I know a guy who is 71 years old still workout at the gym. Lifts more weight than a lot of guys and has had business and handover it to his children. Me and one of my friend was talking that we want to be like him. He’s a great motivation and he is very friendly and would tell us anything
A high value man has a genuine love and compassion for those around him. He understands that having love for others and experiencing genuine love back is true wealth. Those around him feel his love and compassion and people are drawn to him.
this is true! Ive been thru provertish situations and money issues handled and I much rather be broke with a love one there than to have money and be alone
This is definitely someone that I can enjoy but I’d never rather be broke…that’s the reason for failed relationships…that’s why I worked so hard. He would have had to do the same. Therefore, if he gets hit by a Mack truck, he did his do diligence and secured the future as I did if I got hit by a Mack truck. 🤷🏽♀️ It feels great that I am a HVM but I am a women. 😂 It’s called equal yolk…but with the ability to be an asset, to follow, inspire, support, high EQ, loyal, youthful, beauty fitness routine, achieved elite status, nurturing, great reputation, live on sound principles, godly, generous and self aware. ✝️🙏🏽💜
This kind of educational content always makes my day. There’s so much value in these videos, pure GOLD. Consider this the value I’d like to add: « A high value man gets to live his life on his own terms. » Thanks again ALUX
“You can’t be a high value man in your twenties because you haven’t been through enough life to acquire wisdom” good thing i started going through life at 14🙂
@@daydream2609 for women i guess she has to work really hard just like a man and become high value at like 27-32 since it doesn’t take as much money to be a high value woman as a high value man
HIGH VALUE PEOPLE HAVE NO PLAN B'S. THEY FOCUS ON THEIR PURPOSE & THAT COULD TAKE UP TO 20 YEARS PLUS. THERE'S NO OVERNIGHT SUCCESS TO THEM. FREEDOM IS TO HAVE NO ONE OWNING YOU. PERIOD.!
I won't lie, this video slapped me right out of bed to at least do something now instead of waiting for the day I recover. A BONUS: A high value man doesn't watch TV when they are sick, they see it as an advantage to reflect, adjust plans (if needed), read and learn more
Seems a little unrealistic. I mean, it Depends how sick you are and what type of illness. I don't have much patience when I am sick. All my thought goes to getting myself back to wellness and getting a lot of rest.
Currently working on become a HVM. At one point during Summer 2020 I ate Dominos Pizzas, drank 4 cans of Baja Blast and watched Malcolm in the Middle all day. Now I picked up martial arts, started eating more vegetables and have an interview at a prestigious firm. EDIT: I got the job. Time to level up :)
Gold. A high value man also knows that his legacy can also be carried by others as well hence he feels obligated to uplift children and his community as whole.
It might seem very ovwewhelming when your at the bottom … i was there … but instead of looking at the end … try to focus on the next couple of steps and then after that the next couple of steps will unfold … be patient and keep grinding … we got this Aluxers 💯🔥
I know a man, who is 64 years old, and and always make sure that his family is well off.he is the best father in the world. and he always put others first always dressed nicely very polite. that a self-confident man.
I thought you knew my husband until I read "dressed nicely". Sometimes I am with my husband to run errands in the middle of his work day while still in his work clothes. Got to love it.
Number 14 hit hard. I always tell myself, once I learn how to do a job or exercise, if you take it away, I'll know how to get it back! Nice work on this video.
true. the lowest value men think they are high value just because they have a penis. same with low value women who think their vagina is made of gold. both are low value.
My problem with this list is that most of these are things that will happen automatically AFTER you become high value, as opposed to things you can tweak in order to BECOME high value. There's not really any actionable take-away to "High value men are recognized by their high value peers." for example. That's an effect of being high value, not something you can change to make yourself high value. Also, I've always been annoyed by advice to the effect of "Surround yourself with successful people." because the constraints of my living situation mean that I'm constantly surrounded by losers and there's not much I can do about it. I live in disability housing in the middle of a de facto retirement community, so there's not much in the way of social venues in my area, and everyone's doing everything through Zoom nowadays anyway, so it's impossible to meet people IRL. I also can't just relocate to somewhere with an increased standard of living because my mental health issues prevent me from holding down a job for more than a few months at a time (and I'm not talking about some bullshit pop culture diagnosis like depression, I'm a legit schizo). I don't surround myself with losers by choice, I get surrounded by losers because of my living situation. If there's a place nearby where I can go to meet people who are ambitious and driven, I'd love to hear about it, but even the other students I've met at the local college just spend most of their free time playing video games and watching anime. People say "Surround yourself with people who are ambitious and driven." but where am I supposed to find these unicorns?
I’m glad to see that Kevin Samuels’ message has reached the ears of Alux!!! Kevin’s message has become more powerful since his death than when he was alive. RIP Kevin!!!✊
Y'all act like Kevin Samuels invented these concepts - no, he just restated universal truths. Most of his talking points were modeled after Tommy Sotomayor's content, by the way
@truth Seeker. You're right. Alux used his message repackaged it then called him a clown in the same video. But at the same time suggesting that they have integrity.
This was the one right here! Leaving a legacy behind! Your children, & the work that you've built, with your time here on earth! Thanks for the motivation & inspiration Alux! "GOLD"!..........
It's not ALL about the money, like she masterfully explains. Money, accomplishment, satisfaction, peace and more will always be part of being a high value person..
There were so many relationship points in High Value Women video, but in High Value Men video, it's all about career, nothing much on the character, or what kind of a partner he is. There's a difference between being a good "Provider" and a good "Partner". Being a good provider is a part of being a good partner, but not the other way round. Just felt like that the two videos somewhere showed as if it's just Men who are leader and Women mere accessories to their life. Nevertheless the points were good, and they are applicable not only to Men, but also to Women.. So it was kinda GOLD
Yeah, I was kinda disappointed too. They should've just clubbed both videos and made a "High Value Person" list instead. I liked both videos for sure, but it does feel like women are the supporting cast to men.
