For Those Who Fear Death & Aging
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I am 77 and my advice is if you want to live long : dont give it a second thought its the concern that will kill you . If I die tomorrow, so what . I excercise 3 hrs a day because I enjoy it not because I want to live long
Nah, ur 39/40yo.
Exactly age is not a math problem
Exactly! This is what I came up with and I am 21. That ratio thing is bs and makes no sense.
You just gave us the secret to a healthy long life....A good positive attitude coupled with a positive outlook on life. Thank you !!!
Exactly life aint a math problem
My mother is 98. She had eighteen children. They are all healthy. She has two secrets:
1. incredible optimism. Can you imagine having 18 kids and never worrying? Thats my mom.
2. eating healthy. At age six she read a book on vegetables and made a commitment to healthy living. She never had a cigarrette, a cup of coffee, or alcohol. She still remembers the name and author of every book she read. For a while she read three books a day. Still sharp as a tack, has perfect eyesight.
@@iamhavalbarwari cap 🧢
@@iamhavalbarwari you actually believe it 😂🤦🏻
Wait, coffee isn’t that bad for us right?
Unfortunately coffee is extremely unhealthy. You should not drink it.
How can someone have 18 kid's and survive to such a great age, considering how childbearing destroys the body.
Life expectancy was heavily influenced by all the children dying before they became 5. But still appreciating your positive message. Greetings form Germany !
Thank you, I just commented the same thing 😁
Sterilization of medical equipment and hand washing increased life expectancy greatly.
True, infant mortality was very high years ago.
Agreed. 2.5 x today's life expectancy makes zero sense.
TSTVM ...it is true....but having said that by how much would our life expectancy increase if in the next 10 years we find a cure for cancer?
How much will it increase if we develop wearable monitors that provide the equivalent of a daily body scan?...
I believe we could certainly increase life expectancy by 50 years very quickly...just with these two developments. The other consideration is that let’s say 40 years from now, you will be 100...just think what therapies will be available to you 40 years from now. They may be able to actually reverse certain aspects of aging and re-set you back to 50 or 60.
Getting old is still rough. I have a grandfather who’s 92 and he’s not in a good spot. It’s also quality of life, not just quantity
I know right how can one enjoy life when they are weak, there’s a quote saying it’s not the year’s that counts it’s the life in your years.....!!!!!!
because his compoounded poor decisions.
Dont know much about your Grand dad, but he did just reiterate the more money you make the better your health, I knew a WW2, Korean War, Vietnam War Black Vet who grew up as a Sharecropper, had a rough af life, wrote a book about his life, died he was 94yo but, he had more energy than most 25yo, but had cancer for a few years, he had told no one about.
@@msway836 longevity can be attributed to genetics also......!!!!!!! Lifestyle and genetics, poverty causes stress and hardship will impact your wellbeing......!!!!!!!
@@msway836 cap
If you know how quickly people forget the dead... You will stop living to impress people. - Christopher Walken
and the people you do impress by being yourself will remember you till they too pass.
What a great comment.
Thanks
But why I should to live if in the end I will be nothing no one will remember me I fear from death I know you will say fear doesn’t prevent death I know that but I just I can’t stop of thinking about it I watch many videos about it and I still I don’t know why I should to countinue to live what is the meaning of life if you have a good life or bad life it doesn’t matter you will death in the end I hope I was still stupid I hate my brain it os not good to be smart when I see old people I feel so bad how they will dies soon and everything they did will go too everyone will forget them their brothers , children , friends will die too
Every time i think of death, i just cant imagine not existing, it shakes me to my core...
Bro same 😔but , what can we do right ?
Same here
@@kapildeori7432 I know. But if it makes you feel any better, there is hope to slow it down if not prevent altogether thanks to new technologies. Believe me, I've been scared and anxious about this for the past 2, 3, or 4 days and when I saw that video, it did make me feel better because it does make me optimistic about living forever or at least living longer and it did help comfort me a little bit. Not too much but a little. I've also done some hobbies that I like such as playing basketball and singing that have helped a little bit but still not too much. If I don't get better, I will definitely go see a psychiatrist or a psychologist or something because it's so sad and scary to think about and it's starting to affect my daily life tremendously as I'm not eating right or sleeping right. Don't lose hope. I almost did but not anymore because of the promising news. Let's just hope for the best. Thanks for sharing and take care 😃. Remember, no matter what happens you are not alone okay? Many people including myself feel the same way and it's honestly helped me just share this because I've kept it in for myself for so long and I really needed to get it off my chest. I desperately needed this breath of fresh air.
@kursedaim Me too and I'm around your age
Sameee...I'm so sick of this feeling
It's more productive and enjoyable to focus on the life you live than the death you'll never experience.
Whoa. Love this one
What about dying?
@@mitch5222 never mind very bad things are very fast ...
This is true. Good point. Thank you.
I developed fear of death post pandemic. I still get panic attacks with minutest of the things bothering me. Getting inside lift alone. Climbing to the top. Traveling alone in a metro. Toughest of all is sleeping. I feel I would not survive for the next day, but everyday I get up with a new hope of beating my anxiety. I needed this video.
Same. I don’t know if it was the pandemic after effects or something but I had a lot of sleeping trouble and endless thoughts before sleeping. Thinking about death all the time, including about my loved ones.
I am much better the past few days.
Hope you are fine :)
Same
I relate to it so much, I have a feeling of uncertainty and fear with anxiety. I developed a fear of being alone in long distances from home. I spend too many late nights thinking about death. The panic attacks, it made me think if I was even going to make it to the next day but then things keep going. I'm still trying to return to my normal self again. Hope you are feeling better now and found a way to get over it
@@daniela.c.cairus are you ok?
