It time either apply to you or they don’t. Plus had you listened to the entire video you would know there was a #16 already. Sounds like you got offended and couldn’t listen anymore.
Saw PewDiePie's video and came here to say that if you're a young kid, don't listen to this video. 10 year old me would watch this and believe it, dont be like 10 year old me
More like Bad Men (strong or weak) create hard times. Hard times create uncivilized brutish men and women. Brutish men and women create good times ONLY for themselves. Good Times for ONLY themselves cripple society as a whole. Crippled Societies are eclipsed by societies that value and uplift the weak.
Gi generation create economic surplus Baby boomers create economic deficits and generational vampirism Shitty economy creates millennials Millienials create new economy New economy creates new generation of jackasses
It's actually hilarious, despite the obviously overly nerdy concept when you call someone it after a few seconds they figure out what it means and it really offends them.
The same types of idiots that call their channel 'luxurious' unironically. The channel is just clickbait. We fell for it evidently so all we could do is either dislike the hell out of this video, reported it so it gets flagged or make the comment section the most toxic thing in the world just out of spite.
@@unknowns78 if a famous person made a toxic video even a week ago then they would be called out on it and ridiculed and people would try to cancel them (even though that’s now what people should do to them). I don’t feel like this channel should get special treatment.
@@user-uy5py5ih2t Dont compare 1 week with 3 years. And I'm not denying that it is toxic but I really don't see a reason for still being mad because for me it's not that bad. And the cancel culture is a joke
@endeegetto that not depression depression doesn't go way is metal health there different types depression yes everyone have experience sadness and grief and then they moving on but depression doesn't work like that. I'm not say depression is rare depression is common worlds.
@@Steve-kr5xn He’s probably not just calling out the bullshit is all I can think, like if someone says something stupid I’m gonna have something to say back, not in a way that seems like I’m hurt but in a assertive way I guess.
@@bobbyhill4118 sounds like you got a big ego bud. I hope you get that taken care of, because I know from experience that can fuck you over. You know the saying, the bigger they are....
I'm actually sad that some people actually believe in the alpha/beta male thing. They don't even know that it was based on an outdated and false theory of how wolfpacks worked.
Yup. If a woman believes this crap, she probably also believes in 'star signs', drop her and get away. Psychology 101 is too advanced for this video. And yes, I took psych in college, my prof would have laughed his ass off at this shit. Her 15th reason had me rolling though! "Oh and if you don't like me and my video bashing on you, YOU ARE A BETA!" Way to cover yourself, hon. Bless her heart lmao.
Number 15 is basically saying: "If you don't agree, you're just wrong!", so you can't say anything against the things being said, because you give in to being a beta... lol 😂
@@jahzealjr6810 I mean half of these points don’t really make sense like the hating life one can be linked to depression which is uncontrollable and the not having sex one is normally linked to religion or it being illegal in their country
@@moussamiller4812 nah they r all shitty points. just let people do what they want and stop making them feel like shit just bc they enjoy doing something or don’t wanna do anything. Like wtf do they expect me to do just start a business and start training to become an Olympic runner or something?
@@lemons3703 Nah my dude. I don’t let the word “Beta-male” interfere with my life. If you think words cause me distress, then you haven’t been on the internet very long
@@lemons3703 That’s the dumbest reply I’ve read on the internet for a while. I got you dead to rights, and the only response you can give is that I used the word distress instead of hurt? Lmao...
1) You don't feel like your life is getting better by the day 2) You never faced your bullies 3) You rely on others (family, friends) to make decisions for you 4) You are physically weak 5) You get friendzoned 6) You can't say no and stand your ground 7) Your friends make fun of you / don't treat you as an equal 8) Your existence largely centers around pastimes (video games, movies, shows, etc) 9) You make excuses 10) You have no sense of style 11) You don't look at people in the eye when you talk to them / you get nervous around people 12) You barely have any sex / you have bad sex 13) You actually have a big ego, but you can't control it / it is fragile 14) You are a follower 15) You feel offended by this video
Rev GC I agree this is a mix of of both alpha and beta, to say someone like bill gates who looks very weak is a beta, also to say someone who has good sex and get many women are alpha lmaooo what target audience are these videos for?
Well I did it boys. I woke up at 5 a.m., did some heavy deadlifts, shaved my neckbeard, retired my fedora, unplugged my tv and deactivated multiple accounts, bought myself a nice tailored suit, and then I searched the names of all the kids that bullied me in elementary, knocked on their doors, looked them in the eye and proceeded to beat the shit out of them. I'm getting laid all the time now, but I wouldn't say I'm healthy, as I've acquired a ton of STDs. Very inspirational video!
As long as you can dish it out right back at them they will respect you for it. If you take offence then their insults will take on a different meaning, not that of friendly teasing, but of cruelty. It's an instinctual response in all humans to test each other to test how worthy we all are to be a partner the social group. Because our instincts from thousands of years ago have not gone away.
Mr. Meatballs some of the best insults are funny because they are just brutal with no comedic angle, like telling someone you hope he drowns in his own blood
Yeah, right real friends do make fun of each other but they just make fun of you. They do not encourage you in your works and do not offer constructive criticism.
That's irrelevant and immature to point out because none of the videos on the Alux channel have a male narrator as far as I know. There should be another sign of a beta-male: pointing out the narrator's gender on advice in a youtube video.
There are guys who feel entitled to a relationship or sex with a woman just because they are nice to them but there are also guys who feel entitled to sex or a relationship with a woman just because they are attractive or have a lot of money. Why is it that you see the manipulation in the former but not the latter they are both equally manipulative it's just that one does what works and the other one doesn't. We should hold both types of men equally accountable.
16 Signs You Are a Beta-Male: 1. You don't feel like your life is getting better and better. 2. You never faced your bullies. 3. You rely on others like your family to make your decisions for you. 4. You're physically weak. 5. You're in the friend zone. 6. You can't say no and stand your ground. 7. Even in your circle of friends people make fun of you. 8. Your existence largely centers around pastimes. 9. You make excuses. 10. You have no sense of style. 11. You don't look people in the eye and you're nervous when you talk to them. 12. You don't get laid much and even when you do it's not that great. 13. Actually has a big ego - but can't control it. 14. You're a follower - not a leader. 15. You feel offended by this video. 16. You would rather change the rules than play to win.
What I love about the physically weak thing is when bigger guys fuck with you and you pull out a fire arm to tell them to back off, others are asking wtf is wrong with you and that you might be a pussy. Dude, this guy coming up to me is twice my size. He doesn't give a damn that the match up was "fair." So neither do I.
This video, the comments and their replies kinda prove that these "male" terminologies (alpha, beta, sigma) only create a toxic environment where "beta males" are being segregated and shamed by egoistic "alpha males" for not conforming to their expected standards. I'd say that if you want someone to improve, which is probably what the intended purpose of these terminologies, do it without name calling or shaming.
Offended by made up shit? There's no alpha or beta. Just under capitalism 5% riches fuck everything. Under imperialism everyone fuck everybody just because Empire needs to grow and conquer.
dont be dissapointed bro you gotta be inspired to better yourself man lets get this shit lets become betterpeople i might just sounds like this bc its 4 am and idgaf ubt fuck it bro lets be great
Alpha male : I hate everyone including you. Go to the kitchen. Let's fuck. Beta male : I'm gonna give you 1000€ and you let me fuck you. Both have a bad ending. Or you could change beta and alpha by incel and simp because that's pretty much it. Those two words really don't mean anything, no scientific research or something, just a quest to gain more views.
1. You don't feel your life is getting better and better 2. You never faced your bullies 3. You rely on others like your family to make decisions for you 4. You are physically weak 5. You are in the friendszone 6. You can't say 'NO' & can't stand your ground 7. Even in your circle of friends, people make fun of you 8. Your existence largely centers are pastimes 9. You make excuses 10. You have no sense of style 11. You don't look people in the eye and you're nervous when you talk to them 12. You don't get laid much and even when you do it's not that great 13. Actually has a big ego - but can't control it 14. You are a follower, not a leader 15. You feel offended by this video 16. You would rather change the rules than play to win
Gloria Olivia number 4, you use a female name on the internet because youre a sexually confused little boy who thinks videos.like these.mean anything in the real world.
A female explaining masculinity is like a man telling a woman what it's like to be pregnant and what to expect in their 3rd trimester. Bottom line it makes no damn sense.
Joey T It makes perfect sense because women are not attracted to weak men unless they are very alpha aggressive women who never had a father figure in their lives and want to be in control.
So let me get this straight...a woman can't make an assessment about a person who happens to be a man? That makes no sense. I suppose the only way that could happen is if she is a psychologist?
@@JourneyUninterrupted Well this woman is clearly not a psychologist first of all, second, dear reread my statement. Nowhere did I say "can't". All i said was it makes no sense. Although what she's saying is probably backed by data and studies because betas do exist, she is inserting her own opinion into a set data which she has no experience of unless she indeed was a man.
@@JT3KBV4 and making commentary about "backed data" is fair game. Doesn't matter who the messenger is or vessel. I think the content of what is being said stands on its own merit, so there is no argument. One either subscribes to the definition of Alpha or Beta men or not, has absolutely nothing to do with who states it.
I am introverted but I constantly try to socialise... Introverts find social situations difficult to handle, but the more you put yourself out there, the easier it becomes for you not to be socially awkward!
Yep, while I'm not an alpha through and through I have always tried to be one meeting most of these. I wear my military issued combat boots with shorts (sometimes) in public and don't care what anyone thinks. I think that is the trait of a true alpha, not following the trends and wearing what you want to wear. Some beta's don't care how they look either, but the difference is they don't have any kind of style and usually wear things that scream virgin like a gamer shirt, crocs and shorts that are a little too short.
I think it’s possible to be a very confident male, without having a lot of sex. The quality and meaningfulness of the sex is far better than the quantity. Sometimes you are very confident, successful, and driven, but a women can’t see that. There’s plenty of people who don’t have good lifestyles but still get laid plenty. The ability to seduce is oftentimes based on deception, shallowness, and superficiality. The ability to build relationships takes character, perseverance, and more. Looks only go so far. And honestly, a male that judges his worthiness by the amount of sex he has is indeed a beta male.
