree. Watching videos like this (which is about other people's opinions) will not make you more alpha. It will make your more beta.
Great point about the popcorn !
I feel bad ,like I don't like the feeling of awkwardness in trying something new or stepping out and being the odd one out
This is stopping me to achieve my dreams and goals
I always imagine my goals but never do try to follow them cauz the feeling of awkwardness is jst very awkward
Pls Answer this and give me a solution
Ily and your Vids
After some years in my life I kind of act more like an alfa... People look at you more when you are confident... If you feel week and unatractive it is only in your mind.... I am still improving myself about it but I am very happy with the changes I have made.
First tip: stop listening to this video
greynox this video is bs
greynox why would you want to live your life based around a video you seen on UA-cam
greynox the maker of the video is a so called "beta male" don't listen to this bs
greynox ok
the structure of our modern society isn't based around an alpha and beta dynamic and it hasn't been that way since we all started to live in caves. Everything is based around mutual constructive collaboration.
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You must be really bored to have made that user name and post regularly using it. To be honest, I understand that level of boredom.
May the "troll" be with you!
When I said "May the "troll" be with you!", that was a positive humorous remark... I thought that "Triggered" people are usually angry and pissed off.
However, if triggered only means that the post caused a person to respond... then it looks like you were triggered too!
Karan triggered. :)
stopping to worry about what other people think was one of the best things I learned in life. Used to be beta, on my way to mastering the alpha
So...basically be an arrogant middle schooler
Rewatch the video at around 5:20
Wrong. Arrogance is believing that you are better than others period. CONFIDENCE, which this video focuses on, is about believing in yourself, that's it.
It worked for Trump
Oh, to late. I already took the red pill.
I unknowingly became alpha after I broke up with my girlfriend. I reflected onto how I treated her and I just tried improving myself. A year later I have completely changed
Based on ths video I am getting being a male on either spectrum is faulty. The main goal is to be an alpha and women have this super power to where they can see who you are. Women dont really have to do a thing in order to get a man because the alpha will get them. What I took away from this discouraging video is that being a 27 year old virgin really warrants suicide for my seeds of fear due to rejection. And that if I was born this alpha or a woman in fact I would have the golden ticket to life. Well ths is my last day on this rock. No more conflicting information about working on self, do this do that, following a guide to have a female consider me a good catch. Best of luck to anyone who follows this, hope your life turns better than mine was.
-Alex
Alex Armando Come on man, don't do that. Most of my life was absolute complete shit and I was certainly no "alpha." If you want it and work for it slowly, it'll be much richer and better than those who seem to get it early on. And you'd be surprised- Many of those don't do so well later in life. In the animal kingdom, "alphas" are killed first.
for god sake man just pay for sex..its not hard
Mateus Fontenelle thank you and thank you all for the positive real comments. I took steps these past few days to help myself better. having clinical depression I have found antidepressants that work for me. so far so good. gym, hobbies, my own channel and work life improved. I may not have a girl right now but I will get where I need to be soon. thank you all once again from a man who finally sacked up. peace
Alex Armando Good stuff bro. Keep seeking truth and success and you'll find it. God bless
Bryan Hall thanks man and will definitely do.
I am a girl what am I doing here?!?
ur different
Lunacy Loveborne you're aboutta become a male fish
Nuuuuuu
Lunacy Loveborne Do you find any merit in what he's saying? I don't like the dichotomous, alpha-beta framework in which this issue is discussed in the video,but I do believe that there is and has been a successful push by feminist groups to pustify white boys/ men due to their absurd beliefs that masculinity is inherently toxic and at the root of all evil in the world. Nonetheless, it's not what most women want, they don't want an emasculated men (physically or psychologically)., Even the feminists, for the few who aren't lesbians anyway, prefer a manly man.
I see no importance to this Alpha-Beta society, it seems a bit like self-loathing and petty. I don't see masculinity as the "route of all evil" either. Its idiotic on both ends. I guess its because of my lack of understanding for both parties. But overall Masculinity isn't evil but it isn't necessary either, masculinity isn't toxic in itself but its how people display it and force it over other men or boys, telling them human emotions are bad and girly but stern faced people and iron mans "Alpha-ness" should be your only idols.
On the other hand, feminism isn't on my best terms with how they portray Caucasian creatures that happen to be male. I honestly don't want to get in to such a touchy subject but all ill say is I don't agree with it either.
Sorry if I went on a tangent or strayed from your question, I just don't get to talk about this a lot.
Amazingly I'm a woman, but I derive a lot of benefit from teachings about alpha males. in this video in particular I like what you said about confidence. I can use that!
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Human don't have alpha/beta social structures. The stupid, it hurts...
from the first 30 seconds, anyone can tell that voice actor of this video is a beta male himself
(girls have incredible ability) (girl have more emotional bonds than men) (girls have better hearing than men) (girl's power is 2 to 3 times better than men) .... he could just say that females are more curious therefore they will pay more attention to your words and movements, but as a typical beta, he just had to make anything related to girls seem positive and superb
y u so beda
Guys, relax and be yourself. This also applies to chicks. I've been an alpha female. It's a blessing and a curse at times. Power and confidence is key. Who cares what anyone thinks.
Just do drugs lol, or drink. I always go into school drunk and everyone bows to me when I start singing ACDC, even the teachers are blushing to talk to me.
I don't think that's a good idea to advise people to do unless you are really really desperate to be an Alpha. Gl living a shorter life and experiencing your existence shamble as you get older WHOOPS
WOW, you had to be insanely intoxicated to have imagined that happening to you.