Man I’ve been feeling really old at 37 for 7 years. This puts things into perspective.
And, how do you feel now?
Then when I hit my mid 40's and both of my parents were gone it's like well
I now have nobody I can turn to. I was going through a divorce on top of it and
left the US Arrmy after 12 years of service. I entered at an older age I was 33.
So with the problems I had with my wife and our kids were still young we had
in our mid to late 30's so I had a mountain of responsibility, I could not transition into a decent job due to age discrimmination and a tough economy too.
I did transfer into the Army Reserves a Sergeant in order to continue service (now 45 years old) - and have some kind of a career. And my son is autistic low functioning and so
my wife had to deal with it, and also our take care of daughter who was normal thank God.
So my wife had to do a lot while I was working at what was now gig jobs and a Reservist a weekend a month. Our relationship grew more and more distant and I had to
recover from being stabbed in the right arm by her. I had to have surgery in the back of the bicep area when the median artery is, and the nerve had to be checked for damage. So one good thing was I got 90 days of work,
on orders at the Reserves when I asked if I could.
We were separated I did not press charges on her because I was worried about our kids.
A few months later she went to court for an assault charge and was given probation by the court. I remained on my own always supporting them financially and compromising my own life.
The Dept.of The VA awarded me VA Compensation at a decent amount and financially
helping us out greatly. I got the divorce and also finished 20 years of military service through the Reserves, I was 54 when I retired from there in 2018. Today I am in a local rock band as a bassist, I just recently got the gig, chasing a dream I had in the early 1980's when I was still a teen.
Believe in a higher power, I was saying prayers to Jesus all the time over these years
maybe because my mother always believed in Him and told me that prayers can work.
Somehow, try to enjoy the challenges in your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve your dreams.
“So live your life so the fear of death can never enter your heart. Trouble no one about their religion; respect others in their views, and demand that they respect yours. Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life. Seek to make your life long and of service to your people. Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide. Always give a word or sign of salute when meeting or passing a stranger if in a lonely place. Show respect to all people, but grovel to none. When you arise in the morning, give thanks for the light, for your life and strength. Give thanks for your food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies in yourself. Touch not the poisonous firewater that makes wise ones turn to fools and robs them of their visions. When your time comes to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home.”
Tecumseh
Spoken like a true champion this is the essence of spirit and the driving force of life
Yep!
A Native American who lived 250 years ago knew what it meant to live as a man. He doesn't have what we have now. But his words rang true for many generations to come. We have lost our meaning for life and confused a 'good life' with the pursuit of wealth, sex and a luxurious living. Tecumseh lived a persecuted life but his words reflected a free man. He died at age 45 fighting for what he believed in. Rockefeller and Carnegie may have lived longer and infinitely more wealthy. But Tecumseh has my respect.
Thanks Pat. At 55, you just made me 30. Huge mental difference as I think about what I want to accomplish.
Turning 40 in 1 month, i don't think i am having a midlife crisis, im pretty healthy actually as a competitive amateur cyclist, but i still needed to hear this!!
is that u in ur pfp? damn u look 28
@@iiCounted-op5jx that's an old pic i haven't bothered to update.
@@iiCounted-op5jx is that better?
@@iiCounted-op5jx No, he doesn't he looks over 40 and he is bald. I mean it matter of fact not with ill will.
Shaming his looks is not going to get his attention
Im 27 today and feel like a newborn after this video! thank you my man!!!!!
After both parents are gone and you're not close to any other family and have no friends that fear really kicks in then. Single all my life facing it all alone. Mother passed 2 years ago. I just turned 62 in April.
I'd rather live a good couple of decades healthy and alert rather than drag along into old age just to break a record. Living longer doesn't necessarily translate into success and happiness. In the Grand scheme of things, mankind's whole existence resembles a flash of light compared with how long we don't exist.
i goch u Man.Love it.
Samuel L. Jackson is 72...hes not dragging along. lOL
You say that now, but your perspective might change if death is around the corner
@@ActiveRehabMobility True. Being near death does make you appreciate life more from what I've heard. Too bad I still have a lot of fears and anxiety about this. Do you have any suggestions as to how I can feel better and not worry too much?
45 and just started my college years. And I think you're right. I have recently had this conversation with friends and family. Coincidence?
I do not fear death, I fear the idea of not spending more time with my loved ones and being confronted with my bad deeds / actions and not living up to my potential
How can you not fear death? Do you believe in after life?
@@mikechrist9699 Wish I did
@@mikechrist9699 I do
@@VantaDraws I wish I did too. I grew up religious but I'm not entirely convinced anymore and it just makes me so anxious and paranoid about death. I just like life so much that I don't want to end. These fears, thoughts, and feelings are killing me.
The people in Jamaica who are 90 years and over, THIER mental acuity is off the charts. They have not lost a wink. No memory issues. Fully of energy .....I am now 59, I am expecting to live beyond 110 years old. And full of energy and vitality and excellent memory. .....Excellent video.....
I am just a tourist. When I die, I am going home.
where or when is home?
Trevor Phillips home is where the heart is.
Frequencies. Emotion in motion. Like attracts like, there and opposites attract, here.
I’ve had numerous OBE’s a NDE and stroked out.
I’ve seen things.
Again, home is where the heart is.
I feel the same,to me....LIFE IS A BEAUTIFUL LIE... and DEATH IS A SAD REALITY.
