That's what I was thinking. Also, saying that an 18 year old is "too old" to go on the honeymoon, but the 17 year old isn't? Also, she only married him because she thought he was getting a free house, and was planning on kicking OP out. So when she realised that her plan wouldn't work, she dumped his ass! So he lost his daughter, new stepdaughters ( who he classed as more important than his own kid) and his new wife, in one go. Sucks to be him! 😂
Because in some states if a spouse gets the house in divorce the ex spouse name can remain on the house and if something happens they get the house back
I believe it because the step sisters didn't deserve for their things to be mistreated. Another did her dad. Who at that point didn't say anything rude to her. She pushed all her hurt feelings on others who didn't really deserve it. Her feelings were valid but the casualties of war wasn't right or necessary. (Packing their things as terribly as she could).
@@HardCoverJacket Her response to her newly married dad going on his honey moon is bizarre, but Dad is a complete bozo, too, so I guess...they really are related?
Dad’s a cheap ash. No, thank you. Dad needs to take care of his own family. No, that’s no solution, make some friends before dad steals the house from you under some pretense .
If this is a true story, the writer dodged a bullet by not having the new family move in with her permanently. How was Dad going to help pay the bills for four adults without any income? And once permitted to move in, it may have been impossible to evict them. Good, strong girl.
And people are evil these days, who’s to say he wouldn’t have tried to get rid of his daughter in some way to get that house. He didn’t care anything about his kid, he wanted that house.
@@Metal_Sonic_Glazer If you watch these a lot you've probably noticed it's almost like you've heard extremely similar stories with extremely similar details but told in different ways, if you pay attention you may have even noticed that there is no personal grammatical nuance between the stories as if the same person is writing every single one. This is because it's taking the most popular stories from forums such as Reddit and using them as a reference for a computer to generate new stories. I'd be willing to give it the benefit of the doubt because that's not definitive proof but I've personally seen the AI get more accurate at telling these stories, it used to have massive tells like inhuman repetitions and sometimes even restarts as if you had gone back 30 seconds or whatever.
Hope my mom recognize my dad red flags too. But apparently my mom dumb as hell😢 my dad have child with his mistress when i was 5yo. My grndparent ask her to divorce my dad. But my mom still forgive him. The cheating happend again and again. With different woman. I never understand why she keep the marriage when its so broken. Leave us, 3 daughters with mental health issues. Stole my mom money and send it to his other family. Manipulated mom to put his name on the property. Until 2020 i lost my job, then i should crawl back to my parents. My dad get stroke, all his brothers and sisters who usually come to borrow money all disappear. Now that he get better, you probably think he is atone his sin. But NO, he cheating one more time. And not surprisingly enough that my mom still forgive him. Sorry if my grammar not good. Really hope that my mom snap out of her dream soon that her husband is a not red flag but a whole red sea.
He is only crawling back to you because he does not want to be homeless. Don't blame you for not letting him and his new family move back in. They were only using you for the house. Good for you. Your stepmother sounds like a real piece of work.
OP, be grateful, thankful to yourself for listening to your gut instinct and ignore those who cannot see beyond their noses nor anticipate what could have gone wrong with your dad and his new family living with you. You escaped a bullet, good for you to know that you had to dodge it. 😅
This young lady did the right thing. The step mother wanting to apologize is TOO LITTLE TOO LATE! No, it’s your house. The step mother was being a B! You’re right I’d rather live alone than live in a miserable situation with a step mother who’s not nice.
He sounded stupid from the beginning when he tried the crying like a baby because he wants to move with his new wife into the house of his dead wife because it reminds him of her? Whatever
OP's dad and step mother definitely were trying to get the house from her. Dad might have also lied to SM about the house going to him in the will so the SM was treating it as her house with the goal of yoinking it from the dad.
It's not her house and she's not alive to have any feelings regarding that decision. However, I'd believe that if the decision made the daughter happy, the mother would be fine with it.
@@bjj1132My dead ass would be watching on slowly sliding my finger under my neck while looking at my ex. He moves in, he's paying with more than money.
"Hey dad I'm starting to understand why mom divorced you when I was 7. Don't worry, I'm selling the house to make sure you won't ever get it. May you leave your live in agony because you're dead to me." Sounds like what he deserved to hear.
Story 1 - "Tell me to clean MY house?" Oh hell no....! Find another place to live. If dad thought for two seconds his daughter was OK with his wife telling her to clean HER HOUSE, he's a blithering idiot. Good god.