Feel that, but only because I can’t stand condoms and I’m not trying to catch something. If the world didn’t have STDs I would be a fuckin super slut lol
It's true there weebs need to realize that it isn't real and stop wasting life over it I've known several people who wouldn't come out their house for weeks because they binj Japanese cartoon's
Refrain from putting women on pedastals, making them the center focal point of your life, and caring what they think about you. This alone will enhance the quality of your life and address many of the points raised in the video.
That, in my view, is the SINGLE way to differentiate yourself from being beta to being Alpha. Want to be "alpha"? Live your life for you. Do what is important for you and your future. Make sure any female you wish to engage in a LTR with is happily willing to fit herself into your life. There will be some compromise of course, but you should complement each other, not you (the man) bending to her life and her way. Stay strong and be your own man. Easy.
The woman in that video sounds like she’s really just pissed off that her boyfriend left her and he does all 15 of the things listed. So she just made that video in hopes that he would watch it
And someone else in the comments also made a great point, REAL alpha males don't explicitly declare themselves as an alpha because its corny. They communicate their confidence nonverbally and they don't feel the need to say "oh I'm alpha" bc they know that the way they carry themselves says everything they need to say about their personality and they also probably don't think about the comparisons between them and others because they love the skin their in and are confident enough in themselves. Y'all lame
Apollo Powell Yeah I agree. When guys say that it seems to me they're trying to convince themselves that they're valid instead of just being confident that they already are.
Gotta agree with Rafee Kazi. Although blunt, his point is solid. Don't change because some random video told you to your traits are bad. Only change for yourself. Many so-called alphas are faking it. They act macho because they're trying to cover up insecurities. Many soy boy beta bitches act like all soft and shit because they think that'll help them get laid. It doesn't matter if you call yourself an alpha, beta, omega, or whatever. You're still a spineless pussy if you don't live your life the way *you* see fit. My advice, do what makes you happy, and give less fucks what others think.
15 signs you're a sigma male: 1- You're harassing females (Based and gamerpilled) 2- You're mentally abusing kids 3- You're killing every animal you see (Gotta help natural selection) 4- You don't wipe after shitting (Waste of Energy) 5- You don't breath (Waste of time) 6- You yell racial slurs in public (these fools gotta know who's the real boss here) 7- You don't pay taxes (only betas pay them) 8- You don't believe in "free" time (free time = fake time) 9- Money over family and friends (you can always buy new one) 10- You play videogames (absolute sigma male thing) 11 - You don't go to gym, The gym is coming to you 12- You're doxxing everybody who disagree with you 13- You bully weaker males (that's how this world works) 14- You don't care about the sex and females (real sigma only cares about the grind) 15- You're not from England (beta country)n
How to be an alpha male 1. Passionately go for what you want 2. Live with an open heart part of being strong is opening up and not fearing the pain involved 3. Respect/love yourself this can cover a whole lot of things but a part that people don't do is value their own time don't waste it
What is considered "interesting", is that being an alpha male, or a beta male depends a lot on your situation. If you are a 140 lb. beta male trying to lift weights, at the gym, you would not be able to compete. But, if that same beta male goes and gets a law degree, and becomes a judge, then, now, HE is an alpha male, because he has power. Sometimes, an accomplished beta male, has more authority and power, than a lot of alphas, who only have looks, swag, and attitude, but very little else. What is, also "interesting", is that given time, a lot of women will start to gravitate toward a beta male, especially, in a few years, when she is a single mom, has gained weight, or has a boring, underpaid job, while the beta male has his master's degree, and a career, at Google, making $150,000 per year. Then, she is on his Facebook page saying, "hey baby, remember me?"
Let's see here: 1. Life is getting better for me 2. I have faced my bullies 3. I don't rely on everyone but myself to make decisions in my life (I am making progress) 4. I am not physically weak 5. I am not allowing myself to be put into the friend zone, instead, I get up and leave when the girl is not worth it 6. I do say no whenever I have to and I am fearless to do so. Disagreeing with people, even when that seems bad, it actually doesn't seem as bad as you might think. It, instead shows, you are your own person. I stand my ground. 7. My friends today, respect me as I respect them 8. I am not stuck in the past, I am motivated to move forward 9. I don't make excuses 10. I make a sense of style, I wear what I want 11. I look people in the eyes when I am talking with them 12. It will happen soon as I am going out more often 13. I have learnt how to control my ego 14. I am a leader 15. I don't feel offended at all by this video. Instead, I feel empathetic towards all the beta males around. Be strong. Be yourself. Do not let others judge you nor underestimate you. You and you alone know yourself better than others. 16. I see the optimistic side of things I am confident of who I am.
Sorry mate but the fact that you literally wrote a bible about what you’ve done or haven’t done according to what this video said is the most beta thing you could’ve done. The worst part is that you did it to literally convince yourself that you’re an alpha. A true alpha wouldn’t give a s about this video, he doesn’t have to convince himself or others that he is an “alpha”
Change Bad things I do 1. Say no not enough 2. Own up and not make excuses 3. struggle to look people in the eye (I actively practice this though) 4. I dont get laid (im 13 though so.. it's fine.)
It's always fun huh? The beta gets al the bad traits and the alpha al the good ones. Ironically all these factors are based on female attraction. Forget the beta/alpha stamp. Be yourself.
I watched these and I think you will find that they are mostly wrong.. they were OFF on quiet a few.. as a women and a sister with 9 brothers and yea I typed that right and I have been married and still married for almost 42 years. trust me when I tell you this whole thing was for brain washing only.. they are wrong.
@@HadouGun LOL!!! They go HAND IN HAND.. BUT nice try.. Who do you think Made Science??? LOL!! I will always go with God.. ALWAYS!! maybe you should try it..
@@Hlorrh40 You are wrong. I am a 37 years old man. I got laid 17 years ago last. I cannot get a girl because am a beta male. All she says is true. I want a girl to see me looking at them yet when they are interested I cannot go beyond greetings. I am nice guy and my cousin is an alpha male. He constantly steal girls from me. It got so bad that now am his wing man. Surprise surprise! If am seducing a girl for somebody else, am a natural! It comes to me so easily. But when they ask about my girlfriend or wife, my cousin shocks them with all my failures. Some tell me that my cousin is using me but I tell them at least I get to speak to beautiful girls that I would never speak to if it wasn't for my cousin!
@@ridwan_z It’s all about time. You can be depressed for a few months and sad forever, but if you’re depressed for years you gotta seek help or at least do something to get better.
IK Cinemas well, I used to be a beta male but I got to a point where I could not stand my existence. So, I quit my religion. I quit my friends bc they made fun of me. I started taking myself more seriously and a log of other changes, getting laid instead of jerking off. I identified myself as a former beta male. There is still room for improvement. Change.
Gelato556 it is true. Lots of my high school friends are like this. Most of them have bad jobs or no jobs. Sadly... but have a lot of knowledge of videogames and anime.
Sama Imad actually I think it’s super Alpha (depending on the person) to go vegan. You’re making a stance against the animal industry and are watching out for your health, which within itself isn’t bad. It’s super beta when you tell others what they can or cant eat and get super emotional about it
Fruit Juice your entire comment is wrong lmfao I’ve been vegan for over two years and even for the majority of that time when I wasn’t taking any vitamins, I’ve never felt like fainting or weak because of my diet. I have a consistent routine of HIIT workouts and cycling, and eat lots of vegetables, fruits, grains, beans, and soy protein and despite what the meme bois want to believe, soy doesn’t make you a soyboy. It’s all a myth and to give their argument any credibility, you’d have to eat a shit ton of soy and have that be probably most of your diet. But diet is all a balancing act anyways, eating all meat or all fruit has their side effects, too.
Fruit Juice that’s funny because vegans actually have the highest intake of complex carbs, good fats, and micronutrients. The only vitamins vegans need is b12 and thats because it doesn’t come from food. And the funny thing is animals are supplemented with B12x
Fruit Juice That’s also somehow a giant lie, as meat and other processed foods have been known to accelerate the aging process due to the body’s overcompensation of Tran fats and unhealthy lipids. Don’t argue with me, I’m a nutrition major whose this close to getting my masters in nutrition, not to mention I’m a PT
1. In a lot of aspects, my life has gotten better but still needs more change. It started when I left my family to be with my wife. And when my family hated the fact I left, I later knew that it was them that was holding me back. 2. I didn’t face my bullies sadly in life. Time to change. 3. Used to, but this came growing up with a misguided parent. 4. Actually I am physical strong! 💪🏼 5. I am newly a husband & father. Been with the same woman for almost 3 years. 6. Sadly, I can relate to this, time to change! 7. Yeah, but friends in general will make fun of you even if you’re an Alpha. 8. I recently got off Social Media and haven’t played video games in 3 years. 9. I DON’T MAKE EXCUSES ANYMORE! 10. Used to, and used to be made fun of because of this. Now, I learned to be a man of style. 11. I have this problem. Once again, from misguided parenting. Time to change! 12. I get laid 3-4 times a week! 13. If I had an big ego, I wouldn’t be watching this and wanting a change. 14. I don’t know how to be a leader, where do I start? Time to change! 15. Not at all, it’s a chance to change my life around and know my flaws. 16. Used to, but I knew I can’t make excuses for my life. 4 flaw points for me. Never too late to change! CHANGE!!!
Does it really matter? Women have completely different point of departure, different ways and even different definitions of success than men. It does not make this video any less valid if she's not successful by scope of success definition for men.
You live a boring life, you struggle to wake up everyday from the never ending nightmare of waking up everyday and having to deal with tens of assholes who make your day an eternal suffering. Youre not depressed, youre just beta.
I used to stand up to bullies, but that was when I had something to prove. Now it just seems tryhard and stupid. It's not worth risking a fist fight. I'm not going to risk brain damage because of my frail ego.