@@chakkakon Jesus has the answers to the questions regarding death
So you think this is a simuIation?
Thank you, existential dread was tormenting me for the past few years over and over again. Now I feel like I'm fulfilled. It sounds very silly for a 19YO to say, but I seem to understand older people saying that teenagers think they're immortal. Thank you.
Then when I hit my mid 40's and both of my parents were gone it's like well
I now have nobody I can turn to. I was going through a divorce on top of it and
left the US Arrmy after 12 years of service. I entered at an older age I was 33.
So with the problems I had with my wife and our kids were still young we had
in our mid to late 30's so I had a mountain of responsibility, I could not transition into a decent job due to age discrimmination and a tough economy too.
I did transfer into the Army Reserves a Sergeant in order to continue service (now 45 years old) - and have some kind of a career. And my son is autistic low functioning and so
my wife had to deal with it, and also our take care of daughter who was normal thank God.
So my wife had to do a lot while I was working at what was now gig jobs and a Reservist a weekend a month. Our relationship grew more and more distant and I had to
recover from being stabbed in the right arm by her. I had to have surgery in the back of the bicep area when the median artery is, and the nerve had to be checked for damage. So one good thing was I got 90 days of work,
on orders at the Reserves when I asked if I could.
We were separated I did not press charges on her because I was worried about our kids.
A few months later she went to court for an assault charge and was given probation by the court. I remained on my own always supporting them financially and compromising my own life.
The Dept.of The VA awarded me VA Compensation at a decent amount and financially
helping us out greatly. I got the divorce and also finished 20 years of military service through the Reserves, I was 54 when I retired from there in 2018. Today I am in a local rock band as a bassist, I just recently got the gig, chasing a dream I had in the early 1980's when I was still a teen.
Believe in a higher power, I was saying prayers to Jesus all the time over these years
maybe because my mother always believed in Him and told me that prayers can work.
Somehow, try to enjoy the challenges in your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve your dreams.
This maths is flawed ,
The average age in the past was drastically brought down by babies dying and infants before the age of 3 or 4 dying ,
If you made it past your 20s you were pretty much on the way to living older ,
People 400 years ago lived till 100 years old no problem ,
The only difference today is that less people are dying young which pushes up the average age ,
If you have 10 people,
1 person lives to 100 and 9 of them die at the age or 2 the average age is 11.8 years old ,
If you take 10 people and 9 of them live to 50 and 1 of them lives to 100 the average age is 55
It's not the people are living older , were just not dying at birth any more,
A lot of the oldest living regions in the worlds are regions without access to modern medicine and the age expectancy in America is actually dropping for the first time in 100 years or so
Advancement in medicine does not equal old age , sometimes the opposite with all the pharmaceutical drugs
3rd world dying from infectious diseases. USA is suffering from chronic diseases, the nice thing about chronic diseases is someone stands too make a lot of money off someone with a Chronic diseases.
Your math is a bit flawed too (118/10=11.8) haha, but I am with you on the sentiment.
@@melodicdreamer72 ha , your right - my error
I just correct the error - good spot ,
It you type the whole sum out in your phone you get 28
2×9+100/10 - check it
USA. Life expectancy goin down due to herbicides pesticides and fungicides being sprayed on your food and the soil killing the micro biome. That’s why you have so many chronic diseases. But this makes loads of dough for agro chemicals and the -pharmaceuticals and insurance industry Oh and wall st and banks So eat. Organic or Grow your own food then you won’t need doctors and any surplus food you grow you can share which helps you live longer
The last time I looked, nobody gets out of here alive! I'm 77 and have a lot of living to do! Life is banquet of things to learn things to do and places to go. I'm not at the end of the road but I can almost see it from here. So what, Live it! don't wait for the calendar to run out.
How are you feel right now?
@@FxChris27 I'm 80 now, and just started construction on a new house, also completing construction on an ATV I've been building for two years now. We just upgraded our RV to enhance our travels . We have found that when traveling, the jewels of the journey are the people we meet and the stories we collect. I am just starting to experiment with just how far can I carry container gardening on our deck (55'x 14') as an eventual replacement for our green house. I just had a meeting with my oncologist. he says 5 plus years. All of my other systems are probably good for a hundred. All of this has made me contemplate the meaning of life ( not in the religious sense). I have come to the conclusion that the best thing you can do with your life is to enrich the life experiences of the next generation. Although I never had children of my own the most precious thing (except for my loving wife) I can hold on to is adding to the lives of my grandchildren and sharing the joy of discovery with them. They are all young adults now and love just as hard as if they were my own. I am fully cognizant that my planning horizon is not as long as it used to be but still embrace each day with a zest for learning and doing and will continue to do so as long as I am able. Perhaps the tongue in cheek way to put it is "I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up".
You ok
@@FxChris27 I recently passed 80. To be honest I found it unsettling becoming "the tip of the spear" since so many of my colleagues and friends are no longer here. However, it seems that was a kind of passage I had to work through. While my planning horizon may not be as far off as in the past I still embrace life with gusto, still learning everyday. I am just now putting the finishing touches on an ATV I started designing and building two years ago. We are currently building a new house with more shop space so I can better indulge my hobbies of designing and building things. My next project, a 3/4 scale replica of a Model T hot rod. My theory is the process of creating and building keeps me mentally agile.