“It's never the circumstances that determine success in life but what you DO with the current bad circumstances that determines your success in life.” - Dani Johnson. Incredible person reading this, have an awesome day! I believe in you! Love ~ Nat ✨❤️
A lot of people are up against harsh obstacles, but with people having their personal lives, might not be able to imagine thee things that other people do. Somethings people do are not understandable.
The major hurdles in the early portion of the high value man's career involve building self-confidence and creating one’s reputation. Once that's well-cemented the next phase is about making one's mark...
The stock market has been a really tough one this past months, but I watched an interview on CNBC where the anchor ‘Jim Cramer’ kept mentioning "...KARINA MATTIS...". This prompted me to get in touch with her, and from October 2021 till now we have been working together, and I can now boast of $540k in my trading portfolio.
I am a beginner and I am hoping to start with $93,000. I hope this is not too small to start with because my dream is to attain my financial goals within a short period of time.
Seeing the name Karina Mattis made me stop to read your comment. I can attest to the fact that getting in touch with Ms. Karina during the pandemic was how I was able to scale through the crazy stock downtrend and this helped saved my finance
I just looked up this person KARINA MATTIS out of curiosity, and surprisingly she seems proficient. I thought this was just some overrated BS, I appreciate this.
This video might just be your pinnacle. SO MANY nuggets and great advice. Things you thought you might’ve been but you’re actually not, but plenty of info to put you in a position to plan what you need to do to reach HVM status. This video is truly a wake up call.
I will continue to say this, Alux gives Us Content that We Never Knew We Needed! & With this COLD SHOWER, It's Mos Def. a reality check and at the same time Motivation for Me to aspire to aim Higher! Solid GOLD, thank you ALUX!💯🔥💪🏾😏
Obviously not all of us are "high value," but most of us could be "increasing value" if we decide to be and stick to it. I only meet four of these 15 criteria at best, but I'm an introvert and can live without many of them.
i have a couple critiques regarding this Alux opinion of what is considered "Value"able in a man. 1) just because someone makes a lot of money and has a comfortable income does NOT automatically mean that they are kind or compassionate- case in point my father. while I grew up upper middle class, it was without the love that SHOULD go along WITH the luxury. 2) Also, NOT everyone has the ability to organize or plan. Anything, really. some men are ADHD, which negates that trait. you know who else is ADHD? Will Smith ..and you KNOW he's successful ; but I bet you that he couldn't plan or organize anything without a secretary or someone helping him to be able to think that way
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Gold. Men need to be kind, honest in every part of there life. A sense of humor and a motivational drive to get what there after.. knowledge is power, but never be a know it all. Kindness is also powerful...
A high value man can also help others see and draw out the potential and value form within themselves. That man does not merely make others feel good about themselves but that they are capable of changing their own lives.
A high value man also give back not just to family but to the world around him. Also see potential in others that work hard cause he doesn't look down at the average hard worker.
Maintenance of a standard helps here as well. It takes discipline and character to keep yourself up, though never always perfect. ALUX showcases this routinely 🧡.
@@cslaton921 from studies and surveys but a lot of it is common sense. Maybe the term “high value man/woman” wasn’t used but common sense should tell you a bummy broke guy or an entitled single mom isn’t a high value person. Just look at the term high value, how valuable are you to the people around you and the world in general
Nothing Kevin Samuels said made him a HVM, he was most definitely a LVM some coming on here probably did not understand this video, because nowhere here did I see that to be a HVM you need to hate on women to make a living.
Gold A high-value man is independent. He doesn't need a woman by his side to cook for him, clean his home or wash his clothes. He chooses whether to invite a woman into his home, and who to invite into his home.
I don’t think ALUX finds those characteristic to be valuable in men. Disappointing. I didn’t find much in this video that would draw me to a HVM if I was a HVW. What’s the appeal on a romantic or marital partnership level??
“I have believed the best of every man. And find that to believe is enough to make a bad man show him at his best, or even a good man swings his lantern higher.” - William Butler Yeats.
It is possible to manage people this way and, no surprise, they tend to rise to the expectation and then feel better and more confident about themselves and perform at even higher levels going forward.
high value, 1. is married to a loyal traditional woman, 2. is honest 3. always keeps to his word 4. is a good leader 5. puts his health and family first 6. surrounds himself with people who think like they have already achieved their goals 7. has good friends 8. is in good shape 9. is a problem solver 10. understands that as money is something important in life, theres many things more important then money
A high value man has morals and standards in his professional life and his personal life and always stands by them!!! Thank you for your Channel such high value content
High-value men really set the bar with their ethical standards, don’t they? They’re all about fairness and giving everyone a shot. It’s that commitment to equality in the game of life that truly makes a difference.
I really appreciate this series, it's great for the most part but the one thing that really sucks about this series is that it places so much value on a person's economic status. Money doesn't determine whether someone will be kind, intelligent, talented or willing to strive for excellence. Having money, being able to generate money or just simply printing money are formalities of being in this society and yes I understand how important money is, I have to pay my bills and enjoy life too, but money isn't the top priority in my life. If I made an impact with my works as an artist or by sharing what I've experienced as a person and it affects people's lives for the better, no one will care if I died rich or poor, they will only care about how I affected their lives
I disagree. Listen carefully to values presented and you will realize that money is only the tool to measure success. The laws of success operate to achieve whatever goal is set. A millionaire boss was once helping an employee with the employee's goals. He told the young man that one.of his goals should be to become a millionaire "...because of what it will make of you." To become a millionaire will require that you work on yourself. "More money only makes you more of what you already are."
