[FULL STORY] My family is extremely toxic and abusive, and I’m planning to run away for GOOD...

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  • @ChihuahuaPlane
    @ChihuahuaPlane 3 місяці тому +168

    Can’t the dad be charged for the theft of his son’s money?

    • @thegdog368
      @thegdog368 3 місяці тому +16

      Not really statue of limitations, evidence, ect. Plus the kid is kinda just giving his dad the money without much a fight. So it could be said that thought he was allowed to take it for rent, ect.

    • @thenoob331
      @thenoob331 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@thegdog368 that sucks, i don't think rent or utilities couldn't be given as a reason because there isn't a formal lease and could argue there was no rent payment agreement(but im not a lawyer so i might be wrong). Also OP, create hidden accounts and move all ur money out of the account ur parents have access to. I think if op keeps documentation in any for declining the parents permission to his funds and reporting further thefts to ur bank and police, then you can probably get the parents charged for future theft but im not sure they can be charged for past thefts. Good luck op, whatever you do never go back to ur parents.

    • @zennete
      @zennete 3 місяці тому +2

      also its a daughter

    • @The-Beyonder
      @The-Beyonder 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@zennete he called himself son.

    • @zennete
      @zennete 3 місяці тому +2

      @@The-Beyonder fair enough, i heard boyfriend so. haha ig hes gay

  • @Austint-101
    @Austint-101 3 місяці тому +109

    The butthole part at the end threw me off 😂😂

  • @benkelley9927
    @benkelley9927 3 місяці тому +98

    Ran into an old friend I knew from the rough days growing up who had DID. She grew up and eventually left her parents house who had mentally abused her her whole life. When she dot her diagnosis she brought her family with her to her counseling appt and had the doctor explain that the different “identity or identities” that’s she had most likely were split off to protect her from extremely harmful experiences or trauma. Absolutely broke her mom but that’s also when they got a therapy recommendation for her dad that lead to a diagnosis of psychopathy and some form of narcissistic personality disorder for her dad. He had been manipulating her mom into thinking that the way they raised her was okay. Now they are divorced and she is tentatively building a new relationship with her mom

    • @Ninjasnail1926
      @Ninjasnail1926 3 місяці тому

      What is DID?

    • @benkelley9927
      @benkelley9927 3 місяці тому +3

      @@Ninjasnail1926 it is Dissociative Identity Disorder also known as as multiple personality disorder

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Ninjasnail1926 DID used to be called Multiple Personality Disorder, although that's a misleading title. It's one of those disorders we still don't fully understand, but from what I know, it's a condition that is developed with people who suffer extreme childhood travma. Their brains aren't yet developed, and so their consciousness sort of fractures into multiple parts. Somebody with DID is still a single person, however their brain will function as if they are multiple people in one body.

    • @arynkoeings668
      @arynkoeings668 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Ninjasnail1926 good term for it is hell im autistic and ive been showing signs of DID but i never change personality i just go into an 'acting' mode where i behave like im expected but i mask instead (pretend to be an emotion i dont feel at the time) i feel very detached but its the thought :'this is how I stay safe": is why i continue DID is much worse then what i deal with as they create selves to protect themselves an make it look like their 'ok'

    • @thecraftycyborg9024
      @thecraftycyborg9024 3 місяці тому

      @@arynkoeings668- you’re disassociating. That doesn’t mean full blown DID.
      Also, DID is extremely rare. It’s bizarre that it’s being misdiagnosed so much lately. People who talk about having a “headspace” and who claim they can switch at will are lying or were lied to. They don’t have DID. It’s maladaptive daydreaming. And many are lying about having a diagnosis for internet points.

  • @Peppermynt.
    @Peppermynt. 3 місяці тому +44

    The fact that this cannot be found on reddit (i tried a good bit) makes me think that either the creator of this video is an expert at hiding the origins of posts or this doesnt exist and was made up by the creator of this video
    Via google lens, i found multiple exact matches for the picture. That is a piece of art on sale which could have easily been ripped off of a shopping website.