@@alexandrogalicia8711 Actually, I am quite well thank you. I just replied to an earlier question with some detail. I did leave out that I am now dealing with a cancer that can be slowed but not cured ( at least today) . My wife and I enjoy traveling in our RV, we tow an ATV that we use on beaches for surf fishing. I did experience some anxiety when turning 80. However, I have become comfortable with the idea of getting the most living I can out of what I call the "new normal", whatever it is on a given day. My curiosity to learn is still intact. I'm now finishing a still for making ethanol. and learning how to make English style longbows from split and seasoned oak logs.
Thanks for this video Pat, I just turned 50 and was feeling a little down ever since. I feel rejuvenated after watching this, going to go workout right NOW!
How’s being 52? Any advice?
@@VantaDrawsturned 55 this year learned not to give any Facks.
@@extendedpinky haha thanks!!
I’m in my 20s and I was stressing about the age thing and whether I should pursue certain careers. I appreciate your videos, thank yousooo much Pat.🙏
Same
Same but my problem is i don't care about dying, i don't care about my beauty, what I'm getting negative thought is "Will i get thoughts like oh I'm gonna die soon when I'll be old" 24/7 and will i survive my life if i get those thoughts, i just want to focus to present, i don't want to think about my future, and even when i get older i want to think about present moments
@@memyselfndi1 no its scientifically proven you wont get those thoughts because 70% of happy people are people who are 50+ because they are free and have family etc…
Old people dont care about dying bcz their brain is degrading and wont even think of dying
@@memyselfndi1hope it got better for you cause I’ve been crying about this same thing for days now and hate it 💔
I feel it, dude 😢
Hey pat. I used to work for funeral homes. I've been to children's hospitals and family residences to pick up those who left early. Tragedy strikes no matter what. I took care of a wealthy trader once. Had all the concierge medicine you could buy, but lyme disease that eventually turned into dementia made him forget his life and even his kids. Money won't keep you from the reeper. The sand of time is running out on us all. God bless
Rich people can have themselves chryonically preserved until a cure is found for aging. That's what I'd do if I could afford It rather than go passively to the grave.
@@catherinebirch2399também gostaria dessa cura
Just watched the Death of a salesman the other day. Made me think. I am super health conscious but worry about employers seeing value in you after 60. I am currently 53. Entrepreneurship may be the only way but keeping a job and doing something on the side takes a lot of energy.
Honestly, my age is one factor, but I really fear my parents dying sometimes.
Same man.
Hey, I’m a random person who’s really overwhelmed by these exact thoughts you have. It’s strangely comforting knowing there’s people out there who have the same anxieties as yourself. I hope you’re doing okay out there. I’m only 24 but the epiphany of mortality is definitely overwhelming at times. Sometimes it’s most times. Again I hope you’ve found ways to help with your anxiety about that & thanks for commenting that tbh. It kinda helped me out in some ways and I’m appreciative
@@tomkhong5219literally in the same boat, turned 24 and I'm having this incredibly sometimes increasing anxiety, how are you holding up? Has it gotten better? Might sound rude but if not I don't really want to know, I'm just seeking comfort
Then when I hit my mid 40's and both of my parents were gone it's like well
I now have nobody I can turn to. I was going through a divorce on top of it and
left the US Arrmy after 12 years of service. I entered at an older age I was 33.
So with the problems I had with my wife and our kids were still young we had
in our mid to late 30's so I had a mountain of responsibility, I could not transition into a decent job due to age discrimmination and a tough economy too.
I did transfer into the Army Reserves a Sergeant in order to continue service (now 45 years old)
- and have some kind of a career. My son is - by the way he's autistic low functioning and so
my wife had to deal with it, and also our take care of daughter who was normal thank God.
So my wife had to do a lot while I was working at what was now gig jobs and a Reservist a weekend a month. Our relationship grew more and more distant and I had to
recover from being stabbed in the right arm by her. I had to have surgery in the back of the bicep area when the median artery is, and the nerve had to be checked for damage. So one
good thing was I got 90 days of work, on orders at the Reserves when I asked if I could.
We were separated I did not press charges on her because I was worried about our kids.
A few months later she went to court for an assault charge and was given probation by the court. I remained on my own always supporting them financially and compromising my own life.
The Dept.of The VA awarded me VA Compensation at a decent amount and financially
helping us out greatly. I got the divorce and also finished 20 years of military service through
the Reserves, I was 54 when I retired from there in 2018. Today I am in a local rock band as a bassist, I just recently got the gig, chasing a dream I had in the early 1980's when I was still a teen.
Believe in a higher power, I was saying prayers to Jesus all the time over these years
maybe because my mother always believed in Him and told me that prayers can work.
Somehow, try to enjoy the challenges in your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve your dreams.
Same here. I just love them so much.
THIS is why I don't fear death: "For God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life."John 3:16, the New Testament.
Okay
Eh...
@Shoveen Mishima If you are truly seeking truth, call out to God, even if you don't know exactly who or what God is, and He will show you the truth.Maybe He will start leading you in that moment or it might take some time. You will know the truth and the truth will set you free. May God bless you, Shoveen.
Wonderful
@T T The book is truthful, the problem is men's heart.
"The greatest men in the world have failed more than you have tried!" 💪
To everyone: Lets make 2021 our year! 🙏
*" I will succeed for my parents, for all they have made for me! I hope you will too "*
I agree with the message. The only adjustment however is the relative dependence upon medicine. The less the dependence, the greater the freedom and far greater is one's health!
