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  • @rynfornow3411
    @rynfornow3411 2 роки тому +35345

    “Virgin” back then meant “not attached to a man.” So there’s some jokes that men are never virgins, and lesbians are super-virgins.

  • @rynfornow3411
    @rynfornow3411 2 роки тому +10591

    “The word ‘virgin,’ some say, was derived from a Greek word that meant ‘not attached to a man,’ a woman who was “one-in-herself.”
    Goddesses like Ishtar (Assyrian-Babylonian), Diana (Roman), Astarte (Greek) and Isis (Egyptian) were called “virgins” not because they were inexperienced but because they were strong and independent.”

    • @MaudMargretheRex
      @MaudMargretheRex 2 роки тому +129

      Lovely insight; Great Thanks

    • @UserOfTheName
      @UserOfTheName 2 роки тому +220

      yeah no one in ancient Greece was "inexperienced" it'd be weird if they had a word for it

    • @Nicherie
      @Nicherie 2 роки тому +22

      I like this.

    • @pineddew
      @pineddew 2 роки тому +20

      love thisss !! makes me happy to be semi religious :)
      (FYI PLEASE DONT HATE ME IM GAY TOO NOT ALL OF US ARE OFFENSIVE I SWEAR)

    • @sablemoreno5095
      @sablemoreno5095 Рік тому +65

      Don't forget Artemis and her followers/worshipers/huntresses (I forget is Astarte is the same goddess by a different name, but either way, name recognition 👍)

  • @craveliving681
    @craveliving681 Рік тому +3046

    I strive to see the day that people understand the hymen is not a "freshness seal", that virginity is what you make of it, that sa victims aren't tainted, and that losing your virginity should be a symbol of love and trust. It's just a way to say you had a consensual experience with someone.

    • @canceledartist
      @canceledartist Рік тому +261

      “A FRESHNESS SEAL” NOOOOO 😭😭😭

    • @cinny1313
      @cinny1313 Рік тому +22

      exactly

    • @jewelfoxgaming873
      @jewelfoxgaming873 Рік тому +95

      Calling it the freshness seal from now on 💀

    • @softfairy_xo_
      @softfairy_xo_ Рік тому +190

      Dude...reading this made me cry.
      As an sa victim, I've battled feeling guilty for something that was not my fault. Thank you for standing up for us❤️❤️

    • @rileyhamiltonsmiley4395
      @rileyhamiltonsmiley4395 Рік тому +44

      I’m very sorry that happened to you. Stay strong

  • @Kimosabes2hot
    @Kimosabes2hot Рік тому +618

    Virginity does not exist. Because the second you're born, life is already f*ckin you over.

    • @thewxtchsheart
      @thewxtchsheart Рік тому +9

      Bro gawdamn...

    • @kookiesandtae4447
      @kookiesandtae4447 Рік тому

      You're not funny

    • @A-littlenightmare
      @A-littlenightmare Рік тому +11

      I’m going to hell for laughing at this

    • @AbelValentineee
      @AbelValentineee Рік тому +4

      dayumn

    • @Shadow1Yaz
      @Shadow1Yaz Рік тому +2

      If the original word used in “Virgin Mary” would be closer to “young” so… based on that, virginity does exist and I guess you lose it when you’re no longer considered a child (between 15-18?)
      This is me being light hearted. This isn’t a serious a rebuttal. ☺️

  • @snickersdasnek5554
    @snickersdasnek5554 2 роки тому +21074

    Mary also wasn’t white-

    • @carolzinhaagringa897
      @carolzinhaagringa897 Рік тому +453

      Yes she was. She was Olive skinned making her 🌟 white 🌟. Not brown. Not black. White.

    • @yg2hj
      @yg2hj Рік тому +2760

      ​@@carolzinhaagringa897 she's literally asian

    • @H3llo_Fr1ends
      @H3llo_Fr1ends Рік тому +8

      ​@@yg2hj Asians are usually seen as white

    • @cadowogan
      @cadowogan Рік тому +5780

      @@carolzinhaagringa897 last i checked, olives weren't white. mary is middle eastern, where the religion originated.

    • @ghoulsblood
      @ghoulsblood Рік тому +3978

      @@carolzinhaagringa897 mary, jesus, and god were all middle eastern so yes they were dark skinned because of their race also they were always in the sun so their skin would be darker too....

  • @olexarity9621
    @olexarity9621 Рік тому +1587

    “Nobody dies a virgin because life fucks us all” - Kurt Cobain

    • @AngelRain201
      @AngelRain201 Рік тому +33

      "Everyone is gay" i also love that one too

    • @louisnotonfire4243
      @louisnotonfire4243 Рік тому +24

      @@AngelRain201 “AAAAAAAHHHH” that’s a personal favorite quote from him

    • @valevolentt
      @valevolentt Рік тому +1

      Real

    • @A45-r8s
      @A45-r8s Рік тому +1

      I broke your 555 likes

    • @belvyjordan9953
      @belvyjordan9953 Рік тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣. Sad but true.

  • @ifergot
    @ifergot Рік тому +1561

    I always thought it was really weird how American social media and media are so attached to virginity. Like why are there so many shows and movies that talk about virginity with high schoolers as the subjects? Why is being a virgin as a man lame, but not being a virgin as a woman shamed upon? Nasty obsession with virginity 🤨

    • @sidthompson9538
      @sidthompson9538 Рік тому +112

      Because the majority of the modern world is built upon the social structures set by a hugely mistranslated text that has also been changed and revised hundreds of times to better fit biases of an individual person instead of just sticking to the original stories. Abrahamic religions are what our society is built on whether you like it or not. And those have not been adapted well to modernism.
      “In the beginning” should be “in a beginning “.
      Jesus was actually historically born in April as far as we know. The only reason Christmas happens in December is because some royalty a long time ago wanted to overshadow the pagan traditions of celebrating winter solstice. That way, more people would convert to Christianity.

    • @fallenangel6419
      @fallenangel6419 Рік тому +3

      Like, you literally have a whole state named after that. How the fuck did your ancestors think that this is a good idea? 😂

    • @jmaez5178
      @jmaez5178 Рік тому +22

      That’s not just American either. That’s everywhere.

    • @KiwiQueen-ht9fe
      @KiwiQueen-ht9fe Рік тому +14

      THANK YOU. I'M DO HAPPY THERE'S SOMEONE OUT THERE KNOWING ALL THESE NATIONAL HOLIDAYS WERE ORIGINALLY PAGEN HOLIDAYS IT'S JUST CHRISTIANS AND ROYALTY WANTED TO CONTROL IT AND TAKE OVER. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU 😭❊❁❀❁❀❊

    • @KiwiQueen-ht9fe
      @KiwiQueen-ht9fe Рік тому

      Pagan*

  • @datbird12
    @datbird12 Рік тому +450

    “Virginity doesn’t exsist”
    Valorant players:

    • @divine6867
      @divine6867 Рік тому +6

      @@Astralex_Crucible that’s different though, anyone can be celibate, but only people who’ve never had sex can be virgins.

    • @sand8515
      @sand8515 Рік тому +1

      " impossible standard" bro I'ma die a virgin 😭

  • @aaasht2606
    @aaasht2606 Рік тому +3158

    Overall the whole obsession over someone's intimate status is gross and weird...
    Guys by obsession i literally meant being weird about stranger's intimate life, crossing boundaries, forcing your partner or kids of family into virginity tests.
    Everything that crosses the boundary or a person woth self autonomy.
    Like yeah keeping kids safe is ok, but gettig to a point where you leave them 0 privacy, stalk, hover and all that shit. Esp if due gender to girls and or boys. And generally everyone. Without a smidge of reason and thorough help of education and information
    Is the kind of shit i call obsession, sick one.
    Obsessing over something that can hurt ourself and others is not healthy

    • @tiawolf3610
      @tiawolf3610 Рік тому +12

      Only if it's a minor of family member
      It's okay to obsess over it for a partner - it's a big part of it - neither gross nor weird

    • @Bung22
      @Bung22 Рік тому +193

      @@tiawolf3610 no it’s not okay to “obsess” over it even with a partner. That’s really weird. Preferences are okay, not obsessions

    • @tiawolf3610
      @tiawolf3610 Рік тому +12

      @@Bung22 you can obsess over something even if you aren't obsessed
      I obsess over cute animals but I'm not obsessed with them specifically
      there are healthy levels of obsession
      if it's a borderline unhealthy obsession then YEA that's weird as fuck - same with anything else

    • @Bung22
      @Bung22 Рік тому +114

      @@tiawolf3610 what would you consider a healthy obsession over someone’s intimate status 💀

    • @omegaaura3082
      @omegaaura3082 Рік тому +58

      @@tiawolf3610but it’s not? It should not be nearly that big of a deal and if it is you are with the wrong person. Obsessing over a body count reduces that person to the people they’ve slept with, which is weird.