    • @Pyro_Papillo
      @Pyro_Papillo 3 місяці тому +4

      Pretty sure it’s AI generated or something along those lines considering how many times there were just random things that didn’t lineup or pieces of information randomly brought up with zero context and connect to basically nothing

    • @Peppermynt.
      @Peppermynt. 3 місяці тому

      @@Pyro_Papillo yea, thats what im thinking too

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx 3 місяці тому

      I've read multiple reddit post this channel has uploaded. So its definitely reddit. However some paragraphs are directly quoted, other parts are reworded.
      Sometimes to be more clear, some redditors are emotional or not native English speakers or ramble & things become uncomprehensible or unclear.
      Now if the channel owner rewrites these specific parts themselves or shoves it into an AI program that's another story.
      But if the story is fake that would be bc the reddit post is fake, not bc the channel asked for a reddit story prompt from an ai.
      Bc i know alot of these stories having read them from reddit myself, not this one, a lot of them are years old.
      So they 100% are from there.

    • @Peppermynt.
      @Peppermynt. 3 місяці тому

      @@greyscalesx probably reworded it cause of the butthole part, didnt want people searching up the story and seeing those pics

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx 3 місяці тому

      @@Peppermynt. lfmao yes. But i meant sometimes in stories i have already read on reddit there are paragraphs rewritten by this channel not just censoring words.
      Mostly word jumbles like my "brother's gf ex-husbands aunt" & op keeps trying to explain for a paragraph & this channel will just replace the confusing explanation with simply something like " So the former in laws of my brother's girl" so you understand wtf is going on lol

  • @samrogers9465
    @samrogers9465 3 місяці тому +70

    knew it was fake as soon as he said he landed in LA and the air was great

    • @lunazhere
      @lunazhere 3 місяці тому +13

      I knew it was fake as soon as they chose to go to LA
      Who the fuck unironically wants to go to LA

    • @NoName-sy3di
      @NoName-sy3di 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@lunazhereyea. Moved to LA and said it was beautiful.....and went for a walk...yea ok bud

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@lunazhereliterally anyone who goes to L.A. bc they think they can become an actor, singer, became a sugarbaby etc this happens constantly lfmao.
      I'm pretty sure this one & L.A. & Nashville are the places where half the ppl who live there weren't there 5y ago

    • @mikeycarrero6501
      @mikeycarrero6501 3 місяці тому

      ​@greyscalesx I'm worried about Tennessee. Hoping the voting around here doesn't change.

  • @gellysdovinos
    @gellysdovinos 3 місяці тому +35

    At 23 years old you arent running away, ur moving out

  • @Forest_Clay-autumn
    @Forest_Clay-autumn 3 місяці тому +7

    For the people who came from the shorts 0:59

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story 3 місяці тому +14

    Good for you that you left you should move away again soon when you are situated and done with school and financially stable. Staying too close to people like that is never good.

  • @user-qe8kl9uv6s
    @user-qe8kl9uv6s 3 місяці тому +8

    LA is the worse place to live. I’m sorry you had to love to CA

  • @mimiSMj
    @mimiSMj 3 місяці тому +6

    Is it a he/she I'm confused plus the bedt friend died right?! How is op gonna live with best friend?! Or did I get something wrong?! Op was married for 2 years then divorced and also met ex bf before leaving?! So is like same sex marriage legal where op's from or is he a she omg I'm so confused 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Lalo_gamex
      @Lalo_gamex 3 місяці тому

      Me too

    • @Pyro_Papillo
      @Pyro_Papillo 3 місяці тому +3

      Yeah, and what was that part at the end where they said their brother “did it and no one believed them” with like no context?? Like that was super random and didn’t make any sense

    • @beaby1977
      @beaby1977 3 місяці тому +3

      It’s a he who is gay I’d assume it’s the same ex he was married too

  • @visenyatargeryen2704
    @visenyatargeryen2704 3 місяці тому +3

    What's DID

  • @Lobsingt1
    @Lobsingt1 3 місяці тому +4

    Knew it was fake when he said he was in tears and whatnot it just seemed out of place
    And WAY to many edits and the fact he says he’s humble and he’s empathetic like he’s the main character

  • @rafaelvenzmirabel404
    @rafaelvenzmirabel404 3 місяці тому +1

    This post just kidnapped my curiosity for 11 minutes

  • @vault_tec_404_4
    @vault_tec_404_4 3 місяці тому +2

    As soon as they said LA I knew they wouldn’t last there. It a dream on the outside but a nightmare on the inside from all I’ve heard.