@@lexforsaken1404 I'm not successful as a human being and an upstanding member of society? I'm an artist and a teacher in the public school system I'm going into the final year of my Master's degree this fall. Coming from my circumstances where none of the males in my family have completed a bachelor's degree, having spent time in prison myself as a teenager and young adult to now having been in a book, several articles, an art show for HBO, a short video about my art by an award winning production studio, several scholarships to attend school, etc. I can provide links to everything that I mentioned if you're interested. All of these achievements have not made me rich but they have allowed me to experience a much more substantially fulfilling life. I may not be paid as much as an entertainer but I get paid to teach future entertainers and here money certainly doesn't measure my success. Some people are born with money and most people see that as having inherent value when they were just fortunate to be born with money.
@@highpointadvisors9314 Success as a human being or success as an oligarchy? How will having more money suddenly make me a person who cares about helping others? Because I can assure you I'm successful at that. Do I need to pay someone to help an elderly woman carry her bags or to help a woman up the stairs? Do I need to be working hard to become a millionaire or can I be a teacher and an artist spend quality time with my son while I can still afford to pay my rent and bills? Or should I focus on chasing more money instead? Money isn't the most important thing in the world, countenance of character is far more important. Some of these millionaires are happy to lie, cheat and steal in order to secure their money, and they'll even brag about it when they get away with it. Chasing money and being rich isn't the most important thing when it comes to being a valuable person or living a good quality of life
The Rules of Success are what they are. They can be used to accomplish noble goals, or to accomplish illicit objectives. Noble goals may be accomplished with money, or with time, but always with great thought. Each of us contributes in his/her own way ACCORDING TO THE VALUES THEY HAVE SETTLED UPON. These may be settled upon consciously (be choice), or unconsciously (instilled by family, society, etc.), or, more likely, a combination of the two. Thank you, and best wishes, to all those who responded.
High value men also control their emotions when things go left, they're direct with women in a confident and smooth way, they have a lot of self-care (hygiene, skin care routine, shaving, wearing nice clothes, cologne, etc) and they don't take no sh*t from anyone.
This was great, all the way up to the last two minutes. High value man or men who aspire to be high value never allow other people to tell them how to live and who to listen to.
Alux constantly provides insights into the world of the successful and wealthy. Rarely anyone else does so. Their content is pure GOLD and I highly appreciate it.
my HIGH VALUE MAN is my guiding star...because, unlike me, he never gave up on me. and for this i am truly grateful. if i thought for one minute that i might make his world a worse place,then i would walk away. he deserves the best and i am going to make sure he gets it. thank you for listening.
G*O*L*D As a woman on her own journey , I would add .. A high value man is someone that is feeding and serving others all the time. Even without actual effort , he is inspiring, giving wisdom , teaching and changing others around him to be better. He offers what is great about himself without a fee . He wants to see the better in others around him . He is not a bottom feeder that needs to hold tightly to everything he has as though it’s his last. He knows and is SECURE in his abundance. This is one of the great traits about the future man I desire to keep ❤️
" Gold " Thanks Alux, you guys provide so many affirmations along the way to our acquired financial goals. The acronym RICH is simply { Realizing It Can Happen } and Alux help simplify that Realization every Sunday with incredible content!
Gold. Thank you, Alux! Actually that's what this video is: gold. I'm not there. That said I've always aspired to what I saw as the qualities of being a HVM. These points bring it to a new level for me. For me, some of these items are "yes", some are "no", all of them are inspiring. I knew this would be a day of reconning, a judgement day. I know who and what I am, I know where I am. I know where I can improve, how I can grow. Thank you, Alux.
On the way of searching honor, I realised after Elijah Vampire that only a man of value can have eternal honor. *This is the best content so far* Alux never disappoints me, been ages in short 17 years yet again I got back on quality content's track
Rest in power to great Kevin Samuels, the guy who made the high value conversation popular. Now everyone wants to talk about it. Give credit were credit is due.
A highly valuable man is the kind of person who knows exactly whether he is worth the weight of gold and possesses the kind of characteristics that he passes by in silence, but if we're going to answer according to what you said at the end and in the form of a question, I am definitely Gold. & thank you for your sharing.
High Value Men (HVM) are not those who earn income based on the number of clicks on a video "telling" others how to be a HVM. HVM do not waste their time and energy telling others that they are high value. They just are.
A high value man is some one who can do everything you just said. But can also survive in jungles like in the Amazon or Congo and knows how to hunt and kill and clean and cook food and build a home and basically do ever our ansisters knew how to do back in the beginning of civilization. I'm not Rich at all but I will be one-day and idk want to be one of these successful human beings who doesn't know how to start a fire or hunt or knows how to fight. This is the ultimate high value man in my opinion. What do y'all think 🤔
It's an awakening & inspirational. I really appreciate the thoughtfulness that indeed boosts one's routine constant journey of educating himself in the seamless world. GOLD.
Gold .. There's a saying in Arabic that goes like this .. "a hen always yearns for the scraps, even if its cage made of gold and fed well" I lived enough to spot a low-value man and a high-value man, and the difference between the two is astronomical
Gold. I have met high status individuals who became susceptible to their own confidence in a way that turned negative. It is sometimes called the Bathsheeba syndrome. It is a situation where high levels of success and adulation over time have convinced them that anything they want is automatically right and good for everyone. It can lead to distortions in relationships, leadership and outcomes. It can even lead to corruption. This toxic attitude creeps into their lives without them ever knowing it. Maybe they just needed better friends to keep their compasses true.