I'll turn 78 in July and have all the desires of continuous learning and taking advantage of family and friends. I worked for 50 years + 1 day and enjoyed every day of it prior to retiring in 2018 as I only retired to not travel so much for work. With all that said there are things you cannot control such as health issues and we all have our share, I am fortunate to have my wife of 50+ years to share daily activities with but constantly think more so of my expiration date due to losing friends as they pass or anyone 75 - 80 years. BTW I am a Vietnam vet, quit riding my motorcycle in 2018, and drink on the average 3 beers per day (good stuff). God Bless you all
I don't know why i just want to ask how are you now sir? If you are still alive which i really hope you are, your comment on this video helped me in some way that even i don't know how anyway, what can I say or ask to someone who is old? How was your life? Maybe?
We would really love to hear a reply
I am 28 years old in 1839 I am 14.22 years old. Crazy perspective!!! Thank you!!! I felt like I was behind since I'm just now really starting to see decent money in my business and master the knowledge of my industry.
The fact the I'm about 1 year older than you puts your story in so much perspective for me. Thanks!
“Desiré something, write it down and work hard to get it” the only thing that you can’t have is what YOU believe you can’t.
This should be pinned to the top !!!
I'm 53 yr old woman. Wicked, colourful fast life. Still living, loving and nailing deals down. Like your streams!
This message is so sweet, I might get diabetes. Realistically, the average age during that time was affected by child mortality.
71 in March and still going semi-strong. Up ladders to high roofs, xcskiing up to 2.5 hrs (moderately with rests these days) etc., etc.
I'm thinking 90 as my mom, aunt is 98 this year, living on her own still with visits from my cousins.
Great vid Pat, very encouraging as usual. The breath of the subject matter you cover is amazing - and I don't watch all - have projects going - but, glad you are doing all this blogging. Carry on!!
Interesting concept. I believe that acceptance and presence of mind are the biggest keys to overcoming fear of death. But is it even possible to eliminate that fear entirely?
Inner Peace Eliminates Fear of Death
@@Lightinthedark730 thanks for the insight, finding/cultivating inner peace can be really tough. I've found self acceptance, presence and letting go of trying to control things to be big players in finding inner peace. What have you found from your experience?
If you can except the fact that you were never born. You might have difficulty thinking you will die. Your here, where ever here is, you always have been, you always will be.
@@TakeBackYourMind997 Peace for me has alway came from the spirit of Christ meaning positive thinking being internalize through spirit and the knowledge of God and wisdom. for me when Im able to stop allowing the world to influence my thoughts and attitudes in negative ways and Im able to think for myself my own positive thoughts not by news or not by television and media but from God’s eternal will for us to be free as it was when there were no outside negative influences like in the beginning before the fall of man the good that is in me trying to help when I see someone needs help I’m able to manifest peace in my inner being through thoughts and spirit this is the only times I have been able to experience real peace and before I was able to experience that peace I always had to change something about myself and change my attitude about life and stop doing those things that I knew were keeping me from experiencing that peace and I think we all know to some degree what our bad habits are and when I’m able to start thinking love first instead of judge help first instead of hurt actions like these has always brought peace to my soul and life everyone say its better to give than to receive the Bible teaches those same principles and until I really consciously did that it was always hard to experience real peace even I don’t understand why when experiencing this kind of peace the world looks like a lot different to me I can only say it have to be God working through me to experience that level of peace from my experience. even when I think positive thoughts and show love as a action I find that if my motive is there but the action is not I think peace can still be achieved cause the motives are right and by having my mind right I have found that my way of thinking can also lead to inner peace from my experiences
@@Lightinthedark730 This is so interesting because you and I have different world views, but I live by many of the same principles you spoke about there. Funny how different paths can lead to the same destinations. I think that's a sign of universally true concepts, like the fact serving others brings deep happiness and fulfillment to our lives. I totally get what you're saying about positive thinking changing the way the world looks, I believe our focus determines the world we live in. Focus on the bad that's what you'll see, focus on the good and you'll live in a good world. Thanks for sharing, I'm glad you found your positive path in life!
This has open my mind, we still have a long way to go.
"For what doth it profit a man, if he gain the whole world, and suffer the loss of his own soul? Or what exchange shall a man give for his soul?"
[Matthew 16:26]
Then when I hit my mid 40's and both of my parents were gone it's like well
I now have nobody I can turn to. I was going through a divorce on top of it and
left the US Arrmy after 12 years of service. I entered at an older age I was 33.
So with the problems I had with my wife and our kids were still young we had
in our mid to late 30's so I had a mountain of responsibility, I could not transition into a decent job due to age discrimmination and a tough economy too.
I did transfer into the Army Reserves a Sergeant in order to continue service (now 45 years old) - and have some kind of a career. And my son is autistic low functioning and so
my wife had to deal with it, and also our take care of daughter who was normal thank God.
So my wife had to do a lot while I was working at what was now gig jobs and a Reservist a weekend a month. Our relationship grew more and more distant and I had to
recover from being stabbed in the right arm by her. I had to have surgery in the back of the bicep area when the median artery is, and the nerve had to be checked for damage. So one good thing was I got 90 days of work,
on orders at the Reserves when I asked if I could.
We were separated I did not press charges on her because I was worried about our kids.
A few months later she went to court for an assault charge and was given probation by the court. I remained on my own always supporting them financially and compromising my own life.
The Dept.of The VA awarded me VA Compensation at a decent amount and financially
helping us out greatly. I got the divorce and also finished 20 years of military service through the Reserves, I was 54 when I retired from there in 2018. Today I am in a local rock band as a bassist, I just recently got the gig, chasing a dream I had in the early 1980's when I was still a teen.