Based on the story I don't even think the father knew that. The daughter never made any implications that she told him the real story and the new wife definitely was not going to tell the father the truth. That is why he came back later thinking she was being petty for not going on the honeymoon, which was never even a point to begin with. He got what was coming
@@lindalanteigne8909 On midnight of the day AFTER they had returned, and found themselves infront of locked doors. The damage was done already at that point.
He was an idiot from the start thinking of 30 something year old really was in love with a 50 something year old with two teenage daughters come on now and another thing if the the acts of Baby Daddy would send money for plane tickets she was still seeing that man on the down low😅
My mom always told me, “If you don’t start it, you don’t have to stop it.” You dodged a bullet by not allowing them to move back in. You only saw a glimpse of stepmom’s and Dad’s attitude. If you are lonely, get a pet. Life is too short to live in hexx.
Her father's priorities were never where they should be. He should have just been a support system for his daughter when her mom died. Instead of thinking his ex-wife would turn out her child and leave her house to her ex husband. Who would honestly think their ex would do that. If you lost your job why on earth would you continue to spend money on a wedding. A normal person would postpone it till they're back on their feet again. To dig the whole deeper he paid for a vacation he couldn't afford to take. Then thought he was going to go to his child's home and manipulate her into letting him take over. It probably would have worked if his new wife hadn't been so presumptuous in thinking it was a sure thing her new husband would take over the house.
That's the typical behaviour of most people his age, I get the feeling he would've stolen the property deed (if there was one) and sold the property, taking the money for himself, if the "step-mum" hadn't revealed her true self, letting the op free themselves from them,
Who tf marries a single mother with teenage girls? Asking for drama and trouble. This m0r0n will pay for their college, weddings and down payments for homes. Then wife will divorce him. He is his own worst enemy
Wow! They were desperate for that house, Lmao! I'm happy OP was smart enough to see thru the bs, they wouldn't have been a "happy family" either. OP would have been living the plot of Cinderella.
this could be my buddies bro, dudes marriage lasted all of 10 months... when it became obvious the ex's kid was her bosses not his... yeah... now, the funny part is... the dude married her daughters... who came looking for him on their 18th bday... the man may be a fool, who was married 2x before both times to single mums who were tinderella types.. that lasted less then a year each... this time... the girls took years to help repair the damage their mother compounded... hes lucky... they are the polar opposite of their mother, and, they decided in jr.high they were just going to marry the same man and share... when they both ended up with a crush on step-dad... well their mother dosnt come around because she cannot stand her ex...he callsout all her toxic behaviors/words/actions...
People, this is why you should always get your affairs in order, make a will, make copies, If you can’t afford a lawyer, give your will to somebody you can trust to carry out your wishes, she a smart young lady like her mom, my hats off to her mother, good job, mom, protect your daughter.
I knew something was up when Julia's ex funded everybody's tickets. I thought he would have used that she and the kids were homeless to stop child support and take the kids from her. Or use that they're in his house and child support should stop. Technically, it would be like supporting them twice.
Good for you, OP, for reminding them you are the landlord of the house they wanted to squatter in. And the sperm donor calling you a child after his bed warmer reminded you that you are no longer a child. Great communication leads to a dumpster fire for a relationship. Family is the price we pay for not being called orphans. OP, your parent died and left you a house so you are already an orphan. Being explouted as a cash cow and a doormat by moochers is far worse.
No matter what happens, I want the best for everyone reading this. Wishing you a life brimming with happiness, prosperity, and an abundance of blessings.
I think you were well within your rights..... I am grateful that you stayed strong. Your father is a user and figured that if they stayed long enough, they could legally find a loop hole that would make it impossible to evict them. Do yourself a favor and go forward without reflection in the rearview mirror ! I am certain you'll find your Happily-Ever-After !
Sweet heart, you did good, That's your House and You don't have to let anyone or anything or anybody live there with you.. You are the QUEEN OF YOUR CASTLE 🏰❤💯🥰💕💞❣️💗❤️
Better to not say anything, but just be on the listening end because selfish people always incriminate themselves the most when the other end is silent. Remember that.
The fact she got a house they bought together is a travesty. I assume he paid for most of it too. In any civilized nation whomever keeps the house has to buy out the other ones half. And this Alimony business is just laughable. Grown people getting allowance from someone who is no longer their partner or has any responsibility towards them. The US family court system is a complete joke and horrid to us Europeans.
You should not let them move in with you. They are horrible people. You would not have been treated with kindness. They would have thrown you out of the house. Dont give in. You deserve better. I am so proud of you for standing up for your self. The low blow was when he brought your mother into the conversation.