I mostly disagree about what makes a High Value Man. In my opinion, this type of man is an obsessive person with actual little care about their own mental health (if this is not getting in the way of achieving their goals) and little care about about the people surrounding them. They are just there to fulfill their addiction to money and power and yes, they are going to have a mid-life crisis, not because they are getting older but because they have achieved so many things that there will be no more meaningful achievements to them (the movie UP! shows that). We are all subject to luck, and despite how much things we learn and how many coaches we hire, a lot of things in our lives are and will ever be out of our control, denying that this fact does not play a role is a intellectual dishonesty that several writers of autobiographies do in order to sell their books. And for me a High Value Man is not just a man that lives up only for their selfish goals but a person that care for the others too!
GOLD. A High Value Man also marries a woman who shares similar qualities that he possesses. Otherwise, the man (high value or not) ends up with a woman who might be a “trophy wife,” or “eye candy,” but ends up in a co-dependent relationship in which the wife becomes a blood-, life- sucking leach and drains a man of his value in every way, this is why it’s so important for a HVM to marry a HVW - in which both enter into marriage as equals and they both become more and better human beings, in all areas of life as a result. Too many “gold digging,” LVW show up at events flirting with HVM thinking that HVM will fall for them. Most self-aware, confident and assertive men can spot these women in a number of ways, and truly avoid them.
Some of parts of this video remind me about the incident that occurred from Amarillo, TX to Salt Lake City, UT. The haters have pursuit me and stole everything I have worked for until I remained in the same cloths that I wore for several months due to privacy invasion, but hey, I never gave up pursuing my little goals because I believe in myself that I can do it all over again.
I know a guy who is 71 years old still workout at the gym. Lifts more weight than a lot of guys and has had business and handover it to his children. Me and one of my friend was talking that we want to be like him. He’s a great motivation and he is very friendly and would tell us anything
Absolute fucking W bruhv
Gold
@@rashoietolan3047 IKR I told my friends okay that’s who I want to be when I grow up.
@@matthewbaker5281 indeed
Would love to mee that 71 year old man.
Proper manners in any situation is what also makes a man of high value.
GOLD
A high value man has a genuine love and compassion for those around him. He understands that having love for others and experiencing genuine love back is true wealth. Those around him feel his love and compassion and people are drawn to him.
this is true! Ive been thru provertish situations and money issues handled and I much rather be broke with a love one there than to have money and be alone
Nonsense. Just a bunch of sappy crap. If it makes you feel good about your self why not I guess
This is definitely someone that I can enjoy but I’d never rather be broke…that’s the reason for failed relationships…that’s why I worked so hard. He would have had to do the same. Therefore, if he gets hit by a Mack truck, he did his do diligence and secured the future as I did if I got hit by a Mack truck. 🤷🏽♀️
It feels great that I am a HVM but I am a women. 😂 It’s called equal yolk…but with the ability to be an asset, to follow, inspire, support, high EQ, loyal, youthful, beauty fitness routine, achieved elite status, nurturing, great reputation, live on sound principles, godly, generous and self aware.
✝️🙏🏽💜
1.Integrity------,GOLD
2.Honesty
3.Ethics
4.Keeping ones word
5.Character
6.Drive/Self Confidence
7.Class
8.Gravitas
9.Self control/Discipline
10.Purpose
11.Principles
12.Relentless
13.Self Respect/Reputation
God blessed me with one of these.
You have thirteen gems. They don't seem to be in any particular order.
My husband has all, I feel so lucky ❤
@@m.s9146are you a woman fitting for a guy like this
1. Authenticity
2. Emotional intelligent
3. Self Love/Care
4. Integrity
5. Always learning
💯👍🏾
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and rich, don't forget the rich part lol
@@SteamedBunX all those points will ideally make you rich
@@TheAlchemist1089 no it's not, you're delusional son
20:53 “Any man who must say 'I am king' is no true king at all.” - Tywin Lannister
Emotional intelligence and treats his partner right. GOLD
This kind of educational content always makes my day. There’s so much value in these videos, pure GOLD. Consider this the value I’d like to add: « A high value man gets to live his life on his own terms. » Thanks again ALUX
Great!
THE TYPE OF A WIFE, OR A WOMAN IS THE REFLECTION OF A HIGH VALUE MAN.
as a Woman, my MAN makes me a High VALUE Woman along with how much myself is.
"The legacy of a man is his children and his work."
This channel is amazing
“You can’t be a high value man in your twenties because you haven’t been through enough life to acquire wisdom” good thing i started going through life at 14🙂
But they expect you to be a wealthy, high value woman in your early 20’s. How the hell does that work if you’re not born into wealth.
@@daydream2609 for women i guess she has to work really hard just like a man and become high value at like 27-32 since it doesn’t take as much money to be a high value woman as a high value man
@@AOATRADING women become high value in their 30s and 40s
That's true! Dumb and fake people dont understand it!
HIGH VALUE PEOPLE HAVE NO PLAN B'S. THEY FOCUS ON THEIR PURPOSE & THAT COULD TAKE UP TO 20 YEARS PLUS. THERE'S NO OVERNIGHT SUCCESS TO THEM. FREEDOM IS TO HAVE NO ONE OWNING YOU. PERIOD.!
I won't lie, this video slapped me right out of bed to at least do something now instead of waiting for the day I recover.
A BONUS: A high value man doesn't watch TV when they are sick, they see it as an advantage to reflect, adjust plans (if needed), read and learn more
HE stole KS work and trying to package as his own DONT SUPPORT THIS THIEF UNLESS HE GIVES CREDIT TO KEVIN SAMUELS ....