  • @ArtundertheSun1
    @ArtundertheSun1 Рік тому +916

    I need popcorn before reading the comments lol

    • @bigmeatyclaws28
      @bigmeatyclaws28 Рік тому +17

      same, here i’ll get you a bowl lmao

    • @zm.9096
      @zm.9096 Рік тому +11

      There's so much content on these commentaries that I can't even choose which one to look first hehehe

    • @cheetogems2666
      @cheetogems2666 Рік тому +5

      Hand me some of that this is too interesting

    • @p40v1der13
      @p40v1der13 Рік тому

      Lol same

    • @jaimeduncan6167
      @jaimeduncan6167 Рік тому +1

      The video is based on a false premise , the Hebrew originals she refer too don’t exist. Still on the Greek older version we have the point is not that virgin= pure but that Jesus was the product of a divine act. The whole purity think comes pretty late, from the Roman.

  • @angelsh0t
    @angelsh0t Рік тому +2254

    As a Christian woman, I've never seen Mary used to make women feel inferior or that we can't live up to her example. I can see how some might misinterpret it, and I am sorry that some people in religion might use that to 'control' women in some way.
    For me, I always saw Mary as a symbol of hope. God chose Mary not because she was perfect, popular, or full-figured, He chose her because she was faithful to Him. I see it as a form of honor that God chose Mary to carry His Son, Jesus, because she was obedient to Him.
    Also, a fun lil' fact you forgot to mention, not only did Mary get pregnant while being a virgin, her cousin, who was infertile and way beyond childbearing age, also conceived Jesus's cousin John the Baptist. Mary also has a few other children with her husband after Jesus was born.
    We also see Mary mess up when raising Jesus as well as seeing some of her human flaws in scripture. Mary isn't supposed to be a figure to suppress women, she's meant to show how God can take those who aren't 'special' and bless them.
    TL;DR: Mary isn't supposed to set an impossible standard. She is supposed to be a powerful woman who showcases God's love and blessings.
    "Ma'am this is a Wendy's"
    And this is my two cents.

    • @sourdrop
      @sourdrop Рік тому +157

      I couldn't have said it better myself. I remember when I was in youth group growing up, our youth group leader always told us to think of praying the Rosary as talking to our mom. Because that is who Mary is: she is everyone's mom. She is a force of kindness, comfort, and guidance for many, a role model for living devoted to Christ.

    • @Dr_zevia
      @Dr_zevia Рік тому +36

      Thank you!!!

    • @chenoaproctor8215
      @chenoaproctor8215 Рік тому +32

      Well said love this

    • @tranlenamphuong6192
      @tranlenamphuong6192 Рік тому +115

      Nevertheless she is an icon, a justified reason that further encourages our society’s obsession for virginity. Why are womanhood values be tied to being “obedient” and “pure”.
      All religion originated with good intend and so is Christianity. It’s just that some values in the wrong hands of people can be a weapon of oppression.

    • @anothermuslima
      @anothermuslima Рік тому +33

      As a muslim I agree with 80% of what you said. The rest is a difference unrelated to the point so no worries about that lol. But yes even the Quran, Mary is a virgin. I can't believe someone can try to prove she wasn't 😂

  • @sawfan7
    @sawfan7 Рік тому +430

    When the angel told Mary she would have a son, she asked him back why this could be possible since she’s never been with a man.
    So she was a virgin.

    • @mrs.naumankhan2407
      @mrs.naumankhan2407 Рік тому +15

      Amen!

    • @fudgecake76
      @fudgecake76 Рік тому +14

      Thank you

    • @Emma.Lou1
      @Emma.Lou1 Рік тому +38

      lol okay yeah, that's true. I actually forgot about that verse. it's kind of funny to see everyone arguing in the comments about this subject and then seeing this comment.

    • @MrSparklytuxedocat
      @MrSparklytuxedocat Рік тому

      No bitchess?

    • @itsniquenique45
      @itsniquenique45 Рік тому +36

      What part of mistranslation did you not understand

  • @cha0tykharm0nye
    @cha0tykharm0nye Рік тому +1625

    "Virginity is gross made up fetish"
    Also draws Mary as white....the irony

    • @kuromisa_cosplay
      @kuromisa_cosplay Рік тому +100

      She usually never draws skin color.

    • @biblicallyaccurateangel2476
      @biblicallyaccurateangel2476 Рік тому +289

      im fairly sure she’s drawing using a reference from a different painting

    • @annataymond9529
      @annataymond9529 Рік тому +47

      @@rake8341 Im fairly certain it was less common back then.

    • @WillowWeiedo
      @WillowWeiedo Рік тому +92

      ​@@rake8341 they were poor people and constantly traveling... i dont think they were lilly white

    • @cronchybo
      @cronchybo Рік тому +204

      yes, this depiction of Mary most likely comes from the Renaissance era. this video is not about how Mary would've actually looked, it is about the concept of virginity.

  • @witzitzilin
    @witzitzilin Рік тому +608

    I also want to say that I believe this is a concept that hurts SA survivors since it makes them feel corrupted or unworthy of having a healthy relationship

    • @tacobell1299
      @tacobell1299 Рік тому +75

      It passes me off more knowing many Christians shame SA survivors

    • @CannabrannaLammer
      @CannabrannaLammer Рік тому +10

      ​@@tacobell1299 no we do not. You are responsible for your part in everything in life. If I had a million pounds and ran about at 3am in a dark place holding it, I'd expect some reprobate to try and take it, so I wouldn't do any of those things. When you place yourself in danger and danger finds you, you're responsible for placing yourself in danger. Not for the sinful action of the person committing the act, that's theirs alone and they should be punished harshly. The word 'shaming' has been thrown up about everything now because you people want to live life as you please with absolutely zero responsibility or consequences for your actions. You were never shown consequences as children so now you feel entitled not to have to deal with them in life, well reality says no.

    • @CarolaTesla
      @CarolaTesla Рік тому +153

      ​@@CannabrannaLammer ah yes, if a 5 year old kid was raped it was their fault for putting themselves in a dangerous situation 🤗 if a girl with some disability was raped, she has responsibility too right? I mean yeah she is disabled but why she put herself in a dangerous situation? These people 😫

    • @queerbotanicalqueen
      @queerbotanicalqueen Рік тому +10

      @@CannabrannaLammer what is wrong with you?! Survivors of sexual assault are not responsible in any way for their assault. Just so you know, by the way, if you’re trying to blame clothes, that’s not a valid reason. Many people have been sexually assaulted in t-shirts and jeans, winter coats, maxi skirts, and even burkas! Heck, there have been 5 year olds assaulted while wearing a tutu and princess shirt! And don’t try to say they were luring in the assaulted by gyrating or moving seductively or something. You really think a little girl in a princess dress or a woman walking down a crowded street in the middle of day after getting lunch are going to be “seductive”? If so, you’re ridiculous! Yes, some people were wearing “inappropriate clothes”, whatever you seem to think that is, but it is definitely not their fault if some sicko can’t keep it in their pants! You’re victim blaming. If you truly are curious, I recommend you look at the What Were You Wearing exhibit.
      dovecenter.org/what-were-you-wearing-exhibit/
      wwyw.forestry.oregonstate.edu/stories
      www.huffpost.com/entry/powerful-art-exhibit-powerfully-answers-the-question-what-were-you-wearing_n_59baddd2e4b02da0e1405d2a
      In the end, it’s almost never about sexual attraction to the victim. It’s about having control over someone.