  • @victoriawilliams6156
    @victoriawilliams6156 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank God, you survived LA and realized that you can live closer to your family and still have boundaries and space between you and them. Congratulations on getting off drugs and congratulations on getting an education that will help you have a better life and be self-sufficient
    good for you!

  • @kilbilv99
    @kilbilv99 3 місяці тому +3

    Sounds fake af

    • @kronik9317
      @kronik9317 3 місяці тому

      yeah i doubt it, especially since there’s the picture of the artwork that was mentioned

    • @gerreloTB1485
      @gerreloTB1485 3 місяці тому

      Yep no fake

  • @BlitzBrigadeNFL
    @BlitzBrigadeNFL 3 місяці тому +1

    La? Let alone the entire state of California? Worst place to move to. Especially under Gavin newsome

  • @unclefranky8503
    @unclefranky8503 3 місяці тому +17

    She went from there dad yaking there money to the Californian government

    • @orchid4356
      @orchid4356 3 місяці тому

      He op is a guy and it their not there

    • @VeljkoJevtic
      @VeljkoJevtic 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@orchid4356is he gay? Cause it said boyfriend at one point i think

    • @artsonist101
      @artsonist101 3 місяці тому

      @@VeljkoJevticyes

  • @claytonthomas1980
    @claytonthomas1980 3 місяці тому

    You made the right decision to leave your parents but you shouldn't have any regrets about it because they made your life miserable and difficult as well, but at least you can live your life without looking back, good to go for you.

  • @carlinasolvie4325
    @carlinasolvie4325 3 місяці тому +5

    It’s called diamond art

    • @hyperhannah5741
      @hyperhannah5741 3 місяці тому

      I’ve seen several comments thinking that it was a fake story because it was a ripped off picture, and I couldn’t identify the style itself, so this makes a lot of sense since diamond art often comes in kits

  • @Envy_lani
    @Envy_lani 3 місяці тому +1

    I wanted too share this quote : “ sometimes having the biggest heart is your biggest downfall “ through this whole video you’ve been worrying about your parents health and how there going too feel when you leave but what about your health and what you want it’s good too think of others but not to the point where your putting yourself behind . Now say for instance if your friend was drowning would u hold them up and drown yourself ? See what happens is you only can hold them up until you drown , and then when they have no one too hold them up there going too drown too ! So what I’m saying is you can only keep striving for your parents love when you need too be striving for yourself it’s a lose if you keep worrying about your parents just like the drowning story it was a lose

  • @Lainanoel-16
    @Lainanoel-16 3 місяці тому

    1:08 it’s called diamond art my Nannette got me a butterfly one and then bought me nine more they are super fun ❤❤❤❤

  • @NdeyeastouNdao-s5p
    @NdeyeastouNdao-s5p Місяць тому

    You are not in Africa you would much 😂😂😂even à penny you won’t have it 😂

  • @jjnix9517
    @jjnix9517 3 місяці тому

    Sounds like the father is the problem and the mother needs medication.

  • @66satanic_panic66
    @66satanic_panic66 3 місяці тому

    “Sometimes goodbye is a second chance,” - Second chance, shinedown.