Seems a little unrealistic. I mean, it Depends how sick you are and what type of illness. I don't have much patience when I am sick. All my thought goes to getting myself back to wellness and getting a lot of rest.
Relaxing is important.
please rest
@@THECRYPTOHANGOUTI'll take that as a compliment
"11. Master of Probability, not Luck" priceless advice! Thank you for putting this video together Alux team!
I’m only 24. But I’m gonna get there and be the man I’m suppose to be💪🏾
I am also 24 bro
Damn right . Your gonna make it
Spot on
Im 24 as well
Let's do it
Reputation and legacy - Totally agree on this! The selection of the other half is very important to create the family and the desired legacy.
Gold
Currently working on become a HVM. At one point during Summer 2020 I ate Dominos Pizzas, drank 4 cans of Baja Blast and watched Malcolm in the Middle all day. Now I picked up martial arts, started eating more vegetables and have an interview at a prestigious firm.
EDIT: I got the job. Time to level up :)
Wow Congratulations brother. Would like to hear more of your life updates.
You’re doing well man! Any updates???
@@niidarko9115 his time is to valuable
Gold. A high value man also knows that his legacy can also be carried by others as well hence he feels obligated to uplift children and his community as whole.
It might seem very ovwewhelming when your at the bottom … i was there … but instead of looking at the end … try to focus on the next couple of steps and then after that the next couple of steps will unfold … be patient and keep grinding … we got this Aluxers 💯🔥
My husband is a high value man. Both men and women speak highly of him. So blessed. He is such a good man! ❤️
I know a man, who is 64 years old, and and always make sure that his family is well off.he is the best father in the world. and he always put others first always dressed nicely very polite. that a self-confident man.
I thought you knew my husband until I read "dressed nicely". Sometimes I am with my husband to run errands in the middle of his work day while still in his work clothes. Got to love it.
Number 14 hit hard. I always tell myself, once I learn how to do a job or exercise, if you take it away, I'll know how to get it back! Nice work on this video.
Kevin Samuel really put these words out. RIP KS!
Where did KS get his information from?
👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
@@cslaton921 white men
@@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 They act like KS put out original content.
Please KS is the peacocking low value man she's talking about parading around as high value. High value men don't talk about it. They just are
Bob Proctor was the pinnacle of a high value man. He’s created a lot of other high value people throughout his lifetime. He will be missed.
The great thing about this video is that it informs many men who think they are high value when in fact, they are not. Thank you Alux.
Gold! The last few minutes were Mic 🎤 drop moments 👍
@@minorityreport3594 Absolutely!! In case someone still didn't get it. The circus may not always be the greatest show on earth.
Yup
true. the lowest value men think they are high value just because they have a penis. same with low value women who think their vagina is made of gold. both are low value.
GOLD a lot of toxic men on YT posting videos and claiming to be HVM, when they are quite the opposite. Loved this.
My problem with this list is that most of these are things that will happen automatically AFTER you become high value, as opposed to things you can tweak in order to BECOME high value. There's not really any actionable take-away to "High value men are recognized by their high value peers." for example. That's an effect of being high value, not something you can change to make yourself high value.
Also, I've always been annoyed by advice to the effect of "Surround yourself with successful people." because the constraints of my living situation mean that I'm constantly surrounded by losers and there's not much I can do about it. I live in disability housing in the middle of a de facto retirement community, so there's not much in the way of social venues in my area, and everyone's doing everything through Zoom nowadays anyway, so it's impossible to meet people IRL. I also can't just relocate to somewhere with an increased standard of living because my mental health issues prevent me from holding down a job for more than a few months at a time (and I'm not talking about some bullshit pop culture diagnosis like depression, I'm a legit schizo). I don't surround myself with losers by choice, I get surrounded by losers because of my living situation. If there's a place nearby where I can go to meet people who are ambitious and driven, I'd love to hear about it, but even the other students I've met at the local college just spend most of their free time playing video games and watching anime. People say "Surround yourself with people who are ambitious and driven." but where am I supposed to find these unicorns?
I’m glad to see that Kevin Samuels’ message has reached the ears of Alux!!! Kevin’s message has become more powerful since his death than when he was alive. RIP Kevin!!!✊
RIP.
Y'all act like Kevin Samuels invented these concepts - no, he just restated universal truths. Most of his talking points were modeled after Tommy Sotomayor's content, by the way
@@CPT_B nothing is new under the sun who knows how ancient these insights are. Kevin definitely bought them to the mainstream!
Truth Seeker Thank you for your insight and intelligent observation
@truth Seeker. You're right. Alux used his message repackaged it then called him a clown in the same video. But at the same time suggesting that they have integrity.
Having discipline, dedication, firmness, compassion and empathy are also key elements of being high valued, right?
True
No. They weren't in the video for a reason.
This was the one right here! Leaving a legacy behind! Your children, & the work that you've built, with your time here on earth! Thanks for the motivation & inspiration Alux! "GOLD"!..........
It's not ALL about the money, like she masterfully explains. Money, accomplishment, satisfaction, peace and more will always be part of being a high value person..
There were so many relationship points in High Value Women video, but in High Value Men video, it's all about career, nothing much on the character, or what kind of a partner he is. There's a difference between being a good "Provider" and a good "Partner". Being a good provider is a part of being a good partner, but not the other way round.
Just felt like that the two videos somewhere showed as if it's just Men who are leader and Women mere accessories to their life.
Nevertheless the points were good, and they are applicable not only to Men, but also to Women.. So it was kinda GOLD
Yeaa, I was thinking the same. But I think this is something a channel like Alux should be aware of. Totally disappointed
I was coming to comment the same thing. Very disappointing.
Agree.