    • @nyxie2877
      @nyxie2877 Рік тому +130

      @@CannabrannaLammer Ah yes, walking outside in broad daylight is putting myself in danger. Better stay inside for the rest of my life

  • @margaritaclenow9671
    @margaritaclenow9671 2 роки тому +5384

    Her: Ranting about Virginity
    The background music: *rA rA rAsPuTiN*
    (Also your art is gorgeous!❤️)

    • @Mikayla_M3lani3
      @Mikayla_M3lani3 2 роки тому +38

      I was looking for this comment lol

    • @PrincessFidelma
      @PrincessFidelma Рік тому +25

      I totally missed that little gem! Thanks internet stranger 😊

    • @DA-yy8rs
      @DA-yy8rs Рік тому +10

      💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

    • @carlinianam0s
      @carlinianam0s Рік тому +6

      I noticed it halfway through and I thought it was a glitch or that some music was playing somewhere else in my house lmao

    • @phoenixlmao
      @phoenixlmao Рік тому +2

      something about that just brings the entire video together

  • @imalittleweirdo
    @imalittleweirdo Рік тому +16

    “Virginity is not real!”
    Asexuals arise

  • @rylandcourtorielle5241
    @rylandcourtorielle5241 2 роки тому +2549

    Hey you are more than welcome to believe what you want. I am not trying to be rude or belittling, I just wanted to say the original text of the New Testament Bible is actual Greek. meaning it wasn’t translated from Hebrew to Greek, the word in question is παρθένος (parthenos). We know for certain this speaks of her virginity, because of not only context but the word itself expresses Virginity. If you don’t believe me you can search the word. Anyways you’re art is beautiful and I do hope the best for you.

    • @selenabanks4263
      @selenabanks4263 2 роки тому +198

      That was so well said!

    • @CarolineOliveira-yu7bm
      @CarolineOliveira-yu7bm 2 роки тому +370

      Well said! The researches the artist (incredible artist, btw!) made were probably on non trustworthy sources. One of the first things we learn in Theology is about the sources of the texts, of the old and new testament, and it's not at all a question of belief, but purely of history, archeology, not at all a matter of faith - this is an important fact. I speak as an student of theology, and sadly there's a lot of information that people don't know, just like in the case of this lady, that goes far beyond of "curiosity" facts: there's history, studies, lot of work, and most of it doesn't come in magazine articles, because demands time and effort to understand, and mostly people don't want it.
      Hope someday you also go beyond on these studies, to know a little more and make your art a source of even deeper information for people 😊

    • @m4tta
      @m4tta 2 роки тому +336

      true, but it doesn’t mean virgin as in the way we say it today, a virgin is someone with a pure soul/a very good person and has nothing to do with sex originally

    • @rylandcourtorielle5241
      @rylandcourtorielle5241 2 роки тому +269

      @@m4tta Hey Matt I appreciate the reply and well there is a point to say that. I would have to disagree. Even if it was pure in the sense that she was clean according to the Bible. But because she was not betrothed to her husband for her to be considered pure she would have have had to have been a virgin. Also that theory you have does not account for Joseph fear for Mary’s life: if he would have publicly divorced her she would have been killed (I believe this is a horrible and an err in there religious practice). Also Matt I want to be clear, I believe you are entitled to your own opinion’s and believes. I am in no way telling you what you should believe. But I am attempting to impart my knowledge on these scriptures to anyone unsure or fuzzy about it. Have a great day.

    • @kish9836
      @kish9836 2 роки тому +29

      Well said.

  • @positivemindset9141
    @positivemindset9141 Рік тому +26

    I disagree with this: the Bible does in fact say that her husband got scared because he knew that he had never slept with her, it was a mutual agreement between them. When Mary got pregnant and he got scared the Lord came to him and said not to be afraid because she HADNT slept with ANYONE, therefore she WAS a virgin. The Lord Explicitly chose THIS virgin because he was showing his power by impregnating an untouched woman with Jesus. :) and someone in the comments said they were disgusted with how the Bible was focused on her sexual status (or however they put it) but it was in fact important she was a clean virgin woman.

  • @mireyar2040
    @mireyar2040 2 роки тому +49

    Mary was betrothed to Joseph, in essence the contract for marriage under Jewish law was complete.
    But she became pregnant before she had moved into Joseph's house. A sign the the marriage contract was consummated.
    She could have been stoned to death for adultery, but scripture tells us that Joseph did not want that to happen and so was willing to divorce her quietly rather than accuse her of adultery.
    However before he divorced her he was visited by an angel who explained to him that the child was the son of God. And Joseph being an upright man remained as Mary's husband.
    Mary was a virgin and that's why they thought she must of lost her virginity to be pregnant.

    • @honest1428
      @honest1428 Рік тому +3

      Exactly (4 months later this video blew up)

    • @najjssxd7357
      @najjssxd7357 Рік тому +2

      Thank you. This woman in the video is so ignorant.

  • @Axiassart
    @Axiassart Рік тому +42

    Fun fact: purity of women was a standard even before Mary existence 💀

    • @Living_On_The_Edge444
      @Living_On_The_Edge444 Рік тому +1

      Yep.. bcs the men had to work there butts off to pay a dowry for his bride's future. (In advance) .. Back then the dowry was the equivalent to Welfare checks - or Social Security for the woman.. (as well as children). In case something ever happened to the husband.
      With the man having to work and save up to 5-10 yrs of his earnings during the engagement for his bride, (depending on how wealthy he was) then you could expect for darn sure he'd expect his future wife to NOT be hookin' up with other men!

    • @Living_On_The_Edge444
      @Living_On_The_Edge444 Рік тому

      Another fun fact: men weren't supposed to be fooling around either. Because sexual intimacy was meant for marriage . with ONE partner. And they didn't do this casual "dating" or Tinder thing.. or sampling. Or however you want to call it.. both chose their respective partners carefully..
      If only people knew what they really do to themselves these days.. it isn't about what others think- don't you all know when a person has sex - the brain releases a chemical called, Oxytocin.. ( which is a bonding hormone). And it's like gluing two pieces of cardboard together - and then trying to rip them apart.. Good luck w/that - there will be pieces of each other still stuck together.. (for Life). So you can imagine what it does psychologically/emotionally, etc.. if a situation doesn't work out w/the wrong person.. somebody's gonna get hurt really badly.. and that's what drives some ppl to do some pretty crazy stuff.
      Can't say casual sex doesn't hurt anyone.. even if its consensual- bcs the evidence out there is pretty clear that does.

  • @velveteenrabbit5940
    @velveteenrabbit5940 Рік тому +179

    I just always assumed it at face value to mean someone who simply has not had sex yet.

    • @kaga.mine.
      @kaga.mine. Рік тому +60

      Literally what it means

    • @softfairy_xo_
      @softfairy_xo_ Рік тому +13

      @@kaga.mine. now, yes lol
      As someone else explained in the comments, back then it meant "not attached to a man" or "unmarried" /nm

    • @virgoleona4675
      @virgoleona4675 Рік тому +11

      Literally exactly what it means 😂

    • @softfairy_xo_
      @softfairy_xo_ Рік тому +1

      @@flammyyyyy hey man, I'm just saying what someone else said :/ /nm

    • @SimplyGunju
      @SimplyGunju Рік тому +9

      @@flammyyyyy thank you. I was waiting for this. That’s it. She hasn’t had sex. Period. Joseph was her betrothed. And when you find out your betrothed is pregnant doesn’t that mean she’s had sex? Dude thank you

  • @StinkySoock
    @StinkySoock Рік тому +153

    I think the church celebrates that Mary was a virgin until she got married, that that was pure and good. It’s not about NEVER having s3x, but saving it for marriage.