Believe in a higher power, I was saying prayers to Jesus all the time over these years
maybe because my mother always believed in Him and told me that prayers can work.
Somehow, try to enjoy the challenges in your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve your dreams.
Sad reality is that you can die at any time, at any place but it's dificult to accept it.
Turning 30 this year and I only experienced 1/4th of my life and excited for the other 3/4!
Who told you 3/4 is left? How about 99% is left? How about 0%?
I'm 27 and I'm having a quarter life crisis.
:D
You're me.
Going through it at 22 🥲
I remember saying the same thing at your age, thought I was the first one to have such an idea at the time!
I'm 19 and was havinh that type of crisis few moths ago
Unfortunately some anguished folks who are already there, gave me this advice...Don't get old.
Do they want you to die young? Lol
I'm 18. But I feel like I'm old I don’t wanna grow up anymore. Whenever I think about growing up I feel depressed I get anxiety. Why these things happen when aging is too normal. I just can't accept the fact that I'm growing old 🙂
Every day you're not being educated on health, health, health. You're being marketed to, based on your fears.
im 15 and i appreciate this advice, thanks a lot
The math is pretty wrong here, you can not really compare increasing life expectancy from 40 to 80 with like 80 to 120.
80-90 is probably near limit of human life expectancy in close to perfect conditions.
Exactly u have a smarter brain than him what is wrong with value
My aunt lived to 102 , another to 90 some. They barely ate a thing ., look up MTor.. life expectancy..
makes sense now, looking back, seeing them barely eat, rather skinny/small people they were. And not wealthy at all. Lived on beans and tortillas.
,, I miss my Tia. She would give me candy and a 1 dollar bill every time she saw me. The good ole days .
31 and feel Iike life is just beginning.
"We are smarter today." 🙄
No, our phones are...
I'm really scared of dying without achieving my goals! This was a check up on getting my life together.
Patrick, you are my favorite channel on the right to watch. Kudos to you for keeping me entertained during my freetime!
PAT..... I've spent the last 9 years building a business and haven't gotten it off the ground yet. East to West coast, networking building a pipeline, structure, business plan everything intact but financing and or tech skills to build it myself(app). I looked back 6 months ago and said "where do I keep going wrong" partners, attempting to learn the wrong way. Sucked up time and at the beginning of this year I said, I just have to act like I'm 20 and start from there, just act like I'm young and have more then enough time because I am young even at 38. I just feel embarrassed because I tried to jump from the foul line before I could dribble properly. Also all this networking on Instagram false launch dates made me feel self conscious about hurrying. I literally said this to myself, less then two weeks from then you post this video. 🙏🏾 Thank you brother and #salute you soldier.
Im 52, feel 20 and not rich. Keeping consistently active is key vato
In the Old Testament, Genesis 6:3 says, "Then the Lord said, 'My Spirit shall not abide in man forever, for he is flesh: his days shall be 120 years.'”
No male has passed that since the Guinness Book of Records started digging. But one woman made it to 122, assuming that was accurately recorded, born in the year 1875.
My son pointed this out to me when he was in CCD (Catechism) & also into the Guinness Book of Records.
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I keep seeing this young people acting like they are in their 50s I’m 50 behaving like I’m at their age they wouldn’t be able to keep up with me if they try this new generation has gotten lazy and that’s why they feel old. Awesome video Pat hope it inspires people to reevaluate their lives.
Lol I see this a lot with people my age. Especially around where I live. Most of them don’t want to work at all. Or have to work a job where they have to physically move. They would rather sit around at home all day, or work from home on a computer than do a physical job. Overall We all can get lazy at times but come on!
I'm 62 and I still feel like I'm 30 even my hair isn't going grey yet eat a balanced diet >> keep active my Uncle an avid cigar smoker in St. Louis lived until his 90's and could of lived longer with blood transfusions but he refused citing that he lived long enough and passed away in mid 90's
Don't complain about growing old, many are denied the privilege.
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A peaceful life is about acceptance and love. We will all die. Some of us will be relatively vibrant at death. Some of us, the body will break down, some more than others.
All the money in the world won’t matter. In today’s materialistic society, it’s a reminder that following your passion is more important than chasing money. If you are fortunate, your financial security comes from following your passion.
I was diagnosed at 49 with stage 4 melanoma. It did not spread and had it removed. The illness was a gift, and gave me a second lease on life. I wrote my book. I created my art. I had the great romance of my life. This second chance gave me a sense of urgency, to do what I came here to do. I’ll admit, I still have bouts of anxiety and a sense of dread of aging and dying. However, my biggest fear is not really living. And the fear? In wisdom, I sit with the fear, acknowledge it, and accept that this fear will soon pass. Love always returns.
If you want to live longer the "health system" is not the answer. Take care of your own health with exercise, rest and proper diet. And i forgot, throw away the tv, and close your social media.
Agree!!!
I’m 30 years old. I think about death. Everything is constantly changing in this universe.It is attachment and ignorance that cause suffering. All that is left is to Love. Love and love when you still got time.
When I saw the title to your podcast I was thankful you made this. I have been my own worst enemy since becoming disabled from my tour in Iraq. I am 48 years old now and I'm going from one surgery to the next. I went to Iraq and thought I was doing the right thing but now what? How does someone find purpose again? I hope you can touch on this subject some more...#oneshotonekill #goarmy #bestpodcast
Ive been going through a life crisis since 18! When i turned 18 i felt old and like i had wasted my life. At 18!
Mom!!! According to the formula I’m 13
I’m packing everything and moving back in.