Letting his crew move in with you permenantly is not the only logical solution. 1) Rent out the individual bedrooms to college students. 2) Become a foster parent. 3) become one of those covert safe houses for women/kids fleeing from domestic abuse situations. (Big plus with this option is you’d probably get to meet some of the motorcycle clubs who escort kids to trial, to testify and stuff. They are all volunteers, and are probably some of the kindest most compassionate people you’ll ever meet. Invite them over for backyard BBQ a couple times a year, and they’ll help a bunch of terrified kids who have to tattle on their own kids. And if you ever need to disappear a body (or turn someone bothering you into a body that will promptly disappear), these guys would have your back. They’re basically big ole’ Teddy Bears with tattoos, until there’s some kind of threat. But if there is some kind of threat, there won’t be for long.
Hmmm 🤔 clearly you couldn't see that outcome coming, right?? Unemployed; blew all your savings on a wedding and honeymoon before being homeless and forced to to move in with and rely on wife's ex for support and she leaves you for him........ 😂😂
How strange that a man who just got married to another woman and accepted her daughters as “his new family” would want to live in the house he shared with his ex-wife to remind him of her. They were divorced. Why would he want reminders of her? I guess we all know his long-term plan was to somehow finagle the house away from his own daughter.
I don’t think she’s wrong. Seems like dad had a motive and it was t sentimental but greed. Comes off like he and his new bride wanted to make her into a Cinderella. She’s right in standing her ground. Dad and step mom just wanted to kick her out of the house and keep it for themselves. She’s better off not letting them staying longer than 30 days because then they can invoke squatter law. Sometimes being alone is better than bad company.
She is right for standing her ground. But wrong for mistreating her step siblings things. They didn't deserve to have their stuff packed as terribly as she did. The step mom was the one that made her upset. They step siblings seems like victims of the situation.
Oh, I have a step monster like this. She is way worse with my sister than me. She was so jealous of my sister that she put all her effort into breaking the father/daughter relationship they had. She finally succeeded. It was years of conflicts and anger and heartbreak. So, blocking them from your home saved you a lot of grief. Don't let them in.
Dear old dad remembers all the happy times with OPs mom and misses her. BULL, Dude you divorced her and walked away from that house. Not to mention you got remarried. Dad ans SM are the AHs
I'm praying that you grow in confidence in your decision to NOT be manipulated by your father and stepmother. STAY STRONG 💪 It's highly likely that they would have done something to kick you out and take possession of your house.
first an ex thinks he's getting something in the will, then he tries without word to move into the house he's always wanted, and then saying it reminded him of his former wife and needs to live there for what reason the memories of fights over his cheating? what happened to old dad's home else where? don't let a toe into your home. your dad's a sucker and was being richman scammed but he was broke so she walked.
WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY REALLY ARE, BELIEVE THEM...KUDOS TO YOU FOR STANDING UP TO YOUR DAD AND HIS FAKE NEW WIFE...CHOOSE YOUR PEACE OVER THEIR MESS...GODSPEED
You go Girl. Nice job putting your own mental health and security above all. It’s rough, in the beginning, saying no. Good for you for standing your ground. And hats off to the friends you have for supporting you. ❤❤
It makes no sense Dad and new wife would move in with OP because who’d run the house? Would step mom turn OP into a Cinderella demanding she clean the house? Bad idea letting them move in!
Step 1: Clean the house, step 2: follow my rules under my roof ( not his roof but....) Step 3: You're a grown adult you should move out and get a life of you own we're good here.... I've seen this road before.
I am proud of you for standing up for what is right. Why does he want to live in his old house to feel closer to his ex wife when he has a new one. Please stand your grand. He is using emotional blackmail to get his own way
Daddy isn’t happy about OP living alone. I’m guessing OP is female, so daddy thought she’d be easy to manipulate into ceding her right to the house she inherited, that daddy views as HIS since he (and the deceased ex wife) bought it during their marriage. He’d just lightly skip over the bit where the ex wife got the house in their divorce settlement in exchange for him not paying alimony
You did right, you were very strong and smart to stand up for your self. They had no plan of you being in the family, while they would take over your home. Your dad’s a user, and so was the family. Please do not fail to look after yourself. Cut them out of your life.
1- why would you bring your daughters to your honeymoon ? It's like bringing your parents to your honeymoon it's fcked up 2- why the father wanted to stay in the house to keep the memories of his died wife if he has a new wife ? It's weird too, is the new wife happy with it ? 3- OP won't help them if they curse and insult her. They are fcked up too for that
OP's first biggest mistake was allowing Dear Old Dad and his new family move in to OP's house. That's how we get unwelcome squatters and home thieves. 🤨 Haha ... Little Miss Golddigger lost her gravy train, so left Daddy, once the moneybags are empty. Why am I not surprised!? 😅
You are not the a-hole, if your missed your mom he should've stayed with your mom. They are playing on your emotions knowing your grief if your dad and his new wife cared there woukdbe been consideration and appreciation and gratitude.