    • @jemgeach4066
      @jemgeach4066 Рік тому +12

      No: Mary was virgin before during and after the birth of Christ

    • @emperorshrek5827
      @emperorshrek5827 Рік тому +7

      Nope they say she was always one (at least the Catholic Church does I’m not sure about the protistants denominations)

    • @StinkySoock
      @StinkySoock Рік тому +13

      @@emperorshrek5827 Well Jesus had siblings, so I’m pretty sure she wasn’t🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t know if Catholics believe otherwise, but it’s mentioned in the Bible that he does hv siblings (Mark 6:3)

    • @emperorshrek5827
      @emperorshrek5827 Рік тому +4

      @@StinkySoock ok so I was reading up and this is actually a big difference between the Catholic dogma and the Protestants (I am neither) and the Catholics believe that this was a reference to brothers in the lord (there is also an argument for it meaning relatives) I am not saying that it’s correct merely that it is the Catholic view point

    • @StinkySoock
      @StinkySoock Рік тому

      @@emperorshrek5827 Ohhh ok, yeah since reading that verse I can see the confusion- But yeh I getchu

  • @emilynelson799
    @emilynelson799 Рік тому +21

    That’s not an impossible standard 😂 many people show restraint until marriage, including myself. Yes it’s hard, but that’s what makes it worth it. Getting upset at standards you can’t follow doesn’t make them gross or made up. It’s not a “fetish” to the people it means something to…

    • @selfiestick1589
      @selfiestick1589 Рік тому +3

      I think the impossible standard she is referring to is becoming a virgin mother, which, yeah, probably impossible xD

    • @slimyduck2140
      @slimyduck2140 Рік тому

      @@selfiestick1589 I mean, yes but I don't think this is the standard xd

    • @tomokokurokiirl
      @tomokokurokiirl Місяць тому

      oh it definitely is a fetish for some man to date a woman that's a virgin, and as young and innocent and "pure" as possible

    • @koii319
      @koii319 18 днів тому

      it becomes a problem when you shame someone because they choose to not be a “virgin” though. I think you should really think about the negative consequences that can come from your beliefs.

  • @skitsu7317
    @skitsu7317 Рік тому +11

    1. I'm Jewish
    2. Interesting
    3. Please site sources
    4. Have a good day

  • @mrs.potatoehead7873
    @mrs.potatoehead7873 Рік тому +82

    Yall are poking all kinds of holes in her logic and im here for it. Should’ve done more research ma’am 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @lizzybeka1864
      @lizzybeka1864 Рік тому

      What exactly are you disagreeing with? She is absolutely right

    • @TandJgaming
      @TandJgaming Рік тому +8

      @@lizzybeka1864no she’s not, there’s literally a verse where Mary tells the angel it shouldn’t be possible for her to have a child because she’s never been with a man, you think some random girl on UA-cam is going to discover something so groundbreaking in a subject that has been studied thoroughly for centuries? No. Mary was a virgin. End of.

    • @lizzybeka1864
      @lizzybeka1864 Рік тому

      @@TandJgaming yes well. It is a little more complicated than that. First of all we have to remember that the four gospels were written many years after Jesus died. So they recall the things that Jesus did from memory and his birth from false as Mathew, Luke, John and Mark weren't there at the time. So they had some chance to let's say be creative about this. So in the old testament there was a prophecy in Hebrew that stated that the Messiah would be born to a young woman. When that was translated to Greek the Hebrew word for young was translated to the Greek word for virgin. (Maybe to make it more spectacular maybe by accident I don't know it was 2000 years ago) so now there needed to be a story of a virgin birth. Also note, that Jesus birth is not toled exactly the same in the 4 gospels. Maybe read the beginning of each gospel to compare. So yes. It is not very scientific to take the bible by word. The stories have to be interpreted in the historical context

    • @TandJgaming
      @TandJgaming Рік тому

      @@lizzybeka1864 it’s not scientific to take any religion for scientific purposes.. like what are you even talking about? The point is when the religion was made whether true or not the point was Mary was a virgin, that was done purposefully. It’s no more complicated than that.

    • @asumi_channn961
      @asumi_channn961 Рік тому +1

      @@lizzybeka1864no she’s not bruh read the actual part in the Bible that she claims she’s talking about and you can see that it’s a lie it not that hard.

  • @Sheep1Hundred
    @Sheep1Hundred Рік тому +34

    Hi friend, I want to clear something up here. The Gospels (Matthew Mark Luke and John) we’re all written in Greek originally. Due to the Hellenization of the area in that time period (that’s the Greek influence in culture, politics ect…) most Jewish lay people didn’t even know or speak Hebrew. Therefore there can’t be a translation issue from the Greek since it was written in Greek originally. I would encourage reading Matthew 1:18-24. You can compare various translations like the King James, English Standard and others. What you will find is that the emphasis of Mary being a literal virgin is central to the story, highlighting the conception of Christ by way of the Holy Spirit. This is also fulfills Old Testament prophecy about the Messiah (Isaiah 7:14).
    I am a Christian women pursuing a degree in Biblical Studies and apologetics. I love talking about the Bible, the truth of Christ and what it means for humanity. The virgin birth is not about Mary’s moral accolades, rather it is a sign of Christs divinity, an assurance that he is worthy of taking the sin of the world and offering eternal life, which I pray for everyone who hears the good news, The Gospel. Blessings and peace to you!

    • @GraciousASMR
      @GraciousASMR 5 місяців тому

      Yes! I was hoping to see a comment like yours! God bless you sister 💜

  • @em-yx5pl
    @em-yx5pl 2 роки тому +640

    okay but mary wasn’t white
    *why have i created an uprising

    • @lmtsamwich
      @lmtsamwich 2 роки тому +208

      This is just a recreation of a famous similar Mary painting?

    • @kathrynparnell4130
      @kathrynparnell4130 2 роки тому +167

      Very true. She's probably copying another painting or her model was white

    • @em-yx5pl
      @em-yx5pl 2 роки тому +20

      @@kathrynparnell4130 makes sanse

    • @Aiko_63194
      @Aiko_63194 2 роки тому +67

      Having light skin doesn’t automatically mean white..? I’ve never seen anything that shows Mary with dark skin.

    • @ajilimedeeznuts1740
      @ajilimedeeznuts1740 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly

  • @MW-xr8vw
    @MW-xr8vw 2 роки тому +244

    No one:
    Me vibing to the background music: 💃✨💃✨💃✨💃✨💃

  • @DSMM6969
    @DSMM6969 Рік тому +317

    Hear me out…
    Have a good day You deserve it 👍🏻

  • @celiaakey7944
    @celiaakey7944 Рік тому +10

    Mary is the ultimate figure head for women all around the world. She is integral to the Catholic Church and only is shown as a figure of selflessness and strength. She is our mother.

  • @ronymanakkalayil775
    @ronymanakkalayil775 2 роки тому +846

    She isn't a virgin since it mentions in the bible multiple times about her other children which were born through her and Joseph. Unlike jesus who was born through the Holy spirit meaning she was virgin then

    • @selenabanks4263
      @selenabanks4263 2 роки тому +19

      Thankyou

    • @jack_Armstrong_2
      @jack_Armstrong_2 2 роки тому +38

      She had no other kids

    • @butterycacti
      @butterycacti 2 роки тому +204

      @@jack_Armstrong_2 she did, and just imagine being Jesus’ brother or sister...... the favorite child would be extremely obvious!!

    • @bananafritter8219
      @bananafritter8219 2 роки тому +233

      @@jack_Armstrong_2 Matthew 12 : 46-50
      While Jesus was still talking to the crowd, his mother and brothers stood outside, wanting to speak to him. Someone told him, "Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you." He replied to him, "Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?" Pointing to his disciples, he said, "Here are my mother and my brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother."
      So yes, Mary did have other children :)

    • @marcoanghinetti7938
      @marcoanghinetti7938 2 роки тому +103

      For what I gathered the word for brother used was used a little more broadly. Protestant believe the meaning was indeed brothers as sons of Maria and Joseph, Orthodox believe they were sons of Joseph in a previous marriage and Catholic believe them to be cousins of Jesus. All three are possible looking to the words only.
      I think there may even had been two "sisters".
      I'm in no means an expert and my English is not perfect. My words should be picked with a grain of salt.

  • @yourwitchbesti
    @yourwitchbesti 2 роки тому +27

    Yes the first two books of the New Testament was written in Greek, the rest were actually written in Aramaic which was the spoken language by most in the Middle East at the time. And Remember that just like 2,000 years ago English is different from what it is today, Greek went through the same thing. Words, phrases and even letters have been dropped, added or simply changed due to the terminology meaning something else than it previously meant. So yes Virgin could have meant an unmarried woman in Ancient Greek compared to what we know see it as today.