  • @isaac-and-clive
    @isaac-and-clive 3 місяці тому

    idk theres this thing called 911 and moving out

  • @jesusispacking
    @jesusispacking 3 місяці тому +1

    Bipolar is such a sad mental illness to have😔

  • @sammygreen066
    @sammygreen066 3 місяці тому

    I enjoyed the pop when the photo was shown

  • @Cherry_blossom432
    @Cherry_blossom432 3 місяці тому

    For ppl from shorts: 0:59

  • @treco2583
    @treco2583 3 місяці тому

    The air in LA is awful!

  • @Disneyqueen796
    @Disneyqueen796 3 місяці тому +1

    I wonder if he took the painting

  • @vladimirrete8540
    @vladimirrete8540 3 місяці тому +1

    I love la but yeah it one of the worst places in cali to live its cheaper then other areas the worst area to live is south Central

    • @gerreloTB1485
      @gerreloTB1485 3 місяці тому

      I love shortening of places Especially liver got to love the apple Don't forget the Bris

  • @Dot-hack
    @Dot-hack 3 місяці тому +4

    23 and you allow him to take your money? Sounds like a lot of your problems could be solved if you just stop being afraid to stand up for yourself.

  • @Lioneltrainboy
    @Lioneltrainboy 3 місяці тому +1

    That’s sad

  • @willbankskids6508
    @willbankskids6508 3 місяці тому

    At least eight minutes he said he was going to Los Angeles in like five or 10 seconds later he said he’s in LA

  • @thefiretailedweasel6206
    @thefiretailedweasel6206 3 місяці тому

    I wonder what kind of dog Willow is. My dog is also 2 years old and was found in a cardboard box on tbe side of the road with his siblings

  • @hajraanser9366
    @hajraanser9366 3 місяці тому

    I am in a similar situation rn and i feel guilty i feel like me leaving my parents i would regret this in the future i am 18 years of age a female all on my own i have two jobs and i miss them but ik its for the best but i am still so afraid for what the future hold for me will my parents forgive me

  • @maebell227
    @maebell227 3 місяці тому

    That's why you don't take off and try to live in one of the major cities if you pick a smaller more well-rounded place

  • @0bzi.ian2
    @0bzi.ian2 3 місяці тому

    0:57 For people from the short

  • @melissafarooq5950
    @melissafarooq5950 3 місяці тому

    It DID make him a better person. All of his suffering had made him humble and caring and thoughtful and loving …….And Again…HUMBLE, BEFORE GOD. ☺️😌🥰 He evolved the way we are supposed to, it sounds to me like he has reached his Nirvana 😇in the main lesson we are tested to learn in our lifes journey. PRAISE GOD and GOD Bless him and his Willow 🥹😌❤❤❤❤

    • @Peppermynt.
      @Peppermynt. 3 місяці тому

      what are you talking about

    • @NerdyScienceKid
      @NerdyScienceKid 3 місяці тому

      Last time I checked evolution went against the Bible

  • @CheeseyVR2
    @CheeseyVR2 3 місяці тому

    Diamond dots

  • @Bread_Is_Great
    @Bread_Is_Great 3 місяці тому +2

    prob fake

    • @ChangesConstant
      @ChangesConstant 3 місяці тому +9

      Considering there’s even a picture
      I doubt its fake
      It also has a more realistic approach to trauma
      You don’t hate abusive parents
      You still love them
      Thus leaving is hard
      All you seek is their approval

    • @jadesterbaby
      @jadesterbaby 3 місяці тому +6

      This sounded like one of the realest ones yet, actually. Lol

    • @annsans5163
      @annsans5163 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@ChangesConstantExactly

    • @acompy
      @acompy 3 місяці тому +1

      Nothing ever happens.

  • @Valentina_editzz
    @Valentina_editzz 3 місяці тому +1

    mid ashell

    • @Nah14978
      @Nah14978 3 місяці тому +1

      It's real tho

    • @kronik9317
      @kronik9317 3 місяці тому

      like your edits lil bro

    • @Valentina_editzz
      @Valentina_editzz 3 місяці тому

      @@kronik9317 bro atleast I put work into something lmao

  • @rohimayahara7270
    @rohimayahara7270 3 місяці тому +1

    7:20