MΛX Conservatives do the same, following the opinions of others, concerning themselves with everyone else but them self. Liberal, conservative, they all disregard their own thoughts for the beliefs of someone they deem higher.
The sad part is that these guys are going to see the criticism of this video and will shrug it off like "beta males beeing mad" this is such a damaging video
I think number 12 is too superficial to be on the list. There are many other reasons that someone isn't sexually active other than being beta. For me, it's because I'm studying abroad and in a long-distance relationship with the girl I love from my home country, and cheating is against my morals. Being unable to control my own desires and betraying my morals is more of a beta (weak) move than alpha (strong). Other than that, some people might not be sexually active because of religious or cultural beliefs (most religions and many Eastern cultures discourage sex without marriage). There's nothing beta in someone controlling their desires for what they believe in. If we think about it it's an Alpha move to control your desires for a purpose or belief. It would be beta if someone desires an active sexual life and fails to get it. Other than that, great video Alux! As always.
How is it beta to have morals and to have a long distance relationship? As this video suggests, betas are the ones who're both physically and psychologically weak, ones that don't take their lives into their hands, and just let others or "situations" decide how to direct their own lives. As the other gentleman said, not having morals is basically bandwagoning to what most people do. Also, having morals of any sort (you have the freedom to choose your own morals) and having the willpower to follow them is a privilege limited to few psychologically strong and disciplined people. I much rather prefer living with the morals and beliefs I pick, rather than living like an animal just following instincts and pleasure. I also don't understand what's beta with having a long distance relationship? As I said in my previous comment, I'm a university student studying abroad all alone, away from my country. To be honest, I feel most comfortable being in a relationship with a girl who I share the same culture and mother tongue with. I'm home in summer and winter breaks, spending quality time with the girl I love for 5 months (I study in Canada, and we have lots of breaks). After that, I'm back to my education without any distraction. This is the life and relationship that I picked, so I don't see how it is beta. I hope you'll get rid of stereotypical thoughts you have, and reach a broader vision which would impact your life positively.
Nationalist, C'mon man. I really really hate doing this, but here it goes. Wake the fuck up. I know you're young and have not been aware of many, many things that have become very well known over the past 5 or so years. If you as a male are in a relationship with a female in which either a) both of you don't cohabitate despite her being older than say 22, or b) she's younger than 22 and lives with her parents and yet you don't see each other at least 4 days/nights a week then it is highly likely that she will cheat on you, unless she has really, really strong morals or has parents who raised her with very functional, traditional or moral values. You must understand male sex drive, female sex drive, proximity to a high-testosterone male in her life, the dynamics of female attraction towards male dominant personality etc. At this age, her pussy yearns to be frequently fucked and filled (of course contraceptives should address the pregnancy issue) around 15 times a month. This will continue well into her mid-30s after which her sex drive will drop quite a bit. As for your sex-drive, you will want to fuck and fill and own your girl in the bedroom, almost everyday or even more and your sex-drive will stabilize in your late 30s but it will still be higher than your girl's until she reaches her 70s and you reach your 80s. So my advice to you is, first, try and do a solid reconnaissance to check if she has thus far cheated on you. If she has, then walk away and try to find a suitable girl worthy of a potential life-long relationship, or else you may go for casual pump and dump. If she hasn't cheated, then you've lucked out. Try to bring her to Canada if you can or else do Skype sex (pathetic substitute, I know) for 7 months a year and for the rest 5 months, own and fuck and also kiss and hold your girl on like 70% of the days. Train her to be a good, dutiful, loyal girl-friend. Tell her - good values and virtues are the greatest traits in a woman and a woman deserves respect, if and only if she exhibits positive feminine attributes towards her solid, dependable man. Tell her - you will have good moderately-romantic-passionate sex and animalistic sex in a frequency ration of 2:1. But that she is expected to lead a responsible life for which she will be cherished by you. However, if leading a responsible, ethical lifestyle in her relationship with you, is something she fails in at any point in the future, then you will dump her ass without any mercy whatsoever. All this, assuming you and she are okay with premarital sex. If you guys are not okay with that, then test her, ask her what values she'd bring onto the table as a wife and then marry her and then execute the above instructions I mentioned - operating on the assumption that marriage and divorce laws are not hyper-gynocentric in your country. All the best, young man.
Progress and Peace 1, First of all, thanks for your advice and your good will, and thanks for taking your time to give a advice. However, I'm aware of many things you're talking about. I think I can call myself a people person, because of my assumptions about people around me turn out to be true. Our culture does not encourage premarital sex, and we're both traditionalists. She was a virgin before meeting me, and she's extremely against cheating. Trust me, if I had the slightest doubt that she could cheat on me I would've told her I can't do it and break up. Also, I trust people extremely hard, and I was friends with her before the relationship. And if she cheats one day, I wouldn't have a problem moving on and finding a proper girl, I'm not one of those dudes who would stay around and forgive after cheating. In fact, cheating is one of the two things unforgivable for me in a relationship, other being lying and keeping secrets (even if they're small scale).
Nationalist, Cool. But answer this question - she *was* a virgin before meeting you, right? In other words, she lost her virginity to you, right? And this happened despite your culture and your girl being traditional and against premarital sex, right? So, don't you see, that under the right parameters, her "morals" did become flexible. So, don't you see that the exact same thing can happen under parameters that are suitable for her drifting towards another man? Hence, my strong suggestion is: She hasn't cheated on you thus far and her morals are still pretty solid. Now's the time, tiger. The time to mark your territory, to plant your flag. If your country does not have anti-common-sense, anti-male divorce laws then go surprise her and marry her first. Then follow the 2:1 type of sex to have with her, that I gave you. And instruct her to do her part as a responsible dutiful wife. In other words, you should not look like a pathetic beta bitch, but like a captain who expects functional standards from his first officer. The things I'm saying are not morally wrong or bad. Women's bodies and their minds have literally evolved to be feel joy in being *owned* _AND_ cherished by masculine men. You know what I mean by "ownership" in this context - playing with her body like she's *your* doll and *taking* every inch of her (but you have to start with foreplay nevertheless; it's just that such a foreplay has to be of the form - you leading and she following your lead) - you can absolutely skip face-slaps and choking, but at minimum you should be pulling her towards you, flipping her, slapping her ass, pulling her hair during doggy sex position, grabbing her ass, thighs etc. looking intensely into her eyes during missionary sex etc. i.e. generally go for male-dominant and highly intimate sex positions. If she asks, why are you doing this, you say because she's *your* girl and sometimes you just feel like having her, trying to become one body in an intense sex session; *that's how much you want her.* Don't disclose your strategy of dominating her sexually, unless she herself brings it up, in which case say ok in a nonchalant manner. And of course, you also need to have tender (not-100%-sexual) intimacy sessions with her 4-5 times a week with her. Simple cuddling, stroking her hair, caressing her, walking together in a park, playing some indoor or outdoor game together, playing or learning to play musical instrument(s) using online lessons, shared hobbies like amateur astronomy, online courses on cosmology, physics, biology etc. are nice too. *Your job is to occupy around 80% of her mind via sexual and non-sexual activities.* Then she will not get drawn to other high-testosterone males and won't cheat. She will still occasionally fight with you on silly issues or may even mildly disrespect you on occasion. Your job is to not become a weak, passive, female-worshipping guy, but to put her in her place in a masculine manner. If she disrespects you, call her out, demand an apology after the heat of the moment has passed, don't beg, but demand and if she says no then tell her you will withhold all affection until she apologizes. And after she does apologize, say "Good girl. Now come here." and then plant a dominant 7 second kiss on her mouth. If however you're at fault, just say, "Yes, your point is correct. I'm at fault in this situation. I'm sorry about so and so thing." And you may think - all this seems tiring, how can I relax? My answer is - all this seems like a lot to do at first. But it is 100% possible and very, very comfortable. You just have to be the dominant leader in your interactions with her both inside and outside the bedroom and for that you first need to visualize yourself as a masculine dominant leader in your relationship dynamic. You are at the top and she is below you and is under your protection and she assists you and you take care of her. And you will still get to sleep 8 hours every day, relax for 30-60 minutes every evening etc. And if you catch a cold, you still obviously can rest and recuperate as much as your body and mind wants. Leading an alpha life is thus perfectly doable. You just need to prepare your mindset accordingly. Exact same process when you have a kid. Alpha fatherhood. Alpha husband. Slightly less sex (but not much less), a bit more time on day-today life responsibilities. A little bit of extra-tiredness at least until your baby turns into a toddler and starts sleeping properly at night. And of course, during those times, you must advice your wife to generously take naps during the daytime to keep her body reasonably charged and fresh for family time and couples' time in the evening and at night. Men enjoy dominating and fucking women and women enjoy being dominated and fucked by masculine men. This is how nature made us. And obviously, in nature there are no limits to sexual debauchery, but in a civilization, within each functional family unit, there has to be lines, boundaries that are not to be crossed - i.e. wild animal sex only within the framework of 1 to 1 exclusivity between husband and wife in a marriage, no other wildness allowed. And that is *enough for both husband and wife to have a very content and fulfilling life together.* In other words, contentment is an art, a choice that is to be practiced and cultivated via meditation, quiet reflection, contemplation etc. by both the husband and wife. But if for whatever reason, she regresses to her inner selfish, discontent animal self and expresses desire for extra wildness with others (while society expects you as a man to not to regress to your inner wild, selfish animal self), that is where she exhibited irresponsibility and extreme disrespect. Just ditch her without any thought whatsoever in such a case. You see, this why I preach that wild sex *should be moderated by* non-sexual intimacy and tender moments and declarations of love (she has to declare her love and gratitude towards you at least 50% of the time and you do the same for her as well). It's all about balance - no sexual deficit, no sexual debauchery excess. Just like food - don't starve yourself to become anorexic and don't overeat either. So, to summarize, if your girl is a good girl, don't leave a vacuum in her mind. Go make her your wife and fuck her and assign her xyz responsibilities (it could well be studies, music lessons as well - but the template is - you give her tasks, she does them and you say good girl and then kiss her). And after graduating, establish a traditional domestic setup in which you are primary breadwinner, she is primary homemaker and she may work part-time for a secondary income stream for the household and she cooks and cleans and does the less physically taxing work in the house and you do significantly less housework (only the more physically demanding tasks as per requirement - e.g. you wash the heavy skillets and woks and she washes the plates and spoons and glasses) because your primary duty is bringing home the bulk of the money required to lead a middle class life, along with being an observer and analyst as the captain and that includes financial analysis and planning.