    • @UnicornsPoopRainbows
      @UnicornsPoopRainbows Рік тому +2

      Finally! So many arguing over the terms and no one addressing the time period and how languages change. Just look at the term "gay" over the last century

    • @nikiii_.
      @nikiii_. Рік тому

      Παρθένος (virgin) hasn't changed at all. It's the same in Modern Greek as it was in Ancient Greek. I am Greek myself and it would be respectful enough for you ro stop spreading misinformation.

  • @timeleteo5789
    @timeleteo5789 Рік тому +8

    Okay but virginity still exists.

    • @srfgfxfgfjjvjv
      @srfgfxfgfjjvjv Рік тому +3

      it doesn't, u can't tell a difference between a virgin body and a non-virgin body. it is a concept, not a biological thing

    • @timeleteo5789
      @timeleteo5789 Рік тому +9

      @@srfgfxfgfjjvjv But it still exists. Just because it's not a biological thing doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

    • @srfgfxfgfjjvjv
      @srfgfxfgfjjvjv Рік тому +1

      @@timeleteo5789 i mean u can argue that it doesn't *technically* exist bc it's a concept but yeah i agree

  • @natetheninja3182
    @natetheninja3182 Рік тому +31

    Source: "Trust me bro"

  • @luanaalmeida809
    @luanaalmeida809 Рік тому +138

    I need to stop trusting any info that comes from randoms on the internet. I thought this was true until I read the comments lmaoo.

    • @warningdeadinside2537
      @warningdeadinside2537 Рік тому +35

      Your entire comment is just one big contradiction.

    • @Curooror
      @Curooror Рік тому +2

      ​@@warningdeadinside2537 niggawhat

    • @warningdeadinside2537
      @warningdeadinside2537 Рік тому +38

      @@Curooror Why are you confused? They watched the video, thought it was true, but then read the comments and decided that what the random people on the internet were commenting on was true. After just saying that they said they shouldn't take what people say on the internet as facts, they went and did just that. That is called a contradiction. Their comment is a contradiction.

    • @honest1428
      @honest1428 Рік тому +1

      @@warningdeadinside2537 majority rules.

    • @warningdeadinside2537
      @warningdeadinside2537 Рік тому +16

      @@honest1428 If a bunch of people started commenting that the Earth is flat, does that mean that it's true and you should just take their word for it?

  • @ivannaalforova4363
    @ivannaalforova4363 Рік тому +8

    For those who say that virginity simply translates ‘not attached to a man’, y’all realize that by sleeping with one literally means a piece of you is left with him- and so that is where that definition comes from

    • @leontoro4737
      @leontoro4737 Рік тому +1

      "Attached to" as in, in a relationship

    • @ToasteredBread
      @ToasteredBread Рік тому

      @@leontoro4737 where did you get that from? It could mean sex

    • @leontoro4737
      @leontoro4737 Рік тому

      @@ToasteredBread it's pretty obvious that being "attached" means to me with someone, it's harder to assume it means sex. So we're did *you* get *that* ?

    • @tarynitar
      @tarynitar Рік тому

      You are an absolute fucking idiot if you believe that.

  • @serenabbg2003
    @serenabbg2003 Рік тому +28

    Mary was 15 in a time period when even newly married couples didn't live together in their first year(usually till the husband finishes building their house) ..the chances of her not being a virgin are slim to none

    • @annachase6036
      @annachase6036 Рік тому +1

      And why does that matter? Doesn't make Jesus less Jesus

  • @snoyoclan2519
    @snoyoclan2519 Рік тому +45

    Bro really said a mistranslation was an attempt to suppress women 💀💀

    • @Shadow1Yaz
      @Shadow1Yaz Рік тому +6

      Oh! Mistranslation and twisting words from the Bible *have* been used to suppress women!
      One of my faves is the letters of Paul which seems to be full of anti women rhetoric. And stripped of context and missing its original grammatical cues, yes. He’s quite the sexist.
      But most of what people quote is completely devoid of context.
      Ex. “Women should be quiet in classroom” but he’s talking to someone who believes women shouldn’t get an education. Their phrase was “Students should be quiet in classrooms” Paul is saying women should be students. They deserve education.
      There’s also stuff like this for being gay and black. Yup. People used the Bible to justify slavery!

    • @meminhofuny
      @meminhofuny Рік тому +1

      @@Shadow1Yaz bro stay quiet

    • @Shadow1Yaz
      @Shadow1Yaz Рік тому

      @@meminhofuny Hey, if you don't like hearing facts, you don't have to read them. Unfortunately, the truth doesn't care about your feelings.
      The *truth* is that the Bible has been perverted by Kings and Popes to push a cis het agenda that approves of the mutilation of babies (and having s*x with children if the two very religious parents of my friends have anything to say about it).
      You, of course, don't have to accept the truth. Just like you don't have to accept that the Earth is round. But linguists and historians have recorded the changes in the Bible and used modern-day Hebew and Greek to reverse engineer Biblical Hebrew/Koine Greek to get a more accurate translation.
      There are also just some changes brought on by misunderstanding. There are some Bibles that say that Moses grew horns when he came down from the Mountain, however, If you translate the original text directly into English, It's more that light rays shined from behind Moses *like* horns made of light rays.
      Bibles after 1946 say that "men who have sex with men will not inherit the Kingdom of God" but older versions and the original text says "abuse" instead of "have sex with."
      I understand it's hard to accept that you're on the side of people who perverted the Bible, but that doesn't make you a bad person. Anyone can be manipulated and tricked.

  • @lunashh9905
    @lunashh9905 Рік тому +66

    Pov: you go to the comments and they are upset for false information

  • @Marie_-
    @Marie_- Рік тому +259

    I think virginity is real but I think I just have a different definition than most people 💀
    I literally just consider anyone who hasn't had sex before a virgin. Not that it makes them pure or anything, just that they're a virgin and inexperienced when it comes to sex

    • @dontpanic6349
      @dontpanic6349 Рік тому +31

      well but then comes the question, what is sex? Does kissing or having sexual contact equal sex? or does only strictly penetration make you not a virgin? what about doing most of the sex but just 'not putting it in' - does that all of a sudden mean you didn't have sex? then what about same-sex couples? specifically, lesbians, is their sex not sex just because there isn't penetration involved?
      kind of went on a rant, but the point is that virginity is dumb because everyone should have their own interpretation of what sex is.

    • @Marie_-
      @Marie_- Рік тому +25

      @@dontpanic6349 True, and as a lesbian I agree.
      I consider sex to be literally like, any sexual action using the genitals. So, that includes lesbians, gay people, straight people, etc.

    • @A45-r8s
      @A45-r8s Рік тому

      @@Marie_- right

    • @A45-r8s
      @A45-r8s Рік тому +2

      @@dontpanic6349 these are google questions.

    • @patty8644
      @patty8644 Рік тому +3

      ​@@dontpanic6349 Really? You're going to question what sex is? To live in a world where basic, concrete understanding of the world are questioned is beyond me.

  • @purpledragonstudios5174
    @purpledragonstudios5174 Рік тому +9

    * rants about virginity while whitewashing mary dispite the fact she was dark skinned *

  • @Gordan1Freeman3
    @Gordan1Freeman3 Рік тому +4

    Fun Fact: "Maiden", such as how you say the original Hebrew text called Mary, means "A woman who has not been touched by a man" touch being used as a synonym for sex. This is the original usage of "maiden". So yes, Mary was a virgin

  • @H0ldUp
    @H0ldUp Рік тому +6

    Me who is a virgin by choice and not religion:"Guess I got a kink now"

  • @_BattleForTruth
    @_BattleForTruth Рік тому +12

    Wrong.
    The Hebrew word for "virgin" is “almah”, which can also mean "young woman." But in every instance where the word “almah” refers to a young woman, she is also considered to be a virgin.
    When reviewing the Septuagint translation of the Hebrew word “almah”, it is translated into Greek as “parthenos”. This Greek word precisely means "virgin."
    That being said, it is very clear that in Isaiah 7:14, the word almah = parthenos = virgin.