No ur 5😭😭
It is not about how much we live, it is about how we live. Living happy and healthy what does really matter. Most people do not fear death more than fearing the suffering and illness that comes before. It is not about the quantity it is about the quality of life we might have. Hope you all have a long healthy and happy life.
To those who fear death - turn to Christ, He will give you everlasting life
don't fear death, embrace it. let it overtake you. prepare for it. ;)
I'm 60. Never occurred to me that I would hit this age. Never really thought about it. The life I've lived seems charmed to me. That, or I am already dead and this is my hell hahah. I'm probably moldering away in a field in Asia somewhere violent.
Lmao. This is a good one. Imagine you're dead and you're in hell and Covid is the devil ruling the world... We're all fucked
We are all babies in deep. Dont let the adult stuff kill your inner child.
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Eternal life is the most important. We will all face death but your spirit NEVER DIES! Death on earth is not the ultimate defeat. How you die may be the scarier thought. But why worry about tomorrow when it isn’t in our hands? Take it one day at a time.
I share your experiences with anxiety.
Anxiety is fearing the uncertainties of life.
What I recommend and a belief I have created to eliminate this FEAR is as follows.
DO NOT DIE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE.
That will he our rate one day.
But today you MUST shine.
BECOME YOUR OWNHERO
Then when I hit my mid 40's and both of my parents were gone it's like well
I now have nobody I can turn to. I was going through a divorce on top of it and
left the US Arrmy after 12 years of service. I entered at an older age I was 33.
So with the problems I had with my wife and our kids were still young we had
in our mid to late 30's so I had a mountain of responsibility, I could not transition into a decent job due to age discrimmination and a tough economy too.
I did transfer into the Army Reserves a Sergeant in order to continue service (now 45 years old) - and have some kind of a career. And my son is autistic low functioning and so
my wife had to deal with it, and also our take care of daughter who was normal thank God.
So my wife had to do a lot while I was working at what was now gig jobs and a Reservist a weekend a month. Our relationship grew more and more distant and I had to
recover from being stabbed in the right arm by her. I had to have surgery in the back of the bicep area when the median artery is, and the nerve had to be checked for damage. So one good thing was I got 90 days of work,
on orders at the Reserves when I asked if I could.
We were separated I did not press charges on her because I was worried about our kids.
A few months later she went to court for an assault charge and was given probation by the court. I remained on my own always supporting them financially and compromising my own life.
The Dept.of The VA awarded me VA Compensation at a decent amount and financially
helping us out greatly. I got the divorce and also finished 20 years of military service through the Reserves, I was 54 when I retired from there in 2018. Today I am in a local rock band as a bassist, I just recently got the gig, chasing a dream I had in the early 1980's when I was still a teen.
Believe in a higher power, I was saying prayers to Jesus all the time over these years
maybe because my mother always believed in Him and told me that prayers can work.
Somehow, try to enjoy the challenges in your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve your dreams.
Covid or whatever it was had me sick for almost 2yrs. My wife had a baby during covid. I went to bed worried i wouldnt wake up almost every night. This messed with my head. My health got better but my mental health is still suffering. I never worried about death or the future but now I have periods of time i want to run down the street screaming because my anxiety runs over me, fear of my daughter growing up, and the happiest time of my life ending. Worry about getting older and suffering in whatever way it may come. I worry about losing my wife to age or bad health. All these negative thoughts i never had before now flood my brain. Im trying my best to come to peace with my present and what will be my future. But once the mind is messed up its hard to come back and move on. I pray everyday that I wont feel these things and I can go back to being truly happy. Im trying my best. But i think the next step is therapy.
I love this man! You are a most wonderful gift to humanity, Pat. May God bless you with much more wisdom, fortune, health and wealth for you and your family. Thank you for your work.
Then when I hit my mid 40's and both of my parents were gone it's like well
I now have nobody I can turn to. I was going through a divorce on top of it and
left the US Arrmy after 12 years of service. I entered at an older age I was 33.
So with the problems I had with my wife and our kids were still young we had
in our mid to late 30's so I had a mountain of responsibility, I could not transition into a decent job due to age discrimmination and a tough economy too.
I did transfer into the Army Reserves a Sergeant in order to continue service (now 45 years old) - and have some kind of a career. And my son is autistic low functioning and so
my wife had to deal with it, and also our take care of daughter who was normal thank God.
So my wife had to do a lot while I was working at what was now gig jobs and a Reservist a weekend a month. Our relationship grew more and more distant and I had to
recover from being stabbed in the right arm by her. I had to have surgery in the back of the bicep area when the median artery is, and the nerve had to be checked for damage. So one good thing was I got 90 days of work,
on orders at the Reserves when I asked if I could.
We were separated I did not press charges on her because I was worried about our kids.
A few months later she went to court for an assault charge and was given probation by the court. I remained on my own always supporting them financially and compromising my own life.
The Dept.of The VA awarded me VA Compensation at a decent amount and financially
helping us out greatly. I got the divorce and also finished 20 years of military service through the Reserves, I was 54 when I retired from there in 2018. Today I am in a local rock band as a bassist, I just recently got the gig, chasing a dream I had in the early 1980's when I was still a teen.
Believe in a higher power, I was saying prayers to Jesus all the time over these years
maybe because my mother always believed in Him and told me that prayers can work.
Somehow, try to enjoy the challenges in your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve your dreams.