17:29 I'd wish women would stop thinking like this. If it helps them sleep, fine, but most 60yo men are stronger than any woman at any age. Relying on self-defense is not enough. Run away if your opponent is slower or get a gun.
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Why would the dad think he would get anything from the will of his ex-wife?
That's what I was thinking. Also, saying that an 18 year old is "too old" to go on the honeymoon, but the 17 year old isn't?
Also, she only married him because she thought he was getting a free house, and was planning on kicking OP out. So when she realised that her plan wouldn't work, she dumped his ass! So he lost his daughter, new stepdaughters ( who he classed as more important than his own kid) and his new wife, in one go. Sucks to be him! 😂
you would be shocked how often people forget to change wills so there was always a chance.
@@BaeBunniI didn't think of that. Glad she did change it
Because in some states if a spouse gets the house in divorce the ex spouse name can remain on the house and if something happens they get the house back
@@samanthafairweather9186 18:08
I cannot believe the original post had negative comments. I am fully supportive of the op. I will pray for you.
@jeffybarra, I can't believe it either. Do you know where I can read the original post at?
I believe it because the step sisters didn't deserve for their things to be mistreated. Another did her dad. Who at that point didn't say anything rude to her. She pushed all her hurt feelings on others who didn't really deserve it. Her feelings were valid but the casualties of war wasn't right or necessary. (Packing their things as terribly as she could).
@@HardCoverJacket Her response to her newly married dad going on his honey moon is bizarre, but Dad is a complete bozo, too, so I guess...they really are related?
I would like to read the original post too
Dad’s a cheap ash. No, thank you. Dad needs to take care of his own family. No, that’s no solution, make some friends before dad steals the house from you under some pretense .
If this is a true story, the writer dodged a bullet by not having the new family move in with her permanently. How was Dad going to help pay the bills for four adults without any income? And once permitted to move in, it may have been impossible to evict them. Good, strong girl.
Mom raised a smart girl!
And people are evil these days, who’s to say he wouldn’t have tried to get rid of his daughter in some way to get that house. He didn’t care anything about his kid, he wanted that house.
He was going to mooch off his child of course while letting his wife abuse her.
Exactly. “I’ll help you pay the bills” is just talk. They would have been deadbeat freeloaders.
Great story
Congratulations. Finally, on these stories someone who RECOGNISES red flags and ACTS on them.
It's AI generated, just FYI.
@@howarddong2973 the narration is. idk abt the stories. im assuming they are not ai generated, but I could be wrong.
@@Metal_Sonic_Glazer If you watch these a lot you've probably noticed it's almost like you've heard extremely similar stories with extremely similar details but told in different ways, if you pay attention you may have even noticed that there is no personal grammatical nuance between the stories as if the same person is writing every single one. This is because it's taking the most popular stories from forums such as Reddit and using them as a reference for a computer to generate new stories.
I'd be willing to give it the benefit of the doubt because that's not definitive proof but I've personally seen the AI get more accurate at telling these stories, it used to have massive tells like inhuman repetitions and sometimes even restarts as if you had gone back 30 seconds or whatever.
Right!!
Hope my mom recognize my dad red flags too. But apparently my mom dumb as hell😢 my dad have child with his mistress when i was 5yo. My grndparent ask her to divorce my dad. But my mom still forgive him. The cheating happend again and again. With different woman. I never understand why she keep the marriage when its so broken. Leave us, 3 daughters with mental health issues. Stole my mom money and send it to his other family. Manipulated mom to put his name on the property. Until 2020 i lost my job, then i should crawl back to my parents. My dad get stroke, all his brothers and sisters who usually come to borrow money all disappear. Now that he get better, you probably think he is atone his sin. But NO, he cheating one more time. And not surprisingly enough that my mom still forgive him. Sorry if my grammar not good.
Really hope that my mom snap out of her dream soon that her husband is a not red flag but a whole red sea.
Imagine how the step mother would have treated OP if she wasn’t the home owner?
I'm glad you stood your ground,your a strong person
What you mean
What you mean?
@@chiedzadzivakwe9605 ??
@DramaStoriesZone68 It means that if OP wouldn’t be the owner of the house her situation would be shitty
He is only crawling back to you because he does not want to be homeless. Don't blame you for not letting him and his new family move back in. They were only using you for the house. Good for you. Your stepmother sounds like a real piece of work.