  • @definitelynotclaire1
    @definitelynotclaire1 Рік тому +4

    As a Christian, the Virginity of Mary is in no way used as a “fetish” or standard for what a woman should be. It is seen as a miracle, by definition impossible except by God. It is a sign that Jesus is not just a man, it is not meant to signify some unreachable standard, as in essence it is a *miracle*, not instructions. What is praised about Mary is her willingness to follow God despite what it would mean to be pregnant without laying with her husband. Following God’s will in spite of fear or hardship is praised in many many characters of the Bible, men and women.
    Not to mention that there are multiple passages using different words, including the word for virgin. Most Christians learn about biblical terminology and languages in school, as we do of course care about the true meaning and are open to multiple interpretations of the texts. This may vary between churches somewhat, I went to an ecumenical school (Catholics and Protestants) as a Catholic and we discussed a wide range of interpretations of the texts, including the place it does say “virgin” in the gospels.
    If Mary’s virginity has been used against you in this way, I am so sorry. But at least I can tell you that this was not Christianity using it that way, but people. People have twisted the Bible into horrible things, and I understand aversion to it because of this, especially being a woman myself. But know that there are so many more people who are Christian than these awful ones, and ones who do say this are clearly not truly Christian, using words out of context to achieve their own ends.

  • @irsashahid9550
    @irsashahid9550 Рік тому +41

    Whatever you do you can't bring Mary down from her pedestal, she's a miracle

    • @MimiPabimi
      @MimiPabimi Рік тому +2

      YES. She is the queen of heaven no matter what…. Saying that she wasn’t a virgin is hugely disrespectful.

  • @alienvirus_Roll
    @alienvirus_Roll Рік тому +24

    Thank you, I needed this..
    Tw- venting ect.
    When I was growing up, I was r@ped by the priest and tried to make my voice heard about what happened, but no one believed me, and I was still often forced to go to church by my parents. They said it was just always a nightmare. I was 3-5 years old and didn’t know what sex was. I didn’t even know where meat came from, so I said to my teacher one day: “the priest at my church touches me in a way I dont like” and she was the only person who sat down with me and told me it’s not good. And when I told the sister, she shamed me for not being “pure” or “holy” and told me “lying isn’t something angels do. Stop saying such blasphemy about the father. When you spread lies about the father like that, you are lying to Jesus and God, drawing you away from both of them. And ruining your chances of getting into heaven” and I was often abused by other members of the church for “lying about the father” or “not being pure” or “having s€x at such a young age” and said “Im a stupid little bitch that should keep her mouth shut” and “I am property and men could do whatever they wanted with me no matter how I felt about it.” And they often shamed me for being a young girl. And at the time, I had no clue what I did wrong. Because of that, I started wanting to hurt myself, and did. I even tried to break my neck. That teacher was someone who saved my life, and then the incident in Uvalde happened and I lost the one person who believed me and got me away from the abuse, and made me realize Im not what the church made me for. And the word “virgin” doesn’t mean being unpure or unholy, it means that you had the power to say “no” when you felt it wasn’t right. It means not being attached to someone, or being strong willed. And if you couldn’t say “no” due to pure pressure, that doesn’t mean you aren’t still worth being cared for, or worth being loved, you are worth everything. Even if you willingly had s€x, that means you trusted someone enough, and thats good (sometimes). You are worth _everything_, no matter who criticizes you, your worth the world, and if you haven’t realized it, find someone who is willing to help you, if you do, then thats great.

    • @srfgfxfgfjjvjv
      @srfgfxfgfjjvjv Рік тому +5

      i'm so sorry love, i hope you are doing well

    • @morganallen6259
      @morganallen6259 Рік тому +6

      I can't even imagine what that must have been like and I wanted to thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry that happened to you and I wanted you to know that you are absolutely worth it. You are worth everything.

    • @alienvirus_Roll
      @alienvirus_Roll Рік тому +4

      @@morganallen6259 thanks, I didn’t think anyone would actually read it

    • @krrrrrrrrrrrr3372
      @krrrrrrrrrrrr3372 Рік тому +5

      I hope you're doing better and getting good therapy♥️

    • @elizebeths.8880
      @elizebeths.8880 Рік тому +1

      You aren't alone. Me too. Before 3 to 7 years old, multiple men used me. Parents never even tried to catch on because of how deluded the church made them. Although I only remembered after I turned 21, and most of my childhood is actually repressed memories. I'm remembering it slowly, and after 3 years of pure therapy, I'm finally getting some good memories back. You can do this, and you are not less because of what others did to you. You are actually stronger than others who don't know what its like because you survived it. You are a survivor. You got this.

  • @violetrockstar11
    @violetrockstar11 Рік тому +141

    “Virginity does not exist” me: 🫥 I’m a hallucination

    • @user-hl1ct3yh1r
      @user-hl1ct3yh1r Рік тому +5

      That’s celibacy sweety

    • @xsakshix1101
      @xsakshix1101 Рік тому +8

      @@user-hl1ct3yh1r Virginity legit means the state of never having had sex whereas celibacy means intentionally choosing to abstain from sex and marriage.
      You don't know what you're talking about.

    • @grassysoap7896
      @grassysoap7896 Рік тому

      @@xsakshix1101 So you can be both…
      ?

    • @xsakshix1101
      @xsakshix1101 Рік тому

      @@grassysoap7896 yes

    • @grassysoap7896
      @grassysoap7896 Рік тому

      @@xsakshix1101 SWEEET!!!

  • @HeatherSierraVEVO
    @HeatherSierraVEVO Рік тому +30

    Her energy is the most incredibly loving, gentle energy if you exert feel the need to call upon it.

  • @IzziedeD
    @IzziedeD Рік тому +25

    by "did some more digging" she meant she watched the opening jewel heist scene in the movie "Snatch"

  • @cleopatra829
    @cleopatra829 Рік тому +240

    "Impossible standard" wow never thought simply not having intercourse was so difficult for people. Almighty.

    • @themanofculture2725
      @themanofculture2725 Рік тому +58

      She ment being a mother and a virgin at the same time

    • @herweirdoo0904
      @herweirdoo0904 Рік тому +1

      ​@@themanofculture2725 my brother in Christ,
      that's humanly impossible
      No-one sets that standard anyway
      Men just want their wives to belong to them (to not have had sex with anyone before them)

    • @davidsarahmccolm
      @davidsarahmccolm Рік тому +46

      ​@@themanofculture2725 lol, never heard of that being a standard for women before. Certainly is an impossible one to live up to...

    • @einhorntaschentuch9404
      @einhorntaschentuch9404 Рік тому +50

      ​@@davidsarahmccolm Are men really this dense? We're expected to "keep ourselves pure for our husband's" and "save ourselves for marriage" otherwise we get slutshamed and told we are used goods.

    • @davidsarahmccolm
      @davidsarahmccolm Рік тому +19

      @@einhorntaschentuch9404 I 'saved myself for marriage'. It's really not that hard to not voluntarily have sex.

  • @helloworld1272
    @helloworld1272 Рік тому +45

    It is true that the word used also means young woman but it was meant to be translated virgin because it also says she did not know a man yet.

  • @RimaEln
    @RimaEln Рік тому +19

    The thing that made Mariam's (May the peace be with her) story impressive was that she never had any sexual relationship with anyone, yet got pregnant because Allah wanted it to be that way. It was a way to show the people that Allah has complete power over everything to the point that the rules of our universe can be bent by Him and only Him, with a purpose. Read the story of Mariam (AS) in Islam. It truly is a beautiful one. She even has a chapter in the Quran dedicated just for her. Truly an honorable woman.

    • @justagirl6761
      @justagirl6761 Рік тому +7

      Thank you! Christians and Muslims together protect her image in our own different way!

    • @girlboss5305
      @girlboss5305 Рік тому +4

      I was really happy to find a Muslim here too! 😭🤍🤍 + I have always admired the story of Maryam (peace be upon her) ♡♡

    • @dontpanic6349
      @dontpanic6349 Рік тому

      interesting you say that since in Judaism they teach you that Mary had a child from god, and that she never actually had sex to have a baby. but on the other hand, many people who interpret the bible specify that Mary being a virgin is a lie, that she lied about not being a virgin... but some people say that it is true her child came to be by a miracle.
      it's up to belief I'd personally say - but logically, it would make more sense to say that Mary being a virgin is false.

  • @bluesunMirror
    @bluesunMirror Рік тому +10

    This is an example of skill and talent being overshadowed by too much wokeness.

  • @kassandralopez7339
    @kassandralopez7339 Рік тому +118

    Honestly. I can't believe that there are some men who actually think that your worth derrives from how many guys you have slept with. Very sad.