Yeah, I was kinda disappointed too. They should've just clubbed both videos and made a "High Value Person" list instead.
I liked both videos for sure, but it does feel like women are the supporting cast to men.
people like just like to poke Negatives out of everything, Knowledge can be applied anywhere.
Philippians 2:3
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. That is the highest value.
“It's never the circumstances that determine success in life but what you DO with the current bad circumstances that determines your success in life.” - Dani Johnson. Incredible person reading this, have an awesome day! I believe in you! Love ~ Nat ✨❤️
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Asé. Peace.
A lot of people are up against harsh obstacles, but with people having their personal lives, might not be able to imagine thee things that other people do. Somethings people do are not understandable.
@@cedricsmith8188 Make that make sensui?
Shabbat Shalom Grandrising
About to be 25, I am trying to grow and working on it a slow process but I am slowly getting there, every day
This series is helping me with my relationships.
Happy to help Shawn
The major hurdles in the early portion of the high value man's career involve building self-confidence and creating one’s reputation. Once that's well-cemented the next phase is about making one's mark...
Alux is encouraging our generation to became better. Thanks for your content!
Gold
The stock market has been a really tough one this past months, but I watched an interview on CNBC where the anchor ‘Jim Cramer’ kept mentioning "...KARINA MATTIS...". This prompted me to get in touch with her, and from October 2021 till now we have been working together, and I can now boast of $540k in my trading portfolio.
Good one, working with her also helped accumulate up to 350k in my trading portfolio.
I am a beginner and I am hoping to start with $93,000. I hope this is not too small to start with because my dream is to attain my financial goals within a short period of time.
Sure you can start with that amount and even less. With a proper financial guidance, you can build a small amount to a larger sum.
Seeing the name Karina Mattis made me stop to read your comment. I can attest to the fact that getting in touch with Ms. Karina during the pandemic was how I was able to scale through the crazy stock downtrend and this helped saved my finance
I just looked up this person KARINA MATTIS out of curiosity, and surprisingly she seems proficient. I thought this was just some overrated BS, I appreciate this.
This video might just be your pinnacle. SO MANY nuggets and great advice. Things you thought you might’ve been but you’re actually not, but plenty of info to put you in a position to plan what you need to do to reach HVM status. This video is truly a wake up call.
A high value Man sticks to his word.
I will continue to say this, Alux gives Us Content that We Never Knew We Needed! & With this COLD SHOWER, It's Mos Def. a reality check and at the same time Motivation for Me to aspire to aim Higher! Solid GOLD, thank you ALUX!💯🔥💪🏾😏
The silent but valuable shade is this video is unparalleled. Great job to the team 😂
Moves but is unmoved!
Is stoic!
Listens before answering!
Calm in the mist of chaos!
Gold!
Gold
Thanks Alux for being a High Value UA-cam Channel
Obviously not all of us are "high value," but most of us could be "increasing value" if we decide to be and stick to it. I only meet four of these 15 criteria at best, but I'm an introvert and can live without many of them.
i have a couple critiques regarding this Alux opinion of what is considered "Value"able in a man. 1) just because someone makes a lot of money and has a comfortable income does NOT automatically mean that they are kind or compassionate- case in point my father. while I grew up upper middle class, it was without the love that SHOULD go along WITH the luxury. 2) Also, NOT everyone has the ability to organize or plan. Anything, really. some men are ADHD, which negates that trait. you know who else is ADHD? Will Smith ..and you KNOW he's successful ; but I bet you that he couldn't plan or organize anything without a secretary or someone helping him to be able to think that way
Gold. I never miss Alux and always improve my life with ALUX contents. Love Alux
Good for you Festus
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Gold. Men need to be kind, honest in every part of there life. A sense of humor and a motivational drive to get what
there after.. knowledge is power, but never be a know it all. Kindness is also powerful...
A high value man can also help others see and draw out the potential and value form within themselves. That man does not merely make others feel good about themselves but that they are capable of changing their own lives.
GOLD
I got inspired by you video about the high value women!
I know I’m not there yet, but I’m striving to get there…
HIGH VALUE MEN ALWAYS KEEP GETTING BETTER AND BETTER AT
1.PHYSICALLY
2.MENTALLY
3.EMOTIONALLY
4.SPIRITUALLY
LEVEL
A high value man also give back not just to family but to the world around him. Also see potential in others that work hard cause he doesn't look down at the average hard worker.
Dear Alux, you are really doing a great job of mentoring and positively impacting this generation. This channel is of inestimable value 👌
“Put a clown on a thrown and the entire kingdom becomes a circus” 💎💎💎
Another reason why empires Rise and fall
Not "thrown" but "throne"
Yes, a lot of clowns coming into the comments today about LVM being HVM
Happily married to one over 2 decades. I’m so grateful.
Maintenance of a standard helps here as well. It takes discipline and character to keep yourself up, though never always perfect. ALUX showcases this routinely 🧡.
“Become high value first and then talk about it” ❤
Kevin Samuels work finally getting the recognition it deserves
#facts RIP to the Godfather
Where do you think KS got his information from? KS twisted real high-value men standards.
@@cslaton921 from studies and surveys but a lot of it is common sense. Maybe the term “high value man/woman” wasn’t used but common sense should tell you a bummy broke guy or an entitled single mom isn’t a high value person. Just look at the term high value, how valuable are you to the people around you and the world in general
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Nothing Kevin Samuels said made him a HVM, he was most definitely a LVM some coming on here probably did not understand this video, because nowhere here did I see that to be a HVM you need to hate on women to make a living.
Gold
A high-value man is independent. He doesn't need a woman by his side to cook for him, clean his home or wash his clothes. He chooses whether to invite a woman into his home, and who to invite into his home.