Your father is a piece of work and what a load of rubbish about being close to the woman he divorced
The house is yours!
Do not let them back in.
Find someone, get married and make a family of your own.
Or stay single, maybe get a dog. But definitely don’t let ANY of them back in. If you choose you can be supportive from a distance. But that’s it.
@chal3t being single is really nice too.
Or bare minimum, get roommates you get along with.
OP, be grateful, thankful to yourself for listening to your gut instinct and ignore those who cannot see beyond their noses nor anticipate what could have gone wrong with your dad and his new family living with you. You escaped a bullet, good for you to know that you had to dodge it. 😅
Horrible advice
You do not have to be married to be happy.
I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself against that group of evil vipers.
They're called Felicia. Bye Felicia. They're actually the biblical asps.
❤
This young lady did the right thing. The step mother wanting to apologize is TOO LITTLE TOO LATE!
No, it’s your house. The step mother was being a B! You’re right I’d rather live alone than live in a miserable situation with a step mother who’s not nice.
If you give them another chance it will be worse next time.
Daddy lying to you and to her is showing how truly stupid your dad is.
He is only crawling back now because she ran back to her babies daddy and he's homeless.
He sounded stupid from the beginning when he tried the crying like a baby because he wants to move with his new wife into the house of his dead wife because it reminds him of her? Whatever
Exactly 💯 Goes to show how much she really cared about the OP's father.
"How dare you not let us steal your house!"
NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER allow anyone to stay in YOUR HOME. You learned a VERY VALUABLE LESSON. It's your home to do as you wish.
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OP's dad and step mother definitely were trying to get the house from her. Dad might have also lied to SM about the house going to him in the will so the SM was treating it as her house with the goal of yoinking it from the dad.
And sm is using him for his resources. He is an atm. He will pay for their college, weddings, house down payments and raising them. What a chump
@@dcg590 not me Mom didn't pay for college I paid for it and it's going to be the same for my children responsibility
Do you really believe your mother would be ok with her ex husband and his new wife live in her house?
It's not her house and she's not alive to have any feelings regarding that decision. However, I'd believe that if the decision made the daughter happy, the mother would be fine with it.
@@bjj1132i think the mom made her feelings known when she didnt leave it to the ex husband!.
Right! My mom had already told me that when she dies, not to let my dad live in her house 😂
@@bjj1132My dead ass would be watching on slowly sliding my finger under my neck while looking at my ex. He moves in, he's paying with more than money.
@@bjj1132lol she left the house to her daughter, that says enough 😅
"Hey dad I'm starting to understand why mom divorced you when I was 7. Don't worry, I'm selling the house to make sure you won't ever get it. May you leave your live in agony because you're dead to me." Sounds like what he deserved to hear.
He just wanted everything from his late wife and doesn't care about OP.
OP??
@@mizthang5740Original post.
Story 1 - "Tell me to clean MY house?" Oh hell no....! Find another place to live. If dad thought for two seconds his daughter was OK with his wife telling her to clean HER HOUSE, he's a blithering idiot. Good god.
Based on the story I don't even think the father knew that. The daughter never made any implications that she told him the real story and the new wife definitely was not going to tell the father the truth. That is why he came back later thinking she was being petty for not going on the honeymoon, which was never even a point to begin with.
He got what was coming
that is why they called at midnight to apologize. Because his wife told him what she said.
@@lindalanteigne8909 On midnight of the day AFTER they had returned, and found themselves infront of locked doors. The damage was done already at that point.
Op, Yes I will clean my house by removing the 3 biggest human sized bags of garbage in my house!😂
He was an idiot from the start thinking of 30 something year old really was in love with a 50 something year old with two teenage daughters come on now and another thing if the the acts of Baby Daddy would send money for plane tickets she was still seeing that man on the down low😅
My mom always told me, “If you don’t start it, you don’t have to stop it.” You dodged a bullet by not allowing them to move back in. You only saw a glimpse of stepmom’s and Dad’s attitude. If you are lonely, get a pet. Life is too short to live in hexx.
You are wise. When people show you who they are believe them the first time. Stand your ground.
Her father's priorities were never where they should be. He should have just been a support system for his daughter when her mom died. Instead of thinking his ex-wife would turn out her child and leave her house to her ex husband. Who would honestly think their ex would do that. If you lost your job why on earth would you continue to spend money on a wedding. A normal person would postpone it till they're back on their feet again. To dig the whole deeper he paid for a vacation he couldn't afford to take. Then thought he was going to go to his child's home and manipulate her into letting him take over. It probably would have worked if his new wife hadn't been so presumptuous in thinking it was a sure thing her new husband would take over the house.