    • @kronii-chan8413
      @kronii-chan8413 Рік тому +6

      The slut shaming part is bad but you can't blame people for liking what they like in this situation. Honestly I think there are a lot of logical reasons to why that may be true. Of course there's always some dumb in the mix but yeah.

    • @thefridge7335
      @thefridge7335 Рік тому +1

      If they believe in double standards they're aholes but it's not wrong to be disgusted by date that slept around if the guy himself is a virgin and wants a virgin

    • @ren574
      @ren574 Рік тому

      @@kronii-chan8413 ​ what logical reason makes it okay for someone to think your worth is based upon how many people you’ve had sex with?

    • @Shay45
      @Shay45 Рік тому +18

      Also the opposite.
      Guys thinking they are “sO gReAt” because they have slept with a lot of women.
      It is weird.

    • @sabrina1380m
      @sabrina1380m Рік тому +7

      It does say a lot about the person character and it's a choice
      To each their own

  • @Dr_zevia
    @Dr_zevia Рік тому +3

    The reason why the church values virginity is because it shows you have the willpower to abstain till marriage.
    Mary is still a symbol of purity because she was morally pure. That’s why God chose her to be the mother of Jesus, and she said yes.
    And finally, Mary is not a standard. She’s a role model. No one expects all women to be the Mother of God.

  • @mckennapeterson5214
    @mckennapeterson5214 Рік тому +59

    I just wish we could respect each other both ways honestly. People need to respect people who don’t want to wait until marriage and we need to respect people who do wanna wait. Regardless of your belief system, being a good human goes both ways.

  • @Just.a.person59
    @Just.a.person59 2 роки тому +109

    Wait, didn’t she say “I have not been with a man”???

    • @carish1452
      @carish1452 Рік тому +37

      Exactly. Radical Feminist not wanting to trust Mary’s own word. 🤨

    • @ophelia5240
      @ophelia5240 Рік тому +9

      then that would make Mary a liar since Jesus has older siblings
      James, Joses (a form of Joseph), Simon, and Jude, and unnamed sisters are mentioned in Mark and Matthew.

    • @Alexandraadftxr7052
      @Alexandraadftxr7052 Рік тому +4

      ​@@ophelia5240 wait Mary had other children? Jesus had siblings?

    • @ophelia5240
      @ophelia5240 Рік тому +10

      @@Alexandraadftxr7052 yeah? I thought that was common knowledge within the Christian and religious community.

    • @Justme-rt2yr
      @Justme-rt2yr Рік тому +3

      ​@@ophelia5240 Where exactly are they mentioned? Which verses?

  • @jsas2047
    @jsas2047 Рік тому +15

    In german it's "Jungfrau" which translates literally as youngwoman. Jungfrau both means virgin and well, a young woman. It's generally not used like that anymore and means virgin to most but when reading "youngwoman" you obviously still associate it with it's literal meaning, especially in the context of her being a mother.
    So as further proof, not all languages read it as virgin. Some read it in the correct way or at least don't only read it as virgin.

    • @char1211
      @char1211 Рік тому +1

      Same in swedish! But I'd say "jungfru" is more associated with being a young woman than with being a virgin. I think "maiden" would be a good translation it's also used in compound words like "jungfrudom"/"maidenhood" and "sjöjungfru"/"mermaid".

  • @amyhatch3761
    @amyhatch3761 Рік тому +16

    When wicked men blaspheme thee, I’ll love and bless thy name ❤

  • @DIL_Mellow
    @DIL_Mellow Рік тому +3

    The point is, Mary conceived Christ without intimacy with a man, but by the grace of God. It’s not meant to be standard, not to mention life magazine is in no way shape or form a reliable source on the Catholic faith.

  • @theEMOR1
    @theEMOR1 Рік тому +142

    I knew virginity was a lie. When I went to my first gynno app at 16. I was asked are you sexually active. I said no. Are you pregnant? I said no. But they still said that they needed to do a test just to make sure. Then did a pap. The whole time I'm thinking well they're already in there. They can just tell I haven't had sex. So why the extra step? Or so I've been led to believe my entire life up to that point. After we got the results back that I wasn't pregnant. I was like yeah duh. That is when it hit me. I think I even asked him what's the point of the test if they can just tell with the pap. no one answered me. I thought it was odd but I just kept quiet and trusted the doctors.

    • @Demi.d3mi
      @Demi.d3mi Рік тому +35

      Thats extremely fkd up what the hell

    • @gracel6206
      @gracel6206 Рік тому +4

      Why the hell you letting a male doctor do that at 16? Where were your parents? I've never had any doctor male or female near my vagina and im 25!

    • @theEMOR1
      @theEMOR1 Рік тому +38

      @@gracel6206 not like I had much of a choice and yes. They didn't see anything wrong with it as well. (Edit) I started when I was 10. My periods that were so heavy and the pain was so bad. That they left me almost debilitated. I had to and still have to wear a diaper. They first put me on birth control pill at 11. Then for we reason had to take me off a few years later. I still don't remember why.

    • @gracel6206
      @gracel6206 Рік тому +31

      @@theEMOR1 that sounds really awful, I hope your situation gets better. I hate when doctors or nurses dont ask for consent and children are overlooked and not taken seriously. Always feel right in saying a hard "NO" and "STOP" if a doctor is doing something you dont consent to.

    • @theEMOR1
      @theEMOR1 Рік тому +19

      @@gracel6206 I was a child. I'm not allowed to say no. But the pain has gotten so much better now that I have been trying thc and CBD. Going from someone that was locked in pain and can't do anything for herself. To someone that can clean the entire house and start doing classes. It's crazy. So thank you for hopeing my situation get better. It has and I hope you have a wonderful day.

  • @TheDeadOfNight37
    @TheDeadOfNight37 Рік тому +4

    It just goes to show that in modern days people will take some "liberties" altering the fundamentals of a religion to suit their own beliefs and simultaneously force those onto others

  • @ciporaga7496
    @ciporaga7496 Рік тому +14

    this is the definition of someone who wants to be heard

  • @misslyntheena
    @misslyntheena 2 роки тому +206

    Looks like a stained glass window 😍

  • @isdqovampk1767
    @isdqovampk1767 2 роки тому +49

    Welcome back to “how to start an argument”

  • @sciencenerd5041
    @sciencenerd5041 Рік тому +6

    I just wanted to say that Luke 1:27, the verse which refers to Mary as a virgin, was written in Greek, not Hebrew. Also, in Matthew 1:18, it says that Mary and Joseph had not come together. I respect your opinions, and you, of course, are free to say anything you like. As a person of influence, though, it is your responsibility to provide factually accurate information and correct your mistakes. I see how this one (misinterpreted) piece of information could be used as a way to make yourself feel better, but it is hiding from the truth. Virginity may be overemphasized, but that is because of its parallel with fornication, the sin of having sex with someone outside of your marriage when you are not married (for more about fornication, 1 Corinthian 6:9).

  • @ArrowinmyKneee
    @ArrowinmyKneee Рік тому +1

    In Islam the focus is never on Mary being a virgin, but instead her being a pious and kind person who worshiped Allah. In fact there are several indications made toward her humanity, and that she is just like other humans and not an impossible standard to reach.

  • @SnakeWasRight
    @SnakeWasRight Рік тому +5

    I don't think you explained why virginity doesn't exist, you explained why Mary isn't a virgin.

  • @brookemcboredface4290
    @brookemcboredface4290 Рік тому +6

    I’d love to hear Ben Shapiro react to this 😂

  • @ameliapr_x
    @ameliapr_x Рік тому +14

    Ra ra Rasputin in the background tho😂😂

  • @queencoco1713
    @queencoco1713 Рік тому +1

    As a Muslim, I invite you to read Surah Maryam in the Qur’an it's full chapter talking about Maryam and Jesus

    • @Briannalangland
      @Briannalangland Рік тому

      Sobahallah Mariams story brings me to tears. The girl narrating this video is lost and I blame Christianity for pushing so many people away from the truth with it’s false translations and convoluted message.