So unless you are an extremely masculine, unrealistically attractive, heterosexual young rich handsome male, who has sex twice a day, you're unworthy of respect and admiration
I usually stick to alux for financial advice that's it but not about being more confident or assertive or being an alpha they're basically telling you how to think or what you're doing wrong so it's hard to find a middle ground with these videos
OK. Watching this I'm still confused. 1) I hate aggression and spent thirty years in psychiatry facing off and restraining psychopaths and murderers. 2) I was bullied at school, and went back second year of sixth form to face them, they'd all gone. 3) I've had only two girlfriends. My first became my wife of thirty years who I stood faithfully by and after separating I'm with a librarian type girl, I have zero interest in playing the field. 3) I'm packing quite a few extra pounds, but lost five stone and walk a lot but can't stand the gym. 4) Alpha males make me literally, in real life, laugh out loud when I see them posturing and jeering. I pity them and despise them. 5) I was a soldier and a nurse. 6) I've been shot, stabbed, pulled a injured old lady off a train track, disarmed knife wielding people on more than one occasion. 7) I like my little pony, cos I played it with my daughter when she was little and the whole universe seems very wholesome and sweet. 8) I supported the invasion of Iraq and I despise Trump and would vote democrat if I was American. I despise Tories here in the UK. 9) I have an encyclodepic knowledge of firearms, their histories, their functioning and I'm a fucking good shot.... I think guns in civilian hands is childish and lethal. 10) I am in the friend zone of many women, not cos I want to shag them, but because I think women are usually more intelligent, gentle and fun. So, what am I? ( I don't actually care, I'm myself and very happy about it).
The female voice really adds the insults to this lol
I agree. Makes it unpalatable.
Lmao. I thought the exact same.
She really has a snarky superior tone. I love it lol
If you feel insulted you're probably beta 😏
It sounds like the voice of some incognito fat chick trying hard to sound hot.
Government: pay taxes
Me: No Im not a beta
thank you anime
Sigma
Noooo, useless punk
@@TellingItLikeItIs2000 Isnt that called benefits?
Congrats on being read by pewds himself
#1 sign of being a Beta:
You let people classify you.
AYOO I MADE IT INTO A PEWDS VIDEO POG
hey king, u dropped this 👑
@@shy4real whoops sorry lemme just grab this and be on my way thank you 👑
Truth
#16 - You refuse to accept someone classifying you because you don't like the possible results.
I classify myself
“if u were abused it is your fault.”
yeah this is the most toxic shit ive heard in a long time 😂
yeah she’s definitely the abusive one in every relationship shes been in
fr
Fr man
If you fell victim twice to the same person, THEN it's your fault.
dang
16) You're hearing this type of advice being given by a woman.
But are you sure she's the one who did the research?
Yeah, women dont know what they want. She read off a script.
It time either apply to you or they don’t. Plus had you listened to the entire video you would know there was a #16 already. Sounds like you got offended and couldn’t listen anymore.
That's because after Gen-X all of the females developed to have higher testosterone than the males. I think its from environmental toxins.
The content is what matters 😉 truth hurts lol
"The woman of your dreams will not show up at your doorstep just presenting herself"
She will for a few hundred dollars.
Ha ha..you slay me
10000iq
good one
lmao
But won't stay after the hour has past unless you pay more. Worth it? Up to you. Romantic relationships aren't for everyone.
We did it boys we ended depression by calling you weakling
nerd
@@haukur1154 now I’m chad
@@coca-coladog2242 Boss! 😎
@@coca-coladog2242 you may be chad, but im giga chad 💪😎
@@bawicz0 *Nigga chad
Saw PewDiePie's video and came here to say that if you're a young kid, don't listen to this video. 10 year old me would watch this and believe it, dont be like 10 year old me
That guy is a beta male. Read my other comment if you want to be an alpha male.
Thts really nice nd true, no one should ever feel like they are not important because this stupid video say so
@@one8576 john.
Bro pewds is a beta male lol like me but we will grow
@@one8576 get a life
My mama says I can't watch your videos anymore
Best reply here 😂
Hahahahah hahaha
lmao
Hilarious!
XD
Weak men create hard times.
Hard times create strong men.
Strong men create good times.
Good times creates weak men.
More like Bad Men (strong or weak) create hard times.
Hard times create uncivilized brutish men and women.
Brutish men and women create good times ONLY for themselves.
Good Times for ONLY themselves cripple society as a whole.
Crippled Societies are eclipsed by societies that value and uplift the weak.
CnarFor fuck off
You fuck off
Gi generation create economic surplus
Baby boomers create economic deficits and generational vampirism
Shitty economy creates millennials
Millienials create new economy
New economy creates new generation of jackasses
It cycles. Good stuff. I have learned one thing, nobody is a bad guy or a good guy, that shit only exist in the movies, we are all in the same boat.
Imagine being an adult and actually calling someone a “beta male” unironically.
U mad
It's actually hilarious, despite the obviously overly nerdy concept when you call someone it after a few seconds they figure out what it means and it really offends them.
Yea lol imagine being over the age 4 and doing that
I'm pretty sure people who call themselves alpha males are the ones getting bullied
I mean if it applies to you fix your life
This video had to have been a troll. There's no way anyone actually sat down and made this seriously.
The same types of idiots that call their channel 'luxurious' unironically. The channel is just clickbait. We fell for it evidently so all we could do is either dislike the hell out of this video, reported it so it gets flagged or make the comment section the most toxic thing in the world just out of spite.
I'm actually a subscriber and the video nowadays are not toxic anymore. I also disliked it but I give it a chance because it was 3 years ago I guess
@@unknowns78 if a famous person made a toxic video even a week ago then they would be called out on it and ridiculed and people would try to cancel them (even though that’s now what people should do to them). I don’t feel like this channel should get special treatment.
@@user-uy5py5ih2t Dont compare 1 week with 3 years. And I'm not denying that it is toxic but I really don't see a reason for still being mad because for me it's not that bad. And the cancel culture is a joke
t. beta
Helping my girlfriends new boyfriend move into the spare room of my mortgage free apartment now as this video plays in the background
homies 4 life
Helping my ex wife's bf with a small dick energy to wreck her XXL pussy...
@@Bougart hardcore man
loser
Sign that your beta male : Taking advice from women on how to be a Man
fax
she probably was just there to sexualize the video a bit-give all those betas something to strive for
That's a very beta comment.
Yeah she doesnt even know about yelking my brother
nerd
*Sign That You're A Beta Male:*
1. Breathing oxygen
Then you could breath NOS ahahha
We all know alphas breath nitrogen
2. Listening to feminist drivel.
I breathe 24% oxygen but I'm almost there😂
True alphas do photosynthesis 😂
Another sign you're a beta male: You watched this video unironically.
Damn, so if you have depression you're a beta male? This is actually so stupid I-
@endeegetto Not everyone gets depressed. And what do you know about what ppl think :D
@endeegetto well said who ever says they don't get depressed are fucking lieing haha
@endeegetto that not depression depression doesn't go way is metal health there different types depression yes everyone have experience sadness and grief and then they moving on but depression doesn't work like that. I'm not say depression is rare depression is common worlds.
@@Steve-kr5xn He’s probably not just calling out the bullshit is all I can think, like if someone says something stupid I’m gonna have something to say back, not in a way that seems like I’m hurt but in a assertive way I guess.
It is. Working out and eating right can make that depression go away
a beta-male is easily influenced by opinion
@@bobbyhill4118 sounds like you got a big ego bud. I hope you get that taken care of, because I know from experience that can fuck you over. You know the saying, the bigger they are....
@@bobbyhill4118 Sounds like you fit #13 real good.
Beta males are more likely to be compliant, they were all coerced to take a "vaccine" that does not protect you from covid.
MAGA in a nutshell
So we’re not gonna talk about how sexist she was
The problem is that no one gives a shit because it’s about men. But if the shoe was on the other foot..
Shut up
@@TigerZachary you shut up
@@MrKamper_ why you mad for
@@layton6202 honestly idk imma chill now
I'm actually sad that some people actually believe in the alpha/beta male thing. They don't even know that it was based on an outdated and false theory of how wolfpacks worked.
Yup. If a woman believes this crap, she probably also believes in 'star signs', drop her and get away. Psychology 101 is too advanced for this video. And yes, I took psych in college, my prof would have laughed his ass off at this shit. Her 15th reason had me rolling though! "Oh and if you don't like me and my video bashing on you, YOU ARE A BETA!" Way to cover yourself, hon. Bless her heart lmao.
@@kennylaysh2776 Funny enough, it's mostly men who believe this type of bs.
@@DwynTwo lol no)
"ummm theres no such thing as betas and alphas it's been debunked" lol
Ikr
Number 15 is basically saying: "If you don't agree, you're just wrong!", so you can't say anything against the things being said, because you give in to being a beta... lol 😂
Some people can't handle the truth.
@@jahzealjr6810 I mean half of these points don’t really make sense like the hating life one can be linked to depression which is uncontrollable and the not having sex one is normally linked to religion or it being illegal in their country
@@moussamiller4812 nah they r all shitty points. just let people do what they want and stop making them feel like shit just bc they enjoy doing something or don’t wanna do anything. Like wtf do they expect me to do just start a business and start training to become an Olympic runner or something?
nerd
@@Bbill725 Amen brotha
Imagine using the word “Beta-male” unironically
I mean it’s a term that is used truthfully. It’s an actual term and the truth is clearly hurting you.
@@lemons3703 Nah my dude. I don’t let the word “Beta-male” interfere with my life. If you think words cause me distress, then you haven’t been on the internet very long
this is the best comment in this comment section and it's not even deep or anything
jesus
@@qaseemtak9368 never said it should cause distress.