That's the typical behaviour of most people his age, I get the feeling he would've stolen the property deed (if there was one) and sold the property, taking the money for himself, if the "step-mum" hadn't revealed her true self, letting the op free themselves from them,
@@vexile1239Don't bring ageism into this story. The daughter was in her early 20s so he would have no doubt been in his early 40s.
Story 1: Who TF takes their TEENAGE Kids (16 & 18 that one's an adult) on their honeymoon?
Goo goo ga ga
That wasn't a honeymoon that was a family vacation lol
Who tf marries a single mother with teenage girls? Asking for drama and trouble. This m0r0n will pay for their college, weddings and down payments for homes. Then wife will divorce him. He is his own worst enemy
A fake one
Who would take their adult daughter?
Stand your ground. If you let them in you will never get rid of them out. NTA
Yep. The eviction process would take forever.
You did the right thing. Who ever gave you negative advice was wrong.
Wow! They were desperate for that house, Lmao! I'm happy OP was smart enough to see thru the bs, they wouldn't have been a "happy family" either. OP would have been living the plot of Cinderella.
I thought the same thing.
Good for Op for stopping that mess before it started.
The dad wants to move back in to feel closer to his dead ex wife and new chick okay with that? 😂😂
right? What absolute garbage!
I spotted that as well. I wonder whether his nose grew a little bit longer as he said that?🤣
😂😂😂
Trying to emotionally manipulate his daughter.😂😂😂😂
The new wife planned on getting the house she thought was his, in the divorce. 😮😅
I really cant stand people who instantly get with someone else when their so called "love of their life" passes away.
They were divorced already (her dad and mom) whenher mom died.
He was cheating with new wife
They were already divorced but I do agree
Once I'm betrayed, I will not change my mind.
Don't let him manipulate you !!!!
Lmfao so his dad waste all this savings on marriage with mom of 2 teen and luxurious honeymoon trip.
It didn't even last for a year
this could be my buddies bro, dudes marriage lasted all of 10 months... when it became obvious the ex's kid was her bosses not his... yeah... now, the funny part is... the dude married her daughters... who came looking for him on their 18th bday... the man may be a fool, who was married 2x before both times to single mums who were tinderella types.. that lasted less then a year each... this time... the girls took years to help repair the damage their mother compounded... hes lucky... they are the polar opposite of their mother, and, they decided in jr.high they were just going to marry the same man and share... when they both ended up with a crush on step-dad... well their mother dosnt come around because she cannot stand her ex...he callsout all her toxic behaviors/words/actions...
No because she hopped back into bed with her daughters father her ex.
I thnk dads just after the house, dont let him back in, sell the jouse, or rent out a room or 2 so your not lonely.
I am proud of OP for standing up for herself and not giving in!!
"Now, I don't know who she thought she was telling too", had me rolling on the floor😂😂😂
People, this is why you should always get your affairs in order, make a will, make copies, If you can’t afford a lawyer, give your will to somebody you can trust to carry out your wishes, she a smart young lady like her mom, my hats off to her mother, good job, mom, protect your daughter.
OP needs no reason or justification to say no. No is an entire answer. If OP felt even the slightest unease, then NO is the right answer.
Step mom leaves the dad at the first sign of trouble…that’s gotta sting
Yup. I guess she really did not believe in that one part of the wedding vows, 'For Richer Or For Poorer'. Damn.
I knew something was up when Julia's ex funded everybody's tickets. I thought he would have used that she and the kids were homeless to stop child support and take the kids from her. Or use that they're in his house and child support should stop. Technically, it would be like supporting them twice.
@@snowangel92100Exactly and then the OP's dad ended up out on his ear then tries to go crawling back yo his daughter begging forgiveness.
A Family of gold-diggers is doom to fall apart
so dad did all that to end up alone lmfaooooooo. wow
No you are not. You made the Right decision. 🎉
Good for you, OP, for reminding them you are the landlord of the house they wanted to squatter in. And the sperm donor calling you a child after his bed warmer reminded you that you are no longer a child. Great communication leads to a dumpster fire for a relationship. Family is the price we pay for not being called orphans. OP, your parent died and left you a house so you are already an orphan. Being explouted as a cash cow and a doormat by moochers is far worse.
I don't know why OP was shocked that Julia went back to her ex. I saw that coming a mile away.
Father soon changed his attitude towards his daughter and wanted her back in his life as well.
No matter what happens, I want the best for everyone reading this. Wishing you a life brimming with happiness, prosperity, and an abundance of blessings.