Why didn't you talk about HVM as being good fathers and partners? What characteristics do they need to be good family men?
I don’t think ALUX finds those characteristic to be valuable in men. Disappointing. I didn’t find much in this video that would draw me to a HVM if I was a HVW. What’s the appeal on a romantic or marital partnership level??
High value man, self respect, honesty, compassion etc. "Gold".
More people were listening to Kevin Samuel's content than we would ever know
“I have believed the best of every man. And find that to believe is enough to make a bad man show him at his best, or even a good man swings his lantern higher.”
- William Butler Yeats.
It is possible to manage people this way and, no surprise, they tend to rise to the expectation and then feel better and more confident about themselves and perform at even higher levels going forward.
"talking down to women and making money off the recordings" thank you for that you are GOLD alux.
high value,
1. is married to a loyal traditional woman,
2. is honest
3. always keeps to his word
4. is a good leader
5. puts his health and family first
6. surrounds himself with people who think like they have already achieved their goals
7. has good friends
8. is in good shape
9. is a problem solver
10. understands that as money is something important in life, theres many things more important then money
A high value man has morals and standards in his professional life and his personal life and always stands by them!!!
Thank you for your Channel such high value content
High-value men really set the bar with their ethical standards, don’t they? They’re all about fairness and giving everyone a shot. It’s that commitment to equality in the game of life that truly makes a difference.
I really appreciate this series, it's great for the most part but the one thing that really sucks about this series is that it places so much value on a person's economic status. Money doesn't determine whether someone will be kind, intelligent, talented or willing to strive for excellence. Having money, being able to generate money or just simply printing money are formalities of being in this society and yes I understand how important money is, I have to pay my bills and enjoy life too, but money isn't the top priority in my life. If I made an impact with my works as an artist or by sharing what I've experienced as a person and it affects people's lives for the better, no one will care if I died rich or poor, they will only care about how I affected their lives
money is a common yardstick of success, if you are not willing to measure yourself on some kind of scale, you are cheating yourself
I disagree. Listen carefully to values presented and you will realize that money is only the tool to measure success. The laws of success operate to achieve whatever goal is set.
A millionaire boss was once helping an employee with the employee's goals. He told the young man that one.of his goals should be to become a millionaire "...because of what it will make of you."
To become a millionaire will require that you work on yourself. "More money only makes you more of what you already are."
@@lexforsaken1404 I'm not successful as a human being and an upstanding member of society? I'm an artist and a teacher in the public school system I'm going into the final year of my Master's degree this fall. Coming from my circumstances where none of the males in my family have completed a bachelor's degree, having spent time in prison myself as a teenager and young adult to now having been in a book, several articles, an art show for HBO, a short video about my art by an award winning production studio, several scholarships to attend school, etc. I can provide links to everything that I mentioned if you're interested. All of these achievements have not made me rich but they have allowed me to experience a much more substantially fulfilling life. I may not be paid as much as an entertainer but I get paid to teach future entertainers and here money certainly doesn't measure my success. Some people are born with money and most people see that as having inherent value when they were just fortunate to be born with money.
@@highpointadvisors9314 Success as a human being or success as an oligarchy? How will having more money suddenly make me a person who cares about helping others? Because I can assure you I'm successful at that. Do I need to pay someone to help an elderly woman carry her bags or to help a woman up the stairs? Do I need to be working hard to become a millionaire or can I be a teacher and an artist spend quality time with my son while I can still afford to pay my rent and bills? Or should I focus on chasing more money instead? Money isn't the most important thing in the world, countenance of character is far more important. Some of these millionaires are happy to lie, cheat and steal in order to secure their money, and they'll even brag about it when they get away with it. Chasing money and being rich isn't the most important thing when it comes to being a valuable person or living a good quality of life
The Rules of Success are what they are. They can be used to accomplish noble goals, or to accomplish illicit objectives. Noble goals may be accomplished with money, or with time, but always with great thought.
Each of us contributes in his/her own way ACCORDING TO THE VALUES THEY HAVE SETTLED UPON. These may be settled upon consciously (be choice), or unconsciously (instilled by family, society, etc.), or, more likely, a combination of the two.
Thank you, and best wishes, to all those who responded.
A SELF MADE MAN, HIGH VALUED MAN, ONE OF A KIND, A MAN OF MEN, A MAN OF HONOUR, ALL OF THESE HAVE ONE THING IN COMMON. THEY VALUE THEIR INDIVIDUALITY.
Ohhh great video Alux specially for men like us who are stuck in a bad situation 🙂!!!! We need real masculinity.
#Keep_Grinding_Brothers
High value men also control their emotions when things go left, they're direct with women in a confident and smooth way, they have a lot of self-care (hygiene, skin care routine, shaving, wearing nice clothes, cologne, etc) and they don't take no sh*t from anyone.
This was great, all the way up to the last two minutes. High value man or men who aspire to be high value never allow other people to tell them how to live and who to listen to.
Alux constantly provides insights into the world of the successful and wealthy. Rarely anyone else does so. Their content is pure GOLD and I highly appreciate it.
Kevin Samuels already told you -- You want a HVM when "you are average at best?" "Can't make this sh@t up!" The godfather legacy lives on!
Yes it does he tried to warn them that they were asking for to damn much
Did you listen to the bonus point?
@@robinmahan101 typical S.I.G.N. language but at the end of the day she made every last 1 of his points
@@robinmahan101 No. No, they did not.
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my HIGH VALUE MAN is my guiding star...because, unlike me, he never gave up on me.
and for this i am truly grateful. if i thought for one minute that i might make his world a worse place,then i would walk away. he deserves the best and i am going to make sure he gets it. thank you for listening.