@@lemons3703 That’s the dumbest reply I’ve read on the internet for a while. I got you dead to rights, and the only response you can give is that I used the word distress instead of hurt? Lmao...
*POV:* You came to the comment section on this video from Sidemen Reacts.
（〃￣∇￣）
:O
ofcourse
@J E R R Y not anymore
nerd
Signs you're an alpha male: You came from Pewdiepie's video just to dislike this video like a real CHAD.
indeed
FLOOR GANG FOR LIFE!
You're an alpha if you don't care about this video.
No that’s a sigma male, not a alpha.
@@mrmhj9925 sigma is a dumb fucking meme
Exactly
Agreed brotha
facts you are mega alpha chad
1) You don't feel like your life is getting better by the day
2) You never faced your bullies
3) You rely on others (family, friends) to make decisions for you
4) You are physically weak
5) You get friendzoned
6) You can't say no and stand your ground
7) Your friends make fun of you / don't treat you as an equal
8) Your existence largely centers around pastimes (video games, movies, shows, etc)
9) You make excuses
10) You have no sense of style
11) You don't look at people in the eye when you talk to them / you get nervous around people
12) You barely have any sex / you have bad sex
13) You actually have a big ego, but you can't control it / it is fragile
14) You are a follower
15) You feel offended by this video
Jorge M A mix of alpha and beta flaws... Hmmmm writer=confused.
Thanks. Now I don't have to watch the video I already watched.
This needs to be top comment
I scored 5/15 what does that mean
Rev GC I agree this is a mix of of both alpha and beta, to say someone like bill gates who looks very weak is a beta, also to say someone who has good sex and get many women are alpha lmaooo what target audience are these videos for?
"When you care what others think of you, you will always be their prisoner."
Non Female
haha animebg beta! jk jk
nerd
@@haukur1154 Uh what
@RCB FTFY: beta males dont take advice from women
@Chennai Super Kings sussy 😳😳😳
Well I did it boys. I woke up at 5 a.m., did some heavy deadlifts, shaved my neckbeard, retired my fedora, unplugged my tv and deactivated multiple accounts, bought myself a nice tailored suit, and then I searched the names of all the kids that bullied me in elementary, knocked on their doors, looked them in the eye and proceeded to beat the shit out of them.
I'm getting laid all the time now, but I wouldn't say I'm healthy, as I've acquired a ton of STDs.
Very inspirational video!
w
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15 out of 15, well...at least I got a perfect score in something
Juan Pablo
So proud of it aren't we😎
Lol 😂 good one Pablo
I relate to this on a personal level
Pablo
Lol 😂😂
number 7 is fake. real friends always make fun of each others.
Yup as long as you don't get mad when. Some on dishes back at you or the other way around.
As long as you can dish it out right back at them they will respect you for it. If you take offence then their insults will take on a different meaning, not that of friendly teasing, but of cruelty.
It's an instinctual response in all humans to test each other to test how worthy we all are to be a partner the social group. Because our instincts from thousands of years ago have not gone away.
Mr. Meatballs some of the best insults are funny because they are just brutal with no comedic angle, like telling someone you hope he drowns in his own blood
lol you butthurt
Yeah, right real friends do make fun of each other but they just make fun of you. They do not encourage you in your works and do not offer constructive criticism.
The irony of this being narrated by a woman
Yes, very ironically
the "beta male" would knock her out in a fight
That's irrelevant and immature to point out because none of the videos on the Alux channel have a male narrator as far as I know. There should be another sign of a beta-male: pointing out the narrator's gender on advice in a youtube video.
@@elizabethlovett4318 its like a dog saying to a cat to bark
@@elizabethlovett4318 How is it irrelevant? You can catch fish using fish... The woman will tell you what a woman wants through her biased narrative.
There are guys who feel entitled to a relationship or sex with a woman just because they are nice to them but there are also guys who feel entitled to sex or a relationship with a woman just because they are attractive or have a lot of money. Why is it that you see the manipulation in the former but not the latter they are both equally manipulative it's just that one does what works and the other one doesn't. We should hold both types of men equally accountable.
Sign you’re a beta male: using the term alpha and beta male
Joeyissexy exactly
Joeyissexy you just used the term beta male lol twice
lol. Joey already kicked their wagon over.
ha
just call a cat a cat you know
16 Signs You Are a Beta-Male:
1. You don't feel like your life is getting better and better.
2. You never faced your bullies.
3. You rely on others like your family to make your decisions for you.
4. You're physically weak.
5. You're in the friend zone.
6. You can't say no and stand your ground.
7. Even in your circle of friends people make fun of you.
8. Your existence largely centers around pastimes.
9. You make excuses.
10. You have no sense of style.
11. You don't look people in the eye and you're nervous when you talk to them.
12. You don't get laid much and even when you do it's not that great.
13. Actually has a big ego - but can't control it.
14. You're a follower - not a leader.
15. You feel offended by this video.
16. You would rather change the rules than play to win.
Thank You
I am extremely weak but I would never call myself a beta male.
What I love about the physically weak thing is when bigger guys fuck with you and you pull out a fire arm to tell them to back off, others are asking wtf is wrong with you and that you might be a pussy. Dude, this guy coming up to me is twice my size. He doesn't give a damn that the match up was "fair." So neither do I.
Ironic how I am the opposite of every one of those points.
@Ok so basically im monky What are your hobbies?
POV: your here from the sidemen reacts channel. 👀
yes
Ye I wanted to see the comments 💀
me
@@Kid.Uh_7 same
Same here
This video, the comments and their replies kinda prove that these "male" terminologies (alpha, beta, sigma) only create a toxic environment where "beta males" are being segregated and shamed by egoistic "alpha males" for not conforming to their expected standards.
I'd say that if you want someone to improve, which is probably what the intended purpose of these terminologies, do it without name calling or shaming.
okay good point
Anyone come here from that Melon meme
Jacob Sugars yep hahaha. I didn't look up this video but it was in my suggested
It also was in my suggested vids after seeing that 🤔
*raises hand*
Looks just like him
oh yahhhh
“15) you feel offended by this video”
I’m not offended just disappointed with myself
Offended by made up shit? There's no alpha or beta. Just under capitalism 5% riches fuck everything. Under imperialism everyone fuck everybody just because Empire needs to grow and conquer.
At least you recognize the importance of self improvement!
dont be dissapointed bro you gotta be inspired to better yourself man lets get this shit lets become betterpeople i might just sounds like this bc its 4 am and idgaf ubt fuck it bro lets be great
@@stryderx1 oh, shut the fuck up, loser. Enough goddamn excuses and bullshit conspiracy theories. Goddamn communist bitch.
Ur winning
Alpha Male: You look gorgeous
Beta Male: Damn girl, you killing it
Super Ultra Alpha Chad Male: ME WANT FUCK FUCK
I'm a woman and tbh the second one made me cringe. Straight to.the friendzone with you
Alpha male : I hate everyone including you. Go to the kitchen. Let's fuck.
Beta male : I'm gonna give you 1000€ and you let me fuck you.
Both have a bad ending. Or you could change beta and alpha by incel and simp because that's pretty much it. Those two words really don't mean anything, no scientific research or something, just a quest to gain more views.
@@comptesupplementaire6559 I like the 1st 1
Gamma male rolls up: girl you looking peng thing
Imagine calling someone beta or alpha. Probably the most nerdiest thing I've ever heard next to "hey, what's your zodiac sign?".
its not abt the name, its the meaning behind it
@@sadik.203 Right, zodiac sign is something you dont control and it means nothing, alpha/beta is controlled by you and it means a lot about you
yah well, video games will never press false rape charges against me.
Damn right!
I'm DYING. 😂
That’s not what that joy said to me last night
lol
Destruction 100
1. You don't feel your life is getting better and better
2. You never faced your bullies
3. You rely on others like your family to make decisions for you
4. You are physically weak
5. You are in the friendszone
6. You can't say 'NO' & can't stand your ground
7. Even in your circle of friends, people make fun of you
8. Your existence largely centers are pastimes
9. You make excuses
10. You have no sense of style
11. You don't look people in the eye and you're nervous when you talk to them
12. You don't get laid much and even when you do it's not that great
13. Actually has a big ego - but can't control it
14. You are a follower, not a leader
15. You feel offended by this video
16. You would rather change the rules than play to win
And people cant cope with this
Number 1: You are watching this video
Čobani ok that was pretty good
Number 2 : you made a comment on this video
Number 3: You actually replied to a comment on this video
Gloria Olivia number 4, you use a female name on the internet because youre a sexually confused little boy who thinks videos.like these.mean anything in the real world.
Number 5, you got no chill
nr. 12 is ridiculous, just because I don't spend every waking minute trying to get a lay doesn't mean I am anything
A female explaining masculinity is like a man telling a woman what it's like to be pregnant and what to expect in their 3rd trimester. Bottom line it makes no damn sense.
Joey T It makes perfect sense because women are not attracted to weak men unless they are very alpha aggressive women who never had a father figure in their lives and want to be in control.
So let me get this straight...a woman can't make an assessment about a person who happens to be a man? That makes no sense. I suppose the only way that could happen is if she is a psychologist?
@@JourneyUninterrupted
Well this woman is clearly not a psychologist first of all, second, dear reread my statement. Nowhere did I say "can't". All i said was it makes no sense. Although what she's saying is probably backed by data and studies because betas do exist, she is inserting her own opinion into a set data which she has no experience of unless she indeed was a man.
@@JT3KBV4 and making commentary about "backed data" is fair game. Doesn't matter who the messenger is or vessel. I think the content of what is being said stands on its own merit, so there is no argument.
One either subscribes to the definition of Alpha or Beta men or not, has absolutely nothing to do with who states it.
Lol facts!
Then i guess every introvert guy is a beta male, looks like i should start looking for beta females.
I am introverted but I constantly try to socialise... Introverts find social situations difficult to handle, but the more you put yourself out there, the easier it becomes for you not to be socially awkward!
Don't.