  • @Journey_Around
    @Journey_Around 2 роки тому +4

    If you actually care why this is not true, please read below:
    “And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?”” (‭‭Luke‬ ‭1:34‬) …”For nothing is impossible with God.” (Luke 1:37)
    I’m sorry you were misled by Life magazine that was talking about a debated word in a prophecy in the Old Testament. However, in the above passage, written originally in Greek-NEW testament, not Hebrew, it does say clearly that she was a virgin. If she wasn’t a virgin, 1)why would she be surprised? 2)why would the angel say that anything ‘nothing is IMPOSSIBLE with God.
    If you’re still confused, just reread the verses I included above.
    BTW, regardless, virginity still exists regardless.

    • @kactusJuice
      @kactusJuice 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly....people tend to miss the whole context of the Bible..

  • @daisiedragon
    @daisiedragon Рік тому +5

    I have never been told, as a woman of christianity, that I am EXPECTED to be a virgin mother. And just because it was allegedly mistranslated in the bible doesn't mean that virginity just... straight up doesn't exist as a concept anymore?? Just because YOU think it's fetishistic doesn't mean you get to Thanos snap the entire term away lol

  • @SaTaN-666-6
    @SaTaN-666-6 Рік тому +7

    Me: cool
    Also me: *notices Rasputin playing in the backround* 👁👄👁

  • @zombiefvckerr
    @zombiefvckerr Рік тому +2

    "virginity does not exist"
    twitter users: 🤨

  • @lunemush7089
    @lunemush7089 Рік тому +11

    Mary is actually dark because of where she lived

    • @devangel007
      @devangel007 Рік тому +1

      all of em are middle eastern.

    • @terynb4407
      @terynb4407 Рік тому

      ​@@devangel007 it's not the middle eastern we see today though. The description of Jesus doesn't fit with the traits of modern day middle eastern

  • @flannelsmurf8579
    @flannelsmurf8579 Рік тому +6

    It is important to note, that if you value the concept of virginity for yourself, and it is important to you, then you are absolutely allowed to call yourself a virgin and make a big deal of it.
    It’s your body

  • @Sofiis-rb6xm
    @Sofiis-rb6xm 2 роки тому +33

    Rasputin playing in the background :D

  • @LittlefootRoseRocker
    @LittlefootRoseRocker Рік тому +6

    In luke 1:26-38 it literally says she had “no relations with a man”

    • @bepositive585
      @bepositive585 9 місяців тому

      By this definition lesbians are for ever virgins

  • @averagejo5118
    @averagejo5118 Рік тому +7

    Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen!

  • @mo_reels
    @mo_reels Рік тому +5

    I would have loved if the narrator had cited the original words she found so we can also dig some more

  • @floralfancy7814
    @floralfancy7814 Рік тому +5

    Aaah the way you painted this was so simple but so effective. I want to learn to paint like you sis.

  • @Briannalangland
    @Briannalangland Рік тому +1

    Dear lord… may Allah guide you and anyone else that is falling down this dark ignorant path.

  • @methpotluck3588
    @methpotluck3588 Рік тому +3

    Mary was not some perfect woman, just a human, some faith and a miracle

  • @justin12378
    @justin12378 Рік тому +4

    source: trust me bro

  • @introspectivetonysoprano
    @introspectivetonysoprano Рік тому +17

    This is (and I mean this) by far the biggest stretch I've ever seen on a UA-cam short.

  • @grimrapper3698
    @grimrapper3698 Рік тому +1

    Men naturally just don’t wanna raise another man’s kid, calling it a fetish is insulting. Cuz it’s deeper and more loving than that.

  • @commandertoolbelt5146
    @commandertoolbelt5146 Рік тому +16

    hey, I absolutely LOVE your videos and art, and I was wondering if you could paint a historically accurate Mary? by that I mean that from the middle east, and maybe give a bit of background to that.

    • @honest1428
      @honest1428 Рік тому +4

      It is 100% possible Mary had a fair complexion. We do not know. Painting Mary with olive skin may have a higher chance of accuracy, but the Israelites of the Middle East varied from olive to fair, like modern day Jews.

  • @samuelmerkel2888
    @samuelmerkel2888 Рік тому +15

    "Guys I did like 20 minutes of research trust me"

    • @fighterflight
      @fighterflight Рік тому

      Clearly it’s a person stating their own opinions on their own channel. Wdym trust.

  • @tacosdespagetti6722
    @tacosdespagetti6722 Рік тому +26

    Lol, can we talk about how Rasputin is playing on the back? 😭😭

  • @sumaal-hunaishi9810
    @sumaal-hunaishi9810 Рік тому

    As a Muslim, we save ourselves until marriage because God said so. I believe that Mary was a virgin and no one told me to reach her level but to try to be as good as her, she is a great role model for us. Prophets are great role models for men and they can't reach their level, does mean they are oppressed.

  • @sheep5606
    @sheep5606 2 роки тому +15

    It's unknown what race Mary was. White and dark people lived in the middle east at that time.

    • @votepurple
      @votepurple 2 роки тому

      If you trace it right back you find that Jesus was not his original name, it means hail Zeus, his real name traced back was Iesa and there’s evidence of him travelling as far and as wide and Britain! We don’t know what race he was because the world was more mixed than history rewrote it to be!

    • @BabyBeeGaming
      @BabyBeeGaming 2 роки тому

      @4bbyw5 yeah idk what he is on. It literally stated his skin color and hair texture in the bible

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro Рік тому

      Presumably, he was Israeli, given that he was born in Israel to Jewish parents, and if he'd been born as a different race than his mother, that probably would've been considered noteworthy.

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro Рік тому

      ​@@BabyBeeGaming Wait really? What verses?

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro Рік тому

      ​@@votepurple ??? No, the word "Jesus" comes from the Latin "Iesus" which ultimately comes from the Hebrew word "Yeshua"

  • @CynikaI
    @CynikaI Рік тому +10

    “I have a very high body count so this is why I hate the concept of virginity❤️” just say that miss girl.

    • @sourdrop
      @sourdrop Рік тому

      I don't want to slutshame, but when you have to misinform a bunch of people about a prominent religion just to make your high body count less of an issue, then I think you should rethink your life choices

  • @nevertoooldfordolls
    @nevertoooldfordolls Рік тому +11

    I truly believe that it was never "don't have sex" but it was "be faithful to your partner." In other words, don't have multiple sexual partners at a time.

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro Рік тому +5

      Premarital sex and chastity are two different things. It's not "don't have sex", it's "fully commit to someone before doing so", which is different from "don't have multiple sexual partners". Many people, especially in the old testament, were polygamous. King David, for example, was regarded to be a generally pious man, and, he had many wives.

    • @CrazyMagicHomelesGuy
      @CrazyMagicHomelesGuy Рік тому +1

      No virginity was a thing in ancient Greece too. Athenas preists were all virgin women with big punishments if they weren't

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro Рік тому +1

      @@CrazyMagicHomelesGuy And the Vestal Virgins, too.

  • @walinguine
    @walinguine Рік тому +3

    Mary is pure though, completely pure and a mother. Mary was born as the immaculate conception, born to hold Jesus. Mary's mother, Saint Anne, couldn't bear children and God blessed her with Mary.

  • @VOID-09
    @VOID-09 Рік тому +31

    I think that’s enough UA-cam for tonight.

  • @RRgirl
    @RRgirl Рік тому +8

    I always thought that virginity was a social construct.

    • @zwnjj
      @zwnjj Рік тому +1

      it pretty much is, tho.

    • @Justme-rt2yr
      @Justme-rt2yr Рік тому

      Pretty much anything people made up is a social construct.

    • @joereplier
      @joereplier Рік тому

      You're right

  • @555.kyomei
    @555.kyomei Рік тому +12

    “Becoming a virgin” 😭😭😭

  • @gwendolynrobinson3900
    @gwendolynrobinson3900 Рік тому

    The amount of worship the Catholic church gives Mary has always disturbed me, even as a Christian.

    • @alexisarrizon6083
      @alexisarrizon6083 Рік тому

      Catholics don't worship Mary, you idiot. I'm a Catholic and I am friends with hundreds of Catholic priests, theologians and seminarians and not one of them worship the Holy Mother. She's the Mother of Jesus Christ and the only reason pathetic sinners even have a chance salvation was because of her fiat of saying yes to being the Mother of Jesus Christ. You Protestants are ignorant about the value of the Holy Mother and the relationship with Jesus Christ.