I think you were well within your rights..... I am grateful that you stayed strong. Your father is a user and figured that if they stayed long enough, they could legally find a loop hole that would make it impossible to evict them. Do yourself a favor and go forward without reflection in the rearview mirror ! I am certain you'll find your Happily-Ever-After !
Sweet heart, you did good, That's your House and You don't have to let anyone or anything or anybody live there with you.. You are the QUEEN OF YOUR CASTLE 🏰❤💯🥰💕💞❣️💗❤️
Stand your ground. You did well. Family doesn’t have to be blood.
This family is using this girl. Shame on them
Anyone else got Cinderella vibes?
Better to not say anything, but just be on the listening end because selfish people always incriminate themselves the most when the other end is silent. Remember that.
poor dad didn't learn his lesson from loosing his house in the first divorce, what a simp
The fact she got a house they bought together is a travesty. I assume he paid for most of it too.
In any civilized nation whomever keeps the house has to buy out the other ones half.
And this Alimony business is just laughable. Grown people getting allowance from someone who is no longer their partner or has any responsibility towards them.
The US family court system is a complete joke and horrid to us Europeans.
Serves him right
It was never HIS house
A case of "what goes around, comes around".
Daddy is grown man with family let
Him find his OWN WAY
NTA. If you let them back in, it’ll be very hard to kick them out! You made the right decision.
Do not let them move back in
You should not let them move in with you. They are horrible people. You would not have been treated with kindness. They would have thrown you out of the house. Dont give in. You deserve better. I am so proud of you for standing up for your self. The low blow was when he brought your mother into the conversation.
Finally a good story of people.having a shiny spine.
Letting his crew move in with you permenantly is not the only logical solution.
1) Rent out the individual bedrooms to college students.
2) Become a foster parent.
3) become one of those covert safe houses for women/kids fleeing from domestic abuse situations. (Big plus with this option is you’d probably get to meet some of the motorcycle clubs who escort kids to trial, to testify and stuff. They are all volunteers, and are probably some of the kindest most compassionate people you’ll ever meet. Invite them over for backyard BBQ a couple times a year, and they’ll help a bunch of terrified kids who have to tattle on their own kids. And if you ever need to disappear a body (or turn someone bothering you into a body that will promptly disappear), these guys would have your back. They’re basically big ole’ Teddy Bears with tattoos, until there’s some kind of threat. But if there is some kind of threat, there won’t be for long.
You are part of that biker group, aren't you?😂😂😂
No you’re not. Stand your ground!one and done chances.
Between the four of them, they should be able rent a two bedroom apartment. Consider blocking all of them on your phone and social media.
How big of dad to offer to ‘share all the bills’. What a chump.
Do not rent a room or get roommates.
Exactly
Exactly. Or have a 'chancer boyfriend' move in either.
@@msthang5366Or have a 'chancer' boyfriend move in either.
Who made you feel bad and was rude??
hmm you did the right thing!! To hell with everyone else!!😊
💯🎯
Probably people like who are like the step mother lol
Hmmm 🤔 clearly you couldn't see that outcome coming, right?? Unemployed; blew all your savings on a wedding and honeymoon before being homeless and forced to to move in with and rely on wife's ex for support and she leaves you for him........ 😂😂
How strange that a man who just got married to another woman and accepted her daughters as “his new family” would want to live in the house he shared with his ex-wife to remind him of her. They were divorced. Why would he want reminders of her? I guess we all know his long-term plan was to somehow finagle the house away from his own daughter.
I don’t think she’s wrong. Seems like dad had a motive and it was t sentimental but greed. Comes off like he and his new bride wanted to make her into a Cinderella. She’s right in standing her ground. Dad and step mom just wanted to kick her out of the house and keep it for themselves. She’s better off not letting them staying longer than 30 days because then they can invoke squatter law. Sometimes being alone is better than bad company.
She is right for standing her ground. But wrong for mistreating her step siblings things. They didn't deserve to have their stuff packed as terribly as she did. The step mom was the one that made her upset. They step siblings seems like victims of the situation.
Maya Angelou said Believe who people are the first time they show you. Wishing you peace & grace in all endeavors. 🙏🏾😎
I love the op personality never keep toxic people around you
How was he going to pay half of the bills?
Oh, I have a step monster like this. She is way worse with my sister than me. She was so jealous of my sister that she put all her effort into breaking the father/daughter relationship they had. She finally succeeded. It was years of conflicts and anger and heartbreak.
So, blocking them from your home saved you a lot of grief.
Don't let them in.