That is literally one of the biggest signs of a beta male. All alphas are comfortable in social situations.
@Chennai Super Kings true but my main point is that an alpha male can handle a social situation better because they’re confident
@@Mally620 There is a difference between being socially akward and not liking social situations
Alphas don't follow fashion they set it.
Shepface XL yes true . I'm alpha
@@jetercanda9661 Okay, so then walk around with dog shit smeared all over your face, and see how many people follow the trend, Mr. Alpha.
Yep, while I'm not an alpha through and through I have always tried to be one meeting most of these. I wear my military issued combat boots with shorts (sometimes) in public and don't care what anyone thinks. I think that is the trait of a true alpha, not following the trends and wearing what you want to wear. Some beta's don't care how they look either, but the difference is they don't have any kind of style and usually wear things that scream virgin like a gamer shirt, crocs and shorts that are a little too short.
@@melvinlittle4957
Alphas don't regard something as puerile and blatanly stupid as putting shit on their face as game changing
they don't give a fuck about it
*Number 12: you don't get laid much*
Me as a muslim: "maybe I am a beta male"
💀💀💀💀
14 year old boys watching this: Guess I am a beta male.
@@shakthiganesh5117 ong
I think it’s possible to be a very confident male, without having a lot of sex. The quality and meaningfulness of the sex is far better than the quantity.
Sometimes you are very confident, successful, and driven, but a women can’t see that. There’s plenty of people who don’t have good lifestyles but still get laid plenty.
The ability to seduce is oftentimes based on deception, shallowness, and superficiality.
The ability to build relationships takes character, perseverance, and more. Looks only go so far.
And honestly, a male that judges his worthiness by the amount of sex he has is indeed a beta male.
yup that’s kinda true honestly
Feel that, but only because I can’t stand condoms and I’m not trying to catch something. If the world didn’t have STDs I would be a fuckin super slut lol
thats a lot of words just stating that you don't get laid
Exendrallio kinda true too
Exendrallio nope, I do. I can tell you it’s not as great as everyone makes it out to be
I'm just offended at the anime slander ngl
It's true there weebs need to realize that it isn't real and stop wasting life over it I've known several people who wouldn't come out their house for weeks because they binj Japanese cartoon's
@@layton6202 yea those ones are bad but she makes it look like just watching anime in general bad.
@@musix3197 well she did say binj meaning those who always watch it
Init pewdiepie is a weeb and he won handsome face
@@layton6202 eh you can binge but if it's your life there's a problem
That thumbnail was 100% accurate of a beta male
Haha, thanks!
It was cringe worthy
Michael Scott
lol the melon
Teacher: Asks to clean the floor
Beta: No, I'm not a Beta.
Refrain from putting women on pedastals, making them the center focal point of your life, and caring what they think about you.
This alone will enhance the quality of your life and address many of the points raised in the video.
That, in my view, is the SINGLE way to differentiate yourself from being beta to being Alpha.
Want to be "alpha"? Live your life for you. Do what is important for you and your future. Make sure any female you wish to engage in a LTR with is happily willing to fit herself into your life. There will be some compromise of course, but you should complement each other, not you (the man) bending to her life and her way. Stay strong and be your own man. Easy.
Thatz pretty MGTO... I like it...
I Agree
"Hey you wanna donate to charity"
"No"
_Alpha male_
Opposite is true, read my other post. If the main reason is compassion then it is no longer a sign of being an alpha male (neutral).
SDMN Reacts Gang..
The woman in that video sounds like she’s really just pissed off that her boyfriend left her and he does all 15 of the things listed. So she just made that video in hopes that he would watch it
And someone else in the comments also made a great point, REAL alpha males don't explicitly declare themselves as an alpha because its corny. They communicate their confidence nonverbally and they don't feel the need to say "oh I'm alpha" bc they know that the way they carry themselves says everything they need to say about their personality and they also probably don't think about the comparisons between them and others because they love the skin their in and are confident enough in themselves.
Y'all lame
Apollo Powell Yeah I agree. When guys say that it seems to me they're trying to convince themselves that they're valid instead of just being confident that they already are.
SAYING IT LOUDER FOR THE IDIOTS IN THE BACK
My wife’s boyfriend keeps on calling me a beta male. Now I know what it means
I'm offended by this video, but I like it. It describes exactly who I am. I need to do some changes.
You're on your way to becoming larger than life. Lift your crown and take your throne, once you've recaptured your kingdom.
Never take a woman's advice when it comes to bettering yourself
Self improvement is always good, but don't do it based on someone else's ideals. Do it for yourself and based on the rules you choose to follow.
You accept it then u r alpha
Gotta agree with Rafee Kazi. Although blunt, his point is solid. Don't change because some random video told you to your traits are bad. Only change for yourself. Many so-called alphas are faking it. They act macho because they're trying to cover up insecurities. Many soy boy beta bitches act like all soft and shit because they think that'll help them get laid.
It doesn't matter if you call yourself an alpha, beta, omega, or whatever. You're still a spineless pussy if you don't live your life the way *you* see fit. My advice, do what makes you happy, and give less fucks what others think.
15 signs you're a sigma male:
1- You're harassing females (Based and gamerpilled)
2- You're mentally abusing kids
3- You're killing every animal you see (Gotta help natural selection)
4- You don't wipe after shitting (Waste of Energy)
5- You don't breath (Waste of time)
6- You yell racial slurs in public (these fools gotta know who's the real boss here)
7- You don't pay taxes (only betas pay them)
8- You don't believe in "free" time (free time = fake time)
9- Money over family and friends (you can always buy new one)
10- You play videogames (absolute sigma male thing)
11 - You don't go to gym, The gym is coming to you
12- You're doxxing everybody who disagree with you
13- You bully weaker males (that's how this world works)
14- You don't care about the sex and females (real sigma only cares about the grind)
15- You're not from England (beta country)n
Brilliant 😊
How to be an alpha male
1. Passionately go for what you want
2. Live with an open heart part of being strong is opening up and not fearing the pain involved
3. Respect/love yourself this can cover a whole lot of things but a part that people don't do is value their own time don't waste it
What is considered "interesting", is that being an alpha male, or a beta male depends a lot on your situation. If you are a 140 lb. beta male trying to lift weights, at the gym, you would not be able to compete. But, if that same beta male goes and gets a law degree, and becomes a judge, then, now, HE is an alpha male, because he has power. Sometimes, an accomplished beta male, has more authority and power, than a lot of alphas, who only have looks, swag, and attitude, but very little else. What is, also "interesting", is that given time, a lot of women will start to gravitate toward a beta male, especially, in a few years, when she is a single mom, has gained weight, or has a boring, underpaid job, while the beta male has his master's degree, and a career, at Google, making $150,000 per year. Then, she is on his Facebook page saying, "hey baby, remember me?"
Let's see here:
1. Life is getting better for me
2. I have faced my bullies
3. I don't rely on everyone but myself to make decisions in my life (I am making progress)
4. I am not physically weak
5. I am not allowing myself to be put into the friend zone, instead, I get up and leave when the girl is not worth it
6. I do say no whenever I have to and I am fearless to do so. Disagreeing with people, even when that seems bad, it actually doesn't seem as bad as you might think. It, instead shows, you are your own person. I stand my ground.
7. My friends today, respect me as I respect them
8. I am not stuck in the past, I am motivated to move forward
9. I don't make excuses
10. I make a sense of style, I wear what I want
11. I look people in the eyes when I am talking with them
12. It will happen soon as I am going out more often
13. I have learnt how to control my ego
14. I am a leader
15. I don't feel offended at all by this video. Instead, I feel empathetic towards all the beta males around. Be strong. Be yourself. Do not let others judge you nor underestimate you. You and you alone know yourself better than others.
16. I see the optimistic side of things
I am confident of who I am.
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You posted it on Social Media so it all checks out with me...you’re def alpha, broski.
Wish I could say the same about myself
As your irl friend, I have no respect for you
Sorry mate but the fact that you literally wrote a bible about what you’ve done or haven’t done according to what this video said is the most beta thing you could’ve done. The worst part is that you did it to literally convince yourself that you’re an alpha. A true alpha wouldn’t give a s about this video, he doesn’t have to convince himself or others that he is an “alpha”
Here for " my wife's boyfriend" comments
I second that
I third that.
Judging a man or anyone is the most beta thing
Your intro is always too damn long
You could always just read the article if you're only looking for the list!
Video notes here: www.alux.com/signs-beta-male/
I always skip that shit
Skip the first 2-2 1/2 minutes. Good baseline.
Tikus Tycoon it’s just to extend their video time
Do a face and body reveal! Need to examine both!
Signs of a beta male-
1. Believes whatever the woman is blabbering
"Don't get laid? Then go out there and make it happen!"
That would be rape.
They didn't say it had to be with a woman.
Jerry Smith why does she think going out and having sex is rape? What the fuck is wrong with the feminist brain?
😂😂😂
I know. That was a stupid point. The alux lady should go back and revise that one.
I would rather be called beta male then not disliking this video.
Please don’t think all girls think like this. We think this shit is toxic af too.
Video fucking starts at 2:30
lmao
Fuck that shit !
@@CLYDE0126 wanna fight?
Thorbelinho TV I do
that means you finish 5 times before the video starts!
she 100% got mad at harry styles wearing a dress
Change
Bad things I do
1. Say no not enough
2. Own up and not make excuses
3. struggle to look people in the eye (I actively practice this though)
4. I dont get laid (im 13 though so.. it's fine.)
It's always fun huh?
The beta gets al the bad traits and the alpha al the good ones. Ironically all these factors are based on female attraction.
Forget the beta/alpha stamp. Be yourself.
I watched these and I think you will find that they are mostly wrong.. they were OFF on quiet a few.. as a women and a sister with 9 brothers and yea I typed that right and I have been married and still married for almost 42 years. trust me when I tell you this whole thing was for brain washing only.. they are wrong.
Focus on Science.
@@HadouGun LOL!!! They go HAND IN HAND.. BUT nice try.. Who do you think Made Science??? LOL!! I will always go with God.. ALWAYS!! maybe you should try it..