G*O*L*D
As a woman on her own journey , I would add ..
A high value man is someone that is feeding and serving others all the time. Even without actual effort , he is inspiring, giving wisdom , teaching and changing others around him to be better. He offers what is great about himself without a fee . He wants to see the better in others around him . He is not a bottom feeder that needs to hold tightly to everything he has as though it’s his last. He knows and is SECURE in his abundance.
This is one of the great traits about the future man I desire to keep ❤️
GOLD
We also value our Health Mind, Body and Spiritual Wellbeing.
Great content as always, Alux. Thank you
" Gold " Thanks Alux, you guys provide so many affirmations along the way to our acquired financial goals. The acronym RICH is simply { Realizing It Can Happen } and Alux help simplify that Realization every Sunday with incredible content!
Where did Alux get the term ""High Value Man"" from?=Kevin Samuels and the Black Manosphere..sure Alux been watching them.
GOLD! High value men takes care of the people around him but also dosent let people to walk all over him
Gold. Thank you, Alux! Actually that's what this video is: gold. I'm not there. That said I've always aspired to what I saw as the qualities of being a HVM. These points bring it to a new level for me. For me, some of these items are "yes", some are "no", all of them are inspiring. I knew this would be a day of reconning, a judgement day. I know who and what I am, I know where I am. I know where I can improve, how I can grow. Thank you, Alux.
On the way of searching honor, I realised after Elijah Vampire that only a man of value can have eternal honor.
*This is the best content so far* Alux never disappoints me, been ages in short 17 years yet again I got back on quality content's track
Rest in power to great Kevin Samuels, the guy who made the high value conversation popular. Now everyone wants to talk about it. Give credit were credit is due.
A highly valuable man is the kind of person who knows exactly whether he is worth the weight of gold and possesses the kind of characteristics that he passes by in silence, but if we're going to answer according to what you said at the end and in the form of a question, I am definitely Gold. & thank you for your sharing.
High Value Men (HVM) are not those who earn income based on the number of clicks on a video "telling" others how to be a HVM.
HVM do not waste their time and energy telling others that they are high value. They just are.
So true. I think a few commentators have missed that part, they were clearly not listening to this carefully
Absolutely loved the ending. Couldn’t have said it better.
After low value man, you know we have been waiting for this
We had to
A high value man is some one who can do everything you just said. But can also survive in jungles like in the Amazon or Congo and knows how to hunt and kill and clean and cook food and build a home and basically do ever our ansisters knew how to do back in the beginning of civilization. I'm not Rich at all but I will be one-day and idk want to be one of these successful human beings who doesn't know how to start a fire or hunt or knows how to fight. This is the ultimate high value man in my opinion. What do y'all think 🤔
It's an awakening & inspirational. I really appreciate the thoughtfulness that indeed boosts one's routine constant journey of educating himself in the seamless world.
GOLD.
Gold ..
There's a saying in Arabic that goes like this .. "a hen always yearns for the scraps, even if its cage made of gold and fed well"
I lived enough to spot a low-value man and a high-value man, and the difference between the two is astronomical
I would say high value men are also well read people
High value man control their own time . Not highest income and not working for someone's company. Enlightening !!
Thanks so much alux, keep up the good work, you guys should write some books and offer online workshops, because you are always adding value
Gold. I have met high status individuals who became susceptible to their own confidence in a way that turned negative. It is sometimes called the Bathsheeba syndrome. It is a situation where high levels of success and adulation over time have convinced them that anything they want is automatically right and good for everyone. It can lead to distortions in relationships, leadership and outcomes. It can even lead to corruption. This toxic attitude creeps into their lives without them ever knowing it. Maybe they just needed better friends to keep their compasses true.
I mostly disagree about what makes a High Value Man. In my opinion, this type of man is an obsessive person with actual little care about their own mental health (if this is not getting in the way of achieving their goals) and little care about about the people surrounding them. They are just there to fulfill their addiction to money and power and yes, they are going to have a mid-life crisis, not because they are getting older but because they have achieved so many things that there will be no more meaningful achievements to them (the movie UP! shows that). We are all subject to luck, and despite how much things we learn and how many coaches we hire, a lot of things in our lives are and will ever be out of our control, denying that this fact does not play a role is a intellectual dishonesty that several writers of autobiographies do in order to sell their books. And for me a High Value Man is not just a man that lives up only for their selfish goals but a person that care for the others too!
GOLD. A High Value Man also marries a woman who shares similar qualities that he possesses. Otherwise, the man (high value or not) ends up with a woman who might be a “trophy wife,” or “eye candy,” but ends up in a co-dependent relationship in which the wife becomes a blood-, life- sucking leach and drains a man of his value in every way, this is why it’s so important for a HVM to marry a HVW - in which both enter into marriage as equals and they both become more and better human beings, in all areas of life as a result. Too many “gold digging,” LVW show up at events flirting with HVM thinking that HVM will fall for them. Most self-aware, confident and assertive men can spot these women in a number of ways, and truly avoid them.
This video is indeed GOLD!
Can't wait for the next video on what it takes to be a high value couple!
Alux ✨is the best on UA-cam 🎥
We agree
Like the integrity part of high value, or authentic not fake. Might add loyalty too. Gold. The show glitters as usual.
Value build on a valuable foundation provided to add to value to valuable individuals. Hats off to Alux team for such amazing content ❤️
Some of parts of this video remind me about the incident that occurred from Amarillo, TX to Salt Lake City, UT. The haters have pursuit me and stole everything I have worked for until I remained in the same cloths that I wore for several months due to privacy invasion, but hey, I never gave up pursuing my little goals because I believe in myself that I can do it all over again.