Dear old dad remembers all the happy times with OPs mom and misses her. BULL, Dude you divorced her and walked away from that house. Not to mention you got remarried. Dad ans SM are the AHs
I'm praying that you grow in confidence in your decision to NOT be manipulated by your father and stepmother. STAY STRONG 💪 It's highly likely that they would have done something to kick you out and take possession of your house.
1. The dad was a liar. They lied and only wanted to scam their way into the house. They would have squatted in that house.
Dad is an emotional manipulator. So despicable to try to guilt her using her dec eased mother.
Great Job as A single parent you did the correct thing not allowing them to remain, I would have not wanted them inside my home period
Once they move in you will never get rid of them.
They were divorced; he's entitled to nothing from her. She can do what she wants with her own property.
If he wanted to stay in that hiuse cuz he felt closer to his ex wife he shouldn't have divorced her in the first place
This is the girl's house not her father's. She has the right to decide who should and shouldn't be able to say who lives in HER house!!
first an ex thinks he's getting something in the will, then he tries without word to move into the house he's always wanted, and then saying it reminded him of his former wife and needs to live there for what reason the memories of fights over his cheating? what happened to old dad's home else where? don't let a toe into your home. your dad's a sucker and was being richman scammed but he was broke so she walked.
As soon as the father moved in he never planned on moving out.
Daddy has a new family, he needs a new life.
This op is awesome. You didn't do anything wrong. Don't be stupid and feel bad. No reason to feel bad for toxic POS people.
No way. Let them live somewhere else.
what a selfish and deceitful father and step monster. good for you. get a dog, they are loyal and loving!!
Also, once a person moves in, it is hard to get them out.
WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY REALLY ARE, BELIEVE THEM...KUDOS TO YOU FOR STANDING UP TO YOUR DAD AND HIS FAKE NEW WIFE...CHOOSE YOUR PEACE OVER THEIR MESS...GODSPEED
You go Girl. Nice job putting your own mental health and security above all. It’s rough, in the beginning, saying no. Good for you for standing your ground. And hats off to the friends you have for supporting you. ❤❤
Hands up everybody here who is surprised that Julia went back to her ex/baby daddy. 🙋🏽♂️ /s
Not surprised either.
That dad burned his bridges, do not let him back into your home. He's only calling now because he needs a place to stay. What a narcissist. 😡
It makes no sense Dad and new wife would move in with OP because who’d run the house? Would step mom turn OP into a Cinderella demanding she clean the house? Bad idea letting them move in!
You were right to not let in this toxicity. Well done.
You did the right thing,once they get in you couldn't get them out !!!
Step 1: Clean the house, step 2: follow my rules under my roof ( not his roof but....) Step 3: You're a grown adult you should move out and get a life of you own we're good here.... I've seen this road before.
No second chances with anyone with “Step”, in their title. Making sure you have a tranquil home is most important.
I am proud of you for standing up for what is right. Why does he want to live in his old house to feel closer to his ex wife when he has a new one. Please stand your grand. He is using emotional blackmail to get his own way
Daddy isn’t happy about OP living alone. I’m guessing OP is female, so daddy thought she’d be easy to manipulate into ceding her right to the house she inherited, that daddy views as HIS since he (and the deceased ex wife) bought it during their marriage. He’d just lightly skip over the bit where the ex wife got the house in their divorce settlement in exchange for him not paying alimony
Get some housemates if you are lonely. Stay strong x
You did right, you were very strong and smart to stand up for your self. They had no plan of you being in the family, while they would take over your home. Your dad’s a user, and so was the family. Please do not fail to look after yourself. Cut them out of your life.
1- why would you bring your daughters to your honeymoon ? It's like bringing your parents to your honeymoon it's fcked up
2- why the father wanted to stay in the house to keep the memories of his died wife if he has a new wife ? It's weird too, is the new wife happy with it ?
3- OP won't help them if they curse and insult her. They are fcked up too for that
OP's first biggest mistake was allowing Dear Old Dad and his new family move in to OP's house. That's how we get unwelcome squatters and home thieves. 🤨
Haha ... Little Miss Golddigger lost her gravy train, so left Daddy, once the moneybags are empty. Why am I not surprised!? 😅
You dont need these people, say noooooo to them.Stay strong.
You are not the a-hole, if your missed your mom he should've stayed with your mom. They are playing on your emotions knowing your grief if your dad and his new wife cared there woukdbe been consideration and appreciation and gratitude.
17:29 I'd wish women would stop thinking like this. If it helps them sleep, fine, but most 60yo men are stronger than any woman at any age.
Relying on self-defense is not enough. Run away if your opponent is slower or get a gun.
This right here? I thought at that part she might want to quit thinking that nothing can happen to her. Many females found out the hard way.