Hahaha "be yourself" - "I'm to fucking weak to be better". WORK HARD MATE.
@@Hlorrh40 You are wrong. I am a 37 years old man. I got laid 17 years ago last. I cannot get a girl because am a beta male. All she says is true. I want a girl to see me looking at them yet when they are interested I cannot go beyond greetings. I am nice guy and my cousin is an alpha male. He constantly steal girls from me. It got so bad that now am his wing man. Surprise surprise! If am seducing a girl for somebody else, am a natural! It comes to me so easily. But when they ask about my girlfriend or wife, my cousin shocks them with all my failures. Some tell me that my cousin is using me but I tell them at least I get to speak to beautiful girls that I would never speak to if it wasn't for my cousin!
Ight let me just magically cure my depression and anxiety real quick brb
finally
That’s the only point they had that was kinda right. People love to complain and cry about everything
@@leenguyen6056 what if someone died and you are depressed about that
@@ridwan_z It’s all about time. You can be depressed for a few months and sad forever, but if you’re depressed for years you gotta seek help or at least do something to get better.
@@leenguyen6056 that's fair tho
Perfect timing... I'm a 100% beta male but I decided to "change" myself and just come across this video.
👌🏻
IK Cinemas well, I used to be a beta male but I got to a point where I could not stand my existence. So, I quit my religion. I quit my friends bc they made fun of me. I started taking myself more seriously and a log of other changes, getting laid instead of jerking off. I identified myself as a former beta male. There is still room for improvement. Change.
Licenciado Wilson Hamon thanks for your words of information... I know it's a long way to go... But I have started my journey from today.
IK Cinemas All the best for "A NEW YOU"
Takes alot of balls for a man to admit he's beta.
Many girls prefer Betta males especially if they are funny and chill
This entire video seems like satire...lol
Gelato556 it is true. Lots of my high school friends are like this. Most of them have bad jobs or no jobs. Sadly... but have a lot of knowledge of videogames and anime.
That's cuz it is. Only a person with no free thought of their own would listen to a UA-cam video on what a man is.
Gelato556 it is. Bad satire to boot.
congrats alux you guys sound like EVERY 1 year psych student
Pseudo psychologist dreamer*
17. Being a vegan.
lol
Sama Imad actually I think it’s super Alpha (depending on the person) to go vegan. You’re making a stance against the animal industry and are watching out for your health, which within itself isn’t bad.
It’s super beta when you tell others what they can or cant eat and get super emotional about it
Fruit Juice your entire comment is wrong lmfao I’ve been vegan for over two years and even for the majority of that time when I wasn’t taking any vitamins, I’ve never felt like fainting or weak because of my diet. I have a consistent routine of HIIT workouts and cycling, and eat lots of vegetables, fruits, grains, beans, and soy protein and despite what the meme bois want to believe, soy doesn’t make you a soyboy. It’s all a myth and to give their argument any credibility, you’d have to eat a shit ton of soy and have that be probably most of your diet. But diet is all a balancing act anyways, eating all meat or all fruit has their side effects, too.
Fruit Juice that’s funny because vegans actually have the highest intake of complex carbs, good fats, and micronutrients. The only vitamins vegans need is b12 and thats because it doesn’t come from food.
And the funny thing is animals are supplemented with B12x
Fruit Juice That’s also somehow a giant lie, as meat and other processed foods have been known to accelerate the aging process due to the body’s overcompensation of Tran fats and unhealthy lipids.
Don’t argue with me, I’m a nutrition major whose this close to getting my masters in nutrition, not to mention I’m a PT
This is the Hierarchy:
3. Beta Men
2. Alpha Men
1. Cute Fembois
I used to be a beta male. Broke that mold a few years ago. Now I'm Alpha AF!
Happy to hear that Bill!
I'm gonna guess you wear an Off White hoodie with Adidas socks right
If you need to say you’re alpha, you probably aren’t
Adam M. Thought the same but I could be wrong.
Self qualifying for the approval of others is a sign of weakness.
1. In a lot of aspects, my life has gotten better but still needs more change. It started when I left my family to be with my wife. And when my family hated the fact I left, I later knew that it was them that was holding me back.
2. I didn’t face my bullies sadly in life. Time to change.
3. Used to, but this came growing up with a misguided parent.
4. Actually I am physical strong! 💪🏼
5. I am newly a husband & father. Been with the same woman for almost 3 years.
6. Sadly, I can relate to this, time to change!
7. Yeah, but friends in general will make fun of you even if you’re an Alpha.
8. I recently got off Social Media and haven’t played video games in 3 years.
9. I DON’T MAKE EXCUSES ANYMORE!
10. Used to, and used to be made fun of because of this. Now, I learned to be a man of style.
11. I have this problem. Once again, from misguided parenting. Time to change!
12. I get laid 3-4 times a week!
13. If I had an big ego, I wouldn’t be watching this and wanting a change.
14. I don’t know how to be a leader, where do I start? Time to change!
15. Not at all, it’s a chance to change my life around and know my flaws.
16. Used to, but I knew I can’t make excuses for my life.
4 flaw points for me. Never too late to change!
CHANGE!!!
Good to know that my needing to read lips due to being partially deaf from the army makes me a beta male. This gave me a good chuckle
#17: Alpha male will never take advice from a woman he doesn't know.
#1: watching a video about if your a beta male
I'm honestly here for the comments☠
this girl who be narrating the videos, I wanna know who SHE is....how much money she has...what she's doing with her life
Myles Powell and then what? Smash?
I will bet you my bottom dollar she is a feminist
I would LOVE to see and examine the body!!
Does it really matter? Women have completely different point of departure, different ways and even different definitions of success than men. It does not make this video any less valid if she's not successful by scope of success definition for men.
Myles Powell so ur a beta
Number one: you've come to watch this video.
Number two: you made this video.
You live a boring life, you struggle to wake up everyday from the never ending nightmare of waking up everyday and having to deal with tens of assholes who make your day an eternal suffering. Youre not depressed, youre just beta.
Saw this in a pyrocynical video, I thought it's parody video.
Guess I just have too much faith in humanity.
Rule 5 says that you are stuck in the friend zone. So, when you have a crush on someone, treat them like they are your enemy. will totally work
When you gone berserk on your bullys in school and all girls are so scared that put you in creep zone lmao
Well, I haven’t been friend zone but I have been used in the relationship and I actually fought back because she was a really bad person.
I used to stand up to bullies, but that was when I had something to prove. Now it just seems tryhard and stupid. It's not worth risking a fist fight. I'm not going to risk brain damage because of my frail ego.
Standing up to bullies is what made them stop for both my and my sibling. You have to hit them hard as well.
Beta
@@johnmnsb agreed
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5.2K betas 😂😂 that disliked this video
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You mean milk drinkers and men who eat cheese? Much more feminizing estrogen and other female hormones in dairy than in soy.
Bean S
And we found the vegan... how about you let us make fun of people who consume soy while we drink more feminizing milk IN PEACE?!
devinslice I'm just pointing out how illogical and hypocritical that comment is. I don't consume soy so try again.
These seem like the symptoms of depression
mental illness? beta male.
thats why i dont fall into this alpha male beta male bullshit, it doesn't really apply in all contexts
Still beta-males
Ignorance is bliss
Maybe, but depression do not happen without reason
Liberals
Conservatives
Sothbeachboy 21 brilliant
MΛX because 76 genders doesn’t sound beta at all
Sothbeachboy 21 You're a follower, just to the opposite ideology. Just as beta.
MΛX Conservatives do the same, following the opinions of others, concerning themselves with everyone else but them self. Liberal, conservative, they all disregard their own thoughts for the beliefs of someone they deem higher.
The sad part is that these guys are going to see the criticism of this video and will shrug it off like "beta males beeing mad" this is such a damaging video
I totally agree with you.
I think number 12 is too superficial to be on the list. There are many other reasons that someone isn't sexually active other than being beta. For me, it's because I'm studying abroad and in a long-distance relationship with the girl I love from my home country, and cheating is against my morals. Being unable to control my own desires and betraying my morals is more of a beta (weak) move than alpha (strong).
Other than that, some people might not be sexually active because of religious or cultural beliefs (most religions and many Eastern cultures discourage sex without marriage). There's nothing beta in someone controlling their desires for what they believe in. If we think about it it's an Alpha move to control your desires for a purpose or belief. It would be beta if someone desires an active sexual life and fails to get it.
Other than that, great video Alux! As always.
How is it beta to have morals and to have a long distance relationship? As this video suggests, betas are the ones who're both physically and psychologically weak, ones that don't take their lives into their hands, and just let others or "situations" decide how to direct their own lives.
As the other gentleman said, not having morals is basically bandwagoning to what most people do. Also, having morals of any sort (you have the freedom to choose your own morals) and having the willpower to follow them is a privilege limited to few psychologically strong and disciplined people. I much rather prefer living with the morals and beliefs I pick, rather than living like an animal just following instincts and pleasure.
I also don't understand what's beta with having a long distance relationship? As I said in my previous comment, I'm a university student studying abroad all alone, away from my country. To be honest, I feel most comfortable being in a relationship with a girl who I share the same culture and mother tongue with. I'm home in summer and winter breaks, spending quality time with the girl I love for 5 months (I study in Canada, and we have lots of breaks). After that, I'm back to my education without any distraction. This is the life and relationship that I picked, so I don't see how it is beta.
I hope you'll get rid of stereotypical thoughts you have, and reach a broader vision which would impact your life positively.
Nationalist,
C'mon man. I really really hate doing this, but here it goes. Wake the fuck up. I know you're young and have not been aware of many, many things that have become very well known over the past 5 or so years. If you as a male are in a relationship with a female in which either
a) both of you don't cohabitate despite her being older than say 22, or
b) she's younger than 22 and lives with her parents and yet you don't see each other at least 4 days/nights a week
then it is highly likely that she will cheat on you,
unless she has really, really strong morals or has parents who raised her with very functional, traditional or moral values.