🎉🎉🎉 Love this!!! This is exactly how I feel!! NOT my “ age” - friends around me who complaint and whine “ ohh, my knees, I’m old I’m 35 now 🙄 “ - I want to say, NO! you’re lazy and treat your body like a trash can. DO Better! Eat Better! Exercise daily! Go to SLEEP and rest!! Forgive and love stop being bitter. IF ONLY people learn to love value their health more than they do their cars and houses and “ looking” good.
I love listening to ALL your videos. I suffer from anxiety & fear of death so this video captured my attention. I know that when I die I am saved so I will go to Heaven, but I still suffer from anxiety just like Paul had a thorn on his side I do as well. One thing I know is that God is good ! I think you are THE best at what you do so thank you for all your great videos ! By the way I am 54 years old so I need to calculate my other age lol
Im afraid that what i believe all this time is false, and i just become nothing🥲. Do you also have the same experience?
@@mikechrist9699 no, I strongly believe in our Lord Jesus Christ. If it wasn't for His peace, love and forgiveness I would be a total mess. I do have anxiety but He knows my heart and He is always there holding my hand throughout the entire time. Don't ever lose hope, seek Him everyday. This too shall pass. You got this!
Simple, straightforward truth. Thanks Patrick! P.S. that 2 minute video says volumes.
The whole math is flawed.
true , but at least he tries to make people feel positive xd but I also disagree with his math and points
Man. Your logic is insane.
What comforts me about the blessing of growing old is the after life in heaven. As a follewer in Christ, I worry not. Growing old and thankful.
Sometimes im afraid that my belief is wrong and nothing happens after i die. Do you experience the same thing?
Patrick, you are amazing. You read my mind. Im 32, I own small automotive business, recently bought a house. Im trying to pay it off in 5 years, by making larger payments every month. The reason for this is that im afraid of not having much time left. Thank you for this awesome video. It calms me down
holy your still a baby man
The life spans of many many oldtimers was quite long...the average was brought way down by the number of those who died in childbirth and from childhood ailments but those who survived these often lived to ripe old ages and did so without allopathic medical intervention.
My birthday is coming on Christmas Day tomorrow but I can’t tell you how old I am. But I have this fear of aging now not just because of my youth, not just because of my fertility but because of my fear of not being able to achieve my goals such as going to college, becoming a cartoon artist, traveling and my fear of losing my mental youth because my two favorite colors are pink and purple, I like being funny, I just like myself this way. It’s too much pressure for me and my mind to handle. I want to let go of all that fear but I don’t want to let my guard down of making sure that I don’t physically or mentally age fast.
Okay let me just say something here.
"I want to be flithy rich " Period.
Put the work and you will, learn and keep learning 💯💪
@@younesalawaji8613 Thanks man, really appreciate it.
You see what is the difference between you and Rockefeller. The man pointed numbers and you have no number while you talk about the numbers. Give me a number whats is filthy rich for you, 10 million in your bank account? 100 million, couple of billions? Then you will be aware of your destination. Good luck :)
@Jon Johnson Yeah man 20% good but I feel I can extend more.And Gold and Silver do you literally mean it or is there a message to it.
Anyways appreciate it.
@@ln3041 Your words hit me deep down, I am assuming that your telling me to focus on being DEFINITE. And I totally agree, there must be a target and then a desire and dedication to must reach our goal. Your words reminded me of the book 'THINK AND GROW RICH'.
You might've read it.
Anyways strong words really appreciated 👍👍
if we have Faith in Christ and the Sacraments He gave us then we need not fear death. life in this vale of tears is very very short despite what Patrick is saying, if you live to be a 100 it goes by in the blink of an eye, then comes Eternity
Not all people believe in fairy tale..
Thanks for telling us poor or middle class we’re going to die early because we’re not rich!
Believe in Yeshua/Jesus Messiah and repent of sin and you will have eternal life. Beat that. 😇💖
Dear Patrick. Sorry for my English. You are encouraging those who are afraid of dying. Do you have any advice for someone to start living? I'm 32 years old and I've spent my whole life just existing. I have tried many jobs and money has never been a problem for me. But I've never had a goal in life or a reason to keep living. I admire your passion but I can't find mine. Do you have any advice for people like me? I hope you can reach 150 years
you are never gonna beat rich people at making money, lets pay more attention to health than meaningless salary
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I don't fear death. I fear getting to my death with an unachieved dream.
Real Investing 200 no fear. Do what you can do and happily forget what wasn’t.
How can you not fear death, do you believe in after life?
@@mikechrist9699 I don't fear death. I am actually curious about what happens after death. I don't know what to believe, when it comes to the after life. Because I have never meet anyone who died and was revived a year later to talk about what it is like after death.
I'm literally 19 I don't know why but I'm worried about aging
Instructions unclear... stubbed my toe and life expectancy reduced by 10 years.
Great friggen video Pat!!! As usual !! 👊🏼
'M 22 almost getting 23 and 'M freaking out, thinking m old af
Relax! you have a whole life ahead of you. Just focus on how to not waste time.
Feel you bro
Me too brother feelin you
LOL I wish I were 22 again! Enjoy life and make a good life and future for yourself.
One of my Most Trusted Frends Committed suicide few days ago. I wish he would have listened to this message before he took his own life. Blessings to everyone reading this... I wish you all long life and prosperity🙏🏽
Why?
My nan's 95. Believe me, she ain't 50!
mine's 94 and that isn't a blessing for her to be honest, silly to be fixated on length of life like we are
@@marcokite Yep!
Dan Pena and Patrick bet david would literally break the internet and youtube
Why worry about cryptocurrency quotes if there is FBC14 algorithm?
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