You must understand male sex drive, female sex drive, proximity to a high-testosterone male in her life, the dynamics of female attraction towards male dominant personality etc. At this age, her pussy yearns to be frequently fucked and filled (of course contraceptives should address the pregnancy issue) around 15 times a month. This will continue well into her mid-30s after which her sex drive will drop quite a bit. As for your sex-drive, you will want to fuck and fill and own your girl in the bedroom, almost everyday or even more and your sex-drive will stabilize in your late 30s but it will still be higher than your girl's until she reaches her 70s and you reach your 80s.
So my advice to you is, first, try and do a solid reconnaissance to check if she has thus far cheated on you. If she has, then walk away and try to find a suitable girl worthy of a potential life-long relationship, or else you may go for casual pump and dump. If she hasn't cheated, then you've lucked out. Try to bring her to Canada if you can or else do Skype sex (pathetic substitute, I know) for 7 months a year and for the rest 5 months, own and fuck and also kiss and hold your girl on like 70% of the days. Train her to be a good, dutiful, loyal girl-friend.
Tell her - good values and virtues are the greatest traits in a woman and a woman deserves respect, if and only if she exhibits positive feminine attributes towards her solid, dependable man. Tell her - you will have good moderately-romantic-passionate sex and animalistic sex in a frequency ration of 2:1. But that she is expected to lead a responsible life for which she will be cherished by you. However, if leading a responsible, ethical lifestyle in her relationship with you, is something she fails in at any point in the future, then you will dump her ass without any mercy whatsoever.
All this, assuming you and she are okay with premarital sex. If you guys are not okay with that, then test her, ask her what values she'd bring onto the table as a wife and then marry her and then execute the above instructions I mentioned - operating on the assumption that marriage and divorce laws are not hyper-gynocentric in your country.
All the best, young man.
Progress and Peace 1,
First of all, thanks for your advice and your good will, and thanks for taking your time to give a advice. However, I'm aware of many things you're talking about. I think I can call myself a people person, because of my assumptions about people around me turn out to be true. Our culture does not encourage premarital sex, and we're both traditionalists. She was a virgin before meeting me, and she's extremely against cheating. Trust me, if I had the slightest doubt that she could cheat on me I would've told her I can't do it and break up. Also, I trust people extremely hard, and I was friends with her before the relationship.
And if she cheats one day, I wouldn't have a problem moving on and finding a proper girl, I'm not one of those dudes who would stay around and forgive after cheating. In fact, cheating is one of the two things unforgivable for me in a relationship, other being lying and keeping secrets (even if they're small scale).
Nationalist,
Cool. But answer this question - she *was* a virgin before meeting you, right? In other words, she lost her virginity to you, right? And this happened despite your culture and your girl being traditional and against premarital sex, right?
So, don't you see, that under the right parameters, her "morals" did become flexible. So, don't you see that the exact same thing can happen under parameters that are suitable for her drifting towards another man?
Hence, my strong suggestion is:
She hasn't cheated on you thus far and her morals are still pretty solid. Now's the time, tiger. The time to mark your territory, to plant your flag. If your country does not have anti-common-sense, anti-male divorce laws then go surprise her and marry her first. Then follow the 2:1 type of sex to have with her, that I gave you. And instruct her to do her part as a responsible dutiful wife. In other words, you should not look like a pathetic beta bitch, but like a captain who expects functional standards from his first officer.
The things I'm saying are not morally wrong or bad. Women's bodies and their minds have literally evolved to be feel joy in being *owned* _AND_ cherished by masculine men. You know what I mean by "ownership" in this context - playing with her body like she's *your* doll and *taking* every inch of her (but you have to start with foreplay nevertheless; it's just that such a foreplay has to be of the form - you leading and she following your lead) - you can absolutely skip face-slaps and choking, but at minimum you should be pulling her towards you, flipping her, slapping her ass, pulling her hair during doggy sex position, grabbing her ass, thighs etc. looking intensely into her eyes during missionary sex etc. i.e. generally go for male-dominant and highly intimate sex positions. If she asks, why are you doing this, you say because she's *your* girl and sometimes you just feel like having her, trying to become one body in an intense sex session; *that's how much you want her.* Don't disclose your strategy of dominating her sexually, unless she herself brings it up, in which case say ok in a nonchalant manner.
And of course, you also need to have tender (not-100%-sexual) intimacy sessions with her 4-5 times a week with her. Simple cuddling, stroking her hair, caressing her, walking together in a park, playing some indoor or outdoor game together, playing or learning to play musical instrument(s) using online lessons, shared hobbies like amateur astronomy, online courses on cosmology, physics, biology etc. are nice too.
*Your job is to occupy around 80% of her mind via sexual and non-sexual activities.* Then she will not get drawn to other high-testosterone males and won't cheat. She will still occasionally fight with you on silly issues or may even mildly disrespect you on occasion. Your job is to not become a weak, passive, female-worshipping guy, but to put her in her place in a masculine manner. If she disrespects you, call her out, demand an apology after the heat of the moment has passed, don't beg, but demand and if she says no then tell her you will withhold all affection until she apologizes. And after she does apologize, say "Good girl. Now come here." and then plant a dominant 7 second kiss on her mouth. If however you're at fault, just say, "Yes, your point is correct. I'm at fault in this situation. I'm sorry about so and so thing."
And you may think - all this seems tiring, how can I relax? My answer is - all this seems like a lot to do at first. But it is 100% possible and very, very comfortable. You just have to be the dominant leader in your interactions with her both inside and outside the bedroom and for that you first need to visualize yourself as a masculine dominant leader in your relationship dynamic. You are at the top and she is below you and is under your protection and she assists you and you take care of her. And you will still get to sleep 8 hours every day, relax for 30-60 minutes every evening etc. And if you catch a cold, you still obviously can rest and recuperate as much as your body and mind wants. Leading an alpha life is thus perfectly doable. You just need to prepare your mindset accordingly.
Exact same process when you have a kid. Alpha fatherhood. Alpha husband. Slightly less sex (but not much less), a bit more time on day-today life responsibilities. A little bit of extra-tiredness at least until your baby turns into a toddler and starts sleeping properly at night. And of course, during those times, you must advice your wife to generously take naps during the daytime to keep her body reasonably charged and fresh for family time and couples' time in the evening and at night.
Men enjoy dominating and fucking women and women enjoy being dominated and fucked by masculine men. This is how nature made us. And obviously, in nature there are no limits to sexual debauchery, but in a civilization, within each functional family unit, there has to be lines, boundaries that are not to be crossed - i.e. wild animal sex only within the framework of 1 to 1 exclusivity between husband and wife in a marriage, no other wildness allowed. And that is *enough for both husband and wife to have a very content and fulfilling life together.* In other words, contentment is an art, a choice that is to be practiced and cultivated via meditation, quiet reflection, contemplation etc. by both the husband and wife. But if for whatever reason, she regresses to her inner selfish, discontent animal self and expresses desire for extra wildness with others (while society expects you as a man to not to regress to your inner wild, selfish animal self), that is where she exhibited irresponsibility and extreme disrespect. Just ditch her without any thought whatsoever in such a case. You see, this why I preach that wild sex *should be moderated by* non-sexual intimacy and tender moments and declarations of love (she has to declare her love and gratitude towards you at least 50% of the time and you do the same for her as well). It's all about balance - no sexual deficit, no sexual debauchery excess. Just like food - don't starve yourself to become anorexic and don't overeat either.
So, to summarize, if your girl is a good girl, don't leave a vacuum in her mind. Go make her your wife and fuck her and assign her xyz responsibilities (it could well be studies, music lessons as well - but the template is - you give her tasks, she does them and you say good girl and then kiss her). And after graduating, establish a traditional domestic setup in which you are primary breadwinner, she is primary homemaker and she may work part-time for a secondary income stream for the household and she cooks and cleans and does the less physically taxing work in the house and you do significantly less housework (only the more physically demanding tasks as per requirement - e.g. you wash the heavy skillets and woks and she washes the plates and spoons and glasses) because your primary duty is bringing home the bulk of the money required to lead a middle class life, along with being an observer and analyst as the captain and that includes financial analysis and planning.
One question Nationalist,.
Are your from Poland or Hungary or Belarus or Slovenia or Slovakia or perhaps Russia (Orthodox Christian)?
Thank you, now I finally can become a true Alpha and Billionaire.
No, it’s not in you. 🤣
@@asaheldavalos8041 DAMN💀
@@asaheldavalos8041 do you actually believe this video?
Billionaire is like sigma, like Jeff bezos
So unless you are an extremely masculine, unrealistically attractive, heterosexual young rich handsome male, who has sex twice a day, you're unworthy of respect and admiration
I usually stick to alux for financial advice that's it but not about being more confident or assertive or being an alpha they're basically telling you how to think or what you're doing wrong so it's hard to find a middle ground with these videos
OK. Watching this I'm still confused.
1) I hate aggression and spent thirty years in psychiatry facing off and restraining psychopaths and murderers.
2) I was bullied at school, and went back second year of sixth form to face them, they'd all gone.
3) I've had only two girlfriends. My first became my wife of thirty years who I stood faithfully by and after separating I'm with a librarian type girl, I have zero interest in playing the field.
3) I'm packing quite a few extra pounds, but lost five stone and walk a lot but can't stand the gym.
4) Alpha males make me literally, in real life, laugh out loud when I see them posturing and jeering. I pity them and despise them.
5) I was a soldier and a nurse.
6) I've been shot, stabbed, pulled a injured old lady off a train track, disarmed knife wielding people on more than one occasion.
7) I like my little pony, cos I played it with my daughter when she was little and the whole universe seems very wholesome and sweet.
8) I supported the invasion of Iraq and I despise Trump and would vote democrat if I was American. I despise Tories here in the UK.
9) I have an encyclodepic knowledge of firearms, their histories, their functioning and I'm a fucking good shot.... I think guns in civilian hands is childish and lethal.
10) I am in the friend zone of many women, not cos I want to shag them, but because I think women are usually more intelligent, gentle and fun.
So, what am I? ( I don't actually care, I'm myself and very happy about it).